I’ve come to realize that my outward authenticity reveals others inner hidden insecurities. I’ve always felt like I’ve never belonged & highly sensitive to others perception. To my detriment, longing for deep connections has unconsciously trained me to suffocate/ hide to just to belong...But it’s my time to be *seen* so others who think like me can find me.
Omg I've met my people. I feel so much better already. I've struggled with shrinking myself because people have made me out to be too extra for being comfortable with dressing up and looking girly. I started wearing dark colors and clothes that hide my shape. No more making others comfortable while we dim ourselves. Peace and blessings to you beautiful ❤
Sooo much this. I’ve been working out more recently and yes you do get compliments but you also notice a pattern of certain ppl always bringing up your body in subtle ways. How lucky I am, while completely disregarding the hard work it takes to get it! Just an example. This parallels in so many avenues in life. Career, love, friendships etc.
My hope is that we’re all putting forth the effort to become more confident in speaking to ourselves and others. It’s in us to let those beautiful voices be heard 🫶🏾
Loved this. I'm so used to dimming my light because others couldn't handle my shine. So I was forced to choose between either dimming my light or allowing myself to shine in the company of someone I knew would mishandle me. That stops now. I'm choosing me. Everyone else can put on shades if they can't handle my glow. If I say I want something, that's what it's going to be! With God on my side I can't lose.
I always felt like nobody understood me. Like if I speak my mind, I will only be judged and looked at crazy. When I speak about something, I get caught up on how I sound. Like if I sound insane. I’ve been wanting to make videos like this. But I get so caught up in how I will be judged. I know people need me the way I needed me. I know it’s time to shine my light and get out there. And I’m really going to try to challenge myself. Thank you ❤️
I hope you do end up making videos. It’s gonna be awkward but it’s way worth just saying how you feel. The ones that get you ,get it and the ones that don’t, don’t. I’m sure if you let yourself be heard, the people who are feeling the same way are happy you said something. It’s like the ones who are afraid to say a question or answer in fear even though everyone else could be thinking the same thing. Much love and strength❤❤
i love how the camera angle steered away from direct eye contact at the most vulnerable part of the conversation. because of that, i was able to concentrate on what you were saying. thank you for this.
Jasmin! The way I resonate with you is crazy. I have been getting so many signs that I need to share more, let go, and trust. I appreciate you for showing up the way you do.
I’m 20 I’ll be 21 in a week I watched this video before work and I have put so many positive thoughts into my head I’m use to hiding myself I cringe at the thought of embarrassment and vulnerability this video has inspired me to put myself out there and know that I have a purpose in this world .
My fear has held me back for truly showing up as the person God wants me to be. This video brings comfort that I too can step to the plate and do it scared ❤
It is mind-blowing to me that someone who is young, has super-model good looks, is cogent and polished in her delivery, can still have wrestled with insecurity about being seen! Nuts. But I get it: environment and upbringing both can create soul-stifling experiences. I am glad you are standing up to challenge them, and are sharing that wisdom with the world.
Don't know if anyone's ever told you this but you have a beautiful voice, it is so soothing and calming to listen to! Thank you for sharing your gift 💛
I had a performance last night and I received compliments from a group of ladies I didn’t know and in me looking back I see that I was rejecting the acknowledgement and I cringe thinking about what I said out my mouth😝 However I’m happy it happened because now I see where I need to tighten up! Thank you for making this video.
I think many of us feel supprised that someone as objectively pretty as you has always felt so insecure. And those of us struggling with body dysmorphia (like me) is important to finally realise that while looks usually do help with confidence, it only to a certain level and the sense or inner worth is way for important. ♥️🌸
Hi. Took a bath, and sat the phone on the sink ans received your message. Thank you, and congrats on allowing yourself to be comfortable inside and out. Ill get there. (:
Im getting my 14 year old daughter to be confident. My daughter can tell someone she likes what theyre wearing,say hi to random kids,its great to see because i do these things myself.❤
That's so good to see such a caring mother! As a 14-year-old girl I can say that your daughter must be very happy to have a mom who helps her become more confident and gain willpower to show yourself to this world ❤
I agree that it’s important to create a strong sense of self. I also think it’s important to acknowledge the extent to which we have to still seek community because it’s not healthy to be physically alone too often. Emotionally, of course it’s possible to rely on yourself, but ultimately we as animals (humans) still need other human contact and I think that should be mentioned in terms of what wellness looks like for our species.
