i honestly feel so lucky to have the internet. people can discover things about themselves after persistent searching that just instantly click with their experience, and it's the most relieving thing in the world to be able to put a name to it, to know you're not alone, and to know their are solutions out there.
For the last two years vaginismus has been ruining my life. I've had amazing breakthrough followed by crushing setbacks. Every time I think I can have a normal marriage and kids it's like it flares up and gets worse. I know it's treatable but the way I feel right now is this thing I have is killing me inside.
I can totally feel this pain. I am in the same position and no matter how much I have achieved in the life but this one thing makes me down and I started raising doubts in myself. How entire world can do it and I cannot.
Not quite the entire world as vaginismus is quite common. We're happy to discuss treatment options if you contact us directly at doctors@womentc.com or +15165761118
Vaginismus never took this much of my identity away. I never allowed it to but also because I am not that interested in having children. For me it has been PTSD that holds me back. I’m so proud of her for sharing her story. I’m almost cured. It’s very up and down. It comes and goes in waves. I did more work emotionally than I did physically or psychologically.
I know the very real pain of vaginismus and the feelings of inadequacy it brings, but there is hope ladies. I suffered with this for years but now I’m able to enjoy passionate sex and I four beautiful children. It took effort and therapy and not giving up, but I enjoy the journey and came out the other end. Seek help. Don’t give up 💞💞
Stacey Swope it's very inspiring, i have it to and i want it to go. How did you do? Can you say what helped you? Was it more pyschologic exercises with a psychologue or more "body exercises"? Pardon my bad english, I am french! :)
My wife has this condition. We have been married for 25 years, and she would never talk about it, acknowledge it, or seek treatment when I found it for her. We have been married for 25 years, we basically live as roommates, we have no kids, and I feel miserable. I married her for better or worse, and our marital bed has been for the worse. If you have this problem, PLEASE be willing to discuss this with your significant other. If you cannot discuss it (and your significant other stays with you), you are absolutely killing another soul who eats to be one with you, and they (through all the pain of the situation) will stay with you. I am heartbroken over this situation, and I have to admit a lot of animosity over the situation, but I am still faithful to my wife.
So sorry to read of your sad journey. Not sure it would be comforting but, we've had other such vaginismus cases with the longest unconsummated marriage being 27 years, and one who was still a virgin after 26 years of marriage (and doing great in treatment). It would be so therapeutic to your wife if there is any way you can get her to watch our videos/read the website/open up, so she won't think she is the 'only one' with vaginismus, nor that she is doomed to live like this forever. If interested in further discussion, contact us at 516.576.1118 or via email to doctors@womentc.com
Wow,thank God I am not alone,I only used an tampon one time in my life ,if only men's understand but instead most don't care as long as they are enjoying themselves.
Thank you for sharing.. I also suffering vaginismus, I'm married almost 3 years.. so sad, because I do not know to whom I can share my problem. Friends, family always ask me about baby..😣
I also had this problem.... now I overcome this problem. I suffered from 3 and half years... here in india we have an excellent doctor DR. SHARMILA MAJUMDAR. She is a goddess for me... From INDIA SORRY for my bad english
Love 😍 it. Rashi you have described feelings totally. I feel the same. It is horrible to have this condition. No one cares, no help from anyone, no help from the NHS, anxiety, hopelessness. So glad you shared.
Indeed, vaginismus can be emotionally devastating. Happy to be of help if you can come to us in New York for treatment. Direct all discussion to doctors@womentc.com
I'm 26 yrs old I just find out i might suffer from vaginismus because I can't really insert thing inside there, I never wear a tampons every time I try to have sex it always a painful.
Look up hypertonic pelvic floor dysfunction. After 17 years of pain I finally have a correct diagnosis. I don't want anyone else to have to be in pain for as long as I have been!
My marriage life ended up 8 years ago because of vaginismus.. I thought that I’m only woman had this problem. Just one month ago I knew that my problem called as vaginismus and have medical treatment for it…if any mothers read my comment “remember to educate your daughter about it “ it will be useful for their happy marriage life. 🙂
So sorry to read about your vaginismus struggle. We are here for you if you want to be treated and cured. Contact our office at either 516.576.1118 or by email to doctors@womentc.com
Look up hypertonic pelvic floor dysfunction. After 17 years of pain I finally have a correct diagnosis. I don't want anyone else to have to be in pain for as long as I have been!
