Guys i highly recommend you all read this mans books immediately and i mean evey single book he's ever written asap. Dr. Glover changed my dating and social life. I only wish i would have read all his books 📚 in my teenage years. You will not learn this in school guys. Getting this info is a MUST !!!!
Good stuff. Your advice on becoming a social animal and taking a chance asking for their number has served me well. I also practised what you said about getting rejected. Conversely, when trying to get rejected, I wasn't
Thank you. I have had to face a lot of fear in my life .knowing that f#$k every thing and run F.E.A.R.or face everything and respond. I do know for me though the biggest limiting problems belong to me to resolve. Life goes by fast and if you don't off your ass and live your fully today you will absolutely regret the things you were afraid of! So many men stay in bad relationships get going Through the same thing every day because of upsetting things and denying their needs to make someone else happy..You don't have to be a door mat for others because of your fears?
I’m not scared of talking to a woman, I’m scared she’ll be the type to suck the life out of me. Even a short conversation with the wrong person can drain me. How do I overcome that?
my girlfriend and i havent been talking much lately and whenever i asked whats wrong she gave me excuses that are unrelated to me, but i FEEL she has a problem with me that she doesnt want to say, probably to not hurt me or make me feel bad, i constantly feel like i have to kickstart a conversation with her trying to find out the truth and what her issue with me is and the real reasons she is behaving so avoidant and distant and lying with fake reasons but im afraid of fucking it all up, im afraid of starting this conversation, is this what i should do or i should believe her explanations and just wait? all this situation hurts me, i feel stuck, i tried few times to get her explaining what is going on by pretending to believe her reasons and she just keeps dragging them in time and using them to explain why she doent talk much, "im just not very talkative because bla bla" "its just a phase, nothing to do with you" "i had this problem and im at home too much" "i feel fatigued so not very talkative" this kind of reasons she gives, all this has been going on for half a year.. we have very short talks every now and then but like a handful a month or just 1-2, is sad, she used to come talk to me very often and now we just talk if i talk firs i tried having this conversatio with her many times these months but all i get is reasons and more reasons "explaining" her behavior, usually health reasons or mood reasons, if a person wants to talk he/she will even in the worst day ever or if feeling like shit, i feel im not anymore "that person i can talk to" for her and idk what to do if im afraid of confronting her pointing out her reasons dont make sense and that i think she is lying to me instead of letting me know what issue she has with me, instead of letting me know she has a problem with me or what she doesnt want to tell me, is that what i have to do? do i have to point out the clear problem i see us having and let her know that i feel like she is lying to me? she very prob will say she isnt lying and use whatever excuse, i fear having an argument with her because whenever tried she avoided it with what i believe were lies, i fear telling her i think she is lying to me, do i have to do this?
She withdraws then you do too. If she's unwilling to have a conversation then divert your attention to what makes you happy in life (hobbies, work, projects). If that doesn't change things then she needs to work on herself or just doesn't care. You aren't responsible for fixing her and she clearly isn't asking for your help. Don't be a "nice guy" and let your life revolve around her. You matter too
how do you recommend dealing with potential fears, like religious fears? I have been conditioned to fear hell. Which is the worst torture imaginable for all eternity. I'm an atheist now, but the potential of this hell existing still scares me sometimes.
I'm going through a separation/divorce so I'm in serious need of advice. I'm burying myself in work and just got a mini promotion but need advice from a dating perspective. First time being single in 11 years
Literally the same situation here. First time single in 12 years, put myself into work, but now in burning out. Through my journey, I've realized that people aren't meant to move alone entirely. I have been vulnerable with my friends and coworkers and told them what I'm going through. While not everyone was available to help me, they were at least there to listen, and that alone was helpful. I'm picking up the pieces right now. I'm not actively dating, but I'm just doing things that I want to do. When I started, I made dating my personality, my goal. That led to frustration, pressure, and isolation. Once I changed my mindset to one of doing things that I enjoyed, especially with people who I enjoy, I've found I can naturally open myself up to more people. It varies day by day. One step forward, two steps back. Three steps forward. It's OK to have good days and bad days. Just remember that you are not alone, and there are people who want you to succeed. To be your best self. If you have no one to talk to, go to a therapist. At the very least, they will listen to you and you can release the pain, insecurities, and sadness that may be building up during this time. I'm on this path with you. You will make it to the other side. Just keep moving forward.
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im facing a great fear of a medical procedure(s) i need but postpone because i fear i the pain and possible outcomes ...
Guys i highly recommend you all read this mans books immediately and i mean evey single book he's ever written asap. Dr. Glover changed my dating and social life. I only wish i would have read all his books 📚 in my teenage years. You will not learn this in school guys. Getting this info is a MUST !!!!