My biggest fear is my height 🥺I nearly came home today without entering inside the church coz when saw my follow ladies how tall, beauty 😊I wasn't just feeling myself,But I thank God coz he gave me the courage to Walk into the church telling myself that I'm enough, beautiful and have God's image and his love inside of me is beyond the physical 😊😊😊
Thank you for this video! Since being more present on social media the last few weeks and being more bold, (posting fashion content), I noticed, there is so much love and support but also some envy and jealousy from those that you know in person. It can feel really lonely at times. But it has felt like a place I can escape to, to share my creativity and be loving toward those with also beautiful personalities who want to share love and support authentically. I am so happy to finally feel at peace ❤
Jasmin , I resonate with you so much. As a child , I always had this complaint that nobody understands me! Now I am on my own healing journey , trying to set boundaries and living with authenticity.
Can you make a video on rebranding yourself and stepping into new energy. It’s tough having an audience that support a version of you that no longer resonates
Jas, you just said something sooooo profound, you trust your words when you write but not when you speak. OMG, that was like an echo to me. I've written out what I wanted to say so I didn't forget only to stop doubt myself as I was speaking. Now, I've started to just give myself topics of discussion and go from there. You are just a 💣 ass #Virgo 😊
I am here to personally thank you for allowing God to use you. Your content along with others has definitely given me the push I needed to break my fear of being seen/ heard. So again, thank you sister 🙏🏽🫶🏽
I’m surviving by the grace of GOD! Heavenly Father please continue to protect me and my sons. I’m a single mother God has carried me. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed at times. I’m struggling to provide the necessities for my sons like food and clothing and I struggle to pay rent each and every single month yet my struggles have brought me closer to Jesus. I know he will get me through this hard time in Jesus name.❤️
I'm so glad the algorithm brought this to me. This video is so informative and important. Thank you for truly giving us your pure self. It's so inspiring. I'm now subscribing. 😊✨
I loved this!! Thank you for sharing and thank you for being a vessel. First time coming across your content. I love the vibe. It’s natural and authentic. Calm & inviting voice, beautiful Sis!
This 100% resonated with me!! Thank you for being you, you are inspiring me to break out of my own limiting beliefs to reach my potential. You are a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul, thank you so much
“I’ll take my side to the very end” - that is self love personified. Worded so aptly and a reminder to me that my values and what my priorities are of the upmost importance. If I can’t see myself and believe in myself through this life as a human, how can anyone else get on board with me? Those that are aligned with me will come into my existence but I know I need to put in the work too. Thank you for this video: your calm love was what I needed today 💖
Your video came up on my feed randomly and I resonated with almost all of it so much! I started a podcast last year and I feel about it the same way you described. It's about the passion, the service, and being proud of even putting it out there. Thank you for sharing it all ❤
Hi! I’m so happy the algorithm was able to let my video reach you. You have a podcast that’s AWESOME! I love speaking to fellow creators. Wishing you the absolute BEST on your podcast🥹🤍
Thank you. I know I need to create my videos now. I'm really uncomfortable right now, it's the season of my life where I need to show up to grow. This is the first video of you that I watched and I got your message, this video is more than perfect, it's a gift. I am that person who needs this video and it really helped me today. Showing up in this season is a great gift and opportunity God is giving me to heal. God bless you.
HI im new here and i jjust wanted to say Jasmin Thank you so much. you were speaking to my heart saying all of the things i needed to hear. Even your presence through the screen was literally touching.
You don't know how much your video helped, and how it was timely for the situation I was going through. You are a very beautiful woman and I appreciate you ❤️
This popped up on my timeline, as a person experiencing depression due to weight gain and feeling like I’m not living in my purpose, I appreciate this channel. ❤
This is an amazing message… you brought the message home by making it relatable; this is how we grow and messages like this can be revisited over and over and make a difference every time
In group therapy, the therapist told me that I need to get beyond the fear of being seen. I stop going back bc of my insurance and I’ve been stuck in this place of not knowing what that means. This video was necessary.
Thank you so much for this video! As a fellow WOG, I definitely understood and resonated with the spiritual aspect of your confidence journey. I think this message and story can be relatable to a loooot of people. Keep going!💕🤸🏽♀️
I don’t think confidence should mean doing away with have a degree of boundaries,humility and yes even shame (which in some sense is designed to keep us safe).I need to be more confident with my ideas and self but I don’t want to show off.There needs to be a happy healthy medium.
