The whole "4 and a half" thing makes me imagine the 5th time, someone stops halfway through, like: *"you know what? No. Nope, can't keep doing this."* 😂😂
lol...it gives me comfort lol...she said she was 29 and im like..thank god...im 29 now and still a virgin..but now we are in this lockdown life..sooo ill be waiting longer i guess
Absolutely! they said talk about “taking the blame of yourself for things you may haven’t done”, like he wasn’t able to break up in case he wasn’t happy.
I'd love to be sure of this, but remember there's always a chance Adam could be lying to her to prove what a good man he is so he won't lose what he has. I've been with someone like that previously and heard of other who have done the same. Or he could be making up the story entirely, we don't know.
@@kinndah2519exactly & remember she paid for their wedding and makes more money that he does. Who could leave a wife like that?! nobody. So could pretend being the perfect husband. I hope they really are happy
My bf was a virgin and he had some issues. He needed some medication to help with performance and to get more comfortable. It was really frustrating at first but we worked our way through it and Im so glad we are thriving now.
I do understand what Adrienne was saying at the end. Grown men are not children. You have a mind of your own that should know right from wrong, especially in a relationship. Nobody forced you to be unfaithful and cheat on the person your heart was supposed to be devoted to.
Interesting; that women tend to take longer sexually to warm up. That said, I would like to submit that men take longer emotionally to be warmed up in relationships. Meaning men take longer to decide on whether they love you not, while women historically are ready sooner. If you understand my meaning, I believe this is a way that God balances us to the point that nobody really has the upper hand in the battle of the sexes. Another way of saying this, is men have to be patient sexually with women and women have to be patient emotionally with men. Otherwise, we climax too fast for the other person.
I remember telling my ex NUMEROUS TIMES what I needed to really get off. Every single time, he would nod and act like he was taking in what I was saying. Then when we get busy, he would just go back to what wasn’t working before. Even told him DURING and he just wasn’t taking instruction. I had to leave. It would’ve been one thing if he was at least trying, but he was just focused on himself and I couldn’t do it.
God these 4 are sooo good together that I can't stop watching their show, sorry to say this but I absolutely don't like when they're trying to add someone else to the group.. Love you guys :*
My first kiss with my hubby was AWFUL 🤣😂 but he was just out of practice but he more than made up for it afterwards 🤣😂now he is the kissing king he just needed some practice 🥰
Omg. If i ever have husband i am having my own bedroom and bathroom. We will be sleeping together but some days i want to have my own bed and sleep like In a coffin. Not to mention men snkrey
Here's what I believe: not everyone you have sex with is going to have had sex 1,000 times. Having sex with a new person can be nerve racking. Sometimes you need to get to know someone's body beforehand. I mean there are lots of reasons to wait until the 4th time.
@john smith nope that's not what she said. You're reading too much into it. Let's be real, there's a REAL issue with systematic sexism and women and men blaming the women harder when it comes to cheating. It is too common that women are called whores or sluts for dating married men (which is wrong) and the man is forgiven, or people forget all together that he did it.
@john smith It's not that women that women don't cheat. I never said anything about that. I said the female partners of the husbands that cheat on their wives with usually get labeled much more heavily than the man. And you can cut the incel act.
@john smith I never have ever said anything about women cheating on their husbands. That's off topic. Maybe you have something YOU need to work on, but we were talking about the labels put on women when cheating with married men specifically. No on said women don't cheat and that blaming is not a common human trait. What we ARE saying is that our society has a HUGE problem with blaming women for the faults of men, expecting women to be the perfect ones even when both genders have done wrong. If you're going to ignore the systematic sexism that is blatant and common than I do not see any point in having a discussion, especially since you lack respect.
If it’s the first time I’d imagine it’s not gonna be the best, women like different things. Men often assume they can please any woman they meet however, women are designed differently. It sometimes takes a while to know what the woman you’re intimate with likes
I think it's fair to give someone a chance despite initial bad intimacy. Sometimes the emotional connection gets stronger with time, and the pleasure grows as a result. It's worth it to wait it out in my opinion.
I had an awful night with a guy and i gave him a chance and now im married to him. And im so thankful, 8 years together! If alcohol was involved believe me, give them a chance.
