Thank you. This is spot on for me right now. Currently in the process of building up my own life. Lack of this independence really affected my relationship and now I'm working hard to make things right for mine and my partner's sake.
I've been single and I've been attached, and there are pros and cons to both. But IMO, it's better to be alone feeling self-sufficient and fulfilled, than in an unhappy relationship because you feel the need to be with someone. It's like the older I get, the more I appreciate personal freedom as well.
This is important for mental and overall health. Especially when you become your partner’s caregiver, you have to maintain an independent perspective or you won’t be able to be there for them.
Awesome topic and great info! 🔥 Interdependence and independence are both so important. Self care always makes you more capable to care for your partner and family. Love that you are sharing this through coaching as well....your vids are helping me to be a better therapist too. Thanks so much!!😁😁🥰
The positive impression you've left on me following your videos has opened the doors for one of the greatest connection I've ever felt in my life! Thank you soooooo much for all of your help!! You have no idea how grateful I am 🦸♀️❤❤❤.
Hi Apollonia, you have been helping me with your great Advices. Now I do understand of life is as man and also how girls or women works. Thanks you keep on the good.
Apollonia can you do a video on dating older ages. Me and my girlfriend are 10yrs apart I’m 38 and we have a great dynamic but I would love to understand how to flow better being that our perception are going to be slightly different however it’s worked being that my mentality is older than my age.
Alright AP I've been taking back hold of my life for years now. The hole was deep and my own doing. Found you a few months ago. I find your delivery pleasant even in hard topics. I've been already following my dreams...with no options left lol. What I have been guilty of is the negative self talk and mindset. No one has ever no one will etc. Just talking with women in the past few months has been great. I can approach and hold a strange conversation now. I'm still working on it, I want to thank you for doing what you do. Having an honest female perspective has been very enlightening and encouraging. You're rad. Chadwic
Some very great point of views, what's your thought on internet friendship woman and man, as long you as the individual keeps things in line of order of talking ?
U said no contact don't work if u r dating from around 1- 2 months. If she is ghosting me bec of my insecurities or my neediness then how much time i should detach myself from her How much weeks? Days? I should not talk to her or anything
She gets mad when i tell her that were together but that we have our minds and our own way of thinking because thats how god made us with free will. If god gave us free will why will we let someone else take it away??? U cant argue whats bibled and whats in our heart. Its a god given gift "free will"
Good Evening Apollonia, my name is JoeAnthony I just lost my Wife my best friend after 23 years of Marriage. It's been 6 months now my N - Law's and my friends and family things I should be looking into Dating again. My question to you is when is the right time to start dating again. My wife was my High School Sweetheart. In my 23 years of being married to her i have never looked upon another woman. I don't even know where to start looking. I never had to go out and look for a woman because I known my wife from high school. I'm 46 years old, in September I'll be 47. What would you suggest i start looking or do you think it's still to soon.
Hey Apollonia, my last relationship ended about 3 months ago when I found out she was cheating on me. I know not all girls are the same. I started talking to few people since then and now I'm at a point where things might be getting serious with a girl but I'm scared again about getting hurt or cheated on. I haven't felt this way in a while. Should I take some more time to heal, do these feelings mean I'm not ready to date ?
Riight. To your first question: not boring. Second: I think I evolve, but have been specifically told that I do not. Bottom line, I come away from this video with the feeling: screw you all.
Such an important video and I really enjoyed making this one. Love you guys sooo much!
YOUR SINCERITY HAS GOLD AROUND IT. PEACE TO YOU AND YOURS
Very good video, when are you going to do another live?
You are always so loved and appreciated!!💞
Looking forward to your next video . Rest please ma'am .
U cane pin me any time u wont
Thank you. This is spot on for me right now.
Currently in the process of building up my own life. Lack of this independence really affected my relationship and now I'm working hard to make things right for mine and my partner's sake.
You've got this!
I've been single and I've been attached, and there are pros and cons to both. But IMO, it's better to be alone feeling self-sufficient and fulfilled, than in an unhappy relationship because you feel the need to be with someone. It's like the older I get, the more I appreciate personal freedom as well.
This is important for mental and overall health. Especially when you become your partner’s caregiver, you have to maintain an independent perspective or you won’t be able to be there for them.
Awesome topic and great info! 🔥 Interdependence and independence are both so important. Self care always makes you more capable to care for your partner and family. Love that you are sharing this through coaching as well....your vids are helping me to be a better therapist too. Thanks so much!!😁😁🥰
I appreciate you Christian. :-)
You're right about "Souls". Our bodies are a vehicle that carries it through life ❤
Fantastic Apollonia
The positive impression you've left on me following your videos has opened the doors for one of the greatest connection I've ever felt in my life! Thank you soooooo much for all of your help!! You have no idea how grateful I am 🦸♀️❤❤❤.
Great video,very informative.Thank you.
Absolutely right.It is healthy for self identity and you both grow and van teach each other👍🏾
Hi Apollonia, you have been helping me with your great Advices. Now I do understand of life is as man and also how girls or women works. Thanks you keep on the good.
l am looking forward to book an interview with you face to face Apollonia.
You are so attractive 😍 because you are telling the truth! Apollonia, don't be scared to lose people because of the truth! You are telling the truth!
Fantastic video! Great information, great advice.
