GIRL CHAT VAULT: Liking the Same Man as Your Friend

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  • Опубліковано 5 кві 2020
  • Real fam, have you been in a love triangle with your friend?
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  • @zoriahfrancis2270
    @zoriahfrancis2270 4 роки тому +2625

    I agree with Adrienne. Lmao I’m not competing for any man.

    • @HelloTruDee
      @HelloTruDee 4 роки тому +54

      Zoriah Francis saaaaaaame sis! If he really wanted me he’d make the effort. I’d rather use that energy and invest in myself!

    • @mahamm559
      @mahamm559 4 роки тому +5

      I mean Adrienne...... Nvm

    • @AllieLittleMonster
      @AllieLittleMonster 4 роки тому +20

      Maha Mm oh stop, he was long separated when him and Adrienne got together. Corny old rumor.

    • @mahamm559
      @mahamm559 4 роки тому +1

      @@AllieLittleMonster sure

    • @AllieLittleMonster
      @AllieLittleMonster 4 роки тому +14

      Maha Mm I don’t think people realize marriages are over before they’re legally over. Him and his wife were long separated and you can’t get a divorce until you’re separated six months. Marriages take years to fizzle out but I don’t expect children to know anything about that. When him and Adrienne started dating it wasn’t a Seder so obv his ex wife knew and it was fine.

  • @thaimar3114
    @thaimar3114 4 роки тому +2674

    I’m totally the kind of woman Adrienne explained of herself. I’m only interested in you if you’re interested in me tho not all the time but i’m not going to compete for a man’s attention.

  • @Nicole9605
    @Nicole9605 4 роки тому +1111

    I’m with Adrienne 1000%. I’m turned off by a guy that a bunch of women want. I’m only interested in men who are interested in me.

    • @cynthiap.2573
      @cynthiap.2573 4 роки тому +31

      he can’t help if it a lot of girls like him though, he’ll pick the one he likes, maybe he’ll pick you

    • @moniquerobinson1986
      @moniquerobinson1986 4 роки тому +5

      Ok, Men love attention just as much as Women...but I may be wrong women stay loyal when they have a good person

    • @cynthiap.2573
      @cynthiap.2573 4 роки тому +7

      Monique Robinson men do too. look at Idris Elba, soooo many women are after him but he’s loyal to his lady

    • @moniquerobinson1986
      @moniquerobinson1986 4 роки тому +2

      @@cynthiap.2573 ok

    • @marchbros-bk9hp
      @marchbros-bk9hp 4 роки тому +5

      I think she just means she doesn’t like playing games! Which is understandable!

  • @gracemorganspeaks
    @gracemorganspeaks 4 роки тому +1656

    Whoever is reading know that God is with you in the valley and on the mountain. It doesnot matter how bad things are in your dear life. God will always be by your side. Blessings

  • @ebonih7138
    @ebonih7138 4 роки тому +630

    I agree with Adrienne it’s a turn off when a guy got hella girls after him, bc those guys really be getting big heads 😂

  • @soleebsa
    @soleebsa 4 роки тому +1138

    Am I the only one who does not think Tia and Tamera “look exactly alike” ???
    I can tell the difference between the two very easily, and not just because of the mole. Not that serious but I’m curious?

    • @girltalkforgirlz
      @girltalkforgirlz 4 роки тому +64

      yup, to me they look very different.

    • @heavenlyaguilar6607
      @heavenlyaguilar6607 4 роки тому +30

      Yeah they look different to me as well.

    • @lashondarochell7584
      @lashondarochell7584 4 роки тому +20

      They definitely don't look alike

    • @reginamushi6582
      @reginamushi6582 4 роки тому +25

      Tia face is a little longer especially when she is skinny

    • @diam0nd_xx2
      @diam0nd_xx2 4 роки тому +72

      Yea but she was talking about when they were younger and when they were younger I could NOT tell them apart but now that they r older with or without makeup they look totally different

  • @ItsTimara
    @ItsTimara 4 роки тому +567

    “By the grace of God we don’t like the same man” -tamera, that how I feel about my best friend!

    • @camabkamuvoba7467
      @camabkamuvoba7467 4 роки тому +19

      girl you still gotta watch your back. can't trust anybody anymore, esp close friends.

