Sustaining desire in a long-term relationship | Dr. Petra Zebroff | TEDxSurrey

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  • @anasquadri7919
    @anasquadri7919 2 роки тому +19

    We need more talks like this.

  • @MultiSuzy13
    @MultiSuzy13 2 роки тому +2

    Lovely to be able to see your talk Petra, great job and you were amazing!

  • @allicedee
    @allicedee 2 роки тому +30

    Yeah after 2-3 years I felt the "spark" leaving the "game". But it came back, sadly only for me and not my partner, at 6 years around. Few years later it ended for the better.
    You only know if you are compatible for life, after you lose your Spark.

    • @patricew.4010
      @patricew.4010 4 місяці тому +1

      The spark debate is a tricky one. With that being said, the last sentence isn't something I thought about before. I don't want marriage, I want a long term relationship though. With that being said that means choosing to stay after the spark, while I always saw it as working through bad times like...the death of a parent.

  • @simplysunmoon
    @simplysunmoon 2 роки тому +15

    Very interesting topic, thanks for sharing would be nice to have more talks about that ❤️☀️🌙

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @datchinogreentgod420
    @datchinogreentgod420 2 роки тому +1

    NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO KISS FIRST!!! - DAMN THIS TRUELY HAS BEEN A GREAT MESSAGE TO MY EARS N BRAIN!!

  • @JaeNiece55
    @JaeNiece55 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you👍🌹. Wow! That was a big eye opener 👍👍👍

  • @iLoveChaiTea90
    @iLoveChaiTea90 6 місяців тому

    Out here doing Gods work

  • @dustykappus8030
    @dustykappus8030 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for sharing, a lot of factors play into it, and the physical mental and spiritual

  • @Lifeofsharmaji_
    @Lifeofsharmaji_ 2 роки тому +8

    It's a spark that one should keep between them always one should try things with required amount of time after all it's relationship it's about keeping it throughout your life ❤️🌍

  • @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack
    @TigerBlackTigerBlackTigerBlack 2 роки тому

    This is an amazing talk I love the idea of communication with your partner. Too bad rvw is going to hurt so many lives.

  • @bukurie6861
    @bukurie6861 2 роки тому

    Thank you!Interesting to hear a theme to this nature!👍

  • @sicosico3426
    @sicosico3426 2 роки тому

    Really helpful

  • @tentanghukumkita6381
    @tentanghukumkita6381 2 роки тому

    Sustaining desire in a long-term relationship
    Thanks for explanation.

  • @theolgasperezshow
    @theolgasperezshow 2 роки тому +6

    I talk about this all the time. It is my passion. Thanks for sharing!❤

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @bfcbrad69
    @bfcbrad69 2 роки тому +1

    Where do i find this Qtip questionnaire ?

  • @giftedgreen2152
    @giftedgreen2152 2 роки тому +19

    I retired from dating at 40. One of the best decisions I ever made.

    • @Devanshu2406
      @Devanshu2406 2 роки тому +1

      Can you please elaborate on that, I respectfully want to know more !!

    • @justinatkinson5265
      @justinatkinson5265 2 роки тому +3

      Well that is a lie. If It was the truth you wouldn't be here commenting lol

    • @giftedgreen2152
      @giftedgreen2152 2 роки тому +2

      @@Devanshu2406 birthing people don’t get better with age. I got sick of the look of shame from birthing people who looked 10x better with clothes and makeup on.

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove 2 роки тому +3

    When you realize that holding onto pain is so much greater than the pain of removing a toxic person out of your life, then you know that it is time to let go.
    💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

  • @marie-christinerondeau3017
    @marie-christinerondeau3017 2 роки тому

    Very interesting talk! Where can we take the q-tip test?

    • @fillo1762
      @fillo1762 9 місяців тому

      You can search it up on google

  • @irenesturk7283
    @irenesturk7283 2 роки тому +1

    So how do you bring eg. sentiment and surrender together?

  • @정솜결
    @정솜결 2 роки тому +1

    영상감사합니다ㆍ솜결

  • @millig8980
    @millig8980 2 роки тому +21

    Very good topic although you forgot to mention a very small factor which destroys erotic brain: Toddlers. Two boys in my case 🤣🤣

    • @sihlemanana862
      @sihlemanana862 2 роки тому

      This is why I don’t want kids

    • @lifebeginswithaseed
      @lifebeginswithaseed 2 роки тому +1

      @@sihlemanana862 There's an upside to kids too. They are a blessing. I definitely was not a kid person b4 I had them. They change you in which you become selfless and actually care for the future(I actually started paying attention to politics and law making) They give you an opportunity to grow and give you joy that can only come from being a parent. It's like living life all over again seeing things through their eyes. The amazement and wonder over the simplest things. It's a beautiful experience.

    • @sicosico3426
      @sicosico3426 2 роки тому +1

      @@lifebeginswithaseed 100% true

  • @Spectrumix
    @Spectrumix 2 роки тому +2

    captivating presentation , does anyone know where this questionnaire is?...
    asking for a friend🤫

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you

  • @mrevol8454
    @mrevol8454 2 роки тому +1

    I thought it was Helen hunt in the thumb nail

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you

  • @LarryP248
    @LarryP248 Рік тому +1

    This content stands as a testament to insightful and profound thought. A book with related material was a significant influence in my life. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @UnconditionalTruthKilluminati
    @UnconditionalTruthKilluminati 2 роки тому +12

    It certainly helps if you have a gal that looks like the good Dr. Petra as the days go by, but actual commitment should be the eternal spark. Material stability, limerence, impulsiveness, societal pressure, and/or obligation("accidental" pregnancy...etc) should never be the foundation of a relationship that's expected to last.
    The days of survival dating are gone and hypergamy should be reclassified as a mental disorder.
    When Love becomes the only reason people are dating instead of relieving anxiety and fear? Alot of these issues will become rare rather than a societal norm...