The truth is women want men who just "get it." Engaging in this kind of protracted rational conversation prior to sex is the opposite of attractive and is mostly just a tell that the guy doesn't have much experience. When the clothes come off, a guy should focus on making confident moves and calibrating to the girl. If a girl responds well to something, keep doing it. And besides physical signs of pleasure, women will also guide your hand some place or tell you to do more of X or less of Y. Listen to that feedback as well rather than mindlessly doing what you think is good. End of the day it's a dance.
He was i control in a settle way calm way and he still let me direct him like I think, I moved his hand places and he just knew what, I wanted . It was like art. So like you stated he listen or watched how my body responded to his like he was thoughtful.
" it's almost impossible to steal someone else's partner " I'm on the fence about that statement in the introduction... because yes it's hard to steal someone else's partner but it's also easy for some men or women to stay when they know they did wrong in the relationship because most men... atleast 90% of men refuse to leave their wives/ girlfriends even though they are cheating( never really understood that either to be honest...
That's what makes it impossible, cause they want to have both and they don't decide untill it gets ugly, and the wife leaves him or they really fall in love with the other woman and decide to divorce. But if neither of those happens then it can go on and on...
That’s usually because they’re trying to decide what they want to do or who they want to be with. Sometimes it’s just easy for them to stay because the two women are allowing it by staying with him in the first place. It’s up to us women to decide if we want to be valued or not. I’d rather leave with my dignity in tact than to stay and be an option.
Loni is hysterical today i havent laughed that hard before. n i usually watch when the alysha keys looking girl is there because i love her hair styles but Loni killin it today.
I also want to add that there are also women who do like to seek a married man... I don't know why...but like the adventure and danger of it all gives them an adrenaline rush that makes them think they really have a chance with this man who could actually be truly in love with his woman and isn't willing to leave just because another woman wants him !
Idk if the lighting was different or you all had a different make up artist.. In this episode You ALL LOOK AMAZING! More natural idk . The look is softer.. Love it!
😂 😂 😂 Tamara so funny she over there talking about she love foreplay then she repeated it i love foreplay! She a freak just kidding It was so cute. Lady in the street but a freak in the bed 😝
I don't think someone can truly steal someone else's partner....If that person isn't happy in the relationship and wants to cheat, they will. I don't believe there is always just 'one' person out there for everyone, so there may be people you find attractive and connect with on an emotional level that are NOT the person you're with...However, there is such a thing as self-control/ will power/ faithfulness!
I think it’s easier to blame to other woman because they love the man and don’t want to accept that someone they love hurt them in that way, it’s easier to just project
If you are young and it's your first couple of times, it's kind of cute figuring it out and the bad sex is still good memories. I think it's only bad when people don't try to please eachother and don't communicate about it. Sex is also in the mind so being attracted to eachother is also importan, being in love when you have sex also helps people. It's not just the act of sex that is determining if it's a good or bad experience.
@@Thatslaw if u read their message they said they pee recorded their eps because of the quarentine and also they are using the eps from when Amanda wasn't there yet
People news flash, it doesn't matter who you've been with & how excellent you performed, you will still have to do your homework and find out what the next person likes. They may not like what the previous partner liked. So this expectation of the first time being GREAT is unrealistic, especially if you're in a relationship. Now if you're one-night standing, then I guess you have no choice but to expect great performance.💁😂
Elana K Like you just told us. Sex is far to intimate of an act to be “shy” about. You’re literally naked with someone who has the ability to at ANY moment kill you if he’s a lunatic, if you can trust him to sleep with him, trust him to tell him what ya need! I know I’m dramatic, but it’s true...
I do not believe in any human being prefect and never making a bad judgement in the moment.. People will make mistakes and its up to u to love them in spite of their mistakes...
“That was such a waste of my vagina” 😭😭 Adrienne is an entire mood
Adrienne always "knows someone" 😂😂
Sometimes I feel like that someone is her😂😂🤷♀️
She be speaking about herself
True😂😂😂
OMG YES!! They gotta know she referring to herself
Plot twist: that “someone” is one person who’s life is just tragic 🥺
Whoever is reading this may you find true love, joy, peace and happiness in these hard times. Be safe and focused. Peace
Grace Morgan speaks UA-cam Channel thankyou. I hope the same for you. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️
You too🙏🏽
Grace Morgan speaks UA-cam Channel you too
You too ramdom kind person saying kind words
Amen. Thanks, you too x
Inexperienced is one thing and can be remedied. But selfish? Hard no.