I'm suffering from vaginismus for over 7 years. Is it normal that I don't want to try any more. I know what i need to do to cure that but ... for me "sex" could not exist. I don't feel anything :-(
This is a typical reaction by many women with vaginismus. It is hoped that you can explore other means of sexual intimacy beside vaginal intercourse, such as oral sex, manual sex, etc. There is no reason to be shutdown sexually because of vaginismus!
Women's Therapy Center - vaginismus, painful sex, cancer, Maybe I've explained that in a wrong way. What I meant, from time to time I want to hug or kiss my husband but overall I don't feel that I need those things. Maybe it's very low libido or something, I don't know. .. I would like to mention that my period is very irregular. But my blood test results are fine. I don't know what to do , I don't know what to think. I feel like a loser. ..
Not an usual situation for a long-standing vaginismus. Hoping you can separate the condition from the rest of your sexual intimacy life and get back to enjoying it. And, of course, explore means to cure the vaginismus!
prostowoczy2 - Yes, in my experience I went through many highs and lows as I battled vaginismus for three years. At times I gave up because the fight was exhausting and took so much out of me, but in the and I didn’t give up. I was determined to fight it and beat it, and I did eventually. I was diagnosed 20 years ago and I’m great now. Don’t give up hope! Take breaks when you need to and give your body and mind rest when you need to, but don’t ever give up. The rewards are worth it!! 💝🌸
Thank you for this video.. but i don’t understand why people are scared ro have vaginism while being married. Its the same as being in a relationship, and your husband, if he loves you well (or wife btw) will definitely understand
It's nice that she is sharing this, but what I notice in this kind of videos is that they don't talk about the process and cost og treatmen which is in fact a central issue.
Actually, the central issue is understanding vaginismus; the rest are just logistics. As to the process, you can find info on our website. Administrative details are managed via email to our office.
M 25 years virgin girl n I felt my pelvic muscles are contracted once I was reading about viginismus I ignored but after a couple of years I was reading n the word vaginismus comes n I searched about vaginismus n I felt like m also suffering from vaginismus like feeling contracted in pelvic muscles stiffness in body n whenever I thought about sex i feels different sensations in my lower body something like tingling but different type of tingling n contractions . I did with 2 fingers n it’s not easy but I did then I tried with 3 fingers then I felt like I have a second heart in my vagina like systole diastole I need help in diagnosis n treatment if m suffering with this .. what to do ???please help
Look up hypertonic pelvic floor dysfunction. After 17 years of pain I finally have a correct diagnosis. I don't want anyone else to have to be in pain for as long as I have been!
She was cured by us utilizing our specialized treatment methodology. As to self cure, try using dilators (can be purchased online) and see if you can sort this out.
Unless you personally have vaginismus, you have zero right to just say "try using dilators". That's not helpful from a psychological perspective. That's purely physical. Not everyone vaginismus is even physical. So dilators won't help with mental health.
Yes, join Private Pain, our vaginismus group on Facebook where you can meet others and chat with them about the condition. For more information, contact us at doctors@womentc.com
sabrinacoolest my husband divorced me because of vaginismus.. after 8 years of marriage.. I feel hopeless.. I want to be completely cured.. but here in Kerala, India I see no scope for proper sincere guidance. I can insert my index finger with great discomfort.. I ve almost given up .. I need help as am in love again.. I don't want to lose him.
I’m 18 years old and I have problem as well for me sex is painful. What can I do about it ? I might be have as well vaginismus . I haven’t seen yet doctor .
Hi I have suffer from vaginismus from 2 yrs but till yet can't be cure my doctor suggested to do surgery but I can't afford that much expences can u please help me without surgery how I can cure because of this vaginismus my husband left me and I'm alone
So sorry to read of your suffering. Happy to be of help if you can come to us in New York for treatment as we must see you in person in order to cure the vaginismus. Please direct communication to doctors@womentc.com
We look forward to being of help. Please contact the office for further discussion and details, and include where you are located geographically: doctors@womentc.com
Hi , I am also suffering the same.But by gods grace I have a child after 1 year of my marriage and she is 5 years now.My husband is not happy with the sex life with me .He gets irritated and stressed totally with this, and is at the verge of divorce. Is it truly vaginismus or only fear .can anyone advise
We can solve this problem without visiting Here and There it is my experience since 2yars my wife also suffering from veginismas but after 2 years we got sucsess from dailetor and jell
Happy to be of help if you can come to us for treatment - we have the answer to curing vaginismus. Please direct communication to our office at doctors@womentc.com or by calling us at 516.576.1118
i honestly feel so lucky to have the internet. people can discover things about themselves after persistent searching that just instantly click with their experience, and it's the most relieving thing in the world to be able to put a name to it, to know you're not alone, and to know their are solutions out there.