Having shame comes from pride, pride comes from ego. When you are shameless you can accept yourself at your most authentic and then you can do so for others. You can help others see they can be shameless too. Maybe ask yourself why you think humility goes hand in hand with shame?
@@Girloftheyeaar Pride and ego aren’t the same thing.Some degree of pride is natural.And to be shameless doesn’t mean someone doesn’t have pride.But pride aside surely having too much of an ego is what causes one to be shameless.Human dignity is a crucial part of self worth.Does protecting one’s dignity mean we are egotistical.No.But doesn’t having no regard for values around our self and creating boundaries around who has access to it mean we are egotistical? I don’t think so on the contrary it’s from humility.
@@faebalina7786 i actually feel like having a big ego will make one feel more shame; you get embarrassed more feel things more personally etc. but I definitely see your point, thank u for your insight !!
Absolutely loved your insights on building self-compassion and trust within ourselves. Your approach to overcoming fears and embracing our authentic selves is truly inspiring.
Commenting from 25:45, Thank you. This IS the video that is allowing me to be comfy enough to take the next step. I am still early in my journey. It's so satisfying to see someone talk about this in this way, especially as I've been struggling with my perfectionist past trying to bubble up and pull me back down. I affirm that that is no longer something that keeps me from doing the things I feel called to do and and you are a part of my confidence in that. I can't express enough gratitude for that little extra push
the chihuahua shakes are so real and the best way to describe it😭 i don’t normally comment on videos but this video touched me in how I’ve been feeling so much about getting back into something that I’ve been so fearful to get back into bc using my voice is my biggest weakness and something that I’m not used to especially in group settings. Thank you for showing me that realization that it’s not just about repetition but it’s also the TRUST for yourself that’s just as important. 💌
Every single word that you said resonated so deeply within my heart ❤ I’ve been following you for a while now and the depth of your videos is getting more and more powerful! You can’t imagine how much you helped me with this one ❤
Hiii!!!! Im honored to have been able to reach you at this special time on your journey. Whatever it is that is on your heart to do .. I hope you are reassured that it is TIME and you are safe to fully dive in! I’m rooting for you ♥️
Always enjoy listening to your podcast, they give me insight on how i need to move forward with the progression of my life. The part about you not knowing if by what you say on your podcast if you speak on your truth. I struggle with this myself in just addressing old issues where someone hurt me and I did not speak up.
This is inspiring and helpful and I’m gone be authentic. It can be scary but the blessings you get for blessings to people and impacting people and knowing it’s higher power and receiving Gods and assignment. ❤
I needed to see this. I totally agree...the 90's and early 2000's were so culturally and emotionally toxic, I built this hard shell around myself and raised the bar to this unrealistic and unattainable level. Although I am an only child and extremely individualistic, I struggled so badly with fear of exposing my deepest and most vulnerable feelings at times. Perfectionism caused me to lose the love of my life, change my major in college, and even stunting my growth here on youtube. No person knows what they are doing...we are all just "winging it". I still struggle, but I know that it is now time to stand in my unapologetic truth. Let's see where this all goes!!! Thank you for sharing. God Bless you and your endeavors.
Interesting this popped up. Especially when I was just thinking about how everyone hyped me bc I’m pretty to be loud and out with it but I hide myself.
Thank you for your beautiful transparency in this video. I needed this video while taking the necessary steps to hit another level but to slow down and embrace me
I’ve been following you for a short while and your videos have been so helpful, so glad that I came across you. Your content is so inspiring and calming. Good to see you getting the viewership you deserve. 🥂
Becoming my own bestfriend wow. Love that. I tend to abandon myself. The new me is stopping that. I have family who loves to make negative comments even my own mother. I need to stand in my truth and be my highest self regardless of if they will feel I’m above them. 🤷🏽♀️I also need to start standing up for myself regarding these same negative family. Putting down hard boundaries and telling them don’t say this or that.
Thank you for taking the time to make and post this video. Thank you for showing up and sharing yourself. You most definitely touched on all tge right topics!! From the chihuahua shakes you get right before recording (couldnt have said it better myself 😅), to being fearful of standing out in big crowds...and everything in between. I've started and stopped going after what I want so many times because I thought I was doing too much or being too extra. But with this video, I see that we all have something to bring to the table to share. And my "extra" might just be what the next person out there needs to see to get up and be their true selves. Thank you ❤ New subbie here 😊
Soul tribe! New subscriber. I've been recording videos for a year and resonate with everything your saying especially the writing/scripting..being afraid of saying the wrong things..the butterflies and nerves before recording and the fear of being seen. You're amazing!