Ariel H Agreed! My boyfriend tried hard the first time but it just wasn’t great. Trust and believe, it got better!
Exactly
Ariel H true
selfish imma embarrass you before you think you cute
For real
The whole "4 and a half" thing makes me imagine the 5th time, someone stops halfway through, like: *"you know what? No. Nope, can't keep doing this."* 😂😂
Right 😆😆😆😆
LOL. It's just the average of the number of days the different women in the poll gave.
@@TheNyakaat well yeah I know that. Lol I was just saying what it made me imagine.
@@milamnwalker4801 I see.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That blue color looks stunning on Tamera 😍
I just feel like everything looks good on her
I actually have that and I wear it like a pajama but damn she wore it on live tv
@Navdeep Kumar stfu 😑
I agree.
No one:
Tamera: “I waited a LONG time y’all”
Marina me tho I’m almost 22 n still a virgin 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 everytime
lol...it gives me comfort lol...she said she was 29 and im like..thank god...im 29 now and still a virgin..but now we are in this lockdown life..sooo ill be waiting longer i guess
Lmaooo
Genesis Santos I’m almost 23 (this July) and still a virgin too 😂
“You gotta warm it up!” You gotta preheat the oven before you bake your cookies
Amen to what tamera said!!! He’s got to be a good kisser
Yes omg! Nothing more awkward and gross than a lousy kisser lol
I agree.
Men that try to kiss with there mouth wide open.
Yes that's number one
Nah you can't steal someone's man. You can tempt him but he leaves or stays if he wants to
Absolutely! they said talk about “taking the blame of yourself for things you may haven’t done”, like he wasn’t able to break up in case he wasn’t happy.
Tamara has a good husband!! Not every woman gets that lucky.
Adam has a good wife not every man gets that lucky
I'd love to be sure of this, but remember there's always a chance Adam could be lying to her to prove what a good man he is so he won't lose what he has. I've been with someone like that previously and heard of other who have done the same. Or he could be making up the story entirely, we don't know.
That’s why she took so long to merry him she wanted to know for sure 💕
@@kinndah2519exactly & remember she paid for their wedding and makes more money that he does. Who could leave a wife like that?! nobody. So could pretend being the perfect husband. I hope they really are happy
@@kinndah2519or she has a good man and ur just protecting cause u don't not her problem
"If it ain't there, it ain't there!!" Exactly Adrienne hahah🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Haha.
Currently in the hospital, this show always makes me happy and brings my moods up
Feel better, hun😊
:( I hope you get better soon ! 💕🥺
B thank you ! ❤️
Nan :D thank you💕💕
Mel Mortazavi thanks love💗
Yeah Adrienne always had "a friend "😂😂
TAM TAM'S MAKEUP IS ON POINT THIS BLUE COLOR OH MY GOD I AM DYINGGGGGGGGG
My bf was a virgin and he had some issues. He needed some medication to help with performance and to get more comfortable. It was really frustrating at first but we worked our way through it and Im so glad we are thriving now.
I'm happy for you both 😊👏
He couldn’t get hard? He was probably nervous
I do understand what Adrienne was saying at the end. Grown men are not children. You have a mind of your own that should know right from wrong, especially in a relationship. Nobody forced you to be unfaithful and cheat on the person your heart was supposed to be devoted to.
Interesting; that women tend to take longer sexually to warm up. That said, I would like to submit that men take longer emotionally to be warmed up in relationships. Meaning men take longer to decide on whether they love you not, while women historically are ready sooner. If you understand my meaning, I believe this is a way that God balances us to the point that nobody really has the upper hand in the battle of the sexes. Another way of saying this, is men have to be patient sexually with women and women have to be patient emotionally with men. Otherwise, we climax too fast for the other person.
KingzKid 🎯
Exactly
PREACH 🙌!
Wow
Wow ... Idk that ... Now I know ...
