I followed your videos and the love of my life came back after one week. Thank you!! He apologized. He said he felt like he had lost his best friend and it tore him up. Long story short he is trying harder, even spending time with my son and brings me flowers. I am so happy to have my love back. ❤
It's been 5 years since my ex and I broke up. We have been friends since we were kids and after 1.5 years we started reconnecting and talking again. We started hanging out again, just the two of us. Sometimes we fall asleep when we hang out, but it doesn't bother the other person. We both feel safe in each other's company.
So should you, if you feel up to it and you're ready. As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.
@@ZakariahBenoit They rather hoe around (men and women do this) then get to the bottom of it all, plus many people are immature and love the attention and validation of the opposite sex, they don’t see value or worth within themselves. They’re very addicted to the high. Leaving a trail people hurt behind their time will come. I know karma exists. Might not be today but it’ll come
Same here bro. Broke up with my ex last July....she's been with 10+ guys since then even while having a bf. She regrets leaving and she's not happy....too bad.
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
It was a long term relationship and processing what happened takes time. Just know that whatever you're going through is normal and is part of the process, so try to be more patient with yourself, okay? You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new (thus the old relationship be considered as over) relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ua-cam.com/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Hey, how's it going? Did you mean you've tried everything including begging? Because that would've hurt your chances further and you'd be forced to really give her space after that. Anyway since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Yes, it is. But also here's this to consider: ua-cam.com/video/xbDPq23YaNE/v-deo.html so take the free quiz if you wanna know what your chances are, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Hi Brad! My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. We always can’t seem to communicate well. Whenever he talks about how he feels about a certain situation and I would mention my perspective as well. However, he’ll always say that I am ‘defending’ myself when I am not. Yesterday I found out that the way I talk made him feel gaslighted and manipulated. When I told my friend (our mutual friend) on the what I said to my boyfriend, my friend also finds me manipulative, because of my choice of words it made him feel bad about himself. This ended up made him tired. Yesterday he said that he is very tired and I made him a monster. He is usually a very chill, patient and calm guy. At the same time, is a person that moves on quickly because he doesn’t like negativity. My friend said that he cried while on the phone with him. And my friend said that he want to try to bring the both of us together and talk after hearing his perspective. What do you think I should do? What do you think I should say? Or approach in this way! PLEASE HELP ME 😢
Give yourselves time and don't push it. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html But for a comprehensive, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
No relationship is perfect and no two people are perfect either. Therefore, mistakes are bound to happen (both on your ex's side and your side as well) and problems tend to arise every now and then. It takes compromise and a willingness to work on the relationship to make it thrive, assuming it was a happy, healthy relationship prior. Letting ego destroy that is a choice. Bottom line is you just have to find someone who's worth the fight. If you haven't found one yet, the answer is to move on. Best of luck!
Hi Brad, she broke up with me but we still remain friends. The reason of our break up is because of to grow ourselves individually to be better in our own life but i still miss her dearly. I am anxious about no contact with her.
All those uncomfortable feelings are normal. You're not alone. However, being friends will only make it really tough for you in the long run. So that's a bad idea. Don't do it, man. She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You ought to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Hi Brad, we broke up a week ago and he wanted to stay friends. I was still answering his calls daily but after 24 hours I messaged him “Sorry, Ive just been really busy, and I know this break up is what you wanted.” Being friends right now is hard for me. I wanted to be in a relationship with you, But I don’t think being friends right atm is any good for either of us. Please no hard feelings. His reply “yep bye……” And then blocked me on all social media….. I have started no contact from yesterday, but is that the usual response? It just seemed so emotionless…..
My ex is very known to be stubborn about his decisions. He tells me I need to work on myself and he needs to figure out his life because everything is overwhelming him, but I shouldn’t count on us getting back together just in case because he doesn’t know, but for now it isn’t worth it to him. Noted our “flame” didn’t burnt out and he was still lightly touchy, he doesn’t want to delete our photos either.
You all could use a break. Don't force things. If you're done with the "no contact" phase and therefore had sent one of these text messages for re-establishing contact, give your ex time to warm up slowly to you. Don't expect one text to work magic because it simply doesn't work that way. Getting an ex back is a process, therefore, learn to be patient and like I said, give her time to actually come close to you. She can't do that if you keep chasing her. Makes sense? Also, this may help: ua-cam.com/video/PBotQygy7os/v-deo.html
Brad,so I followed your advice for no contact and did it properly.today's my birthday and she texted me and called me and had a nice little chat for about 5 mins.It was hard but I did not show vulnerability and made her feel like I was happy and cheerful.although I didn't want to end the talk but as you said keep it short,I ended it. I need you now more than ever . what should be my next step?
Depends on which phase you're on. Never skip the "no contact" part! Watch this to get an overview on what steps you ought to take in each phase: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
Hi Brad, I have been watching your videos for a few months now. My Girlfriend and I of 5 years broke up in the middle of May. We finally had a conversation on the phone a day ago and talked for an hour. It was a productive conversation, but I'm wondering what I should do next in the process of getting back together
You're on the right path, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
After a breakup conversation she called me amazing. I let her down gently after 13years and she contacted me an hour later asking if the plans we made later that week are still on. wtf??
You can be gentle but make sure you're firm and steadfast on your decision if you've really make up your mind so as not to create confusion on your ex's end.
Hi brad I took your quiz however I think it is very limited . For instance it doesn't really give many options to choose. For example, my situation is based on a breakup. Because my ex's ex wife after six years came back into his life and wanted to try. However he was unsure and he didn't want to let me go period. However He seemed like he was going for it because she demanded to see his phone and found out about me. He is also a dismissive avoidant. Of course I know he might not ever come back. However, I think it's hard to give everybody a very general eyes limited quiz.
Hey thanks for your feedback! The quiz is designed mainly to the most common situations and scenarios. Since your situation is unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months now and we have been on a break for 4 days now and she still messes saying she still misses me but she she said she what’s to get back on track with her life and that’s why she wanted to go on a break but your advice does help so appreciate that 👍🏻
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
Hi Brad. Thanks for the video (7 in total for me), and the ex factor guide. Long story short I broke up with my girl due to a few issues in the relationship. We both went into a tit for tat rubbish on social media which annoyed us both, basically jealousy. I called her Tuesday just gone after breaking the no contact rule to talk to her and to let her vent about the breakup. Just over an hours worth of conversation we both decided that we would make contact in 6 weeks time to discuss things further. Turns out after asking her if she still loves me but her love is dwindling due to me breaking up with her and the tit for tat stuff (not taking responsibility for her actions) but blaming me for mine. I will continue with the 6 week no contact rule we set and then see what happens then. Thanks again .
Yes, indeed. I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here : y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
My ex didn't remove my photos on her social media till now, I told her to remove it because we are already over, but she won't comply, she just said a lot of excuses...
That's not bad at all. Try to see if she displays the rest of the signs mentioned on the vid too. The more, the merrier so they say! And especially if these signs go on past the 30-day no contact period. On your end, try not to do or say anything to provoke her at this time as that can easily overpower the good times you had and re-instate her reasons for having broken up with you. You can watch my other vids on what not to do. Good luck!
Me and ex broke up about 7 months ago. In the past six months we used to meet up and be intimate with each other. But after i moved from that city contact reduced. He texted me 3weeks ago, telling me about how much he misses me and told me he doesn't know if he will ever find anyone like me. I told him to be patient he will find someone...last week i enrolled for a course that he is offering. Keeping it professional. We don't talk about anything personal anymore. Do i have a chance with him again.?
Are you both single? Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE
As a 62-year-old man who had been dating women since 1978. I would say move on and get someone else. You can almost never repair these modern women once they go astray they just aren’t gone for good . Listen up what you have to do is find somebody else that can appreciate you more than the ex did. And when you meet that new woman, make love to her as many times as possible and just get that out of your mind and ditch her. Especially if you’re a man ! (don’t chase replace) !
Thanks for sharing your experience. As you can tell, the first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route and here's how to tell you're doing it correctly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html Anyways it's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end and folks get rid of the what-ifs on their mind and either move on for good or tried something. But as I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship. It's your life and it's your decision.
With regard to sign number 17, I asked my ex not long after the split if he was with someone else. His not so direct answer was that if he said yes I would go off on one. If he said no then I would call him a liar! So what do I take from that answer?!🤔😒
It's best not to ask questions if you're not ready for the answer. But really, it's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept his decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex boyfriend back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy
This is a pretty common theme unfortunately even if you've done the no contact rule properly. However, don’t destroy the progress you’ve made up to this point. Watch this to gain some insight on what to do: ua-cam.com/video/cC54YU-qU5Q/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/MK7NDfJTbDc/v-deo.html But if your ex is worth it and as long as you aren't being manipulated, and you still really wanna give it your best shot, then I'll be more than happy to put my focus on your situation. Sign up to my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
If nobody compares to that person, then yes. But that's really not a healthy thing to do because nobody may ever compare to that specific person and you'd only end up dreaming your life away. Try to appreciate what you have or when you enter a relationship, make sure you're compatible on most things. HOWEVER, if you still wanna try with your ex, this is actually what my channel is about! :-) Since it's been many years since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hey, my girlfriend broke up with me, and suddenly she has someone else. Did she always have that person, and she was just hiding it from me? Or did she find someone as fast as possible to make me jealous?
