What Your Ex Is Thinking During No Contact

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  • Опубліковано 30 тра 2020
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    In today's video, you're going to learn what your ex is thinking during no contact. After a breakup, there is an imbalance that was caused by your actions- your neediness, your clinginess, your insecurities. You put them on a pedal stool because you've led them to believe that you need them to exist, but this is not your fault. Don't drive yourself crazy if you've put your ex on a pedal stool by doing all sorts of mistakes after a breakup because you were overwhelmed by your emotions, the negativity, and sense of despair that a lot of people experience when they face rejection.
    Your significant other is happy during the early stages of no contact because they have their freedom and independence--and its a new beginning. They are happy because most people aren't ready to accept the breakup, so not hearing from you gives them a sense of validation. But, unfortunately, human beings tend to overvalue what they don't possess and what they've lost. So at some point, if no contact is established the right way, your ex will begin to feel like they've lost you. Watch this video to learn what your ex is thinking during no contact!
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  • @meghanmcdonnell196
    @meghanmcdonnell196 4 роки тому +762

    I can’t thank you enough for this channel. I wouldn’t be able to make it through my sleepless nights without reassurance from your words.

    • @costaskoullias1145
      @costaskoullias1145 3 роки тому +1

      I have a question we have 2 children and we need to have contract regarding our children. I will see my children. Is this a good thing? We try not to have other contact.

    • @Mserikalopez
      @Mserikalopez 3 роки тому

      I agree with you!

    • @DEEEETECH
      @DEEEETECH 3 роки тому

      Meghan you not alone going through it so painful but there is hope I embrace my lost is time to move along.

    • @kostadrandakis5891
      @kostadrandakis5891 3 роки тому

      Same!

    • @swedencentral7489
      @swedencentral7489 3 роки тому

      Same. :(

  • @d33zz5
    @d33zz5 3 роки тому +18

    After 5 months of no contact she texted me trying to be friends I just blocked her immediately and didn’t even read what she said lol

  • @rachaelgordove877
    @rachaelgordove877 2 роки тому +14

    I don't want him back. Him Leaving gives me peace... Yes I do miss him but its fine...

  • @eddiesid1149
    @eddiesid1149 2 роки тому +15

    What a soothing and calm soul this man is.

  • @angelv3313
    @angelv3313 4 роки тому +11

    thank you all for what you do. i'm glad i found your channel.

  • @robynsimpson4610
    @robynsimpson4610 2 роки тому +17

    I receive this Word Amen

  • @messrsandersonco5985
    @messrsandersonco5985 3 роки тому +45

    I love the idea of using the time "to reinvent yourself". A great explanation of how this strategy works..! It must be absolute though until he reaches out - and then play it cool.

  • @ilabwoy2136
    @ilabwoy2136 Рік тому +6

    In panic mode right now😪😪

  • @damaetusok4670
    @damaetusok4670 4 роки тому +15

    Hello coach Adrien. I am going under this situation right now and everytime that I feel sober I just watch your video and listening to evryrhing you say until I fall asleep. Thank u

    • @allymimi8789
      @allymimi8789 11 місяців тому

      Hope you find peace ✌🙏

  • @questioneverything751
    @questioneverything751 Рік тому +4

    I listen to you every single morning

  • @monicaten1
    @monicaten1 3 роки тому +11

    Emotions overwhelm them.....that’s me! And I’m crying😥😭

  • @keylimepie8426
    @keylimepie8426 4 роки тому +8

    Thank you so much for this content✨🌙

  • @summersky7824
    @summersky7824 Рік тому +5

    Thank you! I appreciate all of you and this channel so, so, soooo much!!🙏🏼

  • @geraldinecollins821
    @geraldinecollins821 3 роки тому +3

    This is soooo true my brother!!

