Why A 12- And 14-Year-Old Say They’ve Never Had A Friend Over To Their Home
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- A 12- and 14-year-old open up about what their home life is like with a mom accused of living in a filthy house filled with feces, garbage and bugs.
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Those poor kids are so stressed and nervous , you can tell they're worried about answering their questions. Breaks my heart to see this.
You can see they're anxiety. It's hard being that young and dealing with your parents issues...
Yes it is
@Emily Wickler that’s not shaking. That’s nervousness
I think the kids fear opening up because of how their mother will treat them once home.
The movements to when I first went therapy I had blue jeans on and I scratched my leg so much that the dye was on my hands and when I did notice I had no clue I was doing it
Yes and children feel shame because of their parents behaviour
Shame on that “mother” she told them to lie. Look at them both shaking.
To lie? Shanking like that is nervousness
They need to live with older sister. The mother needs help..but is in denial😮😮😮
The anxiety of those kids is so sad. Someone save them!
These poor kids are SO anxious! 😭
Nervous, probably scared of their mother.
CPS needs to remove them from the toxic surroundings
Poor kid can't stop bouncing and twitching probably thinking they're going to be in trouble or the mom has told them all their lives to never speak about it.... Must be so traumatizing ☹️
Agree that boy is so very anxious, this will effect them psychologically for years to come. I can’t imagine being forced to live in such a pig sty. The girl is nervous too, but I think the boy seems worse, he was even too scared to say anything, she probably beats up on him the most. Psychological abuse is worse than physical !
That's ptsd, imagine you get threatened in the streets, you would move away, now imagine you can't get away, you start hallucinating (also happens in ADHD cases)
"... and this guy named Bob"
He might be a father figure to them.
The landlord Bob.
It's visibly clear that these kids are afraid, and are in distress just by observing their body movements 🙁, Poor kids don't deserve to go through that and should be living their lives " STRESS FREE &, WORRY FREE WITH FRIENDS " I know that this episode is a few years old, but I truly hope that they're Happy Today with no burdens 🙏🏼💜
This really broke my heart into pieces.. I feel so horrible for them.. This is just really really sad..
I remember being one of those kids. My mother is a terrible hoarder and would never keep a clean house. To this day she's the same way. We try to help for our youngest brother but she'll never keep up with it. Those kids probably feel like it's their fault because she blames them so much.
Same for me. Do what you can to take your little brother or at least stay active in his life.
So sorry!
I have no idea why that Dr is asking those kids all those questions that they can’t answer?? Like...”why do you think your mom did this??” How are they supposed to know.
He might be trying to check in on their opinion of the situation because kids most often blame themselves for the way things are, it’s important t they know it’s not their fault
@@Dids010 Truth
It's called an opinion. He needs every side of the story and he needs to know what they know and how they think
Because they can give a different perspective from the completely in denial mother? Obviously.
This is heartbreaking.
Anxiety and nervousness! Probably panic disorder too! Poor babies
I don't like how Sophy spoke to them, his questions are so leading and loaded! For the director of CPS you'd think he'd be a bit more aware
He has always given me the creeps. Flat affect and smug.
@@oliviamartini9700 especially for an agency that's a mess.
These kids are so nervous so say anything
Give em a house with a nice garden for the mother and dogs.
They got given a home. Many
Shes been given homes free and clear and has ruined them to the point that they were condemned. She deserves nothing.
They don't need no animals until they can take care of themselves and just keep the house clean that's just embarrassing for them all
The mother is the problem! The kids are the ones that need a clean house, in a loving home removed from the mother! She needs to go to some kind of rehab for her utter dirtiness, learn how to live like a human, and how to treat children, because she clearly has no idea, if she still doesn’t get it they are better off removed from her completely and give those kids a chance in life.
@@shaz8486 I think you all miss the point i was making tongue in cheek, i mean the mother should live in the garden with the dogs.
I feel so sorry for both of them🥺 the anxiety and nervous 😓 in them. I hope they can get help as well as their mom..so they can have a better environment and healthy quality childhood and family life 🤗
I don’t think it’s right to question the kids.
Houses are easy to clean. It's cleaning and airing out their minds and young hearts that's not so easy. Filling both with great dreams and resources to achieve with small specific steps every day forward.
These children are absolutely terrified; they've probably been told to say what Dr Phil wants to hear "or there will be consequences". I hope these children can be helped and placed with a relative whilst their mother gets herself sorted out. By relative I mean aunt/uncle, grandparents, cousins, godparents etc. If it can be avoided that they are put in a group home or split up and put with foster carers;then that's for the best.
Bless their hearts. You know they are so embarrassed and would love to have a clean home! I have a clean home and when my children have friends over I do a super cleaning!!! I want my children to be proud of their home and never embarrassed! I literally sweep and mop every other day🤣🤣❤️
How on earth has this woman not been jailed for neglect and child abuse. She dose not deserve beautiful children 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
She cant have them, ridiculous and dangerous..
For those who don't have a psychology degree, watch closely. When you are educated in psychology, you are able to coax and manipulate to get the answer you're looking to get. Notice how at first he said to the children they want guests over and the mother doesn't let them have guests over and later on changed it to the children don't invite guests because they are ashamed to have guests over. Most people aren't trained to pick up this type of manipulation but notice how the children answered yes to both. 2:25 3:45. (Dr. Phil doesn't do this) Good thing they didn't get CPS involved because I know some real foster home horror stories. My boyfriend is 51 and still cries about it and wishes they would have left him with his mom but she was on drugs. He would've rather been with a drug addict who loved him then abusers who hated him.
Those kids are old enough to feel ashamed of how their house is and how they smell. And I believe it's both that they want to invite friends over and Mom says no but then they are embarrased/ashamed of their house and don't want their friends over,
Also remember that they likely won’t show the whole of the interview, just portions.
Are you seriously not getting it? It's ALL of that. The kids are embarrassed and ashamed of the home situation, they'd like to have people over to a nice home. The mom refuses to clean up, or let people in. AND They're afraid of the mom. Look at them shake!
They feel being truthful will be seen by mother as a betrayal because they've been heavily coached all their lives.
@@fairladykd6734 CPS doesn't allow friends to visit ever, if a child is old enough they can help clean. I know I'd never blame my parents and tell them to clean up so I can have my friends over. In a foster home, kids have to clean a lot.
@@jillianleda6732 WHAT?! NOT true! Friends ARE allowed over & not every foster home makes the child a maid! Just stop. From your 1st post you sounded foolish.
Poor kids are a mess 😥
I believe Dr. Phil could gain unspeakable credibility with his viewers if he documented the path of this family's progress. Without that he leaves everyone just guessing?
I’m wearing the exact same shorts he is
Why is Dr Phil LYING TO the children.
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