My Filipina was visiting me in the states. Whenever we're in bed watching a movie, she rubs my hands. This is not something I've ever asked her to do and frankly makes me a little self conscious because I have small hands and slightly deformed little fingers. One night, I casually asked her why she likes to rub my hands so much and she said "because it helps me remember you when we're not together." Ho brah, that hit hard, and I told her "that was one of sweetest things anyone had ever said to me." She could tell my eyes were getting watery, so to lighten the mood she made a big boo-boo face and let out a huge "Waaaaa." We died laughing and in that moment I knew this girl was a keeper. Been together for 5 years now and couldn't be happier!
That’s what’s up…!! She’s a keeper for sure. When a woman is kind and affectionate, she will melt the hardest man’s heart. God bless you and your woman.
My Filipina and I were married for 13 years. And we, too, made love literally every day. Sometimes we would laugh and make a deal to keep our hands off each other for 2 to 3 days. But it never went to 3 days. By day 2 we were all over each other. Like brand new! Like we'd just met. It took her awhile to learn that I meant what I said: She was not only my wife, she was my girlfriend, my sweetheart, she was my favorite date. Yes, I'd ask her for a date - which always amused her - and then take her out to wherever she wanted go. And we "always" had a great time. She was my pin-up girl. My toy - she used to ask me if she was my toy - and I would answer she was not only my toy but my favorite ride, and she was my entire entertainment park because she had "all" the rides that I liked! And we would laugh like two kids! Then go make love some more! So, I know of what you speak. No blasphemy intended - just Amen, Brother Calvin! Preach on! :)
I am a filipina woman and I guess in general, filipina women think or believe that sex is our duty to our husband. Personally, that's what I believe and despite being a bit exhausted sometimes, I have to give it to my husband since I know it will make him happy.
@@MakaiIELTS Thanks for your honest reply. It's just kind of sad that Western women don't share your philosophy on "intimacy." It's pretty horrible being with someone who withholds sex or rations it out as bargaining tool, which is what most women do here in the States. I'm blown away how American guys moving to the Phils say their Filipina Girlfriends and Wives rarely, if ever turn them down.
The best thing by far I’ve ever done in my life is traveling to the Philippines 🇵🇭. I realized after a few weeks there that it was my home . America 🇺🇸 was not my home anymore. There is a peacefulness I could never really express to anyone other than “ my soul felt at peace “ ! My girl said to me one day “ it’s my honor to be with such a kind man like you . I love you “! It was like I had been punched in the chest. I had to turn away and gather myself. I have never in my life been treated so wonderful by anyone. I tell guys now that we’re like me before. Get on a plane and just go see what the Philippines 🇵🇭 has to offer. It may change your life . I know it did for me ! Thx 🙏 for all you do Calvin
The one thing I truly appreciate and miss about the Philippines is everyone saying good morning to you. Here in America, if you speak to people they look at you as though you're strange. I'm close to retirement, see you very soon Philippines. I can't wait.
America is divided by families, money. Crime , property ownership and other things. Those that want to keep theirs and those, who want yours.. philipines is really one boat. Everyone's in it.
Been riding a bicycle through local parks this week. At the crack of dawn - right when i get off (i work nights). Surprisingly nearly everyone says good morning, or at least nods. So i started saying good morning to everyone as well. I live about 20 miles south of ATL.
I say good morning to everyone I pass in the morning, and they say good morning to me. But I live in the OC of cali, we must be strange here compared to the rest of cali I guess.
I totally agree, my Filipina wife is the best thing I’ve had in my 53 years! We will be retiring to the Philippines. Hello from Canada and Congratulations
Hello from Sweden. I feel the same for my filipina wife. Best thing in my life. I'm 60 she's 42 and we're soon moving to Philippines. I almost cant wait, November 2023 we're moving.
Cal, even if we say you’re exaggerating, let’s just pretend. Maybe it’s 2 to 3 a week, just to make it simple. The fact that you don’t have to beg for it, no need to bargain. to me that’s the biggest deal right there
@Mr Joes Crazy Asian Life I've had the blood work done.. My levels are within range.. It's stress and diet that has me feeling like this.. Thank you for the suggestion and I'll continue to check my levels over the coming years.
This brother is telling the truth. My girl whispered in my ear on the very first day I met her "honey what can I do to relax you" . From there I knew that this is where I need to be. Making moves right now to make the move permanently.
Calvin...I am the same age as you and my wife is Filipina and I agree I agree I agree and I can honestly say I am also living it and I agree. If you pick the right one and she picks you like my wife picked me you will also agree with Calvin and me. I agree.
Tell your story, my brother. I was fortune enough to have been given that "do whatever you want to me" in Panama. But in the SE Asian countries I had multiple opportunities like that. But you are definitely living your best life. I wish this for more black men because I have met many men of other races who are doing this exact thing. Some people exist, others live!!
Nothing wrong with good sex. It keeps the energy and blood flowing, and the positive dopamine in the mind. Having the connection with a beautiful young woman is the most wonderful thing in the world, and glad you're experiencing it.
Well said exactly true . And what’s so EXTREMELY IMPORTANT IS when you have this love established then YOU CAN FOCUS ON PRODUCTIVE PEAK living in ALL OTHER ASPECTS OF LIFE because you no longer feel depressed or sad ... it helps free your entire life up having that person established to have a healthy love life with
Absolutely! I work on my own project, coding at home, and I was never more productive than when I was over there. Knowing there was going to be fun games after a day of work, did wonders to my performance! 😆
When the good times are locked down, men go out and hustle. If in a relationship and there aren’t enough of the good times men aren’t motivated to make his woman’s life better.
I remember that... Not needing to worry when you'll have sex again? For a Western guy, it is life changing indeed. Chaps here can't even understand. Such a shame things didn't work out for me because I didn't choose well (or didn't let the right woman choose me), and it'll be years before I can try again. But I'm positive it'll remain the best country in the world to find a loving respectful wife.
