You Need To Pay Attention! | Jordan Peterson | Best Life Advice
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- "Habitable order is generated by spoken truth. I think that's the truest thing I know."
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Thoughts on the Eastern idea of moving away from excessive thinking into the awareness beyond thinking-removing it from the driver's seat to be used more as a tool? Yeah, well... I thought a lot about this in relationship to a couple of ancient ideas-the one Mesopotamian idea-characterization of Marduk who is the highest Mesopotamian deity. It was Marduk who carved up the Goddess of Chaos Tiamat into pieces and made the world out of her pieces. So Marduk is the force that confronts chaos and builds habitable order like the logos in Genesis. And one of Marduk's attributes was that he had eyes all the way around his head. Then there's Horus the Egyptian god who's the famous eye and Horus is really a deification of attention, I would say. And there's a difference between attention and thinking. Like, let me give you an example. So thinking seems to be instrumental, mostly. People also often say to me, “Well what's your-what's your strategy when you go into an interview?” And the answer is-well I don't have a strategy when I go into an interview because I'm there to have a conversation. And I'm not sure where the conversation will go and I'm willing to let it go wherever it goes. I'm not there to sell books although I'm perfectly happy if more books sell because obviously I wrote a book and I want people to read it and there's a whole enterprise behind it and so it's also my responsibility to do the marketing properly but I'm not going to do these interviews to sell books or to promote myself or-I don't have a strategic goal in mind except that I'm going to have a conversation and I'm going to say what I think and take the consequences because I assume that if I say something and I believe it's true then the consequences are as positive as they can be regardless of how they look at the time. And that's an issue of faith because I believe that the habitable order is generated by spoken truth. I believe that; I think that's the truest thing I know. And so I go into the interview-and I did this in my clinical practice and I try to do this when I'm talking to people too-is that, I'm not thinking about where the conversation is going or what point I want to make or what I want the outcome to be-any of that-I just let that go. You know, it's within this broader framework of assuming that the truth is the most effective means of progressing and then I pay attention. And what happens when you pay attention is that, well, you're watching a person. This is a great treatment for social anxiety, by the way, because if you're socially anxious you tend not to pay attention to the person. Pay attention to who you're talking to. Watch them like a hawk. Like, not paranoid or anything like that and not too intently because you make them uncomfortable but intently pay attention to what they're saying, to how they look, to their facial gestures-all of that. Look at their face and watch and listen and try to understand what they're saying...
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Life is short! Pay attention, or you will miss it. When we really pay attention, everything is our teacher 🖖
Nice!
"Everything is our teacher" I like that! :) God Bless! Stay strong, stay safe, and take care of yourselves! Wishing everyone the best!
If you don't stop and look around once in a while you'll miss it...Ferris Beuller
Paying attention without agenda is hard. Everyone is after something in xchange
@@mjs22002 that's true. I guess the best thing to do is just learn from experience and be careful. Don't make rash choices.
My prayer is that this man will have MANY mores years of sharing his mind altering wisdom with us.❤️🙏🌹
I completely agree! God bless Professor Peterson and his family.
Psychonaut Then why are you here listening to his video?🤔
@@noreenpurple645 Did 'Psychonaut' delete their comment? What did they say?
@@maciej.ratajczak Some rubbish no doubt. I've come across people hating him in my group of acquaintances since I "found" Jordan quite recently. I don't get the hate. But he does inspire that was well as the huge admiration and love he gets.
@Zeb Zamen....You have a cool name....Yeah, I do not understand the hate towards many interesting people these days. Some of his videos are much better than others. Why do they hate him?
Another favorite of mine, Ayaan Hirsi Ali. On UA-cam. I recommend her "Market for Victimhood." Video.
He always teaches me something.
You could be one of his haters and say "like he taught you how to pop benzos like pez". So sad to see people like this in the world who try to attack him and his family for one reason. He IS HELPING PEOPLE. People dont like that. They're so unhappy with themselves that they attack those helping and getting help
Because you pay attention. Give yourself a pat on the back
@@christiangraff5236 You're right. I've seen it in my own life. Shocked people react the way they do when you are happy and walking the walk.
SAME
surinder singh not for me. I already know everything
His words just cut right through to the soul like an internal understanding we all knew
It's like he is the embodiment of all good archetypes. Instead of being ideological possessed, he is archetypaly possessed.
Psychonaut you obviously know very little about this man. Ignorance is bliss, continue being blissful.
@Psychonaut A man who has never made a mistake has never done anything. If you can't learn from a man who has made mistakes then you can't learn anything.
