Mom Says Teen Son Refuses To Go To School, Lies, And Gets In Her Face With Anger

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  • Опубліковано 26 січ 2020
  • A mom says her 17-year-old son refuses to go to school, lies about “everything,” and rages. What does she say she believes caused him to turn from an “extremely sweet, loving” boy to an anger-filled teen?
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  • @cshmnyj
    @cshmnyj 4 роки тому +1722

    She’s more concerned with him hurting someone than killing himself. Sad

    • @kingkatyusha2424
      @kingkatyusha2424 4 роки тому +16

      Jada Nicole both are bad as each other

    • @lightningbolt4419
      @lightningbolt4419 4 роки тому +45

      @@kingkatyusha2424 He has an illness, shes just cruel

    • @dailydefaults
      @dailydefaults 4 роки тому +1

      Was gonna comment the same thing

    • @wackyhijinks
      @wackyhijinks 4 роки тому +2

      @@kingkatyusha2424 Not true.

    • @featuremarkstudios
      @featuremarkstudios 4 роки тому +11

      @@kingkatyusha2424 What an arrogant and uninformed comment. What you said is not even close. Killing yourself is selfish. But what's more selfish is to take away someone's life who didn't do anything to deserve it.

  • @iWillWakeYouUp
    @iWillWakeYouUp 4 роки тому +2763

    Lmao the mom and her re-enactments of her son are cringy and hilarious

  • @christianedwards3448
    @christianedwards3448 4 роки тому +877

    Hates school, no hobbies, just sleeps in his free time... Isn't that called depression?

    • @Jacob-le6nh
      @Jacob-le6nh 4 роки тому +15

      No... no it’s not

    • @adriana8607
      @adriana8607 4 роки тому +136

      Actually these are in fact symptoms of depression

    • @angiedriggs2160
      @angiedriggs2160 4 роки тому +62

      SosaGamer ...you shouldnt say that. laziness isnt something that would affect him to be this disfunctional. it could be depressive side affects from doing drugs, insomnia, or anxiety. it could also be depression. it sureeee does sound like it. also, depression isnt just isolation. you should study it more. just because he doesnt lock himself in his room 24/7 does not mean he isnt depressed.

    • @hecklife6636
      @hecklife6636 4 роки тому +22

      SosaGamer
      laziness is a major factor of depression. what you’re describing is introversion.

    • @kamilmalinowski1267
      @kamilmalinowski1267 4 роки тому +9

      SosaGamer it could be social anxiety as well

  • @imanitaylor2484
    @imanitaylor2484 4 роки тому +1747

    "I never brought pot to school. I never brought nicotine to school. I did bring a vape to school, but I never brought nicotine to school."...Wasn't suppose to be funny, but I laughed so hard.

    • @robertwochoski3774
      @robertwochoski3774 4 роки тому +35

      Everyone did

    • @ericaschaidt8588
      @ericaschaidt8588 4 роки тому +76

      Imani Taylor while he may very well be lying it is possible. There are vape options that don’t contain nicotine or THC.

    • @emersonhawks
      @emersonhawks 4 роки тому +36

      There are vape liquids without nicotine but who knows if hes lying

    • @Ashton__
      @Ashton__ 4 роки тому +5

      Imani Taylor ikr!!! VAPE JUICE HAS NICOTINE IN IT 😂

    • @trillnix3043
      @trillnix3043 4 роки тому +4

      Sounds like he’s acting

  • @MrBug-qp1zz
    @MrBug-qp1zz 4 роки тому +892

    Her recreating son's anger is just hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣wtfffff

    • @bennettlieberman1710
      @bennettlieberman1710 4 роки тому +12

      Lady Braybrooke yes I lol 😂😂😂 if only I was in the audience I’d be covering my mouth

    • @spce777
      @spce777 4 роки тому +4

      💀

    • @sa1187
      @sa1187 4 роки тому +1

      😂😭

    • @bongo6022
      @bongo6022 4 роки тому +11

      I cringed sooooo hard

    • @cindyhehe1504
      @cindyhehe1504 4 роки тому

      0:52

  • @ThePersonator2000
    @ThePersonator2000 4 роки тому +647

    You’re so concerned about “what if he does something to someone??”
    “He’s so angry all the time”
    When he just told you he was suicidal and you didn’t even voice his own self harm as a concern?

