He used and took my love for granted. I gave him all of my heart, he was my world, first true love. But to him I was just a stone he skipped, and let sink. I am better off without him not matter how much I miss his intimacy
He forced me to leave him; he is emotionally immature and I refused to allow him to (keep) practicing with me. Why I wanted to know what he was thinking, I don't know, but my prayer has been answered. You described him to a tee. Thank you! You have my respect, Derrick. ☺️
They seem to move on because they repress their emotions and are excited about the new person at first. The novelty will wear off because relationships require work. Their feelings will surface in quiet moments when they're alone. What's there will be felt eventually.
When a woman is done she is done. Emotionally inclined because accept and do not fear our emotions. That’s why we can move on faster. Plus men easily forget that women have more choices.
Women don't have more choices because we out number men. Our choices are limited. Women just get hit on way more than men. Statistically, men have more choices than women.
I actually disagree with most of this. But I do agree that once she’s done emotionally, she’s done. But I think most men move on a lot sooner. Especially if they smell the rejection coming. They’ll replace a woman very fast. I also think men have more options as most women struggle finding good quality men. Because there aren’t many… Men however, typically don’t have high standards. So replacing their partner is a breeze.
I saw him go thru every stage after he dumped me. He was still married and lied about his divorce. Never filed 3 years ago. It feels good to know his singing and happiness and chasing other women is just a front. He will fall hard soon enough. He won't find another Queen like me.
she broke up with me and i started hitting the gym more and hitting my punching bag for about 2 hours. Decided to drop social media all together and im working on not touching myself at all . I guess some of us are just different
I hope that's what he is doing. I broke up with him. But I know he's down in Mexico drinking. Called me drunk Saturday night and that's when I decided to go NC. He never drinks.
@christinabeita5671 Not me. My lick back is he can watch but he'll NEVER have access to me again. Leave 20 million messages, buddy...I'm done. When I know he's around, my stories are tweaked as needed. I'll scramble HIS brains.
I really really appreciate you for understanding the psychology of women and supporting them and appreciating them Thanks a lot and lot on behalf of women !
Haha, when you said he'll say " let's be mature about it," that's exactly what he says and he'll say it when I'm done trying. Yes, there's been more than one time because they also do this when they think that they can come back.
Yup I bet this hurt ... They will reach you on everything to get you back but they don't change. I'm done 👍🏽 thank you I love your content . They do become a slave after the breakup. He can come clean up my yard ✌🏾
Thank you for the clarity 🙏🏾 Because the ego was coming out of nowhere an it made me feel like wow tell me how u really feel when it's all just a front.
I guess now the start up conversation for a date will be "what are you baggage and shadows you hadn't healed"? Show me yours and il show you mine😄. Let's lay our cards on the table to save us the trouble later.
I don't have social media (I'm 25) so he won't be able to look for me there. But I hope I'm okay and I wish him nothing bad. Thanks for this video. I think I'll be okay.
My goodness, having a beer and a cigarette, enjoying my steak and enjoying this work you out forth. Six years ago, though, when i started off this inner work with a lot of help, watching RC Blakes literally put me on my knees. Glad and proud of myself to have come this far!🎉
Thank you! I resonate with what you said. I'm stronger now than I was. Separated, going through a divorce, but the best thing that's ever happened. 👏🙌☝️🙏
Girl that dont mean a thing....i haven't been with my ex in 6 years also and because we have a kid together and have to do football together....he back wit his bs trying....its ridiculous....
OAN: The heart can't help who it loves so for someone to say some women sign up for this is foul..it takes work to get away when your a genuine hearted person..now that doesnt make you weak or crazy🤷♀️. Way too many screwed dudes out here, period..put on their best mask so you don't know till you know. Period
It’s been a minute since I seen a video but I see Derrick done got out the car! This is so true! I had one of those actually a few tbh. They were not bad guys but my experience was horrible!
Can someone tell me why and how I know all about what derrick is talking about. However, I have absolutely no empathy for men who r I'm their ego in such a way. It's like I know they r protecting their ego but it's to the detriment of their partner. It make me want them to fall on their face and never get up because of the worship of their ego. I seriously can't take their ego worship... I think I need help with the lack of empathy I have... I am working on this
I've had someone I didn't date stalking me, acting as though we were together, when we were not. I don't understand this level of delusion. It wasn't even a friendship...
