Thanks for stopping by today my vlog is addressing the myth that foreign men have their pick of women here, it's not true. This vlog is not about the size of the Filipino I use it to make my point. Please don't miss this. I apologize so many missed my point. Take care.
That is so so true! I have been married twice(1st one died) to Filipina and still married for 13 yrs . They majority of Filipinas prefer their own. Do not get in a situation where they make more money than you because you will see a drastic change. It does not matter if you were the one who helped them achieve the higher position. They seem to have a thing, where whoever is making more money or higher degree status rules. Cooperation and dual leadership is not their way. I have seen it in Filipino church I attended. I see how the wives who are nurses treat their Filipino husbands. I even witnessed it in a supermarket while in Davao back in 2006. Be careful guys . The Filipina you bring here in the US can easily become they type of women you left the US to avoid and may even be worst because you invested so much into her. Please have a backup plan, when dealing with any woman in general. While you may have been upfront about what you want in the relationship, she may be just going along with you to achieve her goals. She may even still love you but her true colors will show eventually then you are stuck with making the decision of wether or not you want to be with that type of woman. My first wife had a thing, that we never go to sleep angry at each other, so issues were always cleared up by the end of the day. Well, that is NOT THE NORM with Filipinas. Although most Filipinas are Christians, they will give silent treatment from 2 to 3 weeks for the smallest disagreements. Most Filipinas do not care about eating healthy, so if you are health conscious, look for a Filipina that is already into doing that. The Filipina who wants you, will go along with healthy eating to make you feel everything is ok, but once you are married or/and they making more money, they will tell you that it is not for them. Please be quiet, and find the ones which are the way you want.
I'm a Filipino and watch Sunshine Shoulders' UA-cam channel from time to time because I like how he narrates he's funny and animated... I watched this video because of an offended Filipina about the Filipino's 4 inches 😂 this taken out of context but I get what he's saying. This is Hilarious though😂
Calvin, I first moved to the Philippines in 99. The number of foreigners who are decent and good "Husband material" is only a fraction of foreign men who visit the Philippines. In 20 years of experience I can say that more filipinas would marry a good foreigner, if they were around. I have often been asked by very pretty and intelligent filipinas if I "Knew anyone...". Usually, the answer is no. Here is another observation of years, without the "Sugar coating" as you say. At least half, maybe more, of the men who come to the Philippines are CRETINS who I would not recommend to ANY decent Filipina. This was the case 20 years ago and it still the case today.
I guess it depends a little on your personal circle don't ya think? If you know that many scum bags, it's not a great reflection on you, unless you're just talking to every white face you encounter on the street and you have incredible skills to read a guy instantly. The majority of guys I got to know are decent people. I learn about most despicable guys on the vlogs I watch. I dunno...
‘99 you go way back! To when seeing another westerner on the ground was pretty rare! My first trip was ‘04 I was 23 then. ‘99 was in the era of exclusively the 747 for the long haul flights! And northwest and continental flew into the country. And when Air Philippines and Sea air existed domestically.
You hit another one out the ballpark. In the years that I’ve been visiting, dating and living in the Philippines, this is so true. Foreigners get the rejects and leftovers of Filipino men. We get all the single mother’s, and all the women that have been used and abused. Of course, not all 100% of the women that we get but a vast majority. I have a friend who is married to a Filipina, and has three sisters. Two of those sisters are married to foreigners, one is from Norway, the other Japan. The younger sister is not married yet. I asked her if she would like me to introduce her to one of my friends from the US. She didn’t say no, she said hell NO. I was shocked, that all her sisters had foreigners for partners, and she didn’t want. Talked to my buddy, and he told me she only want a Filipino, and he has tried to set her up and was told no. So even when her life was made easier by the money that was being sent from overseas, and she was able to go to college because of the money, she still wants a Filipino. I don’t blame her, it’s just that she didn’t seem to appreciate what her sisters were doing to help the family. Keep telling the “nitty gritty” brother. Have a great day.
"appreciate the help?" just because her sisters were able to provide for her when married to foreigners doesn't mean she have to throw herself to a foreign man... oh you're so gullible, even of they are not married to foreigners they would still be supporting her studies and all.... and that is why it really is frowned upon when you get yourself a foreigner to better you life.. that is why low class filipinas only date foreigners LOL
dude,it's not like that .... what the hell you're talking about ..... everyone has a preference ....... I'm pretty sure,you have your own too ..... she just wants the best for her & she thinks marrying a filipino is the thing can make her happy ..... & there's nothing wrong with that ..... it's her personal life, it's her choice ...... my uncle has 6 sisters in law,all of them are married to westerners & only my aunt is married to a filipino which is my uncle ..... my aunt told me,she just wants to marry a filipino & not only filipino,but a filipino who speaks the same language as her,she said,she never had any desire to marry someone from a different race ...... that's her preference & there's nothing wrong with that ...... as a filipino,my 1st option is to marry a filipina someday, although, I'm also open to marrying women from other race ...... but my 1st option will always be marrying a filipino & there's nothing wrong with that cuz that's my preference ...... anyway, it doesn't mean cuz the sister in law had received help from money abroad then she gonna what her other sisters did,even if she's not happy with it ...... you sounded like a salty old man who doesn't respect someone's feelings ...... lastly,i have 5 sisters & all of them are married already & only one is married to a foreigner (a white dude) ..... the reason she married a westerner cuz that's her preference ...... that's it ..... fyi,not all filipinos are eager to marry foreigners, especially the educated ones ..... maybe some of them,but they want to marry someone who's young,who looks like tom,cruise,brad pitt & chris hemsworth not the old,fat,bald foreigners who are already been married once or twice has a couple of kids & grandkids ...... & frankly speaking, if you're a single filipina with no kids,why you should go to a guy who's married before & had kids if you can find a someone who's single & never been married ...... duh, 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 !!!!
This is well said and very true for the most part. I worked in an office for years in Manila with ladies who were well educated and middle class or above and I can assure you most weren’t throwing themselves at foreigners. Most of the foreign hookups are with province girls who don’t have financially stability or their Filipino man left them. Dating a foreigner provides that financial security. You see it all the time with 60+ year olds dating a girl in her 20’s. In most case a key motivation is financial security….no that she always dreamed of marrying her grandfather.this doesn’t mean you have to throw tons of money at them, but you should be realistic behind her reasoning. Next time ask your gf if she would date a Filipino man her grandfathers age and she will most likely give you a look of disgust.
Women the world over are looking for a stable relationship , love, trust, fait, financial security, etc. sex is secondary. That’s not only Filipina but the world over!
Let me repeat, where else do men get off the plane and think that they can have any woman that they see? That's a myth here in the Philippines. You are missing my point but thanks for your feedback.
Really David?? Not in the US. Women want the bag of money 💰, thats it. The modern woman in the US doesn't want love... Don't believe me? Check out the statistics on who files for divorce the most, men or women...
@@UncleKai263 wrong. tons of women marry young broke dumb dudes in the US. conditions in the US are not bad enough for young women to prioritize money/stability over love/romance.
@@ObolonWeener Oh Thailand ? Run😁😆😂😅 I was there in 2008 Lol. Their "love" goes to the highest bidder haha. Filipina are still a much better option but still you have to take your time and do thorough due diligence to establish if she is the real deal that you expect.
What you are saying is true. It's nothing for foreigners to get offended by. They can (Filipinos) relate to their own better than they can relate to a foreigners. Its like this in every culture.. Remember that even with Calvin stating this. There are still over 2 million that are available to date or marry. Peace and blessings! Good video.
This is a mandatory watch for ANY man who desires to date abroad. It applies to every country, not just the Philippines. It took a lot stones to speak a reality that most men can’t even conceptualize. That being said, I’m still paying the Philippines a visit when I get the chance. Salute.
I totally agree with u Calvin and I experience this with my exwife who came from a different culture. No matter how much I showered her with love and gifts, it couldn't override from where she came from. Take your time fellows and invest in their culture and understanding before committed.
He's right. I walked through the mall and felt invisible. I got a few looks here and there, but Filipina's are so acclimated to foreigners today vs 15-20 years ago when Yahoo chat WAS THE SOCIAL MEDIA to find a foreigner. Many Americans back then still did not have a desktop computer let alone an internet connection vs today everyone does. That mysterious aura surrounding a foreigner walking through a mall would have caught looks from every filipina walking by back then. Today I'm sure they have seen the negative side of arrogant, obnoxious drunks and have been turned off somewhat.