    • @m_-.430
      @m_-.430 4 роки тому +2

      He claims that he has anxiety yet he can talk in front of an audience without having any social anxiety yeah that seems legit

    • @syubbi
      @syubbi 4 роки тому +32

      tgf xp not all anxiety is social anxiety bub

    • @zZera
      @zZera 4 роки тому +13

      tgf xp dude. Having anxiety doesn’t mean you have social anxiety, they’re two different things

    • @amaniqiy
      @amaniqiy 4 роки тому +5

      tgf xp hmmm sis you don’t know the difference between some anxieties, don’t go around saying stuff you haven’t got a clue about

    • @indifferent.1588
      @indifferent.1588 4 роки тому +1

      @@m_-.430 sdfu

  • @Evan250xxx
    @Evan250xxx 4 роки тому +623

    she’s killing his mental health

    • @kennethnystrom593
      @kennethnystrom593 4 роки тому +6

      she isnt at all, she is thou (and seemingly everyone around him giving him the impression he has the option to behave like this)

    • @Evan250xxx
      @Evan250xxx 4 роки тому +15

      Kenneth Nyström she gave him anxiety and refused let what he want

    • @kennethnystrom593
      @kennethnystrom593 4 роки тому +1

      @@Evan250xxx Then id explain to the kid there is nothing to be anxious about, you got 1, 1 option.

    • @ericaschaidt8588
      @ericaschaidt8588 4 роки тому +16

      Kenneth Nyström you think you can explain away anxiety? That’s not how that works.

    • @XxX_afterHours_XxX
      @XxX_afterHours_XxX 4 роки тому +5

      @@ericaschaidt8588 i concur.
      in life, there is no such thing as "one chance" and if he were to experiance the workload given on kids nowadays, he'd see something to be anxious about.
      chances are he's a bud light sippin' fucktard, but that's just me

  • @Youtubing5999
    @Youtubing5999 4 роки тому +776

    If someone is short tempered or having an outburst you don’t keep provoking them! People do this at work all the time and I stay calm or walk away if they don’t stop. Also I’ve noticed all the kids who are “bad” on here have a helicopter parent!

    • @alana4554
      @alana4554 4 роки тому +5

      What's a helicopter parent?

    • @Sw33tLilMonstr
      @Sw33tLilMonstr 4 роки тому +28

      @@alana4554 basically a parent that controls every single thing you do. They go through your things, your phone and privacy and dont let you do anything on your own or have your own voice. I dont think these people are helicopter parents though

    • @alana4554
      @alana4554 4 роки тому +3

      @Sweet Little Monster ah okay thx :)

    • @kohlbyhayes9173
      @kohlbyhayes9173 4 роки тому +2

      If that behavior is ignored or tolerated it will continue

    • @liliavenus6503
      @liliavenus6503 4 роки тому +9

      I was raised around "bad kids" and I happen to be one (getting help now) and I've realized the only reason why bad kids act bad is because they feel bad inside. Obviously their not happy if they're screaming, acting out, getting trouble with the law. There is always something going on inside if you see a kid or a teen acting like that.

  • @Music4EverKanekavi
    @Music4EverKanekavi 4 роки тому +540

    Shes actually his biological *grandmother*
    His own sister had him, his biological father at that time injured him greatly as a baby, which is when the grandmother adopted him.
    Poor kid is suffering, he needs much greater attention by people who love him

    • @katies5356
      @katies5356 4 роки тому +4

      How do u know this

    • @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239
      @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239 4 роки тому +5

      @@katies5356 it's on previous clips .. I actually watched 2 of them before this clip .
      Just scroll through the next clips and you'll find them.

    • @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239
      @ms.artichokecheesepizzawst3239 4 роки тому +16

      You are joking right ?
      Greater Love ????
      His father could have potentially killed him and his family saw and saved him from that!!!
      Protected him for harm and potential death .
      Gave him Love , gave him a home !!!
      Gave him everything!!!
      And it wasnt enough ?
      Your brain has ESCAPED TIME and made you an idiot ..

    • @katies5356
      @katies5356 4 роки тому

      d stu thanks!

    • @Coryraisa
      @Coryraisa 4 роки тому +12

      What he needs is a good rehab center, psychiatric intervention and perhaps a long-term in-patient treatment plan...that's the best love he can receive.
      Not pleading, not yelling back, not standing/sitting by helplessly and doing nothing.

  • @emilymckenzie9296
    @emilymckenzie9296 4 роки тому +156

    I feel really bad for him

    • @emilymckenzie9296
      @emilymckenzie9296 4 роки тому +1

      SaintyStarfishYT if you ever need to talk msg me on insta emsspamz20. I’m sorry that you’re going through that I went through really hard depression for 14 years but it gets better I promise

    • @ricardomorales8969
      @ricardomorales8969 Рік тому +1

      @Varix2006 being a teenager isn’t that fun

    • @kennethcochran5277
      @kennethcochran5277 Рік тому

      Me too

    • @alanmawson2187
      @alanmawson2187 5 місяців тому

      Me too

    • @violinistvanessa0922
      @violinistvanessa0922 5 місяців тому

      Me too

  • @allisonnish9756
    @allisonnish9756 4 роки тому +141

    Honestly kinda feel bad for the teen because he hates school and his parents aren't trying to talk to him about how to cope or make it easier. Of course he can deal with his anger better. However, I believe he just wants his family to see how he is feeling. This is just my opinion.

  • @nathanniesche6380
    @nathanniesche6380 4 роки тому +169

    Seeing the mocking tone she has while talking to Dr. Phil about her grandson really makes me not like this lady.

