is this the same guy I subscribed to because he was feeling extremely bad about never having a Girlfriend and that made me relate to him? I'm not even sure anymore, this dude right here sounds really wise and like he's enjoying life WHILE never having a Girlfriend. Your videos really help me feel less lonely man, I don't live alone but there's nothing like finding someone on the same situation as you, soon turning 29 and never had a Girlfriend until now but I'm not feeling like garbage about it as I used to, let's keep it going man.
I really liked this video! Very true. I was just feeling this way not long ago. I am turning 34 this year and feel like I just turned 30. and always improving everyday is awesome!
Some good thoughts there! You should do another vid like this one in a decade time, turning 40 , the period where I lived actually the best years of ny life. Keep grinding because your best years are yet to come, trust me.
The best thing you can do in your 30's is do what you love. Don't feel bad about not being at a certain level. Just enjoy your life. I'll be 42 in July and I still play in bands and don't plan on stopping anytime soon.
Not sure why this popped up in my feed but I agree. I think 30 is such a scary number because subconsciously you are comparing yourself to your parents, or other people from that generation. It feels like you should have it together by 30. However, life nowadays is completely different. I have set an unbelievable amount of pressure on myself too at times. Even abandoning my passions which are games and anime for the more "business man" adult lifestyle. Just do what you feel like, I'm trying this YT thing now too. Best of luck to you.
I'm 37, in my 20s I cared how people saw me and it was debilitating. Now, i dont care, money or status means nothing. I'm not rich, but i dont owe nobody and I dont live paycheck to paycheck. All you can do is be kind to everyone, and not worry. Also, I dont care if people dont understand me.
Wise words... I was opening UA-cam and not sure what to look and was bored of all the other stuff and looked at my abolist and chose you. Great video man and keep it up! Love ya all
Its a glint of hope for me. Being 29 now feels like the light is starting to shine through a very thick veil of hopelessness and emotional trauma that kept me in the dark with an immature mindset. It feels like coming out of a cocoon and starting to see what life really is. They say your 30s is about living in the moment, versus in your 20s is about disregarding possibilities and living as though you're invulnerable to consequence.
Bro men start their real journey when our brains evolve . They say 35 for men. Women way earlier, some or earlier or later. Always be positive to yourself I struggle with this
Yeah right on! Stranger Things was pretty good! It's funny I never played Bioshock until lately and really missed some fun games! Got my platinum's in Bioshock 1 and 2! Turning 30 is just a number, and there's plenty of life left to take on any challenges you feel like. Comparison's are of course no good. Jealousy, like hatred is a useless emotion and doesn't serve you. The only one you need to compete with is yourself.
I just turned 28 Last week and and I feel like I'm still young and stuck in my 25s studying in College. I do have good genetics but knowelege???.... Mmmm... Nah!!!.... still need much to learn and that's okay for me. Age is a number and I do believe the more we get older, the more opportunities and changes we get for the better, we just have to keep learning more through time, failures, embarrassments. making mistakes, and learning small habits and well.... keeping it simple.
My early-mid 30s were awesome and the year I turned 30 was one of the best of my life. My 20s were turbulent and had a bunch of significant highs and lows. Obviously everybody's circumstances are different, but generally speaking you're still young and can do young person things. At the same time, your mentality and maturity is starting to transition into that of a fully realized adult when you hit your 30s.
@@manosijroy8282 honestly I was the same way, except I had a girlfriend. The quarter life crisis is real and I don't think it's paid enough attention. I felt "old" and like I had just kind of tripped into adulthood one day and I needed to get it all together and figure it out now before it was too late. I ended up rushing into some adult responsibilities I wasn't ready for and that was a mistake.
QUOTE DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF TO HOW SOMEONE ELSE IS TODAY, COMPARE YOURSELF TO WHOM YOU WERE YESTERDAY. -DR JORDAN PETERSON 12 RULES FOR LIFE. I turned 30 back in october the 1tth. at 29 I had a breakdown, morning my lost potential. etc etc etc. But at 29 I found out I am Asperger's and adhd. So now at 30, my mental health is doing better than ever. Im taking the clown pill more and more. Im laughing and what I can. Im the main character in my life tho. one can always improve, I blame myself for everything first to error correct. At 30 after the worst breakdown ever, and finding out im tism. has let me unwind my masks. im happier, but finically worse.
