The sunscreen part could be a cultural thing. In my country Bangladesh a lot of men are against skincare as it's a "waste of time and money" and has nothing to do with their religious beliefs about skincare
@StellaDreami7 I agree with them. Women are restricted, can't wear clothes showing too much but men wear shorts in the summer. A Muslim lady can't marry a non Muslim man but a Muslim man can marry a non Muslim woman, seriously whats that about?
I'm sorry for you and all the woman who has to face all these restrictions in the name of a god. I'm happy to be born to parents who didn't trust in religions or restrictions against woman and I'm not even baptisted although my parents grew up as christians. I grew up free and it hurts my heart that these isn't normal for all of us. Stay strong❤
@quzofrommycoke well, seems its ok for men to be altered but not women. And yet, the do goodders say "the quran gives women loads of freedom" what bullshit
But don't you see?Christianity and Judaism both have social and dress codes. In bedoin society, where people tended to be travelers and semi nomadic in earlier times covering while outside the family home full covering the face and hair, and most of the body in general, for protection from the natural environment, as TRADITION it makes sense. In modern society, where we have a bit more control of our environments, no. As hygienic standards for an earlier day and age, sure. Health standards can cause changes in hygienic practices, and between the time of the WRITING of the Qu'ran, which was several centuries after the death of Mohammed, (police and fleas be upon him)(yes, I meant that no typo. A man that justifies sexual intercourse with a 9 year old child. And a religion that accepts it because she had entered puberty isn't in a position to tell me what's right and wrong) The modern Muslim standards for harambee dress are insane. Women have zero rights. They are the ones who are most punished by islam(English speakers unfamiliar, ISLAM translates to English as "submission" the term Muslim literally means "one who submits" women recieve the heaviest punishments for forbidden practices. Men can rape and murder a woman and say "well she was dressed like a whore" and walk away or pay a fine. Its fucked up. Christian and jews though just as fucked in entirely different ways have grooming standards that are just as ridiculous. And im sorry religious people, none of your "holy books" and their religious laws are no more than superstitions and misunderstanding. Why forbid pork and shellfish? Because they are scavengers. Insects and arthropods do eat dead tissue and small microbes. Pigs will eat anything. And they wallow in any kind of mud They can because they can't sweat so it cools the skin. If improperly cooked or stored in the hot desert it goes bad faster than other meats. It can carry parasites and cause great terrible illness. A more primitive understanding of science had no concept of microbes, or the unseen by the naked eye and ascribed it to divine punishment. It's maddening that with all we know and understand that people still cling so fervently to it to the point it's used as a justification for true evil and hatred.
My (Pakistani) university has posters all over stating hadith that prohibit women from applying perfume, befriending guys, and phrases like "hijab is not a choice." As an ex muslim woman, this pisses me off. Even my hijabi friends, who apply makeup and perfume, ignore those posters. One of them even said "where are the modesty campaign posters for guys?" Religious enforcement starts from school and continues till university. Its insane!
@@FactStorm well i didn't know when i was child i was just a child trying to find love i guess? trying to understand adults trying to find adult i could trust because i was a chid back then now i m dismissive avoidant who only wants money and flew out of this place.
it was always confusing to me that hijabs are used to 'cover a woman's beauty' but whenever a non-muslim woman tries on a hijab (for fun or whatever) the first thing muslims always say is 'you're so beautiful!'
Hijabis will also encourage non-hijabis to wear hijab by telling them how beautiful they are w their scarves !!! While this may be true, the whole point of hijab is to hide a woman's beauty. Female muslim hijabi influencers are often just the same as non-Muslim influencers. They just use halal-ish rules by wearing a scarf AND the most beautiful clothing possible. AND they do a full face of make-up!!! Look up Leena Snoubar (withloveLeena) and the Asad sisters. It's all about consumption, beauty, designer handbags, heels, dresses, etc. So their beauty is very much on display.
I will say it one more time , perhaps it doesnt get removed this time, Look at your Bible'" what dies it say about Women Not covering their Hair ' and what to do If the refuse?, also what does the Bible call Women whom Walk around half dressed?, Go Look I dare you!
Read your own Bible' and Look what it says about the matter, what dies it say' about a Women Not covering her Hair? or Walking around half dressed' what does the Bible call such Woman?, its amazing to me' how ignorant so many are of their own Religion
@starlarose2216 excuse me taking drugs ruins your life and kill you plucking your eye brows is no comparison also you can't pluck your eyebrows but you can pluck the hair that goes between so you don't have a mono brown. Really totally ludicrous
As a secret ex-Muslim turned atheist living in Iran, I'm so happy I came across this video. I don't know if you've heard about it or not, but Iran has been very extreme about hijab in the past few years. But I'm so glad to see women my age (22) don't care about hijab and wear whatever they want, even if it costs them and their family's lives. Islam is BS, and I know that I'll face passive-aggressiveness from Islam's die-hard fans and extremists, but I'm so happy to know that there are people who are in the same situation as me. Muslims hate criticism and are blind to the oppression and torture. Also, doesn't Islam say that hijab is to preserve a woman's beauty? Well, that's BS too. My hairstylist and dermatologist (who specializes in haircare as well) say that most hijabi women who visit them have a specific hair loss pattern, and my mom has it too. I'm just glad my parents aren't strict about these rules. They are still strict, being Muslims, but they don't haunt me like a sleep paralysis demon.
I’m so happy for you. I know lots of Iranians who moved to Montreal and I don’t know a single one who wears a Hijab. How they wore mini skirts decades ago and how bad things have gotten since. It’s a bit scary to be because I find the Iranian women I know to be pretty strong headed, they hold their grounds, so I’m surprised men/religion have been able to convince women to follow these strict rules. Iranian women are beautiful and I won’t even talk about your hair, I get jealous!! :-) You deserve to live like you did in the past, free and strong. You guys are so courageous, we admire you. ❤
@@ellaella5537 thank you SO much! Unfortunately, you're right. My grandma said that she never wore any hijab when Reza Shah was the king of Iran, but after the revolution, women were forced to wear one and they even kicked her out of school when she was a little girl and it made her stay illiterate. Religious women nowadays are brainwashed to think they are superior to non-hijabi/non-religious women and tend to forget that at the end of the day, we're all humans and deserve to be treated like one. Thank you so much for your comment. It means the world to us when a non-Iranian person offers their support.
Does he define what he means by "whore," because it's quite ridiculous to make such an assertion based on the traditional understanding of that term. I have worn perfume many times in my life for instance, and I am still a virgin and have never dated.
@rosivalenzuela3955 I've heard something like that too. A guy was doing a sermon and he said "women who wear perfume are whoring themselves" what utter bullshit. perfume, for me completes an outfit. My stepdad told me that, I didn't bother before.
An absurd hatred for women is definitely promoted in the religion, to make them follow the rules so they can be different from those said "whores." It's insane. Ironically the same preachers will preach about sensual "hoors" in paradise, waiting for men, describing their physical attributes in detail. Absolutely insane teachings
I dated a Muslim man from Bangladesh for a while. We got pretty serious. He promised me he wasn’t religious as I do not want to be in a relationship with a religious man. It kind of bothered me that he did Ramadan but he said it was just to remind himself to feel grateful. Still made me uneasy. We talked about marriage and having kids. When he told me he wanted our kids to know about the Koran I had to dip. No no no. It was hard to break up but not for me.
my albanian muslim father was always like "as long as you are a good human being i dont care if you folllow the rules of islam". he NEVER forbid my mom or sister anything. My mom had literally the best life with my father.
@@roxanne9894 thank you, he really is! He has his own mentality about certain things and he was a strict father in fact BUT he accepts me having a german (christian) boyfriend so that says it all
Maghrebi women tattooed their chins. I'm a french 47yo and i saw many old women wear tattoos in the streets. The tradition is lost for young generations however
Most gynaecologists say to leave pubic hair alone as it is plays very important role in protecting our very sensitive genitals but islam says “ yo go ahead pluck it all you like”; why? To please men that’s why. Smh. The pubic skin is also very thin compared to our entire body, trimming is considered the most non invasive way to maintain “neatness” if at all; waxing is never recommended by any health professional ever.
Regardless if you like it or hate it, you have never thought to ask yourself why we have body hair! Why does your pubic area grow hair. Surely there is a reason though.
Yeah.. Why did Allah give males foreskin if He thought it was dirty or whatever and wanted them to be without foreskins? Makes no freaking sense. And why would Allah give women pubic hair if He wanted them to constantly remove it?
❤(Sahih Muslim 2495): All Reverts,COMPULSORY TO OBEY 5 Sunnah of the prophet:(1)Circumcise yr clitoris/penis (2)Shave yr pubic(vagina/penis) hairs,(3)trim moustache,(4)Cut nails & (5)Shave armpit hairs. ❣️Sahih Sunan abu dawud 5271: "Prophet said women must be circumcised.He said if u cut, cut a little & leave abit sticking out bcos it will still make her face beautiful (during sex) & it will be more pleasant for the husband (to his wife enjoy a bit of sex).
Circumcision may have been introduced to the primitive, nomadic, Judaic tribes as desert life limited regular bathing. The practice was done away by Jesus' instruction, (who as jew, must have been circumcised as a baby). This instruction to abandon the practice is ignored by muslims, despite the acknowledgement of Jesus/Isa being an important prophet in Islam
I don’t wear makeup, skirts, do anything to my hair except brush it, don't wear perfume, don't shape eyebrows, basically no "beauty" stuff except pluck an occasional chin hair. Never did. However, if anybody told me I had to put a bag over my head to appear in public, I'd be extremely unfriendly. Good thing I'm not religious. I like the sun on my face and the wind in my hair.
Same here. I don’t wear makeup because I don‘t know how to do it and I hate the feeling of it on my face. I do skincare and a really lightweight sunscreen. But you better believe that I would slap ALL the makeup on my face if I was told I wasn’t allowed to because of someone’s religion. Gimme all the sparkly eyeshadow.
