How I Started Over in My 30’s: Don't Be Afraid to Change Your Life

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  • Starting over in your 30's can be scary and never easy, but reframing your thought process and rethinking what starting over at 30 means can help. Here's how to change your life and be okay with change. Whether you're in your 20's or 30's or beyond, I hope these 3 tips on how to change your life help you see how to reframe some of these big areas of our lives.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 56

  • @mayaleex3
    @mayaleex3  6 днів тому +34

    When I turned 30 two years ago, a lot of good changes happened that also, oddly, was paired with a lot of sadness. I was really lost, and even depressed, and I grew frustrated with myself. Change is difficult, but here’s how to rethink change and be excited to change your life. If you’re in a season of life where you feel like you have to start over or you’re literally back to “square one”, just remember that you’re never FULLY starting over, because now you get to start from experience :)

  • @tiffanyt9087
    @tiffanyt9087 6 днів тому +14

    So much wisdom and courage from such a young lady. May God continue to guide and bless you.

  • @castor9697
    @castor9697 2 дні тому +2

    I am leaving a job I held for almost 12 years on the 28th of this month. I decided to rest for a month or two. I am afraid to take this risk but I am tired and unmotivated so working in this situation would be unfair to an employer. I am 56 and I am quite unsure if I am doing the right thing. Thanks to this video. It’s helpful.❤❤❤❤

  • @fdoctor79
    @fdoctor79 6 днів тому +8

    I love this, Maya. Thank you for allowing us to experience your transformation over the years. I am believing in God for our "now" and trusting Him with our "next". 😊

  • @ronnie-lynn
    @ronnie-lynn 5 днів тому +4

    I’m 38 and have also started over, I suppose closer to 40 than 30. Walked away from a 6 year relationship. Had to leave behind almost everything I owned and truly start over. Thankfully I was able to stay with my parents for 2 years. New career/job this year. It’s well challenging. I miss so about my past work (but I’m physically unable to do that job). ❤ accepting these limitations my body has set for me post brain injury… ugh it’s frustrating but i have found a lot of joy in living a slower more intentional life I suppose. The Lord took my need for stability & routine and was like let’s mix this up a bit!
    Too many clicks in the editing. (Sorry just my feedback)
    Thanks for sharing your journey!

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  5 днів тому

      Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us 🥺💕 it must’ve been a huge transition but I’m glad you can also see the bright side ☀️

  • @EnchantedSuzie
    @EnchantedSuzie 2 дні тому +1

    I feel like this is what I’m going thru right now in my mid 30s! Just haven’t fully changed everything yet but wanting to fully change!

  • @maryanndatoy-abellanosa
    @maryanndatoy-abellanosa 5 днів тому +3

    This is so comforting, Maya. I'm also a teacher, but I'm from the Philippines. I'm married with no kids and I'll be turning 40 in 2 years, but it always feels like I'll turn 30 yet again. Thank you. Your videos are so heartwarming and inspiring ❤

  • @chailawiseman1546
    @chailawiseman1546 4 дні тому +3

    I just quit my job as a high school teacher after 7 years. I LOVED being a teacher but over the years it was so emotionally and physically draining and things kept getting worse (behaviors /demands etc), I couldn't do it any longer.

  • @crossfitjohnathan9032
    @crossfitjohnathan9032 6 днів тому +5

    When I was coaching my athlete at Crossfit. I told them you deserve to know what it feels like to not be given up on Monday after I watched your video Sunday evening! You are very inspiring and I think your honesty and kindness encourages a lot of people and God really doing great things through you! I start my clinicals next week for occupational therapy and I’m kind of nervous! I’m just praying and trusting that God‘s taking me this far so he’ll take me all the way if it’s his will.

  • @witchkewitchke8286
    @witchkewitchke8286 6 днів тому +2

    Hi Maya, thank you so much for sharing. I stayed at my work for 15 years with the same feeling. That was waaaaat tooo long... but I started over at 40. I let go my boyfriend we where almost 20 years together and we lived together 14 years. But it wasn't right. But I was so happy. I lived alone for the first time ever and it opened a whole new world. Happiest time of my life. 😅

  • @luisabatine4018
    @luisabatine4018 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing these insights- they are very timely for me and I thank God for allowing me to stumble upon this video

  • @alisonhk
    @alisonhk 5 днів тому +1

    thank you Maya for sharing your wisdom and experiences with us! i'm only a few years younger and currently going through another big life change ~ committing to trusting the Lord through it all ♡

  • @merrkia92
    @merrkia92 6 днів тому +1

    This was such an amazing video! Thank you for sharing this!

  • @littlebookjockey
    @littlebookjockey 6 днів тому +2

    Maya, I've just started going back to school to change careers! I've been in libraries for 10 years, but I've decided to switch to early childhood education. I got a master's in library science, but I've kept getting rejected, even by my own workplace, again and again. So I've been applying to jobs and interviewing and working on school again, and it's so overwhelming trying to keep up with that, along with my health and fitness goals and my personal hobbies. I'm turning 31 in August, so this video is coming to me at the right time. I've been feeling so sick of my current job, even though I used to love it, and the change is scary, but I have support that makes me feel like I can do this

  • @carigold7673
    @carigold7673 6 днів тому +2

    Love this video! Thank you! ❤

  • @heymstraveler
    @heymstraveler 5 днів тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video

  • @ally1020
    @ally1020 6 днів тому +1

    Loved this video, so helpful! Thank you!