Did you get an official diagnosis or just self diagnosed? I'm 95% sure I'm autistic but I can't justify paying $3,000 or more for an official diagnosis.
@@Yarcofin I 100% self diag within 99.99% probability. there are just certian things, the dsm- doesnt actually diag people either with accuracy. and even doctors say self diag is valid for many reasons. im not paying 3k either. and like. does a gay dude need to get a diag for being gay? no. you know yourself better than anyone. its the comorbidities that are harder to self diag with. my life has 1005 got better since I have self diag. everything is a fits like a lock and key now. and the coping mecanisms work better. A huge thing, comparing your lived exps to others that have been diag before. asberger reddit or autism reddit is a decent place. common sayings too. for me what triggered the entire thing. I googled in frustration, everyone misunderstands me and all my good intentions are assumed to be bad. First link, Asperger reddit. I did a double take, was not looking for answers. Then once I kinda started to see the symptoms, and comparisions. I watched hour long videos on it. then started intense 8-12 hour research sessions into everything about it. and like, only someone with autism would sit at their pc for 12 hours obsessed with something like this, not move or eat, or use the bathroom. Also common sayings, things like Im an alien on a planet of humans I didnt get the instruction manual at birth no one understands my true self no one knows me making people mad when you think youre having a nice conversation. but they explode at you and say theyre done arguing. when youre simply asking questions sensory sensitivities. some things are either of or on all the way. its mostly social issues and a bad working memory., My long term, powerful filmographic. working shrot term? im cant even remember what planet im on.
Happy Birthday to ya homes and I'm not gonna lie. I had a bit of a midlife crisis thing going on when I was a year shy from 30. My relationship with my girl ended after 3 years together, I was in a dead end job with no certain way of advancing in my skill trade, I was nearing my 30's and have yet to achieve my former dream of starting a family at the age of 25. When I turned 30, that's when I had an epiphany about my life...and life in general. It was 2016, a very chaotic year in and of itself and one of the most important years of my life. Neither good nor bad but I learned so much from it. I'm currently 38 now and while I can say I'm not fully where I wanna be yet, I'm grateful I'm not where I used to be. Nobody is gonna lead the same life their family members have and in a way, I'm grateful for it. My family has a bad marriage track record and I believe I would've been a divorce statistic anyway. I started focusing on myself when I hit 30 and I oughta kick myself in the @$$ that I didn't do this when I was in my 20s. Just know it's never too late to make something out of your life, all you need is the mindset to push you forward.
Cool. Btw I guess you probably have a gf that's why. Btw you are Indian. I am Indian too Bengali guy living in Bangalore and I am 23 year old and never had a gf before and feel I am running out of time.
@manosijroy8282 nope no gf yet, but I'm in a much better place than I was during my 20s, like I cam feel my life starting to come together. If I get a girl along for the ride, awesome, if not, I'll be okay.
@@kartikayysola I have crush on this girl in my college where I am studying MBA in 1st year and she is also an MBA student in different section and she is also within 21-23 age range and I am 23. I even got her number in a clever way 2 weeks ago but she didn't even see my whatsapp text. I asked her about it in person in college yesterday and she said she is have 2 exams in a day so she was studying but even I am having exams so idk.
same boat as you, but i'm still a couple months of 27. still though, it's scary how quickly time goes. it feels like i was 21 just last year, but now i'm in the final third of my 20s.
@@observer4916 I feel like this is it for me to experience sex/love in my ''youth''. I feel I need to will myself to at least try. If I fail, then at least I do so knowing I gave it my absolute all
I am 23 now and still never had a gf. Idk how much chance I have with my current crush. We are in the same Uni pursuing MBA and in our 1st years now and she is also within 21-23 age range. I got her number 2 weeks ago but she didn't even see my text on whatsapp. When I asked her yesterday in person about it, she said she is have 2 exams on the same day so she have to study a lot. Even my final exams are going on. She is very pretty almost model like tho.