Mike thank you always!
Thank you Apollonia, happiness is something created from the inside and is not given by someone else
Thank You AP. Yes it is important to grow and to appreciate ones accomplishments. Makes for a great offering socially.
So uplifting God bless you Apolonia
Im so blessed learning from you Apollonia.. How i wish more women are as understanding and caring like you. God bless you more!
Thank you Appollonia...very timely for me right now! You and Natalie are very helpful
Hi Mike- thanks so much! Appreciate you :) xo
Great video Apollonia 💯
Amazing and True !! Apollonia , I Appreciate your wisdom and you continually sharing valuable information with so many men.
Apollonia can you do a video on dating older ages. Me and my girlfriend are 10yrs apart I’m 38 and we have a great dynamic but I would love to understand how to flow better being that our perception are going to be slightly different however it’s worked being that my mentality is older than my age.
Ms Appolonia= the best coach ever...thank you for this magnificent video.
xo
The most amazing video you ever made Ms. Appollonia keep up the great work much love to you and your family 🌹
Thank you Troy!
you are the best and we love you !
I agree! Independence and interdepedence is the key. When did you became independent?
Great video sweety I enjoyed listening to it you sound like a loving person have a great day. Al.
Alright AP I've been taking back hold of my life for years now.
The hole was deep and my own doing.
Found you a few months ago.
I find your delivery pleasant even in hard topics. I've been already following my dreams...with no options left lol. What I have been guilty of is the negative self talk and mindset.
No one has ever no one will etc.
Just talking with women in the past few months has been great.
I can approach and hold a strange conversation now.
I'm still working on it, I want to thank you for doing what you do.
Having an honest female perspective has been very enlightening and encouraging. You're rad.
Chadwic
You're rad Chadwic. Also love that name! :)
Many improvements since I started listening to your videos.
Amazing I love this!
@@ApolloniaPonti trust me when I say, I am seeing me the way the women in my life see. Family, interest etc.
such a wonderful lady
Having your own life (being independent)makes you more attractive to women. She wants you the man to take her on an adventure.
🌟🌟🌟🌟⭐❤❤❤❤🙏👐😊⭐
I have my girl but I still listening to your topics ❤💑
This channel is for single and taken. LOL ;-)
Ok....love
I wish I could pour my hart out to you , to let you know my flaws and failures some day, Apollona I love your power points chats
Hi Apollonia it would be awesome if your coaching could be on audible someday
Thank you
I miss the old set; I told my friends you had a beach background.
Evolve into someone better.
Thanks I needed to hear that.
Blessings.
we are ever-evolving humans. :)
Some very great point of views, what's your thought on internet friendship woman and man, as long you as the individual keeps things in line of order of talking ?
I
Music to my ears 🤩spiritual talk.
thank you! :-)
Loved this topic Apollonia! More videos on this please! How do you actually achieve interdependence and not co-dependent? :) Love yea!
Own life means freedom, and noone wants to be a slave.
👏 bravo!
Ian Mackenzie Was is that the perfect way for you and me to have a great 👍 day
That's great...
U said no contact don't work if u r dating from around 1- 2 months. If she is ghosting me bec of my insecurities or my neediness then how much time i should detach myself from her
How much weeks?
Days?
I should not talk to her or anything
Great video, lots of great advice.
She gets mad when i tell her that were together but that we have our minds and our own way of thinking because thats how god made us with free will. If god gave us free will why will we let someone else take it away??? U cant argue whats bibled and whats in our heart. Its a god given gift "free will"
Have you spoken about hyper independence?
Agree agree and agree
Apollonia who said your not a genuise?i love you sweetheart'for your insight..
I like having my own personal life being single.
Same
Nothing wrong with that. :)
Good Evening Apollonia, my name is JoeAnthony I just lost my Wife my best friend after 23 years of Marriage. It's been 6 months now my N - Law's and my friends and family things I should be looking into Dating again. My question to you is when is the right time to start dating again. My wife was my High School Sweetheart. In my 23 years of being married to her i have never looked upon another woman. I don't even know where to start looking. I never had to go out and look for a woman because I known my wife from high school. I'm 46 years old, in September I'll be 47. What would you suggest i start looking or do you think it's still to soon.
Hey Apollonia, my last relationship ended about 3 months ago when I found out she was cheating on me. I know not all girls are the same. I started talking to few people since then and now I'm at a point where things might be getting serious with a girl but I'm scared again about getting hurt or cheated on. I haven't felt this way in a while. Should I take some more time to heal, do these feelings mean I'm not ready to date ?
No it all sow from the hart two all hart and respect
How does it promote happiness if wife doesn't like for me to be alone or thinks I'm going to find someone else
That means she’s insecure.
Riight. To your first question: not boring. Second: I think I evolve, but have been specifically told that I do not. Bottom line, I come away from this video with the feeling: screw you all.
Thank you Apollonia. It is really crucial to show your ability to be alone. Allah bless you Apollonia.
👏❤
wow
i.e: cheating IS healthy! (#who's down with o.p.p?!)
Can you do another video about sex? I just met a girl and we're having lots of good sex, but want to make it better.
True but hard
I really enjoyed listening to your talk.. Looking forward to more such essential topics for brighter life. Thank you Ponti.
Appreciate you xoxo