  • @ggn4016
    @ggn4016 4 роки тому +518

    Suspended for 10 days for a vape... LOOOLL he does sound like he’s acting but no way

  • @Mandaxx25
    @Mandaxx25 4 роки тому +259

    He's fed up of his parents treating him like that. Sometimes kids just can't catch a break. His mum seems bloody annoying. He could be on the spectrum. I was but wasn't diagnosed until 32 and i would have meltdowns and no one would know why or what I was talking about during them.

    • @justme-pv8yz
      @justme-pv8yz 4 роки тому +9

      I think so, i have 2 children on opposite ends of the spectrum.

    • @SleeplessinOC
      @SleeplessinOC 4 роки тому +3

      WhisperSparkles ASMR Since 2010 I feel sorry for this young man . Imagine all the pain and anger only to have your mom making it worse .

    • @twigaroho912
      @twigaroho912 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah definitely agree .. I have similar outburst like that at his age .. his hole explanation of things sounds like me at his age .. at 24 was diagnosed

    • @gpug4415
      @gpug4415 4 роки тому +4

      His friend killed himself. He’s in an angry grieving stage

    • @AlexRosario222
      @AlexRosario222 3 роки тому +4

      @@gpug4415 he also got sexually abused by his real father, those are his grandparents they adopted him so he probably is having a hard time

  • @emmam8682
    @emmam8682 4 роки тому +71

    *kid: "im grieving over the loss of my friend and i hate school because it stresses me out and im feeling suicidal too"*
    *mom: "its the weed"*

    • @darajoyce5514
      @darajoyce5514 2 роки тому +3

      Wtf aaaaa just dismissing his pain aaaa

    • @locc989
      @locc989 2 роки тому

      fr fr

  • @lolc-wm6fu
    @lolc-wm6fu 4 роки тому +327

    "I'm so angry I could hit someone right now ughhhhhhhhhh."

  • @TheBizzle1984
    @TheBizzle1984 4 роки тому +414

    The fake yelling nonsense is an intimidation tactic. He needs a lot of counseling. He's got a persecution complex. Also, his mom is clueless.

    • @kennethnystrom593
      @kennethnystrom593 4 роки тому +7

      More options is not what this youth needs.
      1 option and all this vanishes.

    • @tapski1
      @tapski1 4 роки тому +5

      The mom is just who she is. The kid has behavioral Health issues that's all.
      Spread love please.

    • @bellareina05
      @bellareina05 4 роки тому +3

      His only issue is being spoiled and entitled. Save the parents the money from paying all these pseudo scientist and take everything away but the bare requirement. If he doesn't clean up his act he is off to job core or military school.

    • @XxX_afterHours_XxX
      @XxX_afterHours_XxX 4 роки тому +5

      @Elizabeth Brower and so do you.

    • @zoe-iu5ut
      @zoe-iu5ut 4 роки тому +3

      afterHours i agree with everything you’ve said, except how tf is psychology not actual science? how can something that you can study and get a degree for not be an actual science? i get that it’s not a rigorous science and the past experiments have been kinda racist and misogynistic, but c’mon. not everything that is measurable needs to be quantifiable in order to be a science. psychology has done a lot to further us and mental health. it’s not perfect but it’s getting there.

  • @ottersimms7672
    @ottersimms7672 4 роки тому +55

    She hears her own son yell “school makes me want to kill myself” and she continues to egg him on. Like... get your son HELP. Nicotine, weed, and all other types of drugs are stemmed addictions because of personal pain. He needs help, he’s obviously struggling. I feel for him... he deserves somebody to really care and listen and understand him 💓

    • @marraine7299
      @marraine7299 2 роки тому +1

      At this point I consider a mom a good mom if she does something nice for her son once a year

  • @victoriataylor6967
    @victoriataylor6967 4 роки тому +213

    something about this mom rubs me the wrong way. she’s clearly been making the situation worse by adding to the tension and making little to no effort to understand her son. instead, she seems more focused on placing blame, being in the right, and pushing the responsibility of raising her son onto somebody else. talk to your kid. anger feeds anger

    • @position9925
      @position9925 4 роки тому +2

      She on opiates i feel

    • @SleeplessinOC
      @SleeplessinOC 4 роки тому +11

      JAY GEEBEE if you’re not gonna try to do it right , then she should not have adopted him at all . How much better off is he if his own grandmother isn’t making the effort to really hear him and understand him than being in the foster system ?

    • @ivyrose779
      @ivyrose779 4 роки тому +2

      JAY GEEBEE She his mother now. She adopted him so it’s her responsibility.

    • @featuremarkstudios
      @featuremarkstudios 4 роки тому

      @@jaygeebee7291 IRRELEVANT. It doesn't matter if she's his grandmother and not mother. The point is SHE TAKES CARE OF HIM. So, she needs to actually listen to him and try to understand him instead of trying to get a rise out of him. Do you understand how frustrating it is to go through something so hard and then for someone to completely disregard that? To have your whole world collapse before your eyes only to be MOCKED like she does to him. Get a clue.