@@xpusostomos I'm still decades away from official retirement, so I need to secure enough passive or remote income. Back at that time I had it, but shit happened and I need to work hard again towards that status quo. And no, it wasn't the Filipina spending my money. 😆
I now understand why some many smiling faces in Philippines but so many depressed faces in the USA. Money wont make a man happy if he is not getting regular sex.
What a video. I have truly forgotten how it feels to love and to be in love. My current wife is Asian from Nepal. I met her here in America. When I first met her she was sweet and kind. And the sex was awesome! After dealing with these black women who asked her things like why do you have to call your husband before you do something. She started to change gradually. Now I don’t even recognize her anymore.she never approaches me for sex. And we go through the motions maybe about two to three times a month. I am miserable! There is no intimacy and no respect. I dream everyday about the Philippines. And I hope someday to have what you’ve been blessed with. Calvin thank you for hope! I survive through your videos. I will be able to retire in about ten months and I swear it’s monotony. The stress is almost unbearable. But I will make it through. I’ve been married for 21 years. (And never cheated) And the last 11 years have been hell. Once she realize the power that women have over the man in America . It was a rap. Thanks again man and stay blessed and know you are helping to keep a brother going.
What I don't understand is why one grown female has to follow another female's ideologies mindlessly. All female adults should have individuality, and sovereignty of self. I do wish you and your wife stick together because sex have a perishable date there's a point where it won't matter anymore. The promises that you made is better then self gratification.
@@thomasthumim7630 it’s not about the sex. It’s about that knowing. That you are with that one. I stayed because I wanted to be there for my children. I was committed to that. We were never in love. We just tried to make it work. Like I said never cheated because I don’t believe on that.
I’m supposed to see my Filipina in October. She’s halfway around the world. But she calls and video chats me every day and is so kind that it’s strange to an average American divorced dad like me. LoL
I met my Filipina girlfriend a year ago. She keeps me happy. It’s the best feeling in the world. That’s cool that you are in the same neighborhood as Roger and Isme.
Yes, when you have an awesome and supportive woman, everything becomes so easy to conquer. And everything is so much fun; even going to the store is enjoyable. Never be abusive. You have to also be kind and appreciative. Don't take anything for granted. By the way, it's the other way around. Nothing makes sense in the US.
To be submissive doesn't mean mistreatment tho. Both the man and the woman have to submit to each other. It only means that both parts understand their roles in the relationship. People who don't understand what the word means, cannot submit to each other. It doesn't mean you become a slave or that you don't have a say in the relationship. It's a miss misconception or miscontrution of the word Submissive.
You cracked me up "Either it's your birthday or your doomsday" ha ha ha I worked with a lot of Western women and boy I understand what you mean ha ha ha specially Western women in 40s ha ha ha I'm Filipina living in Australia, I miss the life in the Philippines someday I will be back there in my retirement age. I miss the people interactions "people say hello or good morning even they don't know you". When I arrived in Australia I used to say good morning every time when I saw someone in the park, while jogging or even waiting for a bus. It took me few months to realised that was not a normal norm in Australia. I used to be extra nice and friendly before but I learned the hard-way, when one of my neighbour started stalking me. He thought I like him because I smiled and say hello to him. It was traumatic experienced for me to the point that I moved out or changed an apartment to avoid my stalker. Since, then I stoped being friendly to neighbours or strangers in public places.
Cal. I truly appreciate your perspective and delivery on these topics. They really do matter. When I was married I was lucky if I had serious intimate moment with with my wife 4 or 5 times a year. I can’t even imagine getting it every day. I am so done with being held hostage when it comes to being intimate and sexually fulfilled. Sidebar: I truly appreciate how you greet all your neighbors, that’s straight up old school shit. You better not walk past Ms. Johnson’s house while she sitting on her porch and not speak. You will hear about it… in a bad way.
I won’t say that was a good one that you just put out it really hit me right between the eyes because I was married for 22 years and much of the last 5 to 8 years of the marriage it was almost sexless and whenever there was sex it was like a chore on her part I will tell you that I stayed true to her until my children were out of the house and then I went ahead and got divorced and made my way to a beautiful Brazilian woman and dated several other people and now I’m going to be getting married to Filipina I’ll be seeing her the second time now in the last few months coming up in the next couple of weeks but definitely Filipinas know how to take care of their men! They’re great cooks they care and they don’t mind having sex as much as often as you want!
the way you said it sounds a sex slave, tho.. but for filipinas, it was more of a duty to her husband... men should also consider some things.. there are times they didn't actually want it but they still do it for the sake of love and duty to her husband.. and we should know when... i don't know how western women but when a filipina is not in the mood, they can't say no because of the "duty" thing.. at those times, i , myself, do the adjustment... that's rare tho... it only happens when you hurt her physically or emotionally... that's a filipina wife... i'm a filipino by the way..
As I was watching this vlog, I kept thinking about The Miracles and their hit song "Love Machine." You are a stud brotherman. Thank you for sharing some of your backstory and giving guys hope.
Fascinating video. A pure winner. Very precious and deep personal openness, honesty, vtruth. Wow man, you are awesome. Thank you for this amazing perspective 👏👏👏
For the next several weeks, I will be in Patmos, called by the world, Isles of Patmos. I'm with Shah Banu who is taking care of me while I'm in exile from Israel. I'm experiencing the very same thing as you are my, and we both like the way you escaped hell, and went to the Philippines. I myself am a 👑 King 👑 and I may not have gone to the Philippines, but Shah Banu is taking care of me the very same way in Europe, because she can afford to. Her Family is filthy rich, and money is no problem. Therefore, unto you and your family ....... I salute 👑
Good video brother. The crazy thing is. Men in the West or Europe or maybe some country we called developed. We'll say you are a lucky guy. And even though that has some truth. What you are describing supposed to be normal everywhere.. But it sounds Strange to most of us because it's not happening in these so called develop areas.Thank you for sharing it's always good to hear you My brother. God's continued blessings to you in your family
It seems like The Philippines is one of the few places left where women feel they should work with a good man and make him happy as opposed to The Western modern women way of trying to out-compete a man and even try to completely control and use him.