  • @sorayacroton1399
    @sorayacroton1399 3 роки тому +3

    You are so right. Thanks for your help. Soraya xox

  • @chonalyn298
    @chonalyn298 4 роки тому +183

    This is really true. In my experience i followed the NC at first its really tough i cried. Everytime i think of time and everytime i remember he dump me bec of other women but after a few months everything change i fell great .i nver think of him ofter.im very free and i can do what i want .....then when i totally move on....he come to my place and tell me tht he really miss me. He want to come bck to me but its over ....so guys NC is very good

  • @philly2009ify
    @philly2009ify 3 роки тому +5

    This is true, I've done this and all the above happened

  • @lauvconstantino3292
    @lauvconstantino3292 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for the knowledge!

  • @danieltrottier8599
    @danieltrottier8599 4 роки тому +1

    Awesome video....it works

  • @isabellahastie573
    @isabellahastie573 3 роки тому +5

    thank you for your wisdom

  • @rosemaryrogers1478
    @rosemaryrogers1478 2 роки тому

    Good information as well as advice😘😘

  • @edwardminaya1708
    @edwardminaya1708 2 роки тому +11

    No contact means you don't see no post on social media or nothing cut her off delete the contact and forget about that

  • @nourake341
    @nourake341 4 роки тому +8

    Hi Coach Arian, could you plz do a video about toxic relationships and when to let go? I know you guys made a video some time ago but could you talk about it again?or Maybe a combo about toxic and narcisstic people in rs?

  • @doughouston3552
    @doughouston3552 Рік тому +8

    Thank you Adrian! This has been very helpful to me/us. Moving forward and reaching out after difficult break up. Blessings to you and love Advice counselors.

  • @ManifestTv.
    @ManifestTv. 2 роки тому +121

    Its so sad to see so many ppl broke-up in the middle of a pandemic.😞

    • @ridha7662
      @ridha7662 2 роки тому +5

      Dear It is not sad...it is really good that we got time to see real faces else in busy life it's very difficult to find anything like this❤️

    • @carolmilligan3259
      @carolmilligan3259 2 роки тому

      Haven't been able to see my friend for so long.really miss him.

    • @xsperiencethe1255
      @xsperiencethe1255 2 роки тому +4

      Dude right. That's why me and my 7 year relationship ended.. We just talked about kids and marriage months ago and now she's with another man. Insane.

    • @yashinaik7660
      @yashinaik7660 2 роки тому

      I got mine just before pandemic and see I'm here

    • @Comeswoopfam
      @Comeswoopfam Рік тому

      That’s the perfect time to do so

  • @11Tov
    @11Tov Рік тому +2

    Amazing gentle soul

  • @ahmedsofiashem3383
    @ahmedsofiashem3383 3 роки тому +14

    I can't thank u enough coz ur advise has given me everything i needed God bless u guys.

  • @tomwylie123
    @tomwylie123 2 роки тому

    Really good video, I loved when you said they will crumble

  • @trizaolentutu2632
    @trizaolentutu2632 3 роки тому +3

    Thanks for your honest advies!! It really worked!!

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 роки тому

      You're welcome. Thank you for watching, glad to hear your feedback!
      Coach Adrian

  • @lindsay5348
    @lindsay5348 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you 🙏

  • @intesarsalim8031
    @intesarsalim8031 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you sir ...For such a valuable and wonderful tips and tricks based on human psychology. ..may God bless you.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much for watching Intesar!
      www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/

  • @johncarlrubiales8078
    @johncarlrubiales8078 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this wonderful wisdom..

  • @eve3363
    @eve3363 2 роки тому +1

    Now this is actually a good video. Great job.

  • @ayushpyare111
    @ayushpyare111 3 роки тому +11

    I hope she comes back 🤞🤞🤞

  • @whotenanal5378
    @whotenanal5378 2 роки тому +2

    Makes me completely Emotional... I will try my best to be patient. Love ur valuable suggestion.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  2 роки тому

      I know how hard this can be but you can do it!
      www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/

  • @thedukeofyewaland
    @thedukeofyewaland 3 роки тому

    You are so apt!