    • @amazonamazing2742
      @amazonamazing2742 2 роки тому

      That’s appropiate

  • @shanicebarth6918
    @shanicebarth6918 4 роки тому +50

    He might be yelling but hes literally just trying to tell them how he feels... he said school makes him feel bad but they just write it off as a addiction and him being over dramatic.

    • @SuicideRedemption
      @SuicideRedemption 4 роки тому +5

      His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him
      Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death
      He is grieving and in pain.
      Plus that lady isn't his actual mother. He found out his real mother is his sister.

  • @adenboogie3631
    @adenboogie3631 4 роки тому +37

    His mom is just annoying, he just needs to be understood

  • @ArchWolfVegasEditor
    @ArchWolfVegasEditor 4 роки тому +228

    He’s so concerned with other people seeing the wrong they do to him but he couldn’t care less about what all that screaming is doing to other people.

    • @kennethnystrom593
      @kennethnystrom593 4 роки тому +3

      Yeep thats pretty much it.
      (to low price to behave "bad")

    • @bellareina05
      @bellareina05 4 роки тому +7

      He would not be screaming at me his butt would be on the next bus to job core

    • @ladyrain299
      @ladyrain299 4 роки тому +29

      Maybe because he feels like no one cares about the hurt that was done to him.

    • @ladyrain299
      @ladyrain299 4 роки тому +12

      Tough Bickies the abuse he received as an infant and the trauma of being adopted in general.

    • @ladyrain299
      @ladyrain299 4 роки тому +9

      Tough Bickies does he? Or does that soft place feel full of uncomfortable lies and secrets? I’m just saying, he shouldn’t have to be grateful his parents love him.

  • @joshblack4407
    @joshblack4407 4 роки тому +43

    Lol she's turning him insane, I bet she has no hobbies, her son is probably her hobby..

  • @cassgruberman6425
    @cassgruberman6425 4 роки тому +32

    I'd hate that woman too. She's so set in her ways and is the one with the real issues

    • @uk9383
      @uk9383 4 роки тому +2

      I agree

  • @kcroeder
    @kcroeder 4 роки тому +26

    Dude that kid has every right to be mad. Those parents are out of touch.

  • @m20tjm
    @m20tjm 4 роки тому +124

    How is this his mum, she seems like one of the least scary people when she’s angry if that’s what she’s like

    • @Annat4r
      @Annat4r 4 роки тому +3

      He's adopted I believe good sir

    • @michelleboldan5
      @michelleboldan5 4 роки тому +1

      He’s adopted

    • @m20tjm
      @m20tjm 4 роки тому

      Ahh yes on closer inspection I put a gap in my intelligence at the moment of making that comment

    • @Annat4r
      @Annat4r 4 роки тому +1

      Don't sweat it, it happens to everyone

    • @m20tjm
      @m20tjm 4 роки тому +1

      Ah hah according to someone else in this comment section she’s the grandmother so what I said above could be true( putting faith into someone else)

  • @marsdapoet1740
    @marsdapoet1740 4 роки тому +130

    He clearly is doing this for attention sometimes the only way to get it is to act out negatively. She needs to hear her son out before it’s too late

    • @dustinfitzmaurice8592
      @dustinfitzmaurice8592 4 роки тому +3

      KeeannaVibes I think it is to late.....

    • @SuicideRedemption
      @SuicideRedemption 4 роки тому +6

      His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him
      Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death
      He is grieving and in pain.

  • @irenedontoh3539
    @irenedontoh3539 4 роки тому +148

    Sorry to say this, but the mom looks funny when she's mimicking and imitating her son

    • @happydayz7857
      @happydayz7857 4 роки тому +1

      Irene Dontoh reminds me of Kathy bates in Misery

    • @CashCatMoney
      @CashCatMoney 4 роки тому +3

      ...it kind of looks like she's pooping

    • @irenedontoh3539
      @irenedontoh3539 4 роки тому +1

      @@CashCatMoney 😂🤣🙊🙊

  • @yoojinjan7664
    @yoojinjan7664 4 роки тому +119

    The only thing this boy need is someone to talk to him , and listen to him , that's all

    • @Ashton__
      @Ashton__ 4 роки тому

      yoo jin jan he needs a hiding

    • @Melody_On_Pawz1
      @Melody_On_Pawz1 4 роки тому

      He definitely needs that but it’s also definitely not that simple

    • @OGStarlightKY
      @OGStarlightKY 4 роки тому +3

      @WINTER Well you're uneducated if you think he's smoking just to do it. He clearly stated that he has anxiety. And his best friend commited suicide.

    • @featuremarkstudios
      @featuremarkstudios 4 роки тому +1

      @WINTER You're a moron. Ever think maybe he gets high because no one listens to him?