Having a ‘you can do whatever you want’ woman makes the universe align and click into place. You never can sit in your own power until you’ve had that. It’s almost non existent in the west now. But I had it with an Asian partner
@@kassb7405 I was in the Air Force, but my AFSC was 2W1X1. I loaded bombs and missiles on jets and maintained the weapons system and equipment on the jets
Birthday or Doomsday!!!! Wow! You've opened our eyes over in the States. Making Love everyday! Poetic! Definitely not living that on US shores. We work to retire and then spend that time fighting to survive and keep our houses. My brother, you are the BLUEPRINT for Freedom.
I can only tell I have been in Sweden in 30 years, then I was 13 years old. When I was in Thailand 60 days, 4 days before returning I was like oh no and start to be depression...... I'm understanding you men and happy for you
Thanks for this video Uncle Calvin, after I get finish getting my finances in order I'm making that flight booking, I'm nearly 30 now and I've given up on UK women.
One thing I like about the Philippines is people don’t need to actually know you to say hello and be friendly Here if you say good morning to people most look at you strange and if it’s a woman they think you are after something .Even the gym I attend regularly with the same people you got to be careful the people you say hello to because they don’t see it as you just being friendly and courteous they read a different meaning into it . The west can be very very hostile and lonely at times unless of course people see you are very wealthy then they all want to be your friend .
Good video Calvin, for me it wasn't just about sex but about love and intimacy. My ex Filipina, who I believe had narcissist personality disorder, would laugh at me when I 'came'. She gave me zero respect, intimacy or love. It was so emotional for me to just be held again and loved for who I am. For me, sex is the cream, the friendship is the foundation. But I do get what you say man, it is so true being able to be you and your partner appreciating you. Thanks again mate🇦🇺
Tbh though, no woman is going to "hold" you unless she sees you the same way she sees a child. Or a geih male friend. She's not your "friend", but a helpmeet. Western men don't understand this.
Submissiveness is a feminine trait. Therefore, it' s a sign of respect, which we value and consequentially- reciprocate because, to us: respect= "love".
Calvin.......man CAN I RELATE !! I have been single for 13 years and I am ( VERY UNFORTUNATELY) on the other side of that spectrum whereas I haven't had ANY sex for the last 13 years. In other words I HAVEN'T HAD ANY SEX WITH ANY WOMAN FOR 13 STRAIGHT YEARS ....well alright i've had it TWICE ONLY TWICE !!! You are just keeping it 100 man and I appreciate it. Sex in the U.S has become essentially WEAPONIZED by women in the U.S !!! It doesn't matter the age, the race, the amount of experience they have or don't, their income level, their religious or spiritual beliefs SEX IS ALWAYS EITHER WITHHELD OR HELD OVER A MANS HEAD AS A WAY OF HOLDING POWER AND CONTROL OVER ANY GIVEN RELATIONSHIP IN OTHER WORDS WEAPONIZED !!!! Until about 2010 I NEVER, IMENA NEVER had any problem talking to, attracting, engaging with, connecting with emotionally ANY woman no matter how beautiful as well as my ability to do impromptu stand up comedy with my stupid humor (😜😎) , BUT....BUT....BUT even my last marriage which ended in 2009 was mostly over NO SEXUAL PLEASURE OR INTIMACY AT ALL and it was between 4-6 months that we hadn't had any sex before the divorce became finalized. Now admittedly there were issues outside of that which were destroying our relationship and there was equal fault and accountability on both sides so it wasn't just that. I like how you said they used withholding sex as a "battering ram".....EXACTLY !!! WHY....WHY.....WHY do American women think like this.......well things have been getting worse and worse and worse over the last 20 or so years in the U.S. for ALL MEN !!!! I have a lot more I can say but i'll hold back on that until I meet you when I do come over either later this year or early next year as I would like to meet you and hang out when I come over.
Thanks For sharing Cal... Your way of informing us or giving some advice is so natural too....i like the walk and talk Vlogs of yours wehehe God bless man more video
This is the first video I have watched from you. I must say, you are 100% correct with every thing you said. I look forward to watching your other videos.
this man has told us the truth. Unreal how well were treated an set free from the Games of the women in the states. My wife is just so amazing. an caring. I'm a lucky one to do d this treasure in life.
Hi I've been back twice already theis year and going back again in August. 3 years same Filipina, she is 49 I am 57, somthing you said really clicked with me, I am kind of slugging it out here just getting through the time, while I am there I am getting up every day at 7 am or earlier. I couldn't put it into words before and I didn't realize why, but I am actually looking forward and happy about my day, I wanted a bigger pension first before I pulled the plug
Don’t waste too much time chasing dollars and lose all that time being happy and in peace with your woman! You can’t put a price tag on a piece of mind
When I first visited my fiance in HK after talking with her for several years, I was emotional when I had t leave for the same reasons. She treated me so good, but agreed to save it for marriage. Hopefully, Covid wont delay our process again.
Taking my first trip to cebu on Feb1 2023. She is 49 never been married and she has no kids. She chose me. I met her because her uncle used to work with me in Missouri
@@calroach1 yeah maybe until they have a cockfighting farm nearby and people live all around with roosters crowing both morning and all during the day its nolonger so great its all in moderation and I have lived in the Philippines over 32 years now and lived those days now its very peaceful where I live here in the Philippines
I think ppl got the wrong impression of what being submissive is. Submissive don't mean being inferior or being in that place of slavery. It just simply means meekly catering to the needs of another, of course this doesn't mean be a push over either.
Hello my very good Friend, Calvin You deserve everything that you have encountered, because every word you speak is True 👑 May you and your Family have everlasting Peace 👑
"When we are making love i know you are happy". My wife told me something similar.. she says she's loves it when i make love to her because she knows i am not stressed which in short means I'm happy. I usually brush it off but after hearing someone else share that story i realize how unselfish she is to have concern of my mental state. I'm still in the rat race and thankful that you have shared this as i just appreciated who I'm with even more.
