Why this American chose the Philippines for life
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Meet Calvin, an American who moved to the Philippines 8 years ago to live the happiest chapter of his life. He shared with me why family is so important in the Philippines, how it feels to be the father of a 2-year-old toddler at 71, and what the biggest misconceptions Americans have about the Philippines. Enjoy!
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00:00 INTRO
00:34 Ageism in the Philippines
01:16 The best things in Dumaguete
03:55 People don't criticise here
05:16 Why Filipinos support each other
06:54 Having children's at 71
07:55 Healthcare system in the Philippines
09:58 Do you feel home here?
09:21 How to get to court in the Philippines
10:41 Superstitions
12:00 Languages in the Philippines
12:34 Misconceptions
18:51 "I'm not going back"
19:57 The meaning of life
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In the Philippines, kids are taught one thing, "Family is the foundation of society, that your first and last refuge is Family".
Money is the only foundation here.
Yes they all live off one working family member thats why
@@thefamily2707 Spot on Truth.
I met so many kids,young adults that come from broken homes and blended families… like myself… some sad stories there if you’re willing to listen..:
@@masipag_canadian_adventure642 blended, what like a juice a matic?
I'm an American married to a Philippina and split my time between the US and Iloilo. What you said is 1000% accurate. I could not have said it better myself. I wish you lots of more happiness.
Filipina. There is no such word as Philippina. Or you can say pinay.
lol, u are just looking for a validation
@@wavemaker2077 Filipina is acceptable as well.
dude you’re married to a Filipina and you still don’t know how to spell Filipina?
@@spincube5734 are you trolling me?
You can judge by the man's aura. He's a genuinely nice, positive, vibrant, open-minded person that every Filipino would love to have living in the country.
He clearly understands the culture and the people. He obviously gets it. He really does. 🇵🇭💙❤️
It’s true the culture of respect for elders is highly valued in the Philippines and it’s the opposite in western countries. You’re considered disposable when you get older in the US.
Exactly.
The more you get old in Phil the more you earn respect. We dont really argue older people instead we understand them because of their age.
@@AmericanJohnnyBoone we have a saying here "Tatanda ka Rin" which means "You too would get Old" so you have to respect ur elders now so that when u get old because someday u would get old too.
it's a culture in Asia.
This has a huge downside. Many old Filipino people use their "age card" whenever young people correct their mistakes, even though the young ones have valid points. Some old people are closed-minded and don't want to learn.
Im a filipino but have t admire this guy immense knowledge of ou culture both in a positive and negative ways. I'm wishing him the best of everything ahead of him. Enjoying the life with his new kid.
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This American is a sensible person. I am happy to know he finds a good life here in the Philippines.
He's 71 but look young in his age,maybe he is so relaxed in the Philippines😊
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I can listen to this man all day he is very sensible and full of wisdom😊
Proof of your lack of critical thinking skills
It is the evidence that the Philippines preserving the cultures for humanity with good manners and right Conduct in every corner of the world having a Filipino and their Christian Culture
Catholic is not Christian
Catholic is part of Christianity, since Christianity has 3 parts, orthodox, protestant, and catholic, that's what I know@@thomasodetinape4180
I didn't expect that I would finish this whole interview! It was nice to listen to his insights about the Philippines.
I noticed that older population received more respect in the Philippines. During my vacation in Bohol, when I applied for my SSS ID at a local government office, the Staff gave prompt attention and even asked me to be served first than other younger applicants. I'm still back in the US enjoying my retirement since when I was 60 years old traveling to Europe and Middle Eastern countries 5 times a year. Hopefully I might definitely settle back to the Philippines.
It's PRESIDENTIAL RESPECT - allowing elders to have priority in distributing goods and services one of the five types of FILIAL PIETY which is a core virtues of Filipinos.
In most areas, even in fast food, there’s a dedicated line for elderly
Asian culture in general, seem to revere the elderly
Seniors, PWD, Pregnant women always have the priority lane...
Seniors, Person with Disability(PWD), Pregnant Woman - are the priority here in the Philippines.