What are you going to do in order to help yourself? You seem too unsure about the things you are saying. Are you just saying it to comfort yourself or ar you saying it because you truly believe it and it isn't a means to cope?
is this the same guy I subscribed to because he was feeling extremely bad about never having a Girlfriend and that made me relate to him? I'm not even sure anymore, this dude right here sounds really wise and like he's enjoying life WHILE never having a Girlfriend.
Your videos really help me feel less lonely man, I don't live alone but there's nothing like finding someone on the same situation as you, soon turning 29 and never had a Girlfriend until now but I'm not feeling like garbage about it as I used to, let's keep it going man.
I really liked this video! Very true. I was just feeling this way not long ago. I am turning 34 this year and feel like I just turned 30. and always improving everyday is awesome!
Some good thoughts there! You should do another vid like this one in a decade time, turning 40 , the period where I lived actually the best years of ny life. Keep grinding because your best years are yet to come, trust me.
The best thing you can do in your 30's is do what you love. Don't feel bad about not being at a certain level. Just enjoy your life.
I'll be 42 in July and I still play in bands and don't plan on stopping anytime soon.
Not sure why this popped up in my feed but I agree. I think 30 is such a scary number because subconsciously you are comparing yourself to your parents, or other people from that generation. It feels like you should have it together by 30. However, life nowadays is completely different. I have set an unbelievable amount of pressure on myself too at times. Even abandoning my passions which are games and anime for the more "business man" adult lifestyle. Just do what you feel like, I'm trying this YT thing now too. Best of luck to you.
I'm 37, in my 20s I cared how people saw me and it was debilitating. Now, i dont care, money or status means nothing. I'm not rich, but i dont owe nobody and I dont live paycheck to paycheck. All you can do is be kind to everyone, and not worry. Also, I dont care if people dont understand me.
Wise words... I was opening UA-cam and not sure what to look and was bored of all the other stuff and looked at my abolist and chose you. Great video man and keep it up! Love ya all
Good video! I'm turning 29 next month and was overthinking about it a lot
same here, I'm trying not to overthink too much
You have grown a lot, good to see you doing well, really well spoken thoughts in this one, hope you all the best, cheers.
Ur gonna be 30?!? Bro you do not look 30 yet 😭
Asian genes. I know a guy who's 46 but looks 25
He doesn't look like he is 30.
Yeah cuz no devil she sucked his life force out of him! Celebacy is the way to go man.
STOP THE CAAAAPPP
he looks about 32 or 33
I turned 29 in February. It's hard to believe my 20s flew by like nothing.
im turning 26 in a few days
Yeah they do that.
Turning 24 in June
Its a glint of hope for me. Being 29 now feels like the light is starting to shine through a very thick veil of hopelessness and emotional trauma that kept me in the dark with an immature mindset.
It feels like coming out of a cocoon and starting to see what life really is. They say your 30s is about living in the moment, versus in your 20s is about disregarding possibilities and living as though you're invulnerable to consequence.
Happy early birthday 🎉 hope the next year is good for you 🎉
Being ugly is tough
Bro men start their real journey when our brains evolve . They say 35 for men. Women way earlier, some or earlier or later. Always be positive to yourself I struggle with this
I'm turning 30 next month, too. 😊
Yeah right on! Stranger Things was pretty good! It's funny I never played Bioshock until lately and really missed some fun games! Got my platinum's in Bioshock 1 and 2! Turning 30 is just a number, and there's plenty of life left to take on any challenges you feel like. Comparison's are of course no good. Jealousy, like hatred is a useless emotion and doesn't serve you. The only one you need to compete with is yourself.
Love bioshock. I remember playing the first one as a kid but not knowing what to do. I need to replay all of them at some point
I just turned 28 Last week and and I feel like I'm still young and stuck in my 25s studying in College.
