‘I Have Devoted, Literally, 14 Years Of Everything That I’ve Had To Those Kids,’ Says Mom Whose D…

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  • Опубліковано 24 вер 2018
  • A mom says she made sacrifices to raise her kids by herself after the death of her husband. However, her oldest daughter claims her life was “hell.” See their confrontation.
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  • @thatsickmao
    @thatsickmao 3 роки тому +215

    She really said "I devoted 14 years to those kids"... Honey they're your children. You devote your whole life to them. Youre suppost to love and support them.

    • @ashleygilliland4331
      @ashleygilliland4331 3 роки тому +6

      💯.
      As a mom myself, I devote my whole entire life every day to my son & unborn baby. It’s permanent & unconditional. It’s until the day I die. No questions asked.

    • @thatsickmao
      @thatsickmao 3 роки тому +4

      @@ashleygilliland4331 I stand by your statement. I'm glad you love your children ✨💕 I hope they have a wonderful life ahead of them ☺️

    • @tishwitch
      @tishwitch 2 роки тому +2

      Amen!!

    • @lydiaohearn568
      @lydiaohearn568 2 роки тому

      She meant she probably doesn’t want to live for herself in any way, she is simply alive for the kids. The 14 years after having no partner is astronomically harder

    • @thatsickmao
      @thatsickmao 2 роки тому +1

      @@lydiaohearn568 understandable, but not an excuse

  • @jennifert2953
    @jennifert2953 2 роки тому +42

    Single mom here. Clean house. Kids are fed and getting good grades. Life is hard people. You gotta get up and take care of your kids.

    • @gigantopithecushominoidea8779
      @gigantopithecushominoidea8779 Рік тому

      psychopathic mothers don't think they are subject to criticism, if you even think about saying they are doing something wrong please reframe your thoughts, they are beyond that, this is how a psychopath thinks, "I'm talking, you're are going to listen, and I win if you agree" AND, AND, If you record their scene they are going to deny it, I did it with my mom and when she saw me pressing the record button on my cellphone she changed her whole crazy behavior.

  • @johnmcmanus2447
    @johnmcmanus2447 3 роки тому +63

    "He's a loser!" "Let me tell you from my house that looks like a landfill."

    • @porchmonkey5774
      @porchmonkey5774 3 роки тому +3

      From a middle aged woman who hasn't worked in ten years, has no credit, no career, running from DHS, and lives in a dump. She wants to call someone else a loser lol

    • @ashleygilliland4331
      @ashleygilliland4331 3 роки тому +3

      She needs to take a look in the mirror.

  • @matthewmckeever9303
    @matthewmckeever9303 3 роки тому +69

    You don’t get a pat on the back for doing what you’re supposed to do.

    • @angelinaharshbarger9619
      @angelinaharshbarger9619 2 роки тому +2

      Ikr u don't get a round of applause for doing the bare minimum of barely parenting

  • @hw5716
    @hw5716 3 роки тому +51

    This woman reminds me of my bio mom. I separated from her at 12. She was exact same. Our house looked the exact same and she claimed to have MS and fibromyalgia with zero proof. It’s a total cop out to blame an illness for not being there for your CHILDREN. There are millions of people who have debilitating diseases that are amazing parents. There is no excuse.

    • @SignedOff402
      @SignedOff402 3 роки тому +3

      My mother lived in a mess too although she was good with taking out the garbage. And keeping the clothes clean. She sat in place and ruminated when at home. She never decorated the house. Every free inch of space was taken by her hoard. She shopped and saved. She was secretive. She was an orphan which was surely a contributing factor.

    • @roednerbowling5363
      @roednerbowling5363 2 роки тому

      In my teens my mom would keep the house like this too, refused to get a job or clean because of her fibromyalgia which conveniently couldn’t be confirmed in a test at the time. She was hypersensitive to the point of full mental breakdowns to things not going her way or any disagreement on anything no matter how small. My relationship with her was in shambles for many of my adult years after I moved on but I’m thankful she’s turned around a lot of her tendencies from back then.

    • @shannonhamill7165
      @shannonhamill7165 Рік тому +1

      So sick of people's excuse of fibromyalgia

  • @mimismom5464
    @mimismom5464 3 роки тому +24

    Woman, I have a list of health issues and take triple the meds you do and still my family is taken care of!

    • @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094
      @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 3 роки тому +2

      Right I have MS, stomach issues, heart chamber dysfunction and even a bad back but my kids and home is clean and taken care of

  • @edt501
    @edt501 3 роки тому +46

    To "thoses kids" ??? Really not my children. And parenthood is a scrafice within itself. Her husband's suicide was her suicide...may she overcome theses issues.

    • @mach4
      @mach4 3 роки тому +3

      I picked up on that too. It's a very distant way to refer to her children

    • @mchoffner8497
      @mchoffner8497 3 роки тому +2

      Word choice says so much, "those", rather than "my".

