This video is about the audacity of some folks to question our value as men with a very limited viewpoint. When 100% of the Black men who come to the Philippines are with a Filipina it's stupid to ask the question or make the statement.
...stupid is as stupid does. It's a misnomer you shouldn't have to address. It's not a universal rule. Everyone has their preference. Black men may prefer black or Latino women. Doesn't mean there aren't those who date Asian women. It's a waste of our time and intelligence to have to address this but I applaud you for doing so the way only you can. For everyone who sees this video it should be a dead issue.
@@mikes.3574 Yeah. I guess what I call stupid is someone who will look for women outside of their own country coz no woman in their great frame of mind can accept a punk black dude wearing a hat. yeah plain stupid
@@deekonspider that's a lot of name calling. I'm sensing a little animosity over here...well let's see. One, I have a passport from the U.S. which you probably don't which means I have options that you probably don't have. At home and abroad. You should get out more you know. Travel a little. Good luck with that..
@@deekonspider excuse me sir do you dream about black guys traveling to foreign countries sir ? All jokes aside my God bless you because you need help sir .
I am a Filipina who been married for 34 years to a black man. When I met him , he was a young military guy . He went to school through the years and became a doctor. We struggled together and balanced family life to get where he is now. He is very successful. I didn’t look for a black man 34 years ago. I just happened to fall in love to him without looking at what he is or his color. I’m so grateful to God that , I can call him my husband. He is truly an amazing person. Thank you for addressing this issues. Unfortunately some folks out there still think that way. Keep up the good work . I love your vlogs.👍🏽👏🏽👍🏽
Facts brother. They're gonna learn today. Black men from the Americas who come to Asian countries are overwhelmingly financially stable to well off. Men who choose to come, not because they have no options. But because they want to try something different.
I have my black man husband, and i can say to myself that i am so lucky to marry a black american, he is a loving husband and family oriented person, he loves to save for the future.
I like this video. And I've already told my fiance that the Black men that come to the Philippines, that I will consider you a friend. One reason I want to move to the Philippines because I'm wanting a more peaceful existence. And you are very right, it takes a certain kind of man to come there, and character has everything to do with it, race has nothing to do with it
Honestly Calvin, this has got to be one of the most relatable and heartfelt videos you’ve ever done in my opinion. You’ve represented us in a kingly kind of way with laser sharp correction and precision in a very practical way that even a toddler could understand. Calvin for Ambassador!!! Thanks for being our voice when we cannot speak loud enough for ourselves.
Hi Calvin. Im a Filipina and i'm so proud to tell you that i have a black boyfriend for almost 5 yrs, and he completes me. For me he is the best man i have ever met in my entire life. And i love him with all ny heart. He mean a world to me.
Brother you stand tall allways I am so happy to be apart of this blog because you hit the nail on the head people need to stop that bullshit I have a Philippine wife and I am the best thing that ever came into her life and her family black men are all that and more.
It had to be said so I'm glad you said it. I still live in the states and have decided that I will retire to another country in 1 to 2 years. I've seen many of the UA-cam videos of why Filipinas dont like black men and it's a turnoff. So thanks again for your wise and direct video.
"you got us fucked up" - sunshine shoulders. I love this quote. I love how you put it out there that we DON'T see other videos about "what philipinas think about white, asian, indian, cuban etc people...." After you said that, it got ME fucked up...... Love you brotha, keep on keeping on!
Thanks brother for speaking on this topic. I see them dumb videos all the time and it's about time somebody called them out ! you have a new subscriber here.
Encouraging divisive posts perpetuates negativity. Ignoring such content can be an effective way to discourage it. My wife, who is from the Philippines 🇵🇭, is the best woman I've ever had. Keep up the positive vibes, Mr. Sunshine Shoulder!
Hello Calvin, unfortunately it’s about time this matter had to be addressed and you’ve done a commendable job. I can absolutely identify with this because I’m a “Black” man and have been listening to this seemingly obsession that a segment of the population has with the black man and his freedom of movement and choices. I’m going to make a shocking announcement here, EVERY sentiment being on this planet has a voice!, I know shocking right. It’s just that black men don’t have an obsession over this so called issue, there’s nothing here. We have pressing /real-life issues to content with, like the pursuit of happiness in whatever legal, compassionate, and thoughtful form that takes. It’s time this obsession comes to an end. Be content with your own lives, for they are complicated enough without us Humans adding to it. Thank You 🙏 so much Calvin this was an informative video as usual. I look forward to meeting you in the near future.
Thanks for making this video. It only makes sense that a black man would address this question. I would never make a video targeted to people of an ethnicity outside my own.