Unfortunately I can't tell. You're the one in the relationship with her, were you seeing signs? It could be either way. It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept her decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and you can see that the 30-day "no contact" rule is an absolute must. I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, etc. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy
My ex and I broke up on April 2022 after 6 years, was an hard time for me because my mom was dealing with cancer, but he didn’t care, given that on December of the year before I told him that I cheated on him. I did a mistake after 5 years of me chasing his attention, his caring towards me, given that he was the best guy to give his attention to all the girls that he saw but me. After 2-3 months of our brake up he texted me, because he saw me having fun with my friends, he just said “I hate Sunday’s evenings”. We started to talk to each other, I said him I was realizing that I never wanted do go back with him due to his detachment issues towards me during our relationship (that was my first relationship), so we stopped communicating for a month. On August we started talking again, he told me that he always wanted me but he never was able to show me or tell me how much I meant to him. He also told me that he was going on vacation with a male friend of his and 2 girls, that I didn’t know and he neither, so I told him I was going on vacation with the man that I cheated on him. At the begging of September , after he saw I really went to Sicily with that guy, he texted me “ So those are the ones that you define Men ..” and I didn’t hear from him again. A month after this text he started dating right away, with a girl that I don’t know where and when he met her, given that she wasn’t a friend of ours. I sent him a text at the end of October when my grandpa passed away, he didn’t visualize, I wrote him a mail at the end of November as well and he never replied, so I stopped chasing him. After three months they were dating, so on January 2023 his new girl (I hope rebound) started viewing all my instagram stories( she still does), and let me tell you that he doesn’t follow her on social media and she neither follows him. On February 2023, a few days after my birthday, he deleted all our pictures except 3 of them. In April 2023, so a year after we broke up he deleted the 3 left pictures. At the end of April he hided me his profile pic and his status info on WhatsApp, so he didn’t blocked me because if you block someone, this person will still be able to see your info status. Anyway I asked my sister to see if he changed his pic on WhatsApp and she said that he didn’t. A week after he changed his profile pic on WhatsApp, and he deleted my sisters number, so I asked my brother in law to see what was his profile pic, and I found out he putted a pic of him and his rebound dog. He used to post also pic of him and the dog on his Instagram profile, but never pictures of him and her together. This month, July he started posting vides with the new girl, nothing particular, videos in with he is doing with here what he used to do with me, but I still don’t know what to think. Now I wonder is he over me, will he ever have the courage to text me and tell me that he messed up, and that he found out that not all the blame is on me?
My ex's bestf of 15 years came to me and said "I think u both shld talk" nd he kept on asking me "if I'll talk to him" or "if u want to talk to him". Do u think my ex is interested in talking to me?
Whether your ex is interested or not has got nothing to do with what your best friend says. But you know, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Do you think you're ready to give it a try? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE
My wife moved out and keeps talking about coming to get her stuff. I packed up some of it for her. She doesn’t know I done that yet. Was that a mistake?
Hello Brad i saw several among those signs and i got 70%on yr free quiz and my ex told me that we can talk about the cause of our breakup it seems like he wants to come back i love him we was planning to getting married before what can i do?
That's a good score! How long has it been since you two broke up though? Just be careful and try to see if you've reached that level of calm and clarity first before discussing serious topics. Doing so before you're both ready can do more harm than good and can lean to more misunderstandings and fights. I would suggest you get my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 and/or my coaching program so I would know more about the intricacies of your situation, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey brad. Had a big fifht about how she wasnt teating me right, she changed but as soon as things got toufh she went back to mistreating me. Durning the fight she did tell me if i leave we will never be apart of eachothers lives again (at the time was in duress) So we Broke up about 5 weeks ago been in no contact since except for the one text she did send the day after. She has avoidment issues and bad mental trauma. I did treat her very well, in the end i left the door open saying you know where and how to find me should things change, obviously I would like her back. While i did pull the trigger she was either pushing me out or sabotaging until i pulled the trigger. As a result i feel im the hurt one and was in her starnge way broken up with I am blocked on our main forms of communication but she has me on an alt account, unsure if she checks it though. Any advice?
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
I understand what you're saying, but it's important not to judge as each person has his/her own reasons for why they either choose to get back together with an ex or let go totally. You can't speak for them because it's their life, not yours to decide. Granted, not all relationships are meant to be salvaged, especially abusive ones and/or one that involve numerous instances of infidelity, but some are worth saving. This all depends on what kind of relationship you have and if you decide to move on or fight for it. There is no wrong answer on whatever your decision is. :-) Anyway thanks for your input!
This is why you should stop asking for him back or show interest in a relationship and cut off communication instead. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html But for a comprehensive, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
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My other half and I broke up a good while ago but he only collected some of his stuff, we are no longer in no contact and he still pops out to see me and he still contacts me from time to time, we are friends, he does sometimes send me hot and cold signs ... I know that my other half still cares about me
That's good, positive thinking, as long as you're truly okay with being friends and not have hopes in getting back together one day. Watch/review this first about being friends with an ex especially if there hasn't really been any time or space apart in between: ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html
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Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning well we stopped talking because he said he didnt believe in love and wasnt looking for love and i was he did tell me im a good womeen and to find someone else because hes not a good person so i had no choice to leave it like that i told him to not bother me ever again or reply to me anymore a month later he came back trying to talk but i always ignored him becacause i felt i wasnt ready to talk yet i was still hurt since i put the most effort going to see him 3 hours. I also realized then sent me a friend request from his other facebook and i accepted he started posting alot of stories and would watch all mine and had messaged me on watsapp to all in which i ignored because then a few days later he told me he had so much desire to make love to me i told him thats disrespectful because im not easy like that and i didnt reply to him anymore a few days later he messaged again thru messenger with the same shit saying when was i gonna go over there to make love i ignored him a month later me sent me a text message asking when i was going to go over there this time i did reply and asked did he miss me he said yes i asked what do u miss about me and he said to see me and make love to me i told him i wanted to kiss him and make love to him all over his body like never before he said mm sounds delicious and sounds good i then told him i was going to sleep and wished him goodnight with a smily emoji but he didnt reply anymore leaving me hurt again stupid and confused
How do you do no contact if you have a kid together and still live together? I love her and I want to try anything I can to get her back but no contact is hard when we have a kid.
It's an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
Hi, I am in the no-contact terms with her for 2 week & to mention more precisely she saw me after the day of break up and didn't ulter a single word to me but i can see she is posting quotes that indirectly attacking me but i didn't bother so much, Is it an actually good sign too?
In some twisted way, your ex being emotional/angry about the breakup is good. As opposed to an ex being indifferent. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html
Not too bad. Fading fast and therefore the need to act fast means to play your cards right from the get-go and not mess things up further, basically. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex and definitely not in social media), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Thanks for the insight Brad! But I already done the 30 days no contact, then something related to my ex’s ex got us back in contact few months ago! We talked (it was a hell of argument) then we ended up seeing each other many times, we even got intimate! But as time went on, she did express not wanting to a relationship but is still attracted to me, and we talk everyday! Regardless she still calls me “babe” at times and few days ago she said “my love” Im not sure what to think anymore! Don’t know what to do about this situationship!
Hi Brad, No contact rule work for third chance? Last year, I used no contact rule, followed your tips and reconnected with my ex. Thank you very much for that. After 1 year of getting back him, our problems start again and the more I try to be okay in our relationship, the more tension he has to face and we break up as second time. Is it a right move if I use no contact rule this time also to get him back?
It's your best choice, yes. However, with on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
Brad I really need you help with sth about my ex is there a way to contact you because I want us to talk In private so you could help if you want to. She is like my other half and I really need you help because things are a bit complicated
My ex get jealous after caught me dating with someone after 2 weeks of break up and hes angry and blocked me in all social. What does it means I was guilty but we already broke up. Is there any possible to get him back?
There's no need to feel guilty. That's for your ex to deal with and come to terms with the breakup. However, it's a normal response. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/PN-07kAtIjw/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning thank you so much for the response I really need it a lot because until now I cant stop thinking about my guilt. But he was dating with other girls while we are together and not feeling guilty about it. He just want me to be he’s back up plan in case he fails with the other relationship.
Its has been 30 days (we dated for 2 year) he didnt contact only watchimg my stories and he was seeing someone before we actually broke up. I am dont think he wants me back . We were a situationship not exactly relationship.
Consider moving on from this, especially if it was just a fling to either you or your short-term ex, or both. Sorry but there may not be anything to rebuild here if that's the case because there wasn't any long term bonding or attraction that naturally develops in long term or serious relationships, especially if things got bad between you real quick because of the mistakes. On the brighter side, here's how the "no contact" rule will work for you, though: ua-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/v-deo.html However, you may want to improve your dating skills and Amy North may has a ton of tips on what to do about that, so check out her channel, too. Take care!
What do you think brad after 5 years of our relationship she dump me because i think im toxic in my relationship because that time she has many problem.