He really knows what his talking about. Doesn't feel scripted nor planned. Awesome interview!🇺🇸🇵🇭✌
The Philippine concept of “kapwa” - love 💕 for your fellow man. Thank God for the Philippines 🇵🇭
wow, I'm from Korea and what this gentleman says is actually what I had experienced in the Philippines.. He was able to put it into words so accurately. Racism is also one thing that I don't think is present. In Philippines, they even treat people from other countries with respect, sometimes even higher respect compared to other locals
Yes it's noticeable the locals seem to treat foreigners better than their own people.
No racism in the Philippines. It's not like in America...
@@user-yo5tk5vb8t True...
there's racism , but it isn't like conventional racism. it's more like regionalist mentality.
like stereotyping people cause you grew up in a specific place in the philippines. like if you're from iloilo people would think you're emotional or if you're from ilocos you're stingy/cheap. but nothing really aggressive or violent.
It's part of Filipino culture to be good and hospitable to our visitors while we are conservative to our own countrymen to make the country a better place to live.
In America, if you're old, you're for disposal. In Phil's., if got old the more you'll get love. That is our culture.
🤑🤑😂😂
What a load of BS.
Your only tended to until the money runs out.
@@thomasodetinape4180 no cap
@@thomasodetinape4180 Nah in the phil they will literally keep you around until you croak naturally, average age gets to 80+ here
@@gamerplays5131 The mindset is different now, new generation doesn't care.
There’s no such thing as a perfect country but I am convinced that this American made a great decision to choose the Philippines.
He is happy with his life here in the Philippines,
Having a 2nd family made him look young, strong and healthy, and his baby is an added strength for him
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What I love about him was when he said, that arguments and petty cases are first handled by the local chief or barangay 3x before it gets approve for a court case. No need to get a lawyer! And its free!
Actually, before it gets to court. If it’s not settled in the barangay. Barangay will endorse it first in the police station only then it will go to court if it’s not settled in the police station. Well, not unless it’s criminal case. But if it’s just from simple problem. Barangay won’t even endorse you at all and advise you to settle it instead.
@@asdfghj803 add to that, you can always go to Tulfo bros...lols
@@asdfghj803 in america you would need to pay a lawyer for around 200$ per hour before going to court, its insane
I am planning on moving back in the Philippines. I’ve been there so many times and everytime I visit the country, I love it even more. I love Filipino food and the beaches are amazing.
Only the food? What about pinays? 😅
Iim looking for someone to go there with . Im ready to live there.
@@billyclone4289i can be your tourist guide if you want to and be your driver and security as well❤
Moments like these make social media truly worthwhile. Imagine living your entire life believing your own little bubble was all there was. Thanks to videos like these, we can discover cultures and communities that resonate with our beliefs and dreams. I feel so fortunate that places like the Philippines and Thailand exist. It's fascinating to learn about different ways of life. Exposing myself to diverse cultures by visiting them in person has undoubtedly made me a better person.
He’s better than some of the authors and i don’t even read a book. Smart man! God bless him!
I couldn’t agree more. I am a Filipino working in a nursing home facility here in US. This man is healthier than old folks I take care of in my facility. Older people gets worst in nursing home. He still has a sharp mind and perfectly fit to raise toddlers. I happy to see western men like this in the Philippines, in a family oriented culture and enjoying it.
I hate to see Americans sent into nursing homes. Most nursing homes treated them badly.
Yes I also works in nursing home in the Netherlands...
Thank you for all the kind words you said about my people, I have lived in New York for 24 years and never find the true meaning of life, came back home.. In America is only work and survival, everything you said is true.
At 71 you're still strong and healthy. Enjoy life, be happy and stay safe!
Volunteerism is very much alive in the Philippines. Let's remember the Bayanihan Spirit way back in history. Maybe there is no such thing as a website where you can go and volunteer. However, your next neighbor is always your helping hand and they will help you regardless of the time of the day!. They are always happy to help with a beaming smile in their faces. It's their pride to help people who are in need and stand by you till things get done or ask a friend for assistance. Filipinos are profound people most especially in the Bayanihan Spirit!!