I do have good genetics but knowelege???.... Mmmm... Nah!!!.... still need much to learn and that's okay for me.
Age is a number and I do believe the more we get older, the more opportunities
and changes we get for the better, we just have to keep learning more through time, failures, embarrassments. making mistakes, and learning small habits and well.... keeping it simple.
Turkey
My early-mid 30s were awesome and the year I turned 30 was one of the best of my life. My 20s were turbulent and had a bunch of significant highs and lows. Obviously everybody's circumstances are different, but generally speaking you're still young and can do young person things. At the same time, your mentality and maturity is starting to transition into that of a fully realized adult when you hit your 30s.
Idk man I am 23 and feel so old maybe because I never had a girlfriend before and feel I am running out of time.
@@manosijroy8282 honestly I was the same way, except I had a girlfriend. The quarter life crisis is real and I don't think it's paid enough attention. I felt "old" and like I had just kind of tripped into adulthood one day and I needed to get it all together and figure it out now before it was too late. I ended up rushing into some adult responsibilities I wasn't ready for and that was a mistake.
Celebacy is the way to go man! Rock on hard 🚬
Turned 35 recently and getting more achy and 30s are a stepping stone to getting old lol
Damn man. I am 23 so 7 years away from 30 and 12 years away from 35. Still no girlfriend and so scared of getting older
all the thing you said i realized before i just like to hear what you have to say.
man didn't even comb his hair or wash it
QUOTE DO NOT COMPARE YOURSELF TO HOW SOMEONE ELSE IS TODAY, COMPARE YOURSELF TO WHOM YOU WERE YESTERDAY. -DR JORDAN PETERSON 12 RULES FOR LIFE.
I turned 30 back in october the 1tth. at 29 I had a breakdown, morning my lost potential. etc etc etc. But at 29 I found out I am Asperger's and adhd. So now at 30, my mental health is doing better than ever. Im taking the clown pill more and more. Im laughing and what I can.
Im the main character in my life tho. one can always improve, I blame myself for everything first to error correct.
At 30 after the worst breakdown ever, and finding out im tism. has let me unwind my masks. im happier, but finically worse.
Did you get an official diagnosis or just self diagnosed? I'm 95% sure I'm autistic but I can't justify paying $3,000 or more for an official diagnosis.
@@Yarcofin I 100% self diag within 99.99% probability. there are just certian things, the dsm- doesnt actually diag people either with accuracy. and even doctors say self diag is valid for many reasons. im not paying 3k either. and like. does a gay dude need to get a diag for being gay? no. you know yourself better than anyone. its the comorbidities that are harder to self diag with. my life has 1005 got better since I have self diag. everything is a fits like a lock and key now. and the coping mecanisms work better.
A huge thing, comparing your lived exps to others that have been diag before. asberger reddit or autism reddit is a decent place.
common sayings too. for me what triggered the entire thing. I googled in frustration, everyone misunderstands me and all my good intentions are assumed to be bad. First link, Asperger reddit. I did a double take, was not looking for answers.
Then once I kinda started to see the symptoms, and comparisions. I watched hour long videos on it. then started intense 8-12 hour research sessions into everything about it. and like, only someone with autism would sit at their pc for 12 hours obsessed with something like this, not move or eat, or use the bathroom.
Also common sayings, things like
Im an alien on a planet of humans
I didnt get the instruction manual at birth
no one understands my true self
no one knows me
making people mad when you think youre having a nice conversation. but they explode at you and say theyre done arguing. when youre simply asking questions
sensory sensitivities. some things are either of or on all the way.
its mostly social issues and a bad working memory., My long term, powerful filmographic. working shrot term? im cant even remember what planet im on.
Turning 30 soon? Congrats, what color is your Bugatti?
hot pink, like my dozen glazed supras.
