12 Emotions You Might Feel But Can't Explain
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- Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
- Have you ever felt a certain way, but you just couldn’t explain exactly what you were feeling? Human emotion is an extremely complex thing, and “happy” or “sad” or “mad” just don’t do it justice. But even the most complicated and indescribable emotions have names!
Now, you won’t find any of the following words in a dictionary. Well, actually, you can, but only in one: The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows. This is an entirely online dictionary created by writer John Koenig. In it, he describes and gives names to an array of human emotion that we haven’t yet put to words.
TIMESTAMPS:
Sonder 1:51
Hanker sore 2:41
Lachesism 3:16
Ellipsism 4:20
Mauerbauertraurigkeit 5:05
Gnossienne 6:02
Liberosis 6:54
Monachopsis 7:44
Onism 8:30
Nighthawk 9:15
Catoptric tristesse 10:02
Jouska 10:47
#unusualemotions #humanemotions #feeldifferent
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SUMMARY:
- Sonder is one of those feelings that catches you off guard. You’re just going about your business when you suddenly understand that every anonymous person around you has their own goals, fears, and routine that you'll never know.
- Hanker sore is when you find someone so attractive that it even kinda makes you mad. And nobody is even sure why they feel this way about a good-looking person.
- Lachesism is the desire to be struck by a disaster, whether it’s surviving a plane crash or losing everything in life. The actual term comes from the Greek word “lachesis,” which means “the disposer of lots”.
- Ellipsism is definitely one of the most common feelings in your emotional range! Among those who are most prone to this emotion are scientists, researchers, artists, and anyone who looks at the world around them with great curiosity.
- Mauerbauertraurigkeit describes the desire to push people away, even your loved ones! It's no secret that low esteem often causes us to feel like we’re not good enough. Well, this paves the way for an urge to keep others from seeing our imperfections up close. As a result, we decide not to show them anything at all because it seems easier.
- Until gnossienne one day takes hold of your brain, and you suddenly realize that your loved ones have an inner world that you know absolutely nothing about and will never have access to!
- If you tend to worry a lot and the thought of losing control of your life scares the heebie-jeebies out of you, then you’ve probably experienced liberosis at least every now and again.
- If you often feel like you never really belong somewhere, then that would be monachopsis. Koenig’s dictionary describes it as “the subtle but persistent feeling of being out of place”.
- Onism is especially common among travelers and adventurers. It's basically an understanding of how little of the world you actually experience. The world is so big and full of countless beautiful places that it can be overwhelming when you start to think about it.
- The Dictionary describes nighthawk as “a recurring thought that only seems to strike you late at night.”
- Dictionary defines catoptric tristesse as “the sadness that you'll never really know what other people think of you, whether good, bad, or if at all”.
- You ever have full-on imaginary conversations with someone in your head? Then congratulations! You're definitely familiar with jouska! Koenig’s dictionary calls jouska “a hypothetical conversation that you compulsively play out in your head”.
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Hey guys! Have you ever experienced any of these feelings? Which ones? 🙂
Jouska
Diana Elena Talpau me too
yes!!
Sonder
Hanker sore lol...
F*k hawt b*tches
Are you ever doing anything random and think “I wonder how many other people around the world are doing the exact same thing”?
Yesss way too often.
Yeah
yes
LOL,I've had this feeling a couple of times.
I first had that feeling when I was in my first elementary school. I was just swinging and took into perspective the others kids swinging by me and then wondered, how many other kids might be swinging at the exact same height and speed as me in other countries. I then pictured one next to me and I'd go slower or faster to try to keep up with this ghost I conjured up that's supposed to be a kid from Africa, and another from like Spain
*You guys forgot about that feeling that randomly comes and you be like omg am I actually here rn?*
Long Live X
I sometimes feel like "am I really alive??"
@@florensiaazalea6940 i can relate
@@florensiaazalea6940 it's like whether I'm alive or is this all jst a dream. & after this thought everything feels weird for few minutes 😂
Ashlover 123
finally someone understand
Ashlover 123 *I knew I wasn’t the only one* 😂😂
has anyone had the realization that the face that you're looking at in the mirror is yours? how you don't recognize yourself for a second?
Or you think your appearance doesn't fit you at all. I mean, I like the way I look, but I wouldn't expect someone looking like me have this personality.
Disassociation ?
Or that you could have just as easily been born in any other body. That you could have had a completely different family, or been born in a completely different country, or in a completely different time period. That your life could have been so vastly different, and you have no idea of the possibilities of who you could have been and what you could have looked like
Claudia M OMG YES! 🤯
sometimes it happens to me. i see myself in the mirror and i think "that's really me? i look like this? that's my face?" and i feel like i'm not that person and this is not my body
The strange feeling when, you think that you want to do something specifically, you walk in a different room, you don't remember why you came for. You go back to refresh the thought!
Kn allaboutme its no feeling its adhd
Ya but sometimes your mind just goes blank\ also is it bad that I get pictures of how I'm gonna die
@@gasp1n75 what's this?
I have done that million of times.
Doorway effect.
Has anyone else felt the feeling where you just don’t feel present in your own body? Like you’re like “is this actually me?”. Like you’re just this spirit totally separate from your own body
Derealization, it happens to me as well.
Derealization
OMG IT HAPPENS TO ME LITERALLY ALL THE TIME!
Mya W me when I sometimes look at the mirror...
Is because you are transexual
This is weird, but I've always imagined myself looking through the eyes of a person nearby and wonder how I look in their vision.