@@p.p.139i feel you girl, i rarely out on lipsticks cause I hate the sensation on my lips, i was dating a guy and on the second date i tought it would be cute to put on some light lipgloss because once in a while why not? He told me he didnt like lipstick and asked me not to put it on anymore. On the third date i came wearing an invasive red lipstick just because if I want i can😂😂😂
That is so disrespectful to call the Hijab a bag. Please learn manners. Don't criticise my religion if you don't know it please. May Allah allow you to see Islam the way I do Inshallah. 💗
When I was a child, my Christian father scolded me for drawing squiggles on my hands with a pen. He said that I was spoiling God's creation 😅 it infuriated me so much that when I grew up and left religion, I got tattoos all over my body
"Wearing black" is not an Islamic ruling. It is the tradition of those countries. Those countries are masking these traditions and practices as religion astagfirullah. Islam has never told women "oh you can't wear any colour except black".
Almost all the women in my life ignore the makeup ruling and they also wear nails when on their period bc they cannot pray anyway. I hate these rules, the more rules i interrigated, the less sense the religion made for me, so my life is more rich now that i’ve let go.
do not need to pray on period double standard. needing to pray so much work. human live with desire will always find excuses to do what they wanted and disregarded God commands, full stop. even not on period you did not want to pray, why mad when you cannot pray while on period?
@@africanayasmin6210you have got it wrong. Islam is not about force or persecution. Our Prophet(PBUH) respected every religion and showed kindness to them. Allah has instructed this. We cannot force anyone to convert to Islam. Said in Surah Al-Kafirun : " You have your religion and I have mine". So if anyone forces anyone to convert to Islam, they are going against Islamic teaching. Blame those particular people, not our religion.
Majority but not necessarily... my friend is a convert much before meeting her husband, he " talaqsized " her and she's still faithful to islam, situations that I'll never understand
This things about perfumes is really weird. Middle Eastern countries have long tradition in perfumery and some of the most valued perfume ingredients are sourced there, not to mention all the modern Arabic Perfume houses!
Mohammed himself absolutely loved perfume & used it all the time, which is why it's permissible for men. But he was also a very jealous and insecure man, so among the things he forbade for women was perfume.
Speaking of not changing Allah's creation, why is circumcision obligatory? Isn't foreskin also Allah's creation? If Allah wanted his followers not to have foreskin, why did he give it in the first place?
And want about female circumcision, female genital mutilation ? Isn’t this REALLY altering Allahs creation? And not just altering Allahs creation but doing serious permant harm to a woman’s body!
Depends on who you ask, circumcision is not actually obligatory. However, it's very cultural around the middle East and the lines between culture and religion are blurred to bits.
As a person growing up in a Muslim household I been struggling a lot recently since I used to believe in the religion so much that I never doubted anything however now that I’m getting to know the other side of Islam I can’t believe how i fell for that bullshit I been following those restrictions since I’m 8 years old like I wear a hijab no nail polish no pluging my eyebrows… I’ll soon turn 18 and that’s when I’m planning on officially talking to my parents and end everything because it would cause me a lot of trouble if I would do that now I’m really worried how they will react though.
Staying safe should be your priority. Only tell them when you think their reaction is going to be okay. You don't owe them honesty if you fear there might be bad consequences. Maybe take a friend with you that you trust if you really want to tell them.
I always thought that girls who wear hijab but also tight clothes polish makeup etc don't actually believe, and just aren't willing to lose their whole community. I just never understood how you can fr believe in islamic hell, and flout the rules. When I believed, I followed the rules, when I stopped believing I stopped.... maybe that's a me thing idk
I’ve never been Muslim but I’ve noticed this too! It makes no sense to me that they are so “modest” yet so clearly trying to be sexy. They wear makeup that looks more appropriate for a night out clubbing. I just never understood it
Idk 🤷♀️ Christians aren't supposed to engage in pre marital sex and some other stuff, but they do it still 🤷♀️. They just believe their god will forgive them.
I was jogging a few years ago and saw a hijabi woman jogging too, wearing ankle length tights, a tight long sleeve shirt and hijab. Everything was covered, but everything was form fitting. Bizarre
I saw a black 20yo in the metro wearing à light pink hijab light pink jellabah... and underneath a white/light pink bra + panties... as she was black the panties and bra just stood out under the very transparent jellabah and she looked like more naked than if she wore shorts and a crop top. But I guess as she was covered it was OK 😂
This is hilarious and sad at same time . I got out of this cult two years ago now . I converted for a man who ended up being an abuser and I feared for my life . He was into boys too ( common in certain Muslim communities ie Afghanistan Pakistan ) anyway my eyelashes were a big topic with the “sisters” in the mosque however my eyelashes were in fact real 😂 they never got over it so they then switched focused to my wearing of colours . I was constantly harassed by the women and I suspect jealousy was a huge problem for them because I saw that most muslim women actually hated themselves deep down and they couldn’t stand my blonde hair green eyes bubbly happy smiley personality because I unlike them hadn’t experienced their miserable existence . I remember cycling to the mosque 😂 well let’s just say they nearly died. The particular muslim community I was in was Pakistani Afghani and Sudanese . The Sudanese women were lovely actually but the Pakistani !!! Viscious
I don't get it... Why would you convert for a man?? This religion is absolute madness, why did you decide to join it?? I hear this over and over again and my mind just cannot comprehend it 🤦🏼♀️
i bet it was enticing for men since it's all male-focused benefits, so they enforced it lol. Even in "heaven", the man can drag his wife into his harem if he so wishes. women apparently have no say in the afterlife too.
@@Witchmee One word: Cult. All religions start out as cults. Merry Meet.
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Islam actually orders Muslim women to cover all parts of the body including the face. Since the order is so unreasonable for Muslim women to carry out, then a fatwa came out from the previous scholars ordering that Muslim women can wear only the hijab, which is just covering their hair. But some Muslim apologists today insist that the veil is not required by religion, even though they have nothing in their holy text to contradict the passage where Muhammad ordered its use. In fact, verse (24:60) says that the veil is optional only for unmarried women who are too old to have children. And this proves that the covering of cloth in Islam is to avoid the uncontrollable hyper-sexuality of men in the days of Muhammad who passed by when seeing women outside their home.
This is totally incorrect. Surat an nur states: tell the believing women to draw their khimar over their pockets of their chests so that they will be known. There is no command to cover their hair. Khimar was a head piece. Pockets of chest refers to cleavage. Later, we get the command to cover all bodily pockets (vagina and buttocks). The 'known' was understood to mean "free women", therefore the verses here are to distinguish free women from slaves. I could refer you to multiple books of fiqh and hadith which support my argument. The term, " hijab" refers to a barrier, and is only used to refer to women in the verse about the wives of the Prophet.
Veiling applied only to Prophet Muhammad's wives due to their special status. Women cannot cover their faces during the Hajj pilgrimage. Historically, veiling in Islam was influenced by the Christian Byzantine Empire. It became associated with higher status women. This was not the case in early Islam. Read the history of this.
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@@Miriam-qh1so In 2017, al-Azhar university in Egypt decreed that the veil was compulsory for Muslim women... and not even open for debate: "It is not acceptable that anyone from the public or non-specialized people, regardless of their culture, to voice their opinions on the matter." Are you claiming that the leading Sunni institution in the world doesn't understand Islam?
This is so sad, women have the right to make themselves beautiful, not just for others but for themselves. Ladies, Celebrate your Beauty, for that is how God made you.
Dolly Parton has been on stage for 50 years, married to one man for just as long, and never once been involved in a scandal. She embodies the strength, sweetness and beauty of a woman.
I’m a woman and I highly disagree. If you aren’t going out, or going to be seen, essentially no one would wear makeup. This has been proven to me time and time again by women from all cultures. Why not just admit the truth? That you wear it to look pretty
@@tianna1116it's subjective. You can't categorise the whole gender species into one thing. I wear makeup to feel confident, not to attract men. I have my own man, why would I want to attract more men?
18:35 I’m not, and have never been Muslim. But listening or seeing how women are told this, that, and the next thing is too tempting for Muslim men has me thinking that Muslim men are very weak and need babysitters. I have work with Muslim men at my hospital and they don’t seem to be running amok so maybe it’s the guys in charge who are weak and need a babysitter.
I don’t get the hair dying thing when Muslim men henna their beards - granted they dye it a red colour but surely that’s even more eye catching 🤔 technically they should not beautify themselves for non related women (and men lol)
@@HaakGauAlso no teeth, knocked out during a battle. Narrated according to Aisha, she use to comb the lice out of his hair. Also Mo bathed in a pool containing dead dogs and menstraul cloths
All these rules show that it's not a religion for all of humanity because it fails to take other cultures into consideration. Tattoos are important to many Pacific Islander cultures. Hair experimentation is an important part of black cultures. I sincerely do not understand how a little ink on your dermis and couple of box braids could be considered so evil. Edit: wrote this before the hair dyeing part. That is also another stronger example of this religion not being made for all of humanity. Guess there weren't enough redheads and blondes around to make the ruling more consistent for the seal of religions lol.
This religion was not made to be inclusive. It was made to force others to drop their culture and values and adopt the Islamic one. It's very disturbing when you really think about it.
I don't know why people in this day and age would follow that cult!!! I left years ago and never been happier, there are just so many restrictions and most women I know cherry pick and still do their eyebrows and have hair extensions.
I don't understand the hair covering, like why? Okay covering your breast, because the hijab covers that as well, but the hair? Its just hair and its better for your head to breave and not be covered all the time, modest clothing, sure, but hair, what is not modest about covered and not covered hair? Face is even more crazy for me, the veils.. brr the most crazy and terrible religion. Even nunes in Christianity don't cover their faces, wtf is this religion I do 't understand how any women would convert on their own free will.
I'm sure fear plays a big part of it. Many women have been made dependent on their husband or men in their family, and are afraid to leave. But why non Muslims would join this death cult baffles me as well. Looking for something spiritual maybe, trying to fill a void. I don't know... I am a Buddhist, it's the best thing that ever happened to me..
Mr. Friendly Exmuslim thank you for seeing your wonderful wife and the rest of us women as people that are deserving of rights and self determination. It means a lot, really, we can't do it without you guys.
Hi mate. Indian ex Muslim born in the uk Yorkshire. I once had a colleague at work asked me not to enter the office space as a colleague is removing her hijab to realign, I laughed and carried on and asked her go to the loo mate.
Your videos are great, keep making them. I particularly enjoy the women vs islam type of videos. Always confused me why a certain type of women defend their oppressor. Also, your takes are always so logical and well put together, great to listen to
Hi! Thanks for the feedback. I'm his wife and I try to give my insight and input into videos such as this one. Are there any other topics that you would like to see covered? I'd happily take it into consideration.