Thank you
“Go slower” lol. Everyone has the hots for Tam
Adrienne looks STUNNING with red lips
From 11:04 - 11:42 that's when the PTSD from Jeannie's marriage to Freddy flashed back and she needed to vocalize her emotions.
H
Yup and Adrienne's face did a subconscious twitch when they started talking about cheating
It is impossible to take a man. Men, like women, have free will! He wasn't taken. . .he left
I remember telling my ex NUMEROUS TIMES what I needed to really get off. Every single time, he would nod and act like he was taking in what I was saying. Then when we get busy, he would just go back to what wasn’t working before. Even told him DURING and he just wasn’t taking instruction. I had to leave. It would’ve been one thing if he was at least trying, but he was just focused on himself and I couldn’t do it.
NIKITA Bloomdale ooooommggggg same girl. Same.
Damn. Smh
People are only able to take someone from you who wants to be taken. If they were pulled and let go of you, don’t reach back for them!
God these 4 are sooo good together that I can't stop watching their show, sorry to say this but I absolutely don't like when they're trying to add someone else to the group.. Love you guys :*
Yeah. I don't like the controversy that comes with that extra.
Tamera gonna be heart broken if her man cheats,she really put him on a pedestal
Panatia Mokoena then it’s a good thing he won’t 🙂
Panatia Mokoena honestly she’s really naive
Its okay I've been there where I put someone on a pedestal and they disappoint,leave room for errors cos humans aren't perfect
Or maybe he's just in fact very loyal and faithful that she's so confident in her marriage?
Hi
My first kiss with my hubby was AWFUL 🤣😂 but he was just out of practice but he more than made up for it afterwards 🤣😂now he is the kissing king he just needed some practice 🥰
If people built a foundation 1st, all these things would smooth it self out naturally because communication is open.
The lack of foreplay is definitely a deal breaker.
Yupp! Same here.
I'd like to hear a girl chat about: married couples who sleep in separate beds and/or rooms. What is your opinion?
Omg. If i ever have husband i am having my own bedroom and bathroom. We will be sleeping together but some days i want to have my own bed and sleep like In a coffin. Not to mention men snkrey
I personally like having my own bed lol.
Im with Tamera. If you can't kiss that kinda tells you something. That's my opinion tho.
Trust me.. not always
Here's what I believe: not everyone you have sex with is going to have had sex 1,000 times. Having sex with a new person can be nerve racking. Sometimes you need to get to know someone's body beforehand. I mean there are lots of reasons to wait until the 4th time.
Loni Love: "you're gotta warm it up fellas"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Great point Adrian men are not victims to be snatched up
@john smith nope that's not what she said. You're reading too much into it. Let's be real, there's a REAL issue with systematic sexism and women and men blaming the women harder when it comes to cheating. It is too common that women are called whores or sluts for dating married men (which is wrong) and the man is forgiven, or people forget all together that he did it.
@john smith It's not that women that women don't cheat. I never said anything about that. I said the female partners of the husbands that cheat on their wives with usually get labeled much more heavily than the man. And you can cut the incel act.
@john smith No one was talking about the acts of married women. You're just bitter.
@john smith I never have ever said anything about women cheating on their husbands. That's off topic. Maybe you have something YOU need to work on, but we were talking about the labels put on women when cheating with married men specifically. No on said women don't cheat and that blaming is not a common human trait. What we ARE saying is that our society has a HUGE problem with blaming women for the faults of men, expecting women to be the perfect ones even when both genders have done wrong. If you're going to ignore the systematic sexism that is blatant and common than I do not see any point in having a discussion, especially since you lack respect.
"Go slower" LMAO LONIII 😂
If it’s the first time I’d imagine it’s not gonna be the best, women like different things. Men often assume they can please any woman they meet however, women are designed differently. It sometimes takes a while to know what the woman you’re intimate with likes
I think it's fair to give someone a chance despite initial bad intimacy. Sometimes the emotional connection gets stronger with time, and the pleasure grows as a result. It's worth it to wait it out in my opinion.
This was a great talk, grown women talk. I totally enjoyed it.
Yeah, and not a regular fan but I truly enjoyed this conversation. 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
I had an awful night with a guy and i gave him a chance and now im married to him. And im so thankful, 8 years together! If alcohol was involved believe me, give them a chance.