Me too!!
Woah, me too!
Me toooooo, it's fun
Same
SAME
also the feeling of rethinking the whole existence of someone, like "wow is she really my mother?"
Gotcha
I actually thought that before when looking at my mum.
yes omg. when I talk to my mom, or my friend, suddenly my brain is like, omg is this woman my mother??? am I talking to my friend right now? I've seriously thought i have dementia or Alzheimer's or something...
You got my feelings. Finally I'm not the only one
Yep
- why are you avoiding me?
- im having a mauerbayasdaskjdnskdasnasjd problem
- forget it
😂
“12 Emotions You Feel But Can’t Explain”
*explains all of them*
Tea I mean your name fits ☕️
I think he meant "12 emotion - terms you might not know yet"
You don't know it doesn't mean i don't know, kinda like that
He means that the average person can't explain
Tea YOU can’t explain them but they can
You guys didn't mention the emotion of when you realize your alive and you deeply wonder how you are alive its kind of a scary feeling and it makes you feel weird how you can be in someone else's body but still be alive and they are experiencing the same thing as them. You think so hard that your actually there it makes you realize how many mysteries are to be discovered in this world
Omg I get the first one you mentioned all the time, is there a name for it?
Isn't that an existential crisis?
bubblegum pink YES THAT HAPPENS TO METOO
SO RELATABLE
This happens like every month or so.
Sometimes I think I'm in a movie or bieng watched so I talk to my self a lot so "the people watching" can hear what I'm feeling
Yaaaaaaass i thought i was the only one. It started after i watched the truman show....
Same
I do this, but as if I'm in a horror movie situation. So I do or say something that would be totally out of context in the movie, so I'll definitely not be killed off :')
Same
I talk to my “stalker” occasionally so that if someone’s actually stalking me then they think I know about them.
What about the feeling of never being sure what you ACTUALLY look like...
Visualandronosis...
I literally have 4 different versions of what i think i look like. It scars me because often my mirror is dishonest. Or so i think...
Who fricken knows! I just hate it..
Same! It's weird
Poison Pumpkin it could be body dysmorphia?
Oh yeah ! I can imagine my friends' and family's faces pretty well, but I often have struggles imagining my own face !
That's why I sometimes look at myself a bit too long in the mirror before realising it may seem a bit narcissic 😂
(Still, I often feel like the person in the mirror isn't really me. Like, according to the way people act with me, I'm thinking "If I encountered myself in the street, I wouldn't treat myself like most people do")
That sound familiar,,,
That strange feeling when you know you're doing something for the first time but you get a feeling you had done it earlier.
CosmicJames\\ AritoMisumi That’s De ja vu
Eliza Snow Thanks
i keep on gettin deja vu.....if u know wengie
Like you predicted it before but you weren’t concious about it at the time?
I’m not sure if I spelled the words right.
Déjà vu
Jouska=when you fought with somebody and later you find the perfect words to diss them
=my life
Jack Milldr TRUEEEE
Lol truuuuu I do this all the time
Exactly
This is why we need time machine 😂😂
5:10
‘This impossible to pronounce word!’
Germans: hold my schnitzel
Hehe
Mauerbauertraurigkeit...
Me(from Switzerland) :Yeah..
Wall building sadness🤔
😂
is it pronounced shneetzell?
I went to Austria this Summer, and schnitzel wasn't hard to pronounce... It was the word for squirrel
Anyone ever think “I wish there was an invention to read other people’s minds” and then “wait no I don’t want other people to see my mind”
Me 😅😅
Yeppp so true
I don't want other people to know what I think because I'm scared of their reactions but if I saw someone else's mind I would completely understand it
Sameeeeee
Lol! You really dont want to know. Youd have a nervous breakdown
Some point in the past I snapped a mental image of a pointless moment and told myself “I’m gonna remember this for no reason”, still remember it until this day.
If i accidentally hear a spoiler i try to ignore it and hope i don't remember it and it only solidifies it in my brain instead. Meanwhile I'll struggle to remember stuff i want to know!
What's the memory? (If you don't mind me asking)
Fred Huggins it’s kinda hard to put to words since it only makes sense in my head, but it’s a moment from a regular school day.
I did that, when I was 10, after reading a book that featured a character who had a photographic memory. Mine was during a drive in the country with my parents. It was an image of a field of wheat, with a traffic sign on the grass verge in front of it. Caution, dangerous curve. Just a totally mundane scene. Not interesting or beautiful or shocking. Just typical, average, unimportant. But I recall it even now, three decades later. Weird.
Omg same
Have you ever been walking and then feel like you aren't moving your feet but you are still moving
Yea,lol
Had this feeling earlier today and was so confused until I reached my destination and was like, "Woah..."
Ya
@1000 Subscribers With No Videos ahhhh I'm scared you just scared me I need to pray more
Yeah... & then I wonder how I can walk without really doing anything.
how about the feeling of
" *I can't sleep because I'm thinking about the process of how will I sleep* " almost the same with nighthawk
YES and you just think how you’re just going to lay there for hours in nothingness i have that feeling all the time
I HAVE SUCH BAD NIGHTHAWK and I don't have anxiety... or do I?
Yep
Yessss
Yeah that thing happen
Does anyone have this feeling that when something happens you’re like
“Wait..... didn’t that happen already and get a flashback of what’s happening at that moment?
Idk I’m weird
Lol that's not weird at all. It's called deja vu. I've got it millions of times, and most people experience it regularly.