@@truecrimeallofthetime Hi, the research was great rly informative! I dont know if it has been covered already but, i find it interesting with the virgin maidens men will get in jannah, but women wont get anything of that sort, just promised "happiness" and can still be with their "busy" husbands. How come muslims know this and, women especially, still believe the quran gives women most rights? etc
@@user-pi4cc5ll1uOh yes. I had issues with this when my husband passed. I was really pissed off about houri al ayn. I'll screenshot this and reflect on it. Thank you.
On the defense of pigeons! They hang out with people because people for 1000s of years kept pigeons. We only recently dropped them out of nowhere. People just released them and abandoned them. The pigeons, forever loyal are still hanging out with us waiting for our affection to return. You should look it up it’s really quite sad.
@@IamIeala particularly it isn't their own choice From trying to shape her eyebrows you can really tell , The lady would really plug her eyebrows if this shitty Islamic cult wouldn't exist Even though she tried to shape her eyebrows, and will eventually be called jahannami by Muslim I know Muslim very well , I myself am from toxic Muslim culture who think cooking is the only work in woman's life and every woman meant to played by their husband .
I'm so glad I've found your channel. I'm not a Muslim nor I was raised in Muslim country. However, a family member of mine converted to Islam. I've had a contact with both 'born' Muslims and Converts. The amount of obsession about women's so-called purity, the hate towards non-muslim or apostates is terrifying, the fact how mentally destructive is this environment is absolutely indescribable.
I was dating a Muslim man when I was a young Canadian Ukrainian girl. I was kept in a room a literal bedroom because my boyfriend lived with his brothers and I was not allowed out of the room without him. Everything was under attack, even my piercings were ripped out it was not a fun time
I don't understand why you western women date conservative muslim men in the first place! That's how grooming works! If I were a western woman I would have blocked every conservative muslim men who texted me, run away from them if they wanted to have a talk. Girls from childhood should be taught to stay away from them 😅
Not to mention the crazy marriage “rules”… which have lead to abusive, and even death so many times… Yet this is because “Allah” says this is okay. Right.
Absue is not allowed in Islam . Nither is mistreatment of women . The ones that a man marry in Islam are to be given full respect . Again, it's the people who don't follow the religion. Not the religion itself .
@@short_bambooFalse. If your wife won’t have sex with you you don’t have to clothe or feed her. A wife cannot refuse sex. A man can beat his wife for suspected rebellion. A man is allowed to refuse sex as a punishment but women can’t. A man can take a second wife without his wife’s permission. A man can determine if his wife goes to Heaven or Hell based on if he’s happy with her. You need to learn your own religion.
No ruling said that wife's concent in sex is not necessary. You say it like Islam permits rape in marriage. In case you don't know , in Islam , if you rape someone , they can lawfully kill you .
Actually, most of us don't dress up to attract men. We dress up to impress the other women 😊 And if your eye offends you you're welcome to close it, or turn your head. You don't have to tear the eye out 😉 Peace and love
I said this exact thing to a group of men and they got so upset with me. They argued up and down that women beautify themselves strictly to attract men. I told them most men don't care about makeup, lashes, wigs or hair extensions, nails, fashion etc. A attractive woman will get their attention without all the bells and whistles and most men prefer natural beauty. Men don't say, "Wow, I love her makeup, let me get her number" 😂😂😂 rarely happens. Women (including me) dress up to outshine and upstage other women. We want to feel like we're the most beautiful woman in the room.
Hasidic Jews are a fairly small sect vs an entire religion. Also, Israel which is predominantly Jewish state would never enforce Hasidic traditions as laws.
hasidic jew is pro-woman and is harsher on men. just look up bitul torah where men arent allowed even one second to themselves or else is sin, or how hasidic men wear bad prescription glasses on the bus to not see female forms
Was tough to watch this video because it makes me furious how societies in modern times still control women. If the guys were better and kinder husbands maybe they wouldn´t be so scared of their women finding a new man.
As an iranian girl, I have to tell you that Islam has devastated my country and it effects specially on women. Thank you for telling the reality and not romanticizing it's absurd rules.
It’s all about putting onus on women and giving men a power trip. The coverage for women came from an incident of MO’s follower peeping on one of his wives doing her business alone somewhere. Mo found out and declared she needed to cover herself. Why this response? I believe it’s because women weren’t capable of taking power from Mo but men could. Keep the men happy and compliant with Mo. that’s the interpretive key for it all. That’s also why no alcohol or music and dancing: people get rowdy and even flippant about things.. someone questioned MO’s authority and dismissed his authority.. so outlawed! No booze or partying but sex is ok; lots of sex. Why? Men are satisfied but as long as strict control over who has what women is maintained then sec never gets to the point of challenging Mo’s authority
In Afghanistan the men were happy the taliban took over until they started beating the men and telling them they had to wear full clothes no jeans and tank tops ….Google it … it’s the most extreme Muslims who follow all the rules
Thank you Mrs. Former Muslima for the research and work. Thanks for the collab. I remember reading about halal nail polish. Wigs are interesting as in more religious Jewish communities wigs can be wore to fulfill the requirement to place something between you and god and show subservience. 6:20 made me laugh.
Jewish women wear wigs scarves or hats so that only their husband will see their real hair, as hair is seen as sensual. The requirement to put something between you and God to remind yourself that god is always above you is only for men, as women are seen as naturally more spiritual than men
I can only speak for myself but over here in the southeastern part of the US, I constantly hear that Islam is a peaceful religion and women wear hijabs because they want to but when I bring up any points of how, at least in Afghanistan in the 70s and 80s, some countries were more progressive as far as women's rights, I get told that I'm a Westerner and I wouldn't understand. My questions were never rude and I always try to be respectful but I absolutely hate the immediate judgement of being a Westerner yet they expect people to never judge them. I just like learning about different cultures but I don't think people like difficult questions. I dunno. Maybe that's just a petty gripe. 🤷🏻♀️
It's easy to lie to people who live in the west bcs they don't see what happens in Muslim countries, and even when you live near a community they can easily gaslight you into 'no no no it's not like this,' which often comes from people having a superiority complex about their religion + not being allowed to question or critique it themselves so any questions are automatically shunned as 'youre uninformed.' P@kistani here and I can tell you 110% there's no concept of women rights in sharia law, just constant brainwashing of women into believing they have some rights. Your weightage in testimony is considered half, you're mandated to be loyal but men can remarry and not give an F and you're supposed to not question polygamy bcs God allows it, you're taught you're intellectually inferior and that if you're a wife you have to be obedient to your husband. It is extremely difficult to take divorce as a woman but men verbally divorce a woman by saying it three times. Many Islamic websites and preachers openly preach all of this, yet people still have the nerve to lie and say everyone is just uninformed.
As for hijab, you're constantly taught that women are supposed to hide their beauty to not be "tempting" to men, and that you're supposed to wear the hijab as a Muslim woman. It's constant indoctrination, but even if someone presumably wears it wholeheartedly, the point is still that they would not have been allowed to dress in a way that's very different from that. There's an extreme hatred of anything "immodest" and when hijab is considered modesty, a lot of things become very immodest by comparison. So it's a one sided "choice" where you can opt into strict dressing rules, but there's no option to not opt in or deviate a lot from them, which isn't a true "choice" at all. So all you can do is either agree or silently suffer
If hijab 🧕 is used to cover a woman’s beauty which is her beautiful hair, can someone help me to understand why putting on thick makeup 💄 after is not exposing her beauty? 🤔
You mustn't change what God created, yet you must remove one type of hair and not touch another type of hair, there is one rule for one area of the body and another rule for another so some hair is dirty that God did not think of omitting from creation but condemning you for leaving it and forbidding you from not leaving alone another type of hair
Menschliche Körper ohne Behaarung sind Kinderkörper… Nach Allem, was ich über Islam erfahren habe, denke ich dass es hier um eine sehr verbreitete, tiefsitzende pädophile Neigung geht ( gegenüber Mädchen, so wie gegenüber Jungen).
Islam and the whole world tries to stop women to be productive and for women in general being beautiful makes them feel better about themselves however islam is way too restricted and stops women even from feeling beautiful i was very cute when i was born and still i won't say i m not good looking but because i was naturally got fit in beauty standards the hatred i had to face from women since childhood was just so crazy.
Women turning on each other is the worst thing. If we let this happen, instead of being sisters, the men that want to suppress us have already won. So sorry you had to experience this.. 😔
I agree that the whole modern islamic revival is manmade. Muslim peoples did not care too much about this stuff in the past. You can still find Moroccan tribal women with facial tattoos. The hijab became a trend around 20 years ago. It is a symbol; a badge of identity. But 'hijab' as a headscarf is a relatively new concept. Certainly by the period of Ibn Khaldun and Ibn Taymiyyah, women were wearing Iran style jubbas which covered the hair and the body. By this time, the concept of modesty = piety had become established. But this wasn't in early Islam. Slave women were expected to remain uncovered. Perhaps topless even. Women only had to cover their bums and vaginas in front of: Dad; Servants (male and female); brothers; uncles and other women. This is clearly evidenced. The Qur'an does not use the term 'hijab' with regards to women's dress. The term means barrier. The practice of doing the Hajj naked was not prohibitted until the Caliphate of Abu Bakr. Ponder on this (but not too much😊).
@@scarfholdgraphicsmedia9501 I looked up Burka (Afghanistan style) to see how old they were. Turned out they were around long before Islam and came from Pakistan.
@sallyintucson There are no records which accurately describe how Arabian women dressed in the 7th century. It is likely that people wore a form of tunic, a wrap around the body and a head piece of some sort. Some hadith narrations indicate that women wore an outer coat (jalbab) especially at night when they went outside of the town to defecate. My problem with this is that if they were so covered, why go out at night? Pakistan did not exist until after world war 2. The Mughals adopted the Burkha as a way to conceal wealthy wives. It may have been used by courtesans as well. The traditional form of dress in Pakistan was a shawaal khamiz and debutta. The debutta is a loose cloth draped around the head which does not conceal hair. Women in Pakistan did not start wearing the modern hijab until relatively recently and it is still uncommon there. The influence has come from the UK where under Saudi influence, British Asians have adopted the trend.