Life often gets in the way and relationships often get tested. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad ! Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago ! Everything just perfect until his son wanted him stop with me ! Of course he have to choice his son ! We Been no contact 2 months ! Should I text him or not ! I love him so much
Other people's influence and outside opinion are all outside your control. It still has to be your ex's choice whether he allows himself to be influenced or not. In your case, unless his son has a valid reason why he's against you, then I'm sorry but he's not much of a partner if he can't fight for your relationship. But just continue to do you and focus on stuff within your control, yeah? Apply the tips here along with the other tips on my vid on what you can do in each phase, especially if you're not getting my guide: ua-cam.com/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/v-deo.html
Sometimes they call me and sometimes I message him, I complete no contact rules, after 1 month i talk to my ex many times Sometimes she Ripley very well but sometimes not , what did they really mean?
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
my ex come again and again after 2 year breakup every 2 , 3 or 4 months when i ask him for relationship he says he like someone else he don't love me and he block me and go and again he come after 3 month plz suggest me something which is better for my life
sir after one year why I can't move on I want to move on but everyday every morning i think about him and stalk him he his happy with anyone else but he always try to connect v again and again after 3 to 4 months when I ask him can we comeback I love u l can't live without u i think about u every single day he says no every time and block me he came and he goes by blocking me
The breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
My wife of 26 years wants an open marriage this guy came from Michigan and she wanted to meet him alone for i showed up. I was jealous and toldd her i did not want an open marriage she said we don't have an open marriage we are done. We still live at home with her and sleep in the same bed and have spoken to her since 9/22/2023 only mirror interactions about bills notjing else i stay put late working. I am doing the limited no control im on week 3. I hope you can help save my marriage i show no emotions at all regular poker face. I hope it works what you said.
The process of saving one's marriage is a bit complicated and in fact, does NOT make use of the "no contact" rule... but this is why I've released a second book called Mend the Marriage. Check it out at www.marriageguy.com as everything is on there, from how to communicate more effectively, down to how to handle the kids (if applicable), monitor your progress through worksheets and stuff. But while I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU or sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching Take care!
How long has it been since the breakup? If it falls under the 30-day period, then unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
My ex broke up with me and brought the idea of fwb with i agree cause I don't want to lose him totally after a month of fwb i told him i wasn't longer interested again then after two weeks i reach out to him because I want him to know the reason why I ended the fwb but he says he doesn't want to hear my voice again then I stopped reaching out since then it been a month now have not heard from him what should I do
Sorry to hear that and I understand how you feel. You already lost him the minute he broke up with you though...and it's best not to fight it because it's going to be a completely new relationship between you and your ex if and when you get back together. The thing is, you're getting seriously demoted here and he may have lost interest further because of the suggestion. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/npuQb1APSaU/v-deo.html
Hi Brad I am Eric And I am a gay guy who was in a relationship with another guy but it was for a couple of months and then I told him I cheated on him and I also was spying on him and tried to gain him back and I also tried to ask other 3:24 to help me but I couldn’t and now I don’t contact him and I haven’t heard anything from him since 1/1/2024 so how can i get him back and I feel I will not get him back again ever
Need help what does this mean we just broke up like 4 hours ago Yw I wish you nothing but the best if you need I’ll still be here and I appreciate you for doing the same thing Definitely felt like it was real but ig not it was fun while it lasted I really thought shii was gone be straight I really fell in love with you that’s why this broke me but I’ll be straight fasho. I’m here if you need to talk but nah this relationship is over fasho
I cheat him 2 months ago but I was in a relationship at the time and this month November 2023 I moved in and the guy I cheat him with texted me back threat me to tell him about what we did and I decided to tell and now he sayid we are roommates but we sleep same bad and he gives me mixed signals and he has told me to think about it to be his gf again and don’t lie to him and he doesn’t express much just hugs what do I do ?
Are you not back together already? It takes time to earn someone's trust back. Be patient with him throughout this process especially if your relationship is worth it. Good luck!
Where am i at in regards to my situation? Its been a month and two weeks since the break up. 7 days was the longest i could do no contact until she messaged me. Then we spoke for a couple days straight. Then she decides that its probably best we dont talk as often and that shell hit me up once a week. I just ok 🤷🏻♂️. Then she hits me up every two days after sending me pics of her and our cats, asking me how everything is going. And even talking about our sex together. That went on for two weeks until she finally called me over after acting all paranoid and jealous. So i went and we had crazy sex, after that she was falling asleep in my arms and then pops up and tells me i gotta leave. As i was leaving you was staring and smiling at me in infatuation and kissing me and hugging me. Then even stood at the door and watched as i walked away. The next day shes acting jealous again and tells me she shouldnt talk to me for awhile with how shes feeling and that she wishes we could have done more when we were together and that it seems like im “blossoming” without her. Then tells me thank you for the amazing sex it didnt even feel real, and proceeds to say i wont hear from her in awhile… so i said “am i here to entertain you until you find someone else?” “Im starting to realize theres no point in this since well never be together again? And she said “no how can you say that were still corgile” please give me some in-site on wtf is going on.
Having that talk may have ruined things, man. Watch and follow the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qoEZiPn9EH0/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/pXKPxAXaunc/v-deo.html but at the same time, also employ the following suggestions to get the ball rolling: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
Hey brad, please reply he broke up with me telling he was emotionally drained/exhausted , he said maybe he will come back maybe he won't , What do i do? He still loves me but act cold, infact he was a sweetheart and now makes me feel like i am nothing for him
That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a fresh/recent breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Right so im in school and highschool Me and my ex dated from year 7 to first week to year 8 we dated for 2-3 months broke up 2 times but i had no contact w him for like 4 months Recently got his snap number added him we been talking he dated 1 person while we r still talking and he did date a girl at my school for 2 days but id really count it as a relationship so me and him r talking HE SEES MY SNAP STORYS ALL OF THEM THEN : he said u make me laugh on text : but before like last week he was in my lesson to do his science test THEN HE PUTS HIS COAT NEXT TO MINE is it just me or does he want me back?
How many of the signs from the vid do you see your ex displays? But you're both may be all too young to be dating seriously. So try to enjoy life as it happens and make all the mistakes you can and learn from it. Look, I know it's tough but now is a good time to know yourself more and find that inner strength to accept the breakup and be independent of your exas much as possible. Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact instead of the full on "no contact" rule. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html Good luck!
That's just perfect video! ♥ About your "crying point" don't you feel like some people can cry not because of us (or because of relationship) but because they feel sorry for themself? I fully applied your no contact rule, after some time we met and even though I felt some interest from my ex's side, he doesn't contact me, sometimes he is watching or reacting to my stories on social media and sometimes I feel like he is more trying to avoid even whatever I post. Not sure how this is gonna end up but NC brought me inner peace which is the most important for me now. But my point is... don't you wanna make some videos about meaning of when your ex is trying to avoid you? In which situation is it a good sign, bad sign, how to read this "hidden message" etc. Or something specific about their behavior on social media during the breakup? Anyway, thank you for your work, it helped me a lot when I was at my worst.
Crying could be due to a mix of emotions, especially where a breakup is involved. How long has it been since the breakup? Your ex trying to avoid you is a natural response of all dumpers out there. That's just how the cookie crumbles. The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
@@BradBrowning Thank you! It's been almost two months since we broke up, but when we saw each other a few weeks ago, I could still see tears in his eyes while saying goodbye after our meeting and he cried during our break up a lot as well. But still, after I see he tries to avoid my stories and everything it feels very weird...
This likely means the breakup was unexpected/unplanned. What happened though? Did you two got into a fight? I still recommend to give each other time and space.
@@BradBrowning thank you so much for your reply, she wished me a happy new year (split on the 10th Dec) I fell over 100 yards from her flat 2 Jan I explained what happened and said but I couldn't call you for help She text am I OK she tried calling me, but I'm so emotionally drained with ut all I didn't respond or answer phone I'm in bits over the split 6 year's relationship Helps me please Brad
How long has it been since the breakup and have you established positive rapport with her where she's receptive to you? Assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: ua-cam.com/video/Jzb18j7ZMPE/v-deo.html but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: ua-cam.com/video/eJPGrkuQnm0/v-deo.html Best of luck!
I love my ex very much and i want her back in my life but I don't want to marry her because in past and in between of our relationship she dated many mens and slept with them for having a better future patner opportunities but all of them used her and dumped her but i didn't know about it cause i blindly trust her then one day I get to know about this and was broken inside so i thought of taking revenge by staying into relationship and making new and deep memories of us daily basis now i took initiative and broke up with her it's been 5 months now she not contacted me either i But i usually see her dating new mens hanging out sleeping with them I feel jealous depressed with it but i never show her this thing of mine But now my heart is pushing me towards her and saying to get her back in my life cause i feel alone without her nothing feel good no activity seems interesting socialization is also something i don't like I'm loosing interests in everything in my work in family in my friends Should i go and make things better again and bring her in my life or should i move on but moving on is really tuff for me I can't help my self 😞
Sorry to hear that, man. It does sucks the first few weeks of a breakup so it's important to really take care of yourself, yeah? This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/Oyu0S8ieWTs/v-deo.html
Dear Brad, Me and my ex-girlfriend had 18 days of no contact.She reached Out. She came back for things. We saw each other and decided to try dating, no relationship and no big promises. We had 4 very successful meetings with kisses and tenderness, a lot of conversations, sincere thoughts and planned outings. She called me one day before work, but we had a fight over a simple thing. I suggested a calm explanation of the topic and conversation. She was supposed to call back tonight - she didn't. We wrote for a while in the evening, but she didn't want to talk, write, and didn't want to meet. Since then we have had no contact again for 10 days. What to do?