Man Calvin you took the words right out of every African American man's mouth. 100% truth. Marwan this African guy from Kenya was there several years ago and was hanging out with a Philippina lady and she said hell no not a black man. That was the most disgusting thing I've ever heard. She was even had African American braids in her hair. That was the most stupid shit I've ever seen or heard.
amen brother most black men I know end up in colombia dominican republic mexico before they get to philipines they do love latin women and BRAZIL is top of the list
Guilty. I am just now, this coming summer, getting around to SE Asia, after spending the last several decades in Europe, Africa, Latin America, and The Middle East. Brazil is my close favorite; the variety is just ridiculous.
She gonna learn today. I have seen Filipinas here in America ended up with yt man who had no respect for her and her culture . In some cases the guys were drinkers and smokers , and physically abusive . Just because it’s yt don’t make it right .
Filipinas don’t have too many options. The stupid ones talk about they don’t dare black men when they have no options to do so. I can say that 10 million dollars is t enough for me to live on! 😂 it makes no sense since I don’t have the option. If they only want yt men then best of luck. We j see how yt Americans are here . We see the racism, the anti Asian hate .
The real "Boots on the ground". By far this is your best video to date. I hope those that see this put this issue to rest. Thanks for representing us on this issue. I am a Blackman thats married to a Fillipina here in the USA. My wife see the struggle for Black americans daily. She gets the bad comments from the brainwashed Fillipinas that tell her that she is low value for being with me, but not realizing i am a high value man that takes care of her with the love and respect she deserve. Its unreal how they flip the script when they arrive here with their white man and take on that racist persona. I am truly lost for words when I see this. Calvin keep up the good work.
@@WISERandHAPPIER i wouldn't say there is racism per se, like we witness in the USA. There is a bit of 'colorism' with some Filipinos whitening their skin (but that's different story). Wingman's comment deals with the Filipinas that marry white men HERE and THEN assume their position in white dominant society with their white men. They see how the wealth gap is much different between white and blacks here. Most Asians that are here in the USA already have anti-black sentiments because of that imagery.
Filipino people have black ancestry. As a black American, I married a filipina because I personally am attracted to Filipinas, and my wife is almost exclusively attracted to black men, only meeting a few in her life. Attraction is genetic, although shaped by environment. This video made excellent points!!
I would say this. I'm a 31 year old black man from Trinidad & Tobago. I choose to date a filipina even though im surrounded by caribbean and latina women. Its a preference and I made a conscious decision to be in a relationship with someone literally around the world. Everything is a preference and what is available to us. If filipinas decided to not date black men its because there's few of them going there and/or they are not interested. Calvin is right, those videos he talked about are just making things biased.
I dig the real talk. Ppl do love to make videos about why this or that group doesn’t like black men or women. Personally I think the whole world is really obsessed with us. That’s why ppl cannot stop talking about black ppl
Yes this is very true I am Filipina. I only dated black man since 2003 no looking back I am happy my fiancee died 13 years ago there is good black man out there so ladies don't look down and judge them I'm telling you when you find the right black man you will be happy. Majority they like to date white old man some of them they don't treat us nice okay.
Wow! You clearly said what I always felt, but couldn't put into words. Seeing beautiful women living in houses with dirt floors and no indoor plumbing proves it's not so great or so special. . And I'd say that it's truly a small percentage of Filipinas that will meet my expectations and a smaller number that I'd consider SERIOUSLY as a wife. But how is that any different from dealing with.any women anywhere? And that's what I see as the point you're making. This was one of your best videos!
Yo Mr Calvin much love from Mississippi brother 💪🏽…I plan to travel to Philippines in September! I watch your videos everyday for the information. Thank you 🙏🏽 for this
i am not traveling 8,000 miles for some P_ _ _ _y LOL i can get that here, I am travelling to the PI because the country is beautiful and the people are nice, and it is on my Bucklet list..
I love you Calvin. Some people act like their.... don't stink. They will get a rude wakening when they face the higher.... Embrace yourself, no matter who you are. I sure embrace and feel very proud of myself, my people and especially God for my Race.
Thank you Calvin for addressing this and its true that more successful black and asian couples need to counter these ridiculous videos just to get views. These content creators see how the west is making alot of money off of black man image so they are doing the same on their videos.
My wife was questioned about marrying me. A Black Man. Now she’s sitting in a half million dollar house and money in the bank. While some of her counterparts who gave her a hard time are with broke men who they thought would elevate them.
My brother this needed to be said, it's the same B.S you get in the states that's judgment based on nothing real other than the B.S in the head of the judger. I speak only for myself but far too many who point that judgment at me are not my equal spiritually, financially or intellectually but I never argue with a fool I just observe.
Calvin this video really needed to be said. I've seen those others videos and you right spot on Black man has royal flush. 💕💯💕They can go chose anyone worldwide.
You speaking facts..most brothers wind up in DR,Brazil,Colombia etc..when I said my future plans were to live in the Philippines response is always "what's there".