@Psychonaut If the dangers of Benzos are so well known that you question the competency of the man who was prescribed them, why are you not questioning the competency of the doctors who prescribed them to him? And why is the drug not banned from use? Doctors in America and Canada, are right now as we speak prescribing this drug to people. Sounds like the doctors have some sever ethical or competency problems, but you want to blame the patients competency instead.
@Psychonaut And Jordan Peterson's message is - "Never do or say anything that makes you weak."
How ever he went about it makes no difference, the fact is that he got the drug out of his system, and is no longer dependent on them. Sounds like a success story to me, but you want to see failure, so that is what you will see.
I have never loved someone whom I haven’t met so much
I have never met someone whom I haven’t loved so much.
The truth is that İt's really hard to describe the the absolute Love Admiration and Respect this man invokes into people's hearts and minds.
This
I love u and don't no u
I could cry. I've always spoken with truth and it hasn't always gotten me far but at least I feel strong in my feelings
Christ this man is a national treasure!
DJ BE he’s an international treasure! Not just Canada!
Don’t replace him with Christ though lol... seems like it’s either Jesus or Jordan nowadays..
He is a treasure .This world needs u sir.We need you.
This man has helped be out of a dark place I thought I'd be stuck in for a long time. A true angel in my opinion.
@Psychonaut it's a metaphor my friend. If that was an attempt at humor it was weak even as a sarcastic gesture it was lame.
@Psychonaut fair play mate. Words are open to interpretation on here.. doesn't exactly come with tone of voice lol..
He helped deal with my dad passing away... in grieving and take care of the business of death
God puts people on this earth who have great abilities. Guess what? That's everyone. We all know what Jordan's is.
The truth is the most effective means of progressing.
This man, his words about truth being the best response to life...Wow! The most meaningful, useful tool to be spoken out loud in my 74 years of search. Dr. Peterson has over the past year, provided me with a rock which I can stand on! Thank you for this post!
And what you are gonna do with that rock....at the age of 74...just to live the perfect practical life..to impress others or one,s oneself...go to Hindu scripture like bhagwad Geeta...if lucky you will understand the purpose of this life....or else just revolve around the truth with Jordan...and never reach inside the truth....simply reach no where....
@@chandansingh-oc5wl You are experiencing what is known as spiritual materialism, you know, as if you discovered it alone. Luck has zero to do with understanding life. I prefer vipasanna to kundalini. It suits me better, and clears my mind of debris, but what I meant is that Jordan presents in plain english a means of going out into the world in a meaningful productive way. Whether I impress others or not is no longer of importance to me and hasn't been for a long time. Walking around with a beatific smile on your face helps no one, unless you can interact with others in a way that all can easily understand. Dr. Peterson provides that.
@@scottlee9373 ok Scott sir...may be you are right...may be Jordan too...my apology.....but I like spiritual knowledge to be used in day to day life...taking decision on basis of any cosmic law..which I had understood or having the notion of understanding it.....I actually really like it....to learn it...
@@chandansingh-oc5wl Western religions, which is predominent here, and Islam, are resistant to other spiritual practices and ideas. Not all, but most. I have neither the skill, nor sufficient knowledge to convey my beliefs properly to the general public. The only way I've been able to show my belief is thru the actions of compassion, charity and aide to others. And I fail there too on occasion. Jordan's teachings are helping me to understand why I have stalled in my practice. Thanks for the apology. You have mine also.
@Psychonaut Remove the a from your tag and you'd have it right. Guessing huh? lol Trolls. lol
I love this man. I pray for his full recovery. The world needs his voice.❤🙏❤
One of the most confounding questions of our time is how he has received so much disdain when it's so clear his actual motive is to genuinely help as many people as he can. Something so pure and sincere you often see him moved to tears while speaking about it.
Excellent. Dr. Peterson communicates with words in the same way the genius jazz greats communicated with music.
Truthful improvisation in the moment.
“The longest journey you will ever take is the 18 inches from your head to your heart.” Andrew Bennett
Paying attention is allowing your thoughts to be naturally truthful. Thinking is strategically shaping your thoughts to produce a desired outcome. If you think about it, thinking of what you would like to say rather than saying exactly what you’re thinking is a form of lying
Well living without a filter also hurts a lot of people. Just because you think it doesn't mean someone needs or deserves to hear it.