Depends on your experience I am 56 6 foot 6 and am very athletic and well built 2 and a half years ago before my Filipina girl I had girls giggling and approaching me at the malls it was overwhelming...so depends on your situation girls everywhere still want a man that looks good and takes care of himself
@@bigkahuna225 Yep. I've read and heard Pinays are nuts over white skinned, tall, masculine featured men who are in shape. Hense the average looking white guy who's in decent shape with a decent income that's viewed by Western women an unattractive, under-achieving chump may be seen as a real "catch" by many Filipinas. Having a solid Western income only adds to the attraction. One white guy from the States said coming to the Phils felt like he was the most popular guy in High School. Reekay, from "Reekay's Life Beyond the Sea" said if you're a reasonably attractive Westerner out with your Filipina Girlfriend and she (girlfriend) leaves for the bathroom or exits for whatever, it's not unusual for Filipinas to slip you their phone number/contact info. One Western Vlogger's girlfriend refers to other Filipinas as "snakes." LOL!
@@johncarlson6472 Oh it's very true, One of the few times My Filipina would leave me by myself, I walked into a jewelry store all girls working there. They all were staring and giggling, one girl came from behind counter looked me right in the eye, and said your a very good looking man and my name is Beth are you here by yourself? I have 3 grown children and consider myself pretty hard by life's little presents thrown at me..but right there I was a ten year old boy who's face went beet red and all I could do was stutter I have to go
@Marife Quijano been there 5 times haven't lived there but I am with a Filipina happily now and for my own experience so not saying your wrong .... I have never found the philipinos to be drunks and loudmouth....I guess if you put yourself in the wrong area like anyplace in the world......
There are 100,000,000 million Filapinos. At least 50,000,000 are woman. That 3.5% is at least 2,000,000 WOMEN and I only need one. I like those odds !!!!!!
There are 350 million in the U.S. and at least 150 million are women. But at least 100 million of those women are overweight, many are single mother, many are ugly, many are broke, most have a bad attitude.
I think that most people are more comfortable being with someone of the same culture. A relationship of any kind can be very hard, and when you are the same culture it helps relieve one of the problems.
This is so true.... i dated a Filipina woman for more than 20 years when I was in the military and she was married to a white guy. Only for security I thought... but she really wanted a brown Filipina man to make her feel right. However, I am not Filipino, I'm Latino..... but it didn't matter to her........ I would say she fitted in the 3%.
What is different from All Women who wanted an ATM Card vs Filipino Women? Wherever you are the Women want the Same not just one Group! Women want Providers!
Excellent! The way you deliver and articulate your experiences and thoughts! Your messages and the perceptions are very sharp and 100% true! I'm married for 35 yrs and living in the US with a filipina from one of the fortunate Manila families but I have been able to view filipino's and the country from both sides of the equation and gain a unique insight and perspective. You ARE on POINT with all that you shared! Be safe n enjoy!
What's so contradictory about a myth that foreign men believe that when we arrive here we can have any woman in the Philippines? You guys are missing the point of the vlog but thanks for watching.
@@calroach1 The contradiction is not in what foreigners believe. The contradiction is what Philipinas prefer. We have been told by many sources on UA-cam (including accounts by Philipinas) that they prefer and want foreigners, especially White skin foreigners (and age differences not being a deterrent) but these same Philipinas are hardly, never seen on UA-cam with Philipino partners who are significantly older showing off their love and respect for them. That's all I'm saying...if that makes any sense. Keep doing what you're doing. I enjoy your content. 😁👍
@@canderson718 I'm giving you my perspective. I watched those videos and vloggers too and that's why I decided to create my channel to be in contrast to a lot of that cringy BS. Filipinas prefer Filipino men and once we realize that we can't just come over here and have any woman we want it puts things in perspective.
@@canderson718 If you believe what women say you are already loosing. These UA-camrs you are referring to will tell you anything to get you to watch their videos. UA-cam is a business that pays by the clicks. Female logic is the same everywhere, hypergamous. It's funny watching these expats get so excited about the 1s, 2s, and 3s they're pulling. What's the point.
Actually there are many with more the 4 inches. But the reality is a loving, loyal and honest partner is more important. Sex is a bonus for sure but not on top of the list. Regardless who you are or where you come from makes no difference. Make her feel loved, respected and cared for. That’s what is most important.
You missed the whole point of the video. It is to dispel the myth that every Filipina wants a foreigner or foreigners have their pick of women here. Its not about the size. I used that to make my point. Thanks.
Culture triumphs every time!! The ties that bind cultures together are tougher than we can imagine. It is a possibility that when you marry or date someone from another country or background that you may loose them to their culture. So stay frosty🥶 and cover your 6.
Yep either more than likely that their women cheated on them or they just can't find women of their own kind. Maybe their women wasn't satisfied of what they had as well which led to cheating.. some may just lust have that prowess sex drive and finding out it's not all that!
I don't about anybody's size but as you said Filipinas look first for compatability in a relationship and that will be highest with a Filipino. But, if they ended a relationship or 2 due to cheating by the guy, then they will be open to most foreigners most of the time.
That was a very nice reality check. And for them to give us context about the dating options in that country. Thank you very much for helping us to stay humble.
I'm addressing the falsehood that foreigners have their pick of women here not the obvious. That's in every country with one big difference - men don't come to that country thinking they can have any woman that they please.
@@calroach1 Your preaching to the choir. It’s absurd how many Americans feel the world revolves around them and they bring that same attitude to other countries
Great video. Of course most filipina's would prefer someone from their own country until they've had a bad experience that makes them see the benefits of what a foreigner can offer them. Every woman in America is a leftover woman who's had who only knows how many before you, regardless if they're 18, 25, or 30 plus. I'm just thankful that a small percentage of these wonderful filipina women will consider us as options. :)
It doesn't matter what your preference is, it is always wrong to generalize. There are good and bad women of every race anything else is just not the truth.
Calvin I really like your style and the way in which you address your content, with relevant comment and information. There would be quite a few foreigners who seriously need to heed your content. Thanks mate for sharing your boots on the ground ‘nitty gritty’ which is as good as it gets in The Philippines.
Thanks always Calvin for keeping it real. Now this is real talk at it’s best. There’s a lot of men that need to hear it just like this and I’m one of them.a lot of these younger guys need to take notes.😂😎
In my opinion, the younger guy shouldn’t come over here and waist his time, unless it’s to vacation. These women here and the younger guys really won’t mix well. Priorities are different and the guy is going to be let down unless he’s in a position financially to make a long term commitment.
Calvin, stumbled across your channel a couple months back. Will be moving to Valencia in June 2022. Love your outlook on life. Will make a point to find you when I get there. Keep on telling it like it is. :))
I was married to a Vietnamese-Chinese wife. Adapting to a new culture was much more difficult for her than me. It didn't work out. Cross-cultural marriages are very difficult.
Hi Calvin, thanks for the excellent frank information. Hopefully, western men will be more humbled by this reality and approach Filipinas with a more positive and humble attitude.
Thanks Calvin. Now please bear with me. Here's my take on the Filipina preference. There's a list and a shared mother-tongue is at the top of that list! Why? I'm guessing it lies in the first word, "mother." I have spent time in about 25 different countries and after hearing the local language for a few days, it warms my heart when I hear my mother-tongue. Other people have said the same thing. I was in the Hanoi (Vietnam) area a few years ago, where English is rarely heard. One day my Viet friends and I were out when I heard a Viet tour guide speaking German--a language I understand fairly well. I was instantly drawn to the group, and started joking with the guide--in German (Usually I'm a shy person). A few hours later, I heard a guide speaking French, another familiar language, and again I was drawn to a familiar and soothing sound. I'm not sure what penis size has to do with anything--really! Lesbians despite having not the same equipment as men, are happy with each other. My bigger point: learn a lot of the woman's language--AND her culture, and your chances will be improved. I've been there. Done that.
PI men will always have the home field advantage. I thought I had a chance with a lady, but she chose a local instead. Language and culture are big factors. Stay safe brotherman.
Filipino men has thousand of years of female courtship training, most foreigners are not aware of this tradition. They know what buttons to push when it comes to Filipino women.