If you ask me, it's really all too soon to be doing all that... and it simply doesn't work that way. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html But for a comprehensive, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
My ex shows majority of the signs yet when I ask him (yes, I'm in a gay relationship) if he's ready to rekindle things back with us, he always says he's not yet ready. He cheated on me and chose to be with the guy he cheated on me with and I'm always anxious of the possibility that they might end up together especially that I am doing no contact, since they're in constant communication. What should I do about this? I am skeptical that he's not ready because he already has someone new and I am firm that the guy was just his rebound however, I'm still skeptical about it.
Sorry to hear that. I know it's devastating. However, you really have no control over someone else's actions. Sorry, but chances are your beau has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ua-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/v-deo.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with him if you can see he no longer wants to try. Take care!
Your brain is catching up with your heart, it seems. Dreams are merely a reflection of the subconscious and doesn't depict reality at all. I'm no dream expert but it seems like your subconscious is finding ways to cope with the breakup. For signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ua-cam.com/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/v-deo.html
Hey brad ...i really need your help,hope you will reaply to me . I meet a girl in college 2 years ago and we were freinds for a while,the i want to take it to next level because i liked her and i want to know her better,so i told her that,she was surprised and respectful and ok with that,and we started to hang out and talk to each other everyday,and there was a chemistry between us and everything was jouful and fine,we kept that for 6 mounth,and started to fall in love with her,and i thought it was the time do tell her that and i felt like she was too. I confessed my love to her,and she told me that she is feeling the same way but needed more time so she can tell me by her will,after a mounth of that we broke up because she didnt feel the same to me after all this time ...and she didnt want to lose our friendship because we were so closed as freinds in the first place..and i was ok with that in the first place but then i changed my minde and needed some space to figure this out..,after 2 mounths she talk to me and wanted to become freinds like befor and i sayed yes because i was missing her so much in that time..we reamin freinds but not like before,we are about a year on this situation,we talk from then to then...i see her in college..but not like before. I want to get back to her and have a romantic relationship with her idont wanna to be a friend,i dont know what to do and were to start ..and dont want it to be akward after all this time,and right now iam very good with myself and i accomplished many thing and she impressed to the person i become...but i dont know what to tell her ...should i ask her for a date ? Please help me and thanks for your time . P.S iam 23 she 22
Yes, take her out on a date but take it slow and you need to up your seducing techniques. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
My gf of 4 years broke up with me 2 days ago; this is the second time she wanted to end things. Last time it was cause she was upset I never apologized when I did things to upset her, this time it’s cause it’s cause she says I haven’t expressed how she makes me feel and treating the relationship more like a friendship and now has lost romantic feelings for me. I acted on my emotions at first and begged for one last chance ( which is something that has been repeated several times throughout the relationship) but am currently doing nc but I’m afraid this is really the end and she won’t come back.
Were you not putting in the effort to win her affection? Might be a lesson learned for you there. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Ok well I work at Walmart only one in my city and my ex was there at 7:30 I stayed later then usual and she saw me and like ig bolted but I saw her staring like 7 or 8 times so idk but I'm good
Sir, I REALLY NEED YOUR REPLY PLEASE , i watched all your videos , ALL OF IT, he broke up saying he was exhausted due to some personal reasons and he said that i feel like i cannot go back to who i was now, he is totally change , and give a different vibe , also he said that he loves me but can't be together because he believe that it is right person, wrong timing thing with both of us, and all of it is depend on a maybe , that maybe we will get back , maybe we not , i am in no contact right now from a week, what else should i do ? This was my one and only love and he loves me too , but not coming together . What do i do ?also he is hot and cold towards me and sometimes even say things like "why do you want me to act like a lover ? We are exes and thats how things work " and stuff like that , behaves , also makes no efforts for me anymore , he is really exhausted and mentally battling things i know that for sure , but he gave up on us that is what hurts me a lot , he was so obsessed so loving , even die for me and now all changed,loves me but being distant acting cold like he does not care about me and acting all different like i am nothing , HOW CAN HE LOVE ME AT THE SAME TIME AND NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP , he said he is not mentally able to be in a relationship but he want to be friends with me after breakup and be on good terms like good friends , also he said if we ever come back , it will be great, if we don't come back together, then okay , he said it depends on future and he can't tell future right now , he said that he feels numb and no emotions at all , and this is happening with him since a month , we broke up a 20 days ago ,what do i actually do here in this, he also said that if i need him in anything i can contact him and he will be there anytime cos he loves me , but acting like a total jerk
Sorry to hear that. It's a bad idea to be friends with an ex right after the breakup. This vid should help you understand things better: ua-cam.com/video/DD22EJVvLwY/v-deo.html
Hi Brad I am Eric And I am a gay guy who was in a relationship with another guy but it was for a couple of months and then I told him I cheated on him and I also was spying on him and tried to gain him back and I also tried to ask other 3:24 to help me but I couldn’t and now I don’t contact him and I haven’t heard anything from him since 1/1/2024 so how can i get him back and I feel I will not get him back again ever
I followed your videos and the love of my life came back after one week. Thank you!!
He apologized. He said he felt like he had lost his best friend and it tore him up. Long story short he is trying harder, even spending time with my son and brings me flowers. I am so happy to have my love back. ❤
Awesome! Pat yourself on the back too for a job well done. I'm happy for you. Congrats! :-)
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@@athennatuhwera5040what is wrong with you?
It's been 5 years since my ex and I broke up. We have been friends since we were kids and after 1.5 years we started reconnecting and talking again. We started hanging out again, just the two of us. Sometimes we fall asleep when we hang out, but it doesn't bother the other person. We both feel safe in each other's company.
That's good. Sounds promising!
@@Gbb93 I agree 💯
i just wouldnt want my ex because she hooked up with a bunch of other guys after me
So should you, if you feel up to it and you're ready. As tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. You doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html So it boils down to two options, really. 1. Employ no contact and keep your dignity while respecting your ex's decision to breakup (why push yourself to someone who doesn't want you?) or Option 2: Do not do no contact and be pathetic. I always advise people to choose option 1 but really, which option you choose is ultimately up to you.
You probably did too she’s not with you anymore why does it matter?
Like why the hell do they do that? I don't see how in the world that's okay smh. Ppl out here are wildin fr fr.
@@ZakariahBenoit They rather hoe around (men and women do this) then get to the bottom of it all, plus many people are immature and love the attention and validation of the opposite sex, they don’t see value or worth within themselves. They’re very addicted to the high. Leaving a trail people hurt behind their time will come. I know karma exists. Might not be today but it’ll come
Same here bro. Broke up with my ex last July....she's been with 10+ guys since then even while having a bf. She regrets leaving and she's not happy....too bad.
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
It was a long term relationship and processing what happened takes time. Just know that whatever you're going through is normal and is part of the process, so try to be more patient with yourself, okay? You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new (thus the old relationship be considered as over) relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ua-cam.com/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Hey, how's it going? Did you mean you've tried everything including begging? Because that would've hurt your chances further and you'd be forced to really give her space after that. Anyway since it's been many months since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Update?
Checking up on you then being distant afterwards or (Cold) is another sign of mixed signals.
Yes, it is. But also here's this to consider: ua-cam.com/video/xbDPq23YaNE/v-deo.html so take the free quiz if you wanna know what your chances are, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Thank you man .... I feel more confident right now .... Its really gonna help me I think
You're welcome. Good! Getting clarity and having some realizations for yourself will help.
Hi Brad! My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. We always can’t seem to communicate well. Whenever he talks about how he feels about a certain situation and I would mention my perspective as well. However, he’ll always say that I am ‘defending’ myself when I am not. Yesterday I found out that the way I talk made him feel gaslighted and manipulated. When I told my friend (our mutual friend) on the what I said to my boyfriend, my friend also finds me manipulative, because of my choice of words it made him feel bad about himself.
This ended up made him tired. Yesterday he said that he is very tired and I made him a monster. He is usually a very chill, patient and calm guy. At the same time, is a person that moves on quickly because he doesn’t like negativity. My friend said that he cried while on the phone with him. And my friend said that he want to try to bring the both of us together and talk after hearing his perspective.
What do you think I should do? What do you think I should say? Or approach in this way!
PLEASE HELP ME 😢
Give yourselves time and don't push it. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html But for a comprehensive, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
But do we really want to go back with someone who dumped us and who is incapable of spontaneously say "I'm sorry, will you take me back?"?
No relationship is perfect and no two people are perfect either. Therefore, mistakes are bound to happen (both on your ex's side and your side as well) and problems tend to arise every now and then. It takes compromise and a willingness to work on the relationship to make it thrive, assuming it was a happy, healthy relationship prior. Letting ego destroy that is a choice. Bottom line is you just have to find someone who's worth the fight. If you haven't found one yet, the answer is to move on. Best of luck!
Hi Brad, she broke up with me but we still remain friends. The reason of our break up is because of to grow ourselves individually to be better in our own life but i still miss her dearly. I am anxious about no contact with her.
