Wow, ok I've got a lot of shoes... I think I've got... juuuuust off the top of my head I've got nine pairs of shoes at the moment! And that's a good idea! I might do that at some point =)
Wow!,you made a new video fairly quickly.Well keep up the good work and i'll make sure to keep on watching.Oh,and what size shoe do you wear most of the time?
Haha thank you! =D I'm hoping to be a biiiiiit more regular with the videos! And I shall keep it up! =D And my shoe size is usually a size 9, but I can fit size 8s as well =)
Awww, you shouldn't worry about that though! It's still easy enough to get shoes =) Online, and a lot of shops at malls and stuff go up to 10 at least =)
Hahaha WELL, back when I made the channel a loooong time ago now, "Sea" is like "C" and Dresa - basically just a funky way of saying crossdresser xD I thought it was clever at the time =P
Hiya Grace, love your vlogs and it does not matter if you are male / female or somewhere in between. I do have a few questions for you though if you do not mind. Ok Q1) You have stated you have a girlfriend / partner. But you have also stated that you have been out clubbing / movies as Grace. My question is if 2 hot fellas, came over to yourself and your partner, and tried to chat you both up, how do you respond ? Do you encourage them , ignore them, tell them you are already partners and let them think you are a lesbian couple, or tell them the truth and let them deal with it.? Q2) Related to q1, but what if the guy chatting you up was REALLY Hot, and showed that he was interested in yourself as Grace ( even if you told him the truth ), would you be interested in HIM as well ? Basically when female do you fancy guys at all ? Q3) Again related to above, if the guy was really coming on to your partner, or Your guy was coming on to you very strongly, would either of you get jealous of the other ? I know you talk about gender fluidity, but just wondering if you also experience sexuality fluidity ? . I ask only as I am myself born male, but since 2009, live and work full time as a female, except when I go through airports ( but that is another story lol ), but I do not take hormones, nor have I have any GRS. I am content as Hels ( short for Helena ), my family know and accept moi as such, but I classify myself ( sexuality wise ) as a Bi-Lesbian as I consider both male and female company to be nice, but prefer female companionship. However if a hot dude chats me up, I will flirt with him, maybe even a few safe dates, before I tell him about my "condition". I usually explain it gently by saying that due to a birth defect, I am unable to give birth, in case he was interested in being a father. Needless to say some have accepted myself, some have not, hence why I prefer female partners, as they are more accepting and open. I am 27 years old this summer, so just wondering what your own thoughts on sexuality fluidity rather than gender fluidity were ? Thanks for reading this, and hope to hear from you soon, Best wishes and may regards, Hels x
Hey, I'm glad you like the videos and everything! And I can answer your questions for you now if you like =) 1) I do have a girlfriend/partner, and we make it very clear that we're a lesbian couple, so neither of us have really been chatted up when we're out clubbing and stuff =) 2) When I'm female, I still don't fancy guys - I'm attracted to women regardless of my gender, and also I have a partner, so I'm not even interested in other people xD 3) Yep, we both would get jealous, so we basically avoid getting into those situations xD And I don't actually experience sexuality fluidity at all - In all regards I'm solely attracted to women =) But in saying that, I see sexuality fluidity as a thing, and something that definitely happens! People aren't really so narrow as to be stuck into one category their whole life - things happen, tastes change and sexuality can change, just like gender =) Although your life sounds like it's pretty brilliant in terms of accepting people and your sexuality =)
***** Thanks for the swift replay and frank honest answers. As said above , my only concern is airports, as passsport still in male name, and so have to be a dude when travelling ( YUKE !!!!!! , hat being a guy :( ) , but slightly worth it if they open my cases and see that everything is totally feminine, the look on their faces is priceless.
You're welcome! =) Ahhhhh seriously, why aren't you able to change your gender on your passport yet if you're transitioning? =/ Hehehe that is actually amazing, I've had that a little bit when going through customs myself! xD
Huh... I never actually thought about it! But now that you mention it, that's pretty cool! I mean, I don't really think there's actually a link between it at all, but that's pretty cool! Kudos to you for figuring that out! =D
All different kinds! Old fashioned cinema, crazy weird stuff, action, comedy, drama, ALL THE MARVEL STUDIO FILMS (because I'm a total nerd), just there's too many awesome movies out in the world =D
***** Yes, when I talk to my friends about movies I'm all over the place but I really like the style of Japanese cinema. I basically keep up with what's going on there because 3 of my favorite directors are from Japan (Shinya Tsukamoto, Kiyoshi Kurosawa, and last but not least, Sion Sono) But yeah, I like many genres. I'm not much of a tv watcher but I love to chill out to strange movies. I used to have a pen pal in New Zealand. She was really cool. We wrote each other for like 3 years. Hand written letters are special, hehe... also, I did my makeup after watching your vids and it was really fun.