I think when women give there bodies to men,then volunteer have a baby with no, commitment. Do they know they has signed themselves up for a broken heart, scared soul & mental health issues. Let's not forget poverty broken dreams.
Wasn’t a breakup I knew that we would try to fix things so we are together now , one thing that happened, we didn’t have sex so we are fighting without sex influence so we can have a clear vision of what we really want for us as a couple .
Narrasit stick together, im pretty sure his mom and friends believed all the b.s that comes out his mouth. He played victim to much. And tried to justify his actions & consequences he wld give me with b.s excuses.
0:55 1.) "Can't let her see me sweat!" 1:42 2.) "I wonder if she's hurtin' too?" 2:16 3.) "Maybe I "F'd" up?" 2:34 "He'll talk to his Momma! And his Momma is really gonna bring it home! "You broke up with her? You messed that up? She was way better than the last one you had, I liked her!" 3:09 4.) "By way of his Home Boys!" 3:23 5.) "At work, he's physically there but mentally absent!"
My ex omg he changed after broke up with me. He was quite, most of the time he was at home with his video games and after he made his decision he changed his behavior. He bought new clothing, going out every night , start drinking a lot and he started smoking 🥲.
I was in a relationship 12 years he didn't want to get married. But he was verbally abusive until that 1 day he called me a bitch wrote him a letter to break up won't look back!
He used and took my love for granted. I gave him all of my heart, he was my world, first true love. But to him I was just a stone he skipped, and let sink. I am better off without him not matter how much I miss his intimacy
He forced me to leave him; he is emotionally immature and I refused to allow him to (keep) practicing with me.
Why I wanted to know what he was thinking, I don't know, but my prayer has been answered. You described him to a tee. Thank you! You have my respect, Derrick. ☺️
SAME HERE💯❤️🔥 CANT WASTE NO MORE OF MY LIFE....ITS A GIFT FROM OUR CREATOR🌳🌻🐝❤️🌾🪴🍂
Same here
Same here!
It’s beyond me to see how quickly they seem to ‘move on’ to seeing someone new… cold hearted. 😢
They seem to move on because they repress their emotions and are excited about the new person at first. The novelty will wear off because relationships require work. Their feelings will surface in quiet moments when they're alone. What's there will be felt eventually.
Come on my love ! R Kelly
He can think whatever he wants I’m not going back to that disaster of a freak EVER!
Damn rite😩😩
I met God After a breakup
🙌🏽❤
That's a real come up! God cam love you better!
God's the best person to meet!
❤️❤️❤️
🙏🏾
When a woman is done she is done. Emotionally inclined because accept and do not fear our emotions. That’s why we can move on faster. Plus men easily forget that women have more choices.
Women don't have more choices because we out number men. Our choices are limited. Women just get hit on way more than men. Statistically, men have more choices than women.
Baby an we have many MANY choices 🤪🥳💅🏽💃🏽
Cannot agree with you more.
I actually disagree with most of this. But I do agree that once she’s done emotionally, she’s done. But I think most men move on a lot sooner. Especially if they smell the rejection coming. They’ll replace a woman very fast. I also think men have more options as most women struggle finding good quality men. Because there aren’t many…
Men however, typically don’t have high standards. So replacing their partner is a breeze.
Spot on
I saw him go thru every stage after he dumped me. He was still married and lied about his divorce. Never filed 3 years ago. It feels good to know his singing and happiness and chasing other women is just a front. He will fall hard soon enough. He won't find another Queen like me.
That’s right!! 🙌🏽❤
Exactly. 💯💯💯
That's the truth Queen🙌🏾🙌🏾❤
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Damn, I’m right there with you I was lied to and just ended it Friday. Of course I’m still hurting. Crying. Grrrr, I’m so mad at myself
Ya, I’m so tired of playing games, that’s why I don’t. Single life is extraordinary 🥰
Stay away from the narcs. Mid range narcs act exactly like that. And they think they're "good guys". What a joke!
Pfft!!! This is EXACTLY what has happened. Derrick, you’re good. I didn’t even see it. I just walked away confused by his actions. Now I know. Gold.