  • @lucymathenge4504
    @lucymathenge4504 2 роки тому +2

    😀this is what i wanted to hear

  • @sharonrutsito1034
    @sharonrutsito1034 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much word of the moment

  • @brandonrhagen
    @brandonrhagen 2 роки тому +1

    Wow you are right. Thank you for this

  • @ringodaisy7
    @ringodaisy7 3 роки тому

    wow spot on.

  • @SP-jp3qu
    @SP-jp3qu 2 роки тому

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @shawnshaner3102
    @shawnshaner3102 4 роки тому

    Thank you.

  • @kikyburnett3356
    @kikyburnett3356 3 роки тому

    Great Video, love it Thank You👍👍😍

  • @mcduffthompson9455
    @mcduffthompson9455 3 роки тому

    Thank you for such advice I'm gonna start working on me

  • @nate_kams_officiel1
    @nate_kams_officiel1 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir 😢😢😢🙏

  • @itsjustme8642
    @itsjustme8642 3 роки тому +2

    Wise man 🙏🏻

  • @ellaz4466
    @ellaz4466 2 роки тому

    Thanks.for the wonderful advise.

  • @cheepawful
    @cheepawful 3 роки тому +8

    Best “advice” I’ve heard!
    Thanks 🙏

  • @elciscopowell5674
    @elciscopowell5674 4 роки тому +10

    Hi. Great content in your video and gives hope and encouragement to all.🙏🏽 Does this apply to married couple that have separated? Do they experience similar feelings?
    Thanks!

  • @RiceGi304
    @RiceGi304 3 роки тому +1

    I love you!!

  • @whiteswan8841
    @whiteswan8841 3 роки тому +1

    Im in the fresh setuation right now.yes its hurt he leave me for other woman and we are in defferent country.we are married and we have plans!but he betrayed me.this channel helps me a lot to be strong.i do no contact.thank you so much for this channel 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ritahahahaaha
    @ritahahahaaha 4 роки тому +44

    You are absolutely right. I have done this it took all my might but I stuck to my plan . He texted me yesterday, he is still on read.🤨🤐

    • @lamamaasrani3659
      @lamamaasrani3659 3 роки тому +5

      Can u pls tell me what exactly u did for him to get back with u? Its not that i need hope or something but i feel so lost it happened 3 days ago and i still cant think straight and i need support pls

  • @alfredburgest4511
    @alfredburgest4511 3 роки тому

    Thanks my friend.

  • @anushaynee1802
    @anushaynee1802 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much..
    Very helpful video ❤

  • @ishallnotdie5407
    @ishallnotdie5407 3 роки тому

    Thank you God bless🙏👑

  • @AustinFranklin-iq8tn
    @AustinFranklin-iq8tn Рік тому

    Hi Adrian,
    Thanks for the quality content. I have a very important question for you. In my case it was me who decided to break up. My girlfriend requested time apart and I decided it was better to break up. How is this case different? Any insight will be DEEPLY appreciated.

  • @leslittle9112
    @leslittle9112 3 роки тому +8

    One week no contact, and she has driven by at least four times, and I'm not on her way to anywhere. Winning! PTL!

  • @Cam-pt9ex
    @Cam-pt9ex 4 роки тому +1

    NC/Radio Silence forever

  • @rifa_.
    @rifa_. Рік тому

    Thank you ❣️

  • @evelisisdavis7242
    @evelisisdavis7242 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @pamelabassmarsh5262
    @pamelabassmarsh5262 3 роки тому +2

    I've done it. The best thing I've done!!!!! ✔

  • @nicolasrodriguez3499
    @nicolasrodriguez3499 4 роки тому +7

    Thank you Adrian. I needed that.