Poetry to me. I’m one of your younger viewers, but I know what it’s like to be with a women for years and the relationship to go sour. Society in the United States has a very negative impact on women’s (and men’s) minds and bodies. It’s refreshing to hear there are people out there who have Still retained that part of their humanity, having not been damaged like so many people in the west. Seriously considering taking the leap and costing the Philippines for a longer trip, but can’t decide between it or someplace in Latin America.
The one thing I really love about your videos is that every subject about life in the Philippines 🇵🇭 is always refreshing, relaxing and always make a man fall deeper and deeper in love with the thought of being in the Philippines. The social atmosphere around you as well add more flavour to the good life one could have in the Philippines; to see people always greeting you (maayong buntag!) and appreciating you and willing to interact with you goes to show that you're in the right place, at the right time, with the right people. You're at peace, you're fulfilled; these is more than what a man could ever ask for. You made me fall in love with the Philippines Brother Calvin! there's no doubt about it. There's absolutely nothing as fulfilling to a man as being with the woman who respect, who understand the needs of the man in her life and take care of them. I always look forward to this kind of moments in my life when I will be at peace. Stay blessed
Congratulations my dear brother Calvin on your, 36000 loyal subscribers! I'm very happy for your accomplishments, you really deserve it… Thank you for another terrific share and good luck. Be safe, stay safe! Best regards/Ned 🎈🎉🎈
🔥🤯🤯🤯 mind blowing!! When I was married I didn’t even get sex every day, hell, every month. I absolutely hated it. Even now I have been celibate for over 3 years now. I would rather keep to myself than jump in the arena and play all thee games most women stateside take you through
Make sure to find a right filipina bro, because not all Filipina's are good.. Every people in every country are not perfect.. I hope this comment can help you😊
Back in 1988 I had the privilege of going to the Philippines Uncle Sam brought me there to Clark AFB angles city WOW I met a beautiful passionate woman absolutely the best I’ve ever had Calvin you brought back memories talking about how great your life is there definitely I’m going to get back over in the Philippines I have to there’s nothing going on like that in the USA believe me it’s gone from bad to worse with women over here. Thanks for the reminders great Chanel keep up the great work
Calvin, your knowledge and theory is so correct. Things felt so different when I landed in the Paradise of the 7,000 Islands the Philippines. Today, I compare things to the Philippines and do not want or get caught up in pretend situations. i guess that is why I am still a widower since passing of my dear Island wive in 2016. I think the only place that will make me want to jump into the scene again is the Philippines. Thank Calvin on this information..
@@calroach1 I was just messing with you man I really did think you were going to go somewhere else with the conversation though I thought it was kind of a sit up but you were really talking about loving the Philippines or something but you meant it literally. I'm 49 years old and I went there a couple years ago my online thing worked out up to the point of not being able to go again she got back with her baby's daddy. I was already looking at the Philippines before I was even thinking about dating anyone. I don't have any problems down there right now but I have noticed an extreme difference the last three or four years I'm not even really hardly craving it but it's probably because of the environment here in the United States
@@calroach1 that is exactly what it is…inspiration! It’s what makes a man jump out of bed every morning and go out into the world to build a fortune for his woman and family. Without inspiration there isn’t much of a drive to make the sacrifices necessary achieve.
My Filipina was visiting me in the states. Whenever we're in bed watching a movie, she rubs my hands. This is not something I've ever asked her to do and frankly makes me a little self conscious because I have small hands and slightly deformed little fingers. One night, I casually asked her why she likes to rub my hands so much and she said "because it helps me remember you when we're not together." Ho brah, that hit hard, and I told her "that was one of sweetest things anyone had ever said to me." She could tell my eyes were getting watery, so to lighten the mood she made a big boo-boo face and let out a huge "Waaaaa." We died laughing and in that moment I knew this girl was a keeper. Been together for 5 years now and couldn't be happier!
Bruh, isn’t it amazing when a woman understands what it means to be a man’s “partner” and she truly loves you for you. Happy for you Man!!
@@dgourdine50 Absolutely!
That’s what’s up…!! She’s a keeper for sure. When a woman is kind and affectionate, she will melt the hardest man’s heart. God bless you and your woman.
Happy for you both
Yeah bruh you in good hands. Congratulations to you.
My Filipina and I were married for 13 years. And we, too, made love literally every day. Sometimes we would laugh and make a deal to keep our hands off each other for 2 to 3 days. But it never went to 3 days. By day 2 we were all over each other. Like brand new! Like we'd just met. It took her awhile to learn that I meant what I said: She was not only my wife, she was my girlfriend, my sweetheart, she was my favorite date. Yes, I'd ask her for a date - which always amused her - and then take her out to wherever she wanted go. And we "always" had a great time. She was my pin-up girl. My toy - she used to ask me if she was my toy - and I would answer she was not only my toy but my favorite ride, and she was my entire entertainment park because she had "all" the rides that I liked! And we would laugh like two kids! Then go make love some more! So, I know of what you speak. No blasphemy intended - just Amen, Brother Calvin! Preach on! :)
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Hi Joe. Not to be nosey, but, did you divorce? You wrote "were married for 13 years."
I am a filipina woman and I guess in general, filipina women think or believe that sex is our duty to our husband. Personally, that's what I believe and despite being a bit exhausted sometimes, I have to give it to my husband since I know it will make him happy.
@@MakaiIELTS Thanks for your honest reply. It's just kind of sad that Western women don't share your philosophy on "intimacy." It's pretty horrible being with someone who withholds sex or rations it out as bargaining tool, which is what most women do here in the States. I'm blown away how American guys moving to the Phils say their Filipina Girlfriends and Wives rarely, if ever turn them down.
Joe, so what happened that made such a great woman become an ex ?
The best thing by far I’ve ever done in my life is traveling to the Philippines 🇵🇭. I realized after a few weeks there that it was my home . America 🇺🇸 was not my home anymore. There is a peacefulness I could never really express to anyone other than “ my soul felt at peace “ !
My girl said to me one day “ it’s my honor to be with such a kind man like you . I love you “!
It was like I had been punched in the chest. I had to turn away and gather myself. I have never in my life been treated so wonderful by anyone.