For the last two years vaginismus has been ruining my life. I've had amazing breakthrough followed by crushing setbacks. Every time I think I can have a normal marriage and kids it's like it flares up and gets worse. I know it's treatable but the way I feel right now is this thing I have is killing me inside.
sorry to hear this :( i feel the same. how are you getting on now?
Please get treatment
same and iam living in pakistan where we can’t share this with anyone
Same here.. going through treatments
How are you now?
I can totally feel this pain. I am in the same position and no matter how much I have achieved in the life but this one thing makes me down and I started raising doubts in myself. How entire world can do it and I cannot.
Not quite the entire world as vaginismus is quite common. We're happy to discuss treatment options if you contact us directly at doctors@womentc.com or +15165761118
You are very brave to share your story. Thank you. I only learn about this illness recently and this helps me too.
Thank you for posting this! You are so courageous for sharing!
Vaginismus never took this much of my identity away. I never allowed it to but also because I am not that interested in having children. For me it has been PTSD that holds me back. I’m so proud of her for sharing her story. I’m almost cured. It’s very up and down. It comes and goes in waves. I did more work emotionally than I did physically or psychologically.
Vaginismus affects different women in different ways. Wishing you continued success on the way to a full recovery!
Hi can I help you
I know the very real pain of vaginismus and the feelings of inadequacy it brings, but there is hope ladies. I suffered with this for years but now I’m able to enjoy passionate sex and I four beautiful children. It took effort and therapy and not giving up, but I enjoy the journey and came out the other end. Seek help. Don’t give up 💞💞
Stacey Swope it's very inspiring, i have it to and i want it to go. How did you do? Can you say what helped you? Was it more pyschologic exercises with a psychologue or more "body exercises"? Pardon my bad english, I am french! :)
Stacey Swope I really need help with this
Stacey Swope what treatments did you have Stacey? Do you need therapy? Would it help?
hi...how can i understand that i have this type of problem or not?
Plz tell me something about treatment
im so glad that you figured it out. hope u stay happy
My wife has this condition. We have been married for 25 years, and she would never talk about it, acknowledge it, or seek treatment when I found it for her. We have been married for 25 years, we basically live as roommates, we have no kids, and I feel miserable. I married her for better or worse, and our marital bed has been for the worse. If you have this problem, PLEASE be willing to discuss this with your significant other. If you cannot discuss it (and your significant other stays with you), you are absolutely killing another soul who eats to be one with you, and they (through all the pain of the situation) will stay with you. I am heartbroken over this situation, and I have to admit a lot of animosity over the situation, but I am still faithful to my wife.
So sorry to read of your sad journey. Not sure it would be comforting but, we've had other such vaginismus cases with the longest unconsummated marriage being 27 years, and one who was still a virgin after 26 years of marriage (and doing great in treatment). It would be so therapeutic to your wife if there is any way you can get her to watch our videos/read the website/open up, so she won't think she is the 'only one' with vaginismus, nor that she is doomed to live like this forever. If interested in further discussion, contact us at 516.576.1118 or via email to doctors@womentc.com
Best man ever.. hope things get better, you do know that she needs you more than anything else in this world
God bless you both. I hope she is in a better condition now.
Wow,thank God I am not alone,I only used an tampon one time in my life ,if only men's understand but instead most don't care as long as they are enjoying themselves.
Thank you for sharing.. I also suffering vaginismus, I'm married almost 3 years.. so sad, because I do not know to whom I can share my problem. Friends, family always ask me about baby..😣
Aimuni Mun where are you from? You can see a doctor to resolve this problem... you should talk to a doctor
I also had this problem.... now I overcome this problem. I suffered from 3 and half years... here in india we have an excellent doctor DR. SHARMILA MAJUMDAR.
She is a goddess for me...
From INDIA
SORRY for my bad english
@@himanshreddy713 can you pls advise the address of doctor's hospital
@@himanshreddy713 I m also suffering from this problem.. Plzz can you tell me ye docter mujhe thik kar sakti hai? Help me plzzz😌😌
@@himanshreddy713hi
Love 😍 it. Rashi you have described feelings totally. I feel the same. It is horrible to have this condition. No one cares, no help from anyone, no help from the NHS, anxiety, hopelessness. So glad you shared.
Indeed, vaginismus can be emotionally devastating. Happy to be of help if you can come to us in New York for treatment. Direct all discussion to doctors@womentc.com
I'm 26 yrs old I just find out i might suffer from vaginismus because I can't really insert thing inside there, I never wear a tampons every time I try to have sex it always a painful.