    • @ItsTimara
      @ItsTimara 4 роки тому +10

      Camill Kondrakhin oh ma’am I KNOW, literally my other best friend & bf got together, I should do a story time about it lol

    • @ItsTimara
      @ItsTimara 4 роки тому +7

      Camill Kondrakhin but it’s above me now 😩🤣

    • @camabkamuvoba7467
      @camabkamuvoba7467 4 роки тому +9

      @@ItsTimara it's always a friend that will betray you oh my! they deserve each other i guess

    • @ItsTimara
      @ItsTimara 4 роки тому +3

      Camill Kondrakhin ikr😩 subscribe to my channel if you want too 🥰🥰💜

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 роки тому +439

    I never been in a love triangle... having a crush is ok... but having a full on battle on who is gonna win who.. that'll be a no... if I have to fight for someone they are NOT WORTH a thought in my mind

    • @anewno6240
      @anewno6240 4 роки тому +15

      I have been in a crush triangle and when your left by yourself while friend is happily in love, that hurts. But then again my friend was flirting with him and getting closer to him while I was away from him and avoiding him because I am too shy and nervous, very weird too lol

    • @spamautumn167
      @spamautumn167 3 роки тому +1

      Beautiful Girl I was in a situTion like this. A guy liked me and my friend liked him but the guy didn’t like my friend. My friend tried to be happy but couldn’t and I cut my friend off Bc our relationship was never the same after that

  • @06050010631
    @06050010631 4 роки тому +339

    I always loved this choice of color coordination even if it was purposeful or not! They look like the elements lol~
    Tam- Water
    Jeannie- Earth
    Loni- Fire
    Adrienne- Air
    Kinda makes sense too?

    • @carlitosway1330
      @carlitosway1330 4 роки тому +3

      Does that make Loni "Earth"?

    • @_Diaryofwealth
      @_Diaryofwealth 4 роки тому +5

      Makes a lottttt of sense dearrr

    • @nomatterwatialwayswin
      @nomatterwatialwayswin 4 роки тому +8

      Omg i love this comment! Lol never wouldve saw that! Ha! Love it!

    • @violetaura9007
      @violetaura9007 4 роки тому +4

      @David Morales so funny, but only Adrienne could help! She's the Air Bender 😉

    • @jemimajanvier4706
      @jemimajanvier4706 4 роки тому +6

      Someone’s a fan of Avatar lol

  • @diane8alice
    @diane8alice 4 роки тому +675

    I miss this dynamic. Don’t get me wrong Amanda says thoughtful things. However loni is sillier, Jeanie gets to speak. Amanda always seems frustrated listening.

  • @MariahWyattBraxton
    @MariahWyattBraxton 4 роки тому +803

    Loni’s makeup has come THE LONGEST way!

    • @kebataliam496
      @kebataliam496 4 роки тому +56

      The shading is a lil light though. Her arm is hella chocolate but the face nearing caramel. Everyone else kinda matches everywhere. The application is beautiful but the shading is a lil sketchy.
      6.16 shows it clearly.

    • @vsg5549
      @vsg5549 4 роки тому +21

      I think she means since its an old clip they recently matched her foundation and skin tone

    • @a.sydney5036
      @a.sydney5036 4 роки тому +11

      Mariah Braxton still too light for complexion. Look at her neck, arms and hands. 😩

    • @BahamaSoccerStr11
      @BahamaSoccerStr11 4 роки тому +15

      But this makeup is one of the worst. The color is sooo off from her skin. Her face and arms look like two different people!

    • @Prinnncesz
      @Prinnncesz 4 роки тому +1

      Mariah Braxton her wig hasn’t tho

  • @user-e2023
    @user-e2023 4 роки тому +155

    Women shouldn't "win" men. Women shouldn't try to impress men. I agree with Adrienne, men should pursue.

  • @hakunamatada1430808
    @hakunamatada1430808 4 роки тому +81

    The way Adrienne sang M-I-C-K-E-Y lollll, I just know she didn’t remember the jingle

    • @jdo9676
      @jdo9676 4 роки тому

      They have to pay for the jingle if she were to continue...