I tell guys now that we’re like me before. Get on a plane and just go see what the Philippines 🇵🇭 has to offer. It may change your life . I know it did for me ! Thx 🙏 for all you do Calvin
The one thing I truly appreciate and miss about the Philippines is everyone saying good morning to you. Here in America, if you speak to people they look at you as though you're strange. I'm close to retirement, see you very soon Philippines. I can't wait.
If you say good morning, subconciously they think you have bad intentions.
America is divided by families, money. Crime , property ownership and other things. Those that want to keep theirs and those, who want yours.. philipines is really one boat. Everyone's in it.
Been riding a bicycle through local parks this week. At the crack of dawn - right when i get off (i work nights).
Surprisingly nearly everyone says good morning, or at least nods. So i started saying good morning to everyone as well.
I live about 20 miles south of ATL.
I say good morning to everyone I pass in the morning, and they say good morning to me. But I live in the OC of cali, we must be strange here compared to the rest of cali I guess.
People only talk to you in America when your wallet is open which is sad!
I totally agree, my Filipina wife is the best thing I’ve had in my 53 years! We will be retiring to the Philippines. Hello from Canada and Congratulations
Hello from Sweden. I feel the same for my filipina wife. Best thing in my life. I'm 60 she's 42 and we're soon moving to Philippines. I almost cant wait, November 2023 we're moving.
Cal, even if we say you’re exaggerating, let’s just pretend. Maybe it’s 2 to 3 a week, just to make it simple. The fact that you don’t have to beg for it, no need to bargain. to me that’s the biggest deal right there
After watching this vid... I DEFINITELY need some of that Philippine sun if it's giving that kind of energy 😳. I'm tired every day over here!!
@Mr Joes Crazy Asian Life I've had the blood work done.. My levels are within range.. It's stress and diet that has me feeling like this.. Thank you for the suggestion and I'll continue to check my levels over the coming years.
This brother is telling the truth. My girl whispered in my ear on the very first day I met her "honey what can I do to relax you" . From there I knew that this is where I need to be. Making moves right now to make the move permanently.
Calvin...I am the same age as you and my wife is Filipina and I agree I agree I agree and I can honestly say I am also living it and I agree. If you pick the right one and she picks you like my wife picked me you will also agree with Calvin and me. I agree.
Tell your story, my brother. I was fortune enough to have been given that "do whatever you want to me" in Panama. But in the SE Asian countries I had multiple opportunities like that. But you are definitely living your best life. I wish this for more black men because I have met many men of other races who are doing this exact thing. Some people exist, others live!!
Nothing wrong with good sex. It keeps the energy and blood flowing, and the positive dopamine in the mind. Having the connection with a beautiful young woman is the most wonderful thing in the world, and glad you're experiencing it.
Well said exactly true .
And what’s so EXTREMELY IMPORTANT IS when you have this love established then YOU CAN FOCUS ON PRODUCTIVE PEAK living in ALL OTHER ASPECTS OF LIFE because you no longer feel depressed or sad ... it helps free your entire life up having that person established to have a healthy love life with
Absolutely! I work on my own project, coding at home, and I was never more productive than when I was over there.
Knowing there was going to be fun games after a day of work, did wonders to my performance! 😆
When the good times are locked down, men go out and hustle. If in a relationship and there aren’t enough of the good times men aren’t motivated to make his woman’s life better.
Wow 🙏🏽💎
Man u experience this?
I like the Walks and Talks. Those are some of the best videos because they seem to just roll along in an easy informal way.
I remember that... Not needing to worry when you'll have sex again? For a Western guy, it is life changing indeed. Chaps here can't even understand.
Such a shame things didn't work out for me because I didn't choose well (or didn't let the right woman choose me), and it'll be years before I can try again. But I'm positive it'll remain the best country in the world to find a loving respectful wife.
@@xpusostomos I'm still decades away from official retirement, so I need to secure enough passive or remote income.
Back at that time I had it, but shit happened and I need to work hard again towards that status quo.
And no, it wasn't the Filipina spending my money. 😆
I now understand why some many smiling faces in Philippines but so many depressed faces in the USA. Money wont make a man happy if he is not getting regular sex.
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What a video. I have truly forgotten how it feels to love and to be in love. My current wife is Asian from Nepal. I met her here in America. When I first met her she was sweet and kind. And the sex was awesome! After dealing with these black women who asked her things like why do you have to call your husband before you do something. She started to change gradually. Now I don’t even recognize her anymore.she never approaches me for sex. And we go through the motions maybe about two to three times a month. I am miserable! There is no intimacy and no respect. I dream everyday about the Philippines. And I hope someday to have what you’ve been blessed with. Calvin thank you for hope! I survive through your videos. I will be able to retire in about ten months and I swear it’s monotony. The stress is almost unbearable. But I will make it through. I’ve been married for 21 years. (And never cheated) And the last 11 years have been hell. Once she realize the power that women have over the man in America . It was a rap. Thanks again man and stay blessed and know you are helping to keep a brother going.
Its really sad place for many men in America. And many think its the same situation the rest of the world.
Hope you can start fresh asap, life is short.
Yeah women from the WEST are the problem. If you leave and find a woman somewhere else don't bring her to the usa
What I don't understand is why one grown female has to follow another female's ideologies mindlessly.
All female adults should have individuality, and sovereignty of self.
I do wish you and your wife stick together because sex have a perishable date there's a point where it won't matter anymore.
The promises that you made is better then self gratification.
@@thomasthumim7630 it’s not about the sex. It’s about that knowing. That you are with that one. I stayed because I wanted to be there for my children. I was committed to that. We were never in love. We just tried to make it work. Like I said never cheated because I don’t believe on that.
I’m supposed to see my Filipina in October. She’s halfway around the world. But she calls and video chats me every day and is so kind that it’s strange to an average American divorced dad like me. LoL
I met my Filipina girlfriend a year ago. She keeps me happy. It’s the best feeling in the world.
That’s cool that you are in the same neighborhood as Roger and Isme.
Calvin you absolutely correct , they happy to make us happy comes naturally without any playing or favour.