So identified with you! I have vaginismus and I am going into my first physiotherapy apt in a couple of days. I am a bit nervous about it
Yes, sounds absolutely like it. I was diagnosed with it 20 years and I’m good now but is was a process. It takes dedication- you can’t give up! 💗
Look up hypertonic pelvic floor dysfunction. After 17 years of pain I finally have a correct diagnosis. I don't want anyone else to have to be in pain for as long as I have been!
Its so painful. I cry everyday. Newly married and still a virgin becoz penetrance is not possible
@@anastasiaaa4094 Hey did you overcome this?
My marriage life ended up 8 years ago because of vaginismus.. I thought that I’m only woman had this problem. Just one month ago I knew that my problem called as vaginismus and have medical treatment for it…if any mothers read my comment “remember to educate your daughter about it “ it will be useful for their happy marriage life. 🙂
So sorry to read about your vaginismus struggle. We are here for you if you want to be treated and cured. Contact our office at either 516.576.1118 or by email to doctors@womentc.com
@@Womentc please help mee i have same prblm...
@@shezamurtazaa4454 For treatment information, contact us at doctors@womentc.com or call our office 516.576.1118
did u recover?
I am so lost, I dont know what to do with my pain anymore
Look up hypertonic pelvic floor dysfunction. After 17 years of pain I finally have a correct diagnosis. I don't want anyone else to have to be in pain for as long as I have been!
Jade Alves ..good
Just relax! Reminder to you and myself, you will get through it. God is great just be hopeful 🌸
Hi can I help 😮
I'm suffering from vaginismus for over 7 years. Is it normal that I don't want to try any more. I know what i need to do to cure that but ... for me "sex" could not exist. I don't feel anything :-(
This is a typical reaction by many women with vaginismus. It is hoped that you can explore other means of sexual intimacy beside vaginal intercourse, such as oral sex, manual sex, etc. There is no reason to be shutdown sexually because of vaginismus!
Women's Therapy Center - vaginismus, painful sex, cancer,
Maybe I've explained that in a wrong way. What I meant, from time to time I want to hug or kiss my husband but overall I don't feel that I need those things. Maybe it's very low libido or something, I don't know. .. I would like to mention that my period is very irregular. But my blood test results are fine. I don't know what to do , I don't know what to think. I feel like a loser. ..
Not an usual situation for a long-standing vaginismus. Hoping you can separate the condition from the rest of your sexual intimacy life and get back to enjoying it. And, of course, explore means to cure the vaginismus!
Women's Therapy Center - vaginismus, painful sex, cancer, could u give me ur email id
prostowoczy2 - Yes, in my experience I went through many highs and lows as I battled vaginismus for three years. At times I gave up because the fight was exhausting and took so much out of me, but in the and I didn’t give up. I was determined to fight it and beat it, and I did eventually. I was diagnosed 20 years ago and I’m great now. Don’t give up hope! Take breaks when you need to and give your body and mind rest when you need to, but don’t ever give up. The rewards are worth it!! 💝🌸
Thank you for this video.. but i don’t understand why people are scared ro have vaginism while being married. Its the same as being in a relationship, and your husband, if he loves you well (or wife btw) will definitely understand
Congrats and thanks for sharing and giving me hope
It's nice that she is sharing this, but what I notice in this kind of videos is that they don't talk about the process and cost og treatmen which is in fact a central issue.
Actually, the central issue is understanding vaginismus; the rest are just logistics. As to the process, you can find info on our website. Administrative details are managed via email to our office.
Is anybody else just entirely unable to have anything inside? I’m 20 years old and have never even been able to insert a tampon.
Of course; we've had many vaginismus cases like that! read more atwww.womentc.com/conditions-and-treatments/penetration-pain-disorders/vaginismus/
Thank you for sharing this. It take alot of courage ❤thank you and feeling happy you are happy
You are so welcome
Plz help me I also have this problem ....how it is treat plz tell it's my humble request I m so depress ed
M 25 years virgin girl n I felt my pelvic muscles are contracted once I was reading about viginismus I ignored but after a couple of years I was reading n the word vaginismus comes n I searched about vaginismus n I felt like m also suffering from vaginismus like feeling contracted in pelvic muscles stiffness in body n whenever I thought about sex i feels different sensations in my lower body something like tingling but different type of tingling n contractions . I did with 2 fingers n it’s not easy but I did then I tried with 3 fingers then I felt like I have a second heart in my vagina like systole diastole I need help in diagnosis n treatment if m suffering with this .. what to do ???please help
Get a proper diagnoses.