Muslims in Usbekistan, Kirgizia etc., also didn't care about this stuff 50 years ago but now they are becoming more and more like these strict Arab Muslims
I don’t pluck my eyebrows, I don’t wear make-up daily, I don’t paint nails, I go to the dentist and whenever needed, but these are exclusively because I don’t care enough to how I look like in the daily: if I wanted to do any of this, I WOULD because I’m free do do these or not. Being an Atheist is so incredibly freeing.
Mom and two daughters walking in front of me after they all had PEs girls both had their hijabs flipped up showing off super modest Nike wear in local HS team colors and fresh braids (intentionally, not? Teens?) I touched a shoulder (we are familiar )to point it out before they left. and was instantly “shushed” by the girls 😂❤ it made them feel good and relatable.
bleaches eyebrows but then puts on blush... i think the black hair dye is the time and location. Way to color your hair blond was not here, and red was not something that one wanted even if henna was possible. Just another proof of 7th century...
"Removing tattoos costs even more than getting them originally and hurts a lot." I've heard it hurts a *_lot_* more than getting the tattoos originally and bear in mind that laser tattoo removal involves multiple sessions, all of which have painful aftermaths. It may be relatively successful or it may end up leaving a bit of a mess. Islam is not the only religion that says that tattoos are haram, Judaism does also as do some Christian sects. It's called *_appearance control,_* boys and girls. It's never good. If you don't want tattoos, that's fine, that's your choice but it's not fine telling other people they can't have them.
As someone who lives in the islamic ideal society where all of these rules are implemented and anyone who even tries to do something slightly different is harrassed and shamed and even r🍇 in cases because the men see it as you deserving of it if you don’t wear it and that you are asking for it, it was one of the reasons that led me to leave when i realized that my supposed god perpetuates and is pleased and blames us for our abuse and protects our abusers, because victims can never speak up in these societies and cultures.
I am not muslim (thankfully) and i work in the cosmetics industry. I live in New York city and assist many muslim customers. I knew about the jihab but didn't know about all the other restrictions! Holy Cow!! I can tell you, there's alot of cherry picking and most women here are Not following the strict rules. So i guess all women that break the muslim rules are hypocrites? It's all nuts to me! If you live in a muslin country it's hard to break from a dictatorship, but women here in the USA? WHY accept a dictatorship while being surrounded by women living their life with freedom? Thank you for your video!
I from the Middle East know living in America, lot of ExMuslim in America are afraid the will be targeted and kill they will come after you even in western countries. It actually very scary.
What if a woman is naturally beautiful and attracts attention without makeup? Let’s say she still dresses modestly, but has an exceptionally beautiful face or eyes that stand out? Does she wear a burqa?
after watching this video and reading all this comments, I’m once again thankful to Atatürk. its insane to live in those rules, even religious people dont do these, they dont even know those are banned.
Glad I found your channel. My daughter dated a Muslim, and started wearing clothes that were acceptable. THANK GOD she chose against converting, and now is living a wonderful life for Jesus! God bless your and your wife!
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I remember when I dated an Egyptian Muslim. He didn't want me to apply makeup or even sunscreen. Glad I got out of that relationship
Not even sunscreen is crazy 😭😭 although the whole thing is crazy and manipulative. sorry you had to deal with someone like that!!
What was his reason for no sunscreen 👀👀👀👀?
The sunscreen part could be a cultural thing. In my country Bangladesh a lot of men are against skincare as it's a "waste of time and money" and has nothing to do with their religious beliefs about skincare
He said i did not need to.apply anything at all on my skin. All it needed was washing. @waituntil
he didnt give any logical reason and said all the skin needed was washing and thoughtskincare was a waste of time @waituntil
Once I met a Turkish woman who told me : "I left slam because to an intelligent person it's clear that islam is a religion made to benefit men."
May Allah allow you to see Islam in the way I see it Inshallah.💗
@StellaDreami7 I agree with them. Women are restricted, can't wear clothes showing too much but men wear shorts in the summer. A Muslim lady can't marry a non Muslim man but a Muslim man can marry a non Muslim woman, seriously whats that about?
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Maybe you’d know if you spoke people with knowledge instead of taking things out of context.
I am female, born Muslim in a Muslim country and please just listen to me when I tell u to RUN!
I'm sorry for you and all the woman who has to face all these restrictions in the name of a god. I'm happy to be born to parents who didn't trust in religions or restrictions against woman and I'm not even baptisted although my parents grew up as christians. I grew up free and it hurts my heart that these isn't normal for all of us. Stay strong❤
In the same situation as you girl
Oh my,
Can I have more details
But yet when these Muslims head for Western Countries, all they want to do, is inflict their culture into the new country of choice.
I wish you the best. I wish I could provide more support than a youtube comment.
Somehow, circumcision does not qualify as "changing the creation of allah" but plucking eyebrows does?
Or female genital mutilation.. rules made by men.. sickening!
😅😅😅
@quzofrommycoke well, seems its ok for men to be altered but not women. And yet, the do goodders say "the quran gives women loads of freedom" what bullshit
Circumcision has many medical benefits that is why it is permissible in Islam
@@GamerSaifanthat's not the reason why jewish and muslim men get circumsized 😂 broooo come on.
Wouldn't it be easier to just teach men self control as children like non Muslim men are taught?
You think non-Muslim men have self-control despite all the violence against women? Men in general need to learn that women are not their possessions.
THIS 👏🏻❤️
There's that kind of teaching in islam too, but as usual people like to pick and choose what they preach and taught and learm.
Totally. It’s outrageous
But don't you see?Christianity and Judaism both have social and dress codes. In bedoin society, where people tended to be travelers and semi nomadic in earlier times covering while outside the family home full covering the face and hair, and most of the body in general, for protection from the natural environment, as TRADITION it makes sense. In modern society, where we have a bit more control of our environments, no. As hygienic standards for an earlier day and age, sure. Health standards can cause changes in hygienic practices, and between the time of the WRITING of the Qu'ran, which was several centuries after the death of Mohammed, (police and fleas be upon him)(yes, I meant that no typo. A man that justifies sexual intercourse with a 9 year old child. And a religion that accepts it because she had entered puberty isn't in a position to tell me what's right and wrong) The modern Muslim standards for harambee dress are insane. Women have zero rights. They are the ones who are most punished by islam(English speakers unfamiliar, ISLAM translates to English as "submission" the term Muslim literally means "one who submits" women recieve the heaviest punishments for forbidden practices. Men can rape and murder a woman and say "well she was dressed like a whore" and walk away or pay a fine. Its fucked up. Christian and jews though just as fucked in entirely different ways have grooming standards that are just as ridiculous. And im sorry religious people, none of your "holy books" and their religious laws are no more than superstitions and misunderstanding. Why forbid pork and shellfish? Because they are scavengers. Insects and arthropods do eat dead tissue and small microbes. Pigs will eat anything. And they wallow in any kind of mud They can because they can't sweat so it cools the skin. If improperly cooked or stored in the hot desert it goes bad faster than other meats. It can carry parasites and cause great terrible illness. A more primitive understanding of science had no concept of microbes, or the unseen by the naked eye and ascribed it to divine punishment. It's maddening that with all we know and understand that people still cling so fervently to it to the point it's used as a justification for true evil and hatred.
my ex used Islamic rulings to control me. I left this insanity.
That sums Islam up in a nutshell!
Stay safe. A controlling ex combined with this ideology is dangerous.
@@Leon-ty6bw conservitive people and conservitive religons is a recipe for disaster and hell on earth
Congratulations on your escape. ❤
@SharmilaShuklaAfzal good for you!
Why is Islam obsessed with a woman's body?
So unhealthy its horrible
Because Muhammad was.
Because its made up my men. That's an easy one.
Because it's founder was absolutely obsessed by women!
It's very misogynistic.
My (Pakistani) university has posters all over stating hadith that prohibit women from applying perfume, befriending guys, and phrases like "hijab is not a choice."
As an ex muslim woman, this pisses me off. Even my hijabi friends, who apply makeup and perfume, ignore those posters. One of them even said "where are the modesty campaign posters for guys?"
Religious enforcement starts from school and continues till university. Its insane!
u r from pakistan like pakistani?
Sad. Am Indian ex Muslim uk Yorkshire born here. Love uk but Islam here is a nuisance constantly crying Islamophobia
It's Pakistan, what did you expect? The whole country was literally founded as an Islamic "republic".
@@FactStorm well i didn't know when i was child i was just a child trying to find love i guess? trying to understand adults trying to find adult i could trust because i was a chid back then now i m dismissive avoidant who only wants money and flew out of this place.
@@FactStorm no, it really wasn't, it was founded as secular, but that's what it's turned into, thanks to that idiot Zia.
it was always confusing to me that hijabs are used to 'cover a woman's beauty' but whenever a non-muslim woman tries on a hijab (for fun or whatever) the first thing muslims always say is 'you're so beautiful!'
Mental manipulation…so they will cover like them and have women believe it’s a special beauty that pleases allah
😂
it's to lure them into converting.
Hijabis will also encourage non-hijabis to wear hijab by telling them how beautiful they are w their scarves !!! While this may be true, the whole point of hijab is to hide a woman's beauty. Female muslim hijabi influencers are often just the same as non-Muslim influencers. They just use halal-ish rules by wearing a scarf AND the most beautiful clothing possible. AND they do a full face of make-up!!! Look up Leena Snoubar (withloveLeena) and the Asad sisters. It's all about consumption, beauty, designer handbags, heels, dresses, etc. So their beauty is very much on display.
Muslims always lie left and right.
Clearly man made rules .
To control and bring women down
@@sevi7503 to suit men
Read your Bible' 😂, and See what it says about Women Not covering their Hair or Walk around half dressed, it Tell you clearly what is to do with such!
I will say it one more time , perhaps it doesnt get removed this time, Look at your Bible'" what dies it say about Women Not covering their Hair ' and what to do If the refuse?, also what does the Bible call Women whom Walk around half dressed?, Go Look I dare you!
Read your own Bible' and Look what it says about the matter, what dies it say' about a Women Not covering her Hair? or Walking around half dressed' what does the Bible call such Woman?, its amazing to me' how ignorant so many are of their own Religion
A loving God wouldn't punish or curse anyone for plucking hair . So these rules are ludicrous
i loving god also wouldnt care if you worshipped him or not
@@RedLunchBox so a loving parent wouldnt care if their kid did heavy drugs?
