Dating in Your 20s: What It's REALLY Like for Guys

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  • @chenitals
    @chenitals Рік тому +209

    Thank you for the date, Dr. Yoo, but I didn't feel the spark. It was nice getting to know you, but I think we're better off as just friends😊 #friendzoned

  • @Dee14444
    @Dee14444 Рік тому +43

    Its really stressfull to find someone nowadays to settle down with. Not sure if its because the concept of boundaries and standards are so well defined these days, and no one is ready to compromise in any aspect. Its super hard now.

  • @gsyl
    @gsyl Рік тому +16

    Choosing to stay single focusing on a career path, and remaining positive, while promoting self-care is an all Win,Win situation 🏆. Nothing to regret! You didn't miss out on anything 😊
    No worries Dr. Yoo, You're going places n o matter what! lol....
    Love your vlogs no matter the topic. They 're always fun and informative. Stay happy and blessed 😊

  • @fireystella
    @fireystella Рік тому +14

    Wow I realized maybe I’m in a unicorn relationship 😂 I’m in my mid/late twenties but I don’t feel tied down.. maybe bc I’m in a ldr or feel free to do whatever I want anyways but I never felt like being in a relationship held me back.. in fact it’s definitely helped me see new perspectives

  • @jeannine0893
    @jeannine0893 Рік тому +14

    Im 29 years(turning 30 in October) and still not in the ,dating' scene.. i can't imagine to spend my life with someone for my rest of my life yet😅i love your videos👌🏽🙈 Greetings from 🇩🇪

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому

      aahahaha i think we've all felt that at one point, and many still do

  • @Jhen0407
    @Jhen0407 Рік тому +14

    Been waiting for this updated/latest video of Dr.John 😁😁 and as soon as I got off from work and saw this, hahaha I've watch it immediately and when I got home I've watched it again. Can't get off my eyes to this Kpop Dentist and Bro's. I am longing to have the kind of friendship you have with the Bro's, but it's impossible because I am a introvert person. But still I am contented watching you guys...Please always keep the good vibes and friendship, stay healthy and happy. Keep safe always please.. You always bring happiness and positive vibes to us...Keep safe ✌️💪.

  • @xuraverageuser
    @xuraverageuser Рік тому +4

    I know the comments section is pretty serious but just wanna stop for a sec and ask ARE ALL JOHNS IN NYC HOT OR WHAT???
    fun video regardless 😂

  • @sanychi1016
    @sanychi1016 Рік тому +10

    Just a 30 yr old woman, without 'all figured out' already and just now getting to that stage of figuring it out, planning and envisioning it, passing by to say - we exist. xD

  • @rur1279
    @rur1279 Рік тому +12

    Wanted to give another perspective from a woman in her early 30s. I had so much going on in my life in my younger years (tumultuous upbringing) and was so focused on just surviving and maintaining friendships that I didn't know what I wanted in life. I didn't even get into my first relationship until my late 20's. Today, I have a a better sense of who I am and the direction I want my life to go in but cannot see myself settling down with anyone in the near future. What you guys went through in your 20's, I'm now experiencing in my 30's. Having fun, improving myself in all areas of life, and just simply enjoying life more are the only things I'm pursuing.

    • @fauzianalwoga
      @fauzianalwoga 4 місяці тому

      Thanks for this coming from a 25 year old who has never dated😢. So many things have happened including losing my mom 😢

  • @helenezebicoff3541
    @helenezebicoff3541 Рік тому +10

    As a senior the old cliche when you find that “one” everything else is secondary. Love does conquer all. ❤️

  • @이앤-w6q
    @이앤-w6q Рік тому +4

    😂걱정말아요 그대~~~
    사람마다 목표 취미 행복등등 라이프스타일이 다르니까요😊데이트상대가 아닌 와이프를 찾는다면 너무 외모만 따르지 않으면 됩니다😂😮😅

  • @vishakhah2791
    @vishakhah2791 Рік тому +8

    The product placement in this video is better than K-drama! Love how creatively you posted your sponcers :D Totaly wholesome dicussion- I feel the Peter Pan syndrome not only applicable to Men, but Women as well..under various circumstances. i like the fact that, the discussion points were not fixated on opinions of just one / two people. Feel like it was more of Fluid , relaxed talk! Lots of Love ! Looking forward to more such Content ! :)

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому +1

      thanks for all the great feedback vishakha!