I am a millionaire black man and I married a Philpina - I wouldn’t be so successful without her. I will finally come to meet her family in few months. From Miami Florida
Good video brother, I am a male Army nurse, I have dated all races because they have some cities where there wasn’t a black women. My point is, some Filipino eat a lot of food that makes their breath and teeth brown and sticky. There are alot of Filipino nurses in the US hospitals working. I see them all the time, shit some hospitals only hire Filipinos nurses it seems. Another thing, they will always talk in their native language when they don’t won’t u to know what’s going on.
Painting issues with a broad biased brush usually results in no small amount of stupid being applied to any issue. If you travel to the PI, all of this way for fun, travel and adventure, I salute you and you are my brother.
Calvin you are exactly right I've dated Filipino women before white ,black Latinas,Italian And all I can say is that you are holding it down I got your back bro People just want to put Black men in a little Box and put us up on a shelf it aint going to happen Strength and honor thanks for the videos
Bigup bro Calvin. I’ve been a subscriber from day 1. This video is the best yet!!! You’re a real one. No brown nosing. No sugar coating. And I’m from the City of the Nitty Gritty🦾
Calvin let me say thank you for finally clearing the air. On just about every vlog I've seen it's always been about how to please the filipina. As if the filipina is the prize. We have all the resources, the better education, more opportunities, more financially capable, and have the ability to go where we want. So in my eyes the filipina needs to be trying to find out how to please us. To be honest they are more of an expense than a asset. We change their whole lives, they can't do that for us in the same way we an do it for them. So...thank you for setting the record straight. I love Filipinas, but they are not the prize...we are. GOD bless
Outstanding… You are 100% right on absolutely all points. Keep spitting the truth. It’s high time the truth is spoken to enlighten some of these people.
I was recently There in the philippines. I got Married March 10th. This was my first time Fly over seas, I love the Philippines and the culture 🙂 I will be back around November This Year for the birth of our child. I wish I could stay but I have to work here in The US. I love your channel Bro. Leeper up the good work 🙂
Thank you for making this video. Black men are talked about as if we are second class citizens and like Philippina’s are doing us a favor by dating us because we have darker skin. Black men come with just as much, if not more, than white men who come to the Philippines with nothing. The topic of do Philippina’s like black men being done by many Philippina’s is tired and old.
Say it brother! This is exactly what I'm talking about. They should be thrilled that we come here at all. Don't look down on anyone unless you are picking them up. Thanks for stopping by today.
No sugar coating! I’m a dark skin African that resides in the USA. Truth be told. I’m in a relationship with a beautiful Filipina, but I tell you, the Philippines is not a place for a dark skin brother. The offensive remarks and the hard stare you experience in the region are outrageous.
Hello again Calvin, and lovely family You knew exactly how it works. Thank you very much for sharing your video titled, "Why Some BLACK MEN Don't Date Filipinas". I wish you the best of luck, please continue posting more great videos... Best regards/Ned 🌷🙌🌷
Also you made a hell of a good point about dating black men in the US, and the issues that come along with it, I know a lot of non black women that slept with nothing but black men in their 20’s but they didn’t marry a black man because of the stigma
Wow!!! Calvin I've been watching you for a long time don't know how I missed this one. You are so right on this subject and I'm now questioning this situation because I have never seen any videos about other races and why they don't date a certain race other than Black American like we're second rate citizens. This is such a eye opener on how they think at least some filipinas not all but apparently enough to make this a issue.
Never looked at it from the perspective you presented. Rare to find something unique in these types of videos on UA-cam. Keep it up, you're providing a service.
Doesn't matter the race, go where you're treated the best. I'm living in Thailand and there are plenty of black men from all over the world that enjoy. Remember brother, you can't control other people and their opinions and vlogs. And yes, I'm white but who cares?! Enjoy my friend 😊
Thanks keeping it real Calvin. I’m married to a Filipina and there’s never been any racial issues with us. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. People need to free their minds and leave the racial BS out of it. We will be flying to the PH 🇵🇭 on 2 May. ✌🏽👍🏽.
Calvin, you cut them deep! I seen that video that may have sparked your response. And I really wanted to comment some of these same things you touched on. Well said man!
My high school friend is married to a Latino, they live in Texas 🇺🇸, my cousin is married to a white lady, they live in New York 🇺🇸, all of them brothers are from South Africa 🇿🇦; It's their preference and choice. I could have done the same, but I love the Philippines 🇵🇭. Thanks Brother Calvin 😊
Ahmen brother, everything that I can do in the Philippines I can do in South America and Its closer and cheaper too. Colombia is my paradise with a huge ethnic diversity of women that are fine as hell brother.