@starlarose2216 excuse me taking drugs ruins your life and kill you plucking your eye brows is no comparison also you can't pluck your eyebrows but you can pluck the hair that goes between so you don't have a mono brown. Really totally ludicrous
A loving parent will care if their Child go wayward by doing vices but a loving parent won’t curse or punish for plucking hair
@@starlarose2216 well a living parent would be angry but he won't send them to hell lol ....
Why would any woman send herself back 1000 years? This is insane.
I remember I was talking to a Muslim man on a dating site and he told me “he would pray that my tattoos disappeared.”
😫😩🫤
Rather presumptuous of him!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
i live in kuwait so my whole family are religious muslims except for me. I'm just glad my fam never judged me or gave me a hard time for being me
just be careful. Muslims are dangerous.
Same here from Bangladesh
People need to get out this shitty religion
So happy for you, but there are thousands Muslim ladies not so lucky
This is wondeful. Happy to konow such families exist.
@@Tabukaexploringhi how is it in Bangladesh? Do they impose it on women do you educate muslim women and your friends about this?
Islam is the religion of
peace, Because anyone
who criticize or leave this
religion gonna rest in Peace..
Or shows its contradictions.
@Goudvis 😂
@@mayyoufindlove702 Or draw the wrong cartoon.
😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
As a secret ex-Muslim turned atheist living in Iran, I'm so happy I came across this video. I don't know if you've heard about it or not, but Iran has been very extreme about hijab in the past few years. But I'm so glad to see women my age (22) don't care about hijab and wear whatever they want, even if it costs them and their family's lives.
Islam is BS, and I know that I'll face passive-aggressiveness from Islam's die-hard fans and extremists, but I'm so happy to know that there are people who are in the same situation as me.
Muslims hate criticism and are blind to the oppression and torture. Also, doesn't Islam say that hijab is to preserve a woman's beauty? Well, that's BS too. My hairstylist and dermatologist (who specializes in haircare as well) say that most hijabi women who visit them have a specific hair loss pattern, and my mom has it too. I'm just glad my parents aren't strict about these rules. They are still strict, being Muslims, but they don't haunt me like a sleep paralysis demon.
I’m so happy for you. I know lots of Iranians who moved to Montreal and I don’t know a single one who wears a Hijab.
How they wore mini skirts decades ago and how bad things have gotten since. It’s a bit scary to be because I find the Iranian women I know to be pretty strong headed, they hold their grounds, so I’m surprised men/religion have been able to convince women to follow these strict rules.
Iranian women are beautiful and I won’t even talk about your hair, I get jealous!! :-)
You deserve to live like you did in the past, free and strong. You guys are so courageous, we admire you. ❤
@@ellaella5537 thank you SO much! Unfortunately, you're right. My grandma said that she never wore any hijab when Reza Shah was the king of Iran, but after the revolution, women were forced to wear one and they even kicked her out of school when she was a little girl and it made her stay illiterate. Religious women nowadays are brainwashed to think they are superior to non-hijabi/non-religious women and tend to forget that at the end of the day, we're all humans and deserve to be treated like one.
Thank you so much for your comment. It means the world to us when a non-Iranian person offers their support.
W8shing u well from the west
Wow so bad you should speak up more and get herd out there and share this to the world 🙌🏼🌍
Your scalp needs air and sunshine. Covering up all the time has a negative affect on your scalp and hair.
Here in Spain we had an iman that publicly said in some kind of conference that all the women wearing perfume were whores 🙂
Does he define what he means by "whore," because it's quite ridiculous to make such an assertion based on the traditional understanding of that term. I have worn perfume many times in my life for instance, and I am still a virgin and have never dated.
@shieldmaidenforchrist1310 nope, and he said fornicator not whore, to be more precise 😅
@rosivalenzuela3955 I've heard something like that too. A guy was doing a sermon and he said "women who wear perfume are whoring themselves" what utter bullshit. perfume, for me completes an outfit. My stepdad told me that, I didn't bother before.
Then he shouldn’t be an iman and he shouldn’t even be worrying abt women
An absurd hatred for women is definitely promoted in the religion, to make them follow the rules so they can be different from those said "whores." It's insane. Ironically the same preachers will preach about sensual "hoors" in paradise, waiting for men, describing their physical attributes in detail. Absolutely insane teachings
Who raised you that you are so wise and considerate of women? Not just religiously but of our personal happiness? I love this.
I dated a Muslim man from Bangladesh for a while. We got pretty serious. He promised me he wasn’t religious as I do not want to be in a relationship with a religious man. It kind of bothered me that he did Ramadan but he said it was just to remind himself to feel grateful. Still made me uneasy. We talked about marriage and having kids. When he told me he wanted our kids to know about the Koran I had to dip. No no no. It was hard to break up but not for me.
Yeah you made the right choice
They always do that. It's legal for them to deceive non Muslims. After the wedding, he would have started persuading you to convert to Islam.
May Allah allow you to see Islam the way I do Inshallah. 💗
@@idorus I definitely did! 😄
my albanian muslim father was always like "as long as you are a good human being i dont care if you folllow the rules of islam".
he NEVER forbid my mom or sister anything. My mom had literally the best life with my father.
Bless him, thats a good man you have as a father
Your father is a very decent and civilised man. Happy for you.☺️
@@roxanne9894 thank you, he really is! He has his own mentality about certain things and he was a strict father in fact BUT he accepts me having a german (christian) boyfriend so that says it all
@silverpixel One cannot wish for a better father than that!
Don't understand how plucking is altering, but bleaching to change the appearance isn't?
😂👏 Lmao yeah
bleaching the skin is also haram because you are changing the appearance of Allah SWT
That girl was also wearing makeup lol. If she wears makeup idk why she doesn't just pluck her eyebrows?
@@FriendlyExmuslimimmature 😂 no wonder Islam left you.
I used to not pluck my eyebrows due to the fear of going to hell 😅😅 So glad I’m passed all that.
Islam is stuck in the Middle Ages trying to take the rest of the world back to those times!
So is the incoming US vice president
@ drink cool aid much?
Middle ages never practiced this
Well, the Middle ages were much more liberal than that.
So very sadly true.
Some African tribal women tattooed themselves to avoid being taken into slavery, because even a tattooed slave is less valuable.
@@romanbrandle319 I am an African and never heard of that
@@nobs997 That's probably because it's not widespread, you could look it up on UA-cam.
@@nobs997 africa is too big to known by everyone , just google
Maghrebi women tattooed their chins. I'm a french 47yo and i saw many old women wear tattoos in the streets. The tradition is lost for young generations however
It was a beauty trend among North African women, it used to be part of their traditions.
Most gynaecologists say to leave pubic hair alone as it is plays very important role in protecting our very sensitive genitals but islam says “ yo go ahead pluck it all you like”; why? To please men that’s why. Smh. The pubic skin is also very thin compared to our entire body, trimming is considered the most non invasive way to maintain “neatness” if at all; waxing is never recommended by any health professional ever.
Interesting
I wax or shave i hate pubic hair
Regardless if you like it or hate it, you have never thought to ask yourself why we have body hair! Why does your pubic area grow hair.
Surely there is a reason though.
Everyone removes pubic hair, not sure what ghastly town you live in
It makes sense. The dude loved little girls. Apparently he married like... a 9 year old. So... of course he would encourage pre pubescent look...
Isn’t circumcision “ changing Gods’ creation “
Yeah.. Why did Allah give males foreskin if He thought it was dirty or whatever and wanted them to be without foreskins? Makes no freaking sense. And why would Allah give women pubic hair if He wanted them to constantly remove it?
I missed this. Damn. Such a good point! 👏
Answer incoming: “Changing god’s creation is ok if god wants to u to”
❤(Sahih Muslim 2495): All Reverts,COMPULSORY TO OBEY 5 Sunnah of the prophet:(1)Circumcise yr clitoris/penis (2)Shave yr pubic(vagina/penis) hairs,(3)trim moustache,(4)Cut nails & (5)Shave armpit hairs.
❣️Sahih Sunan abu dawud 5271:
"Prophet said women must be circumcised.He said if u cut, cut a little & leave abit sticking out bcos it will still make her face beautiful (during sex) & it will be more pleasant for the husband (to his wife enjoy a bit of sex).
Circumcision may have been introduced to the primitive, nomadic, Judaic tribes as desert life limited regular bathing. The practice was done away by Jesus' instruction, (who as jew, must have been circumcised as a baby). This instruction to abandon the practice is ignored by muslims, despite the acknowledgement of Jesus/Isa being an important prophet in Islam
I wonder how much of these rules for women had to do with what he found physically attractive in women
@@angeldust7591 hey, what's with the insult?? Have some manners!
This is it pretty much.
@@angeldust7591 the kettle calling the pot black 😂
Pretty much all of them lol
It’s weird that he would forbid women from doing it, if he enjoyed it 💀
I don’t wear makeup, skirts, do anything to my hair except brush it, don't wear perfume, don't shape eyebrows, basically no "beauty" stuff except pluck an occasional chin hair. Never did. However, if anybody told me I had to put a bag over my head to appear in public, I'd be extremely unfriendly. Good thing I'm not religious. I like the sun on my face and the wind in my hair.
Same here. I don’t wear makeup because I don‘t know how to do it and I hate the feeling of it on my face. I do skincare and a really lightweight sunscreen. But you better believe that I would slap ALL the makeup on my face if I was told I wasn’t allowed to because of someone’s religion. Gimme all the sparkly eyeshadow.
@@p.p.139i feel you girl, i rarely out on lipsticks cause I hate the sensation on my lips, i was dating a guy and on the second date i tought it would be cute to put on some light lipgloss because once in a while why not? He told me he didnt like lipstick and asked me not to put it on anymore. On the third date i came wearing an invasive red lipstick just because if I want i can😂😂😂
That is so disrespectful to call the Hijab a bag. Please learn manners. Don't criticise my religion if you don't know it please. May Allah allow you to see Islam the way I do Inshallah. 💗
@@StellaDreami7Calm down, Stella. People can say or call things the way they want. It's a free country. We are not slaves to religion like you.
Such restrictive laws that don’t make sense. It sounds man made, not established by an all loving, wise God.
Because it is
Gods not real anyway
"You should not change god's creation", but must shave some hair??
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When I was a child, my Christian father scolded me for drawing squiggles on my hands with a pen. He said that I was spoiling God's creation 😅 it infuriated me so much that when I grew up and left religion, I got tattoos all over my body
So women can’t dye their hair black but in some muslim countries they’re required to wear black in public. 🤷♀️
"Wearing black" is not an Islamic ruling. It is the tradition of those countries. Those countries are masking these traditions and practices as religion astagfirullah. Islam has never told women "oh you can't wear any colour except black".