  • @CA2SD
    @CA2SD Рік тому +15

    I don't think Dr. Yoo realizes how adorably charming he comes across when he discusses these types of segments.

  • @michmiche
    @michmiche Рік тому +9

    Thanks for sharing, it's nice to see you guys being bros but still be vulnerable about life topics that you wouldn't casually talk about. Hope to meet you in person one day either in NJ or NYC as a fellow healthcare worker 😊 maybe feature one of us PAs hehe

  • @isthishnn
    @isthishnn Рік тому +18

    ohh i think a lot of us can relate to feeling like we been in the same place since decades ago while our friends get married and have kids and start going passed these milestones.. but i’ve looked at my life and understood that my milestones arent gonna follow the same timeline.. it has taken me all these years to get to myself and my joy and my peace, that is a daily milestone in my life i’ll continuously make an effort for.. finding someone who makes that journey a little easier is a great bonus and i’ll welcome it when it happens 🤗 also heartiest congrats to john and fiancee! 🥳

  • @ghazalabaji3767
    @ghazalabaji3767 Рік тому +8

    Hey Dr.john, just a reminder that you're doing the Best and the way you treat patients is even more appealing. Keep going Dr.john, as a medical student your videos inspire me alot

  • @vanessamartinez24
    @vanessamartinez24 Рік тому +17

    Great reflective video, guys!! I definitely relate because in my early twenties, my priority was not dating, but I was open to it. Currently, I'm in my late twenties and am navigating work/life balance, which isn't easy but I know is important. John, best of luck! I hope you find your special someone soon and looking forward to your next video!!😊💕

  • @golgibella
    @golgibella Рік тому +13

    "Love does not consist in gazing at one another, but in gazing in the same direction together." And being silly and affectionate enough to gaze at each other for the scenic 'gram. ❤😂😌🤗❤ That's when you know.

  • @Samanthaxvi
    @Samanthaxvi Рік тому +4

    Ayoooo one question I had maybe you could answer for the next relationship related video is your insight into whether to first be friends with the person you want to date or go straight into going out?

  • @So-nf3wx
    @So-nf3wx Рік тому +4

    Your conversations, and thoughts, are quite interesting and insightful.
    Nice to hear your opinion on some things cause your honest.

  • @butterfly7530
    @butterfly7530 Рік тому +3

    I mean you are in NY, you have money, respect, so ofc you are single, duh!

  • @anuugoo
    @anuugoo Рік тому +4

    Actually this video was so much more than i ever expected. I got the answers to my questions i was so curious about for a long time

  • @samanthagracecollier5319
    @samanthagracecollier5319 Рік тому +7

    I’m 32 and this dating scene or whatever you call is so hard. Lol seriously 😒

  • @NoorahathaKw-jq9go
    @NoorahathaKw-jq9go Рік тому +2

    hi john, I hope to find a woman who will love you honestly and will not hurt you and will love you forever god bless you always john

  • @Ratchie_Yos
    @Ratchie_Yos Рік тому +4

    When it's right, it's right and you can feel it.

  • @lydia5267
    @lydia5267 Рік тому +3

    congrats to your friend on his engagement! I thought you are seeing someone ..... 🤔

  • @saraniroy7981
    @saraniroy7981 Рік тому +6

    Starting the day with John's video is an added advantage. ❤

  • @hilda2948
    @hilda2948 Рік тому +2

    i think its been like 4 mounts im waiting for new vid from jbro
    where ru guysss miss jason

  • @eurusratched8941
    @eurusratched8941 Рік тому +2

    Ryan ronald's korean variant 😂

  • @hilda2948
    @hilda2948 Рік тому +3

    look who’s back john(handsomest dr)yoo

  • @justmestela
    @justmestela Рік тому +1

    omgggg i miss your video, bring jason back too plss :))))

  • @stcheata
    @stcheata Рік тому +1

    I don’t know, I just feel exactly the same way as John even I am 37

  • @thekristineway
    @thekristineway Рік тому +1

    simce hes the first bro engaged, what moment happened that he was like…im ready to prpose/ marry this girl?