Ahh well that sounds like a pretty cool style to go with! =D I don't watch many TV shows either these days... but movies are amazing =D Oh you did? That's cool! Gotta love the handwritten letters, so much more personalised =) Oh you did? That's awesome! =) How did it turn out? =)
Favourite video games.... hmmmm, The Elder Scrolls Series, Grand Theft Auto Series... Alan Wake is a pretty awesome game, there's a faaaaair few =D And no, I don't drink coffee, it's not my cup of tea xD
Thank you for adding that! =D I'm super glad you love all ma videos and that I've helped with all the genderfluidity! It can be quiiiiite difficult to wrap your head around with, with dealing with everything and such >
I usually don't like Q&A vids, but your cuteness, personality, and sense of humor make this a pleasure to watch, and I love seeing your outfits.
Hooray! I'm glad that I can break the standard Q&A vid type for you =)
Okay I'm kind of like obsessed with you(in the least creepy way possible)~ yay for being genderqueer! >w<
Hahahaha oh dear, I'm glad it's in the least creepiest way possible though =D AND GENDERQUEERNESS IS AWESOME =D
I also live NZ, we should hangout, play Skyrim and share gender fluid story's if you're ever in Tauranga.
So gorgeous! And yay for The Beatles!!!! You actually look like Lily Collins ahhh!! :)
YAY! The Beatles have the best music!!! =D I swear I'm a hippy at heart =P Ooh, thank you!! She's very pretty and that's so nice of you to say! =)
YOUR MUSIC TASTE IS PERFECT AND YOU'RE SO FUCKING ADORABLE AHHH
THANK YA =D I LOVE MY MUSIC TASTE TOO BY THE WAY =D GLAD YOU APPROOOOOOOOOVE! =D
I would love to see another Q&A with Grace!
Jacob Reese I would too! Have to do another one of those at some point...
I can't wait to see your next video! :D
Thank you! =D I've got a little plan in the works, although it won't be out for a wee bit because I've just done a BUNCH of travelling!
How many pairs of shoes do You have? You should make a fashion episode :)
Wow, ok I've got a lot of shoes... I think I've got... juuuuust off the top of my head I've got nine pairs of shoes at the moment! And that's a good idea! I might do that at some point =)
So Cute!!!!
Wow!,you made a new video fairly quickly.Well keep up the good work and i'll make sure to keep on watching.Oh,and what size shoe do you wear most of the time?
Haha thank you! =D I'm hoping to be a biiiiiit more regular with the videos! And I shall keep it up! =D And my shoe size is usually a size 9, but I can fit size 8s as well =)
***** I wish I had feet that size,i'm like a 10 and a half ;"'(.....
Awww, you shouldn't worry about that though! It's still easy enough to get shoes =) Online, and a lot of shops at malls and stuff go up to 10 at least =)
***** Thnx for the help!!! (^-^)
That's all good! =) I can try find some websites if you like =)
What kind of clothing style do you like?
You voice is so great. Is that practiced or totally natural?
Biiiiiiiiiiiiiiit a both to be quite honest =P
Grace, is there any secret behind your UA-cam name, Seadresa? Just curious. That's all. You're amazing!
Hahaha WELL, back when I made the channel a loooong time ago now, "Sea" is like "C" and Dresa - basically just a funky way of saying crossdresser xD I thought it was clever at the time =P
Hiya Grace, love your vlogs and it does not matter if you are male / female or somewhere in between. I do have a few questions for you though if you do not mind.
Ok Q1) You have stated you have a girlfriend / partner. But you have also stated that you have been out clubbing / movies as Grace. My question is if 2 hot fellas, came over to yourself and your partner, and tried to chat you both up, how do you respond ? Do you encourage them , ignore them, tell them you are already partners and let them think you are a lesbian couple, or tell them the truth and let them deal with it.?
Q2) Related to q1, but what if the guy chatting you up was REALLY Hot, and showed that he was interested in yourself as Grace ( even if you told him the truth ), would you be interested in HIM as well ? Basically when female do you fancy guys at all ?
Q3) Again related to above, if the guy was really coming on to your partner, or Your guy was coming on to you very strongly, would either of you get jealous of the other ?