You put things in the correct perspective. We as black men are the prize . Elevate the lives of Filipinas if we choose to. That is the truth. If a Filipina is lucky to catch a black man then she is one of the lucky ones . We are the ones that can change lives. That is the reality. Most Filipinas can’t travel , can not have a choice . Also keep in mind that yt men tend to think they are best . They don’t respect the culture of others. These Filipinas gonna learn the hard way !
Great video Calvin . I could not have said it better myself. Without the import of colonialism and racism, how could a culture even bring up the subject on people who look just like their ancestors. I am married to a filipina and I love the culture , it feels like i married one of my own peoples . I belive the colonizers have bamboozled them as well . I have dated many cultures in the US and abroad . Society will try to diminish a black mans value so that it may receive his blessings for free . You are CORRECT they leaned today.
you spoke facts....the colonizing bamboozlement is DEEP in the Philippines. The very name "Philippines" is proof of that. We have to deal with white supremacy thought process everywhere in this world. overall...My experience has been very positive every time i visited the Philippines.
Excellent video Calvin. This is an overlooked issue. YOu're so correct in saying that black men who choose to be in the Philippines are there because they are prepared to be there and know what they want. I've been to the Philippines and have met other brothers there. I find we have a lot in common. We are well experienced in life and know exactly where we are in life and the kind of life we want to live. Good discussion. I think other vloggers are pretty short sighted and are not well informed as to the type of black men who choose to be in the Philippines. There is quite the stereotype at play here. And, that's unfortunate that they still look at all black men in the same light. Take good care Calvin, God bless brother.
This video is about the audacity of some folks to question our value as men with a very limited viewpoint. When 100% of the Black men who come to the Philippines are with a Filipina it's stupid to ask the question or make the statement.
...stupid is as stupid does. It's a misnomer you shouldn't have to address. It's not a universal rule. Everyone has their preference. Black men may prefer black or Latino women. Doesn't mean there aren't those who date Asian women. It's a waste of our time and intelligence to have to address this but I applaud you for doing so the way only you can. For everyone who sees this video it should be a dead issue.
@@mikes.3574 Yeah. I guess what I call stupid is someone who will look for women outside of their own country coz no woman in their great frame of mind can accept a punk black dude wearing a hat. yeah plain stupid
But usually the question is asked by black men and the Filipina is just answering it
@@deekonspider that's a lot of name calling. I'm sensing a little animosity over here...well let's see. One, I have a passport from the U.S. which you probably don't which means I have options that you probably don't have. At home and abroad. You should get out more you know. Travel a little. Good luck with that..
@@deekonspider excuse me sir do you dream about black guys traveling to foreign countries sir ? All jokes aside my God bless you because you need help sir .
I am a Filipina who been married for 34 years to a black man. When I met him , he was a young military guy . He went to school through the years and became a doctor. We struggled together and balanced family life to get where he is now. He is very successful. I didn’t look for a black man 34 years ago. I just happened to fall in love to him without looking at what he is or his color. I’m so grateful to God that , I can call him my husband. He is truly an amazing person. Thank you for addressing this issues. Unfortunately some folks out there still think that way. Keep up the good work . I love your vlogs.👍🏽👏🏽👍🏽
Wow thanks for sharing Maria.
Thanks for sharing and giving your experience and view point. I commend you.
God does not make mistake but people do.
You're blessed.
Wonderful keep it going!💯
Well one thing I know is that single moms are desperate and will date anyone with a wallet, so your a bad example Mr. Sunshine Shoulders 😹😹😹
Facts brother. They're gonna learn today. Black men from the Americas who come to Asian countries are overwhelmingly financially stable to well off. Men who choose to come, not because they have no options. But because they want to try something different.
I know black men, some married to Filipina-Americans stay away because they don't like to see poverty.
True. The Black men I meet here in Thailand are flat-out WEALTHY. I'm sure the stats are similar for the Philippines.
People scrutinize what they envy. Contend with these attitudes in a lot of places I have gone. Great Video today!
I have my black man husband, and i can say to myself that i am so lucky to marry a black american, he is a loving husband and family oriented person, he loves to save for the future.
Awesome and bless your marriage. I'm black American and my pinay is a blessing 🙌
@@boomAJ6104 ditto
Wonderful
I like this video. And I've already told my fiance that the Black men that come to the Philippines, that I will consider you a friend. One reason I want to move to the Philippines because I'm wanting a more peaceful existence. And you are very right, it takes a certain kind of man to come there, and character has everything to do with it, race has nothing to do with it
Honestly Calvin, this has got to be one of the most relatable and heartfelt videos you’ve ever done in my opinion. You’ve represented us in a kingly kind of way with laser sharp correction and precision in a very practical way that even a toddler could understand. Calvin for Ambassador!!!
Thanks for being our voice when we cannot speak loud enough for ourselves.
Hi Calvin. Im a Filipina and i'm so proud to tell you that i have a black boyfriend for almost 5 yrs, and he completes me. For me he is the best man i have ever met in my entire life. And i love him with all ny heart. He mean a world to me.