  • @therese3084
    @therese3084 3 роки тому +15

    It’s kind of funny how she pretends that she’s concerned about her children being exposed to her daughter’s boyfriend when she can’t even be a competent parent with a livable house. She is the problem not her daughter or her daughter’s boyfriend! She is so completely narcissistic🤔

  • @Huskydude1997
    @Huskydude1997 3 роки тому +13

    The system absolutely failed those kids.. as it does for so many. Kids, adult and the elderly.

  • @thatonefatchic
    @thatonefatchic 3 роки тому +5

    “Those kids”????? When they say they don’t want to bring up the past you know there’s some mess going on. 😒

  • @haji818721
    @haji818721 3 роки тому +27

    To work on a relationship with Taylor you have to listen to her first.

  • @separeed4721
    @separeed4721 3 роки тому +9

    14 years? It’s supposed to be at least 18 years if not forever lady!? 💁🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @cicilicious99
    @cicilicious99 3 роки тому +8

    It’s a terrible thing when someone chooses to take their own life. And that must’ve been difficult for her as a mother to pick up those pieces. But is she really bragging about dedicating 14 years to her kids? That’s what you’re supposed to do honey. You chose to have children.

  • @moirhann
    @moirhann 3 роки тому +25

    WHY did he kill himself? i am not saying the mom had anything to do with it but i know of 2 people who killed themselves becaue their wives were psycho/narcisissts..- one of them being a friend of me who in fact hung himself at work after being tormented for years by his psycho wife.. but again - the reason for this guy might be something very different. just think this mother reminds me about a couple women i once knew... the daughter is very brave... such a star.. I hope the other kids are able to get away from this lying creep before ther lives are totally destroyed. They might not be as strong as their big sister..

    • @spiritedprincess4509
      @spiritedprincess4509 3 роки тому +7

      I think her behavior played a part. She probably wasn’t a supportive wife

    • @moirhann
      @moirhann 3 роки тому +4

      @@spiritedprincess4509 my toughts as well..

    • @alexradice8163
      @alexradice8163 3 роки тому

      I would kill myself if I married a woman shady enough to steal from her children

    • @UsernameUnkwn21
      @UsernameUnkwn21 3 роки тому +4

      Let's not speculate on the tragedy of why he chose to end his life. NOONE KNOW except him and he is gone

    • @tishwitch
      @tishwitch 2 роки тому +4

      Suicide has nothing to do with other people. Don't be so callous.

  • @lydiaohearn568
    @lydiaohearn568 2 роки тому +4

    My fiancé died from the same thing 2 months ago and we have a 1 year old. I understand this woman, you literally live just for your children after something like that happens.

  • @tishwitch
    @tishwitch 2 роки тому +9

    I'm a single mom, I have serious lung disease, and other health issues that make it difficult for me day to day... But I'm 100% devoted to my son. He's my life.
    We've never been homeless. I never blame my son for our problems.
    She's an awful mother.

  • @concreterose4006
    @concreterose4006 2 роки тому +3

    Hoarding and not living hygienically are often indicators of depression. Her husband committed suicide. It's not right that the children are suffering but she really needs help 🙏

  • @pamelagibbs3992
    @pamelagibbs3992 3 роки тому +8

    I think a twenty year old young woman knows whether or not she wants to “adult “ or not... good lord mom! 🥴

  • @mstasz2108
    @mstasz2108 2 роки тому +2

    Is anyone surprised her husband committed suicide??? I have a sister who is about as bad or worse in some ways as this woman. Her husband, my former brother in law who I loved and respected and looked up to and still do simply didn't come home from work one day. My sister abused him and her kids. She doubled down on the abuse to the kids after he was gone. I married a woman who became abusive and taught me the hard way the meaning of narcissism. I became fully suicidal after 20 years with her and had to learn the hard way what PTSD is. My God this story is so relatable to me in so many ways. That woman even has the same vile, condescending look as some of the women in my life, sisters and ex wife.

  • @suey8227
    @suey8227 2 роки тому +3

    I brought my children up single handedly, and while i made some mistakes as we all do, they never lived in filth. It's an excuse saying you're a single parent. and that's why things are like that.

  • @dylswife8048
    @dylswife8048 3 роки тому +3

    Obviously mother is unfamiliar with the definition of "adulting".

  • @lesliebilotta8450
    @lesliebilotta8450 3 роки тому +1

    “To THOSE kids”? “sacrifice”? she is a very angry, resentful , sick woman that needs serious support . Get her help.- or, at least get “those kids” out of there! Those poor little kids! She has no emotion.complete denial.

  • @pollypurebread3370
    @pollypurebread3370 3 роки тому +1

    So its appropriate to steal your daughters identity. Ruin her credit. Live in utter filth. Lie. There's a list with this lady. Her daughter needs to just cut ties and move on.

  • @francinejones2524
    @francinejones2524 3 роки тому +2

    Taylor is more mature than you’ll ever be.