It won't happen with American Women. Once you get married 🤵👰 it's over !!!!
Yes, when you have an awesome and supportive woman, everything becomes so easy to conquer. And everything is so much fun; even going to the store is enjoyable. Never be abusive. You have to also be kind and appreciative. Don't take anything for granted. By the way, it's the other way around. Nothing makes sense in the US.
To be submissive doesn't mean mistreatment tho. Both the man and the woman have to submit to each other. It only means that both parts understand their roles in the relationship. People who don't understand what the word means, cannot submit to each other. It doesn't mean you become a slave or that you don't have a say in the relationship. It's a miss misconception or miscontrution of the word Submissive.
Juan, well said 👍👌💯
@Juan Diaz straight up facts!
A man doesn't need to "submit".
Wow brother just wow 🙏🏽💙💎
Ive never heard a black man so happy I'm 27 year old man from Chicago this is like hearing a person speak from heaven man
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You are funny, wise and so honest. Everything you’ve said in your videos would make a book I would love to read!
Wow, thank you!
Filipina women are very special... caring and loving... love the culture...
You cracked me up "Either it's your birthday or your doomsday" ha ha ha I worked with a lot of Western women and boy I understand what you mean ha ha ha specially Western women in 40s ha ha ha
I'm Filipina living in Australia, I miss the life in the Philippines someday I will be back there in my retirement age. I miss the people interactions "people say hello or good morning even they don't know you".
When I arrived in Australia I used to say good morning every time when I saw someone in the park, while jogging or even waiting for a bus. It took me few months to realised that was not a normal norm in Australia. I used to be extra nice and friendly before but I learned the hard-way, when one of my neighbour started stalking me. He thought I like him because I smiled and say hello to him. It was traumatic experienced for me to the point that I moved out or changed an apartment to avoid my stalker. Since, then I stoped being friendly to neighbours or strangers in public places.
Cal. I truly appreciate your perspective and delivery on these topics. They really do matter. When I was married I was lucky if I had serious intimate moment with with my wife 4 or 5 times a year. I can’t even imagine getting it every day. I am so done with being held hostage when it comes to being intimate and sexually fulfilled. Sidebar: I truly appreciate how you greet all your neighbors, that’s straight up old school shit. You better not walk past Ms. Johnson’s house while she sitting on her porch and not speak. You will hear about it… in a bad way.
I won’t say that was a good one that you just put out it really hit me right between the eyes because I was married for 22 years and much of the last 5 to 8 years of the marriage it was almost sexless and whenever there was sex it was like a chore on her part I will tell you that I stayed true to her until my children were out of the house and then I went ahead and got divorced and made my way to a beautiful Brazilian woman and dated several other people and now I’m going to be getting married to Filipina I’ll be seeing her the second time now in the last few months coming up in the next couple of weeks but definitely Filipinas know how to take care of their men! They’re great cooks they care and they don’t mind having sex as much as often as you want!
the way you said it sounds a sex slave, tho..
but for filipinas, it was more of a duty to her husband... men should also consider some things.. there are times they didn't actually want it but they still do it for the sake of love and duty to her husband.. and we should know when... i don't know how western women but when a filipina is not in the mood, they can't say no because of the "duty" thing.. at those times, i , myself, do the adjustment... that's rare tho... it only happens when you hurt her physically or emotionally... that's a filipina wife... i'm a filipino by the way..
You said that you found freedom. That by far is the most beautiful thing
All I have to say is: Thank You Brother!
I needed to hear that today 😌😌
I am thrilled to hear of your second lease on life
As I was watching this vlog, I kept thinking about The Miracles and their hit song "Love Machine." You are a stud brotherman. Thank you for sharing some of your backstory and giving guys hope.
Yeah bru I cant do everyday I'm only 42 lol no way man ... Cal has some super spirit to handle all that lol ..
@@Recon6 Maybe he also has a hypnotic effect on women like Barry White's voice. 😂
I’m sayin “that’s right!” a lot again. Keep the truth coming Calvin.
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Fascinating video. A pure winner. Very precious and deep personal openness, honesty, vtruth. Wow man, you are awesome. Thank you for this amazing perspective 👏👏👏
For the next several weeks, I will be in Patmos, called by the world, Isles of Patmos.
I'm with Shah Banu who is taking care of me while I'm in exile from Israel.
I'm experiencing the very same thing as you are my, and we both like the way you escaped hell, and went to the Philippines.
I myself am a 👑 King 👑 and I may not have gone to the Philippines, but Shah Banu is taking care of me the very same way in Europe, because she can afford to.
Her Family is filthy rich, and money is no problem.
Therefore, unto you and your family ....... I salute 👑
Good video brother. The crazy thing is. Men in the West or Europe or maybe some country we called developed. We'll say you are a lucky guy. And even though that has some truth. What you are describing supposed to be normal everywhere.. But it sounds Strange to most of us because it's not happening in these so called develop areas.Thank you for sharing it's always good to hear you My brother. God's continued blessings to you in your family
It seems like The Philippines is one of the few places left where women feel they should work with a good man and make him happy as opposed to The Western modern women way of trying to out-compete a man and even try to completely control and use him.
Once or twice a week and I will be happy Calvin….I can’t wait to move there my friend….love your channel and your outstanding words of wisdom….
Having a ‘you can do whatever you want’ woman makes the universe align and click into place. You never can sit in your own power until you’ve had that. It’s almost non existent in the west now. But I had it with an Asian partner
Tell the truth brother all of the stress is released I am also here black American in taguig
"I'm retired. I don't have any deadlines." lol I hear ya man. I retired from the military August 2021 and been chillen ever since.
@cjack202003, Thanks 👍 for your service if I may ask what was your MOS
@@kassb7405 I was in the Air Force, but my AFSC was 2W1X1. I loaded bombs and missiles on jets and maintained the weapons system and equipment on the jets
Birthday or Doomsday!!!! Wow! You've opened our eyes over in the States.