That only happens to me when I poop,I can’t remember if I already let it out or it’s still I. When I get off the toilet 😂
Deja vu
Its called deja vu.
Yeah its weird, one time I was about to enter a store that i had never been in, and then all of the sudden I got a flashback of what it looked like, and when I went inside, every detail was the same.
Does anyone feel this? When you're sleeping in a dark room with your eyes closed, you feel like you're shrinking, growing into a giant or sometimes even feel like you're growing so tall. Anyone?
yea!!! always happens when I feel sick
yea when i was a little kid it was weird it (also may help with this, i have night serzirs not sure if that has anything to do with it though)
I feel that when I'm really tired and go to sleep and then suddenly this feeling comes to me. I think it means that all your mucles take a sudden break and just relax or idk.
When I lay down I sometimes feels like there's nothing under me and I'm just hovering in emptiness.
I feel like I'm falling
Anybody else feel this? You do something like turn off the stove after cooking and later ask yourself did I turn it off? But you know you did turn it off.
Do I remember me turning off the stove today or do I remember me turning off the stove yesterday but I confused it with today?
Its called forgetfulness XD
But yea almost everybody does that, even me XD
Toiretsuu :D Not quite, I think he's saying that even though he knows he turned it off, he still have the anxiety to know if he really turned it off or not.
@@thearchitect8908 yep something like that.. but its still forgetfulness since u have forgotten that u turned off the stove. Which makes u question urself "did I turn it off?"
Yup
Do you ever get that feeling when you're doing something really well (example: playing an instrument) and in your mind, you think "how am I doing this right now and will I mess up"
Yea It happen to me so much
Thats me, but sometimes its switched
Anne I'm breathing like I'm like I'm breathing then how am I breathing then stars breathing heavily
YEP!/
I also sometimes feel this: I sit on the chair and I ask myself, looking at the sky "if I haven't existed now, I wouldn't ask myself that now" or idk kinda like "If I don't exist now, I wouldn't be asking myself that now" and then I think deeply how will other people's lives be, if I was not existing.
Sorry for my bad English
I thought i was alone thinking that
Same like If I so something what will be the future id I didn't do the thing
Do you ever have a feeling that you’ve experienced the same event before, like you remember it? I feel this occasionally.
I do it happens multiple times it could just be something random and not a scene that has great significance
OMG YES it is called deja vu...but It's so bad for me...so I'm quite good at remembering my dreams but for some reason it could've been a dream I had three years ago, but somewhere I'd never been before seemed to bring me back to that same dream I had but forgot because it was so long ago....like I've done things like stared at roads, and playgrounds thinking I've been there before because of a previous dream I had, and it still freaks me out to this day
Me too
deja vu
Yep I have to rethink again life 😂
"just resolve the issue that's causing it!" Sure, I'll do that at 3 AM
Lol I think of this girl I have a crush on how do I solve that
I believe that a better alternative is to take a pen and paper and just start writing. Begin with the thing that's bothering you but don't limit your self or filter your thoughts in any way. Just write what comes to mind. Maybe write the potential consequences on you not having completed the task or perhaps write down a plan to complete the task in time or to make up for it At least that helped me.
When I read it I was at 9:35 😂😂 i...
I always feel jouska, I imagine talking to a person I wish to talk to or to say something I should've said in a past invent, I mostly feel this when I'm bored or when I'm alone
When is ur birthday??
Dragon Engine same i have it almost every day!
I do it all day!
I do it a lot of times
SaMeeee
#12 - Revelation/Epiphany
#11 - Envy
#10 - Depression or Desire
#09 - Curiosity
#08 - Discontent
#07 - Revelation (of a specific societal hierarchy)
#06 - Anxiety or Escapism
#05 - Social Anxiety
#04 - Critical thinking
#03 - Anxiety or Stress
#02 - Public/Self Image issues
#01 - Brain noise
"Brain noise" that is giving weird thoughts like someone poking a brain and it squishing...... Could you plz change that one???
All of these are actually thoughts. The core feelings are alway still the same, anger, fear, envy, sadness, etc.
is the critical thinking overthinking or something like that?
TIMESTAMPS:
Sonder 1:51
Hanker sore 2:41
Lachesism 3:16
Ellipsism 4:20
Mauerbauertraurigkeit 5:05
Gnossienne 6:02
Liberosis 6:54
Monachopsis 7:44
Onism 8:30
Nighthawk 9:15
Catoptric tristesse 10:02
Jouska 10:47
Good and Great
Interesting
I experience 5:05 and nighthawk 😑
j j let’s do sub to sub
@@joyfriend2349 ok I will subscribe to u :)
I feel Jouska almost everyday ....
I always have some voice in my head with whom I am having a conversation .....a dream conversation which I never had ...but I want to have
Rohini Kashyap , it’s your brain. The left side of ur brain speaking to your other half right of the brain XD
But as he said past is past and fantasies arent real. I hv been experiencing jouska as long as i can imagine but tbh i do realise that it does nothing but waste ur time. I wish i could come out of this habbit. Do u know any way by which i can?
@@santoshtripathi3814 talking to someone about that thing or things that you want to say.
Or things you didn't say
I've tried so hard to stop but each night before sleeping I experience Jaouska...3 years and the 4th one is coming to end...
Help!!
What about the feeling you get when you realise you are not in control and have been ignored by the world , that is complex loneliness, and I frequently experience it.
Yup. Definitely had that one!