  • @tasha3757
    @tasha3757 4 роки тому +9

    He's DEPRESSED for goodness sake! HE'S DEALING WITH A FRIEND WHO JUST COMMITTED SUICIDE!
    Smh

  • @glenistergrotj3022
    @glenistergrotj3022 Рік тому +6

    Sounds like the kid has depression. Not going to school, loosing joy in life and not having hobbies, sleeping in his free time, having sudden outbursts. Those are all signs of depression, I don’t think he’s a bad person. Depression can change people and make people snap no matter who the person is.

  • @helloandgoodmorning3596
    @helloandgoodmorning3596 4 роки тому +23

    The mom reenacting her son's tantrums tho😆😆😆😂😂😂

  • @luke1835
    @luke1835 3 роки тому +5

    I struggled with mental health at his age. I still do. If my mother behaved like his, I absolutely would not be here right now.

  • @tripocular
    @tripocular 4 роки тому +19

    Mom- “my greatest concern is him hurting someone”
    You should probably worry about him hurting himself
    He seems stressed, and as a teen who’s about to go to high school and has been through stuff just hear him out

  • @blxckdixmonds
    @blxckdixmonds 4 роки тому +9

    0:05 “well don’t tell me i can drop out if i’m not gonna be able to.”
    .... my boy has a point

    •  4 роки тому

      I laughed so hard

  • @elliemartin4155
    @elliemartin4155 4 роки тому +7

    i just watched a video before this about this, his friend just killed him self. parents and adults need to try and understand.
    his friend killed him self because of bullies at school.
    why would you want to go somewhere that constantly reminds you of your dead friend?
    why would you want to go to where the people who lead your friend to death are?

  • @Vunu20k
    @Vunu20k 4 роки тому +5

    She said shes afraid hes gonna kill someone, when the person hes gonna kill is himself

  • @sethmoneygetter7140
    @sethmoneygetter7140 4 роки тому +7

    That “mom” is definitely looking for empathy, manipulative, and clueless.

  • @blakeholland1562
    @blakeholland1562 4 роки тому +64

    she needs to calm down but he’s still too easily aggravated.

    • @bennettlieberman1710
      @bennettlieberman1710 4 роки тому

      xanaxc- ‘ nobody is calm under pressure

    • @ericaschaidt8588
      @ericaschaidt8588 4 роки тому

      Bennett Lieberman that’s not entirely true.

    • @AnnaGibson
      @AnnaGibson 4 роки тому

      I'm so confused the mom was calm for the entire video

    • @gotatoka8114
      @gotatoka8114 4 роки тому

      Anonymously yours, and why doesn’t his mom leave him alone she is a helicopter parent anyway

    • @SuicideRedemption
      @SuicideRedemption 4 роки тому

      His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him
      Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death
      He is grieving and in pain.
      Plus that lady is his grandmother. He was lied to all his life. They told him she was his mom and that his actual mom is his sister.
      His world came crashing down

  • @audreywhite6592
    @audreywhite6592 4 роки тому +44

    He doesn’t seem like a bad kid he’s just getting bullied

    • @SuicideRedemption
      @SuicideRedemption 4 роки тому +3

      His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him
      Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death
      He is grieving and in pain.
      Plus that lady isnt his actual mom.its his grandma. He found out that she lied to him his entire life saying she was his mom and his actual mom his sister
      His whole world has come crumbling down.

    • @kaywee4200
      @kaywee4200 4 роки тому +1

      @@SuicideRedemption goodness :(

    • @martingardner9124
      @martingardner9124 3 роки тому

      Yes. That’s his problem. It’s all since his friend committed suicide

    • @AlexRosario222
      @AlexRosario222 3 роки тому

      @@SuicideRedemption on top of that, the reason she adopted him was because his father was SA him when he was a baby so the court took him away from them and gave him to her

    • @martingardner9124
      @martingardner9124 3 роки тому

      That’s his issue. It’s after his friend committed suicide.

  • @shlogedis2364
    @shlogedis2364 4 роки тому +6

    his friend literally killed himself. hes having a hard time and shes not helping him at all

  • @ryleelawler6202
    @ryleelawler6202 4 роки тому +4

    This poor kid is clearly suffering. He needs help managing his mental health. Saying "oh hes so angry" shuts down and invalidates what hes feeling. He already said he wanted to kill himself and she didnt bat an eye

  • @kkerr1993
    @kkerr1993 4 роки тому +5

    I’m scared for this young man’s safety, especially when he’s vocalizing that he wants to kill himself and his parents are doing NOTHING. I’m praying he gets help and sees life is worth living. This is coming from a 4-time suicide survivor.

  • @goofball2228
    @goofball2228 2 роки тому +2

    I know what it’s like to be an angry teenager. I was an angry teenager who raged like that. His rage is stemming from his sadness and fear. He needs someone to hear him out.

  • @jupiterzombies
    @jupiterzombies 4 роки тому +4

    "what does he do for fun?" "nothing that i know of" THAT is how you can tell she is not paying any attention to her son or listening to him at all

  • @raeganhall8777
    @raeganhall8777 4 роки тому +16

    she’s dramatic lol

  • @sola9219
    @sola9219 4 роки тому +2

    I've been suffering with depression and suicidal thoughts too, but I haven't shouted and voice it out loud like that. That really means he's really done, he had too much. It must have been so painful for him.