Point blank period ... COMMUNICATION GOES A LONG WAY AND IT IS ALWAYS KEY 🔑
The way Adrienne said she’s nasty🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for these pre-recorded videos! Bless 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
“Both of them are ratchet heauxs”
1 Loc Wonder who 🤔
Tennille Alexander Jeannie said that
She said that with so much emotion 😞
Lol
@@Lmaohaha I think that one ringed truer for her considering...
The truth is women want men who just "get it." Engaging in this kind of protracted rational conversation prior to sex is the opposite of attractive and is mostly just a tell that the guy doesn't have much experience. When the clothes come off, a guy should focus on making confident moves and calibrating to the girl. If a girl responds well to something, keep doing it. And besides physical signs of pleasure, women will also guide your hand some place or tell you to do more of X or less of Y. Listen to that feedback as well rather than mindlessly doing what you think is good. End of the day it's a dance.
He was i control in a settle way calm way and he still let me direct him like I think, I moved his hand places and he just knew what, I wanted .
It was like art.
So like you stated he listen or watched how my body responded to his like he was thoughtful.
Oh, you have pleased someone. 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿😈😈😈
gfunkin2 facts
💯💯💯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼agreed
Adrienne Bailon is that friend you😂😂😂 in Tam Tams voice
" it's almost impossible to steal someone else's partner " I'm on the fence about that statement in the introduction... because yes it's hard to steal someone else's partner but it's also easy for some men or women to stay when they know they did wrong in the relationship because most men... atleast 90% of men refuse to leave their wives/ girlfriends even though they are cheating( never really understood that either to be honest...
That's what makes it impossible, cause they want to have both and they don't decide untill it gets ugly, and the wife leaves him or they really fall in love with the other woman and decide to divorce. But if neither of those happens then it can go on and on...
That’s usually because they’re trying to decide what they want to do or who they want to be with. Sometimes it’s just easy for them to stay because the two women are allowing it by staying with him in the first place. It’s up to us women to decide if we want to be valued or not. I’d rather leave with my dignity in tact than to stay and be an option.
Myronn Coleman let’s be real they are dogs that’s it
It's Tabaitha stop making excuses for men
I liked this show better when it was just the 4 of them .
YES Jeannie! I believe in good dancers and they haven't proved me wrong!
Me too lol
Yes girl fore play is very important....keep it intresting an spicey
O yes foreplay until marriage
Loni is hysterical today i havent laughed that hard before. n i usually watch when the alysha keys looking girl is there because i love her hair styles but Loni killin it today.
I also want to add that there are also women who do like to seek a married man... I don't know why...but like the adventure and danger of it all gives them an adrenaline rush that makes them think they really have a chance with this man who could actually be truly in love with his woman and isn't willing to leave just because another woman wants him !
They used a very dark make up on Loni! Adreane looks stunning in that dress
Regina Mushi for me it’s matches with her neck
Tamara's outfit & makeup 😍😍
"This girl sent me a picture SHE NAASTY" LOLOLOL
Idk if the lighting was different or you all had a different make up artist.. In this episode You ALL LOOK AMAZING! More natural idk . The look is softer.. Love it!
😂 😂 😂 Tamara so funny she over there talking about she love foreplay then she repeated it i love foreplay! She a freak just kidding It was so cute. Lady in the street but a freak in the bed 😝
So so so true! My first with a guy was awful. The second was amazing!
I don't think someone can truly steal someone else's partner....If that person isn't happy in the relationship and wants to cheat, they will. I don't believe there is always just 'one' person out there for everyone, so there may be people you find attractive and connect with on an emotional level that are NOT the person you're with...However, there is such a thing as self-control/ will power/ faithfulness!
@0:50 "I love foreplay..." 😂🤣😂🤣
'' You look like a Mark '' lmaoooo wow
Literally skipping foreplay and trying to get straight too it with no warming up, uhhhhh no!! So not enjoyable!
Yup fellas you gotta warm up them yams !!
😂😂😂
🤣 👌
Yes, he has to be a good kisser and a loyal man too!
I wanna see tamera’s full outfit!! She is always dressed beautifully
Tamera is so beautiful and so real ! Love from India !