Same I use to think he just didn't care. Now I see.
she broke up with me and i started hitting the gym more and hitting my punching bag for about 2 hours. Decided to drop social media all together and im working on not touching myself at all . I guess some of us are just different
Good for you! Work on Self.
👍🏾👍🏾
Well done. You deserve real healthy love
I hope that's what he is doing. I broke up with him. But I know he's down in Mexico drinking. Called me drunk Saturday night and that's when I decided to go NC.
He never drinks.
Post-nut clarity???
Always learning new terms with Derrick
I block after I leave. It’s done.
Me too
@christinabeita5671 Not me.
My lick back is he can watch but he'll NEVER have access to me again.
Leave 20 million messages, buddy...I'm done.
When I know he's around, my stories are tweaked as needed.
I'll scramble HIS brains.
Same here! Blocking you on everything. 😎😎😎
Now I understand why my ex reached out after 2 years to congratulate me on my baby
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
sir u make everything make sense 😭
I'm off social media!!! He made the choice to be who he is. He chose to lose his family.
I really really appreciate you for understanding the psychology of women and supporting them and appreciating them Thanks a lot and lot on behalf of women !
Haha, when you said he'll say " let's be mature about it," that's exactly what he says and he'll say it when I'm done trying. Yes, there's been more than one time because they also do this when they think that they can come back.
💯💯💯
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I block after leaving.
I needed this so much after a 8 year break up ❤
Same here 8.5 years been together and it’s been 3months no contact! Still in pain😢
Same here, stay strong❤❤❤❤
Stay strong women!❤️
Yup I bet this hurt ... They will reach you on everything to get you back but they don't change. I'm done 👍🏽 thank you I love your content . They do become a slave after the breakup. He can come clean up my yard ✌🏾
DERRICK
You are an old soul ❤️❤️❤️ you are sooooo on point with your videos
Ooooh poor baby …never find another me..
Thank you for the clarity 🙏🏾 Because the ego was coming out of nowhere an it made me feel like wow tell me how u really feel when it's all just a front.
I thought he was genuine, then the slow fade, then ghosting. So hurt but I am not ever reaching out again.
Did he reach back to you again?
That's WHY I'm not on social media
I guess now the start up conversation for a date will be "what are you baggage and shadows you hadn't healed"? Show me yours and il show you mine😄. Let's lay our cards on the table to save us the trouble later.
Whatever baggage is brought out will only be the tip of the iceberg.
Derrick is so wise. ♥️
I definitely be wondering how they feel after all...!
I don't have social media (I'm 25) so he won't be able to look for me there. But I hope I'm okay and I wish him nothing bad. Thanks for this video. I think I'll be okay.
First if the year he did call/text to apologize & the hoping we can be civil..and he gave me his new #--my guardian angels made me block him
Yes indeed
My goodness, having a beer and a cigarette, enjoying my steak and enjoying this work you out forth. Six years ago, though, when i started off this inner work with a lot of help, watching RC Blakes literally put me on my knees. Glad and proud of myself to have come this far!🎉
I needed to hear this Clarity💯
They don't care
Derrick, whatever woman is in your life, she’s a truly lucky woman. You’re on point. Love this!!
100%
Thank you! I resonate with what you said. I'm stronger now than I was. Separated, going through a divorce, but the best thing that's ever happened. 👏🙌☝️🙏
This why I always block them on social media after a break up 😅
And block their number
You be spitting straight facts 💯
I'm free 6yrs. Now I know he know I don"t care for the crap.
Girl that dont mean a thing....i haven't been with my ex in 6 years also and because we have a kid together and have to do football together....he back wit his bs trying....its ridiculous....
You always hit the nail on the head.thanks bro bless up.
One more derrick jaxn video. I'm going to be single forever
Me too.
Thts how I feel
OAN: The heart can't help who it loves so for someone to say some women sign up for this is foul..it takes work to get away when your a genuine hearted person..now that doesnt make you weak or crazy🤷♀️. Way too many screwed dudes out here, period..put on their best mask so you don't know till you know. Period
It’s been a minute since I seen a video but I see Derrick done got out the car! This is so true! I had one of those actually a few tbh. They were not bad guys but my experience was horrible!