Brother you stand tall allways I am so happy to be apart of this blog because you hit the nail on the head people need to stop that bullshit I have a Philippine wife and I am the best thing that ever came into her life and her family black men are all that and more.
It had to be said so I'm glad you said it. I still live in the states and have decided that I will retire to another country in 1 to 2 years. I've seen many of the UA-cam videos of why Filipinas dont like black men and it's a turnoff. So thanks again for your wise and direct video.
A lot of brothers are in love with Columbia and Brazil because of the travel difference. 3 hours as opposed to 12 to 16 hours
"you got us fucked up" - sunshine shoulders. I love this quote. I love how you put it out there that we DON'T see other videos about "what philipinas think about white, asian, indian, cuban etc people...." After you said that, it got ME fucked up...... Love you brotha, keep on keeping on!
😄😄😄 thanks
Calvin thank you so so much for this video. You are 💯 correct thanks for reminding me. I’m still thinking like I’m dealing with American woman
Well one thing I know is that single moms are desperate and will date anyone with a wallet, so your a bad example Mr. Sunshine Shoulders 😹😹😹
Thanks brother for speaking on this topic. I see them dumb videos all the time and it's about time somebody called them out ! you have a new subscriber here.
Thank you bruh for “Keeping it Real”. This is a black man in Japan.
The biggest problem is the "good ole boys" network reaches far and has slowly infiltrated sections of the Filipino community
Encouraging divisive posts perpetuates negativity. Ignoring such content can be an effective way to discourage it. My wife, who is from the Philippines 🇵🇭, is the best woman I've ever had. Keep up the positive vibes, Mr. Sunshine Shoulder!
Thank you Calvin for speaking the truth for us.
Hello Calvin, unfortunately it’s about time this matter had to be addressed and you’ve done a commendable job. I can absolutely identify with this because I’m a “Black” man and have been listening to this seemingly obsession that a segment of the population has with the black man and his freedom of movement and choices. I’m going to make a shocking announcement here, EVERY sentiment being on this planet has a voice!, I know shocking right. It’s just that black men don’t have an obsession over this so called issue, there’s nothing here. We have pressing /real-life issues to content with, like the pursuit of happiness in whatever legal, compassionate, and thoughtful form that takes. It’s time this obsession comes to an end. Be content with your own lives, for they are complicated enough without us Humans adding to it. Thank You 🙏 so much Calvin this was an informative video as usual. I look forward to meeting you in the near future.
Well one thing I know is that single moms are desperate and will date anyone with a wallet, so your a bad example Mr. Sunshine Shoulders 😹😹😹
Well said...I am so sick of this narrative when it comes to us. The more I travel the more absurd it gets...next stop Phillipines.
Thanks for making this video. It only makes sense that a black man would address this question.
I would never make a video targeted to people of an ethnicity outside my own.
Great point.
But this whole channel is about another ethnicity
Well one thing I know is that single moms are desperate and will date anyone with a wallet, so your a bad example Mr. Sunshine Shoulders 😹😹😹
Man Calvin you took the words right out of every African American man's mouth. 100% truth. Marwan this African guy from Kenya was there several years ago and was hanging out with a Philippina lady and she said hell no not a black man. That was the most disgusting thing I've ever heard. She was even had African American braids in her hair. That was the most stupid shit I've ever seen or heard.
They missing out on good cultured women that understand what it truly means to be a helpmate
Real talk love it my man
amen brother most black men I know end up in colombia dominican republic mexico before they get to philipines they do love latin women and BRAZIL is top of the list
true I am in Mexico as we speak bro.
Guilty. I am just now, this coming summer, getting around to SE Asia, after spending the last several decades in Europe, Africa, Latin America, and The Middle East. Brazil is my close favorite; the variety is just ridiculous.
If a pinay doesn't like me just because I'm black...move on, honey, because there's plenty that do.
She gonna learn today. I have seen Filipinas here in America ended up with yt man who had no respect for her and her culture . In some cases the guys were drinkers and smokers , and physically abusive . Just because it’s yt don’t make it right .
Filipinas don’t have too many options. The stupid ones talk about they don’t dare black men when they have no options to do so. I can say that 10 million dollars is t enough for me to live on! 😂 it makes no sense since I don’t have the option.
If they only want yt men then best of luck. We j see how yt Americans are here . We see the racism, the anti Asian hate .
The real "Boots on the ground". By far this is your best video to date. I hope those that see this put this issue to rest. Thanks for representing us on this issue. I am a Blackman thats married to a Fillipina here in the USA. My wife see the struggle for Black americans daily. She gets the bad comments from the brainwashed Fillipinas that tell her that she is low value for being with me, but not realizing i am a high value man that takes care of her with the love and respect she deserve. Its unreal how they flip the script when they arrive here with their white man and take on that racist persona. I am truly lost for words when I see this. Calvin keep up the good work.