Lol GOD TIMING AND TOUCH IS SO PERFECT IN ALL WAYS.. I feel out of place most times.. HE’S placing people in places to help others deal with what really matters.. If you can talk to a person on social media about what weird look Drake had on his face.. You should be able to talk to someone about any mental health issues they have but I know only negative, toxic, drama bs matters bc it sells.. this is spiritual.. learn who is attacking you and why.. you’ll do great!! GOD BLESS!!!🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️
This video came at the right moment for me,this is something I have been struggling with for sometime,am in a position to be able to change it without feeling shame for having the struggle to begin with.
Jasmin thank you for sharing this video because I dealt with confidence in my life and being honest with myself and a lot of insecurities made me overthink a lot. But I want to be confident in myself so that way I can withstand or be my best self.
Ohh girl! Jasmin thank you for this video and you're experience I can totally resonate with you. Most of the time I don't want to outshine others and I'm ending up crazy inside the cupboard battling myself when is the right now to come out from my shell and do the things that I'm passionate to share to the world. I can feel this video is genuine just pure and direct from your heart. More powers to you!!!!
I’ve come to realize that my outward authenticity reveals others inner hidden insecurities. I’ve always felt like I’ve never belonged & highly sensitive to others perception. To my detriment, longing for deep connections has unconsciously trained me to suffocate/ hide to just to belong...But it’s my time to be *seen* so others who think like me can find me.
Omg I've met my people. I feel so much better already. I've struggled with shrinking myself because people have made me out to be too extra for being comfortable with dressing up and looking girly. I started wearing dark colors and clothes that hide my shape. No more making others comfortable while we dim ourselves. Peace and blessings to you beautiful ❤
Are you me? Becuase I could of literally wrote this. Praying for deep rewarding healing for us both ❤
Sooo much this. I’ve been working out more recently and yes you do get compliments but you also notice a pattern of certain ppl always bringing up your body in subtle ways. How lucky I am, while completely disregarding the hard work it takes to get it! Just an example. This parallels in so many avenues in life. Career, love, friendships etc.
@Alkemiss girl I just subscribed to your channel. You are a real-life brown barbie! It made me think of Life-Size with Tyra Banks.
@GrantDiva you are too sweet! Thank you pretty 🤍✨️
It definitely hit when you said “I feel like I’m a better writer than I am a speaker” My voice had been quieted so long that I didn’t know it..
Me toooooooooooo!!! I’m so grateful to find out I’m not alone in this. 🫶🏾
Sameee
Yesss, I feel like my thoughts be so jumbled & all over the place. It's easier when I write what I want to say out 😩
Same for me I have so much clarity when I write but when I want to speak it's like it all goes out the window 🤷🏾♀️
My hope is that we’re all putting forth the effort to become more confident in speaking to ourselves and others. It’s in us to let those beautiful voices be heard 🫶🏾
"At the end of the day, You are the one standing in the way of your highest timeline."
Loved this. I'm so used to dimming my light because others couldn't handle my shine. So I was forced to choose between either dimming my light or allowing myself to shine in the company of someone I knew would mishandle me. That stops now. I'm choosing me. Everyone else can put on shades if they can't handle my glow. If I say I want something, that's what it's going to be! With God on my side I can't lose.
yes. all of this 🎉
Amen
“..tried to package myself in a way that was digestible. Not because I was easy to take, but..” 😮💨 that was a word
Your voice is so relaxing! You should do like guided sleep meditations!
I always felt like nobody understood me. Like if I speak my mind, I will only be judged and looked at crazy. When I speak about something, I get caught up on how I sound. Like if I sound insane. I’ve been wanting to make videos like this. But I get so caught up in how I will be judged. I know people need me the way I needed me. I know it’s time to shine my light and get out there. And I’m really going to try to challenge myself. Thank you ❤️
I hope the challenges you are gonna go through will help you and inspire others to embody traits of a confident person themselves ❤
I hope you do end up making videos. It’s gonna be awkward but it’s way worth just saying how you feel. The ones that get you ,get it and the ones that don’t, don’t. I’m sure if you let yourself be heard, the people who are feeling the same way are happy you said something.
It’s like the ones who are afraid to say a question or answer in fear even though everyone else could be thinking the same thing.
Much love and strength❤❤
i love how the camera angle steered away from direct eye contact at the most vulnerable part of the conversation. because of that, i was able to concentrate on what you were saying. thank you for this.