  • @Great_WesternTVFan
    @Great_WesternTVFan 2 роки тому +2

    His stress, anxiety and anger actually match with mine

  • @glenistergrotj3022
    @glenistergrotj3022 Рік тому +4

    The fact that she is scared of him hurting someone but she isn’t concerned about his well being is just sad. I don’t think he would hurt someone, I think he’s at risk of suicide.

  • @ladyrain299
    @ladyrain299 4 роки тому +8

    So this child who was adopted and lied to about his parentage for years...is diagnosed with ptsd from the infant hood trauma he endured...
    The cannabis is treating his ptsd. He should see a dr about a prescription and get his medical card. Cannabis is a highly effective medication for ptsd.
    He should be allowed to explore his parentage and given support in discovering such a critical part of himself.
    And his parents should be supportive and loving. They should be the soft and warm and loving place that a child deserves.

  • @bshays21
    @bshays21 4 роки тому +1

    My mom is like her. I still have night terrors about school. See those bullies in public and shut down quick.

  • @ktalbert700
    @ktalbert700 4 роки тому +3

    Man, that kid is literally a spitting image of myself and probably many others in this generation

  • @cailinschaub2835
    @cailinschaub2835 4 роки тому +4

    Everybody needs breaks sometimes. It’s even harder for him when his own mom doesn’t listen to him. If your son openly admits that he wants to KILL himself, the fact that you would even let it get to that point is disgusting, but any sane parent would sit down with him and comfort him.

  • @LoVE.B.
    @LoVE.B. 4 роки тому +12

    *This is called, living in your head.*

  • @allisonfields3108
    @allisonfields3108 4 роки тому +2

    The way she reenacts his behavior reads almost like she's mocking him

  • @bigbill5865
    @bigbill5865 4 роки тому +2

    She acts like he should act like a typical teen...

  • @ripdiptatterchip3851
    @ripdiptatterchip3851 4 роки тому +5

    lmao “i’ve never brought nicotine to school. i brought a vape but not nicotine”

  • @gerard7417
    @gerard7417 4 роки тому +3

    He's actually a very smart young guy he just needs a better a good support system

  • @amantyde
    @amantyde 4 роки тому +1

    Dr.Phil,Your Show is absolutely Beautiful And Wonderful.
    I Love it So Much,Seeing You Fixing Families And Well...Life.
    Thank You.

  • @jlstump849
    @jlstump849 4 роки тому +2

    I want to give him a hug so bad right now.

  • @guridurituriduri
    @guridurituriduri 4 роки тому +4

    "I dunno what makes him happy."
    "He has to go out with his friends all the time."

  • @bahaamohamad9296
    @bahaamohamad9296 4 роки тому +3

    If that was my child I’d get him serious help

  • @lamasu8060
    @lamasu8060 4 роки тому +2

    So.....he was adopted to be taken away from an abusive father.....to be put into a family with an abusive mother. Crazy.

  • @xxPinkyGeekxx
    @xxPinkyGeekxx 4 роки тому +30

    Jeez woman, he will calm down when u leave him alone. Tbh if I was her son I got mad too

    • @Peepsyx3
      @Peepsyx3 4 роки тому +5

      right? she is ready to crucify him on everything he says, no wonder he lies! yikes.

  • @swkohn1279
    @swkohn1279 4 роки тому +4

    The mother doesn't get that him saying he's going to hurt something/someone then going to him room is him restraining himself from doing something he'll regret. What a terrible parent.

  • @johnpatrick3968
    @johnpatrick3968 4 роки тому +9

    We all experience that same feeling.

  • @Great_WesternTVFan
    @Great_WesternTVFan 2 роки тому +1

    I'm actually enjoying that boy's complaints and criticism to the mother, it's so good

  • @rossdiamondthief6627
    @rossdiamondthief6627 2 роки тому +4

    I get most adolescents tend to overreact about things, but it drives me nuts when ones actually going through a tough time and is suffering from clear depression but the parents still shrug it off to them being “childish” or “immature”

    • @goofball2228
      @goofball2228 Рік тому +1

      I myself am 15 and I had depression. He definitely seems depressed.

  • @hardendurobosnia17
    @hardendurobosnia17 4 роки тому +4

    PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS
    I was a bad student and angry like him, i've gone through a lot of stuff in my life,
    It ALL ENDED when i started riding enduro on a dirt bike, i swear its better than any medicine or medical help.
    You should try it

  • @vfxved9601
    @vfxved9601 Рік тому +4

    The mom says says he's going crazy, but is he? Or is it that you're making him crazy, and increasing his burden?