  • @RanziYasasviVlogs
    @RanziYasasviVlogs 5 днів тому +1

    This video truly comes in the right time. So inspiring. I started everything very late and i'm 31 and still struggling to be financially independent and your tips are inspiring and moving truly

  • @DianaRamirez-sm5nx
    @DianaRamirez-sm5nx 6 днів тому +2

    This helped so much ty🧚‍♀️💖

  • @joyamishra7037
    @joyamishra7037 6 днів тому +2

    Thank you ma'am for this wonderful video , I am really thankful that you shared your story with us which will inspire everyone to not give up ,once again thank you ma'am .❤

  • @theSherminlsm
    @theSherminlsm 5 днів тому +1

    Thank you for sharing Maya! I feel so motivated by what you have just shared. I am in the same situation, where I moved country to be with my long term bf. Lots of changes happened. I got married and I had to work in a different environment - same job but different demographics of patients. Your sharing has always grounded me back to knowing that God has something installed for us and we just have to trust in Him. Thank you!

  • @brenda5297
    @brenda5297 5 днів тому +1

    Thanks Maya for sharing with us a bit more of your life before. And for the lessons you teach us about life and Our Father. 🤗💖

  • @anthonybarton3850
    @anthonybarton3850 5 днів тому +1

    Thank you for sharing Maya! You are full of such wisdom and we appreciate you sharing your experiences so that we can all learn and grow together. 😄

  • @virginian7154
    @virginian7154 5 днів тому +1

    i really enjoyed this video, Maya. thank you for sharing your stories and for the encouragements embedded in them 🤗

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 6 днів тому +1

    I love this kind of vlog Maya! ❤

  • @yangzeee
    @yangzeee 6 днів тому +1

    Hii maya! Loved the conversation❤ it highs me up🤗keep posting

  • @_S.W_
    @_S.W_ 6 днів тому +1

    Maya: This is why we love you! Your transparency, wisdom, and joy even through challenges is refreshing and inspiring! Thank you so much for this video 🥰
    Everyone: These insights are for any age. I'm thankful to be going through this right now :)

  • @btslaraworld
    @btslaraworld 6 днів тому +1

    Yay! New video 😊

  • @raniamohammed1437
    @raniamohammed1437 6 днів тому +2

    Really needed to hair this 💔💔💔❤️❤️😔

  • @jonathanwei349
    @jonathanwei349 22 години тому

    Good to share thanks !!

  • @user-tc8xg4kt9i
    @user-tc8xg4kt9i 4 дні тому +1

    So relevant I will turn 30
    Taking risks and trying to rebuild myself 😊❤

  • @soybeanpng
    @soybeanpng 6 днів тому +2

    Not sure if you heard my thoughts. I've been watching you since 2020, your morning routine. But lately I've watched a lot "starting over at 30s" because I'm too scared of "what if i failed?". i'm still 23 years old but idk why these thoughts came to me. but thanks Maya for the sharing 💓 you're one of my lifeline.

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  5 днів тому

      You won’t fail if you don’t give up ❤

  •  6 днів тому +2

    I turned 30 two weeks ago. Thank you for this 💜

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  5 днів тому +1

      Happy belated bday ~ I love being in my 30’s and hope you will too :)

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 6 днів тому +1

    Maya I am so so so glad to see you back again and I was absolutely waiting for this video and thank you so much for sharing this video✨😀💖

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  6 днів тому

      Thank you for being here!! My early crew 🎉❤

    • @mansoor3159
      @mansoor3159 6 днів тому

      @@mayaleex3 Welcome 🤗🤗

  • @BillyWhaler
    @BillyWhaler 5 днів тому +1

    Side note - but the lighting in that house/studio was 💯

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  4 дні тому

      One of the dog’s name is also Billie 🤭

  • @PoetryPauses
    @PoetryPauses 3 дні тому

    So love your messages here! Thank you so much! 💚
    Also wow! You shared a post by Cathy Sanchez Babao? I also read that on Facebook and that blessed me. She was my journalism professor in college here in Manila (Philippines)! And yes, she's a great writer and author too. I love her! 💚 Thanks for sharing that here.

  • @charlottelisewilliams
    @charlottelisewilliams 5 днів тому +1

    Turning 30 and have been think of starting over but this time for me!

  • @naomi5508
    @naomi5508 2 дні тому +1

    Haha 😂3:02 look who is looking at us with Maya

  • @victoriagomez9009
    @victoriagomez9009 6 днів тому +1

    Life without changes would be boring🎉

  • @jameshizon4861
    @jameshizon4861 6 днів тому +1

    Realized it can be harder to get a woman to come to your church / dating apps so reversing the process and trying to test out other churches in LA so that there can be less change involved in case I do enter relationship.

  • @Slowly_surely
    @Slowly_surely 12 годин тому

    What was the other educator job that you ended up in? 💗

  • @elgooges
    @elgooges 6 днів тому +2

    It's a shame what has happened to the profession of teaching 😔

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  5 днів тому

      Lots of ups and downs 😭

  • @lkive
    @lkive 6 днів тому +1

    were you offered the job at Google?

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  5 днів тому

      After the whole process they decided to go with someone else who had more experience in tech 🥲

  • @vincentnnyc
    @vincentnnyc 3 дні тому

    you really have a nice home. how can you afford this home with a teacher salary?

    • @mayaleex3
      @mayaleex3  3 дні тому +1

      It’s not my house!! :) hahaha