Vincent Moriarty yes, and we lie a lot of the time in order to not hurt people. I’m not saying lying in this way is bad, I’m just pointing out that the difference between paying attention and thinking, is that thinking requires a degree of lying. So, if you would like to truly listen to someone, get rid of all the “thinking” in your head that’s attempting to manipulate and shape a thought or set of words, and just pay attention! This is what makes Jordan brilliant, he’s able to articulate these kinds of concepts out of thin air. The only reason I’m able to even observe these concepts is because Jordan already laid them out for us to discuss
I tell you, he's just struck a few chords with me and my thinking. Ive ended up in some really awkward situations just because i didnt speak the truth of what i was thinking in that moment at a particular time. Yes live with the consequences if they occur but speak the truth. It prevails over everything in the long run despite it not being apparent in that immediate moment.
This is helpful for social anxiety
Very!
Oh my gosh...you just described exactly how I operate...i knew I operated differently than most and no agenda..paying attention and noticing what I’m given as in thoughts and images and feelings and speak it. Most people do not understand this.. Thank you❤️
William Lewis sounds like you have a problem with who I am...Haha that’s all about you. FYI...I never thought or felt I was special.
How can one obtain this ability?
@@ohcjack1535 he tells you. Starts with awareness. Pay attention!
@@jeaniehorsley956 I feel like I'm on the opposite side of the spectrum.. I dont pay attention to things and just try to think my way out of everything even when it's not working because I never knew any other way. Some people ask me things because they say I just "kind of have an answer to everything" but even if I can solve everybodys problems I cant solve my own. I cant solve their because they paid attention to their lives and handed me all the things necessary to formulate an answer and I think paying attention is the piece of the puzzle ive been missing and I'll do my best to work on it.. I also never felt special just a little different, so I relate heavily to your comment
greetings from the other side of the river
@@b0rt119 your true power is in awareness! Everything is a choice even when you say can’t. Can’t means you choose not too. If your thinking all the time then you are not in touch with your feelings and that is your barometer if something is right for you. We’ve all been taught to go outside to someone else for answers and doing that you give up your power. So what else is possible? What would it take to cross the river?
Made me realize I’ve been chasing short term goals (mostly related to money) rather than aiming for something meaningful. Thanks internet Dad
And that’s exactly why I love this guy.
"The habitable order is generated by spoken truth."
Wow, I'm gob smacked.
Yeah but that is two way street as everyone has their own truth.. Let's say people often refuse to unknowledge their personal flaws and mistakes and they refuse to accept simple facts..this is situation in whole world Right now
Aka thoughts become words become things. We've been led into a paradigm where magic only exists in books or movies, and that only children should use their imagination. But the fact is that a spell is just some words you say out loud, and active imagination is a muscle you can build to become better at creating - aka enacting your will into the world. Life is a lot more amazing than it's made out to be, and the capacity of human ability is virtually unknown.
@@vesnadjordjevic28 then it's not true.
@@grapeypear4558 "Father Buddah said, 'With our thoughts we make the world'" - Monkey Magic
@@vesnadjordjevic28 people definitely have their own perspective, however truth is objective fact. People can deny or modify the truth. That does not make it "thier truth".
Thank you, Dr. Peterson, for helping me turn my life around...............................
Use awareness primarily and thinking secondarily.
Reciprocation is a key component to healthy, most of the time, conversation and honest communication. Listening with the intention to have a reciprocated response, but not biased by one's own opinions, agendas, and experience. Share in the moments with people and make the attempt at "blooming" conversations without a selfishly linear path of thinking.
Dr. Peterson is very much likely my favorite "assist" in life and I feel blessed to exist in the same realm as this man.
The true leader. Much respect and support Dr Peterson
This man doesn't have to think about strategies or how to react in a debate. Ultra Instinct confirmed.
God led, I say
Thank you to well respected Mr. Peterson for helping me learn something every time I click on his clips. Sending you prayers and respect.
What a giant... my god what a giant...
I just wanna hug this man who is like the father I've always wanted and longed for.
Brilliant .. love his directness. Fascinating man .. loved to have attended a lecture of his .
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Using awareness primarily and thinking secondarily.
GOLD!
Thank you. Very much. You bless us greatly and deeply by finding and sharing these nuggets of pure gold.
501 days sober. Thank you for being a lighthouse in this dark world.
Look forward mate! Best wishes!
His thinking just speaks to me, its like finally i am getting approved of what I am .
3:50 awareness primarily, thinking secondarily.
i am deeply impressed by the synchronicity between Petereson's words, his cadence, and your editing / choice of video, WTTW.