  • @shizukusan9716
    @shizukusan9716 4 роки тому +2

    When she said “ it’s not good for your Brain “ I stopped sighed and said bruh so loudly

  • @nyny5896
    @nyny5896 3 роки тому +1

    Mother: And if stunk like skunk
    Me in my head: BARS

  • @Barbiturico1998
    @Barbiturico1998 4 роки тому +4

    U can clearly tell here by how reacts that he is in a very defensive state, I can tell that he’s probably not having a “great” time on school or maybe someone is bullying him or something. When I was younger I always used to be like this, always came from school crying and always got angry at everything (specially if they wanted to blame me for something), my parents always had trusting issues with me even tho I was a good student and daughter. I got bullied a lot and always tried to reach my teachers but didn’t care, tried reach my parents but they were always busy and always said to me “oh u just don’t have to listen to them, if u don’t they’re gonna get over it, since is not gonna be “fun” anymore, and their gonna go look someone else”. It did, it did ended when stop caring, but it really hurted me a lot , make me felt like I was alone a not having anyone, and definitely influenced my now ME.
    I hope this guy finds a way to make through it, and find peace and enough strength too..
    What doesn’t kill you, it makes u stronger I guess...

  • @mikok21ify
    @mikok21ify 4 роки тому +2

    My name is Michael and I totally understand how he feels everyday in my life and I'm 30 .. it's like mfs try to degrade you. They push you.. I totally understand this

  • @sharontt2203
    @sharontt2203 4 роки тому +2

    What’s actually terrifying and disappointing is that the mother is more concerned about his son hurting other people than actually caring about his health smh

  • @CUlataKatie
    @CUlataKatie 4 роки тому +1

    i was like this in high school.
    i only got better when i was put on antidepressants, and started family therapy.
    he’s not a punk, he’s struggling.
    this mother and dr phil are exploiting him.
    after therapy i got my ged, moved out on my own and i’m now in my second year of vet school.

  • @Nickster-jw8ql
    @Nickster-jw8ql 4 роки тому +12

    “I did bring a vape but I never brought nicotine to school”. Wax? 😂

    • @ericaschaidt8588
      @ericaschaidt8588 4 роки тому +1

      Nickster 3073 there are vape options that are nicotine free.

    • @ladyrain299
      @ladyrain299 4 роки тому

      Nickster 3073 legal cannabis vapes are nicotine free.

  • @kendallh.9554
    @kendallh.9554 4 роки тому +34

    he looks like matt from david’s vlog

    • @subtlecupholder7899
      @subtlecupholder7899 4 роки тому +1

      When he was yelling in bed it almost looked like it could of been taken from a vine.

  • @harvey__
    @harvey__ 4 роки тому +1

    Dr.Phil, please make a follow up with this and give this young man some help! Im in his shoes rn (except for the friend killing them selves, my uncle assaulted me) and im starting counselling soon. please please get him help

  • @shawnyjohnson4456
    @shawnyjohnson4456 4 роки тому +2

    He has alot of anger issues, depression anxiety issues and his mother isnt helping the situation at all. She needs to sot him down and find out why hes so angry she needs to put him therapy and start family.counseling with him.

  • @gracetanner4132
    @gracetanner4132 4 роки тому +4

    I feel bad for him seems like a nice kid he’s in a period of his life where he’s stuck

  • @owenchuarbx
    @owenchuarbx 4 роки тому +3

    I had been in that misanthrophic situation before

  • @clairepelley6786
    @clairepelley6786 4 роки тому +1

    He needs help and comfort , and he isn’t getting that

  • @exphurtfan
    @exphurtfan 4 роки тому +1

    Studying Mental Health here. The problem is his mother won't let him be a young adult. From what I've seen (including 1 previous video) is that he feels like he cannot do anything and feels like he isn't being heard or understood. His manipulation is just his way of surviving in the environment he is in right now (he doesn't deny that he doesn't) because he feels that nobody understands what he is going through. I can empathise with this as I have been in a similar situation myself in the past.

  • @beccablack6807
    @beccablack6807 4 роки тому +25

    Hold up mom said stunk like skunk..shes a smoker lol

    • @Cory_Springer
      @Cory_Springer 4 роки тому +1

      ?

    • @beccablack6807
      @beccablack6807 4 роки тому

      @@Cory_Springer your obviously not a smoker...

    • @Cory_Springer
      @Cory_Springer 4 роки тому +3

      Oh I am. It helps many of the symptoms of my Multiple Sclerosis. But her saying that, does not tell me she smokes.

    • @carlapoch4177
      @carlapoch4177 4 роки тому +5

      Believe it or not you don't have to be a smoker to know what weed smells like.

    • @Cory_Springer
      @Cory_Springer 4 роки тому +2

      In my experience it is actually non-smokers who make the skunk comment. Not because they know it's a reference to Marijuana, but because it smells similar to a skunk (you know, the animal)

  • @jafrayanes8354
    @jafrayanes8354 4 роки тому +31

    He's 17, let him start to figure it out...

    • @rustyshackleford691
      @rustyshackleford691 4 роки тому +7

      Jafra Yanes the thing about Dr. Phil is that he makes a spectacle out of these kids lives and always takes the parents side. He just needs to live his life and get a therapist for the suicidal tendencies he has instead of being publicly dragged on TV.