Most do not care about that 4"s...... They can get that from any man... They really want to know......what can you do for her future, do not bring empty handed.....she already almost empty...... If she wanted poverty, she already living that situation..... Unless she was feed with a Silver Spoon....
You missed my point totally it's not about the 4" how many times must I say it? I am addressing a myth that foreigners can have any woman in the Philippines that they want. It's an old tired message that keeps getting spun out here and I wanted to let men know that it's not true. Overwhelming majority of Filipinas will never consider dating a foreigner for any reason.
@@calroach1 .....Thank You, Mr. Calvin.... See, many foreigners think they can have any women....that's a male ego pride thinking issue.... They all still thinking they can get any women..... Why do many Philippine Women chose Philippine men is because they set their eyes on thinking it's an impossible dream to achieve a foreigner as a husband... The availability of Philippine men is abundant to chose from..... But, that 3% still achieve that impossible dream.... If the foreigner would throw away his ego and his problems from his past....not bring them with him....he might achieve being able to be in that 3%....
I hate when her and her Filipino man have the agreement when the foreigners come to see her that he will stay away till he leaves and all the money the foreigner is giving her maybe support she’s giving some of that money to her Filipino man and then when she Marrys the foreigner it’s all good she will divorce the foreigner one day become a us citizen then petition her Filipino man to come and join her that’s how they do it scary to think about but it happens.
So true Calvin. My one filipina niece just left the U.S. to go spend time with her Filipino bf. She went to High school here in Indiana and still prefers filipino. Her sister had an American experience and also decided she prefers filipino. I'm talking about two knockouts that cannot be obtained by a foreigner. You're right, they mostly prefer filipino. I only prefer a filipina! I hit the jackpot 7 years ago😂 For the guy who didn't win with a filipina, the next one will probably be the grand slam.
You make a good point saying filipinas prefer to marry filipino men because he can better relate to her struggles in life more so than a foreign man. But you go off track saying she prefers him because of his 4", that really isn't the primary reason. She prefers him because he's in the same boat and there's a genuine connection between them. She tolerates his 4" because he offers emotional support, which is most important to her.
I never said she prefers him for his 4" go back and watch again. I said despite the apparent advantages you may have and his shortcomings she will choose him 96.5% of the time. Get real man.
@@calroach1 You said right at the beginning, "The subject of my blog today is the fantastic 4 inches." Makes it sound like just another "D" video. Bad choice of title.
i have a pinay gf 6 yrs we are getting married but covd got in the way - anyway i am 7 and i am too long for her comfortably. I said you would prefer 5 she said yes if you are 5 it would be better. Duh of course.
That’s another myth only the lower socioeconomic class maybe but the upper class and rich stick to their own for the most part young upper class and higher filipinas are NOT even thinking about foreigners especially senior citizens at that its true what Calvin is saying.
@@IncognitoXYZ upper class Filipinas end up alone and single. High value top 1% Men don't give a damn about women's accomplishments and resources when it comes to picking a mate. As a matter of fact they tend to stay away from these sort of women because they tend to be super entitled, obnoxious and way more demanding than plain Jane with just a simple retail job but is still plain gorgeous. That is why so many very successful, financially well off women in America end up single in America too. So it is the case in the Philippines. They get all these high level degrees and great careers and they think those things are going to attract high value top 5% men. It does not. As a matter of fact it repelled them. The maximum they will do is sleep with them but when it comes to actually commit they want a plain jane woman who will be feminine, submit and follow their lead.
@@ericlee2931 Thats the point the small upper class stick with each other if you believe some old foreigner is gonna come to the Philippines and get a young supermodel or an actress or model anyone in that light you are surely delusional they dont bat an eye at foreigners none of these vloggers have wives from upper class/hi society or even middle class only provincial poor women which should tell you something that’s just the reality.
Me and my Prom Date are still like that… We always circle back from time to time, over the past 30 yrs. And it’s always good. She widowed, I’m divorced. We live a few states apart. But that bond will always be there.
While it's true when Calvin says that you "can't run up on any woman you see" in the Phils, for the average guy from the USA (that's treated like an unattractive, under-achieving chump by American women), coming to the Phils where beautiful Pinays are way, way more approachable (even if they're not into you) is a refreshing, if not pleasantly shocking change.
....blind, crippled or crazy....!!! This cracked me up because it caught me off guard. That was a good one, in the midst of a very serious discussion. Keep them coming. Be safe.
SS..man , I am waiting for the day when you say…I am gonna start“ sugar coat “ the information starting now..😅.. K.Soldier keep representing . Blessed👈🏿
I think anyone prefers their own first. You have a common culture, language and many other things. When you get into dating and dealing with people from different countries and cultures it can be hard. Many other countries outside of the west seem to have a more nationalist viewpoint. Like you said in your video it's enough to go around over there but I see how certain people can be cocky.
There was a few women over here interested in me when all I wanted was the girl in Pagadian I knew. I never got to tie the knot with the girl in Pagadian but I did find a nice lady, without any internet introduction, and we have been together for over 15yrs.
I just discovered your channel. Thank you for your video. I appreciate everything that you had to say. I've actually been planning on coming to the Philippines to live because I will be 50 in a year and a half. Right now I am talking to a Filipina, however I do have experience going to the Philippines. I've been to Manila... I've been to Baguio and a few other places. But it's been about 9 since I last went there. Also I was born at Clark Air Force Base in the Philippines. The only goal that I have right now that matters is making enough money to get over to the Philippines. As a an American black man, I know that going to the Philippines is going to change my life forever. I'm so glad that there is a community of my Brothas, getting out of the US and going to a place where we are welcome and we are not under threat for our daily lives, and not being treated less than human like we are here in the States. I'm so glad that you were able to get out for so long. May your success continue!
😂😂😂 she still prefers that fantastic four inches, the smallest in the world. You killing me Calvin!...tell it on brother, it's honestly very humorous but very informative too. Thanks Calvin
Ha ha ha,I laughed too because my fil ex bf has so small p..... too, but I experienced with him 1 time the whole night or again and again, the one who took my virginity.
I was crazy in love with him because my family said that I have to preserve my virginity for my future husband because that is very important to Fil man. We filipina, most of us we remain loyal to our bf especially to the man who took our virginity. We don't have the idea of changing our bf but unfortunately my ex fil bf was heartless. He took my virginity when I was 21 yrs.old and then he simply just dumped me. I am not ugly but he prefer his exgf fil who is married to a japanese rich old man. So... I moved on and now I am happily married with my german husband and we have 3 kids here.
@@rudes440sb How is a few inches of the manhood a humiliation?...will it not be a humiliation if it was a couple of inches long?..it is true what psychologists say; that majority of men worry about their sizes down there when it shouldn't really matter. Ask any woman bro; size doesn't matter, what matters is how you use the instrument. Calvin is NOT insulting anybody, he is just mentioning the size please!, unless you're one of those men who worry about their sizes, then what Calvin says shouldn't really be an insult.
I remember when i stayed at manila then american guy approached me..and he asked me to have a lunchdate at Jolibee ahahhaha...he was so arrogant...feeling handsome lol ...ir u want to find a good filipina..be kind ,humble,sensitive,trust worthy,and God fearing..for sure u will have a great catch..
Like you have said in the past Calvin, don't go looking to get tied down from the jump. Before you parachute in, get your intel briefing, i.e. (Your Postings) Once your In Country (Survey your gear and verify that your " Equipment is Clean and in good working order":) and finally, you have to be able to "Adapt, Overcome and Improvise" Calvin, you would make an effective Recon Marine, providing the Intel for the Troops getting ready to Embark to the Philippines. Best wishes from me and the guys, again, Well Done my friend. Semper Fi
Thank you Calvin for reminding the newcomer, and all of us, to be respectful to Filipinas during our interactions while getting to know them. They have choices, too.
When they single they want pinoys. They get knocked up with 1 or 2 kids and dumped then they want YOU the foreigners. Facts. I ain't playing no 2nd division football league Am all Premier League balling period. If the kind of Pinay I like ain't checking for me that's cool but me checking for leftover ? Naaah #Neverrrr. I'm just chillout with my pinoy friends there, when my vacation is over am out. #Simples 😎
@@davidwatson2785 Respect them sure but don't be a sucker because some them perceive we foreigners like that trust me I been around them long enough to see and observe the good and bad side.