Read no more mr nice guy, didn't do a thing. Either I've never met the women he's talking about or he's never met the women I've known.
Thank you Dr. Glover, this is truly constructive and inspiring.
Good stuff. Your advice on becoming a social animal and taking a chance asking for their number has served me well.
I also practised what you said about getting rejected. Conversely, when trying to get rejected, I wasn't
Trying to get rejected by a woman is like trying to hit the ground if you fall. You really don't have to try very hard, or at all. It just happens.
Thank you. I have had to face a lot of fear in my life .knowing that f#$k every thing and run F.E.A.R.or face everything and respond. I do know for me though the biggest limiting problems belong to me to resolve. Life goes by fast and if you don't off your ass and live your fully today you will absolutely regret the things you were afraid of! So many men stay in bad relationships get going Through the same thing every day because of upsetting things and denying their needs to make someone else happy..You don't have to be a door mat for others because of your fears?
I’m not scared of talking to a woman, I’m scared she’ll be the type to suck the life out of me. Even a short conversation with the wrong person can drain me. How do I overcome that?
You can control that, face your fears and act anyway.
That’s hilarious 😆 I don’t HAVE to TRY!
Tried and it turns out I'm a natural
3 for 3. I'm finally good at something
my girlfriend and i havent been talking much lately and whenever i asked whats wrong she gave me excuses that are unrelated to me, but i FEEL she has a problem with me that she doesnt want to say, probably to not hurt me or make me feel bad, i constantly feel like i have to kickstart a conversation with her trying to find out the truth and what her issue with me is and the real reasons she is behaving so avoidant and distant and lying with fake reasons but im afraid of fucking it all up, im afraid of starting this conversation, is this what i should do or i should believe her explanations and just wait?
all this situation hurts me, i feel stuck, i tried few times to get her explaining what is going on by pretending to believe her reasons and she just keeps dragging them in time and using them to explain why she doent talk much, "im just not very talkative because bla bla" "its just a phase, nothing to do with you" "i had this problem and im at home too much" "i feel fatigued so not very talkative" this kind of reasons she gives, all this has been going on for half a year.. we have very short talks every now and then but like a handful a month or just 1-2, is sad, she used to come talk to me very often and now we just talk if i talk firs
i tried having this conversatio with her many times these months but all i get is reasons and more reasons "explaining" her behavior, usually health reasons or mood reasons, if a person wants to talk he/she will even in the worst day ever or if feeling like shit, i feel im not anymore "that person i can talk to" for her and idk what to do
if im afraid of confronting her pointing out her reasons dont make sense and that i think she is lying to me instead of letting me know what issue she has with me, instead of letting me know she has a problem with me or what she doesnt want to tell me, is that what i have to do?
do i have to point out the clear problem i see us having and let her know that i feel like she is lying to me? she very prob will say she isnt lying and use whatever excuse, i fear having an argument with her because whenever tried she avoided it with what i believe were lies, i fear telling her i think she is lying to me, do i have to do this?
Find other girls to talk to and get laid with,no big deal
She withdraws then you do too. If she's unwilling to have a conversation then divert your attention to what makes you happy in life (hobbies, work, projects). If that doesn't change things then she needs to work on herself or just doesn't care. You aren't responsible for fixing her and she clearly isn't asking for your help. Don't be a "nice guy" and let your life revolve around her. You matter too
how do you recommend dealing with potential fears, like religious fears? I have been conditioned to fear hell. Which is the worst torture imaginable for all eternity. I'm an atheist now, but the potential of this hell existing still scares me sometimes.
Check out recovering from religion and the Harmonic Athiest channel
I'm going through a separation/divorce so I'm in serious need of advice. I'm burying myself in work and just got a mini promotion but need advice from a dating perspective. First time being single in 11 years
Literally the same situation here. First time single in 12 years, put myself into work, but now in burning out. Through my journey, I've realized that people aren't meant to move alone entirely. I have been vulnerable with my friends and coworkers and told them what I'm going through. While not everyone was available to help me, they were at least there to listen, and that alone was helpful. I'm picking up the pieces right now. I'm not actively dating, but I'm just doing things that I want to do. When I started, I made dating my personality, my goal. That led to frustration, pressure, and isolation. Once I changed my mindset to one of doing things that I enjoyed, especially with people who I enjoy, I've found I can naturally open myself up to more people. It varies day by day. One step forward, two steps back. Three steps forward. It's OK to have good days and bad days. Just remember that you are not alone, and there are people who want you to succeed. To be your best self. If you have no one to talk to, go to a therapist. At the very least, they will listen to you and you can release the pain, insecurities, and sadness that may be building up during this time. I'm on this path with you. You will make it to the other side. Just keep moving forward.
Fear . The friend of exceptional people
Geoff Thompson.
But you know this already ? 😅