Sorry to hear that 😟
Sorry to hear that..Try not to linger on it dear. 💜
that sounds a bit like depression
I feel more like the world gives me too much attention.
Or I feel lonely when I'm alone but triggered when I'm around people, whoever it is, even loved ones. That's a bit frustrating. 😅
Sometimes I use to feel that I am watching myself from different angles🤔🤔 WEIRD
Yah
SAME !
It would happend in my dreams lol
OMFG SAME. I once remembered as a kid walking down the hall in kindergarten to the bathroom and accidentally kicking a small rock on the way in thrid person. Then it switches to me actually doing it and the same thing happens
Disassociation or derealization ?
Sometimes when I am talking to someone my thoughts kind of float away from the whole conversation while I keep talking automatically and I feel like I am listening to some other person talking. Once I realise this I have to stop doing anything for a couple of seconds and focus. Then my mind comes back to normal. Anyone else experiences that?
Walking Talking Stephen Hakwing Yes! But I start automatically talking non-sense, usually starting with, “And then he..” (even if I’m talking in first person) and that’s when I have to stop and refocus. Sounds weird to them, but it’s normal for us, yeah?
@@YourNeighborhoodCaat Idk, maybe. I experience this quite rarely usually when I'm really tired.
Kat Smeow I don't know about that, but I like to come up with scenes and stories in my head sometimes, and it's weird that by default, when I want to think of a line but no words or circumstances come to mind, I end up with "[so-and-so], I'm sorry" or "I'm sorry" regardless of who the characters are or whether they did anything wrong. It's weird.
I have
Yes
0:23
tHE SKIN TONE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HER FACE AND HER HANDS I CAN'T-
She has something on her forehead too...
The power of make-up................I thimk
Ooooooof!
I kinda have that
@@7-11mic6 same
Video: If it’s a thought of doing something you’re scared of, it means it’s time to do it.
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Me: So You want me to die?
Lol
Um No🤷
S O Y O U H A V E C H O S E N D E A T H
I have that with reading manga, for some reason I’m scared to read a few manga’s because it’s way too fun or somethig?
@@yes-cj9em obviously. 😀
one of my feelings are "I feel like there's a whole multiverse of conversations I could've had with friends, family, and enemies,"
What about that feeling when you suddenly think about what would happen if you weren’t born?
existensial crisis? idk man me too tho
LM10 Ru Reh yeah I get that a lot like I’ll start thinking what my friends would be doing how it affects my sister
depression
The thought of just not existing is incomprehensible.
I think it's called depression...
I felt something similar to Jouska, I sometimes ask myself questions, like if I (we) want to eat, and I would reply. It's like two different people having a conversation, but I'm both. I know, creepy.
It's not creepy. I do the same every single day.
I do it all the time. Not only because of unresolved issues, but I am an only child, and am also a writer. Speaking to myself actually helps me process information better and I remember things better, so I will speak a whole conversation, and respond to myself from time to time.
I have imaginary conversations with some people pretty often.
Antonio Ponce it is normal as long as you’re only yourself.
If you answer yourself that means you have multiple personality disorder.
Antonio Ponce yeah I even play truth or dare with ma girl here
Don't you all have that feeling like: why do we even exist or who choose me to be in this family to go in to this school to live this life and to have this face , body and personality???
Yesssss .
I always feel that way !
Acept your faith
I don't know much about it but in a way we ourselves choose it
Me too
Islam will help you a lot not joking tho
Jouska: a permanent state my mind stays in to figure out and read the world around me.
Now I look at my text and I'm just thinking: "That's a lot of damage!"
Can we talk about it in depth?
@@boredofhumaans1418
Maby another time, right now I'm out in the forest, breathing in the fresh air and listening to Halestorm. :D
Note same
I have Jouska all the time. But I'm happy because I'm a writer, and Jouska really helps me with ideas. I just write down every conversation I've had, so if I ever run out of ideas, I can easily get them. But it's really annoying sometimes, because it never leaves. Always in my head. It gets really annoying. I usually overthink those conversations and just start quietly saying them. People think I'm weird, but I can't help myself.
I feel like Jouska is necessary for being a writer
I'm just a normal college going kid hahaha and I still argue with myself over most stuff....It reminded me of the angel and demon sitting on my shoulders arguing with each others like in cartoons , oh well it has a name and I'm not insane 😂
Yeah same I'm a writer and I have jouska ! I make so many good stories. I don't know how to publish them though
Me too! You know, weird isn't always bad...
Are you a maladaptive daydreamer?
I can smell the sequel of Inside Out here.
Friendship SAAAAMMMMMEEEE 😂
ROFL
Snifff
YES PLEASE!
😂😂
Sometimes I say something or hear someone say something, and I repeat it in my head like "what"
Anyone else?
omg yeah
"Mauerbauertraurigkeit" is German for "Wall Builder Sadness", if you were wondering.
Faizyrooma4 thank you
What about that feeling when someone is so attractive that you can’t even look at them... whether it’s in real life or in pictures you just can’t look at them straight on 😂 it’s so weird
Trinity Hudson Yes! I’ve definitely felt that! And then I have the urge to run away XD They say it’s because you’re scared the beautiful person will judge and outcast you.
It usually means you are very intimidated by them
If I think a boy (in person) is attractive, I feel icky about looking at them, only I want to because they're pretty, but it makes me uncomfortable still. Like almost as if I'm embarrassed to want to look at them or find them pretty.
ikr
Omg yeessssss
Anyone start feeling like how are they able to breath continuously and then are not able to breath because you keep thinking about it?
