I was real quiet at the post office... casing mail all the carriers always gossiping everyday and I was always on eggshells and the “quiet one” & never gave them nothing but a smile and positivity... they would say “ ooh beware of the quiet ones....they are the most crazy” 😂 people will twist anything.
As a quiet dude myself just entering my first job at 20, I will definitely be expecting this to be said about me. I finished my first week and haven’t said a word except to my boss and did everything to a T, but im sure the females especially are going to start some shit. I don’t understand why people have to gossip or speak about non related subjects to the job. Getting friendly with a coworker as I’ve always been told is like stepping on land mines. One bad move and you could lose your job and have a ruined reputation
Exactly! They hate it when you’re quiet cause they don’t know about your life 🤣 That’s how pathetic these coworkers are. They’re so bored with their lives and have nothing else better to do but come to work gossiping🤣🤣
Exactly. If you speak with people, they will twist your words and spread rumors, if you choose not to speak at all, you will also be gossiped about for not participating in the dysfunctional interactions. Either way, you’re going to be lied about, talked smack about and triangulated against so may as well stay silent, work, and do your own thing, or quit and become self-employed.
@@Kova-ow2enI’m 29 I’ll be 30 soon Being quiet lately has almost gotten me fired they don’t like my quiet personality Some people especially women love it
Everything right on. Be discerning who you're dealing with or talking to, especially coworkers. I love that suggestion to never outshine your supervisor but make them look good. Also to be quiet and focus on my work when around toxic coworkers. I mostly try to focus on my work and stay out of people's way anyway.I will talk to co workers but not for very long conversations.
You nailed the situation I was in last year, with a toxic manager and toxic co-workers, which ultimately gave me the huge drive to finally pursue self-employment. Thank you for sharing your insights and providing guidance. Thanks for making my video request!
I’m ready for these people to try me. I have no problem saying anything I’ve said to work because I know I’m not in the wrong. They know I’m with my shit and that’s why they gotta talk to my boss in secrecy instead of coming to me in front of our boss. They’ll get caught up in their distortion of my words 🤷♀️
Words of worker wisdom here ! Toxic politics rules many companies and public agencies ! Find a way to escape no matter what you get paid ! Exit plan folks ! Thank you Tyler for the wake up call !
Tyler you hit right on like like if I'm having down time when shit is slow and I'm having a drink of water and I see someone else in the office chillin with the manager in the office with the manager on that same on that's same down time oh hell na that's the the same person that you are talking about.
Hi Tyler another great video please could you do a video how to know if someone is a Narcissist or just reacting to a Narcissist because i know a Narcissist is causing so much trouble and I'm not sure if the other person is exactly a Narcissist or if there just acting out of frustration from the evil things they've had happen to them
Jayne Powell. I would like to invite you to go into my achieves and I did A part one, two and three on how to recognize a narcissist. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Good vid.I have a question I'm taking classes to better my career.there are only 3 in our class.I'm the only female in a mostly male workforce. There is one male there that is always negative and puts me and everyone down constantly. He never has anything good to say and thinks he knows everything. I feel like he is sucking the life out of me and physical I'll when I get near him.how do I deal with this and what do I do? Thanks
My name of my other youtube channel is T--LowCTI,which you can go to the people I am subscribed to under channels. Look under featured channels and you will see it. Peace and blessings to you.
Hi Tyler can you please make a video on how to get a girl to wanna talk to you if she dosent want anything to do with you because she has a boyfriend ?
infantry grunt warrior. I can't guarantee that I can get to your video request very fast because I have way too many right now. It might be a while? Just being honest. Peace and blessings to you.
Be quiet on the job you there to work not make friends
Don’t work sometimes
When someone comes at you with gossip, “oh, really?” then awkward silence without eye contact and continuing whatever you’re working on.
I was real quiet at the post office... casing mail all the carriers always gossiping everyday and I was always on eggshells and the “quiet one” & never gave them nothing but a smile and positivity... they would say “ ooh beware of the quiet ones....they are the most crazy” 😂 people will twist anything.
Yes that is reverse psychology & manipulation to get you to tell your business & get information out of you to use against you
As a quiet dude myself just entering my first job at 20, I will definitely be expecting this to be said about me. I finished my first week and haven’t said a word except to my boss and did everything to a T, but im sure the females especially are going to start some shit. I don’t understand why people have to gossip or speak about non related subjects to the job. Getting friendly with a coworker as I’ve always been told is like stepping on land mines. One bad move and you could lose your job and have a ruined reputation
Exactly! They hate it when you’re quiet cause they don’t know about your life 🤣 That’s how pathetic these coworkers are. They’re so bored with their lives and have nothing else better to do but come to work gossiping🤣🤣
Exactly. If you speak with people, they will twist your words and spread rumors, if you choose not to speak at all, you will also be gossiped about for not participating in the dysfunctional interactions. Either way, you’re going to be lied about, talked smack about and triangulated against so may as well stay silent, work, and do your own thing, or quit and become self-employed.