Not true... very rare will you find a Filipino organised Volunteer Foundation. 9 out 10 they are either organised by Foreigners OR by Politicians who wants their names on the Foundations labels. I have seen a lot of individual Filipinos who tries to organise clean up day and no one turned up, yet when a Foreigner organises the clean-up you see foreigner and Filipinos alike turn up.... Anyway, the guy wasn't talking about Philippines as a whole, he was referring to Dumaguete.
Its seems like the meaning of volunteer is different from each country.
I think he means organised volunteerism is not actively promoted in the Philippines. I want to say that in the West, it’s not really voluntary volunteerism. In the Philippines, if one is so exposed to the local culture in towns and barrios, you will see real volunteerism. Fellow townsfolk will go to the house of the bereaved and volunteer their help. In schools, parents volunteer to get involved in school activities or donate in school needs. I don’t understand his comments as I have learned since young that Filipinos are known for their supportive spirit.
@@JABM-AU you are ignorant, we have lots of organized volunteer activities, not a big news, or even make a fuzz about but we have lots, i've been to countless volunteer activities like feeding programs, medical missions, tree planting activities, clean up drives, blood letting programs, volunteer fire brigade, search and rescue during disasters and natural calamities, emergency response units...and hundreds more. and these are organized by a small school, a small hospital, a local red cross, a small foundation...etc. you are an idiot to think it's organized by foreigners and politicians. we just love to help and volunteer whenever we can. your comment is just pure ignorance. go do some volunteer work in your community before talking shit on youtube.
True!
When you sing badly, people will just smile and sing with you. Heck, you sing badly, I sing badly, let’s all sing badly and still have a good time with it!
- fellow American
😅😅😅 that's true, in Philippines music is life
True, it's not about how your singing is good or bad it's about socializing having fun with your friends and getting along with no prejudice. Having Fun is the word. we don't like seeing a person is getting left behind and out of place. 😉
Not when you sing "my way"
@@patrickganza2837nobody needs your way 😂😂😂
@@takakuuz2794 bro thats why i put a quote on quote
Calvin is pretty sharp, and smart! Looks like he reads a lot and does his own research in culture and history. Cheers Calvin! 👏
This guy tells it All about us Filipinos. Thank you sir!
I have been married to a Filipina for 8 years. We retired to a small town in her native Mindanao in October of 2023. The people here are so friendly. Everyone gets along and helps one another. I am so lucky to be here. Medical and dental care is affordable, and cheap, nutritious fruits and vegetables are everywhere. We live WELL on $700 per month. If I didn't have 3 children from my 2 American ex-wives back in the States, I would never visit America again. America is all about greed.
I am planting seeds on my two children about Philippines and Thailand as good retirement countries, that way one day we'd all be close to each other again.
My ldr is near maasim, 45 minutes sw of gensan. It seems nice, I haven’t been there yet. Any tips?
Greed, Anger, Suspicion, Accusation, Discrimination, Hate, Bullying and Self-Centeredness. Guess the ending? ----- Murder!
This is america "in general".
Money is God in the US
@@trailguy dont bring too much cash, be stingy and say you are out of work and a lowlifer in back where you came from, just say you want to start over and have a partner who can help you improve
dont be a santa claus when u get there. say u dont have money and u had loans for the trip to get here
however when there is a real real problem , be sure to help your LDR's immediate family.
also work you ass in there by helping the relative's in their business for small pay, so that you will learn wich one you will like to invest in. dont be judgmental and be forgiving
dont ever sing "my way" in karaokes
my wives are muslims, and i got 1 here in houston, two are in davao taking care of the kids and our businesses.
i rotate every one who wold be joining me here as i work 6months + 2 mos leave
marry muslim women so you can have 2 or 3 wives , they are best in the nocturnal pleasures, eager than rabbits
goodluck, cheers !
Philippines Gem is really the people.❤❤
This man is very knowledgeable about the Philippines. He even knows about the mythical creatures! He is also very observant and understanding of situations. A smart man! I wonder what is his work before he retired.
English teacher, and had health care centers which included physical therapy, speech therapy, etc.... thank you for watching
How he embraced our culture,(obviously he knew more abt.our country & people)..is just amazing!❤😊
As our President says, the best asset of the Philippines is our people.