When relaxing they always say Concentrate on your breathing... when I stop, how do I get back to breathing automatically!?
Haha I almost passed out bc of this comment.
Trueeee
Yeah because you realize breathing can be an automatic action
HELP!!!!! I CAN'T BREATH😊🙁🙁🙁🙁😨😨😨😨😱😱😵😵😵😵
I get Jouska at least 5 times a day and I always think about what I could have said differently after I have had a conversation with someone.
i sometime talk to myself because im bored, feel scared, or sometimes i just automatically talk to my self (usually in the bathroom)
does this likes mean that they talk to themselves too?
omg yes... it also happens to me mostly in the bathroom
For me it happens when I wanted to sleep.
it happens to me alot mostly in the bathroom and when I'm going to sleep.
Normal
That feeling when in the dream you knew that you had that a dream like that before but when you wake up you realized that that was your first time getting that dream...
Or when you had the dreams before and never remembered them till that last dream. Heck, I only recently remembered my multiple dreams of trying to build dog cages for a dog that kept escaping out of the cages and going through the vents. In my most recent version of that dream, I had a son (which I don't have any child irl) and he stole my car which had the dog cage and some cardboard I was gonna use to reinforce that cage. As soon as he stole it, he got into a big police chase and I pulled a motorcycle out of nowhere then chased after him right next to the police. Then I pulled a shotgun out of my back pocket and shot out the back window, somehow catching the engine in fire. I grabbed my cardboard and dog cage after the fire went out and told the police that I was gonna go. I left without the police caring that I had managed to fit a big ol' shotgun in my back pocket and shot at the car they were chasing. And that I also left without my son. Then I went to go build my dog cage.
OMG AM I NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FEELS THESE THINGS?!
*mindblown*
or like you have the same dream but a bit more than the first time you had it
Yass thank you for saying it. I thought I was the only one
DUDEEE SAME
I get this feeling a lot: When something random happens, I get a feeling that ive dreamt about it in the past, as if that dream was telling me the future
*DÉJÀ VU* I'VE BEEN IN THIS PLACE BEFORE HIGHER ON THE STREET AND I KNOW IT'S MY TIME TO GO
right?? the first time i experienced that, my friend was describing something, but i felt like i'd already predicted it _exactly_ two days prior to that. like, i already knew what she was going to say two days before that, it was just "stored" very very deep in my brain's memory, and was uncovered when it DID finally happen. it's very odd, that's the best i can explain it.
FINALLY, SOMEONE WHO GETS IT!!!!! I GET THIS ALL THE TIME!!!!!
Deja vu
I don't REALLY know deja vu but the same kind of thing happens to me too. Whenever i see something or something happens i feel like i already know it or have seen/interacted with such moment.
"Just don't play along with it for too long!"
Dude, that's literally my whole life.
And what about that feeling, when you walk down/up the stairs and for part of second you forget how to walk on stairs?
Lol same
Lol same
Do you ever say, "I wonder if anyone else thinks this deeply about their emotions or if it's just me? Has anyone thought this before?"
Yes, definitely
You are not alone my friend.
I feel *Jouska* everyday it even became my habit, I talk to myself in my room
Omg! Me too. It started when I was 11. I'm 21 now and can barely hold a conversation with anyone.
When did it start for you?
@@yourdarkness999 It started when i was 7 years old now i'm 11
@@yourdarkness999 Sometimes jouska actually made me speak out my feelings alone and it's like a thing that comforts me
@@wonwoojungwon7135holy moly it starts so young... I do the exact same thing. It makes me feel kind of crazy.
What are you gonna do now that you know what it is?
Brightside: Book a ticket why not-
Me: money
Have you ever just saw a stranger and got the bad/wierd/gross feeling
is that just me
Could you explain that more ?
Same
I literally feel Jouska, all of the time! It's so annoying. Like I'm having some kind of argument with someone and then like 10-30 minutes later I will think of this awesome response or comeback that could've ended the whole argument.
I got the “sonder” feeling all the time (especially when I was little) but when I tried to explain it everyone looked at me like I was insane! I didn’t know other people felt it too..
Yeah, same....i often think about how everyone has their goals, fears, etc. And we were all in different places, but in the end we all somehow ended up in the same place, and im just amazed by that for some reason 😂😊
If you didn't know others felt it, you never truely understood others have emotions just as complex as your own, and thus never understood sonder. If you want to truely experience sonder, you understand that others feel sonder.
Pi is the best omg you are right. My mind is blown
I get called weird for experiencing sonder. Every time I get stuck in traffic, I just keep thinking about how all these people have different families, life goals and financial status etc. to the point where it hurts my head, hahah. and whenever I try to explain it, no one understands me. I’m glad there’s a word for this emotion that other people experience.
Joey Fraser yes I usually get it while in traffic too!
I experience jouska so often. I literally just thought I was the only one and that I was insane 😂
Me too. One time my great grandmother caught me and told me not to talk to myself because people will think I'm crazy. So I always whisper or mouth words
I talk to my plushes. Yes I'm a child
Sometimes I catch myself doing it in the shower and get embarrassed at myself 😂
I also have jouska. My sisters would even joke around that i should go to an asylum cause i often talk to myself and it hurts me alot
But the thing is, i can change the pitch of my voice so i can play as a different person. Like peach from mario or elmo something like that, then i create a story with just me talking to myself
Kimo [Hybrid wolf human, female, 19] same i just love my plushies XD
Anyone ever uncontrollably laugh when someone experiences something horrible
Do you ever feel like you love someone so much they could never understand and you feel like you're just going to hurt yourself because they *probably* don't love you as much and they *probably* underestimate how much you care? Do I need a therapist....