  • @delanac1809
    @delanac1809 3 роки тому +2

    to those kids..... wtf

  • @raphaelgarcia7365
    @raphaelgarcia7365 2 роки тому

    Just because your husband passed away isn't a good excuse to not get up and do what your supposed to. Lazy af

  • @dreaaz5207
    @dreaaz5207 3 роки тому

    That's not going to excuse, she had those kids willingly.. what a selfish woman

  • @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094
    @chantalsmissingyoutubechan8094 3 роки тому +1

    Does she know what kidney failure is? I mean if she was in kidney failure she would be taking more than 3 pills a day…she would be on Dialysis. Also blood pressure affects the lungs and the heart never heard of it hurting the kidneys.

    • @aprilfisher4947
      @aprilfisher4947 2 роки тому +1

      Meds for high BP can affect kidneys as I have blood tests to monitor this so she could be having kidney problems due to the medication.

    • @paige6309
      @paige6309 2 роки тому

      Blood pressure absolutely affects the kidneys…

  • @KitaHolms
    @KitaHolms 3 роки тому +1

    That's what you sign up for when you have kid's... You devote your life to them... NOT the other way around lady🙄🤡⁉️

  • @grayb7420
    @grayb7420 3 роки тому

    “The kids.” Not my kids

  • @stephannhart
    @stephannhart 3 роки тому

    did she call the boyfriend a loser? um...........................................

  • @JBoo
    @JBoo 2 роки тому

    Mom, it's literally okay to need help. Maybe nit from Dr Phil though

  • @Angelheart-lu4yl
    @Angelheart-lu4yl 3 роки тому

    Toxic ...... Safe Zone ..... Good Influence .... The mother steal her daughter's identity .... She has been homeless 3 times friends and family have back away....... Please someone help the older daughter get the help she needs to RESCUE her younger siblings

  • @blueturtle3623
    @blueturtle3623 2 роки тому

    Im sorry-her "health issues" that prevented her from being a parent are migraines and high blood pressure?? She takes a whole three or four pills for such severe issues! Listen lady, I take over a dozen a day, and my mom has had migraines so severe she's taken every pill in the book. You take the pills, you keep going. Migraines can be debilitating, for sure, but you keep going to the best of your ability. My mom used to spend 3 weeks a month with migraines on and off, but she still was a mother. Luckily her current medication works, but she works at a daycare and at times listened to crying babies with a migraine.

  • @mimiene6535
    @mimiene6535 2 роки тому

    Excuses excuses excuses as usual.

  • @josephdurkin8180
    @josephdurkin8180 3 роки тому +4

    I see why the husband...... You know

    • @pollypurebread3370
      @pollypurebread3370 3 роки тому

      I said the same thing

    • @Maria.9094
      @Maria.9094 3 роки тому +1

      That's an awful thing to say. At the end of the day, they had kids together. It's never ok to leave that burden for your kids to carry for the rest of their lives.

  • @Dragontamer135
    @Dragontamer135 3 роки тому

    I can understand why her husband committed suicide. Just look at who he had to deal with all the time.

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 3 роки тому +2

      With all due respect that's bs I'm pretty sure her ptsd and depression because of his suicide causes her to not be able to function as an adult and not get out of bed to even clean up. That's what happens to a lot of people who are severely depressed

  • @ericanoel8495
    @ericanoel8495 2 роки тому

    Lmfao I take more then that daily just for my diabetes. My place is spotless and kid taken care of. Shes just the victim card player

  • @carlaivey9806
    @carlaivey9806 2 роки тому

    Has anyone else noticed how she talks? Quite strange actually. " adult type fashion" who talks like that?

    • @RAckerman55
      @RAckerman55 3 місяці тому

      This is what “saying something out of nothing” looks like. 🙃

  • @myahill7475
    @myahill7475 3 роки тому

    It looks like all of the people who live in the house is contributing to the nasty 🤢 living

  • @domjones_who3849
    @domjones_who3849 3 роки тому

    THIS WOMAN'S HUSBAND KILLED HIMSELF TO GET AWAY FROM HER SMFH THAT SAYS IT ALL!!!

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 3 роки тому

      That's really not ok you don't know that I'm sure she had terrible depression and ptsd from it and normally when you're depressed people can't function enough to even clean or take care of themselves, and that's probably what happened to her. You're going to blame his suicide on her? That's so wrong

  • @roleat
    @roleat 2 роки тому

    No wonder he k lled himself

  • @Bonditotaltan
    @Bonditotaltan 3 роки тому +1

    OMG This woman is Traumatised by her husbands suicide, this is not rocket science. This is awful she needs help desperately, she is stressed out of her mind .......God Bless Her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽SHAME .........POOR SWEETHEART ..........

    • @alexradice8163
      @alexradice8163 3 роки тому +1

      Shut up karen. EVERYONE FEELS PAIN, SUFFERING ISNT AN EXCUSE TO HURT YOUR KIDS