This is not just skillful, but also a demonstration of a great capacity for - attention! it has the effect of magnifying Peterson's ideas while conveying respect for the source. bravo, good sir!
and thx for creating this.
Totally agree. Sincerely speaking of ones mind is best way to communicate and live our life.
I miss him so :{
Dr. Peterson is amazing. I love listening to him
You are handsome, 143
I cant even Imagine a World without Jordan Peterson. He has helped me in so many ways. What a legend
Same.
"Awareness before thinking" - Jordan peterson
I thank God for Jordan Peterson.
We need wise individuals like Jordan Peterson. I feel I've needed and have waited for Jordan Petersons wisdom my entire life.
This man is a blessing.
Order out of chaos. Problem, reaction, solution.
I have heard a great deal of Jordan's interviews, lectures and videos. This one I had not heard until now, but it helps clarify how he can so brilliantly monologue for hours. I wish there were more people in the world with this level of genius, wisdom and commitment to impart it.
Follow your calling
I’m learning more and more listening to his lectures. What I understood from this speech is in essence, living consciously. Be fully within the present moment, more specifically when dealing with socialization.
Allow what the other person is saying to fully integrate into your mind without other distractions like your own thoughts about your life and other preoccupations. Then you can fully process, listen to, and come to understanding the person.
Dr. Peterson bestows life changing wisdom, if you come from a place of acceptance and understanding. 👍
I love you so much Dr.Jordan Peterson you have changed my life all the way in Kenya 🌏🕊🕊🕊
This guy's lectures need to be shown to every kid in school - repeatedly
His off-the-bat sharing of his thoughts in the moment...is beautiful. I was giving 100% attention to every single word that he was saying. Truth in every word.
This is the best channel that uploads JBP videos. Keep going!
Thank you again for sharing your knowledge. Get well soon. Take care
This is actually good. I got two great fathers.
OMG I loved what you said about when you go in an interview w/o any agenda. I do that in job interviews. As my intention is simply that to listen and pay attention in the moment and engage with a person as a human being the stuff that’s on papers already on paper I don’t need to regurgitate that.
Say the truth . And see what happens . Pay attention without any agenda . Thinking will come with it . Nailed it .
I love you sir .
Whenever I converse with people, I notice that the issue isn't so much people not paying attention per se, but that the noise inside their head is just so loud it drowns everything else out. It's almost impossible for them to pay attention because all they can see and hear is their voice and insecurities.
It's only when we find that "inner peace" can we truly pay attention to people; to hear what they're actually saying and to see them for who they are.
Yes!!
What he's saying explains the anime Koe no Katachi (Shape of Voice) and I literally stopped breathing for awhile there. The anime is ridiculously underrated.
Im always amazed listening to such powerful messages. It is not a coincidence to listen to what he has to say and feel it was meant to be for me. Tears are my way to say thank you! You are the most amazing human being who sends real true love in each word each time. Blessings for each day and take care. All the love and much more back to you for many, many more years to come.
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I need to listen to this every single day.
This is why he comes out on top of every interview!
No words to describe how great he is.
I’d love to have a hour to talk with Jordan Peterson alone in a one to one session. I’ve listened to everything I can find and bought his books. Can’t get enough of listening to him.
Unfortunately he might be losing his battle with COVID :(
The best Jordan lecture the truth shall set us all free
To speak the truth is to first know what the truth is. To know what the truth is is an incredibly intensive, introspective process filtering the various inputs from the world through our own, personal, neural structure, everyone's filter is different based on their experience. The truth is malleable, it can be filtered differently, it is not absolute. Our truth filter is made up of our values and our education. Therefore, to have a better truth to speak, we all owe it to ourselves and the world around us to to put work into developing a strong value system and to be as educated as possible in fundamental areas of human life. I've always loved Dr. Peterson's work because I feel that he has always built his arguments off of an incredibly strong base of values and fundamentals.
Perhaps speaking the ‘truth ‘ here refers more to saying what you actually think. It may be wrong or not completely right, but it is nevertheless truly what you think. Then be open to an engaged conversation and be willing to learn through the sharing of ideas. This way we are able to grow in wisdom (hopefully🤔)
He said, the truth as you understand it
My Goodness the Wisdom from this man! Food for Thought. My mind has been built up!
Love these videos. Recently I started a morning routine of reading one chapter in a book while having coffee, then watching just one of these videos. After that, I take on the day - but while I have the ideas from the video bouncing around in my head. Helps me get centered, and thinking about things a bit differently... a bit better... and it's been very helpful. Thank you.