It's not rocket science, they share a culture, background, and language. But you're talking about the lower income. My wife of going on 15 years came from a Lower Middle-Class family. There isn't a doubt in my mind, she would be married right now to a Filipino if she could have found the right one. She wasn't interested in a foreigner. She hadn't found him and she wasn't getting any younger. She had a friend that was married to an American. She took an interest, her friend introduced us, she was 34, lucky me. Middle-Class income families are harder, but not impossible. Upper Middle Class and beyond, forget about it, for the most part.
@ David Spicer, lucky for us foreigners that a majority of the population in PH are Lower Middle-Class or lower lower and poverty levels. If the majority were middle class and upper middle class the foreigners would be fighting to find a women. Especially older men like myself.
I'm addressing the old tired narrative that foreigners can have any Filipina that they want and it's not true. Anything else you get from the video is on you. Thanks for watching.
@@danielhackney7806 The majority here I think are the poor and the low-income. Probably somewhere around 60 million people. The Lower Middle-Class, or Lower Middle Income, now starts at around P22,000 a month and tops out at about twice that. It was MUCH lower when I moved here almost 15 years ago.
@@calroach1 I guess some are unaware that there are women here not interested in foreigners. And the middle income up, it gets worse the farther up the social classes that you go. Many have no interest in foreigners whatsoever. And they aren't necessarily rich.
So does that mean smaller guys have an advantage in the Phil? Of course, if you were her first (rare), they have nothing to compare it with. Most of the woman in the US want supersized now. When we come over do we want a woman with the same attitudes as the women we left behind? I'd say that's an emphatic no! Maybe the truth is that you attract those who you are aligned and compatible with. A filipina is not for every foreigner, nor is every foreigner for a filipina. There's a certain 'fit' required (IMV).
What does your feedback have to do with my video? Obviously you have missed the point. It's not about the size of the Filipino it's about the myth that foreign men can have any woman over here. Thanks.
@@calroach1 Not meaning to offend. I was just pondering your assertion. Sure, many women would have commonality with guys from their own culture and who speak their language, and that would be an advantage, all else being equal. The size thing is a little funny, so I just thew that in there for good measure. You know, it's a shaming thing among blue pilled guys, and western women. So a lot of western guys bring that attitude over. I even heard a 'joke' that smaller guys go for Asian women because they've been shamed by western women. Good luck to a guy anywhere thinking he can have any woman (god's gift, Mr $$$, or delusions of grandeur?). I could be wrong, but I don't think a Filipina is right for just any dude. They have a kind of 'emotional structure' that you either grok, jibe with, or you don't. They tend to be romantic, and often overly possessive at times. For myself, they are the most heavenly creatures on earth, as imperfect as they might be. I also agree with your advice to not just settle for the first Filipina that comes along. Just enjoy what the Philippines has to offer first. Keep up the good work!
Calvin Big Bruh !!!I Much Luv and Respect..... .. Be Careful !!! Filipino Men May take the 4inches Statement as a Insult even though it's a Study Best to Stay Clear of that type ofConversation in your Host Country God make us Men Basically the Same Anyway.
My video is not about the size of the Filipino or anyone else. Please don't miss that point. I respect people and my over 600 videos will show you exactly how I feel about Filipinos. Thanks. As a matter of fact I have a whole Facebook page dedicated to helping Filipinos during the pandemic.
enjoy watching your videos, im a 33 year old black/mexican male. the past few years i have just felt stuck here in texas and i have seriously been considering just picking up and moving to the Philippines. the country is beautiful. maybe life could be better there.
Brilliant topic in my opinion - keep it going Calvin 👏😂 But like I said somewhere else - it’s not top of their ‘shopping list’ Love Care Understanding Provision Are far more important If you find that one that truly loves you have hit the jackpot but if it’s all sex based you will live a sad and lonely existence because your aims were purely carnal ..I’ve seen many so called kings down below get dumped eventually as the novelty wears off ...normally cause they lack love or are uncaring or tight with money or simply offer nothing else ...unless of course you just get plain ‘unlucky’
From my visits I’d agree I don’t think they get over excited with foreigners as much as people make out. A better title as a suggestion should simply state - Filipinos prefer Filipinos lol
Thanks for the truth facts I always welcome thanks sunshine and that's understandable she wants someone that's compatible who knows her struggle and I can understand that so if it wasn't for you I wouldn't know nothing about a Philippine woman thanks bro
I've never thought that I could have any woman I want (I ain't that delusional) but when I went to the Philippines it nearly seemed that way tbh, saying that I'm 28 years old, white, tall and decent looking. A lot of girls straight up told me they wanted my babies, jokingly not so jokingly so..but yea of course I agree it's delusional of all foreigners to think they could have anyone they want. It's more straightforward for two natives of a country to be together
The Fantastic 4 Inches . Caloman you about killed me before getting over there nearly passed out laughing Lmao ! So funny but It don't get more real than that !! 🔥
Thanks for stopping by today my vlog is addressing the myth that foreign men have their pick of women here, it's not true. This vlog is not about the size of the Filipino I use it to make my point. Please don't miss this. I apologize so many missed my point. Take care.
Watch the video again , you missed the point altogether. My vlog is about Filipino women preferring Filipino men. Thanks.
That is so so true! I have been married twice(1st one died) to Filipina and still married for 13 yrs . They majority of Filipinas prefer their own. Do not get in a situation where they make more money than you because you will see a drastic change. It does not matter if you were the one who helped them achieve the higher position. They seem to have a thing, where whoever is making more money or higher degree status rules. Cooperation and dual leadership is not their way. I have seen it in Filipino church I attended. I see how the wives who are nurses treat their Filipino husbands. I even witnessed it in a supermarket while in Davao back in 2006. Be careful guys . The Filipina you bring here in the US can easily become they type of women you left the US to avoid and may even be worst because you invested so much into her. Please have a backup plan, when dealing with any woman in general. While you may have been upfront about what you want in the relationship, she may be just going along with you to achieve her goals. She may even still love you but her true colors will show eventually then you are stuck with making the decision of wether or not you want to be with that type of woman. My first wife had a thing, that we never go to sleep angry at each other, so issues were always cleared up by the end of the day. Well, that is NOT THE NORM with Filipinas. Although most Filipinas are Christians, they will give silent treatment from 2 to 3 weeks for the smallest disagreements. Most Filipinas do not care about eating healthy, so if you are health conscious, look for a Filipina that is already into doing that. The Filipina who wants you, will go along with healthy eating to make you feel everything is ok, but once you are married or/and they making more money, they will tell you that it is not for them. Please be quiet, and find the ones which are the way you want.
Very well said. I haven't had a relationship with a Filipina but I've observed exactly what you described of men who have.
I'm a Filipino and watch Sunshine Shoulders' UA-cam channel from time to time because I like how he narrates he's funny and animated... I watched this video because of an offended Filipina about the Filipino's 4 inches 😂 this taken out of context but I get what he's saying.
This is Hilarious though😂
Calvin, I first moved to the Philippines in 99. The number of foreigners who are decent and good "Husband material" is only a fraction of foreign men who visit the Philippines. In 20 years of experience I can say that more filipinas would marry a good foreigner, if they were around. I have often been asked by very pretty and intelligent filipinas if I "Knew anyone...". Usually, the answer is no. Here is another observation of years, without the "Sugar coating" as you say. At least half, maybe more, of the men who come to the Philippines are CRETINS who I would not recommend to ANY decent Filipina. This was the case 20 years ago and it still the case today.
I guess it depends a little on your personal circle don't ya think? If you know that many scum bags, it's not a great reflection on you, unless you're just talking to every white face you encounter on the street and you have incredible skills to read a guy instantly. The majority of guys I got to know are decent people. I learn about most despicable guys on the vlogs I watch. I dunno...
‘99 you go way back! To when seeing another westerner on the ground was pretty rare! My first trip was ‘04 I was 23 then. ‘99 was in the era of exclusively the 747 for the long haul flights! And northwest and continental flew into the country. And when Air Philippines and Sea air existed domestically.
You hit another one out the ballpark. In the years that I’ve been visiting, dating and living in the Philippines, this is so true. Foreigners get the rejects and leftovers of Filipino men. We get all the single mother’s, and all the women that have been used and abused. Of course, not all 100% of the women that we get but a vast majority.