Making Love everyday! Poetic! Definitely not living that on US shores. We work to retire and then spend that time fighting to survive and keep our houses. My brother, you are the BLUEPRINT for Freedom.
Thanks brother!
I can only tell I have been in Sweden in 30 years, then I was 13 years old. When I was in Thailand 60 days, 4 days before returning I was like oh no and start to be depression...... I'm understanding you men and happy for you
Thanks for this video Uncle Calvin, after I get finish getting my finances in order I'm making that flight booking, I'm nearly 30 now and I've given up on UK women.
One thing I like about the Philippines is people don’t need to actually know you to say hello and be friendly Here if you say good morning to people most look at you strange and if it’s a woman they think you are after something .Even the gym I attend regularly with the same people you got to be careful the people you say hello to because they don’t see it as you just being friendly and courteous they read a different meaning into it . The west can be very very hostile and lonely at times unless of course people see you are very wealthy then they all want to be your friend .
Good video Calvin, for me it wasn't just about sex but about love and intimacy. My ex Filipina, who I believe had narcissist personality disorder, would laugh at me when I 'came'. She gave me zero respect, intimacy or love. It was so emotional for me to just be held again and loved for who I am. For me, sex is the cream, the friendship is the foundation. But I do get what you say man, it is so true being able to be you and your partner appreciating you. Thanks again mate🇦🇺
Gotta, you nailed it my friend, sex is the icing on the top. Go well friend 👌
Tbh though, no woman is going to "hold" you unless she sees you the same way she sees a child. Or a geih male friend. She's not your "friend", but a helpmeet. Western men don't understand this.
Bravo Sunshine Shoulders!! Well said. Thank you brother.
Most Asian women are good and they know how to treat their men.
Submissiveness is a feminine trait.
Therefore, it' s a sign of respect, which we value and consequentially- reciprocate because, to us: respect= "love".
Great point!
Calvin.......man CAN I RELATE !! I have been single for 13 years and I am ( VERY UNFORTUNATELY) on the other side of that spectrum whereas I haven't had ANY sex for the last 13 years. In other words I HAVEN'T HAD ANY SEX WITH ANY WOMAN FOR 13 STRAIGHT YEARS ....well alright i've had it TWICE ONLY TWICE !!! You are just keeping it 100 man and I appreciate it. Sex in the U.S has become essentially WEAPONIZED by women in the U.S !!! It doesn't matter the age, the race, the amount of experience they have or don't, their income level, their religious or spiritual beliefs SEX IS ALWAYS EITHER WITHHELD OR HELD OVER A MANS HEAD AS A WAY OF HOLDING POWER AND CONTROL OVER ANY GIVEN RELATIONSHIP IN OTHER WORDS WEAPONIZED !!!! Until about 2010 I NEVER, IMENA NEVER had any problem talking to, attracting, engaging with, connecting with emotionally ANY woman no matter how beautiful as well as my ability to do impromptu stand up comedy with my stupid humor (😜😎) , BUT....BUT....BUT even my last marriage which ended in 2009 was mostly over NO SEXUAL PLEASURE OR INTIMACY AT ALL and it was between 4-6 months that we hadn't had any sex before the divorce became finalized. Now admittedly there were issues outside of that which were destroying our relationship and there was equal fault and accountability on both sides so it wasn't just that. I like how you said they used withholding sex as a "battering ram".....EXACTLY !!! WHY....WHY.....WHY do American women think like this.......well things have been getting worse and worse and worse over the last 20 or so years in the U.S. for ALL MEN !!!! I have a lot more I can say but i'll hold back on that until I meet you when I do come over either later this year or early next year as I would like to meet you and hang out when I come over.
Thanks For sharing Cal...
Your way of informing us or giving some advice is so natural too....i like the walk and talk Vlogs of yours wehehe God bless man more video
This is the first video I have watched from you. I must say, you are 100% correct with every thing you said. I look forward to watching your other videos.
Welcome to my channel and thanks for stopping by today.
Good post ! It’s about time someone shares the truth about how men need to be treated
Wow.. I did the same...my wife made me feel special, i got a lil emotional when i had to leave. I love your channel bro! Salamat!
this man has told us the truth. Unreal how well were treated an set free from the Games of the women in the states. My wife is just so amazing. an caring. I'm a lucky one to do d this treasure in life.
Hi I've been back twice already theis year and going back again in August. 3 years same Filipina, she is 49 I am 57, somthing you said really clicked with me, I am kind of slugging it out here just getting through the time, while I am there I am getting up every day at 7 am or earlier. I couldn't put it into words before and I didn't realize why, but I am actually looking forward and happy about my day, I wanted a bigger pension first before I pulled the plug
Don’t waste too much time chasing dollars and lose all that time being happy and in peace with your woman!
You can’t put a price tag on a piece of mind
@@dgourdine50 Facts!
Congrats on the 36K. Keep it up Bro Cal.
Thanks Sam I couldn't have done it without you 💪🏾
I hear what you're saying OG It's a good feeling to know you don't have to worry about that part of life. anymore. 👍
Excellent show Brother Roach! I’m looking forward to having those same things that you’ve got
Filipina women are the best, right on man‼️ you got it right ….thanks for the video
When I first visited my fiance in HK after talking with her for several years, I was emotional when I had t leave for the same reasons. She treated me so good, but agreed to save it for marriage. Hopefully, Covid wont delay our process again.
Taking my first trip to cebu on Feb1 2023. She is 49 never been married and she has no kids. She chose me. I met her because her uncle used to work with me in Missouri
Issue living single in the west, it gets lonely & LDR is too difficult, maybe it’s an option to retire young & move to phili
New subscriber here. Loving your channel and how you're keeping it real and not exaggerating stuff to draw in views. Keep it up brother! 👍
Thanks Mike and welcome to my channel!
Roosters are nature's alarm clock
I love it!
@@calroach1 yeah maybe until they have a cockfighting farm nearby and people live all around with roosters crowing both morning and all during the day its nolonger so great its all in moderation and I have lived in the Philippines over 32 years now and lived those days now its very peaceful where I live here in the Philippines
I can relate about not wanting to come home...lol
So true, brother. There's nothing like the love of a good Filipina. Thanks for sharing.