Happy Birthday to ya homes and I'm not gonna lie. I had a bit of a midlife crisis thing going on when I was a year shy from 30. My relationship with my girl ended after 3 years together, I was in a dead end job with no certain way of advancing in my skill trade, I was nearing my 30's and have yet to achieve my former dream of starting a family at the age of 25. When I turned 30, that's when I had an epiphany about my life...and life in general. It was 2016, a very chaotic year in and of itself and one of the most important years of my life. Neither good nor bad but I learned so much from it.
I'm currently 38 now and while I can say I'm not fully where I wanna be yet, I'm grateful I'm not where I used to be. Nobody is gonna lead the same life their family members have and in a way, I'm grateful for it. My family has a bad marriage track record and I believe I would've been a divorce statistic anyway. I started focusing on myself when I hit 30 and I oughta kick myself in the @$$ that I didn't do this when I was in my 20s. Just know it's never too late to make something out of your life, all you need is the mindset to push you forward.
I'm going to 22 and I'm scared I want to be more young
My bday is next month too! What day is yours on? Mine is the 15th.
Happy early bday! 🎂🎂🎂
Happy early birthday! How old you'll be this year?
@@jjgameshow2682 Thanks! I'm turning 33 😊
@@10kCrowsCool and you're welcome, Have a great day!
Hay bro do feel any clicking in your jaw joints?
Dude. You're entering the peak 30 to 35 if you're lucky 38
Congrats on over 2m views total
I'm 32. So far my 30s have been great!
most men say their 30s is where they have the most enjoyment in life or is their peak
I'm 32 & agree. This year's especially been great because I've learned to look after my mental health more, now I just need a job.
Cool. Btw I guess you probably have a gf that's why. Btw you are Indian. I am Indian too Bengali guy living in Bangalore and I am 23 year old and never had a gf before and feel I am running out of time.
@manosijroy8282 nope no gf yet, but I'm in a much better place than I was during my 20s, like I cam feel my life starting to come together. If I get a girl along for the ride, awesome, if not, I'll be okay.
@@kartikayysola I have crush on this girl in my college where I am studying MBA in 1st year and she is also an MBA student in different section and she is also within 21-23 age range and I am 23. I even got her number in a clever way 2 weeks ago but she didn't even see my whatsapp text. I asked her about it in person in college yesterday and she said she is have 2 exams in a day so she was studying but even I am having exams so idk.
Bro, how can I reach you?
turning 19 today and got this on my home page 🤨
I am 19 but got this at my homepage 😂
Happy birthday.
2005 king!! 2 months for me
over for bro
Im turning 24 in 2 months😢
I just turned 27 last weekend. Still a virgin and never been with a girl, so I feel my life is empty and meaningless
same boat as you, but i'm still a couple months of 27. still though, it's scary how quickly time goes. it feels like i was 21 just last year, but now i'm in the final third of my 20s.
@@observer4916 I feel like this is it for me to experience sex/love in my ''youth''. I feel I need to will myself to at least try. If I fail, then at least I do so knowing I gave it my absolute all
@@johnkyle3128 personally i've just accepted that I'm never going to experience love or intimacy. it hurts, it really does, but it is what it is.
@@observer4916 I'm not willing to give up yet, but this next year/3 years are it for me
I am 23 now and still never had a gf. Idk how much chance I have with my current crush. We are in the same Uni pursuing MBA and in our 1st years now and she is also within 21-23 age range. I got her number 2 weeks ago but she didn't even see my text on whatsapp. When I asked her yesterday in person about it, she said she is have 2 exams on the same day so she have to study a lot. Even my final exams are going on. She is very pretty almost model like tho.
What are you going to do in order to help yourself?
You seem too unsure about the things you are saying.
Are you just saying it to comfort yourself or ar you saying it because you truly believe it and it isn't a means to cope?
u look like my bf thats crazy
You’re so cute
Great. Did you find a girlfriend?
From what I can tell he still doesn't
I remember 30
Me too, just about.
im 17 is 30 scary?
@@rederitee No.
@@rederitee not really
I am definitely scared about 30. I am 23 and still no gf and I don't wanna be in the same boat at 30.
I just turned 26 in january
Turnin 27 in 2 months and every time I remember my age I get a panic attack 🥲