There are no more beautiful humans than little children 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
❤John 3:16❤
"Even the dogs are relax"
"there's no time for dementia and alzheimer's "
He's living the life. He's a smart guy!
Love my country !!
What he said is very true because I lived in the US for more than 2 decades just to be a slave. We live to work, to follow commands, to obey the culture, and cover ourselves from criminals. Mental illness is a big problem here.
True.
This 71 year old is so youthful ... the Phillippines suits him
It is the friendliest country I’ve experienced. I love the Philippines
I'm 4 mins in the video but I am already sooo invested, my attention is locked in. I like how clear he speaks. I have learned a lot already in that few minutes. It's like I am learning more of what my country is like, especially the good ones. Because it is very very easy to spot the negatives and the needs improvement. But yeah, I appreciate this. Thank you for this video.
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I wish this man to be always healthy and live longer life for His family here in Pinas! ❤️
This gentleman was a great interview. He was intelligent, calm and alert. He had a lot of wisdom in what he was saying.
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You are very smart for a 71 years old. Very observant and up to date to what's happening around the world
If i would select which country to live i still choose the Philippines . This country is like paradise .
If you are a foreigner, particularly a US citizen, or have a lot of money, Philippines would be the best foreign country to settle. Convenient, cost of living is much cheaper, happy people, community vibes especially in provinces.
What an interesting conversation. Everything, well almost, is on point and true. I've been gone from the Philippines for so long but I always miss everything about my country that is why I was surprised when my husband declared we are retiring there. The Lord knew the desire of my heart for so long, which is to go back home. We are 4 weeks away from flying back to the Philippines for good and I can't wait.
Wow. Thank you for choosing Philppines❤
The statement “Even the dogs are relaxed”
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That was very refreshing
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The dogs are so relaxed in the province where I travel
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The dogs relax in the street day or night even with many vehicles 🚗 🛵 🛻 driving by
Yes hehe 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 I love my Country 💖 No time to be sad .
I guess you don’t live around them at night ! Constant barking
That dog lives in a stressful house. Sorry friend. God bless!
@@kevink3975They only bark when there is a stranger in the vicinity. Dogs in the province serve as security guards.😊 Another reason for being rowdy is competition for a female dog in heat. 😂
The dogs on our street: 🏃♂️💨🐕
Philippines 🇵🇭 are only country in the world that ever was and ever will be in my heart ❤️
As a Filipina, it's heartwarming to see a foreigner who chose to embrace and find joy in our country despite its imperfections. Your positivity is truly inspiring. 🥹
he must be an educator..he grasped the system very well...
"be kind to yourself and to others"
that is the phrase to be able to adapt.😊
nice words sir!👍
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Great insight. This guy still looks younger than his age. E looks healthy and out of stress life. Thats how we need to live our lives. He makes the best decisions in his life. Kudos brother.
As Filipino, i find him knowledgeable
Even the dogs are not hostile, according to the observations of this senior citizen. He admired heavy traffic attitude and calmer, positive attitude. Community volunteerism needsto expand more in the Philippines.
Great interview. Seems like a really nice guy. Great insight into Dumaguete. Shame about his daughter rejecting his new life and second family when her dad is clearly super happy. My guess would be she cares more about her inheritance than her dad’s happiness.
One day , his daughter, would understand. That As long as u r alive , explore. Appreciate d time God is giving u, Share ur happiness,Good heart , Inspire people anywhere.
I love the United States but it is not how it once was. It is so divided politically…parents don’t talk to children, brothers don’t talk to sisters. Neighbors not to others. You have to be careful talking to strangers because you can be accused of being racist sexist or you may be charged with sexual harassment. SAD REALLY VERY SAD ‼️🥺🥺🥺🥺
Same here,my step daughter didn't like us as her dad's second family ...my twins are already 37 years old now...but it's ok,now I'm a widowed military dependant...we all live here in the Philippines and enjoys my beautiful grandkids!
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Agree 100%
At the last part when he's saying his words of wisdom and the way how he perceived the Philippines, the more i admire him as a person and not just a foreigner who just came here in my beloved country, the Philippines.🇵🇭
I was born and raised in the Philippines, but when I got an opportunity to migrate here in the U.S., I took it.