  • @jessicaandrew9534
    @jessicaandrew9534 Рік тому +2

    Half. When i look back i regret it, but when i see what i am now n what i get nope❤

  • @zzzmisun
    @zzzmisun Рік тому +1

    You will know when you found the one... usually the one is like your best friend (like a guy best friend = who totally gets you) 😉👌

  • @haruhi7745
    @haruhi7745 Рік тому +2

    Welcome Back. So nice and cool Vlog
    😌💙🤍

  • @bettylee234
    @bettylee234 Рік тому +1

    30s is when you have to really focus on settling down with the right person who meets your standards ( check list ) to the best of your abilities. Once you near 40s - you'll just start getting desperate and more open towards someone who doesn't meet all of your standards but just enough, or even barely. Past 40s - it becomes sheer luck . 😅😂 Hence now is a good time that you're more open minded John and trying to put more effort in "settling down". At least you can tell yourself that you tried.

  • @ploymatthiya
    @ploymatthiya Рік тому +1

    Personally I think Love urself and be positive would make ppl wish to b closed to U n it attracts ppl around U.
    Also to b kind, sincere, caring, forgiveness and supportive.
    Texting misunderstand each other so easy.
    My ex bf lives in NY while I live in both countries. Long distance relationships is not the problem bcoz we mostly talked more than text I think.
    I was told by all the sissy to traveling a lot and meet lots of ppl in person that’s the way they found the right person.
    Do U believe in Destiny? Open ur mind have fate and believe in it then the true love will come in the right time…right time right person…and in Buddhism we call equal percepts. Same like laws of attraction 🙃

  • @gemmalyngallardo
    @gemmalyngallardo Рік тому +2

    I really really love all your videos oppa ❤️

  • @julesnyc
    @julesnyc Рік тому +1

    Thank you for video! I am a big fan of iherb👏

  • @Dr_andrewchoi
    @Dr_andrewchoi Рік тому +3

    haha love the video man. settling is scary

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому +1

      bro , u seem like a new man after settling down!!

  • @kitnat695
    @kitnat695 Рік тому +4

    Just finished leg day and saw this new video! Must be a reward for me

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому

      i see you are committed to your summer gainz natalie. glute workouts FTW

    • @kitnat695
      @kitnat695 Рік тому +1

      @@dr.johnyoo 🍑🍑🍑🍑

  • @babylicee4479
    @babylicee4479 5 місяців тому

    Don't think about it just date go out have fun lots of time love finds you then you will want to cherish that person

  • @fjp9
    @fjp9 Рік тому +1

    I’m female and in my 40s, and I’ve always thoroughly enjoyed my single life. I’ve had serious relationships, but they haven’t worked out for various reasons. Finding a significant other is not a priority in my life and never has been. If I find one then great, but if not, then I’m happy being single. Enjoy your single life, and don’t settle down until you’re ready and actually want too. Make sure you and your partner have similar morals, ethics, and goals for long term like kids, finances, housing, etc. Or at least make sure you balance each other out for your long term goals.

  • @blueberrytea8312
    @blueberrytea8312 Рік тому +2

    John, you mentioned that you are still in the same place since college. You must have learned from all your past relationships and now a better partner. Not the same person.🤗

  • @siza_style
    @siza_style Рік тому +4

    Wow!! Double John come back 🙌

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому +3

      Johnson&Johnson was named after us

    • @siza_style
      @siza_style Рік тому +1

      @@dr.johnyoo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🏻

  • @Dr.ThomasKim
    @Dr.ThomasKim Рік тому +3

    Dr John Yoo always ready for hot boy summa 🔥

  • @pajyeebtho7004
    @pajyeebtho7004 Рік тому +1

    His leg cramp😅....his moment....because he is Dr Yoo..