This is 100% me. And I think it’s one of my greatest problems.
I can relate... And also yes you probably do nee a therapist
That is 100% me I just love then so much I can't explain it
No you don't need a therapist, I feel this too. It's okay to feel it, though it sucks.
Yeah that's how parents feel....
Anyone just randomly just start questioning everything?? (Everything we see, why, why not, how, etc.)
Christina Rivera yes
yes, i always do that and i'm always thinking too much and i get distracted, i can't concentrate, i'm always in my own bubble and sometimes that frustrates me
Do you ever think that everyone interprets colours differently
Our God Jesus Christ created the world and you seek him
Has anyone ever this random feeling of panic? Like you can't breathe but you don't know why.
I'm pretty sure that's a panic attack.
@lol lol every time I go downstairs say like to get somthing and it's dark in the basement I feel like I can't breath very well, so I go to get that thing and as I'm going up the stairs I have a feeling that somthing is following me , so I race up the stairs my heart racing and then I look down the stairs and feel as that somthing is looking at me. I get that feeling a lot and I hate it :(
that feeling when I can see myself in 3rd person of whatever action I’m doing at the moment while also seeing it in first person
Its called derealisation
I have that a lot in dreams, but never awake.
I've actually heard that hanker sore Is actually because humans cant "resolve" the attractiveness of the person so we have a temptation to destroy it. It's the same reason we want to squeeze cute things.
Jessie Roberts Yeah that isn’t true
Seems reasonable.
Jessie Roberts yeah I’ve read the thing about cuteness causing like anger or violence ... lol crazy
@@senoradeloscielos Yeah my parrot wouldn't be happy about it hahahaha
Night Hawk:
If its something you're scared of doing...
Me:
Suicide!
Night Hawk:
That means its time to do it!
Me: maybe not
Yeah, take care of yourself, friend! ❤
I thought that too but I’m laughing because that is so true bxbdndlss
But is never good nor pleasant of course
Like you want it but at the same time you don’t want it, at least in my case, like, I dont want to live but I don’t feel like committing suicide, but if I’m in danger I still feel the desire to live
Same. Although, my most common Night Hawk feeling comes from Ellipsis. It is the most terrifying feeling, and I've had feelings of ellipsis almost continuously for several months now. I do not want to be told to "let it run its course" b/c if I keep doing that, I'll go insane at best.
I’m scared of one day having kids. I’m twelve... Bright Side, take notes
Sometimes I just wish I could experience new things again..and feel the “hype and excitement” I once had.
Same
i have that feeling when i forget something and im just sitting there, and trying to remember what it was, digging around in my brain to satisfy some need i cant even remember!
LOL I always experience the last one.... I play out so many conversations so I can be prepared to answer questions in the future.... 99% of the them aren't used.
You spoiled it for me but LIKE OMG SAME LIKE I BE IN THE FRICKEN BATHROOM AND PLANING OUT CONVERSATIONS THAT PROBABLY WONT EVEN HAPPEN
Same!
Yep... i talk to myself as if im talking to a friend but i never actually talk to them about what i talk about when i talk to myself... if that even makes sense...
Even worse: I make up situation and people who I discuss stuff with.... sometimes for a pretty long time, like my future would be a movie :D
Same, I'll sort out different possibilities like an interactive game in my head. If I'm anticipating a phone convo, I'll sometimes write "my lines".
I get the distinct feeling Bright Side videos are full of filler, and explaining things slowly, drawing out animations etc- just to get it over the 10 minute mark.
Sallou Russell yep. They’re also a pretty manipulating channel to get more likes and views, knowing how young their viewers are.
I put this video on 1.5 speed .
Ahhh, cynicism, 😒. I know the feeling well, 😋
Gotta pay those bills some how
Sssssssaaaaammmeeee
You know when you’re in a really great amazing moment and then you just kind of go out of your body and just think I need to remember how beautiful this moment was and how happy I am.
Sometimes I remember things that never actually happened and then it does happen and I already know whats gonna happen before it happens
De ja vu it's called de ja vu
@@4rubii I like think that I can just predict the future :3 wvn tho I probably cant
what is this feeling called when i think of a word and imagined how many people in the world are saying the word at the same time? am i the only one lol
Random Stranger I do that too 😂
Yes, me too
Random Stranger yes me hi
I'm wondering how many people right now are thinking your profile pic moves
Me too
Sometimes I feel as I am losing or may have lost control of myself and my actions. Many situations I look back upon and think "Why would I say that, why didn't I say what I really thought". I will lay in bed at night thinking about how I want to say this to this person, how I need to do this tomorrow etc... But when the time comes to it I don't feel the same, it rather feels pointless and a waste of time.
In other situations, perhaps this is a whole different feeling, but the best way I can describe it is its like a blur. Where I will be talking to someone that I really quite like and it feels as if its all a blur or fuzzy, as if I wasn't in control. Like all I was doing and saying was just going off my sub conscious or something and I just let go of the steering wheel, so to speak. Because I wasn't properly thinking, I didn't say what I really wanted to or needed to. I wasn't properly thinking like I am right now, or I think I am.