All those uncomfortable feelings are normal. You're not alone. However, being friends will only make it really tough for you in the long run. So that's a bad idea. Don't do it, man. She's lost attraction for you and it's a terrible idea to be friends with her. You ought to cut off contact for at least 30 days first. Silence is key and here's why: ua-cam.com/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/v-deo.html If you continue being friends right away, the boundaries won't be clear and you're technically both free to date other people. Wouldn't it be pure torture if your ex dates a rebound in front of you because you're only "friends" now, don't you think? So it’s not a good idea, especially if you want this ex back. Watch these two videos so you’ll know why being friends won’t lead you anywhere you wanna be with your ex and how to get out of this trap, respectively at ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html and ua-cam.com/video/sS4V4IOcOgs/v-deo.html but read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting. Good luck!
Hi Brad, we broke up a week ago and he wanted to stay friends. I was still answering his calls daily but after 24 hours I messaged him “Sorry, Ive just been really busy, and I know this break up is what you wanted.” Being friends right now is hard for me.
I wanted to be in a relationship with you,
But I don’t think being friends right atm is any good for either of us.
Please no hard feelings.
His reply “yep bye……”
And then blocked me on all social media…..
I have started no contact from yesterday, but is that the usual response?
It just seemed so emotionless…..
That response was perfect!
Any update? Just curious
My ex is very known to be stubborn about his decisions. He tells me I need to work on myself and he needs to figure out his life because everything is overwhelming him, but I shouldn’t count on us getting back together just in case because he doesn’t know, but for now it isn’t worth it to him.
Noted our “flame” didn’t burnt out and he was still lightly touchy, he doesn’t want to delete our photos either.
You all could use a break. Don't force things. If you're done with the "no contact" phase and therefore had sent one of these text messages for re-establishing contact, give your ex time to warm up slowly to you. Don't expect one text to work magic because it simply doesn't work that way. Getting an ex back is a process, therefore, learn to be patient and like I said, give her time to actually come close to you. She can't do that if you keep chasing her. Makes sense? Also, this may help: ua-cam.com/video/PBotQygy7os/v-deo.html
Brad,so I followed your advice for no contact and did it properly.today's my birthday and she texted me and called me and had a nice little chat for about 5 mins.It was hard but I did not show vulnerability and made her feel like I was happy and cheerful.although I didn't want to end the talk but as you said keep it short,I ended it.
I need you now more than ever .
what should be my next step?
Depends on which phase you're on. Never skip the "no contact" part! Watch this to get an overview on what steps you ought to take in each phase: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Best of luck!
Hi Brad, I have been watching your videos for a few months now. My Girlfriend and I of 5 years broke up in the middle of May. We finally had a conversation on the phone a day ago and talked for an hour. It was a productive conversation, but I'm wondering what I should do next in the process of getting back together
You're on the right path, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
After a breakup conversation she called me amazing. I let her down gently after 13years and she contacted me an hour later asking if the plans we made later that week are still on. wtf??
You can be gentle but make sure you're firm and steadfast on your decision if you've really make up your mind so as not to create confusion on your ex's end.
Hi brad I took your quiz however I think it is very limited . For instance it doesn't really give many options to choose. For example, my situation is based on a breakup. Because my ex's ex wife after six years came back into his life and wanted to try. However he was unsure and he didn't want to let me go period. However He seemed like he was going for it because she demanded to see his phone and found out about me. He is also a dismissive avoidant. Of course I know he might not ever come back. However, I think it's hard to give everybody a very general eyes limited quiz.
Hey thanks for your feedback! The quiz is designed mainly to the most common situations and scenarios. Since your situation is unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months now and we have been on a break for 4 days now and she still messes saying she still misses me but she she said she what’s to get back on track with her life and that’s why she wanted to go on a break but your advice does help so appreciate that 👍🏻
Glad you found it helpful! Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ua-cam.com/users/bradbrowning”
I did no contact for less than 24 hours and she got pissed saying why am I ignoring her...
Unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
Hi Brad. Thanks for the video (7 in total for me), and the ex factor guide. Long story short I broke up with my girl due to a few issues in the relationship. We both went into a tit for tat rubbish on social media which annoyed us both, basically jealousy. I called her Tuesday just gone after breaking the no contact rule to talk to her and to let her vent about the breakup. Just over an hours worth of conversation we both decided that we would make contact in 6 weeks time to discuss things further. Turns out after asking her if she still loves me but her love is dwindling due to me breaking up with her and the tit for tat stuff (not taking responsibility for her actions) but blaming me for mine.
I will continue with the 6 week no contact rule we set and then see what happens then.
Thanks again .
Yes, indeed. I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here : y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ua-cam.com/video/XonMtLFo000/v-deo.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
My ex didn't remove my photos on her social media till now, I told her to remove it because we are already over, but she won't comply, she just said a lot of excuses...
That's not bad at all. Try to see if she displays the rest of the signs mentioned on the vid too. The more, the merrier so they say! And especially if these signs go on past the 30-day no contact period. On your end, try not to do or say anything to provoke her at this time as that can easily overpower the good times you had and re-instate her reasons for having broken up with you. You can watch my other vids on what not to do. Good luck!
@@BradBrowning I asked her to remove it but she just straight up ignore me now.
Me and ex broke up about 7 months ago. In the past six months we used to meet up and be intimate with each other. But after i moved from that city contact reduced. He texted me 3weeks ago, telling me about how much he misses me and told me he doesn't know if he will ever find anyone like me. I told him to be patient he will find someone...last week i enrolled for a course that he is offering. Keeping it professional. We don't talk about anything personal anymore.
Do i have a chance with him again.?
Are you both single? Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE
Thank you! The future looks good!
You're welcome!
As a 62-year-old man who had been dating women since 1978. I would say move on and get someone else. You can almost never repair these modern women once they go astray they just aren’t gone for good . Listen up what you have to do is find somebody else that can appreciate you more than the ex did. And when you meet that new woman, make love to her as many times as possible and just get that out of your mind and ditch her. Especially if you’re a man !
(don’t chase replace) !
Thanks for sharing your experience. As you can tell, the first path towards moving on and getting an ex back follows the same route and here's how to tell you're doing it correctly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html Anyways it's always best to take your time in deciding first so there'll be no regrets in the end and folks get rid of the what-ifs on their mind and either move on for good or tried something. But as I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved or if it was overall a dysfunctional/toxic relationship. It's your life and it's your decision.
With regard to sign number 17, I asked my ex not long after the split if he was with someone else. His not so direct answer was that if he said yes I would go off on one. If he said no then I would call him a liar! So what do I take from that answer?!🤔😒
It's best not to ask questions if you're not ready for the answer. But really, it's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept his decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex boyfriend back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy
She does 10 of these but always stops before taking the leap to get back together. So frustrating 🤨
This is a pretty common theme unfortunately even if you've done the no contact rule properly. However, don’t destroy the progress you’ve made up to this point. Watch this to gain some insight on what to do: ua-cam.com/video/cC54YU-qU5Q/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/MK7NDfJTbDc/v-deo.html But if your ex is worth it and as long as you aren't being manipulated, and you still really wanna give it your best shot, then I'll be more than happy to put my focus on your situation. Sign up to my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
@@BradBrowning unfortunately I’m a poor pensioner and haven’t got the spare money to sign up to your program. Sorry.
Is it possible to still have feelings for an ex, many years and many relationships later?
If nobody compares to that person, then yes. But that's really not a healthy thing to do because nobody may ever compare to that specific person and you'd only end up dreaming your life away. Try to appreciate what you have or when you enter a relationship, make sure you're compatible on most things. HOWEVER, if you still wanna try with your ex, this is actually what my channel is about! :-) Since it's been many years since the breakup, it's best to consider the facts I've mentioned here first as this lets you determine whether there's still a real shot or not: ua-cam.com/video/YVViZmY2x0I/v-deo.html and/or take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hey, my girlfriend broke up with me, and suddenly she has someone else. Did she always have that person, and she was just hiding it from me? Or did she find someone as fast as possible to make me jealous?
Unfortunately I can't tell. You're the one in the relationship with her, were you seeing signs? It could be either way. It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept her decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and you can see that the 30-day "no contact" rule is an absolute must. I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, etc. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy
My ex and I broke up on April 2022 after 6 years, was an hard time for me because my mom was dealing with cancer, but he didn’t care, given that on December of the year before I told him that I cheated on him. I did a mistake after 5 years of me chasing his attention, his caring towards me, given that he was the best guy to give his attention to all the girls that he saw but me.
After 2-3 months of our brake up he texted me, because he saw me having fun with my friends, he just said “I hate Sunday’s evenings”. We started to talk to each other, I said him I was realizing that I never wanted do go back with him due to his detachment issues towards me during our relationship (that was my first relationship), so we stopped communicating for a month. On August we started talking again, he told me that he always wanted me but he never was able to show me or tell me how much I meant to him. He also told me that he was going on vacation with a male friend of his and 2 girls, that I didn’t know and he neither, so I told him I was going on vacation with the man that I cheated on him. At the begging of September , after he saw I really went to Sicily with that guy, he texted me “ So those are the ones that you define Men ..” and I didn’t hear from him again. A month after this text he started dating right away, with a girl that I don’t know where and when he met her, given that she wasn’t a friend of ours. I sent him a text at the end of October when my grandpa passed away, he didn’t visualize, I wrote him a mail at the end of November as well and he never replied, so I stopped chasing him. After three months they were dating, so on January 2023 his new girl (I hope rebound) started viewing all my instagram stories( she still does), and let me tell you that he doesn’t follow her on social media and she neither follows him. On February 2023, a few days after my birthday, he deleted all our pictures except 3 of them. In April 2023, so a year after we broke up he deleted the 3 left pictures. At the end of April he hided me his profile pic and his status info on WhatsApp, so he didn’t blocked me because if you block someone, this person will still be able to see your info status. Anyway I asked my sister to see if he changed his pic on WhatsApp and she said that he didn’t. A week after he changed his profile pic on WhatsApp, and he deleted my sisters number, so I asked my brother in law to see what was his profile pic, and I found out he putted a pic of him and his rebound dog. He used to post also pic of him and the dog on his Instagram profile, but never pictures of him and her together.