Agree 100! Spot on Calvin! Counting the days till I can get back there!
Good for you Calvin, we should all be so lucky.
"Luck" is the residue of design. Choose what you will. Aint nobody coming to save you.
Love the commentary and view Calvin 👍🙂
Thanks Ty
I think ppl got the wrong impression of what being submissive is. Submissive don't mean being inferior or being in that place of slavery. It just simply means meekly catering to the needs of another, of course this doesn't mean be a push over either.
Congrats to that. That's a sign of true love.
I personally love hearing the roosters crow.. what a peaceful place
Sunshine's favorite song is "Licorice Crush" by Brendon Moeller.
good morning. thank you for the early walk around my neighborhood. i needed that.
Hello brother hope all is well with you. Hurry back!
godspeed
Hello my very good Friend, Calvin
You deserve everything that you have encountered, because every word you speak is True 👑
May you and your Family have everlasting Peace 👑
"When we are making love i know you are happy". My wife told me something similar.. she says she's loves it when i make love to her because she knows i am not stressed which in short means I'm happy. I usually brush it off but after hearing someone else share that story i realize how unselfish she is to have concern of my mental state. I'm still in the rat race and thankful that you have shared this as i just appreciated who I'm with even more.
I admire your honesty, it's a story prevelant in many a man's life
I made luv, for many many years too.
that why I don't regret anything. My Soul Sings.❤
Sunshine, on my shoulders, make me happy.
I admire your virility!
Poetry to me. I’m one of your younger viewers, but I know what it’s like to be with a women for years and the relationship to go sour. Society in the United States has a very negative impact on women’s (and men’s) minds and bodies. It’s refreshing to hear there are people out there who have Still retained that part of their humanity, having not been damaged like so many people in the west. Seriously considering taking the leap and costing the Philippines for a longer trip, but can’t decide between it or someplace in Latin America.
Good for you Calvin, keep it up man
The one thing I really love about your videos is that every subject about life in the Philippines 🇵🇭 is always refreshing, relaxing and always make a man fall deeper and deeper in love with the thought of being in the Philippines. The social atmosphere around you as well add more flavour to the good life one could have in the Philippines; to see people always greeting you (maayong buntag!) and appreciating you and willing to interact with you goes to show that you're in the right place, at the right time, with the right people. You're at peace, you're fulfilled; these is more than what a man could ever ask for. You made me fall in love with the Philippines Brother Calvin! there's no doubt about it. There's absolutely nothing as fulfilling to a man as being with the woman who respect, who understand the needs of the man in her life and take care of them. I always look forward to this kind of moments in my life when I will be at peace. Stay blessed
Thank you for sharing such intimate stories of your life with us, that takes great courage. I wish you all the best Calvin.
HELLO SUNSHINE I really enjoyed ur testament and most of all ur Passon towards ur happiness thanks willie usa
Congratulations my dear brother Calvin on your, 36000 loyal subscribers! I'm very happy for your accomplishments, you really deserve it…
Thank you for another terrific share and good luck. Be safe, stay safe! Best regards/Ned 🎈🎉🎈
Thanks Ned for your support I couldn't have done it without you!
@@calroach1 🌹💕🌹
🔥🤯🤯🤯 mind blowing!! When I was married I didn’t even get sex every day, hell, every month. I absolutely hated it. Even now I have been celibate for over 3 years now. I would rather keep to myself than jump in the arena and play all thee games most women stateside take you through
After six long lonely years as a widower I need some Philippines urgently !
@@mattijarvinen3966 tell me more if you want please Matt
Make sure to find a right filipina bro, because not all Filipina's are good.. Every people in every country are not perfect.. I hope this comment can help you😊
That is good stuff Calvin. I'm going to have to visit The Philippines.
It’s not just the Philippines, it’s anywhere outside the west
Most likely
My longest relationship was 6 months. Been celibate for 7 years. 😑
Back in 1988 I had the privilege of going to the Philippines Uncle Sam brought me there to Clark AFB angles city WOW I met a beautiful passionate woman absolutely the best I’ve ever had Calvin you brought back memories talking about how great your life is there definitely I’m going to get back over in the Philippines I have to there’s nothing going on like that in the USA believe me it’s gone from bad to worse with women over here. Thanks for the reminders great Chanel keep up the great work
Calvin, your knowledge and theory is so correct. Things felt so different when I landed in the Paradise of the 7,000 Islands the Philippines. Today, I compare things to the Philippines and do not want or get caught up in pretend situations. i guess that is why I am still a widower since passing of my dear Island wive in 2016. I think the only place that will make me want to jump into the scene again is the Philippines. Thank Calvin on this information..
Don’t hurt your self Calvin!
I take it easy on her!
Soon as guys get PENSION, CRYPTO, STOCK or BOND money they going do the same thing in Thailand, Philippines, Cambodia or Vietnam!
I believe making love everyday is the secret of feeling and looking young. As for me making love is the said "fountain of youth." 😁
I'm about to watch this but if you made love everyday for 13 years man I need some of whatever you're having 😂
It's called inspiration 🤣
@@calroach1 I was just messing with you man I really did think you were going to go somewhere else with the conversation though I thought it was kind of a sit up but you were really talking about loving the Philippines or something but you meant it literally. I'm 49 years old and I went there a couple years ago my online thing worked out up to the point of not being able to go again she got back with her baby's daddy. I was already looking at the Philippines before I was even thinking about dating anyone. I don't have any problems down there right now but I have noticed an extreme difference the last three or four years I'm not even really hardly craving it but it's probably because of the environment here in the United States
@@calroach1 that is exactly what it is…inspiration! It’s what makes a man jump out of bed every morning and go out into the world to build a fortune for his woman and family. Without inspiration there isn’t much of a drive to make the sacrifices necessary achieve.
You are one lucky man
I'm 64 and never experienced sex every day. Wow!!!!
Your a lucky man Cal. My experiences in the Philippines has not been so positive. Not all filipinas are not as giving some are just takers.