  • @sewwithlish9947
    @sewwithlish9947 4 роки тому +121

    “So we can google it right?”😂😂😂

    • @nayvadius-garycrim269
      @nayvadius-garycrim269 4 роки тому +9

      Girl I had to rewind 😂😂 her face when she said though..

    • @Kayyyoxh
      @Kayyyoxh 3 роки тому +3

      Orlando brown or Aaron carter came to my mind first thing 😂 they are not stars anymore

    • @PAgonzalez96
      @PAgonzalez96 3 роки тому +11

      she talked about dating Andrew Keegan while on a cruise with other Disney stars

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 2 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @RNM-bu4rj
    @RNM-bu4rj 4 роки тому +294

    Congratulations Jeannie on your engagement!!!!

    • @teeboss2728
      @teeboss2728 4 роки тому +2

      R.N M huh!!!!!!!!????????? When?????🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @RNM-bu4rj
      @RNM-bu4rj 4 роки тому

      Tee Boss yesterday!

    • @daniella3116
      @daniella3116 4 роки тому

      R.N M WHAT

  • @ForeverLuckyLika
    @ForeverLuckyLika 4 роки тому +97

    I’m just like Adrienne ... I’m not feeling the guy every girl is gushing over. If he likes me he’s gonna pursue and that’s the guy I’m checking for

  • @carriemackay714
    @carriemackay714 4 роки тому +52

    Adrienne looks like JLo in maid in Manhattan

  • @jeckellstallworth
    @jeckellstallworth 4 роки тому +133

    I love Adrienn’s hair, just gorgeous. I am so with Adrienne in her feelings about this subject. If I get any inclination that a man is interested in someone else, I just retreat.

  • @JacquieAnyanwu
    @JacquieAnyanwu 4 роки тому +57

    Loni's always down for gossip😂😂
    Look how she said "Oh, do tell!!"🤣

  • @riridontell1163
    @riridontell1163 4 роки тому +215

    Always take a guy that loves you more then you love him

    • @Hi-gg8rp
      @Hi-gg8rp 4 роки тому +19

      why be with a guy that you don't love that much that's just unfair to the both of them

    • @jayant7583
      @jayant7583 4 роки тому +4

      @crescentmoon don't worry.. he'll choose a girl who loves him more than him..works both ways

    • @DaGoodVybe
      @DaGoodVybe 4 роки тому

      Iman Khan 💛

    • @Hi-gg8rp
      @Hi-gg8rp 4 роки тому

      @@DaGoodVybe tehe

    • @Hi-gg8rp
      @Hi-gg8rp 4 роки тому +3

      @crescentmoon If you wanna be with men you don't love that's fine with me, you do you.

  • @jadaforsee1820
    @jadaforsee1820 4 роки тому +71

    This is probably my favorite look of Adriennes. She looks beautiful here.

    • @cindywongsuna837
      @cindywongsuna837 4 роки тому +4

      Out of all the ladies, Adrienne's make up , hair , and wardrobes is usually on point. ( Especially ,make up and hair)..

  • @nadiajohnson4648
    @nadiajohnson4648 4 роки тому +39

    I 100% agree with Adrienne. I want someone to really like and want me. If you are entertaining other interest, it tells me you don't like me very much OR that you're attention won't be 100% on me if we did get together. One eye will be on me and the other eye will be constantly looking

  • @ashleychavez4437
    @ashleychavez4437 4 роки тому +132

    I love Jeannie but she contradicted herself when she asked Adrienne "but why does it have to be a competition?" When she herself mentioned she won the guy she dated for 3 years 🤔 Anyway, love these ladies and congrats on your engagement, hunnay!! 💕

    • @nadiajohnson4648
      @nadiajohnson4648 4 роки тому +29

      I think she meant she won as in they dated, but she never viewed it as a competition. She was herself and whoever he liked, he liked. Ya know what I'm saying?
      Edit: omg I'm so happy for her engagement!! They seem so perfect for each other.

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 4 роки тому +12

      Nadia Johnson I kind of saw that “it’s not a competition” comment as naive on her part. Weather she believed it to be or not, she competed with another woman for a mans affection and attention. Just because she had her head in the sand about it doesn’t make it not true.