This month, July he started posting vides with the new girl, nothing particular, videos in with he is doing with here what he used to do with me, but I still don’t know what to think. Now I wonder is he over me, will he ever have the courage to text me and tell me that he messed up, and that he found out that not all the blame is on me?
My ex's bestf of 15 years came to me and said "I think u both shld talk" nd he kept on asking me "if I'll talk to him" or "if u want to talk to him". Do u think my ex is interested in talking to me?
Whether your ex is interested or not has got nothing to do with what your best friend says. But you know, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Do you think you're ready to give it a try? Watch this first to help set your expectations: y2u.be/82uUJ7kPXhE and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/v-deo.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working ONCE things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and the golden rules here: y2u.be/1kJ1ybuFIHE
My wife moved out and keeps talking about coming to get her stuff. I packed up some of it for her. She doesn’t know I done that yet. Was that a mistake?
Not at all.
Hello Brad i saw several among those signs and i got 70%on yr free quiz and my ex told me that we can talk about the cause of our breakup it seems like he wants to come back i love him we was planning to getting married before what can i do?
That's a good score! How long has it been since you two broke up though? Just be careful and try to see if you've reached that level of calm and clarity first before discussing serious topics. Doing so before you're both ready can do more harm than good and can lean to more misunderstandings and fights. I would suggest you get my Ex Factor Guide 2.0 and/or my coaching program so I would know more about the intricacies of your situation, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey brad. Had a big fifht about how she wasnt teating me right, she changed but as soon as things got toufh she went back to mistreating me. Durning the fight she did tell me if i leave we will never be apart of eachothers lives again (at the time was in duress)
So we Broke up about 5 weeks ago been in no contact since except for the one text she did send the day after. She has avoidment issues and bad mental trauma. I did treat her very well, in the end i left the door open saying you know where and how to find me should things change, obviously I would like her back. While i did pull the trigger she was either pushing me out or sabotaging until i pulled the trigger. As a result i feel im the hurt one and was in her starnge way broken up with
I am blocked on our main forms of communication but she has me on an alt account, unsure if she checks it though. Any advice?
I don't see this as a cause for concern really, unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. So give it time. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ua-cam.com/video/5UT92IB5ugs/v-deo.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ua-cam.com/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/v-deo.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ua-cam.com/video/D1GpR5MApQk/v-deo.html Good luck!
Why people don't understand that going back to their ex is like drinking back their vomit to vomit again.. easy equation isn't it!?
I understand what you're saying, but it's important not to judge as each person has his/her own reasons for why they either choose to get back together with an ex or let go totally. You can't speak for them because it's their life, not yours to decide. Granted, not all relationships are meant to be salvaged, especially abusive ones and/or one that involve numerous instances of infidelity, but some are worth saving. This all depends on what kind of relationship you have and if you decide to move on or fight for it. There is no wrong answer on whatever your decision is. :-) Anyway thanks for your input!
My ex said he will not come back. He said it many times. Should I still try to hold onto to the hope?
This is why you should stop asking for him back or show interest in a relationship and cut off communication instead. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html But for a comprehensive, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Hey brad, I signed up for ur one on one coaching, I need help
Hi! Have you received the coaching form? If you haven't, please contact support at support.exfactorguide.com as it could be a technical issue. Otherwise please take note of the time frame indicated since I need to review your situation thoroughly and have to cater to others who came before you. The timeframe is within 48 to 72 hours from when you submitted the coaching form back to me upon successful signup. Thanks for your understanding and talk soon!
@@BradBrowning I did, but you told me to do no contact. Which I've already done for 45 -60 days
My other half and I broke up a good while ago but he only collected some of his stuff, we are no longer in no contact and he still pops out to see me and he still contacts me from time to time, we are friends, he does sometimes send me hot and cold signs ... I know that my other half still cares about me
That's good, positive thinking, as long as you're truly okay with being friends and not have hopes in getting back together one day. Watch/review this first about being friends with an ex especially if there hasn't really been any time or space apart in between: ua-cam.com/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/v-deo.html
My Ex still has my photos on social media is it a sign
How much your one on one coaching brad convert to peso for 1 day one on one coaching
Hi! As well all know, currency exchange keeps fluctuating so I'm afraid I can't give you an exact amount, but it's $97/month (USD) if you're interested in my one-on-one email coaching. You can sign up here: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
How does no contact work if you work together and see each other most days at work?
Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
What if he still has you on facebook and adds you on his second facebook and still has your phone number on his phone
It's not really a solid sign especially since a lot of people are still Facebook friends with their exes online.
@@BradBrowning well we stopped talking because he said he didnt believe in love and wasnt looking for love and i was he did tell me im a good womeen and to find someone else because hes not a good person so i had no choice to leave it like that i told him to not bother me ever again or reply to me anymore a month later he came back trying to talk but i always ignored him becacause i felt i wasnt ready to talk yet i was still hurt since i put the most effort going to see him 3 hours. I also realized then sent me a friend request from his other facebook and i accepted he started posting alot of stories and would watch all mine and had messaged me on watsapp to all in which i ignored because then a few days later he told me he had so much desire to make love to me i told him thats disrespectful because im not easy like that and i didnt reply to him anymore a few days later he messaged again thru messenger with the same shit saying when was i gonna go over there to make love i ignored him a month later me sent me a text message asking when i was going to go over there this time i did reply and asked did he miss me he said yes i asked what do u miss about me and he said to see me and make love to me i told him i wanted to kiss him and make love to him all over his body like never before he said mm sounds delicious and sounds good i then told him i was going to sleep and wished him goodnight with a smily emoji but he didnt reply anymore leaving me hurt again stupid and confused
How do you do no contact if you have a kid together and still live together? I love her and I want to try anything I can to get her back but no contact is hard when we have a kid.
It's an uphill battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
Hi, I am in the no-contact terms with her for 2 week & to mention more precisely she saw me after the day of break up and didn't ulter a single word to me but i can see she is posting quotes that indirectly attacking me but i didn't bother so much, Is it an actually good sign too?
In some twisted way, your ex being emotional/angry about the breakup is good. As opposed to an ex being indifferent. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: ua-cam.com/video/STLjybyiaBQ/v-deo.html
Hey Brad! What happens if my score was 69 on your free Quiz? Do I still have a chance, or it's not enough?
Not too bad. Fading fast and therefore the need to act fast means to play your cards right from the get-go and not mess things up further, basically. Here's a quick overview: ua-cam.com/video/xgR03RcU8mw/v-deo.html It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex and definitely not in social media), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
@@BradBrowning Thanks for the insight Brad! But I already done the 30 days no contact, then something related to my ex’s ex got us back in contact few months ago! We talked (it was a hell of argument) then we ended up seeing each other many times, we even got intimate! But as time went on, she did express not wanting to a relationship but is still attracted to me, and we talk everyday! Regardless she still calls me “babe” at times and few days ago she said “my love” Im not sure what to think anymore! Don’t know what to do about this situationship!
Hi Brad, No contact rule work for third chance?
Last year, I used no contact rule, followed your tips and reconnected with my ex. Thank you very much for that. After 1 year of getting back him, our problems start again and the more I try to be okay in our relationship, the more tension he has to face and we break up as second time. Is it a right move if I use no contact rule this time also to get him back?
It's your best choice, yes. However, with on-and-off relationships, oftentimes this is a sign of underlying issues which have been left unaddressed for quite some time. It may be time to put things into perspective while it's still early because in 14 years spent as a relationship online coach alone, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ua-cam.com/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/v-deo.html But if you're interested in making this your last breakup, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching especially if there's an available spot. Good luck!
Brad I really need you help with sth about my ex is there a way to contact you because I want us to talk In private so you could help if you want to. She is like my other half and I really need you help because things are a bit complicated
Sure! Consider signing up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
My ex get jealous after caught me dating with someone after 2 weeks of break up and hes angry and blocked me in all social. What does it means I was guilty but we already broke up. Is there any possible to get him back?
There's no need to feel guilty. That's for your ex to deal with and come to terms with the breakup. However, it's a normal response. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/PN-07kAtIjw/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning thank you so much for the response I really need it a lot because until now I cant stop thinking about my guilt. But he was dating with other girls while we are together and not feeling guilty about it. He just want me to be he’s back up plan in case he fails with the other relationship.
Its has been 30 days (we dated for 2 year) he didnt contact only watchimg my stories and he was seeing someone before we actually broke up. I am dont think he wants me back . We were a situationship not exactly relationship.