Jasmin! The way I resonate with you is crazy. I have been getting so many signs that I need to share more, let go, and trust. I appreciate you for showing up the way you do.
Thank you so much for watching!! I am so excited for what’s in store for you!!
I’m 20 I’ll be 21 in a week I watched this video before work and I have put so many positive thoughts into my head I’m use to hiding myself I cringe at the thought of embarrassment and vulnerability this video has inspired me to put myself out there and know that I have a purpose in this world .
It's hard when you don't see eye to eye with your family, it's harder to be authentic.
My fear has held me back for truly showing up as the person God wants me to be. This video brings comfort that I too can step to the plate and do it scared ❤
Yesss ✨🤍 it is YOUR TIME!!!
Your voice is so calming and beautiful!! I think I fell in love 🥹
Same here!! 🌷
It is mind-blowing to me that someone who is young, has super-model good looks, is cogent and polished in her delivery, can still have wrestled with insecurity about being seen! Nuts. But I get it: environment and upbringing both can create soul-stifling experiences. I am glad you are standing up to challenge them, and are sharing that wisdom with the world.
Don't know if anyone's ever told you this but you have a beautiful voice, it is so soothing and calming to listen to! Thank you for sharing your gift 💛
Subscribed at 00:01 😭 thank you UA-cam algorithm for the recommendation ❤
Thank you so much for watching at sticking around!!! 🥹♥️
I had a performance last night and I received compliments from a group of ladies I didn’t know and in me looking back I see that I was rejecting the acknowledgement and I cringe thinking about what I said out my mouth😝 However I’m happy it happened because now I see where I need to tighten up! Thank you for making this video.
I think many of us feel supprised that someone as objectively pretty as you has always felt so insecure. And those of us struggling with body dysmorphia (like me) is important to finally realise that while looks usually do help with confidence, it only to a certain level and the sense or inner worth is way for important. ♥️🌸
Hi. Took a bath, and sat the phone on the sink ans received your message. Thank you, and congrats on allowing yourself to be comfortable inside and out. Ill get there. (:
Im getting my 14 year old daughter to be confident. My daughter can tell someone she likes what theyre wearing,say hi to random kids,its great to see because i do these things myself.❤
That's so good to see such a caring mother! As a 14-year-old girl I can say that your daughter must be very happy to have a mom who helps her become more confident and gain willpower to show yourself to this world ❤
I agree that it’s important to create a strong sense of self. I also think it’s important to acknowledge the extent to which we have to still seek community because it’s not healthy to be physically alone too often. Emotionally, of course it’s possible to rely on yourself, but ultimately we as animals (humans) still need other human contact and I think that should be mentioned in terms of what wellness looks like for our species.
My biggest fear is my height 🥺I nearly came home today without entering inside the church coz when saw my follow ladies how tall, beauty 😊I wasn't just feeling myself,But I thank God coz he gave me the courage to Walk into the church telling myself that I'm enough, beautiful and have God's image and his love inside of me is beyond the physical 😊😊😊
“God said your an angel, angelll , angelllll” 🎶🎶🎶
Thank you so much🥹💕💕💕
I love that you’ve reached the place where you like the butterflies. Accepting that this is part of the process for doing something new.
Thank you for this video! Since being more present on social media the last few weeks and being more bold, (posting fashion content), I noticed, there is so much love and support but also some envy and jealousy from those that you know in person. It can feel really lonely at times. But it has felt like a place I can escape to, to share my creativity and be loving toward those with also beautiful personalities who want to share love and support authentically. I am so happy to finally feel at peace ❤
Your comment is so inspiring! I hope that you will receive more feedback from the people who really wish to see you successful ❤
Jasmin , I resonate with you so much. As a child , I always had this complaint that nobody understands me! Now I am on my own healing journey , trying to set boundaries and living with authenticity.
Hiiii!!! Thank you so much for watching I’m so happy that you are apart of this community 🥹💕
Can you make a video on rebranding yourself and stepping into new energy. It’s tough having an audience that support a version of you that no longer resonates
Wonderful topic!! I sure will
Jas, you just said something sooooo profound, you trust your words when you write but not when you speak. OMG, that was like an echo to me. I've written out what I wanted to say so I didn't forget only to stop doubt myself as I was speaking. Now, I've started to just give myself topics of discussion and go from there. You are just a 💣 ass #Virgo 😊
Hey #Virgo!!! Our season is coming up!! 🤗♥️ thank you so much for watching
This is so helpful. I have been avoiding showing myself on camera for a long time. Your voice is so soothing. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing yourself in this way. I don't have people around me with whom I can talk about such things, but now I have you.