  • @anuugoo
    @anuugoo Рік тому

    2 hot guys in a park, my closed af mongolian mind wud straight up think, gay men 😢 i need to get out more

  • @erikaa.3030
    @erikaa.3030 9 місяців тому

    As a 26 year old married woman with 1 year of marriage experience to my 43 year old husband this was beautiful to watch. Marriage matters and strongly determines the direction, fulfillment/ contentment, success of your life. Along with getting saved ✝️, I’d say Make sure you marry someone you trust that would have your back when life gets hard because it will. You will value the trust and intimate friendship you have with your spouse in those times. Ladies, the younger you are the better in getting married, don’t let yourself acquire baggage. Having a husband that would give his life for you is so beautiful, I’ve never felt so secure and I thank Jesus for my earthly Superman every day! God bless you all and your friend’s future marriage, who is engaged!🙏✝️💕

  • @Ashnesss
    @Ashnesss 8 місяців тому

    Good to hear guys having conversations about relationships. Both of you have self awareness and clarity which is an amazing trait. You introspect and know when the right time is for you, to do something. That’s why you have a stable life with a professional career. Marry someone who values stability and reliability as well.
    My priority till the age of 25 years was friends and work. I didn’t focus on a relationship. I didn’t want a relationship to define me. It wasn’t a priority at all. A guy would have to get to know me slowly, in order for me to warm up to him and consider marrying him. I never met a guy who was mature enough to understand my needs, at that age. It was only in my mid to late 20’s that I wanted to settle down. The kind of man I’ve wanted, has never changed. I still want the same things in a man.
    Of course, it’s a red flag if a guy or girl, doesn’t text back or call. If he doesn’t include you in plans, it’s not on. If you’re not going out, meeting each others friends and colleagues, planning things, etc. you’re not even dating let alone in a relationship 😂
    It’s also a red flag for friends not to text back or call. If weeks and months go by, without contact, without clarification, safe to say that you’re no longer friends. It’s common sense. If there IS an issue, then you’re justified not to encounter. Otherwise, it’s a clear sign. We all know that. We’re not kids. Communication is what keeps any equation together and the lack thereof breaks up relationships.
    Saying “I need to be in a relationship” doesn’t mean that one can’t be single prior to that realisation. Reaching the point of wanting more out of life is important for fulfilment. It’s a sign of maturity. And you can see who’s in that space by the way that they live. What do they spend time on? What’s their routine like? Where’s their mind at?
    In South Asia, people get married at any age, whether or not they’re fit for marriage. They believe that they’re prepared so do their families. People who waste years and months, are unemployed, bored, lazy, on drugs, committing crimes or don’t take responsibility for their actions, are certainly not marriage or relationship material. You’d be shocked that there are people like that, who stalk, harass, bully, intrude in people’s privacy and literally lie to themselves, saying that they want to get married. I’ve been the victim of such crimes. I had clarity. The psychotic criminal didn’t.

  • @Tara-sr7ht
    @Tara-sr7ht 8 місяців тому

    Hi John, to be honest, whoever dates you must be lucky because of many reasons: when she’s sad, you can sing for her instead of buying tickets to a concert; when she’s sick, you can cook for her; when she has toothaches, you can give her advice or fix her teeth; she will become famous if you post videos on the internet. You look so perfect in person. Do you believe in fate? Maybe it’s not your time yet or you are just married to your career if you have high standards. You may like what she has not who she is in person. I really love watching your videos. I never miss any of your videos after you have posted them.

  • @its_supreme
    @its_supreme Рік тому

    Having their life put together--> Mental health is a big one, I've had depression for a long time. I wouldn't even have energy to eat or brush my teeth. The fact that I don't have my life together, I feel anxious to date because I know they'll be judging. Like damn, she must be lazy

  • @ARTICFR0ST
    @ARTICFR0ST 11 місяців тому

    Dr J, can you make a video about routine and motivation? How to keep the will power on going to the gym, cooking, etc 🙏

  • @timsukamtoh9670
    @timsukamtoh9670 Рік тому

    Hey John! Really love your style in this vid. Would like to know where you and John got your chains if you dont mind sharing! Great vid as always!