I have a friend who is married to a Filipina, and has three sisters.
Two of those sisters are married to foreigners, one is from Norway, the other Japan. The younger sister is not married yet. I asked her if she would like me to introduce her to one of my friends from the US. She didn’t say no, she said hell NO. I was shocked, that all her sisters had foreigners for partners, and she didn’t want. Talked to my buddy, and he told me she only want a Filipino, and he has tried to set her up and was told no. So even when her life was made easier by the money that was being sent from overseas, and she was able to go to college because of the money, she still wants a Filipino. I don’t blame her, it’s just that she didn’t seem to appreciate what her sisters were doing to help the family.
Keep telling the “nitty gritty” brother. Have a great day.
"appreciate the help?" just because her sisters were able to provide for her when married to foreigners doesn't mean she have to throw herself to a foreign man... oh you're so gullible, even of they are not married to foreigners they would still be supporting her studies and all.... and that is why it really is frowned upon when you get yourself a foreigner to better you life.. that is why low class filipinas only date foreigners LOL
dude,it's not like that .... what the hell you're talking about ..... everyone has a preference ....... I'm pretty sure,you have your own too ..... she just wants the best for her & she thinks marrying a filipino is the thing can make her happy ..... & there's nothing wrong with that ..... it's her personal life, it's her choice ...... my uncle has 6 sisters in law,all of them are married to westerners & only my aunt is married to a filipino which is my uncle ..... my aunt told me,she just wants to marry a filipino & not only filipino,but a filipino who speaks the same language as her,she said,she never had any desire to marry someone from a different race ...... that's her preference & there's nothing wrong with that ...... as a filipino,my 1st option is to marry a filipina someday, although, I'm also open to marrying women from other race ...... but my 1st option will always be marrying a filipino & there's nothing wrong with that cuz that's my preference ...... anyway, it doesn't mean cuz the sister in law had received help from money abroad then she gonna what her other sisters did,even if she's not happy with it ...... you sounded like a salty old man who doesn't respect someone's feelings ...... lastly,i have 5 sisters & all of them are married already & only one is married to a foreigner (a white dude) ..... the reason she married a westerner cuz that's her preference ...... that's it ..... fyi,not all filipinos are eager to marry foreigners, especially the educated ones ..... maybe some of them,but they want to marry someone who's young,who looks like tom,cruise,brad pitt & chris hemsworth not the old,fat,bald foreigners who are already been married once or twice has a couple of kids & grandkids ...... & frankly speaking, if you're a single filipina with no kids,why you should go to a guy who's married before & had kids if you can find a someone who's single & never been married ...... duh, 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 !!!!
This is well said and very true for the most part. I worked in an office for years in Manila with ladies who were well educated and middle class or above and I can assure you most weren’t throwing themselves at foreigners. Most of the foreign hookups are with province girls who don’t have financially stability or their Filipino man left them. Dating a foreigner provides that financial security. You see it all the time with 60+ year olds dating a girl in her 20’s. In most case a key motivation is financial security….no that she always dreamed of marrying her grandfather.this doesn’t mean you have to throw tons of money at them, but you should be realistic behind her reasoning. Next time ask your gf if she would date a Filipino man her grandfathers age and she will most likely give you a look of disgust.
exactly right ..... I'm a filipino & i know what you're talking ......
Women the world over are looking for a stable relationship , love, trust, fait, financial security, etc. sex is secondary. That’s not only Filipina but the world over!
Let me repeat, where else do men get off the plane and think that they can have any woman that they see? That's a myth here in the Philippines. You are missing my point but thanks for your feedback.
Really David?? Not in the US. Women want the bag of money 💰, thats it. The modern woman in the US doesn't want love... Don't believe me? Check out the statistics on who files for divorce the most, men or women...
@@UncleKai263 wrong. tons of women marry young broke dumb dudes in the US. conditions in the US are not bad enough for young women to prioritize money/stability over love/romance.
t@@calroach1 Thailand LOL. Really easy to find a relationship overthere! It's all about the money.
@@ObolonWeener Oh Thailand ? Run😁😆😂😅 I was there in 2008 Lol. Their "love" goes to the highest bidder haha. Filipina are still a much better option but still you have to take your time and do thorough due diligence to establish if she is the real deal that you expect.
What you are saying is true. It's nothing for foreigners to get offended by. They can (Filipinos) relate to their own better than they can relate to a foreigners. Its like this in every culture.. Remember that even with Calvin stating this. There are still over 2 million that are available to date or marry. Peace and blessings! Good video.
Yup.. plenty of this 2-3 million will be 6+!
This is a mandatory watch for ANY man who desires to date abroad. It applies to every country, not just the Philippines. It took a lot stones to speak a reality that most men can’t even conceptualize. That being said, I’m still paying the Philippines a visit when I get the chance. Salute.
then don't date abroad and deal with your own women...😖
They are also tired of Filipino men not being able to provide for them and they are looking for a better life.
Exactly and i have had them in my Family over 32 years.
I totally agree with u Calvin and I experience this with my exwife who came from a different culture. No matter how much I showered her with love and gifts, it couldn't override from where she came from. Take your time fellows and invest in their culture and understanding before committed.
Yes Sir wisdom words right there.
He's right. I walked through the mall and felt invisible. I got a few looks here and there, but Filipina's are so acclimated to foreigners today vs 15-20 years ago when Yahoo chat WAS THE SOCIAL MEDIA to find a foreigner. Many Americans back then still did not have a desktop computer let alone an internet connection vs today everyone does. That mysterious aura surrounding a foreigner walking through a mall would have caught looks from every filipina walking by back then. Today I'm sure they have seen the negative side of arrogant, obnoxious drunks and have been turned off somewhat.
Depends on your experience I am 56 6 foot 6 and am very athletic and well built 2 and a half years ago before my Filipina girl I had girls giggling and approaching me at the malls it was overwhelming...so depends on your situation girls everywhere still want a man that looks good and takes care of himself
@@bigkahuna225 Yes, and I bet you shave and brush you teeth daily, makes a big difference.
@@bigkahuna225 Yep. I've read and heard Pinays are nuts over white skinned, tall, masculine featured men who are in shape. Hense the average looking white guy who's in decent shape with a decent income that's viewed by Western women an unattractive, under-achieving chump may be seen as a real "catch" by many Filipinas. Having a solid Western income only adds to the attraction. One white guy from the States said coming to the Phils felt like he was the most popular guy in High School. Reekay, from "Reekay's Life Beyond the Sea" said if you're a reasonably attractive Westerner out with your Filipina Girlfriend and she (girlfriend) leaves for the bathroom or exits for whatever, it's not unusual for Filipinas to slip you their phone number/contact info. One Western Vlogger's girlfriend refers to other Filipinas as "snakes." LOL!
@@johncarlson6472 Oh it's very true, One of the few times My Filipina would leave me by myself, I walked into a jewelry store all girls working there. They all were staring and giggling, one girl came from behind counter looked me right in the eye, and said your a very good looking man and my name is Beth are you here by yourself? I have 3 grown children and consider myself pretty hard by life's little presents thrown at me..but right there I was a ten year old boy who's face went beet red and all I could do was stutter I have to go
@Marife Quijano been there 5 times haven't lived there but I am with a Filipina happily now and for my own experience so not saying your wrong .... I have never found the philipinos to be drunks and loudmouth....I guess if you put yourself in the wrong area like anyplace in the world......
There are 100,000,000 million Filapinos. At least 50,000,000 are woman. That 3.5% is at least 2,000,000 WOMEN and I only need one. I like those odds !!!!!!
Exactly I actually forgot to make that point thanks for making it for me!
There are 350 million in the U.S. and at least 150 million are women. But at least 100 million of those women are overweight, many are single mother, many are ugly, many are broke, most have a bad attitude.
I think that most people are more comfortable being with someone of the same culture. A relationship of any kind can be very hard, and when you are the same culture it helps relieve one of the problems.
This is so true.... i dated a Filipina woman for more than 20 years when I was in the military and she was married to a white guy. Only for security I thought... but she really wanted a brown Filipina man to make her feel right. However, I am not Filipino, I'm Latino..... but it didn't matter to her........ I would say she fitted in the 3%.
They don't want you but they damn sure want your ATM card....