Thank you so much for watching! I’m so happy you can be apart of this community
Girl I love everything about you! Your confidence and growth has inspired me to finally step out and stop being afraid of my own light🙏🏾☀️
Yeeees!!! I love you thank you so much and I’m so happy my videos resonate!!
Feeling the fear and doing it anyway ❤️❤️
Offf topic ik asking for a makeup tutorial is off your niches but girlll ur makeup eats EVERYTIMEEEE💕
Thank you so much!!!! 🥹💕
She's wearing makeup? ❤❤❤❤ Flawless
I am here to personally thank you for allowing God to use you. Your content along with others has definitely given me the push I needed to break my fear of being seen/ heard.
So again, thank you sister 🙏🏽🫶🏽
I’m surviving by the grace of GOD! Heavenly Father please continue to protect me and my sons. I’m a single mother God has carried me. Both of my sons are special needs. I’m overwhelmed at times. I’m struggling to provide the necessities for my sons like food and clothing and I struggle to pay rent each and every single month yet my struggles have brought me closer to Jesus. I know he will get me through this hard time in Jesus name.❤️
Maybe take the boys to dad and give yourself a year of respite. You must preserve you.
Praying for you. That takes more strength than we could know. I pray you have some rest and relaxation coming in your life
I'm so glad the algorithm brought this to me. This video is so informative and important. Thank you for truly giving us your pure self. It's so inspiring. I'm now subscribing. 😊✨
Thank you again for being so kind to me:) it means so much!!!
@@jasminsirii No problem Queen. You definitely put a smile on my face. 🥰
I loved this!! Thank you for sharing and thank you for being a vessel. First time coming across your content. I love the vibe. It’s natural and authentic. Calm & inviting voice, beautiful Sis!
This gave me confirmation to go live a do readings tired of what people think
This 100% resonated with me!! Thank you for being you, you are inspiring me to break out of my own limiting beliefs to reach my potential. You are a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul, thank you so much
“I’ll take my side to the very end” - that is self love personified. Worded so aptly and a reminder to me that my values and what my priorities are of the upmost importance. If I can’t see myself and believe in myself through this life as a human, how can anyone else get on board with me? Those that are aligned with me will come into my existence but I know I need to put in the work too. Thank you for this video: your calm love was what I needed today 💖
Your video came up on my feed randomly and I resonated with almost all of it so much! I started a podcast last year and I feel about it the same way you described. It's about the passion, the service, and being proud of even putting it out there. Thank you for sharing it all ❤
Hi! I’m so happy the algorithm was able to let my video reach you. You have a podcast that’s AWESOME! I love speaking to fellow creators. Wishing you the absolute BEST on your podcast🥹🤍
Thank you. I know I need to create my videos now. I'm really uncomfortable right now, it's the season of my life where I need to show up to grow. This is the first video of you that I watched and I got your message, this video is more than perfect, it's a gift. I am that person who needs this video and it really helped me today. Showing up in this season is a great gift and opportunity God is giving me to heal. God bless you.
Hii! Thank you so much for watching I’m so happy this video was able to reach you! ✨✨✨
HI im new here and i jjust wanted to say Jasmin Thank you so much. you were speaking to my heart saying all of the things i needed to hear. Even your presence through the screen was literally touching.
You don't know how much your video helped, and how it was timely for the situation I was going through. You are a very beautiful woman and I appreciate you ❤️
you are speaking to my SOUL! thank you so much for your growth 🥹❤️
Thank you so much for watching🥹
This popped up on my timeline, as a person experiencing depression due to weight gain and feeling like I’m not living in my purpose, I appreciate this channel. ❤
This is an amazing message… you brought the message home by making it relatable; this is how we grow and messages like this can be revisited over and over and make a difference every time
Thank you so much for watching. I am so happy my message was able to reach you🤍✨
In group therapy, the therapist told me that I need to get beyond the fear of being seen. I stop going back bc of my insurance and I’ve been stuck in this place of not knowing what that means. This video was necessary.