  • @iamweird321
    @iamweird321 2 роки тому +4

    I was toxic. He left me and he will not be coming back. I haven’t had contact with him. He is probably with someone else that will treat him better

  • @ThachiThash
    @ThachiThash 2 роки тому +1

    Thank u💝

  • @jagonpoo1131
    @jagonpoo1131 4 роки тому +6

    It’s going to be hard but hopefully I can do this, telling her I love you and her saying I know, I don’t want that, I want her to want me again

    • @jessicafung7565
      @jessicafung7565 4 роки тому +2

      JagonPoo time will tell, get stronger for yourself and stop telling her you love her until you love yourself more.

  • @mahoganeylampley9562
    @mahoganeylampley9562 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you sooo much i needed this

  • @redouanefellah7310
    @redouanefellah7310 4 роки тому +1

    God bless you

  • @rietta1166
    @rietta1166 2 роки тому

    I have always loved every advise from Love advice Tv thanx guys.
    I hav a question, What is right n effective way to do No contact?

    • @rickydi1321
      @rickydi1321 2 роки тому

      Cut off everything. Stay busy and work on you. They will come back once you do that. Funny thing is you might not want them back at that point. That's my experience. God bless

  • @jamchui9271
    @jamchui9271 3 роки тому +6

    My boyfriend dumped me we are in long distance relationship, and he posted his new gf in WhatsApp 5 hrs I cought him cheating on me. Unbelievable ! After he asked me to marry him and made a plan about our future and now he has a new gf. ! I don't think I'll get him back!

  • @basilistsimpitas6558
    @basilistsimpitas6558 3 роки тому +4

    My 9 years relationship left me like a stranger and blocked me from everything!!9 months since then and i think her no contact tactics are working so she must be happy without me so be it!!

  • @kwabenaantwiacheampong5502
    @kwabenaantwiacheampong5502 3 роки тому +4

    She blocked me and whatsapp me 2 years of no contact. I saw it and never texted back. Now she's always been watching what i put on my status. It really works

  • @TheDrumminChuck
    @TheDrumminChuck 2 роки тому +7

    My sons mother cheated several times and had one of the wife’s not have found out I’d never know. I left and left everything behind she has begged and begged went to therapy got on medications but that flame that once burned is gone and although I tried to forgive I knew it would never be the same. 2 weeks later I find she had been talking to a new guy on a dating app and he had taken her to dinner all while she was begging me. Hold your self to a higher standard guys cus if you allow it once it will continue to happen. I’m hurt but I’m ok

  • @mulanwu5480
    @mulanwu5480 2 роки тому +1

    Yes, it is true…
    When in no contact, SP will try to get attention in social media by posting his lonely feeling… it is true

  • @shawnigriffin9432
    @shawnigriffin9432 3 роки тому +9

    I'm the one who got broken up with and got ignored. I started no contact today and I'm getting private calls and calls from strange numbers. I love it! I want to know what this man will do and I want to see how far he will go to win me back. I need to know if our love is real and worth fighting for. This is great 🤣. Oh how the tables have turned. I cried so hard yesterday. Never again.

  • @monicaten1
    @monicaten1 3 роки тому

    Thankyou😢

  • @neshifuturo
    @neshifuturo 3 роки тому

    on point

  • @bandmaster1
    @bandmaster1 3 роки тому +6

    Not true been separated and in no contact for 3 years. And there is no interest for her to wanna come back!!

  • @davidapacjr1989
    @davidapacjr1989 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much for this channel and your advice! I have an off-topic question for coach Adrian, I really like your accent, it sounds strangely familiar to me. I was wondering where you are from? I think we may be from the same place:)

  • @prashant2374
    @prashant2374 3 роки тому +2

    Each and every word is relatable.

  • @chelaplan5814
    @chelaplan5814 3 роки тому +1

    Hi coach Adrian is it ok to remove,unfriend and unfollow an ex on social media after the break-up?? to prevent myself to contact him.