I know you talk about gender fluidity, but just wondering if you also experience sexuality fluidity ? . I ask only as I am myself born male, but since 2009, live and work full time as a female, except when I go through airports ( but that is another story lol ), but I do not take hormones, nor have I have any GRS. I am content as Hels ( short for Helena ), my family know and accept moi as such, but I classify myself ( sexuality wise ) as a Bi-Lesbian as I consider both male and female company to be nice, but prefer female companionship. However if a hot dude chats me up, I will flirt with him, maybe even a few safe dates, before I tell him about my "condition". I usually explain it gently by saying that due to a birth defect, I am unable to give birth, in case he was interested in being a father. Needless to say some have accepted myself, some have not, hence why I prefer female partners, as they are more accepting and open. I am 27 years old this summer, so just wondering what your own thoughts on sexuality fluidity rather than gender fluidity were ?
Thanks for reading this, and hope to hear from you soon,
Best wishes and may regards,
Hels x
Hey, I'm glad you like the videos and everything! And I can answer your questions for you now if you like =)
1) I do have a girlfriend/partner, and we make it very clear that we're a lesbian couple, so neither of us have really been chatted up when we're out clubbing and stuff =)
2) When I'm female, I still don't fancy guys - I'm attracted to women regardless of my gender, and also I have a partner, so I'm not even interested in other people xD
3) Yep, we both would get jealous, so we basically avoid getting into those situations xD
And I don't actually experience sexuality fluidity at all - In all regards I'm solely attracted to women =) But in saying that, I see sexuality fluidity as a thing, and something that definitely happens! People aren't really so narrow as to be stuck into one category their whole life - things happen, tastes change and sexuality can change, just like gender =)
Although your life sounds like it's pretty brilliant in terms of accepting people and your sexuality =)
***** Thanks for the swift replay and frank honest answers.
As said above , my only concern is airports, as passsport still in male name, and so have to be a dude when travelling ( YUKE !!!!!! , hat being a guy :( ) , but slightly worth it if they open my cases and see that everything is totally feminine, the look on their faces is priceless.
You're welcome! =)
Ahhhhh seriously, why aren't you able to change your gender on your passport yet if you're transitioning? =/ Hehehe that is actually amazing, I've had that a little bit when going through customs myself! xD
***** sexi
Do you find correlations between being a Gemini and two genders?
Huh... I never actually thought about it! But now that you mention it, that's pretty cool! I mean, I don't really think there's actually a link between it at all, but that's pretty cool! Kudos to you for figuring that out! =D
If you like the Beatles come see the Beatles story in Liverpool an see me too
I plan on going to Liverpool one day just to do the nerdy Beatles tour because hell yeah xD
Why was this recommended to me after 7 years
I love surreal cinema, what kind of films do you like?
All different kinds! Old fashioned cinema, crazy weird stuff, action, comedy, drama, ALL THE MARVEL STUDIO FILMS (because I'm a total nerd), just there's too many awesome movies out in the world =D
***** Yes, when I talk to my friends about movies I'm all over the place but I really like the style of Japanese cinema. I basically keep up with what's going on there because 3 of my favorite directors are from Japan (Shinya Tsukamoto, Kiyoshi Kurosawa, and last but not least, Sion Sono) But yeah, I like many genres. I'm not much of a tv watcher but I love to chill out to strange movies. I used to have a pen pal in New Zealand. She was really cool. We wrote each other for like 3 years. Hand written letters are special, hehe... also, I did my makeup after watching your vids and it was really fun.
Ahh well that sounds like a pretty cool style to go with! =D I don't watch many TV shows either these days... but movies are amazing =D
Oh you did? That's cool! Gotta love the handwritten letters, so much more personalised =)
Oh you did? That's awesome! =) How did it turn out? =)
Hello beautiful. What are your all time favorite video games? Do you drink coffee?
Favourite video games.... hmmmm, The Elder Scrolls Series, Grand Theft Auto Series... Alan Wake is a pretty awesome game, there's a faaaaair few =D And no, I don't drink coffee, it's not my cup of tea xD
***** I was guessing Skyrim
It's just universally an awesome game, I would be shocked if anyone DIDN'T play it! =D
Holy COW WE HAVE DA SAME BURFDAY!!!!
Brendan Sweeney OHMYGOD THAT IS AWESOME!!! =D It's an awesome day to have a birthday =D
it sure is
:)))))))
and might i add i love all your videos and you have been such a big help. genderfluidity can be hard to deal with.
Thank you for adding that! =D I'm super glad you love all ma videos and that I've helped with all the genderfluidity! It can be quiiiiite difficult to wrap your head around with, with dealing with everything and such >
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your beautiful
u are a very beautiful woman and I love you little honey xoxoxoxo hugs and kisses xoxoxoxo 😘😘👭👭👭😘😘😍🌼👭👭👭💞
you are so beautiful. I want a wife like you. Do you have any friends in CA