I don't know if it's just me but listening to JP with the soft backround music pushes his words directly to my soul
Flowing with your heart emotions!
What revolutionary methodology, thanks!!
I hope Dr. Peterson reads these comments when things get rough. There's a lotta love from you guys and the company is well appreciated, believe it!
Love this guy.
I love this man so much ♥️
The Personification of Truth, Liberty, and Justice for all 🙏🏼🙌🏼
Peterson doesn’t believe in truth, actually.
Truly a great man. May God protect, bless, and guide him.
Truth , your speech will comeout naturally from heart and within , the depth of your everyday lecture the chastity and advocacy that install to you elaborate to itself....God bless
your words, Jordon, strikes all the doubts one is dealing with. Nothing less than a miracle.
I'm starting to observe whether people I have conversations with are actually listening to me or trying to manipulate the conversation subconsciously
Not about them
Damn RIGHT BROther
how ive carried myself exactly
Thank you Jordan for your meaningful words. Thank you for allowing me to understand more and to be less confused.
You are so appreciated Dr. Peterson. I love your work.
Every moment and every event of our life on earth plants something in our soul. Once someone has reached enlightenment in one thing, they will have an enlightened mind and understanding of many things, for the very thing that is most important is the growth with one’s very soul every second of every day to accomplish one’s aim. By changing what we cling to in the present, we can alter the future. Refine our personality, be free to live the life that we want to live by making choices and apply what we want to do.
Dearest Jordan Peterson. I'm no young man, I'm a grandmother of one and mother of three. I love you with intense tenderness. And here, in this clip, you spell out the secret of your immense charm. You are authentic. And we all are , apparently, starved for that in public life.
I can't help but love him most when he's twisting Leftists into pretzels.
Feel like you might've missed the point a bit here buddy
I like to see him have a conversation with Trump. Of course Trump would not get any of it.
Actually when has he ever done that? His debates with “leftists” haven’t cast him in a very adept light tbh it’s evident he gets out of his depth pretty quick.
@@seanywarsong Whatever bro. Shits gonna hit the fan soon. It's in the air & shits happening. Americans don't want totalitarianism. And we're gonna fight these Communist lowlifes to the death. It needs to happen. Responsible , good , law abiding ppl cannot co exist with this. If life was perfectly fair it'd be pretty boring. And it would only happen via force. And we'd be in breadlines if we're lucky & the same trillionaires funding this global far Left takeover will own the world forever.
All American Patriot case and point. Nothing you said coincides with reality. Trump embodies everything which you claim to despise and America is not left at all. Fighting you’re own countrymen to the death over a difference in perspective, you must not have a whole lot of faith in your point of view or there would be broad consensus, that’s how democracy works. Anyway you won’t have to worry about a war because dear leader is already wiping out a whole side of the isle...his own.
Man! Thats deep thankyou again. And again!
Caring isn't deep
I think an important addenda needs to be the humility to also be wrong and the flexibility to change one's point of view. Honesty and intent listening are great, and fully endorse asking questions, but if thoughts emerge and they are wrong we need to be able to recognize that and internalize it.
Godspeed Dr. Peterson!
I too have been trying this for years. Don't be discouraged or surprised when you catch yourself doing the opposite of " going with the flow" so to speak, one upping and self promoting inserted into a conversation, or even trying to take control. It takes practice!
How could anybody not respect this man.
I need to listen to more of this guy
this man talks what every father should teach to his son.. i feel this way a jordan's son XD..i just learn so much from this man.. even in my darkest moments when a very loved person almost died..his words kept me standing in front of chaos.
Always hits ❤
This is an OUTSTANDING masterclass for dedicated actors and actresses.
I agree with every single word. Manipulation and spin are all lies. Paying attention and truthfully saying what thoughts emerge in your mind is a really powerful way of living your life. Thank you.
Thank you Mr. Jordan
I respect you Dr. Peterson ,so very much for being a man of strength and character. If the world had more people that thought as you do WOW, can you imagine how beautiful our world could become!
This turns my crank
This man is chosen by the universe for us.
"Where do you come from?" said the Gold King to the Snake, "From the cleft where the gold abides" answered the snake. "What is more splendid than gold?" Asked the king - "Light" said the snake. "What is more enlivening than light" asked the king - "Conversation" said the snake. (From Goethe's fairy tale The Green snake and the beautiful Lilly.)
Thank you
İt's really hard to describe the absolute Love Admiration and Respect this man invokes into people's hearts and minds!