@@ahumanbeing3264But Muhammad forbade makeup which which the Quran forbades, is that not color
@@bernadettesolomons1870eyeliner is black. And what's wrong with color? Black is also a color.
Men also can’t dye their hair black
Where’s the correlation between those two?
Almost all the women in my life ignore the makeup ruling and they also wear nails when on their period bc they cannot pray anyway. I hate these rules, the more rules i interrigated, the less sense the religion made for me, so my life is more rich now that i’ve let go.
@@Gijakhali They can’t pray while on their period? 😮 Talk about double standards.
@@sallyintucsonyes because we are too "dirty" or whatever the man who made up that rule said
@@SQUELCH-zj7ilthus is a reoccurring belief many cultures have. Im not allowed to sit in certain areas because of my period, it is really ridiculous
do not need to pray on period double standard. needing to pray so much work. human live with desire will always find excuses to do what they wanted and disregarded God commands, full stop. even not on period you did not want to pray, why mad when you cannot pray while on period?
I truly sorry for any westerners who convert
They are forced to do so by their Mus l!m boyfriend and husband
I don’t feel sorry for them. It was their choice and they should have researched the implications more thoroughly.
@@africanayasmin6210you have got it wrong. Islam is not about force or persecution. Our Prophet(PBUH) respected every religion and showed kindness to them. Allah has instructed this. We cannot force anyone to convert to Islam. Said in Surah Al-Kafirun : " You have your religion and I have mine".
So if anyone forces anyone to convert to Islam, they are going against Islamic teaching. Blame those particular people, not our religion.
Majority but not necessarily... my friend is a convert much before meeting her husband, he " talaqsized " her and she's still faithful to islam, situations that I'll never understand
Plenty westerners reverted and are happy
This things about perfumes is really weird. Middle Eastern countries have long tradition in perfumery and some of the most valued perfume ingredients are sourced there, not to mention all the modern Arabic Perfume houses!
Even Lady M in The Scottish Play mentions “the perfumes of Arabia” when she sleepwalks.
Mohammed himself absolutely loved perfume & used it all the time, which is why it's permissible for men. But he was also a very jealous and insecure man, so among the things he forbade for women was perfume.
Before islam, middle east was a prosperous and progressive society in many ways. Islam is actually pretty recent in history.
Sorry but French and British perfumes smell way better.
@@DearBillno way. Arabic perfumes smell better than western crap perfumes.
Speaking of not changing Allah's creation, why is circumcision obligatory? Isn't foreskin also Allah's creation?
If Allah wanted his followers not to have foreskin, why did he give it in the first place?
And want about female circumcision, female genital mutilation ? Isn’t this REALLY altering Allahs creation? And not just altering Allahs creation but doing serious permant harm to a woman’s body!
@@teresahiggs4896 FGM is not mentioned in Islam
@@teresahiggs4896 what do you mean about female genitak mutilation? I don't remember seeing anything about that.
@@teresahiggs4896in some countries it's still happening, poor girls and women
Depends on who you ask, circumcision is not actually obligatory. However, it's very cultural around the middle East and the lines between culture and religion are blurred to bits.
Rules made by men, for women, without the consent of women.
As a person growing up in a Muslim household I been struggling a lot recently since I used to believe in the religion so much that I never doubted anything however now that I’m getting to know the other side of Islam I can’t believe how i fell for that bullshit I been following those restrictions since I’m 8 years old like I wear a hijab no nail polish no pluging my eyebrows… I’ll soon turn 18 and that’s when I’m planning on officially talking to my parents and end everything because it would cause me a lot of trouble if I would do that now I’m really worried how they will react though.
Look for Christian Prince. He is telling what islam is and thousend moslims leave islam.
God bless you, wise girl! Stay safe!
Staying safe should be your priority. Only tell them when you think their reaction is going to be okay. You don't owe them honesty if you fear there might be bad consequences. Maybe take a friend with you that you trust if you really want to tell them.
Practical advice for ex-Muslims by Infidel Noodle is good, you get some useful info and links in the video description. Please see it.
@@leoniep9231 , sound advice.
I always thought that girls who wear hijab but also tight clothes polish makeup etc don't actually believe, and just aren't willing to lose their whole community. I just never understood how you can fr believe in islamic hell, and flout the rules. When I believed, I followed the rules, when I stopped believing I stopped.... maybe that's a me thing idk
I’ve never been Muslim but I’ve noticed this too! It makes no sense to me that they are so “modest” yet so clearly trying to be sexy. They wear makeup that looks more appropriate for a night out clubbing. I just never understood it
Idk 🤷♀️ Christians aren't supposed to engage in pre marital sex and some other stuff, but they do it still 🤷♀️. They just believe their god will forgive them.
I was jogging a few years ago and saw a hijabi woman jogging too, wearing ankle length tights, a tight long sleeve shirt and hijab. Everything was covered, but everything was form fitting. Bizarre
I saw a black 20yo in the metro wearing à light pink hijab light pink jellabah... and underneath a white/light pink bra + panties... as she was black the panties and bra just stood out under the very transparent jellabah and she looked like more naked than if she wore shorts and a crop top. But I guess as she was covered it was OK 😂
Yep. That’s how it looks to me too, they talk about modesty, but put on tons of make up and clothes are form fitting.
This is hilarious and sad at same time . I got out of this cult two years ago now . I converted for a man who ended up being an abuser and I feared for my life . He was into boys too ( common in certain Muslim communities ie Afghanistan Pakistan ) anyway my eyelashes were a big topic with the “sisters” in the mosque however my eyelashes were in fact real 😂 they never got over it so they then switched focused to my wearing of colours . I was constantly harassed by the women and I suspect jealousy was a huge problem for them because I saw that most muslim women actually hated themselves deep down and they couldn’t stand my blonde hair green eyes bubbly happy smiley personality because I unlike them hadn’t experienced their miserable existence . I remember cycling to the mosque 😂 well let’s just say they nearly died. The particular muslim community I was in was Pakistani Afghani and Sudanese . The Sudanese women were lovely actually but the Pakistani !!! Viscious
Yikes!
The.only.power they have is over each other. Its like any oppressive facistic regime. It relies on all policing each other and fear based control.
Thanx for sharing.
I don't get it... Why would you convert for a man?? This religion is absolute madness, why did you decide to join it?? I hear this over and over again and my mind just cannot comprehend it 🤦🏼♀️
Interesting the more light race were the more jelous but the black one has more personality
I cant understand how it even became a religion... why would people want to follow these silly rules?
By forcing and intimidation. Satan's work.
Pmo had the smart ones killed. So artificial selection.
i bet it was enticing for men since it's all male-focused benefits, so they enforced it lol. Even in "heaven", the man can drag his wife into his harem if he so wishes. women apparently have no say in the afterlife too.
*why would people want to follow these silly rules?*
Indoctrination
@@Witchmee One word: Cult. All religions start out as cults. Merry Meet.
Islam actually orders Muslim women to cover all parts of the body including the face. Since the order is so unreasonable for Muslim women to carry out, then a fatwa came out from the previous scholars ordering that Muslim women can wear only the hijab, which is just covering their hair. But some Muslim apologists today insist that the veil is not required by religion, even though they have nothing in their holy text to contradict the passage where Muhammad ordered its use. In fact, verse (24:60) says that the veil is optional only for unmarried women who are too old to have children. And this proves that the covering of cloth in Islam is to avoid the uncontrollable hyper-sexuality of men in the days of Muhammad who passed by when seeing women outside their home.
This is totally incorrect.
Surat an nur states: tell the believing women to draw their khimar over their pockets of their chests so that they will be known.
There is no command to cover their hair. Khimar was a head piece.
Pockets of chest refers to cleavage. Later, we get the command to cover all bodily pockets (vagina and buttocks).
The 'known' was understood to mean "free women", therefore the verses here are to distinguish free women from slaves.
I could refer you to multiple books of fiqh and hadith which support my argument.
The term, " hijab" refers to a barrier, and is only used to refer to women in the verse about the wives of the Prophet.
@@scarfholdgraphicsmedia9501interesting that slaves had a different rule applied to them - a less modest one
Veiling applied only to Prophet Muhammad's wives due to their special status. Women cannot cover their faces during the Hajj pilgrimage. Historically, veiling in Islam was influenced by the Christian Byzantine Empire. It became associated with higher status women. This was not the case in early Islam. Read the history of this.
@@Miriam-qh1so In 2017, al-Azhar university in Egypt decreed that the veil was compulsory for Muslim women... and not even open for debate: "It is not acceptable that anyone from the public or non-specialized people, regardless of their culture, to voice their opinions on the matter."
Are you claiming that the leading Sunni institution in the world doesn't understand Islam?
@@Miriam-qh1so veiling in early Islam was for free women. Slaves did not veil.
It's abusive controlling and cohesive and in the UK that means it's should be illegal
This is so sad, women have the right to make themselves beautiful, not just for others but for themselves. Ladies, Celebrate your Beauty, for that is how God made you.
Dolly Parton has been on stage for 50 years, married to one man for just as long, and never once been involved in a scandal. She embodies the strength, sweetness and beauty of a woman.
Big hair, big tits, great voice. Can it get any better?
It seems that Mohamed hated humans, but especially women... it is so sad to see so many people following this evil.
Unfortunately, men miss the point that women often wear make-up for ourselves, not for men. It's a girly thing.
I’m a woman and I highly disagree. If you aren’t going out, or going to be seen, essentially no one would wear makeup. This has been proven to me time and time again by women from all cultures. Why not just admit the truth? That you wear it to look pretty
@@tianna1116it's subjective. You can't categorise the whole gender species into one thing. I wear makeup to feel confident, not to attract men. I have my own man, why would I want to attract more men?
@tianna1116 I don't care if you agree or not. If I choose to wear make-up, it's for me, not for the looks of men.
@@tianna1116 You can want to look pretty and not have it be solely/primarily for the benefit of men. Those two goals aren't mutually inclusive.
@@tianna1116exactly
18:35 I’m not, and have never been Muslim. But listening or seeing how women are told this, that, and the next thing is too tempting for Muslim men has me thinking that Muslim men are very weak and need babysitters. I have work with Muslim men at my hospital and they don’t seem to be running amok so maybe it’s the guys in charge who are weak and need a babysitter.