    • @nadiajohnson4648
      @nadiajohnson4648 4 роки тому +4

      @@EllePlowPlow I think you're right in the aspect of it's a competition because 2 people are vying for the same thing, the "trophy" = the man. But it wasn't a competition for her because she was gonna be herself and if he liked her and wanted to be with her? Cool. The other girl was definitely competing tho.
      Edit: it can be a competition but it doesn't have to be a game. If that makes sense

    • @EllePlowPlow
      @EllePlowPlow 4 роки тому +5

      Nadia Johnson oh, I see what you mean. She wasn’t going to change to win basically. Well that’s good of her not to go that far & to compete on her own terms.

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 4 роки тому +1

      She said, to just be yourself if that is the type of chick he was actually interested in, he will naturally choose you. No contradiction to me.
      Its a whole nother story if you treat it like a game you gotta win and you acting out of character by being extra superficial to get his attention.

  • @smartladylab252
    @smartladylab252 4 роки тому +93

    It's not wise to compete for someone. There are MANYYY single and available people in the world, you shouldn't have to compete for one

  • @jaygreg266
    @jaygreg266 4 роки тому +50

    I needed auntie Lonnie’s advice years ago lol

  • @CJ-dg3bm
    @CJ-dg3bm 4 роки тому +15

    Adrienne girl we're alike in that sense. No one has time for that

  • @frizzzx86
    @frizzzx86 4 роки тому +75

    yes, for once, i agree with adrienne. jeannie just didn't sound right talking about how she "won" some guy...

  • @kaylavarela7215
    @kaylavarela7215 4 роки тому +5

    “Is he gonna choose me?! Ooh how lucky I would be!” 😂🤣 that part sent me

  • @sandraritah3346
    @sandraritah3346 4 роки тому +54

    i knew a girl who wouldnt eat infront of boys (back in school) - so totally get the trying to look pretty

  • @Jasmine-ez5td
    @Jasmine-ez5td 4 роки тому +56

    Adrienne speaking straight facts

  • @crystalmorrison1616
    @crystalmorrison1616 4 роки тому +213

    I miss the 4 of them together without a 5th person

    • @leolanaidoo2394
      @leolanaidoo2394 4 роки тому +24

      Crystal Morrison me too. I don’t even watch the new videos most of the time with her in it

    • @jayec.2845
      @jayec.2845 4 роки тому +5

      I knoooowwww me too just like this

    • @ellaelle4538
      @ellaelle4538 4 роки тому +9

      Crystal Morrison Same, their dynamic was soo good!

    • @yousraalhammam1158
      @yousraalhammam1158 4 роки тому +2

      Me toooooo

    • @gabriellacruz9401
      @gabriellacruz9401 4 роки тому +5

      Agreed. I am starting to rewatch videos of just them four.

  • @melissamjohnson6241
    @melissamjohnson6241 4 роки тому +48

    I'm exactly like Adrienne.
    If I find out that I'm in competition with another girl over a guy, I peace out ✌✌
    I don't play that game

  • @melissa5463
    @melissa5463 3 роки тому +16

    My best friend and I joke about this all the time. We are both sooo thankful that we don’t have the same taste in guys. The guys she finds attractive I would never, and the men I’m into she would never 😂

  • @kellyanastacio9780
    @kellyanastacio9780 4 роки тому +26

    This is just me:
    Whenever I meet a new guy, I automatically treat him as just a friend. I try not to crush over a guy just cuz he’s cute until I get to know them. I try to get to know them as friends to see if there can potentially be something there later on. Some people are better off just as friends. If I find out he likes some other girl, I’m automatically not interested, heck I’ll even be his wing girl 😂 I’m genuinely their friend, and on some occasions that has gotten them interested in me, and by then I’ve gotten to know them enough to know if they’ll a good partner or not. I think this has worked (for me at least) because they get to know YOU. They’ll get to know and love you for YOU. Sorry if this went off the topic but I just wanted to share 😅🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @totogirl0
    @totogirl0 4 роки тому +13

    This clip is so refreshing. Made me smile and laugh and i just love these ladies. The dynamic really changed after Amanda.