@@Kova-ow2enI’m 29 I’ll be 30 soon
Being quiet lately has almost gotten me fired they don’t like my quiet personality
Some people especially women love it
Don’t bring home to work and don’t bring work to home.
If you close your eyes while listening, you feel like Kat Williams just gave you the run down on how to keep your trap shut in the workplace people.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. They say I am him alright😎😭
Everything right on. Be discerning who you're dealing with or talking to, especially coworkers. I love that suggestion to never outshine your supervisor but make them look good. Also to be quiet and focus on my work when around toxic coworkers. I mostly try to focus on my work and stay out of people's way anyway.I will talk to co workers but not for very long conversations.
I lost a job off of running my mouth, lesson learned
Yuni Tumi. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Just stay to yourself. Be aware of the ones that say:
You’re my friend and I love you. Heck no, last week you were being nasty.
You nailed the situation I was in last year, with a toxic manager and toxic co-workers, which ultimately gave me the huge drive to finally pursue self-employment. Thank you for sharing your insights and providing guidance. Thanks for making my video request!
They like to ease up on you just to see if you will expose any info on yourself
That's precise!
Give them random info they can't use against you lol.
Don't trust any of them.
Tyler u speaking the truth! Keep yo mouth close and work them ppl ain't your friends
Niecy Major. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Ignore them
Great video buddy! Like they say Co workers are never your true friends! Always be cautious
So true. Lesson learned the hard way.
Goodness grief this channel helps me soo much. I overheard a colleague talking shit about me & I never did anything to her.
I’m ready for these people to try me. I have no problem saying anything I’ve said to work because I know I’m not in the wrong. They know I’m with my shit and that’s why they gotta talk to my boss in secrecy instead of coming to me in front of our boss. They’ll get caught up in their distortion of my words 🤷♀️
My second father
good video so true ! Thanks Tyler !! lot's of people have to deal with toxic co-workers this is exactly my way of doing things at work too!
Re Fi. Thank you so much for your comment.Peace and blessings to you.
Words of worker wisdom here ! Toxic politics rules many companies and public agencies ! Find a way to escape no matter what you get paid ! Exit plan folks ! Thank you Tyler for the wake up call !
7,900th SUBSCRIBER! I like your topics :D
Facts! I remember that when I go back to the Hospital.
LOL, U TELLIN the GOSPEL TRUTH!
Thank you Tyler I'll look thank you again for your videos lots of love to you
preach my brother 💯💯
Thanks Tyler
Tyler you hit right on like like if I'm having down time when shit is slow and I'm having a drink of water and I see someone else in the office chillin with the manager in the office with the manager on that same on that's same down time oh hell na that's the the same person that you are talking about.
So real and right.
TRUE!
J.D. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
Hi Tyler another great video please could you do a video how to know if someone is a Narcissist or just reacting to a Narcissist because i know a Narcissist is causing so much trouble and I'm not sure if the other person is exactly a Narcissist or if there just acting out of frustration from the evil things they've had happen to them
Jayne Powell. I would like to invite you to go into my achieves and I did A part one, two and three on how to recognize a narcissist. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
Toxic!!!!!!! God help me
I love this channel!
well I don't work but great video Tyler. peace!
Lucille Samuel Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
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Good vid.I have a question I'm taking classes to better my career.there are only 3 in our class.I'm the only female in a mostly male workforce. There is one male there that is always negative and puts me and everyone down constantly. He never has anything good to say and thinks he knows everything. I feel like he is sucking the life out of me and physical I'll when I get near him.how do I deal with this and what do I do? Thanks
Victoria Peterson express yourself to him.face the uncomfortable.if it continues then just minf your business ignore them and develop thick skin
Pleazd do a job signs to leave the job
what is the name of Tylers other youtube channel
My name of my other youtube channel is T--LowCTI,which you can go to the people I am subscribed to under channels. Look under featured channels and you will see it. Peace and blessings to you.
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This is why I'm an unemployed bum
Hi Tyler can you please make a video on how to get a girl to wanna talk to you if she dosent want anything to do with you because she has a boyfriend ?
infantry grunt warrior. I can't guarantee that I can get to your video request very fast because I have way too many right now. It might be a while? Just being honest. Peace and blessings to you.
Tyler JTI Thank you Tyler for replying. And I understand just please don't forget about me.
Infantry grunt Warrior No offense, but maybe you should leave her alone if she doesn't want to talk to you...