Right!?! Exactly.
I don’t get the hair dying thing when Muslim men henna their beards - granted they dye it a red colour but surely that’s even more eye catching 🤔 technically they should not beautify themselves for non related women (and men lol)
Don't forget the eyeliner that Mo wore 😂
Isn’t red the color of whoors? 😂
No freedom.. JESUS set you free
I think Mohamed had a red beard.
@@HaakGauAlso no teeth, knocked out during a battle. Narrated according to Aisha, she use to comb the lice out of his hair. Also Mo bathed in a pool containing dead dogs and menstraul cloths
All these rules show that it's not a religion for all of humanity because it fails to take other cultures into consideration. Tattoos are important to many Pacific Islander cultures. Hair experimentation is an important part of black cultures. I sincerely do not understand how a little ink on your dermis and couple of box braids could be considered so evil.
Edit: wrote this before the hair dyeing part. That is also another stronger example of this religion not being made for all of humanity. Guess there weren't enough redheads and blondes around to make the ruling more consistent for the seal of religions lol.
For realz. If you trip and get a permanent scar by accident, does it not count as altering gods creation?
@@Witchmee Doesn't the Old Testament say if your testes get crushed you can't go to heaven? We need a more easy to please deity I think.
This religion was not made to be inclusive. It was made to force others to drop their culture and values and adopt the Islamic one. It's very disturbing when you really think about it.
I don't know why people in this day and age would follow that cult!!! I left years ago and never been happier, there are just so many restrictions and most women I know cherry pick and still do their eyebrows and have hair extensions.
I don't understand the hair covering, like why? Okay covering your breast, because the hijab covers that as well, but the hair? Its just hair and its better for your head to breave and not be covered all the time, modest clothing, sure, but hair, what is not modest about covered and not covered hair? Face is even more crazy for me, the veils.. brr the most crazy and terrible religion. Even nunes in Christianity don't cover their faces, wtf is this religion I do 't understand how any women would convert on their own free will.
I'm sure fear plays a big part of it. Many women have been made dependent on their husband or men in their family, and are afraid to leave. But why non Muslims would join this death cult baffles me as well. Looking for something spiritual maybe, trying to fill a void. I don't know... I am a Buddhist, it's the best thing that ever happened to me..
Will Allah check each and everyone’s pubic hair wether it’s plucked or not. It’s one’s personal choice. Gosh what a mad religion.
Mr. Friendly Exmuslim thank you for seeing your wonderful wife and the rest of us women as people that are deserving of rights and self determination. It means a lot, really, we can't do it without you guys.
Hi mate. Indian ex Muslim born in the uk Yorkshire. I once had a colleague at work asked me not to enter the office space as a colleague is removing her hijab to realign, I laughed and carried on and asked her go to the loo mate.
respect the women either way u weirdo
Your videos are great, keep making them. I particularly enjoy the women vs islam type of videos. Always confused me why a certain type of women defend their oppressor.
Also, your takes are always so logical and well put together, great to listen to
Thanks to my wife 🙏
Hi! Thanks for the feedback. I'm his wife and I try to give my insight and input into videos such as this one. Are there any other topics that you would like to see covered? I'd happily take it into consideration.
@@truecrimeallofthetime Hi, the research was great rly informative! I dont know if it has been covered already but, i find it interesting with the virgin maidens men will get in jannah, but women wont get anything of that sort, just promised "happiness" and can still be with their "busy" husbands. How come muslims know this and, women especially, still believe the quran gives women most rights? etc
@@user-pi4cc5ll1uOh yes. I had issues with this when my husband passed. I was really pissed off about houri al ayn. I'll screenshot this and reflect on it. Thank you.
@@user-pi4cc5ll1u Women defending their oppressors are suffering from Stockholm syndrome
But the muslim men like looking at beautiful women😂
Ofc, I don't understand men who cover up their wives
I never quite understood how empowering beautification can be before I came across the strict rules for and against it, not limited to peacefuls.
On the defense of pigeons!
They hang out with people because people for 1000s of years kept pigeons. We only recently dropped them out of nowhere.
People just released them and abandoned them.
The pigeons, forever loyal are still hanging out with us waiting for our affection to return.
You should look it up it’s really quite sad.
Poor pidgies :(
I've always thought this 😢 they look at you like dogs do. 😢
Proud ex Muslim here
Congratulations!
😂what happened to my body my choice
@@IamIeala particularly it isn't their own choice
From trying to shape her eyebrows you can really tell ,
The lady would really plug her eyebrows if this shitty Islamic cult wouldn't exist
Even though she tried to shape her eyebrows, and will eventually be called jahannami by Muslim
I know Muslim very well , I myself am from toxic Muslim culture who think cooking is the only work in woman's life and every woman meant to played by their husband .
@@IamIeala
Her choice or Momo's wishes?
@Bibia3-r2i don't cry
I'm so glad I've found your channel. I'm not a Muslim nor I was raised in Muslim country. However, a family member of mine converted to Islam. I've had a contact with both 'born' Muslims and Converts.
The amount of obsession about women's so-called purity, the hate towards non-muslim or apostates is terrifying, the fact how mentally destructive is this environment is absolutely indescribable.
Nah, I'm good with my boring old Protestantism! I am not interested in systems that consider me less than human.
I was dating a Muslim man when I was a young Canadian Ukrainian girl. I was kept in a room a literal bedroom because my boyfriend lived with his brothers and I was not allowed out of the room without him.
Everything was under attack, even my piercings were ripped out it was not a fun time
I don't understand why you western women date conservative muslim men in the first place! That's how grooming works! If I were a western woman I would have blocked every conservative muslim men who texted me, run away from them if they wanted to have a talk.
Girls from childhood should be taught to stay away from them 😅
Not to mention the crazy marriage “rules”… which have lead to abusive, and even death so many times…
Yet this is because “Allah” says this is okay. Right.
It's sickening. Little girls being married off to some old fart!
Absue is not allowed in Islam . Nither is mistreatment of women . The ones that a man marry in Islam are to be given full respect .
Again, it's the people who don't follow the religion. Not the religion itself .
@@short_bambooFalse. If your wife won’t have sex with you you don’t have to clothe or feed her. A wife cannot refuse sex. A man can beat his wife for suspected rebellion. A man is allowed to refuse sex as a punishment but women can’t. A man can take a second wife without his wife’s permission. A man can determine if his wife goes to Heaven or Hell based on if he’s happy with her. You need to learn your own religion.
No ruling said that wife's concent in sex is not necessary. You say it like Islam permits rape in marriage. In case you don't know , in Islam , if you rape someone , they can lawfully kill you .
I went to a high school that had a lot of Muslims. I don’t think any of the girls who wore hijab didn’t wear makeup every day.
Actually, most of us don't dress up to attract men. We dress up to impress the other women 😊
And if your eye offends you you're welcome to close it, or turn your head.
You don't have to tear the eye out 😉
Peace and love
I dress for myself only-what I like
i just want to say you're beautiful and gorgeous
wish i was happier like you
I said this exact thing to a group of men and they got so upset with me. They argued up and down that women beautify themselves strictly to attract men. I told them most men don't care about makeup, lashes, wigs or hair extensions, nails, fashion etc. A attractive woman will get their attention without all the bells and whistles and most men prefer natural beauty. Men don't say, "Wow, I love her makeup, let me get her number" 😂😂😂 rarely happens. Women (including me) dress up to outshine and upstage other women. We want to feel like we're the most beautiful woman in the room.
I swear they will not think twice about raping men if womens are not there.the problem is clearly with men@@BixbyLBC
That's even worse!
Am I the only one who sees a lot of similarities between islam and Hasidic jews ????
The attitude to wigs is different; for married Hasidic women wigs are mandatory. Overall, they both oppress women, so yes, they are alike.
Both had their beginning in the middleast
Yep, they are also like Mennonites
Hasidic Jews are a fairly small sect vs an entire religion.
Also, Israel which is predominantly Jewish state would never enforce Hasidic traditions as laws.
hasidic jew is pro-woman and is harsher on men. just look up bitul torah where men arent allowed even one second to themselves or else is sin, or how hasidic men wear bad prescription glasses on the bus to not see female forms
I heard a Islamic religious man say that "Islam doesn't subjugate women...men subjugate women". Interesting take.
My local Imam's third wife is a white, American with hijab and groomed eyebrows and lots of makeup. 😅
Didn't Mhmd dye his beard? The old double standard.
Not black
Pink? @@farahfawzy5413
I think it's not about dying your hair in general. Just about dying them black in particular...
@littlepineapple80 Senseless rule.
And he also put on a red garment in the hopes of getting a revelation.
Didn't work, I wonder why. 🤔
Was tough to watch this video because it makes me furious how societies in modern times still control women.
If the guys were better and kinder husbands maybe they wouldn´t be so scared of their women finding a new man.
As an iranian girl, I have to tell you that Islam has devastated my country and it effects specially on women. Thank you for telling the reality and not romanticizing it's absurd rules.
Why arab women need this big controll? Why the men no?
It’s all about putting onus on women and giving men a power trip. The coverage for women came from an incident of MO’s follower peeping on one of his wives doing her business alone somewhere. Mo found out and declared she needed to cover herself.
Why this response? I believe it’s because women weren’t capable of taking power from Mo but men could. Keep the men happy and compliant with Mo. that’s the interpretive key for it all. That’s also why no alcohol or music and dancing: people get rowdy and even flippant about things.. someone questioned MO’s authority and dismissed his authority.. so outlawed! No booze or partying but sex is ok; lots of sex. Why? Men are satisfied but as long as strict control over who has what women is maintained then sec never gets to the point of challenging Mo’s authority
In Afghanistan the men were happy the taliban took over until they started beating the men and telling them they had to wear full clothes no jeans and tank tops ….Google it … it’s the most extreme Muslims who follow all the rules
Or this usual comment
'Masha Allah Sister but Ur beauty isnt supposed to be on display on social media'😅
Thank you Mrs. Former Muslima for the research and work. Thanks for the collab. I remember reading about halal nail polish. Wigs are interesting as in more religious Jewish communities wigs can be wore to fulfill the requirement to place something between you and god and show subservience. 6:20 made me laugh.
Married Jewish women wearing wigs is a separate halachah from kisui rosh (head covering).
@@torgostheme Thank you.
