Watch this if you keep attracting the same person, different body
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I wouls say 2 or 3, not 5 or 6. I met somebody I was not attracted to. We have bern together for almost a tear and I feel safe and loved, but I stoll am nit attraxted to jim. I avoid sex with him. That is how it works. Do not get info a rekationship with someone you are not attracted to. They will be good to you, but boring. In the end you will break up with them ( which is what I am thinking about now)...
Sadly true 🫤 I agree with all this. I stayed with a guy I wasn’t attracted to for 4 years. He was very good to me. My hope was that overtime the attraction would grow, but it never did. I didn’t even like kissing him. Whenever we made out it made my skin crawl. It was a repulsive feeling. I didn’t want to feel that way of course, but it was a natural reaction. I regret staying with him so long. I feel like I waisted his time and mine, and so I recommend people not go after guys they aren’t physically attracted to. I do think it would be best to probably break it off with your bf.
Attraction is super important m. I tried the going for/ accepting the « boring » but comfortable guy for 4 years. I was miserable, the attraction to him was low, I was feeling guilty all the time for not having these feelings for him and hoping they’d grow, it ended up affecting my perception of myself, my sexuality and femininity. I was not curious anymore and was living on auto pilot. Best thing I did was to leave him, even tho he’s the best person ever. They’re gotta be another way to still be attracted and feeling the butterflies for the right person, please would you elaborate on that ?
Healthy relationships are boring, there is no chaos, so jokes on you, u lost a good person and the next ones will treat u like shit in the longrun, imagine having kids with chaos, u are gonna regret bigtime.
Bet your toxic friends and family told u to leave, they didnt mean it, they were jealous. Give it 10 years and the next person u marry will not even come close which u will be bitter about forever. Dont believe me? Ask old people
@@michaelmich00Hi Michael, I believe you're projecting big time here, and probably because you were rejected by a partner who found you boring... But that's not what happened in my case. He was not that boring, but it something was missing, I was just not attracted to him, we had different goals and ways of living life and that's not something we can control. My friends and family loved him and still do, we're very close still. But i don't regret one second leaving him, I was miserable and that's not fair to me. Since then I've had good and less good relationships, but even then I am 10 times better than when I was forcing myself to be with him . Bottom line, Ladies, never settle or stay in something you don't feel good in ! :)
But what if I’m attracted to good guys! Like decent looking not very social, smart kinda guys but still it ends up being toxic in the end! Or they reveal that they weren’t the nice guy! And now I’m bummed uk😅
Start observing their actions first, don't expect too much,seek out any red flags from beginning,get to know them more,don't fall into their potential,see them as who they are.
90% of the guys and girls are toxic, full of trauma, bad friends, social media toxic influence, using ppl for shortterm, no commitment. They all wear a mask and probably narcs, so they manipulate u.
So you need to heal yourself to see narcs. Missed your dad in youth? Missed his love and connection probably.
Us women love drama and chaos it seems. We despise men who love us. Unfortunately that's the reason y most women are always crying and complaining about their guys. Seems like v r genetically addicted to anxiety chaos and constant stress. Sad but true.
@@piak78 nah only when u got shit friends, healthy friends would say stfu and grow up, go be a woman to your man. so that tells u all about your inner circle
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