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @Tacoman1967
    @Tacoman1967 2 роки тому +9

    I've given up. It's less stressful.

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +24

    The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

    • @frufrujaben
      @frufrujaben 2 роки тому +1

      this works folks!

    • @JCVarkey
      @JCVarkey 2 роки тому +1

      Very good advice!

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +1

      @@frufrujaben Thanks for sharing!

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +2

      @@JCVarkey Thank you Jay!

  • @user-yp4nm3os8f
    @user-yp4nm3os8f 2 роки тому

    1-2 years!😆

  • @champfisk5613
    @champfisk5613 2 роки тому +6

    People get tired of things they have access to overtime. Think of that brand new car that you no longer covet after 2 years and that brand new cell phone that you no longer baby after 2 months

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @susanridenour9758
    @susanridenour9758 2 роки тому

    One and four

    • @beppobarrendero74
      @beppobarrendero74 2 роки тому +1

      Second

    • @susanridenour9758
      @susanridenour9758 2 роки тому

      I need to hear the choices again. Plus, it's been a long time since I've had an intimate relationship

  • @ВикторШилов-х1ю
    @ВикторШилов-х1ю 2 роки тому

    Где перевод?

  • @Jay-ef2ii
    @Jay-ef2ii Рік тому

    SPECIAL COMMENT: You as the man must have awesome chemistry to begin with so your relationship with your Woman does not fade away. You too (as the man) must be more beautiful than the Woman so she can listen to you. The man must have awesome chemistry! He too, if possible, must have Chemistry and Looks so all can roll well with the Woman. "The World is messed up love wise for the man who does not have any chemistry with a hot woman" December 31, 2023. USA

  • @maha_19991
    @maha_19991 2 роки тому +1

    اتمنى توضعون ترجمه الكلام 🥺

  • @Chickadeebunny
    @Chickadeebunny 2 роки тому +2

    I’m not sure why “the spark dies” for so many couples. I know for a fact, personally I remain just as passionate as I was for them as I was in the beginning.

    • @Jay-ef2ii
      @Jay-ef2ii Рік тому

      Hotter chicks are one reason. Many men are visual creatures. December 31,2023. USA.

  • @sadiakhan6449
    @sadiakhan6449 2 роки тому +3

    Second

  • @halilibrahim4830
    @halilibrahim4830 2 роки тому +1

    erotic Brain is on our heart.

  • @schelliegris7481
    @schelliegris7481 2 роки тому +1

    2 and 4 at the moment

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @orwell_fan
    @orwell_fan 2 роки тому +2

    For any guy, man reading this comment, go read or hear the book "The Rational Male" from Rollo Tomassi. This will teach you a lot of women, and how to keep Genuine Burning Desire aka "the spark" women feel for a man. Thank me later

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @wolfofmind8
    @wolfofmind8 2 роки тому +3

    Immortal😂

  • @Village-kids-speak
    @Village-kids-speak 2 роки тому

    any one is here who want to practice English?

  • @knaw35
    @knaw35 2 роки тому +4

    Interesting. Many advisers “how to live” recommend special techniques. They talk about points, steps, lists, types, etc. They are even ready to tell you what is important and what isn’t. Forget it. You are not a machine. Just try to understand who we are in perspective of millions years of developing. What is conscious, what is unconscious. Why we do something we know is wrong. To live a proper life is easier and accepted by society. But we don’t. Why?
    Read Carl Jung, listen Jordan Peterson, Douglas Murray and similar. Find out who you are. Understand yourself. Finally you will not need any technique how to turn someone up. It will be a part of your complex knowledge about the world and you.

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you

  • @palesamalodi
    @palesamalodi 2 роки тому +2

    Third 😂

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @johnmatthewbriones3447
    @johnmatthewbriones3447 2 роки тому +1

    First

    • @text2324
      @text2324 2 роки тому

      ᴛᴇxᴛ stephen' ʜᴇ's ᴀɴ ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴏʀ ±𝟏𝟐𝟎𝟗𝟗𝟖𝟗𝟏𝟓𝟒𝟖 ʀeɢᴀʀᴅɪɴɢ 🅑🅣🅒 ɪɴᴠᴇsᴛᴍᴇɴᴛ ɪᴅᴇᴀs, let him know we referred you..

  • @hempisnotpot4112
    @hempisnotpot4112 2 роки тому

    The best way to do it is to keep bringing in younger women to the bedroom to share - he's already had u so

    • @skypinkidol
      @skypinkidol 2 роки тому +8

      I’m sorry that you believe this is true

    • @usernotfound5857
      @usernotfound5857 2 роки тому +3

      Try laying off the hemp / pot / whatever you're on

    • @hempisnotpot4112
      @hempisnotpot4112 2 роки тому

      You said it, you’re sad, hence the need for younger variety, you cant beat nature, younger its on every man's bucket list... this will never change, it dont matter how wonderful or accomplished , young skin will always be desired over anything else

    • @Skeletal33
      @Skeletal33 2 роки тому

      Youre so full
      Of it. Hows your mom doing? Does she clean your room?

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    @emmahill7305 2 роки тому +15

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      @nkemjikachris-ken328 2 роки тому

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      @Dalio906 2 роки тому

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      @beuladegraffenreid4210 2 роки тому

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      @beuladegraffenreid4210 2 роки тому

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      @beuladegraffenreid4210 2 роки тому

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