If someone has got an idea what feelings I might be experiencing, if anything, let me know please 😌
Me
Same
Wow I can totally relate this 100% that’s why I don’t talk much to people anymore because I feel like it’s not really me talking and that bothers me. Personally if this feeling makes you feel as uncomfortable as it does me it possibly can be some effect from anxiety and/or maybe something that’s called imposter syndrome.
Even i have these feelings all the time before.. But now i dont have ... I dont want to have..
Same
For the last one I usually have those conversations when I'm mad at someone so I just start telling them off in my head.
So do you ever wonder why it was that you became you? How consciousness even works? Why you are seeing through this body? What would it be like to see through someone else?
me a person living in a dream
Brightside: dreams aren't real
me: whyyyyyy
jouska = every introvert in the world
Absolutely! 😄
True. I'm an introvert and I have it every now and then.
CheshireTiger Not necessarily. While I'm an introvert that has it nonstop, I'n sure there are plenty of extroverts and ambiverts that get it too, and sone introverts that don't.
Absolutely I do it every day because I start stuttering when I talk to people. Even though I sometimes have really good arguments I just can‘t talk
+BRIGHT SIDE I am not an introvert person but jouska often happens to me
hehe
Ever have one of those feelings where you do something? Like for example, your mom calls you to take the chicken out of the freezer, you get up take the chicken out and sit/ lay down again within a few seconds you ask yourself "did i take the chicken out of the freezer?" then after thinking to yourself and trying to remember recent events you come to the conclusion that you did indeed take the chicken out of the freezer. Does anyone know the name of this feeling?
Sunkist Jen I experience that too I could do a task and 30 seconds later or less I be like “did I do that?” I think it’s a form of OCD you could research it
I experience that all the time
It's called deja vu I think?
Yes! Seriously wondering whether you did it or just planned it really vividly. Lasts only a few seconds.
Omg I have this all the time
I have felt Jouska for the longest time, I usually do it when I'm upset and want to talk or yell at someone, but I don't actually want to do it. It can be helpful, but it can also be very frustrating
Having it since i can remember i exist 🤷🏻♀️
Okay! I have a feeling, I don't know if it's just me and my brother, or someone else also feels this way. Right now Im 13, sometimes when Im around my family, usually swimming or just in the same room, I start feeling icky, even though I love them all very much! It makes me feel icky and uncomfortable. Does anyone else have this feeling?
Maybe its a sort of compulsive thought
Google it
I used to feel that way too when I was your age, you probably have strong senses and a strong connection to energy's, don't worry, you'll get better at knowing why you feel this way and you'll understand & will get better, will be a strength, take care, many blessings 🧘♀️🎼☯😊.
Have u ever watched alot of tv or play a game and then after hour's of playing or watching u realize that u have wasted ur time and life and u feel sad and bored and feel like going to sleep and not waking up.
Naw, when I stop gaming or watching my shows, it usually just reminds me of how many games and shows I have to catch up on.
Nope...
I have
Sometimes
I have
u ever wondered about your visual perception of colors maybe different from others eyes but cant tell it
Of course
M' colorblind.
Rockport MostWanted yes
y e s =0
All the time
I’ve been having extreme Jouska, and I mean extreme extreme Jouska,for more than 9 years and never noticed until now....😅😅
This video just explained 3 quarters of my emotional state
I have the jouska feeling all the time because I actually can‘t talk to people the way I wish I could because most times I start stuttering so much that I start to sweat and just let the other person judge me. So I just talk to myself. Kinda weird
I always talk to myself... I think I m insane 😞😮..I m so confuse right now..
Same you’re not the only one
Your not alone I do that too
Well im too much shy to Speak to others and i dont have much friends then my best friend pays less attention to me and go out With his ,,New friends,, and i talk in myself every day and i dont now what to do everyday is the same day for me what should i do
btw i have epilepsy and i have a atack of emotions so i get a lot of these then i start crying for no reason Just thinking about sad things in life and im sad 😢
How about the emotion when you say something out loud then in your head you’re like, did that really come out of my mouth?( it’s not when you regret saying it or when you accidentally say it out loud.)
Curiosity? Confision?
Like its just automatic...
Yes
Yesss
It's like, "did I actually just say that or do I just think that I said that"
Thank you! This video was interesting and really helped me discover some of the causes of how I feel and act lately. Very nice!!!
You know that feeling when you hear a song you haven't heard in years?
Ever feel like your in this really weird deep mood to where you are in such deep thought and emotion so strong that you could swear no one else in the world has ever been in such a deep mood. It’s almost indescribable with how deep it is.
Omg. And you go in this endless loop? I thought nobody knew what I meant ? And you feel like no matter what you say nobody will understand you ? This will make me feel ENDLESSLY better if you understand me. I've never been able to describe it
Big mood
I have had the same experience I thought no one will understand
@@themadtitan7603 Yes !! Can you describe it as best you can to me ? Because I feel like we're feeling the same but I can't describe it
@@joemoore9949 I can't fully describe it in words but I keep thinking about deep notions like existence and if what I do has anything to do in the grand sceme of things and I feel like am the only one who has these thoughts.
the urge to drive off a bridge even though you do not want to
Ive felt something similar, like wanting to do random things just to see what would happen. Like, suddenly yell at a serious meeting, slaps someone out of nowhere, throw my phone out of the window...
If this ain't a mood
Geodude FT. Oof Mood ..... And relatable
Yeah, that's called an intrusive thought. I Get those all the time. Apparently they're common for people to think.