  • @taracorcoran8192
    @taracorcoran8192 4 роки тому +28

    People always say” There’s other fish in the Sea” but they all seem to be bad...listen I’m 17 years old so I’m figuring it all out😂

    • @TheLifeofAngie_
      @TheLifeofAngie_ 4 роки тому +1

      Tara Corcoran same here😭

    • @FineDivineB
      @FineDivineB 4 роки тому +1

      Gurll don’t worry you ain’t seen nothing yet🔥🔥🔥

  • @dianabarsom5541
    @dianabarsom5541 4 роки тому +19

    I love the relationship between Loni and Tamara and how loni loves her kids and wants her to have even more kids

  • @tiffanyreene7955
    @tiffanyreene7955 2 роки тому +10

    I love what Adrienne said. 👏🏾👏🏾 Im going to take that advice moving forward.
    Trying to compete for a guys attention is one of the worst things that can happen to your confidence. Just brings on insecurities and blind sides you. You should want a guy who really likes you. And don’t really start liking someone until they show you what you should like in/about them

  • @thandekagloria3508
    @thandekagloria3508 4 роки тому +8

    Loni: "is that the thing?? that they had" 😂😂😂😂😂 gone!

  • @ellebella5883
    @ellebella5883 4 роки тому +13

    When I find out my friends like the same guy, I let them have him and get over the guy. Just like Adrienne, I want a guy that is interested in me and me only.

  • @ellaelle4538
    @ellaelle4538 4 роки тому +18

    Love what Adrienne explained about the kind of girl she is, so true, I’m kinda like that too, except in Uni once, wanted this guy who didn’t have much interest in me 😂

  • @dot9305
    @dot9305 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you ladies for this. I am a girl in high school that is going through something similar to this. Thank you again for the advice. And you all look beautiful❤️❤️

  • @gabriella8141
    @gabriella8141 4 роки тому +10

    I understand the rather “silent” love triangle where it’s not a competition but rather two people have crushes on one person, even if the one person doesn’t notice (like Adrienne said the hot guy, the football player). But real love triangles, I agree with Adrienne, I can’t be in a competition with a man. It’s a turn off.

  • @Princetonlove34
    @Princetonlove34 4 роки тому +31

    "By the grace of god we don't like the same type of men" uh was that shade cause I would pick corey over adam in a heartbeat 😂

  • @jhoel6880
    @jhoel6880 4 роки тому +139

    I see the comments a lot, Girl Chat Vault means it’s an old episode, it’s a reupload

  • @jazmine16675
    @jazmine16675 4 роки тому +4

    Adrienne is a scorpio but very much gives me leo vibes. They dont take any mess and values themselves and knows their own worth.

    • @cwytchsparks
      @cwytchsparks 3 роки тому +2

      sorry for commenting so late but I agree with you

  • @cynthiaolmos12
    @cynthiaolmos12 4 роки тому +3

    why do I remember when this episode came out 😭😭 makes me happy to see all you grow and evolve 😁❤🙏🏼

  • @elosmilealways
    @elosmilealways 4 роки тому +12

    Adrienne is so beautiful. I love how classy she looks.

  • @lexo3411
    @lexo3411 4 роки тому +38

    I used to have a crush on this boy who was a friend of mine and I told my best friend about him and when she met him they became good friends as well and got really close. But a week later they started dating and I was kinda sad, but oh well I got a fine ass boyfriend now hehe.

    • @jadagigi6893
      @jadagigi6893 4 роки тому +13

      Yo “best friend” is fake af! Why would she even do that knowing that you like him?? Hella shady👀

    • @aura5944
      @aura5944 4 роки тому +3

      She's a snake

  • @Michelle-pb4ge
    @Michelle-pb4ge 4 роки тому +97

    Tamera is talking about Andrew Keegan lol

    • @ELmayberry
      @ELmayberry 4 роки тому +12

      oh okay... thanks for the info

    • @Olivia-hr9fr
      @Olivia-hr9fr 4 роки тому +3

      Michelle giirl I did some googling too😂

    • @Michelle-pb4ge
      @Michelle-pb4ge 4 роки тому +7

      @@Olivia-hr9fr i vaguely remember her talking about him in a girl chat in season 1 lol
      Such a shame how he turned out to be a cult leader 😱

    • @Olivia-hr9fr
      @Olivia-hr9fr 4 роки тому +5

      Michelle oooh I didn’t know about the cult part😬

    • @margaretruguwa9615
      @margaretruguwa9615 4 роки тому +10

      I came to the comments for exactly this 😂😂

  • @breezy1906
    @breezy1906 4 роки тому +24

    I am 100% the same as Adrienne

  • @JR_Cargile
    @JR_Cargile 4 роки тому +9

    In all honesty I realllly needed to hear this conversation right now. Jesus' timing is always right.