I've never looked back, living now in East Texas and love it here
I'm proud to be of Filipino origin, but I'm now proud U.S. citizen.
I guess to each their own.
The world is what you make of it. It just took longer for this man to learn that.
Be patient, enjoy, be open minded. Not everything will work, but if you give it a chance you’ll see the good stuff
This guy is totally correct in everything he’s saying. He has so much wisdom.
He lived and learned...and then rebbooted in the P.I
Thank you sir for that AMAZING RESPECT to the Filipinos and my country! Salute!
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71 years old looks like 60 definitely he has no stress 😬❤
He is a very smart man.
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this is one of the best reaction of the foreinger he know our culture ;
I love how eloquent and well verse when he speaks. You can really tell someone who is smart from being knowledgeable. I like this guy! More power to you and your family. God speed!
This man has good outlook in life and looked deeply about our culture. Appreciate him well.
It is so true! “Even the dogs are relax”. This is so true!
I voted “ everyone is angry over there”.
He is definitely living his Life. Happy , contented and thankful for the things he have. Nice video. Teaches us how to live our life.
its the best place especially when you get older. If you know how to deal with the locals, your life will be more happier and healthier.
Passport Brothers are right...
Some people might think he's being overly critical of the US but if anything most of his perspectives were understatements 🤣🤣🤣
Really? I have been all over the US when I was on active duty and never experienced any of those things all these bloggers claim has happened to the US. You can still own property, have reliable utilities and medical services, food is everywhere, but if you're not growing your own yes you have to pay someone for providing it and everything else.
This is one of your great interview and this guy is very fascinating he really had immerse with the filipino cultures.
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This interview is great because it provides a very informative perspective from an American individual.
Very true ! Dogs and Cats are very relax in the Philippines.
🤣🤣🤣😂😂❤❤❤
Except when infected with rabies.
Actually, they are too much relax that I am always pissing them off just to get the attention and reaction from them 😂😂
everything is so chill in philippines, even the dogs and cats
I'm happy for him, he figured out the key to happiness.
Growing up and living in the southern parts of the US all of my life this guys points are spot on. Aggressive drivers and Road Rage is a constant problem. Its just rampant where a large percentage of the drivers are either mad or in a rush and you're in their way.
This man is very keen observer of his surroundings ..Observant! Good Job!
The elders are respected so much in the Philippines that there is a separate lane in the supermarkets or pharmacies for them. They can get discounts too. Just show your senior citizen ID.
Btw, the people in Manila or Cebu are Filipinos too and they share the same values as the other Filipinos. So in road accidents, the people in Manila or Cebu act just like the people in Dumaguete.
Always summer. Yes, Dumaguete is always summer. 😂😂😂 It's not as stormy here as it is in other parts of the country
This guy is so genuine😁 Everything's spot on, even the superstition that's integrated in Philippine culture. He really embraced the culture deeply, immersed himself in the life here and completely understands it😊 more than some Filipinos do😄 More power to him, you and your channel. I enjoyed this one much with his insights about everything👍
Yeap its hard to settle here in 🇺🇸, 10 years from now i will going back home to my beloved country 🇵🇭
Strive for happiness. Amen to that.
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I live in Dumaguete almost ten years that's why I learned how to speak bisaya
Pilipino here. If you want a happy and relaxed life, go to PH province not on Manila or near the Capital. If there is a heat map of stress, the capital is at most.
This is a great interview. He is spot on about barangay mediation. I just thought about the barangay arrangement. That is true! Instead of immediately seeking an attorney, we try to resolve issues first in the barangay. So, that's actually a good thing. However, the aspect I don't agree with is the notion that it's different in Manila or Cebu. I hope people stop stereotyping because the truth is, we are all Filipinos and share the same values no matter where we are. But just like in a family, there's always a black sheep.
I remember my friend bring her foreigner bf so they had a feast and we were invited. Her bf asked how many were invited and my friend casually told him that she didn’t know and he was confused. The people keeps coming. 😊 We love to share and bond through food and karaoke.