Thank you so much for this video! As a fellow WOG, I definitely understood and resonated with the spiritual aspect of your confidence journey. I think this message and story can be relatable to a loooot of people. Keep going!💕🤸🏽♀️
Thank you so so much for watching🤍
I don’t think confidence should mean doing away with have a degree of boundaries,humility and yes even shame (which in some sense is designed to keep us safe).I need to be more confident with my ideas and self but I don’t want to show off.There needs to be a happy healthy medium.
Having shame comes from pride, pride comes from ego. When you are shameless you can accept yourself at your most authentic and then you can do so for others. You can help others see they can be shameless too. Maybe ask yourself why you think humility goes hand in hand with shame?
@@Girloftheyeaar Pride and ego aren’t the same thing.Some degree of pride is natural.And to be shameless doesn’t mean someone doesn’t have pride.But pride aside surely having too much of an ego is what causes one to be shameless.Human dignity is a crucial part of self worth.Does protecting one’s dignity mean we are egotistical.No.But doesn’t having no regard for values around our self and creating boundaries around who has access to it mean we are egotistical? I don’t think so on the contrary it’s from humility.
@@faebalina7786 i actually feel like having a big ego will make one feel more shame; you get embarrassed more feel things more personally etc. but I definitely see your point, thank u for your insight !!
I really resonate with this topic and I’ve never seen anyone shared before you are gold
Absolutely loved your insights on building self-compassion and trust within ourselves. Your approach to overcoming fears and embracing our authentic selves is truly inspiring.
Listening to you is like listening to my soul speak to me. It’s literally like you’re me and it’s freaky 😂 but I like it ❤
Thank you
Helped me to get how trying to stop people from judging me is actually a form of people pleasing.
I feel freer.
Commenting from 25:45, Thank you. This IS the video that is allowing me to be comfy enough to take the next step. I am still early in my journey. It's so satisfying to see someone talk about this in this way, especially as I've been struggling with my perfectionist past trying to bubble up and pull me back down. I affirm that that is no longer something that keeps me from doing the things I feel called to do and and you are a part of my confidence in that. I can't express enough gratitude for that little extra push
the chihuahua shakes are so real and the best way to describe it😭 i don’t normally comment on videos but this video touched me in how I’ve been feeling so much about getting back into something that I’ve been so fearful to get back into bc using my voice is my biggest weakness and something that I’m not used to especially in group settings. Thank you for showing me that realization that it’s not just about repetition but it’s also the TRUST for yourself that’s just as important. 💌
love the mindfulness tip! This whole video was so helpful and true. Thank you
Every single word that you said resonated so deeply within my heart ❤ I’ve been following you for a while now and the depth of your videos is getting more and more powerful! You can’t imagine how much you helped me with this one ❤
Hiii!!!! Im honored to have been able to reach you at this special time on your journey. Whatever it is that is on your heart to do .. I hope you are reassured that it is TIME and you are safe to fully dive in! I’m rooting for you ♥️
Always enjoy listening to your podcast, they give me insight on how i need to move forward with the progression of my life. The part about you not knowing if by what you say on your podcast if you speak on your truth. I struggle with this myself in just addressing old issues where someone hurt me and I did not speak up.
I completely relate to this. Im going to start my channel and be consistent.
This is inspiring and helpful and I’m gone be authentic. It can be scary but the blessings you get for blessings to people and impacting people and knowing it’s higher power and receiving Gods and assignment. ❤
I needed to see this. I totally agree...the 90's and early 2000's were so culturally and emotionally toxic, I built this hard shell around myself and raised the bar to this unrealistic and unattainable level. Although I am an only child and extremely individualistic, I struggled so badly with fear of exposing my deepest and most vulnerable feelings at times. Perfectionism caused me to lose the love of my life, change my major in college, and even stunting my growth here on youtube. No person knows what they are doing...we are all just "winging it". I still struggle, but I know that it is now time to stand in my unapologetic truth. Let's see where this all goes!!! Thank you for sharing. God Bless you and your endeavors.
You are beautiful & impactful, thank you!- for being you!
Beautiful message ❤ thank you for sharing it
Wow. Thank you, I think this is one of the things I needed to see and hear at this time!
the intimacy hit the spot right now♥️😮💨🙌🏾
Interesting this popped up. Especially when I was just thinking about how everyone hyped me bc I’m pretty to be loud and out with it but I hide myself.
Thank you for your beautiful transparency in this video. I needed this video while taking the necessary steps to hit another level but to slow down and embrace me
I love the way you are talking.. so soft 💕
You really drifted thru my feed and unpacked my life 😅😂 voice is very soothing and the different angles are great!!