Consider moving on from this, especially if it was just a fling to either you or your short-term ex, or both. Sorry but there may not be anything to rebuild here if that's the case because there wasn't any long term bonding or attraction that naturally develops in long term or serious relationships, especially if things got bad between you real quick because of the mistakes. On the brighter side, here's how the "no contact" rule will work for you, though:
ua-cam.com/video/4gqo4RjqUpo/v-deo.html However, you may want to improve your dating skills and Amy North may has a ton of tips on what to do about that, so check out her channel, too. Take care!
What do you think brad after 5 years of our relationship she dump me because i think im toxic in my relationship because that time she has many problem.
Life often gets in the way and relationships often get tested. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey Brad ! Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago ! Everything just perfect until his son wanted him stop with me ! Of course he have to choice his son ! We Been no contact 2 months ! Should I text him or not ! I love him so much
Other people's influence and outside opinion are all outside your control. It still has to be your ex's choice whether he allows himself to be influenced or not. In your case, unless his son has a valid reason why he's against you, then I'm sorry but he's not much of a partner if he can't fight for your relationship. But just continue to do you and focus on stuff within your control, yeah? Apply the tips here along with the other tips on my vid on what you can do in each phase, especially if you're not getting my guide: ua-cam.com/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/v-deo.html
Sometimes they call me and sometimes I message him, I complete no contact rules, after 1 month i talk to my ex many times Sometimes she Ripley very well but sometimes not , what did they really mean?
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
my ex come again and again after 2 year breakup every 2 , 3 or 4 months when i ask him for relationship he says he like someone else he don't love me and he block me and go and again he come after 3 month
plz suggest me something which is better for my life
You have clearly become your ex's backup plan. It's time to change that. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/rtXh72eWtYI/v-deo.html
sir after one year why I can't move on I want to move on but everyday every morning i think about him and stalk him he his happy with anyone else but he always try to connect v again and again after 3 to 4 months when I ask him can we comeback I love u l can't live without u i think about u every single day he says no every time and block me he came and he goes by blocking me
The breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: ua-cam.com/video/7zp7SFbeCRU/v-deo.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com
Super as always:)
Thanks for the support! :-) Please make sure you hit the notification bell icon after you've subscribed... if you haven't already. Take care!
Do all of them apply to a fearful or dismissive avoidant ex
You might wanna check this vid out where I discussed all about it: ua-cam.com/video/Xos3Z4h4HNE/v-deo.html
My wife of 26 years wants an open marriage this guy came from Michigan and she wanted to meet him alone for i showed up. I was jealous and toldd her i did not want an open marriage she said we don't have an open marriage we are done. We still live at home with her and sleep in the same bed and have spoken to her since 9/22/2023 only mirror interactions about bills notjing else i stay put late working. I am doing the limited no control im on week 3. I hope you can help save my marriage i show no emotions at all regular poker face. I hope it works what you said.
The process of saving one's marriage is a bit complicated and in fact, does NOT make use of the "no contact" rule... but this is why I've released a second book called Mend the Marriage. Check it out at www.marriageguy.com as everything is on there, from how to communicate more effectively, down to how to handle the kids (if applicable), monitor your progress through worksheets and stuff. But while I certainly need more information to know what's going on between you two for sure, I suggest you check out more marriage-saving tips which you may find useful, check out this new channel I've dedicated solely for this purpose. Here's the link: y2u.be/dr2JTi_bCRU or sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program at www.marriageguy.com/coaching Take care!
That women is nasty 🤮
She call me for some minutes.and says bye after a minute.she calls me after 3 days for a minute
How long has it been since the breakup? If it falls under the 30-day period, then unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: ua-cam.com/video/ek_4wpkV66c/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/W7iC-gHmZ2A/v-deo.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ua-cam.com/video/bgOG9s1fac8/v-deo.html
My ex broke up with me and brought the idea of fwb with i agree cause I don't want to lose him totally after a month of fwb i told him i wasn't longer interested again then after two weeks i reach out to him because I want him to know the reason why I ended the fwb but he says he doesn't want to hear my voice again then I stopped reaching out since then it been a month now have not heard from him what should I do
Sorry to hear that and I understand how you feel. You already lost him the minute he broke up with you though...and it's best not to fight it because it's going to be a completely new relationship between you and your ex if and when you get back together. The thing is, you're getting seriously demoted here and he may have lost interest further because of the suggestion. This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/npuQb1APSaU/v-deo.html
What if my ex brought my stuff back.
This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html
Hi Brad I am Eric And I am a gay guy who was in a relationship with another guy but it was for a couple of months and then I told him I cheated on him and I also was spying on him and tried to gain him back and I also tried to ask other 3:24 to help me but I couldn’t and now I don’t contact him and I haven’t heard anything from him since 1/1/2024 so how can i get him back and I feel I will not get him back again ever
Hey, Eric! This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/hMbzWr3QsjE/v-deo.html
Need help what does this mean we just broke up like 4 hours ago
Yw I wish you nothing but the best if you need I’ll still be here and I appreciate you for doing the same thing Definitely felt like it was real but ig not it was fun while it lasted I really thought shii was gone be straight I really fell in love with you that’s why this broke me but I’ll be straight fasho.
I’m here if you need to talk but nah this relationship is over fasho
Well for sure the emotional attraction dropped, hence the breakup. Give each other space first and go do your own thing.
I cheat him 2 months ago but I was in a relationship at the time and this month November 2023 I moved in and the guy I cheat him with texted me back threat me to tell him about what we did and I decided to tell and now he sayid we are roommates but we sleep same bad and he gives me mixed signals and he has told me to think about it to be his gf again and don’t lie to him and he doesn’t express much just hugs what do I do ?
Are you not back together already? It takes time to earn someone's trust back. Be patient with him throughout this process especially if your relationship is worth it. Good luck!
Where am i at in regards to my situation? Its been a month and two weeks since the break up. 7 days was the longest i could do no contact until she messaged me. Then we spoke for a couple days straight. Then she decides that its probably best we dont talk as often and that shell hit me up once a week. I just ok 🤷🏻♂️. Then she hits me up every two days after sending me pics of her and our cats, asking me how everything is going. And even talking about our sex together. That went on for two weeks until she finally called me over after acting all paranoid and jealous. So i went and we had crazy sex, after that she was falling asleep in my arms and then pops up and tells me i gotta leave. As i was leaving you was staring and smiling at me in infatuation and kissing me and hugging me. Then even stood at the door and watched as i walked away. The next day shes acting jealous again and tells me she shouldnt talk to me for awhile with how shes feeling and that she wishes we could have done more when we were together and that it seems like im “blossoming” without her. Then tells me thank you for the amazing sex it didnt even feel real, and proceeds to say i wont hear from her in awhile… so i said “am i here to entertain you until you find someone else?” “Im starting to realize theres no point in this since well never be together again? And she said “no how can you say that were still corgile” please give me some in-site on wtf is going on.
Having that talk may have ruined things, man. Watch and follow the tips here first: ua-cam.com/video/qoEZiPn9EH0/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/pXKPxAXaunc/v-deo.html but at the same time, also employ the following suggestions to get the ball rolling: ua-cam.com/video/gUBNd6pDINM/v-deo.html
@@BradBrowning idk she asked me last night if i could send her a pic of me in my work uniform, and i did. She loved it.
Hey brad, please reply he broke up with me telling he was emotionally drained/exhausted , he said maybe he will come back maybe he won't ,
What do i do? He still loves me but act cold, infact he was a sweetheart and now makes me feel like i am nothing for him
That kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a fresh/recent breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ua-cam.com/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/v-deo.html
Right so im in school and highschool Me and my ex dated from year 7 to first week to year 8 we dated for 2-3 months broke up 2 times but i had no contact w him for like 4 months Recently got his snap number added him we been talking he dated 1 person while we r still talking and he did date a girl at my school for 2 days but id really count it as a relationship so me and him r talking HE SEES MY SNAP STORYS ALL OF THEM THEN : he said u make me laugh on text : but before like last week he was in my lesson to do his science test THEN HE PUTS HIS COAT NEXT TO MINE is it just me or does he want me back?
How many of the signs from the vid do you see your ex displays? But you're both may be all too young to be dating seriously. So try to enjoy life as it happens and make all the mistakes you can and learn from it. Look, I know it's tough but now is a good time to know yourself more and find that inner strength to accept the breakup and be independent of your exas much as possible. Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact instead of the full on "no contact" rule. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ua-cam.com/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/v-deo.html AND ua-cam.com/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/v-deo.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning ok ty he called me a sl*g and f*ck off the other day and he put up the messages on his story soo yh i think ur right !
Brad its ok that i text her evening only with positive message ang funny emoji
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About your "crying point" don't you feel like some people can cry not because of us (or because of relationship) but because they feel sorry for themself? I fully applied your no contact rule, after some time we met and even though I felt some interest from my ex's side, he doesn't contact me, sometimes he is watching or reacting to my stories on social media and sometimes I feel like he is more trying to avoid even whatever I post. Not sure how this is gonna end up but NC brought me inner peace which is the most important for me now. But my point is... don't you wanna make some videos about meaning of when your ex is trying to avoid you? In which situation is it a good sign, bad sign, how to read this "hidden message" etc. Or something specific about their behavior on social media during the breakup?
Anyway, thank you for your work, it helped me a lot when I was at my worst.