There are many road rages here in the Phil. But overall pinoys are friendly and humble, smiling
road rages often happen in Manila mostly, but in provinces, road rage is very uncommon.
In province road rage are not that commom, maybe in big cities like Manila, Makati or Somewhere cebu they exist
From what I've seen... Road rage from other countries are far more crazier than what I've seen here... My father for example is a very temperamental person but he drives by the rule of if it's done it's done... No need to escalate especially if there was no damage. He cusses them out tho lol
I'm happy for you since you learn to accept and adopt yourself to the cultures and traditions of our country, Philippines. I really appreciate for all the positivity you've spoke about your true happiness living in the Philippines and found a very loving supportive family you have and will be there for you. I guess, it is all about of what you throw out to the universe, God gives it back to you. Thank you and May God bless you more and always
Salute to you Sir for the appreciation about Filipinos even we are a developing country but we are still happy,smiling,friendly,hospitable etc.but most of all our respect to elders.Thank you for the positive words about Filipinos.New subs here.❤
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We are unique,we have those unique characteristics,we are caring,loving ,understanding,patience,yeah we are not perfect,but mostly we have those good characteristics.so welcome to Philippines,just bring your respect .enjoy God bless
wow well said, i like this grandpa
Exactly sir. In philippines you can talk to the random people and that’s what I miss in philippines😢
That why it's more fun in the Philippines! Can't wait for next year's vacation..It's more relax after work time to catch up with friends or families..Here in America after work Laundry is waiting for you geeezzzz!!
This is a great interview good job letting this older fellow talk need to have this gentleman back again soon he is very spoken....could interview him next time about how he met his wife and how to manage finances overseas😊
Online probably social media
Have a stable income like he said an average/minimum of 2000usd or more (inflation)
Choose a second tier cities because it is less polluted and traffic, safer, cheap, secondary level hospitals and well-known universities. If you prefer cities I don't see any problem as long as you are willing to take the good with the bad. With that amount you can pay the house, groceries, gas, car, luxuries and even a housemaid.
In looking for a wife look for traditionally/conservatively raised that knows how to cook, clean and raise children.
DON'T flaunt your wealth.
Always stick to your budget and make it clear to your wife and family in laws (expect the parents, siblings and their children to always seek for your help regarding financial problems) help them but set limitations because they will rely on you all the time.
Lastly, don't be so naive if you see red flags, let go. Don't be a victim. Be safe and healthy.
👍 Go for it! 🇵🇭
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I applaud that expat, and he's right. And he's seen a lot. Granted, everyone wants to live that American dream but it'll cost anyone anything living there. No bias but on the other hand he did the wise thing of living here
I wish to be this kind of feeling of happiness when I reach his age❤ its never to late to be happy
I affirmed to his statement. American has change a lot in their of culture and respect to people. Wokeism is what we have here.....
I am more concerned with fascism and racism. They have never been good for the US.
@@dumaguetedreaming Yes! It’s an eminent problem in America. A lot of people have limited understanding of cultural differences and that made them bias and ignorant !
America is very competitive and capitalistic that's my observation as a Filipino.
@23zchris-- Yes, there are many negatives to being the number one economy in world, and I could add many more to a growing list.
US is great for earning money but not retiring.
There’s no such thing as a perfect country but I am convinced that this American made a great decision to choose the Philippines. Good luck to you sir! 👍🏼
Great content. I've watched several videos having the same goal of this video but this is definitely on a different level. It stated a lot of things that I didn't even realize being a Filipino and what the life is really like in here. Kudos!🎉
Thank u for appreciating our culture...we always embraced the bayanihan culture all for one one for all every calamities we always help each other and we always respect the elders. .
thank you for being honest sir, may you live long to enjoy our very welcoming country Philippines
I have learn so much of the culture and Mentality of America. In my opinion about all of this is that you really have to go out of your own country to know how's life outside your comfort zone and learn about the countries culture.
All he said about our Country is true, we are Friendly and Hospitable regardless of who you are 😊❤️🇵🇭
"Always prepare for the worst but always be optimistic " wow i love that 🙏🌹🙏
You're going to like my sermon then. See the link Max added