I think sometimes they pretend things
And visa to your country if they can wing it
What is different from All Women who wanted an ATM Card vs Filipino Women? Wherever you are the Women want the Same not just one Group! Women want Providers!
That's all women...
@@timothybright7064 too bad the only thing that they can bring to the table is a vagina...And maybe a kid or two.
Excellent! The way you deliver and articulate your experiences and thoughts! Your messages and the perceptions are very sharp and 100% true! I'm married for 35 yrs and living in the US with a filipina from one of the fortunate Manila families but I have been able to view filipino's and the country from both sides of the equation and gain a unique insight and perspective. You ARE on POINT with all that you shared! Be safe n enjoy!
There's SO much contradictory information on this topic it's difficult to keep track of and determine who to believe.
What's so contradictory about a myth that foreign men believe that when we arrive here we can have any woman in the Philippines? You guys are missing the point of the vlog but thanks for watching.
@@calroach1 The contradiction is not in what foreigners believe. The contradiction is what Philipinas prefer. We have been told by many sources on UA-cam (including accounts by Philipinas) that they prefer and want foreigners, especially White skin foreigners (and age differences not being a deterrent) but these same Philipinas are hardly, never seen on UA-cam with Philipino partners who are significantly older showing off their love and respect for them. That's all I'm saying...if that makes any sense.
Keep doing what you're doing. I enjoy your content. 😁👍
@@canderson718 I'm giving you my perspective. I watched those videos and vloggers too and that's why I decided to create my channel to be in contrast to a lot of that cringy BS. Filipinas prefer Filipino men and once we realize that we can't just come over here and have any woman we want it puts things in perspective.
@@canderson718 If you believe what women say you are already loosing. These UA-camrs you are referring to will tell you anything to get you to watch their videos. UA-cam is a business that pays by the clicks. Female logic is the same everywhere, hypergamous. It's funny watching these expats get so excited about the 1s, 2s, and 3s they're pulling. What's the point.
@@aphantasiagreyman8445 You get no arguments from me. I agree.
Actually there are many with more the 4 inches. But the reality is a loving, loyal and honest partner is more important. Sex is a bonus for sure but not on top of the list. Regardless who you are or where you come from makes no difference. Make her feel loved, respected and cared for. That’s what is most important.
You missed the whole point of the video. It is to dispel the myth that every Filipina wants a foreigner or foreigners have their pick of women here. Its not about the size. I used that to make my point. Thanks.
Sort of makes you wonder how this guy aquired the information doesn't it?
Culture triumphs every time!! The ties that bind cultures together are tougher than we can imagine. It is a possibility that when you marry or date someone from another country or background that you may loose them to their culture. So stay frosty🥶 and cover your 6.
"So stay frosty and cover your 6."
LMAO!! 🤣
GOOD call!! 😎💪👍
Most men who go to the Philippines had their heartbroken by women in their own country. Sounds even to me
Yep either more than likely that their women cheated on them or they just can't find women of their own kind. Maybe their women wasn't satisfied of what they had as well which led to cheating.. some may just lust have that prowess sex drive and finding out it's not all that!
I don't about anybody's size but as you said Filipinas look first for compatability in a relationship and that will be highest with a Filipino. But, if they ended a relationship or 2 due to cheating by the guy, then they will be open to most foreigners most of the time.
Four inches between your ears, not your pants.
That was a very nice reality check. And for them to give us context about the dating options in that country. Thank you very much for helping us to stay humble.
Damn Calvin, you put it on us in this one! It's true though. We're operating on the fringes of the Filipino relationship spectrum.
I have quite a few pinoy friends. They are great guys and good friends. I can see why these women prefer their own men
I'm addressing the falsehood that foreigners have their pick of women here not the obvious. That's in every country with one big difference - men don't come to that country thinking they can have any woman that they please.
@@calroach1 Your preaching to the choir. It’s absurd how many Americans feel the world revolves around them and they bring that same attitude to other countries
Great reminder and message Calvin!
Thank you brother!
Great video. Of course most filipina's would prefer someone from their own country until they've had a bad experience that makes them see the benefits of what a foreigner can offer them. Every woman in America is a leftover woman who's had who only knows how many before you, regardless if they're 18, 25, or 30 plus. I'm just thankful that a small percentage of these wonderful filipina women will consider us as options. :)
It doesn't matter what your preference is, it is always wrong to generalize. There are good and bad women of every race anything else is just not the truth.
Yes
Calvin I really like your style and the way in which you address your content, with relevant comment and information. There would be quite a few foreigners who seriously need to heed your content. Thanks mate for sharing your boots on the ground ‘nitty gritty’ which is as good as it gets in The Philippines.
Thanks always Calvin for keeping it real. Now this is real talk at it’s best. There’s a lot of men that need to hear it just like this and I’m one of them.a lot of these younger guys need to take notes.😂😎
In my opinion, the younger guy shouldn’t come over here and waist his time, unless it’s to vacation. These women here and the younger guys really won’t mix well. Priorities are different and the guy is going to be let down unless he’s in a position financially to make a long term commitment.
Keeping it real as always, thanks for the insight Calvin.
I appreciate you shooting it to us straight, stay healthy and good luck.
Calvin, stumbled across your channel a couple months back. Will be moving to Valencia in June 2022. Love your outlook on life. Will make a point to find you when I get there. Keep on telling it like it is. :))
You're 100% on target... Been around since 2008, n married to Filipina in the past, who is now with a filAm in the USA.
I was married to a Vietnamese-Chinese wife. Adapting to a new culture was much more difficult for her than me. It didn't work out. Cross-cultural marriages are very difficult.
They're very difficult but gratifying when they work. Thanks for your feedback.
Thank you brother Calvin for answering my question of what was the best and what was the worst.
Do you actually live in Seattle? we should talk
@@BLACKEAGLE13780 I live in Poulsbo Washington but people do not know Poulsbo so I say Seattle which is 1 hr and 20 min away
Hi Calvin, thanks for the excellent frank information. Hopefully, western men will be more humbled by this reality and approach Filipinas with a more positive and humble attitude.
Absolutely Randall and more realistic.
Those are the keys to having success, great points!
Thanks Calvin. Now please bear with me. Here's my take on the Filipina preference. There's a list and a shared mother-tongue is at the top of that list! Why? I'm guessing it lies in the first word, "mother." I have spent time in about 25 different countries and after hearing the local language for a few days, it warms my heart when I hear my mother-tongue. Other people have said the same thing. I was in the Hanoi (Vietnam) area a few years ago, where English is rarely heard. One day my Viet friends and I were out when I heard a Viet tour guide speaking German--a language I understand fairly well. I was instantly drawn to the group, and started joking with the guide--in German (Usually I'm a shy person). A few hours later, I heard a guide speaking French, another familiar language, and again I was drawn to a familiar and soothing sound. I'm not sure what penis size has to do with anything--really! Lesbians despite having not the same equipment as men, are happy with each other. My bigger point: learn a lot of the woman's language--AND her culture, and your chances will be improved. I've been there. Done that.
PI men will always have the home field advantage. I thought I had a chance with a lady, but she chose a local instead. Language and culture are big factors. Stay safe brotherman.
Filipino men has thousand of years of female courtship training, most foreigners are not aware of this tradition. They know what buttons to push when it comes to Filipino women.
Next video, you can talk about the magical dime size hole!
Most do not care about that 4"s...... They can get that from any man... They really want to know......what can you do for her future, do not bring empty handed.....she already almost empty...... If she wanted poverty, she already living that situation..... Unless she was feed with a Silver Spoon....
You missed my point totally it's not about the 4" how many times must I say it? I am addressing a myth that foreigners can have any woman in the Philippines that they want. It's an old tired message that keeps getting spun out here and I wanted to let men know that it's not true. Overwhelming majority of Filipinas will never consider dating a foreigner for any reason.
@@calroach1 .....Thank You, Mr. Calvin.... See, many foreigners think they can have any women....that's a male ego pride thinking issue.... They all still thinking they can get any women..... Why do many Philippine Women chose Philippine men is because they set their eyes on thinking it's an impossible dream to achieve a foreigner as a husband... The availability of Philippine men is abundant to chose from..... But, that 3% still achieve that impossible dream.... If the foreigner would throw away his ego and his problems from his past....not bring them with him....he might achieve being able to be in that 3%....