Crying could be due to a mix of emotions, especially where a breakup is involved. How long has it been since the breakup? Your ex trying to avoid you is a natural response of all dumpers out there. That's just how the cookie crumbles. The "no contact" rule usually comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide. It helps to learn the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
@@BradBrowning Thank you! It's been almost two months since we broke up, but when we saw each other a few weeks ago, I could still see tears in his eyes while saying goodbye after our meeting and he cried during our break up a lot as well. But still, after I see he tries to avoid my stories and everything it feels very weird...
She had a date set up before she broke up with me
This likely means the breakup was unexpected/unplanned. What happened though? Did you two got into a fight? I still recommend to give each other time and space.
@@BradBrowning thank you so much for your reply, she wished me a happy new year (split on the 10th Dec)
I fell over 100 yards from her flat 2 Jan I explained what happened and said but I couldn't call you for help
She text am I OK she tried calling me, but I'm so emotionally drained with ut all I didn't respond or answer phone
I'm in bits over the split 6 year's relationship
Helps me please Brad
She's had time now broke on 10th Dec not heard from her in 2 weeks
Hi brad how should I ask my out
You shouldn't
@@mrnice7570 why
r y’all on good terms or what’s the situation
@@grimncs4158 that she likes me
How long has it been since the breakup and have you established positive rapport with her where she's receptive to you? Assess the risks first if it's all worth it. Remember, meeting up when you're both not ready will only alienate your ex further, and that's best case scenario. Worst case scenario will land you a spot in the dreaded friendzone. Watch this first: ua-cam.com/video/Jzb18j7ZMPE/v-deo.html but if you're both ready, watch this video on how to tell as well as how tips for you on tipping the odds to your favor: ua-cam.com/video/eJPGrkuQnm0/v-deo.html Best of luck!
I love my ex very much and i want her back in my life but I don't want to marry her because in past and in between of our relationship she dated many mens and slept with them for having a better future patner opportunities but all of them used her and dumped her but i didn't know about it cause i blindly trust her then one day I get to know about this and was broken inside so i thought of taking revenge by staying into relationship and making new and deep memories of us daily basis now i took initiative and broke up with her it's been 5 months now she not contacted me either i
But i usually see her dating new mens hanging out sleeping with them
I feel jealous depressed with it but i never show her this thing of mine
But now my heart is pushing me towards her and saying to get her back in my life cause i feel alone without her nothing feel good no activity seems interesting socialization is also something i don't like I'm loosing interests in everything in my work in family in my friends
Should i go and make things better again and bring her in my life or should i move on but moving on is really tuff for me I can't help my self 😞
@bradbrowning sir can you help me in this ?
Sorry to hear that, man. It does sucks the first few weeks of a breakup so it's important to really take care of yourself, yeah? This vid is for you: ua-cam.com/video/Oyu0S8ieWTs/v-deo.html
Dear Brad,
Me and my ex-girlfriend had 18 days of no contact.She reached Out. She came back for things. We saw each other and decided to try dating, no relationship and no big promises. We had 4 very successful meetings with kisses and tenderness, a lot of conversations, sincere thoughts and planned outings.
She called me one day before work, but we had a fight over a simple thing. I suggested a calm explanation of the topic and conversation. She was supposed to call back tonight - she didn't. We wrote for a while in the evening, but she didn't want to talk, write, and didn't want to meet. Since then we have had no contact again for 10 days. What to do?
But where Brad?
I can Not See your answer or Link
@MikeMelganwhere?
If you ask me, it's really all too soon to be doing all that... and it simply doesn't work that way. This vid should hopefully help you see things clearly about the importance of the "no contact" rule as well as the common challenges and how to overcome them: ua-cam.com/video/WVB0_l60SpM/v-deo.html Feel free to check out my other vids as well, especially this which should give you an idea on how to go about this: ua-cam.com/video/7JtmVbDkblw/v-deo.html But for a comprehensive, step-by-step procedure though, consider getting my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
My ex shows majority of the signs yet when I ask him (yes, I'm in a gay relationship) if he's ready to rekindle things back with us, he always says he's not yet ready. He cheated on me and chose to be with the guy he cheated on me with and I'm always anxious of the possibility that they might end up together especially that I am doing no contact, since they're in constant communication. What should I do about this? I am skeptical that he's not ready because he already has someone new and I am firm that the guy was just his rebound however, I'm still skeptical about it.
Sorry to hear that. I know it's devastating. However, you really have no control over someone else's actions. Sorry, but chances are your beau has been at least emotionally cheating on you. Discussed that in depth here: y2u.be/7KE6nb4-ndA There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and asking to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ua-cam.com/video/m27TLeyUmwg/v-deo.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway
men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Whatever the case, it's important you forgive yourself because no one's perfect, and forgive your ex too. Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place but never force things with him if you can see he no longer wants to try. Take care!
For me i just dream my ex oftenly
Your brain is catching up with your heart, it seems. Dreams are merely a reflection of the subconscious and doesn't depict reality at all. I'm no dream expert but it seems like your subconscious is finding ways to cope with the breakup. For signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ua-cam.com/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/v-deo.html
Hey brad ...i really need your help,hope you will reaply to me .
I meet a girl in college 2 years ago and we were freinds for a while,the i want to take it to next level because i liked her and i want to know her better,so i told her that,she was surprised and respectful and ok with that,and we started to hang out and talk to each other everyday,and there was a chemistry between us and everything was jouful and fine,we kept that for 6 mounth,and started to fall in love with her,and i thought it was the time do tell her that and i felt like she was too.
I confessed my love to her,and she told me that she is feeling the same way but needed more time so she can tell me by her will,after a mounth of that we broke up because she didnt feel the same to me after all this time ...and she didnt want to lose our friendship because we were so closed as freinds in the first place..and i was ok with that in the first place but then i changed my minde and needed some space to figure this out..,after 2 mounths she talk to me and wanted to become freinds like befor and i sayed yes because i was missing her so much in that time..we reamin freinds but not like before,we are about a year on this situation,we talk from then to then...i see her in college..but not like before.
I want to get back to her and have a romantic relationship with her idont wanna to be a friend,i dont know what to do and were to start ..and dont want it to be akward after all this time,and right now iam very good with myself and i accomplished many thing and she impressed to the person i become...but i dont know what to tell her ...should i ask her for a date ?
Please help me and thanks for your time .
P.S iam 23 she 22
Yes, take her out on a date but take it slow and you need to up your seducing techniques. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
My gf of 4 years broke up with me 2 days ago; this is the second time she wanted to end things. Last time it was cause she was upset I never apologized when I did things to upset her, this time it’s cause it’s cause she says I haven’t expressed how she makes me feel and treating the relationship more like a friendship and now has lost romantic feelings for me. I acted on my emotions at first and begged for one last chance ( which is something that has been repeated several times throughout the relationship) but am currently doing nc but I’m afraid this is really the end and she won’t come back.
Were you not putting in the effort to win her affection? Might be a lesson learned for you there. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ua-cam.com/video/OzVymYnQFTk/v-deo.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ua-cam.com/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/v-deo.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ua-cam.com/video/6K3xufEwEFg/v-deo.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Please no contact
Ok well I work at Walmart only one in my city and my ex was there at 7:30 I stayed later then usual and she saw me and like ig bolted but I saw her staring like 7 or 8 times so idk but I'm good
Great!
I should have seen this 4months ago😔😔
Do the best with what you have and apply whatever tips you still can from my videos. Best of luck!
Sir, I REALLY NEED YOUR REPLY PLEASE , i watched all your videos , ALL OF IT, he broke up saying he was exhausted due to some personal reasons and he said that i feel like i cannot go back to who i was now, he is totally change , and give a different vibe , also he said that he loves me but can't be together because he believe that it is right person, wrong timing thing with both of us, and all of it is depend on a maybe , that maybe we will get back , maybe we not , i am in no contact right now from a week, what else should i do ? This was my one and only love and he loves me too , but not coming together . What do i do ?also he is hot and cold towards me and sometimes even say things like "why do you want me to act like a lover ? We are exes and thats how things work " and stuff like that , behaves , also makes no efforts for me anymore , he is really exhausted and mentally battling things i know that for sure , but he gave up on us that is what hurts me a lot , he was so obsessed so loving , even die for me and now all changed,loves me but being distant acting cold like he does not care about me and acting all different like i am nothing , HOW CAN HE LOVE ME AT THE SAME TIME AND NOT WANT A RELATIONSHIP , he said he is not mentally able to be in a relationship but he want to be friends with me after breakup and be on good terms like good friends , also he said if we ever come back , it will be great, if we don't come back together, then okay , he said it depends on future and he can't tell future right now , he said that he feels numb and no emotions at all , and this is happening with him since a month , we broke up a 20 days ago ,what do i actually do here in this, he also said that if i need him in anything i can contact him and he will be there anytime cos he loves me , but acting like a total jerk
Sorry to hear that. It's a bad idea to be friends with an ex right after the breakup. This vid should help you understand things better: ua-cam.com/video/DD22EJVvLwY/v-deo.html
My Ex still has my photos on social media is it a sign
Hi Brad I am Eric And I am a gay guy who was in a relationship with another guy but it was for a couple of months and then I told him I cheated on him and I also was spying on him and tried to gain him back and I also tried to ask other 3:24 to help me but I couldn’t and now I don’t contact him and I haven’t heard anything from him since 1/1/2024 so how can i get him back and I feel I will not get him back again ever
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