  • @eeciaj5920
    @eeciaj5920 Рік тому +1

    Only way to get my JBro fix nowadays 😢 miss you kings

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому +2

      ayooo we’re starting back up this july 4 wknd. Thanks for the support , always! 😭❤️

  • @Ianfirst
    @Ianfirst Рік тому

    It would be much nicer if Dr. John had black socks on ;)

  • @AJGolosino
    @AJGolosino Рік тому +2

    Where did you get your couch?

  • @russelljao4873
    @russelljao4873 Рік тому

    😐😍😍😍♥️♥️♥️im. gonna. watch. you 101 times

  • @chandrawijaya7167
    @chandrawijaya7167 Рік тому

    I came because that thumbnail and I disappointed

  • @nicolefran466
    @nicolefran466 Рік тому

    Bigup Doc…….it’s been awhile the best advice this Noona can give you is don’t worry so much about the next step or relationship in you life…if it’s ment to be it will be and the best thing’s always happens when your not looking for it. Also to have a long lasting relationship remember trust ,communication and laughter so important

  • @NaNgNg0
    @NaNgNg0 Рік тому +3

    Yes that trust is so important and setting that boundary to make time for your friends and family. For me anyone who cannot respect that or understand that.... Its definitely not going to work out and a pretty big indicator that values are different.
    On another note IG subscription has been sad lately when are we getting exclusive Only Friends content? 😂

  • @me9lovin
    @me9lovin Рік тому

    Hahah the flashback clips of the bros are killing me 🤣

  • @middlesys9180
    @middlesys9180 Рік тому +2

    Nice place 👌🏾👍🏾

  • @nardjesosmane9693
    @nardjesosmane9693 Рік тому +3

    You don't look like you're 32 .looking young oppa ☺️ .
    by the way i really enjoy your vlogs 🤍

  • @winterbear6688
    @winterbear6688 Рік тому

    0:30 IM DYING TO KNOW WHAT SONG IS THIS

  • @shailasultana3700
    @shailasultana3700 Рік тому +3

    Man mature later that’s true but women can also be mature later too, I’m 40 but in my mind I’m still 20 🙂, still I do the stuff that I used to do in my 20s, being a mother of two teenagers it didn’t stop me at all and I’m proud of myself.

  • @teekang5
    @teekang5 Рік тому +1

    always a great collab with the Johns

  • @WhoElseWillIHaveIceCreamWith
    @WhoElseWillIHaveIceCreamWith Рік тому +1

    Where is Jason???

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому +1

      he will make a comeback ... drumroll pls... next week!

  • @yanirisrodriguez2425
    @yanirisrodriguez2425 Рік тому

    Dr. John Yoo, how tall are you?

  • @aitxxtia
    @aitxxtia Рік тому

    I woke up and choose violence 😀👍🏻

  • @annaly3
    @annaly3 Рік тому

    Yes I'd like to know please 😝

  • @winterbear6688
    @winterbear6688 Рік тому

    0:30 what song is this please

  • @SP123526
    @SP123526 Рік тому

    0:35 song plsssss

  • @itsme_mocha
    @itsme_mocha Рік тому

    Fate is about timing

  • @qianjin88
    @qianjin88 Рік тому

    next up: jason is busy getting engaged as well!! lol 🤷🏻‍♀️
    congrats to engaged john and as for still single john, wt- jk
    we all know ya super busy building ur dental/kpop/yt empire… but imagine being hitched while still trying to do all those things and ur girl is just always competing and whining for ur time… can be exhausting😅
    i think it’s great that ur finally able to free up some time for urself and not be such a workaholic (unless u still are)
    but continue being selective; bc that’s what’s gonna make the final candidate oh-so-special!😊😊

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому

      ahaha thanks Joanna !! looking fwd to the next chapter .. as is Jason . if not... we got each other 😅😅😅

  • @dawtinmimikhaing8650
    @dawtinmimikhaing8650 Рік тому

    Hello
    Good morning Dr.John Yoo♥

  • @giselagarza6293
    @giselagarza6293 Рік тому +7

    Your friend John had good insights. Congrats to him and his fiance!