I hate when her and her Filipino man have the agreement when the foreigners come to see her that he will stay away till he leaves and all the money the foreigner is giving her maybe support she’s giving some of that money to her Filipino man and then when she Marrys the foreigner it’s all good she will divorce the foreigner one day become a us citizen then petition her Filipino man to come and join her that’s how they do it scary to think about but it happens.
Calvin, you hare hilarious! Keep the great videos coming!!!
Great information Calvin..
Words of wisdom.
Cal sound like he running for office... Love his passion for staying in the Philippines.
I'm glad your telling truth, Filipina in the Philippines prefer Filipinos, especially if she's very educated.
I don't know what it's gonna take for some to realize they not all that and a bag of chips! Had a friend of mine learn this the hard way! Hahaha
So true Calvin. My one filipina niece just left the U.S. to go spend time with her Filipino bf. She went to High school here in Indiana and still prefers filipino. Her sister had an American experience and also decided she prefers filipino. I'm talking about two knockouts that cannot be obtained by a foreigner. You're right, they mostly prefer filipino.
I only prefer a filipina! I hit the jackpot 7 years ago😂
For the guy who didn't win with a filipina, the next one will probably be the grand slam.
You make a good point saying filipinas prefer to marry filipino men because he can better relate to her struggles in life more so than a foreign man. But you go off track saying she prefers him because of his 4", that really isn't the primary reason. She prefers him because he's in the same boat and there's a genuine connection between them. She tolerates his 4" because he offers emotional support, which is most important to her.
I never said she prefers him for his 4" go back and watch again. I said despite the apparent advantages you may have and his shortcomings she will choose him 96.5% of the time. Get real man.
@@calroach1 You said right at the beginning, "The subject of my blog today is the fantastic 4 inches." Makes it sound like just another "D" video. Bad choice of title.
i have a pinay gf 6 yrs we are getting married but covd got in the way - anyway i am 7 and i am too long for her comfortably. I said you would prefer 5 she said yes if you are 5 it would be better. Duh of course.
Men have this thing about sex and their size women don't think like men more important to them is how you treat them which comes with Respect
filipinos don't really care about genital sizes, foreigners are just very oversexual and perverted
But they sure do want a mixed baby. Actually, the mother’s want their daughters to give them a mixed baby.
That’s another myth only the lower socioeconomic class maybe but the upper class and rich stick to their own for the most part young upper class and higher filipinas are NOT even thinking about foreigners especially senior citizens at that its true what Calvin is saying.
@@IncognitoXYZ upper class Filipinas end up alone and single. High value top 1% Men don't give a damn about women's accomplishments and resources when it comes to picking a mate.
As a matter of fact they tend to stay away from these sort of women because they tend to be super entitled, obnoxious and way more demanding than plain Jane with just a simple retail job but is still plain gorgeous.
That is why so many very successful, financially well off women in America end up single in America too.
So it is the case in the Philippines. They get all these high level degrees and great careers and they think those things are going to attract high value top 5% men.
It does not.
As a matter of fact it repelled them.
The maximum they will do is sleep with them but when it comes to actually commit they want a plain jane woman who will be feminine, submit and follow their lead.
@@danwelterweight4137 Thanks for pointing this out. I agree
@@IncognitoXYZ Not a myth, I think the upper class is a very small group
@@ericlee2931 Thats the point the small upper class stick with each other if you believe some old foreigner is gonna come to the Philippines and get a young supermodel or an actress or model anyone in that light you are surely delusional they dont bat an eye at foreigners none of these vloggers have wives from upper class/hi society or even middle class only provincial poor women which should tell you something that’s just the reality.
"Future so bright it blinds her"
I like that 😁
They don't dream as high as we do real talk.
They don"t think past whats going on today. Filipinas are in everyday survival mode.
Calvin.. thanks so much for keeping it real. This is very important information for all of us.
Me and my Prom Date are still like that… We always circle back from time to time, over the past 30 yrs. And it’s always good.
She widowed, I’m divorced. We live a few states apart. But that bond will always be there.
Calvin, great real life video. You have a great sense of knowledge. I have to watch more of your content.
While it's true when Calvin says that you "can't run up on any woman you see" in the Phils, for the average guy from the USA (that's treated like an unattractive, under-achieving chump by American women), coming to the Phils where beautiful Pinays are way, way more approachable (even if they're not into you) is a refreshing, if not pleasantly shocking change.
....blind, crippled or crazy....!!! This cracked me up because it caught me off guard. That was a good one, in the midst of a very serious discussion. Keep them coming. Be safe.
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Calvin you broke it down good job....love 👍it
Very powerful Calvin. You got a new sub in me bro. I like your content cause you keep it real and raw
Welcome to my channel and thanks for the support.
SS..man , I am waiting for the day when you say…I am gonna start“ sugar coat “ the information starting now..😅.. K.Soldier keep representing . Blessed👈🏿
Thank you so much for your candor I love your videos. I love to see people that keep it.. 100
You preaching on this one cal , straight facts 💯
Unreal how real you are!
I'm addicted to your content, realism and truth.
Thanks Michael
Thanks for sharing valuable interesting content Calvin 👍🇺🇲
I think anyone prefers their own first. You have a common culture, language and many other things. When you get into dating and dealing with people from different countries and cultures it can be hard. Many other countries outside of the west seem to have a more nationalist viewpoint. Like you said in your video it's enough to go around over there but I see how certain people can be cocky.
Clearly not everyone just the MEN
There was a few women over here interested in me when all I wanted was the girl in Pagadian I knew. I never got to tie the knot with the girl in Pagadian but I did find a nice lady, without any internet introduction, and we have been together for over 15yrs.
@@afterawordfromoursponsor she already knows and is jealous of the poems I saved in hopes to publish them....
My wife is from that dump lol ,she may of been your x ...
Thank you for the information, I know it's a old video but still :)
I just discovered your channel. Thank you for your video. I appreciate everything that you had to say. I've actually been planning on coming to the Philippines to live because I will be 50 in a year and a half. Right now I am talking to a Filipina, however I do have experience going to the Philippines. I've been to Manila... I've been to Baguio and a few other places. But it's been about 9 since I last went there. Also I was born at Clark Air Force Base in the Philippines. The only goal that I have right now that matters is making enough money to get over to the Philippines. As a an American black man, I know that going to the Philippines is going to change my life forever. I'm so glad that there is a community of my Brothas, getting out of the US and going to a place where we are welcome and we are not under threat for our daily lives, and not being treated less than human like we are here in the States. I'm so glad that you were able to get out for so long. May your success continue!
Welcome to my channel Roderick. I appreciate your support.
*Looks like the University of Kentucky currently has the best football team they have ever had before.* 💪👍
And they play Georgia on Saturday...let’s see who’s the best
@@WilliamFlueryYes looking forward to watching that game.
I was glad to see Texas A& M beat Alabama 👍
not sugarcoating it here!
its the true nitty gritty
rock on, Calvin
...bro you got me dying laughing...that's good advice as always though. "..fantastic four inches.." 😂🤣😅
Looking forward to Sunshine Shoulders tennis championships video 💪👍
😂😂😂 she still prefers that fantastic four inches, the smallest in the world. You killing me Calvin!...tell it on brother, it's honestly very humorous but very informative too. Thanks Calvin
Ha ha ha,I laughed too because my fil ex bf has so small p..... too, but I experienced with him 1 time the whole night or again and again, the one who took my virginity.
I was crazy in love with him because my family said that I have to preserve my virginity for my future husband because that is very important to Fil man. We filipina, most of us we remain loyal to our bf especially to the man who took our virginity. We don't have the idea of changing our bf but unfortunately my ex fil bf was heartless. He took my virginity when I was 21 yrs.old and then he simply just dumped me. I am not ugly but he prefer his exgf fil who is married to a japanese rich old man. So... I moved on and now I am happily married with my german husband and we have 3 kids here.
Calvin's humiliating his own Filipino son.
@@KC-in9px Yeah maybe his boy will be fine.
@@rudes440sb How is a few inches of the manhood a humiliation?...will it not be a humiliation if it was a couple of inches long?..it is true what psychologists say; that majority of men worry about their sizes down there when it shouldn't really matter. Ask any woman bro; size doesn't matter, what matters is how you use the instrument. Calvin is NOT insulting anybody, he is just mentioning the size please!, unless you're one of those men who worry about their sizes, then what Calvin says shouldn't really be an insult.