Thanks Wingman.
@@WISERandHAPPIER i wouldn't say there is racism per se, like we witness in the USA. There is a bit of 'colorism' with some Filipinos whitening their skin (but that's different story). Wingman's comment deals with the Filipinas that marry white men HERE and THEN assume their position in white dominant society with their white men. They see how the wealth gap is much different between white and blacks here. Most Asians that are here in the USA already have anti-black sentiments because of that imagery.
Spot on!
Filipino people have black ancestry. As a black American, I married a filipina because I personally am attracted to Filipinas, and my wife is almost exclusively attracted to black men, only meeting a few in her life. Attraction is genetic, although shaped by environment. This video made excellent points!!
Preach ma’ man!! It’s always them choosing us, like we are standing on the sidelines waiting to be picked. Tell ‘em ✊🏽👍✊🏽
I would say this. I'm a 31 year old black man from Trinidad & Tobago. I choose to date a filipina even though im surrounded by caribbean and latina women. Its a preference and I made a conscious decision to be in a relationship with someone literally around the world. Everything is a preference and what is available to us. If filipinas decided to not date black men its because there's few of them going there and/or they are not interested. Calvin is right, those videos he talked about are just making things biased.
Hi Phillip I am from Trinidad also. Did not know it had people Trinidad there
@@ronniethomas9509 Trinis all over 😂
Dang right. They got us Fkd up.😁 Another problem is some bm encourage this attitude by constantly seeking validation from nonblack women. It's cringy.
I dig the real talk. Ppl do love to make videos about why this or that group doesn’t like black men or women. Personally I think the whole world is really obsessed with us. That’s why ppl cannot stop talking about black ppl
Yes this is very true I am Filipina. I only dated black man since 2003 no looking back I am happy my fiancee died 13 years ago there is good black man out there so ladies don't look down and judge them I'm telling you when you find the right black man you will be happy. Majority they like to date white old man some of them they don't treat us nice okay.
Marie thankyou so much for sharing your experience it means a lot and it's relevant.
I don’t normally post messages on UA-cam, but I must say this is an excellent video. Great job brother!
Thanks
Calvin said they got us fucked up ✊🏾🤣🤣. Respect bro
Real talk…. Some folk just ignorant and they are not educated or know true history. Very well done sir!
They better wake up and recognize. Thanks for the video
Wow! You clearly said what I always felt, but couldn't put into words. Seeing beautiful women living in houses with dirt floors and no indoor plumbing proves it's not so great or so special. . And I'd say that it's truly a small percentage of Filipinas that will meet my expectations and a smaller number that I'd consider SERIOUSLY as a wife. But how is that any different from dealing with.any women anywhere? And that's what I see as the point you're making. This was one of your best videos!
Yo Mr Calvin much love from Mississippi brother 💪🏽…I plan to travel to Philippines in September! I watch your videos everyday for the information. Thank you 🙏🏽 for this
Appreciate the video and your thoughts as always. Straight forward. 👍
i am not traveling 8,000 miles for some P_ _ _ _y LOL i can get that here, I am travelling to the PI because the country is beautiful and the people are nice, and it is on my Bucklet list..
lol
I love you Calvin.
Some people act like their.... don't stink. They will get a rude wakening when they face the higher.... Embrace yourself, no matter who you are. I sure embrace and feel very proud of myself, my people and especially God for my Race.
I am walking with the sunshine over my shoulder everyday in Dumaguette, Philippines , Thanks Calvin
Thank you Calvin for addressing this and its true that more successful black and asian couples need to counter these ridiculous videos just to get views. These content creators see how the west is making alot of money off of black man image so they are doing the same on their videos.
My wife was questioned about marrying me. A Black Man. Now she’s sitting in a half million dollar house and money in the bank. While some of her counterparts who gave her a hard time are with broke men who they thought would elevate them.
Cheers, but that has nothing to do with race. You made money and you spent it on a girl. Good for you! Now what's the point of your post?
@@surfguy777 you’re the exact point.
Wow! Well stated Calvin. We know our value financially and emotionally. To bad so many are so ignorant.
You on point bro. Sad so many don't see it. Get down bro. I'm a black man 100all thetime
My brother this needed to be said, it's the same B.S you get in the states that's judgment based on nothing real other than the B.S in the head of the judger. I speak only for myself but far too many who point that judgment at me are not my equal spiritually, financially or intellectually but I never argue with a fool I just observe.
Calvin this video really needed to be said. I've seen those others videos and you right spot on Black man has royal flush. 💕💯💕They can go chose anyone worldwide.
You speaking facts..most brothers wind up in DR,Brazil,Colombia etc..when I said my future plans were to live in the Philippines response is always "what's there".