  • @허미숙-f2j
    @허미숙-f2j Рік тому

    Hi Amy love

  • @tatacathrina.9120
    @tatacathrina.9120 Рік тому

    I dont see the spark either .. just too bad 😄😄😄

  • @허미숙-f2j
    @허미숙-f2j Рік тому

    Hi Amy love

  • @samanthagracecollier5319
    @samanthagracecollier5319 Рік тому

    Are you still single ?

  • @its_supreme
    @its_supreme Рік тому

    I wanna go on a date

  • @Minim1719
    @Minim1719 Рік тому +1

    Where is Jason 😢😢😢

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому

      he's alive and well hahaha we'll be making vids again soon!

  • @simisethi9942
    @simisethi9942 Рік тому

    Would you consider a long distance relationship? **Asking for a friend

  • @hilda2948
    @hilda2948 Рік тому +2

    again a new vid from john and again im gonna watch it for 100 times

  • @lucyv4416
    @lucyv4416 Рік тому +2

    So true. Men mature later and are ready when they’re ready.

  • @허미숙-f2j
    @허미숙-f2j Рік тому

    ❤안녕 My love

  • @kdramas4642
    @kdramas4642 Рік тому

    Excellent

  • @허미숙-f2j
    @허미숙-f2j Рік тому

    스파크 .. 역시 모습이 중요
    ..😢

  • @meganannebrozek
    @meganannebrozek Рік тому

    "soft launch on stories" ha so good

  • @marahbeth
    @marahbeth Рік тому

    awesome video Dr.John !

  • @Mimi_international1
    @Mimi_international1 Рік тому

    Congratulations to you John!

  • @aldohi7689
    @aldohi7689 Рік тому

    Only plans😂😂

  • @Dr_Slee
    @Dr_Slee Рік тому +2

    It's refreshing seeing guys discussing these matured topics and also in a very laid back tone🔥.It's true we do have stuff figured out early but were also selfish with our time in our 20s and sometimes as of late up to our early 30s i.e had med-school and started working at 25 being a dr then the thought of settling was enticing but still wanted to travel,didn’t want to drag some poor soul with student debt,and needed to grow as a person and know what i want to avoid settling due to environmental pressures. Now at 31 I'm ready to entertain the idea of traveling with someone, making time in my busy schedule for that person etc.I guess it's also important to appreciate the stages you're in and enjoy them.Hope to find a secure guy not intimidated by my success 😊🙏🏽and knowing i dont need him but actually want them as a person. Wishing your friend a blessed union,doing life with someone is a brave daily decision👌🏽lol just realised in your circle of friends he's the first one in my circle of friends I'm the last woman standing 😅😅now that's the difference or maybe I just wanted to be the rich auntie first🫣still working on it😉

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому +2

      the last woman standing it sounds like youre ready , if the right person comes along!!

    • @Dr_Slee
      @Dr_Slee Рік тому

      @dr.johnyoo 🤣probably until then the traveling quest continues,I'll be in NY in November 😉 good luck to all of us. By the way, just note that your place is amazing. I love the color scheme and let me share a secret🤫 your couch happened to be my mom's dream couch, so I had to get her that color modified, the shape to her place, obviously 🤣

  • @unbeatabel
    @unbeatabel Рік тому +1

    The only time I wasn't mad at clickbait

  • @tylernguyen5586
    @tylernguyen5586 Рік тому

    First !!!! ❤️❤️❤️🥵🥵🥵🫰🏻🫰🏻🫰🏻

    • @tylernguyen5586
      @tylernguyen5586 Рік тому

      Also, both of u guys look rlly good here

    • @dr.johnyoo
      @dr.johnyoo  Рік тому

      @@tylernguyen5586 thanks broski . hot gurl summa ☀☀

  • @pinkypilot
    @pinkypilot Рік тому +2

    I really thought your 'date' with Jangmi would lead to something...I loved her in Heart Signals and know she lived in NY for awhile. Is she in Korea permanently?

  • @theeunicealvarez
    @theeunicealvarez Рік тому +1

    Beautiful couch 😍

  • @siza_style
    @siza_style Рік тому +1

    Singleness is my best friend and will stay by my side forever ... (After typing, walk to sip coffee and sit alone while playing k-drama songs.It's the song Dae Jang Geum.)
    😅