You're great at talking people out of moving there... or, at least, forming a relationship.
So honestly put. She satisfied with 4 inches. Thank you again Calvin for your honesty.
Americans think with their materialistic ways they can win anybody.
Partly it is due to the "keep-it-in-the-family" notion. Philippines is one big family for most Filipinos.
So true Calvin , majority will still b with fellow Filipino . D 4 factor can be overlooked , what matters performance , I guess😎
I remember when i stayed at manila then american guy approached me..and he asked me to have a lunchdate at Jolibee ahahhaha...he was so arrogant...feeling handsome lol ...ir u want to find a good filipina..be kind ,humble,sensitive,trust worthy,and God fearing..for sure u will have a great catch..
I definitely respect this guy. He's honest.
Like you have said in the past Calvin, don't go looking to get tied down from the jump. Before you parachute in, get your intel briefing, i.e. (Your Postings) Once your In Country (Survey your gear and verify that your " Equipment is Clean and in good working order":) and finally, you have to be able to "Adapt, Overcome and Improvise" Calvin, you would make an effective Recon Marine, providing the Intel for the Troops getting ready to Embark to the Philippines. Best wishes from me and the guys, again, Well Done my friend. Semper Fi
Salute!
You crack me up Calvin! Tell it like it is. 😅🤣😂
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Thank you Calvin for reminding the newcomer, and all of us, to be respectful to Filipinas during our interactions while getting to know them. They have choices, too.
We as foreigners should respect all phillipinos
When they single they want pinoys. They get knocked up with 1 or 2 kids and dumped then they want YOU the foreigners. Facts. I ain't playing no 2nd division football league Am all Premier League balling period. If the kind of Pinay I like ain't checking for me that's cool but me checking for leftover ? Naaah #Neverrrr. I'm just chillout with my pinoy friends there, when my vacation is over am out. #Simples 😎
@@davidwatson2785 Respect them sure but don't be a sucker because some them perceive we foreigners like that trust me I been around them long enough to see and observe the good and bad side.
It's not rocket science, they share a culture, background, and language. But you're talking about the lower income. My wife of going on 15 years came from a Lower Middle-Class family. There isn't a doubt in my mind, she would be married right now to a Filipino if she could have found the right one. She wasn't interested in a foreigner. She hadn't found him and she wasn't getting any younger. She had a friend that was married to an American. She took an interest, her friend introduced us, she was 34, lucky me. Middle-Class income families are harder, but not impossible. Upper Middle Class and beyond, forget about it, for the most part.
@ David Spicer, lucky for us foreigners that a majority of the population in PH are Lower Middle-Class or lower lower and poverty levels. If the majority were middle class and upper middle class the foreigners would be fighting to find a women. Especially older men like myself.
I'm addressing the old tired narrative that foreigners can have any Filipina that they want and it's not true. Anything else you get from the video is on you. Thanks for watching.
@@danielhackney7806 The majority here I think are the poor and the low-income. Probably somewhere around 60 million people. The Lower Middle-Class, or Lower Middle Income, now starts at around P22,000 a month and tops out at about twice that. It was MUCH lower when I moved here almost 15 years ago.
@@calroach1 I guess some are unaware that there are women here not interested in foreigners. And the middle income up, it gets worse the farther up the social classes that you go. Many have no interest in foreigners whatsoever. And they aren't necessarily rich.
Watching again per your suggestion on your recent video not because I have 4 inches 😂
You brought out the nitty gritty Calvin, and it was humorous!
So does that mean smaller guys have an advantage in the Phil? Of course, if you were her first (rare), they have nothing to compare it with. Most of the woman in the US want supersized now. When we come over do we want a woman with the same attitudes as the women we left behind? I'd say that's an emphatic no! Maybe the truth is that you attract those who you are aligned and compatible with. A filipina is not for every foreigner, nor is every foreigner for a filipina. There's a certain 'fit' required (IMV).
What does your feedback have to do with my video? Obviously you have missed the point. It's not about the size of the Filipino it's about the myth that foreign men can have any woman over here. Thanks.
@@calroach1 Not meaning to offend. I was just pondering your assertion. Sure, many women would have commonality with guys from their own culture and who speak their language, and that would be an advantage, all else being equal. The size thing is a little funny, so I just thew that in there for good measure. You know, it's a shaming thing among blue pilled guys, and western women. So a lot of western guys bring that attitude over. I even heard a 'joke' that smaller guys go for Asian women because they've been shamed by western women. Good luck to a guy anywhere thinking he can have any woman (god's gift, Mr $$$, or delusions of grandeur?). I could be wrong, but I don't think a Filipina is right for just any dude. They have a kind of 'emotional structure' that you either grok, jibe with, or you don't. They tend to be romantic, and often overly possessive at times. For myself, they are the most heavenly creatures on earth, as imperfect as they might be. I also agree with your advice to not just settle for the first Filipina that comes along. Just enjoy what the Philippines has to offer first. Keep up the good work!
Great advice Calvin! Thank you so much!!
Thanks for sharing Calvin! That was a great analysis on the dating scenarios in the Philippines.
There's a myth that we can have any woman over here and it's simply not true.
Calvin Big Bruh !!!I Much Luv and Respect..... .. Be Careful !!! Filipino Men May take the 4inches Statement as a Insult even though it's a Study Best to Stay Clear of that type ofConversation in your Host Country God make us Men Basically the Same Anyway.
My video is not about the size of the Filipino or anyone else. Please don't miss that point. I respect people and my over 600 videos will show you exactly how I feel about Filipinos. Thanks. As a matter of fact I have a whole Facebook page dedicated to helping Filipinos during the pandemic.
That struggle understanding keeps people close
enjoy watching your videos, im a 33 year old black/mexican male. the past few years i have just felt stuck here in texas and i have seriously been considering just picking up and moving to the Philippines. the country is beautiful. maybe life could be better there.
Absolutely factual. Every foreigner is just renting his Filipina.
Brilliant topic in my opinion - keep it going Calvin 👏😂
But like I said somewhere else - it’s not top of their ‘shopping list’
Love
Care
Understanding
Provision
Are far more important
If you find that one that truly loves you have hit the jackpot but if it’s all sex based you will live a sad and lonely existence because your aims were purely carnal ..I’ve seen many so called kings down below get dumped eventually as the novelty wears off ...normally cause they lack love or are uncaring or tight with money or simply offer nothing else ...unless of course you just get plain ‘unlucky’
This vlog has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with a falsehood that foreign men have their pick of women in the Philippines.
From my visits I’d agree I don’t think they get over excited with foreigners as much as people make out. A better title as a suggestion should simply state - Filipinos prefer Filipinos lol
Truth
They like foreigners money
But and ashamed to be seen with them.
Only ashamed to be seen with an older foreigner,. f you're young and good lucking they will show you off
very true, i'm glad foreigners are aware
@@m.g.6394 nah they are still ashame ofc they just don't show it, flipinos have real feelings and public face but only other filipinos can feel this
Dropping facts! 👍🏽💜
One of the realist videos,, keep doing your thing.. peace
WITH ALL DUE RESPECT...I HAD A LOT OF FILIPINAS THAT THEY WERE ASTONISHED AND HIGHLY HAPPY HAVING THE BIG AMERICAN INSIDE THEM..........
Thanks for the truth facts I always welcome thanks sunshine and that's understandable she wants someone that's compatible who knows her struggle and I can understand that so if it wasn't for you I wouldn't know nothing about a Philippine woman thanks bro
I've never thought that I could have any woman I want (I ain't that delusional) but when I went to the Philippines it nearly seemed that way tbh, saying that I'm 28 years old, white, tall and decent looking. A lot of girls straight up told me they wanted my babies, jokingly not so jokingly so..but yea of course I agree it's delusional of all foreigners to think they could have anyone they want. It's more straightforward for two natives of a country to be together
I'm 5'8 Brown and decent looking and I get the same treatment. What's your point
they are just being nice 😅
The Fantastic 4 Inches . Caloman you about killed me before getting over there nearly passed out laughing Lmao ! So funny but It don't get more real than that !! 🔥
john holmes aka dirk diggler lol not heard that name for ages.