I thnk I hv the sm prblm ... but dnt knw wht to do ?!!
Hi can I help you 😮
I don't want sex too and can't fit anything in but it doesn't bother me, I just hop from a guy to another. before the point of having sex
Look up hypertonic pelvic floor dysfunction. After 17 years of pain I finally have a correct diagnosis. I don't want anyone else to have to be in pain for as long as I have been!
How did u get cured...plz tell something about that...Can we cure vaginismus without going to a doctor?
She was cured by us utilizing our specialized treatment methodology. As to self cure, try using dilators (can be purchased online) and see if you can sort this out.
Unless you personally have vaginismus, you have zero right to just say "try using dilators". That's not helpful from a psychological perspective. That's purely physical. Not everyone vaginismus is even physical. So dilators won't help with mental health.
Just please go to a doctor
@@Womentc can I find women therapy centre in Malaysia?
@@thezanarose it definitely helped for me...i overcame vaginismus
Very touchy ur story is......what is the treatment of this issue plz tell
Dear Ms. Khan, visit out website www.womentc.com for more information and/or contact us at doctors@womentc.com. We look forward to being of help.
Hi can I help
God bless u...love u
I thought you wanted to help us with what you used to treat yourself and get better
is there a forum that women can chat about things support , and can I talk to this lady
Yes, join Private Pain, our vaginismus group on Facebook where you can meet others and chat with them about the condition. For more information, contact us at doctors@womentc.com
Women's Therapy Center - vaginismus, painful sex, cancer, can I join cause this need to stop
Go to Facebook and search for Private Pain (our support group). Follow instructions for how to join.
sabrinacoolest my husband divorced me because of vaginismus.. after 8 years of marriage.. I feel hopeless.. I want to be completely cured.. but here in Kerala, India I see no scope for proper sincere guidance. I can insert my index finger with great discomfort.. I ve almost given up .. I need help as am in love again.. I don't want to lose him.
I’m 18 years old and I have problem as well for me sex is painful. What can I do about it ? I might be have as well vaginismus . I haven’t seen yet doctor .
can there be a video by the husbands perspective
There is one on our channel!
thank you for sharing..
Is there a way to connect to this woman? I would really like to talk with her
Let us know if we can be of further assistance.
www.womentc.com/conditions-and-treatments/penetration-pain-disorders/vaginismus/
Hi I have suffer from vaginismus from 2 yrs but till yet can't be cure my doctor suggested to do surgery but I can't afford that much expences can u please help me without surgery how I can cure because of this vaginismus my husband left me and I'm alone
So sorry to read of your suffering. Happy to be of help if you can come to us in New York for treatment as we must see you in person in order to cure the vaginismus. Please direct communication to doctors@womentc.com
hi..
I'm a male and want to marry vaginismus women,
due to not interested in sex,
pls reply
thank you so much! can we know the cost? can we go there in New York?
We look forward to being of help. Please contact the office for further discussion and details, and include where you are located geographically: doctors@womentc.com
How to contact from Pakistan?
You can email us at doctors@womentc.com
Do you have any kids now?
Can I help you
But how u cure it mam
Contact our office for treatment options doctors@womentc.com
Hi ,
I am also suffering the same.But by gods grace I have a child after 1 year of my marriage and she is 5 years now.My husband is not happy with the sex life with me .He gets irritated and stressed totally with this, and is at the verge of divorce.
Is it truly vaginismus or only fear .can anyone advise
@@brightyrynold please try using dialator...it really worked for me
Who cured you??
We did. She was treated by us.
Wtc means what mam i am suffering from this prob for3 yrs
Contact our office for treatment options. doctors@womentc.com
Where can we get help in india
We can solve this problem without visiting Here and There it is my experience since 2yars my wife also suffering from veginismas but after 2 years we got sucsess from dailetor and jell
Regrettably, we do not know of any clinician in India who offers what we do. So sorry.
@@abdurrehmanishaque8055 can you tell what gel you used.
@@zanthozantho6964 yas are you still need sorry for delay
@@abdurrehmanishaque8055 yes can you tell the gel name
I just got to know I have this problem please hep
Happy to discuss further if you email us: doctors@womentc.com
❤❤❤❤❤
I am you 😥 so helpless
Happy to be of help if you can come to us for treatment - we have the answer to curing vaginismus. Please direct communication to our office at doctors@womentc.com or by calling us at 516.576.1118