Like you said Calvin, “You ‘gon learn today” lol You kept it Nitty Gritty crystal clear!!! Good job.
my favorite video of yours. Had to share it with my travel group.
Thanks for sharing!!
I am a millionaire black man and I married a Philpina - I wouldn’t be so successful without her. I will finally come to meet her family in few months. From Miami Florida
I know a millionaire black man who married a Filipina (decades ago). Now he’s retired and living the good life. 😎
As a black man who's married to a Pinay, WELL SAID!
I love the way you said things, straight up with honesty. You are Intelligent and sensible. God bless you. 💕🌷I miss Philippines 🇵🇭😃
As a black American That's married to a Filipina I'm blessed to have her her whole family has excepted me into their family
And they TOO are blessed to have YOU.
You're bearing witness to my video sir.
Right on, right on, right on my brotha. Hopefully, your neighbors won't get their butts hurt and understand your viewpoint.
Good video brother, I am a male Army nurse, I have dated all races because they have some cities where there wasn’t a black women. My point is, some Filipino eat a lot of food that makes their breath and teeth brown and sticky. There are alot of Filipino nurses in the US hospitals working. I see them all the time, shit some hospitals only hire Filipinos nurses it seems.
Another thing, they will always talk in their native language when they don’t won’t u to know what’s going on.
Painting issues with a broad biased brush usually results in no small amount of stupid being applied to any issue.
If you travel to the PI, all of this way for fun, travel and adventure, I salute you and you are my brother.
Thank you for the balance,
Calvin you are exactly right I've dated Filipino women before white ,black Latinas,Italian And all I can say is that you are holding it down I got your back bro People just want to put Black men in a little Box and put us up on a shelf it aint going to happen Strength and honor thanks for the videos
"You got us F'd up" lol (Automatic Like)
Bigup bro Calvin. I’ve been a subscriber from day 1. This video is the best yet!!!
You’re a real one. No brown nosing. No sugar coating. And I’m from the City of the Nitty Gritty🦾
Calvin let me say thank you for finally clearing the air. On just about every vlog I've seen it's always been about how to please the filipina. As if the filipina is the prize. We have all the resources, the better education, more opportunities, more financially capable, and have the ability to go where we want. So in my eyes the filipina needs to be trying to find out how to please us. To be honest they are more of an expense than a asset. We change their whole lives, they can't do that for us in the same way we an do it for them. So...thank you for setting the record straight. I love Filipinas, but they are not the prize...we are. GOD bless
Well said
Ditto!
Best vlog ever with FACTS. Thanks brother.
Thank you so much for speaking on this you are 100% correct keep doing what you're doing
Outstanding…
You are 100% right on absolutely all points. Keep spitting the truth. It’s high time the truth is spoken to enlighten some of these people.
I was recently There in the philippines. I got Married March 10th. This was my first time Fly over seas, I love the Philippines and the culture 🙂 I will be back around November This Year for the birth of our child. I wish I could stay but I have to work here in The US. I love your channel Bro. Leeper up the good work 🙂
Congratulations and best wishes on the birth of your child.
@@calroach1 Thanks My Brother. I want to some day retire there soon 🙂
Thank you for making this video. Black men are talked about as if we are second class citizens and like Philippina’s are doing us a favor by dating us because we have darker skin. Black men come with just as much, if not more, than white men who come to the Philippines with nothing. The topic of do Philippina’s like black men being done by many Philippina’s is tired and old.
Say it brother! This is exactly what I'm talking about. They should be thrilled that we come here at all. Don't look down on anyone unless you are picking them up. Thanks for stopping by today.
Hi. Great comments. I didn’t think of it until you break it down. Thanks
Thanks for your strong character my brother, this brother appreciates your understanding!!!
No sugar coating! I’m a dark skin African that resides in the USA. Truth be told. I’m in a relationship with a beautiful Filipina, but I tell you, the Philippines is not a place for a dark skin brother. The offensive remarks and the hard stare you experience in the region are outrageous.
The ati people of the Filipinos are black and they catch hell!!!!
Hello again Calvin, and lovely family
You knew exactly how it works. Thank you very much for sharing your video titled, "Why Some BLACK MEN Don't Date Filipinas". I wish you the best of luck, please continue posting more great videos... Best regards/Ned 🌷🙌🌷
Also you made a hell of a good point about dating black men in the US, and the issues that come along with it, I know a lot of non black women that slept with nothing but black men in their 20’s but they didn’t marry a black man because of the stigma
IF WE CANT HAVE HER IN DURING PRIME, WE DONT WANT HER DURING HER DECLINE!!!!!!
@@stockcryptocreditmoves2881 🙏men
Who wants Pukey and Ray-rays scraps?! BM of value don’t that. No man of value wants that.