Loni is talking from a place of wisdom here. Everyone has ebbs and flows in their lives.
I think it’s easier to blame to other woman because they love the man and don’t want to accept that someone they love hurt them in that way, it’s easier to just project
That first kiss is a game changer. That's why I'm about to celebrate 30yrs of marriage and still very in love. 😜🥰
But sometimes the equipment is more than enough but the rhythm is non existent... a waste *sigh*
I've always said, gotta warm up the oven before sticking the meat in!!!!
"Oh heelll noo" I repeated that part 5 times
"This girl send me her picture. She nasty!" 😂😂😂😂
I miss the old Adrienne 😞😞💕💕💕💕
We need foreplay back men only care about pleasing themselves and getting their climax and call it a day
ashley solomon that’s not true I don’t know what black men you were messing with I had some good ass experiences with my past men lol
ashley solomon nah not true white men ain’t the best either
If you are young and it's your first couple of times, it's kind of cute figuring it out and the bad sex is still good memories. I think it's only bad when people don't try to please eachother and don't communicate about it. Sex is also in the mind so being attracted to eachother is also importan, being in love when you have sex also helps people. It's not just the act of sex that is determining if it's a good or bad experience.
If its a one night situation I'll move on, but if its somebody I like and they possess other things I'll try again
Ade couldn’t hide it every time cheating comes up she gets so weird
Loni slimming down. 🤔
This was a LONG time ago
@@Thatslaw if u read their message they said they pee recorded their eps because of the quarentine and also they are using the eps from when Amanda wasn't there yet
Angel M she should get back to this size then
@@Thatslaw she's working on a new diet
@@musaazi87 Exercise is required to increase metabolism and accelerate weightloss not just diet from what I know
People news flash, it doesn't matter who you've been with & how excellent you performed, you will still have to do your homework and find out what the next person likes. They may not like what the previous partner liked. So this expectation of the first time being GREAT is unrealistic, especially if you're in a relationship. Now if you're one-night standing, then I guess you have no choice but to expect great performance.💁😂
Loni is losing weight and lookin GOOOOOOOD💯
"That is such a waste of my vagina." HAHAHAHAHA
I am with her the equipment is important lol 🤣 🤣 the strokes work with the equipment my opinion 🤷🏾♀️
Oh lol
gmi g I know 🤣
good point! i’m shy though, so how do you tell him he’s kinda selfish in bed?
@@elana7249 Tell him you want him to focus on that p*$$y more, or that spot that takes you to another level.
Elana K Like you just told us. Sex is far to intimate of an act to be “shy” about. You’re literally naked with someone who has the ability to at ANY moment kill you if he’s a lunatic, if you can trust him to sleep with him, trust him to tell him what ya need! I know I’m dramatic, but it’s true...
Loni looks so good this episode my god
This is the prettiesy i have everrrr seen adrienne😍😍
ohhh i love how off-topic they get
I don’t mind training a man as long he got the equipment and he’s a great man to me. Sometimes a man just have to learn your chemistry spots & moods.
Looks like Lonnie is getting smaller. Can't help but to notice🤷🏽♀️
They said these were pre recorded before they added amanda so these are old clips
@@amyzamora2125 .... lol well in that case. .. nevermind 😂. She still looks good though
Tamara : that was fun 😂😂😂😂
i gotta agree with tamera, i cant date a bad kisser. i just cant.
Adrienne you looks soooo beautiful!!!💖💖💖😍😍😍💪💪💪
Equipment ain't right. One and done 🤣
''warm up the engine''? No.- its, ''GIT YER MOTOR GOIN'.. ''
There are GREAT men who value what they have at home and they are NOT having it. They take pride in shutting these women down.
Anyone know what lipstick Adrienne is wearing ? She looks beautiful ♥️
to me it looks similar to Ruby Woo from Mac
Adrienne has so many FRIENDS, lol..
Inexperience could be fixed, now inconsistency cannot. No matter how much you try, it’ll just fail.
I do not believe in any human being prefect and never making a bad judgement in the moment..
People will make mistakes and its up to u to love them in spite of their mistakes...
I Love Loni's top!
“ that was such a waste of my vagina” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That would be a BLOCK😂😂😂