  • @cherrysandoval12
    @cherrysandoval12 4 роки тому +9

    I love Adrienne no man is worth fighting for. The one for you is for you!

  • @lexymartin6841
    @lexymartin6841 4 роки тому +5

    Juicy topic
    Adrienne said it all. If I have to fight for you, I lose interest all the way.
    Tamera reaction, eyes wide open and when they said 3rd she like umm slow down the role

  • @victoriamohan8827
    @victoriamohan8827 4 роки тому

    Everything Adrienne said describes me to the T. Also laughing at Loni always being so nosy!! "So we can google this right?" I CANT

  • @crazychicSHENA
    @crazychicSHENA 4 роки тому +11

    I just like Tamara omg 💃 I agree with her on everything lol

  • @dianak4665
    @dianak4665 4 роки тому +3

    when ur friend starts talking to your ex 😂😭 and claims she don’t like him but won’t stop talking to him lmaooo

  • @turnitupwithnelly-2337
    @turnitupwithnelly-2337 4 роки тому +1

    When Tamera spoke about her and tia liking the same guy. My sister sister fangirl side was like, "I REMEMBER THIS EPISODE!"
    🤣🤣🤣🤣❤

  • @mahsa065
    @mahsa065 4 роки тому +23

    I think sometimes what comes off as 'pride' is actual our insecurities. Adrienne has spoken before about how prideful she is and I can see that she might go for guys that already like her because she won't have to deal with rejection. I do relate to her but I'm trying to become more like Jeannie. Go for what you want and be yourself. IF you get rejected that's fine, at least you tried. Also, sometimes when you do get rejected by the person you wanted, you realize that you didn't really like them but maybe what they represented. Get out of your comfort zone.

    • @theelaveaux
      @theelaveaux 4 роки тому +1

      Same girl, same.

    • @YooTooLoB
      @YooTooLoB 4 роки тому +6

      Women should not have to pursue a man, if she has to be in that position in the first place he doesn't truly want her and she will get her feelings hurt. Men are supposed to approach and court the woman, and she decides if she likes him or not, at the end of the day for a heterosexual relationship to work the man has to like the woman more than she likes him.

    • @mahsa065
      @mahsa065 4 роки тому

      @@YooTooLoB Wendy William used to give that advice. She was also knowingly being cheated on for many years. Good luck!

    • @YooTooLoB
      @YooTooLoB 4 роки тому +3

      @@mahsa065 and how many men cheat on women who lowered themselves to approach them in the first place? I can assure you the number is much higher. Men appreciate the things they have to work hard to get, not the things being thrown at them out of desperation.

    • @mahsa065
      @mahsa065 4 роки тому

      @@YooTooLoB 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @rhondam9814
    @rhondam9814 4 роки тому +1

    Lmao 😂 tamera !!! “By the grace of god we don’t like the same kind of men” 😂😂😂😂

  • @dgarcia061811
    @dgarcia061811 4 роки тому +1

    Blame him! 😂 it’s his male fishies that ain’t swimming fast enough... if you’re not first then you’re last! 😂😵

  • @emilymarie7332
    @emilymarie7332 4 роки тому +2

    i needed this in my junior year 😭 it’s a bit too late auntie lonie

  • @SpiritualLifeCoach43
    @SpiritualLifeCoach43 4 роки тому +30

    If I gotta compete and fight for you then you aint mine. Miss me with that okdie dokie BS.

  • @mshunni-love2810
    @mshunni-love2810 4 роки тому

    Adrienne looks GORGEOUS!!! Love that pastel color on her and red nail polish color.