Lookup "call of the void". Its part of OCD Intrusive thoughts. I have it too with anything dangerous my mind can think of. Its very, very disturbing sometimes..
The emotion “ ellipsesm “ or something like that is the one i most feel every single day like do i have too much curiosity? 😂
That one is also strong with me. It's my default go to place! I love it but it also means not always being present I suppose!
*Starts to panic realising that you've experienced all of this everyday*
Does anybody else get this weird feeling, as if your mind just resets?
I’m just doing normal things, in school or lying in bed, and then it’s as if my mind just kinda dies for a moment and comes back, as if I’m a completely blank-slate person who’s looking at all of the memories and things that I know in my mind for the first time.
I wonder what my mom looks like, and when I see her, I question if it’s really her. Or maybe I wonder what some of my hobbies are, and once I discover what they were, I wonder why I had wanted to do it, wondering if I could find another hobby.
Kinda like looking into somebody else’s life for the first time, except I’m looking at myself for the first time, and kinda settling in again...?
It’s hard to explain, I wonder if I’m the only person who does this, or if other people have done this too.
I've done this since I was a kid, although it's usually triggered when I randomly see my reflection. I would question "Is this really me? Is this what I look like? Who am I? What am I like and why am I like that?"
I always thought of it as a past life getting a peek of my new life but soon getting washed out. The brain reset thought sounds interesting too though.
I thought the same. Im looking at my mom or my brother and im like wait is this my mom or brother and I feel like I don't know them and then I start remembering everything and it fades away
Yes, I've felt this... it usually happens to me when I'm coming out of a stage of depression. It's like I'm rediscovering myself and suddenly remembering why I do certain things or like them.. it's weird. I think it's an identity issue honestly.
I've felt that once. It feels like I'm living a fake live ever since. It's like... I know my memories but I'm not familiar with them.
It happened to me once i think, i was like 4 and i woke up with no previous memory of my life, like if i just started being alive, and it was so weird because i got up and saw my mom yelling at my sister but it was like, i knew they were supposed to be my mom and sis but i didn't know them, i didn't ask them who they were i just went along with everything and understood that they were my family.
I think later they took me to kindergarten and i didn't remember anyone but i had a friend and idk everything was really confusing to me, i guess since i was so young i just accepted everything as it came and got used to it.
(If my English is bad i apologize).
I don't know how about you guys but I always feel this strange feeling that you are like not the same person!..
In school i'm always cheerfull and kind of layed back. But the second I get home I just change for some reason... I turn all sad and angry. (Some times i don't even want to go home because of that)...
Again in public I turn really self conscious and shy...
It's hard to catch it happening sometimes but when I do it's really weird to think about... I don't know if you understand me or even know what i mean but I can't be the only one that feels this right? Someone?
Relatable. In school I'm that funny and extrovert guy, but at home with my family, I'm just a calm, grumpy and sad person
Me too but mine is just cause I'm bored.
I get all depressed and lonly because my friends are not with me and my family has fallen to sh*t. Something is wrong with me because when I was little, my 12 siblings would never play with me and now that I'm 15 I still act like a little kid. My dad loved us but he was never there for me. Now I've become a narcissist.
Nope u ain’t alone
That's me all day every day. It's like I subconsciously put on a facade at school.
Thank you guys! You really made up my day! 😘💙💚💛💜🖤
I don’t know if it’s really Jouska what I'm feeling but sometimes I replay scenes from my manga like I imagine my characters talking to each other and sometimes I imagine I am one of the characters.
Dose anyone else do this or is it only me ?
Yes or ur watching a tv show or anime and u put those charectors into a situation with u and u all end up playing out a sceen completely different fromt the origin of it so a manga, anime book, exc.
Yes, and crossovers and OC's and everything
This video help me a lot through a tough time. Thank you.
Jouska... I've being replaying and imagining alternative versions of conversations in my head I've had more than 20 years ago
Oof. Ghosts of the past bro. I know how that feels. Everytime mine comes up I talk it down in my head or do my best to distract myself or ignore it.
You might want to do the same if you ever hope to let those things go.
Oof. Ghosts of the past bro. I experience the same kind of thing often enough but I'm getting well enough over it. If you ever hope to let such things go I suggest a few methods. You could either distract yourself once the thoughts come up, do your best to ignore it or talk it down in your head. Works for me... 👆
jack chatham haven’t even been alive for 20 years which is weird to think about
That strange feeling when you are just walking and start to think about your life and kind of see yourself from somewhere, it feels like your soul just left the body and it's flying somewhere and thinking. And then you're just like "it's my life, I have to live" or something like that and your soul goes back to your body
Idk what I just wrote... :D but it happens to me, maybe I'm not the only one?
It happends to me all the time especially when Im stressed
Bro this happens to me
Do you like talking about life and all tha kind of stuff like why do we exist? Because i think about those things and that is what causes this feeling
Its called derealisation/depersonalisation
I have that also
When I was 10 I walked down the road near my house and saw people around and I experienced sonder. It was an amazing feeling, it was looking at a few people and realising they are like me- they have thoughts like me and stories, they feel happiness and sadness, and that was an amazing feeling that lasted only a minute of half a minute. Never experienced it again, but I'll never forget it. I also constantly experience elipsism, and I also realised that I actually don't really know everything about people that are close to me. Very strange feelings, and I experienced all of these emotions at least once, but the most amazing experience has been sonder, no doubt.