  • @blank1505
    @blank1505 3 роки тому +1

    Hi coach Adrian,
    How do I establish the no contact properly?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 роки тому

      Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this video.
      ua-cam.com/video/Zh18joNiGZY/v-deo.html
      Coach Adrian

  • @arthurcazares1933
    @arthurcazares1933 4 роки тому +5

    Coach can you make another video about “someone else” currently in that in this pandemic. Sucks man help .

  • @cassandrasophos6678
    @cassandrasophos6678 2 роки тому

    Day 2. No contact

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 3 роки тому +3

    I was so nice to him but when he said he wanted to end it I just said ok and stop texting him

  • @elijahbaltazar9030
    @elijahbaltazar9030 3 роки тому +8

    Hello coach. She friend zoned me because she said she wasn’t ready to love because she doesn’t love herself (she said “I almost love you” several times and she told me no one has ever treated her this well). It took me a while to realize that I was friend zoned because initially, all she told me was that she needs space. She continued to text me though because she told me that I was one of her best friends (I told her she’s one of mine too). But after talking with her, I told her I need space from her now. Do I apply the no contact rule? She essentially broke up with me without me knowing. I even asked her if her telling me that she needs space was her way of letting me down easily and she asked me what I meant by that. Please help me coach!

  • @kathleenreihana986
    @kathleenreihana986 2 роки тому

    ty

  • @annietomlinson270
    @annietomlinson270 3 роки тому +3

    Seen this on 222k views. Wow. This is a sign

  • @lelexx4493
    @lelexx4493 3 роки тому +8

    Idk my ex posted week ago a sad quote and deleted it right after I saw it. I’m over a month on no contact now

  • @amarachiprisca4228
    @amarachiprisca4228 2 роки тому

    Ok sir I have a question

  • @HardcityRaindrops
    @HardcityRaindrops 3 роки тому +1

    What is the court is making us have a no contact

  • @toms81162
    @toms81162 4 роки тому +17

    Yeah right. Did the NC, she eventually texted to get my stuff and have a 2.5 hour talk where she brought up the breakup in the last half hour. While I was there she said I could keep my mothers Christmas decorations at her house. What?!!
    Overall the talk went well, she agreed we needed to talk more. I took a shot, over stepped, and asked when this virus is over maybe we could have dinner. She said that would be nice.
    When I left she leaned in for a hug but backed off, fine, with this virus, safe move. Texted her a couple of times since then, nothing specific, no relationship talk. That was two weeks a go. She has not texted first unless she wanted me to get my stuff.
    My feelings? She gave lip service and nothing more. So I guess I dont give a poop, JUST LIKE HER.

  • @cesarromo3745
    @cesarromo3745 3 роки тому +2

    My sons mom left me almost 3 months ago she actually left to another state and i am not sure if she is ever coming back we have been in contact but I have slowly have a kept it to a minimum.

  • @eunexoproducts9145
    @eunexoproducts9145 3 роки тому

    Iv seen its working for me

  • @toronto416.
    @toronto416. 3 роки тому +10

    Please do a video on narcissist ex

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for watching. We will work on that in our upcoming videos.
      Coach Adrian

  • @canadianenglishschool1929
    @canadianenglishschool1929 3 роки тому +1

    how can you do no contact if there are kids to visit and share time with?

  • @ryanfreeman5987
    @ryanfreeman5987 3 роки тому +1

    Man I need to reach out to you for some help

  • @dianezielinski462
    @dianezielinski462 3 роки тому +1

    How about physical abuse?? Safety 1st. My way w/ 1 way this x

  • @gia7698
    @gia7698 3 роки тому +1

    I know its been 1 year according to your video. Do you still give advice? Let me know, because I know if I do not get some sort of answer...even a quarter of an answer to my question, I will soon have a heart attack! I am so confused and distraught!

  • @bradymac2158
    @bradymac2158 3 роки тому +3

    What if you're doing the no contact but she's found someone she's been talking to on tinder? She's going to be moving on way easier without talking