Yup. I, 🖐️, EVERY time. 💯💯💯
Really liked what you said. It's a kind description of what's happening but not selling get back together etc.
You are right on target. He said, "It's ridiculous not to stay friends. You're being immature!"
Yep. I got the can’t we be friends.
Truth!! Every word!!
Yesssssss hits the nail on the head every god damn time!!! ❤️
So true. I need someone evolved❤.
That's my husband and his family and I just told him and the family stop calling me he as a new woman
Hahahaha. This is so therapeutic.
Can someone tell me why and how I know all about what derrick is talking about. However, I have absolutely no empathy for men who r I'm their ego in such a way. It's like I know they r protecting their ego but it's to the detriment of their partner. It make me want them to fall on their face and never get up because of the worship of their ego. I seriously can't take their ego worship... I think I need help with the lack of empathy I have... I am working on this
Thisss
Same
Me too I can't stand it.
You don't need work on your empathy when they love their ego more than anything else! Smh
Damn! Just found you today and ❤ how real you keep it.🙏🙏🙏
I've had someone I didn't date stalking me, acting as though we were together, when we were not.
I don't understand this level of delusion. It wasn't even a friendship...
Thank you Derik. You are so wise GB
Your the best‼️ U have made me understand myself as well as my relationship 🌎 🤲🫂💙
You teach me a lot. Thank you so much
I think when women give there bodies to men,then volunteer have a baby with no, commitment. Do they know they has signed themselves up for a broken heart, scared soul & mental health issues. Let's not forget poverty broken dreams.
Not always. I met my future husband after having child by someone else. My daughter was 4 by then and I manifested what I needed and got it.
Yes indeed sometimes we just jump in too quickly without thinking about it.
@@WhineyOne Congratulations! Jesus can restore and do something new in any setback!
Well said Derrick
I really need to get him out of my heart mmm
It’s hard to do but time hells
The saddest thing to me is adults still acting like teenagers ( and not in a good way).
I've learned, oh how I've learned.
All I need to hear ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Wasn’t a breakup I knew that we would try to fix things so we are together now , one thing that happened, we didn’t have sex so we are fighting without sex influence so we can have a clear vision of what we really want for us as a couple .
I needed to hear this. Thank you so much for making this video. Thank you!!!!
Nope never happened with me because he does not like to let go of his ex.
😄this was great. Thank you!
Thats funny. Glad I dont use social media other than to look.
Very well explained
Narrasit stick together, im pretty sure his mom and friends believed all the b.s that comes out his mouth. He played victim to much. And tried to justify his actions & consequences he wld give me with b.s excuses.
Yes he did!
0:55 1.) "Can't let her see me sweat!" 1:42 2.) "I wonder if she's hurtin' too?" 2:16 3.) "Maybe I "F'd" up?" 2:34 "He'll talk to his Momma! And his Momma is really gonna bring it home! "You broke up with her? You messed that up? She was way better than the last one you had, I liked her!" 3:09 4.) "By way of his Home Boys!" 3:23 5.) "At work, he's physically there but mentally absent!"
Excellent content.
Thank you for so many helpful videos!
Truth be told!❤
They don't come back. They know me. 😮
Is it wrong to block and move on cause I just stopped talking to him for 24 hours blocked then changed my number.
Thank u for the stepppppssssss
Thanks for the confirmation! ❤❤❤
I love you so much thank you for helping me
Best Video Ever 🎉🎉🎉
Your telling the truthhhhh
Thank you and God 😊
My ex omg he changed after broke up with me. He was quite, most of the time he was at home with his video games and after he made his decision he changed his behavior. He bought new clothing, going out every night , start drinking a lot and he started smoking 🥲.
Well done ✔️🎯
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
Sounds like my ex right now 🤦🏽♀️✨
This is true it has happened every time 😅😅
Just found you today you keep it 💯 .❤❤❤ thank you ❤
Let’s be adults here…… hahaha
This is great
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
Thank you!!!!❤❤❤
Yes that happened
Thank you 😊
Good grief. Im so glad he is gone.
Thank you...
“I”!!!!!
Thank you ❤❤
I was in a relationship 12 years he didn't want to get married. But he was verbally abusive until that 1 day he called me a bitch wrote him a letter to break up won't look back!