Jewish women wear wigs scarves or hats so that only their husband will see their real hair, as hair is seen as sensual.
The requirement to put something between you and God to remind yourself that god is always above you is only for men, as women are seen as naturally more spiritual than men
Thank you for bringing to attention the unfortunate news of what Arab women most specifically Islamic women have to suffer through
I can only speak for myself but over here in the southeastern part of the US, I constantly hear that Islam is a peaceful religion and women wear hijabs because they want to but when I bring up any points of how, at least in Afghanistan in the 70s and 80s, some countries were more progressive as far as women's rights, I get told that I'm a Westerner and I wouldn't understand. My questions were never rude and I always try to be respectful but I absolutely hate the immediate judgement of being a Westerner yet they expect people to never judge them. I just like learning about different cultures but I don't think people like difficult questions.
I dunno. Maybe that's just a petty gripe. 🤷🏻♀️
If pious judging of other people was an Olympic sport, Muslims would win gold, silver and bronze in both men's and women's categories!
Nope, you are in the right.
It's easy to lie to people who live in the west bcs they don't see what happens in Muslim countries, and even when you live near a community they can easily gaslight you into 'no no no it's not like this,' which often comes from people having a superiority complex about their religion + not being allowed to question or critique it themselves so any questions are automatically shunned as 'youre uninformed.'
P@kistani here and I can tell you 110% there's no concept of women rights in sharia law, just constant brainwashing of women into believing they have some rights. Your weightage in testimony is considered half, you're mandated to be loyal but men can remarry and not give an F and you're supposed to not question polygamy bcs God allows it, you're taught you're intellectually inferior and that if you're a wife you have to be obedient to your husband. It is extremely difficult to take divorce as a woman but men verbally divorce a woman by saying it three times. Many Islamic websites and preachers openly preach all of this, yet people still have the nerve to lie and say everyone is just uninformed.
As for hijab, you're constantly taught that women are supposed to hide their beauty to not be "tempting" to men, and that you're supposed to wear the hijab as a Muslim woman. It's constant indoctrination, but even if someone presumably wears it wholeheartedly, the point is still that they would not have been allowed to dress in a way that's very different from that. There's an extreme hatred of anything "immodest" and when hijab is considered modesty, a lot of things become very immodest by comparison. So it's a one sided "choice" where you can opt into strict dressing rules, but there's no option to not opt in or deviate a lot from them, which isn't a true "choice" at all. So all you can do is either agree or silently suffer
It's abundantly clear that these rules are nothing more than a form of coercive control practised on women as a whole.
If hijab 🧕 is used to cover a woman’s beauty which is her beautiful hair, can someone help me to understand why putting on thick makeup 💄 after is not exposing her beauty? 🤔
Idk if it's something many Muslim men do in western countries---but why do many Muslim men take the "French bath"? They wear so much cologne
Instead of bath…
before my dad leaves for mosque the house will reek of oud
You mustn't change what God created, yet you must remove one type of hair and not touch another type of hair, there is one rule for one area of the body and another rule for another so some hair is dirty that God did not think of omitting from creation but condemning you for leaving it and forbidding you from not leaving alone another type of hair
Why do muslim women (and men?) have to remove pubic hair?
Menschliche Körper ohne Behaarung sind Kinderkörper…
Nach Allem, was ich über Islam erfahren habe, denke ich dass es hier um eine sehr verbreitete, tiefsitzende pädophile Neigung geht ( gegenüber Mädchen, so wie gegenüber Jungen).
To look adolescent
@ Aaaaah. I get it
Perversion.
The commenter is joking. That's not the reason.
It's most likely done for cleanliness.
Islam and the whole world tries to stop women to be productive and for women in general being beautiful makes them feel better about themselves however islam is way too restricted and stops women even from feeling beautiful i was very cute when i was born and still i won't say i m not good looking but because i was naturally got fit in beauty standards the hatred i had to face from women since childhood was just so crazy.
What did they do, sorry to hear that 😢
@@CleanSweetHome they always hated me kind of like cornered me make me feel alien
Women turning on each other is the worst thing. If we let this happen, instead of being sisters, the men that want to suppress us have already won. So sorry you had to experience this.. 😔
@@AmberJan. i agree with u these women can't see the reality and just turn against each other
Your beauty is a gift and it’s tragic that other women have tried to make you ashamed of it. Be proud of your beauty!
I can't do this, I can't do that, I can't eat pork, I can't, I can't... Not the religion for me.
I agree that the whole modern islamic revival is manmade.
Muslim peoples did not care too much about this stuff in the past.
You can still find Moroccan tribal women with facial tattoos.
The hijab became a trend around 20 years ago. It is a symbol; a badge of identity.
But 'hijab' as a headscarf is a relatively new concept.
Certainly by the period of Ibn Khaldun and Ibn Taymiyyah, women were wearing Iran style jubbas which covered the hair and the body. By this time, the concept of modesty = piety had become established.
But this wasn't in early Islam.
Slave women were expected to remain uncovered. Perhaps topless even.
Women only had to cover their bums and vaginas in front of:
Dad; Servants (male and female); brothers; uncles and other women.
This is clearly evidenced.
The Qur'an does not use the term 'hijab' with regards to women's dress. The term means barrier.
The practice of doing the Hajj naked was not prohibitted until the Caliphate of Abu Bakr. Ponder on this (but not too much😊).
@@scarfholdgraphicsmedia9501 I looked up Burka (Afghanistan style) to see how old they were. Turned out they were around long before Islam and came from Pakistan.
@sallyintucson There are no records which accurately describe how Arabian women dressed in the 7th century. It is likely that people wore a form of tunic, a wrap around the body and a head piece of some sort.
Some hadith narrations indicate that women wore an outer coat (jalbab) especially at night when they went outside of the town to defecate. My problem with this is that if they were so covered, why go out at night?
Pakistan did not exist until after world war 2.
The Mughals adopted the Burkha as a way to conceal wealthy wives. It may have been used by courtesans as well.
The traditional form of dress in Pakistan was a shawaal khamiz and debutta. The debutta is a loose cloth draped around the head which does not conceal hair.
Women in Pakistan did not start wearing the modern hijab until relatively recently and it is still uncommon there.
The influence has come from the UK where under Saudi influence, British Asians have adopted the trend.
Muslims in Usbekistan, Kirgizia etc., also didn't care about this stuff 50 years ago but now they are becoming more and more like these strict Arab Muslims
I don’t pluck my eyebrows, I don’t wear make-up daily, I don’t paint nails, I go to the dentist and whenever needed, but these are exclusively because I don’t care enough to how I look like in the daily: if I wanted to do any of this, I WOULD because I’m free do do these or not. Being an Atheist is so incredibly freeing.
As a born again Christian you’re not free,just incredibly deceived
i'm a closeted atheist and i rlly can't wait to grow up and do what i want, i want my freedom
Mom and two daughters walking in front of me after they all had PEs girls both had their hijabs flipped up showing off super modest Nike wear in local HS team colors and fresh braids (intentionally, not? Teens?) I touched a shoulder (we are familiar )to point it out before they left. and was instantly “shushed” by the girls 😂❤ it made them feel good and relatable.
bleaches eyebrows but then puts on blush... i think the black hair dye is the time and location. Way to color your hair blond was not here, and red was not something that one wanted even if henna was possible. Just another proof of 7th century...
"Removing tattoos costs even more than getting them originally and hurts a lot." I've heard it hurts a *_lot_* more than getting the tattoos originally and bear in mind that laser tattoo removal involves multiple sessions, all of which have painful aftermaths. It may be relatively successful or it may end up leaving a bit of a mess.
Islam is not the only religion that says that tattoos are haram, Judaism does also as do some Christian sects. It's called *_appearance control,_* boys and girls. It's never good. If you don't want tattoos, that's fine, that's your choice but it's not fine telling other people they can't have them.
As someone who lives in the islamic ideal society where all of these rules are implemented and anyone who even tries to do something slightly different is harrassed and shamed and even r🍇 in cases because the men see it as you deserving of it if you don’t wear it and that you are asking for it, it was one of the reasons that led me to leave when i realized that my supposed god perpetuates and is pleased and blames us for our abuse and protects our abusers, because victims can never speak up in these societies and cultures.
Yes that's so true! It's a cult made by men for men. The suffering that is caused is so immense, it's heart breaking.
Modesty is one thing, but these rules are intrusive and ridiculous.
I am not muslim (thankfully) and i work in the cosmetics industry. I live in New York city and assist many muslim customers. I knew about the jihab but didn't know about all the other restrictions! Holy Cow!! I can tell you, there's alot of cherry picking and most women here are Not following the strict rules. So i guess all women that break the muslim rules are hypocrites? It's all nuts to me! If you live in a muslin country it's hard to break from a dictatorship, but women here in the USA? WHY accept a dictatorship while being surrounded by women living their life with freedom?
Thank you for your video!
I from the Middle East know living in America, lot of ExMuslim in America are afraid the will be targeted and kill they will come after you even in western countries. It actually very scary.
and they always analogy this kind of mode with candy... Woman is not a candy....
Yes, it’s sickening to refer to a woman as candy . Dismissive and disrespectful.
i grew up between muslim family and friends, only to come out as christian. and according to them, i'll never go to heaven and i'm forever cursed 🤷🏻♂
What if a woman is naturally beautiful and attracts attention without makeup? Let’s say she still dresses modestly, but has an exceptionally beautiful face or eyes that stand out? Does she wear a burqa?
Then the curse is on Allah 😂
Well muslim women still got harassed
I am so glad i came across your channel. I love your point of views for women.
Welcome aboard!
The obsession with controlling women is extreme.
after watching this video and reading all this comments, I’m once again thankful to Atatürk. its insane to live in those rules, even religious people dont do these, they dont even know those are banned.
It’s not almost insane. It’s undeniably insane ❤
What an interesting video, narrated with gentless and empathy.
Thanks!
Glad I found your channel. My daughter dated a Muslim, and started wearing clothes that were acceptable. THANK GOD she chose against converting, and now is living a wonderful life for Jesus! God bless your and your wife!
Christians fairytale made by primitive men.
Western women talk about my body my choice, but these chnage when it comes to Islam.
We fought for our rights. When I visit family most of the women are insipid and incurious to learn and just pander to the men.
Muslim men will flirt with you one week, the next week you can see him get married to his cousin on Instagram 😂