I’ve been following you for a short while and your videos have been so helpful, so glad that I came across you. Your content is so inspiring and calming. Good to see you getting the viewership you deserve. 🥂
Becoming my own bestfriend wow. Love that. I tend to abandon myself. The new me is stopping that. I have family who loves to make negative comments even my own mother. I need to stand in my truth and be my highest self regardless of if they will feel I’m above them. 🤷🏽♀️I also need to start standing up for myself regarding these same negative family. Putting down hard boundaries and telling them don’t say this or that.
Really needed to hear this today. Thank you for sharing your voice. Truly so inspiring
tu es tellement douce t'es vraiment incroyable j'adore tes videos !!
merci de tout coeur!!! 🥹🤍
Thank you so much for sharing your voice!
Your aura feels like a warm hug 🥺 I love this video!
Omg you are so sweet thank youu 🥹♥️
Thank you for taking the time to make and post this video. Thank you for showing up and sharing yourself. You most definitely touched on all tge right topics!! From the chihuahua shakes you get right before recording (couldnt have said it better myself 😅), to being fearful of standing out in big crowds...and everything in between. I've started and stopped going after what I want so many times because I thought I was doing too much or being too extra. But with this video, I see that we all have something to bring to the table to share. And my "extra" might just be what the next person out there needs to see to get up and be their true selves.
Thank you ❤ New subbie here 😊
Soul tribe! New subscriber. I've been recording videos for a year and resonate with everything your saying especially the writing/scripting..being afraid of saying the wrong things..the butterflies and nerves before recording and the fear of being seen.
You're amazing!
You just open my spirit thanks
Thumbnail picture made me blush so hard oh lawd brains and beauty, woman like you motivate me as a man to get my stuff together 😂🔥
Aww thank you so much for watching ☺️♥️
This video is everything. You are such a light. So glad I came across this video and YOU 🌞
Lol GOD TIMING AND TOUCH IS SO PERFECT IN ALL WAYS.. I feel out of place most times.. HE’S placing people in places to help others deal with what really matters.. If you can talk to a person on social media about what weird look Drake had on his face.. You should be able to talk to someone about any mental health issues they have but I know only negative, toxic, drama bs matters bc it sells.. this is spiritual.. learn who is attacking you and why.. you’ll do great!! GOD BLESS!!!🙌🏾🙏🏾❤️
Thank you for this needed this in tears ❤️❤️❤️
I see you girl! I hear you. I value what you have offered the collective. Thank you and much love. 💗
Much love to you!!! Thank you so much for watching 💕
Loved this video! I see you and I feel seen thanks for sharing this
Amazing inspirational talk! I’m starting a new venture out of my comfort zone. Your vlogs are ❤🎉
Thank you jasmine♥️ you share your heart out and inspired me to show up in my own way
Just discovered your channel. You have a new subscriber ✨
Thank you so much!! Love & light to you!! I am making my 1st video today!!!
This video came at the right moment for me,this is something I have been struggling with for sometime,am in a position to be able to change it without feeling shame for having the struggle to begin with.
You are the second for me to hear this, confidence is uncomfortable.
I IMMEDIATELY subscribeD after two minutes😂😂😂
Hii!!! Thank you for sticking around!! 🥹🌸
Thank you for sharping. Very timely! 🙌🏾
Yes thanks that it never too late to do me my way thanks for the reminder ❤😊
This video has blessed and inspired me so much. Thank you
Hiii! I am so happy that it did! Thank you for watching ♥️
WOW! You have such a beautiful poetic speaking voice, you should read audiobooks ❤
Can't wait be cheering you on girl when you win your grammy 👏🏽🙏🏽💕
Omg you are so sweet🥹🌸 thank you so much!!
Jasmin thank you for sharing this video because I dealt with confidence in my life and being honest with myself and a lot of insecurities made me overthink a lot. But I want to be confident in myself so that way I can withstand or be my best self.
Hii!! Thank you so much for watching I’m so happy that my video was able to reach you🥹💕
@@jasminsirii 💕 yes thank you so much
Ohh girl! Jasmin thank you for this video and you're experience I can totally resonate with you. Most of the time I don't want to outshine others and I'm ending up crazy inside the cupboard battling myself when is the right now to come out from my shell and do the things that I'm passionate to share to the world. I can feel this video is genuine just pure and direct from your heart. More powers to you!!!!
This speaks volumes I have the same thoughts on topics you’ve spoke about 💜💜✨✨