  • @Kayyyoxh
    @Kayyyoxh 3 роки тому +1

    I agree with Adrian 💯🙌🏼👍🏼 perfectly said!! Like I rather not lol he can pick and stay with that other girl!

    • @Kayyyoxh
      @Kayyyoxh 3 роки тому

      “I don’t play any games I can’t win”

  • @lesleymbuyikayembe7553
    @lesleymbuyikayembe7553 4 роки тому +4

    " I don't play games I can't win" Adrianne me we are the saaame person

  • @andiemorrissey3824
    @andiemorrissey3824 4 роки тому +4

    I'm actually addicted to this show 🙈

  • @adiadivito2035
    @adiadivito2035 4 роки тому +3

    My friends and I usually go by who liked the person first and who the person likes. If one of us liked him first the other one backs off, if the guy likes one of us the other one backs off. It's a helpful system in my opinion.

  • @turnitupwithnelly-2337
    @turnitupwithnelly-2337 4 роки тому +7

    I'm literally with Adrienne on this one. I'm not the type to play games. If he wants me and i want him. Thats that. But if he wants me and is still thinking of someone else? Yeah im flattered but no.

  • @EllePlowPlow
    @EllePlowPlow 4 роки тому +4

    Congrats on your engagement JEANNIE MAI!!!!!!!!!

  • @CeeP211
    @CeeP211 4 роки тому +2

    I don't wanna confuse "dating" with "competition." If you're single, most likely the person you are hanging out with is hanging out with other people too. It just is what it is. Of course, we would all love to be with someone who just likes us only, but that's most likely not the case because both of you are getting to know one another. I agree with both Adrienne and Jeannie on this one.

  • @signedsanga5959
    @signedsanga5959 4 роки тому +2

    Spoken like a true Scorpio ♏. Adrienne is me!!!

  • @edwardgregory9993
    @edwardgregory9993 2 роки тому +2

    It's smart for women to listen to Lonni about healthy and successful relationships.

  • @ivy234432
    @ivy234432 4 роки тому +7

    Adrienne is spot on👏🏼👏🏼

  • @twizzywrld3411
    @twizzywrld3411 4 роки тому +4

    Loni was like "Do Tell" 😂😂

  • @chasedful
    @chasedful 4 роки тому

    Unbelievable.....I actually watched this and enjoyed it....in touch with my feelings

  • @joanekquahlanders5014
    @joanekquahlanders5014 4 роки тому +1

    Jeannie was fooling around with that damn jeezy 😂😂😂😂

  • @Proudmuslimah123
    @Proudmuslimah123 3 роки тому +2

    Yessssss Adrienne!!!!

  • @rosedona8485
    @rosedona8485 4 роки тому +3

    I agree with Ade on the competition thing. I don’t want a dude that every girl want.

  • @tyeishamccaleb5520
    @tyeishamccaleb5520 3 роки тому

    Definitely agree with Adrienne. No doubt!!

  • @venusmoodie4874
    @venusmoodie4874 2 роки тому +1

    Bro Loni gets me everytime they're just so great this dynamic

  • @welheminahkgokgutsebane9635
    @welheminahkgokgutsebane9635 2 роки тому

    You guys dish us with the best advice. Shine guys!

  • @mjht4everkp
    @mjht4everkp 4 роки тому +1

    I needed that advice 4 years ago Auntie Loni🥺

  • @namatovupeninah2445
    @namatovupeninah2445 3 роки тому

    I agree with Adrienne.i hate competition not bse I don't believe in myself but I like it more when I feel pursued.

  • @lilybaker732
    @lilybaker732 3 роки тому

    I agree with Adrianne. I believe in women sticking together. I will never fight another girl for a man and if my friend likes a guy I’ll be sure as hell to never make a move on him. Women go through enough - no need to compete amongst each other when there are plenty of fish in the sea.

  • @andreiroman6043
    @andreiroman6043 4 роки тому +16

    I miss the positive energy of the real before Amanda joint the show!