  • @Trackman71
    @Trackman71 4 роки тому +2

    God I feel bad for this kid when I had problems during high school I had freak outs like these but at least I had parents that calmed me down especially my mom she was with me throughout it. He’s not the problem she is.

  • @kbrad4280
    @kbrad4280 2 роки тому +1

    His eyes when he is screaming on the bed, his pupils are huge.

  • @mjcamck
    @mjcamck 4 роки тому +4

    "You don't care that you hurt other people?" Doesn't this grandmother care that SHE'S hurting HIM!?" I think that he's very unhappy . . . " Sorry, but with cold caregivers like you & your husband, MOST children would be unhappy. This young man is confused and needs caring guidance which these two grandparents seem ignorant of how to provide. I hope all three of them receive the consideration ALL human beings deserve. For the record, EVERYONE needs to vent anger once in a while.

  • @nightcorebeatzx8652
    @nightcorebeatzx8652 4 роки тому +33

    This makes me not want to have kids 😂😂

    • @rivkydiamant
      @rivkydiamant 4 роки тому +1

      Sarah Monroe maybe watch the Gardner quad squad or some other family channel instead of one with issues.

    • @ericradford2142
      @ericradford2142 4 роки тому

      Tell me about it.

    • @SuicideRedemption
      @SuicideRedemption 4 роки тому +3

      His friend committed suicide due to the kids at their school bullying him
      Video of him screaming about not wanting to go to school was taken not too long after he found out about his death
      He is grieving and in pain.
      Plus that lady isnt his actual mom.its his grandma. He found out that she lied to him his entire life saying she was his mom and his actual mom his sister
      His whole world has come crumbling down.
      That's why he is acting out

    • @darajoyce5514
      @darajoyce5514 2 роки тому

      lol same, I'm too scared that I'll lash out my anger at my children after work

  • @laugelarsen912
    @laugelarsen912 4 роки тому +1

    Poor kid, hopes he Gets better

  • @minniemouse4515
    @minniemouse4515 4 роки тому

    That kid reminds me of that one kid from those the greatest freak out videos lol

  • @yunggizzyt9168
    @yunggizzyt9168 4 роки тому +18

    He had a point on smoking weed though

    • @katherineduke9042
      @katherineduke9042 4 роки тому +10

      Actually it has been proven that most ppl that end up in the ER for panic attacks and anxiety are high on marijuana. It does for some ppl fix anxiety but most ppl it induces anxiety.

    • @yunggizzyt9168
      @yunggizzyt9168 4 роки тому

      Katie Duke yes I’m not no expert but I reckon for people like him it could help him calm down and not get so angry and frustrated but you do have a point

    • @katherineduke9042
      @katherineduke9042 4 роки тому +3

      @@yunggizzyt9168 There is just so many other healthy ways to fix anxiety and panic attacks. Antidepressants and anti anxiety meds from a doctor and therapy with a psychologist. My son had panic attacks and anxiety. I took him to the doctor. Hes on two meds and seeing a psychologist to learn how to defuse a panic attack and anxiety. Hes almost 95% better. Without marijuana. I just think drugs is never the option. Just my opinion. We all have a different opinion. I understand that.

    • @yfs9035
      @yfs9035 4 роки тому +1

      @@katherineduke9042 Yes it can cause panic attacks but that's usually from the "I did illegal drugs" stigma

    • @patrikios1800
      @patrikios1800 4 роки тому +1

      @@katherineduke9042 do you know that those meds ur talking about are drugs as well and not the innocent ones. Some antidepressants like xanax can be way more dangerous on the body than weed.

  • @philhancin3489
    @philhancin3489 4 роки тому +13

    Reccomend at 7am, I click. Must sleep now.

  • @seachdamhneamh7771
    @seachdamhneamh7771 4 роки тому +2

    This is what I'm going through..I'm on the verge of this...he needs someone, he needs a friend someone to listen and be there...Yeah I understand him so much.

  • @oOISekaIOo
    @oOISekaIOo 4 роки тому +2

    Poor guy... a lot of older generations are so clueless and uneducated about mental health. I’m 28 now and been struggling with it since 15. Usual answer is you don’t have a reason to be depressed. This guy has “a reason”, it’s obvious that he needs therapy.

  • @kaylabreault519
    @kaylabreault519 4 роки тому +4

    Technically shouldn’t be smoking or vaping marijuana at a young age due to your brain still developing

  • @bluedinero3055
    @bluedinero3055 4 роки тому +18

    Its 5am Dr.Phil go to sleep 🤦‍♂️💯

  • @thesetruths1404
    @thesetruths1404 7 місяців тому +1

    I have a son, 16, who does not want to do anything chore or responsibility related. He wants to be entertained or sleep. I don't know what to do.

  • @a-rockmonster4415
    @a-rockmonster4415 4 роки тому +1

    4:30😂😂😂😂made my day thank you for the laugh