Great video. Really puts things into perspective.
Good word's spoken ..take care Calvin
Wow!!! Calvin I've been watching you for a long time don't know how I missed this one. You are so right on this subject and I'm now questioning this situation because I have never seen any videos about other races and why they don't date a certain race other than Black American like we're second rate citizens. This is such a eye opener on how they think at least some filipinas not all but apparently enough to make this a issue.
Never looked at it from the perspective you presented. Rare to find something unique in these types of videos on UA-cam. Keep it up, you're providing a service.
Thanks Calvin. I know the channels you speak of. Keep it Gritty
Great video, like always you keep it real. Everything you said is fact.
Thank you. I am heading over there for a may stay vacation this fall. This was very helpful.
My hat is off to you brotha . I said it before my father told me about the
Philippines . And he told me I need
to go visit and I will .
Doesn't matter the race, go where you're treated the best. I'm living in Thailand and there are plenty of black men from all over the world that enjoy. Remember brother, you can't control other people and their opinions and vlogs. And yes, I'm white but who cares?! Enjoy my friend 😊
I create vlogs and this is one of them. I think it's important to avoid it means it's ok, it's not. Thanks for stopping by today.
This is a very good one Calvin.i’am so glad you brought this up and addressed it.and it is about us.
Thanks keeping it real Calvin. I’m married to a Filipina and there’s never been any racial issues with us. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. People need to free their minds and leave the racial BS out of it. We will be flying to the PH 🇵🇭 on 2 May. ✌🏽👍🏽.
Calvin, you cut them deep! I seen that video that may have sparked your response. And I really wanted to comment some of these same things you touched on. Well said man!
All i can say is, thank you Calvin my dear friend.😊 ❤️
My high school friend is married to a Latino, they live in Texas 🇺🇸, my cousin is married to a white lady, they live in New York 🇺🇸, all of them brothers are from South Africa 🇿🇦; It's their preference and choice. I could have done the same, but I love the Philippines 🇵🇭. Thanks Brother Calvin 😊
Thanks Cal, for your perspective and always giving the shout to the struggling folks out there!
Nitty and Gritting Cal you explained it just perfect day focused Brother you know that Play Book they always uses
Once again professor Calvin, you've hit the ball out of the park once again.
Awesome video finally everything I always felt, I couldn’t have said it any better, thanks for sharing my thoughts, 🙏🏽💁🏽♂️💙
Very well said Calvin. You spoke on a subject/topic that did needed to be addressed. Keep doing what your doing.
Ahmen brother, everything that I can do in the Philippines I can do in South America and Its closer and cheaper too. Colombia is my paradise with a huge ethnic diversity of women that are fine as hell brother.
Nothing else need to be said Brother… 💪🏾
Thanks for posting this content. I shot a question to you on this very subject several weeks ago. I truly appreciate your disposition,thank you.
I have to say, I am very glad they made that video. Since they did, we were graced with info we would have never gotten. Great job.
Greetings Bro Calvin .. right on point brother ✊🏿 .. go head bro and drop the 🎤 mic… You killed it 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Good on you mate, tell them 👍
I been watching your UA-cam
For couple of months witches
Is very interesting cheers bro god
bless 👍
You put things in the correct perspective. We as black men are the prize . Elevate the lives of Filipinas if we choose to. That is the truth. If a Filipina is lucky to catch a black man then she is one of the lucky ones . We are the ones that can change lives. That is the reality. Most Filipinas can’t travel , can not have a choice .
Also keep in mind that yt men tend to think they are best . They don’t respect the culture of others. These Filipinas gonna learn the hard way !
Great video Calvin . I could not have said it better myself. Without the import of colonialism and racism, how could a culture even bring up the subject on people who look just like their ancestors. I am married to a filipina and I love the culture , it feels like i married one of my own peoples . I belive the colonizers have bamboozled them as well . I have dated many cultures in the US and abroad . Society will try to diminish a black mans value so that it may receive his blessings for free . You are CORRECT they leaned today.
you spoke facts....the colonizing bamboozlement is DEEP in the Philippines. The very name "Philippines" is proof of that. We have to deal with white supremacy thought process everywhere in this world. overall...My experience has been very positive every time i visited the Philippines.
@@dn30001 weeellll said, my man!!!
Excellent video Calvin. This is an overlooked issue. YOu're so correct in saying that black men who choose to be in the Philippines are there because they are prepared to be there and know what they want. I've been to the Philippines and have met other brothers there. I find we have a lot in common. We are well experienced in life and know exactly where we are in life and the kind of life we want to live. Good discussion. I think other vloggers are pretty short sighted and are not well informed as to the type of black men who choose to be in the Philippines. There is quite the stereotype at play here. And, that's unfortunate that they still look at all black men in the same light. Take good care Calvin, God bless brother.
Well said