  • @nreynolds75243
    @nreynolds75243 4 роки тому +1

    Adrienne hit the nail right on the head for me. This is exactly how I feel. I don't chase, I'm the pursued. I don't play games at all. If the guy likes me and I like him, then I'm open and he knows it because I've confirmed it with him by communication. If he's interested in me and I'm not interested in him, then I'll let him know kindly but directly. I didn't date to just date ever. I dated for the purpose of marriage and I would let the guy know. If it scared him off, then I took that as a positive that my time wasn't wasted. When I saw he was playing games, I dropped him. Life is too short and I don't play games at all with people and their emotions. That's a loser. If anyone has this kind of time, they need to get a life.

  • @karilinn4260
    @karilinn4260 4 роки тому +2

    ANDREW KEEGAN! Tamera talked about going on cruise with him!

  • @GlowfitGuyanesegirl
    @GlowfitGuyanesegirl 2 роки тому

    Jeannie say she always like the best looking one😂😂🤣🤣 u had a biggest with Freddy he was so hard to look at..

  • @anthonyrussell1121
    @anthonyrussell1121 4 роки тому +5

    "By the grace of GOD. we don't like the same man" LMAO TAM

  • @unbelaneablebeautyy
    @unbelaneablebeautyy 4 роки тому +1

    I loveeeeee Loni’s hair here. Yes Soror!

  • @itslozza3050
    @itslozza3050 3 роки тому +1

    I agree with Adrienne I’m exactly the same way 💯💯💯❤️

  • @jyn88
    @jyn88 4 роки тому +1

    This happened with me and my friend a few times throughout our friendship. This was way back when we were early teens. We both liked the same guy and the guy ended up liking me. She told me that I shouldn't go out with him because I should choose friendship. She said it's wrong of me to pick a guy over her. I then asked her "shouldn't you be happy for me?" He ended up with another friend of mine, but we were never that close.

  • @Kelly_Ellie
    @Kelly_Ellie 7 місяців тому

    I was that girl in high school who would pursue a guy even though he did not like me. I've learned my lesson and still am embarrassed thinking about it. Everyone knew I liked him. I now have that mindset of Adrienne, and this is an important lesson for girlhood. I always thank God for the important lessons of valuing myself and finding someone who wants to be with me for being me at an early age.

  • @adrianarose_
    @adrianarose_ 4 роки тому

    I love this show😭 I really wish the liking the same guy advice came out before my guy/friend situation happened😭😂

  • @melissagalligan1294
    @melissagalligan1294 4 роки тому +57

    My friend did this to me. Me and this dude liked each other found out he liked someone else while he was still saying he loved me. Found out he liked my best friend. So when me and him stop being a thing she was flirting with him and I found out she liked him too. And she fucked him too which made me stop our friendship.

    • @SpiritualLifeCoach43
      @SpiritualLifeCoach43 4 роки тому +38

      Most times they dont even end up together. Be thankful you found of what type of people they were. Low life's deserve eachother.

    • @tiffanypham2187
      @tiffanypham2187 4 роки тому +17

      no mam. throw them both awaaaay

    • @jdw39503
      @jdw39503 4 роки тому +7

      Sound like some stuff my sister done to me multiple times.

    • @h3artands0uLL
      @h3artands0uLL 4 роки тому +9

      That sucks and I’m sorry it must’ve been so hurtful, the betrayal. If anything helps you, they revealed who they were and you just got rid of dead weight in your life. May you fly higher and shine brighter than both of them in every way, honey ✨

    • @sebastianharrington5041
      @sebastianharrington5041 4 роки тому +2

      @@jdw39503 Your own sister ????

  • @kastinrodriguez4748
    @kastinrodriguez4748 4 роки тому +4

    He was kidding but ... if i were that daughter, my feelings would be a little hurt

  • @yamiii.kawaiii
    @yamiii.kawaiii 4 роки тому

    WOW what adrianne Said!! ON POINT!!! PERIODT!!!!

  • @SherryKayEveryday
    @SherryKayEveryday 4 роки тому +1

    First of all Adrienne giving me a whole new vibe! Yas girl! Same here, but you just also reminded me of who I am! NEVER COMPETE.. The sperm chases the Egg. AND LONI!! Loni makes me lol too much!!!! Yas QUEENS!!!!

  • @lorenramdath8649
    @lorenramdath8649 4 роки тому +2

    Why did I KNOWW that Loni was gonna offer to alcohol the situation 😂😂