How Jesus Responded to Toxic Guilt

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  • Опубліковано 5 лип 2023
  • Observing the life of Jesus Christ, you will discover the divine compassion He lived by on a daily basis. But what you do NOT find is Jesus being driven by or manipulated by guilt, especially in how He interacted with people. We often tell believers we should "live like Jesus." But if you watch the life of Christ, He did not feed into the guilt that people would throw His way. In this broadcast, I will bring out two very powerful examples of Jesus not feeding into man's guilt trips and the power it brought out for the glory of God. May our lives be deeply changed as we let go of toxic guilt and learn to truly live from a live of compassionate grace.
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  • @JCBurdenLifter
    @JCBurdenLifter Рік тому +30

    Mark and Melissa you rock! After watching hours of your videos these last two months, my previously transactional relationship with God is now slowly transitioning to a relational one. God has used both your words to pave the way for such a change. God bless! ❤🎉😊

  • @kaileybaca7716
    @kaileybaca7716 Рік тому +17

    I don;'t think there has ever been a time in my life where I've been moved in love to do something. I'm dumbfounded how much I have lived my life out of guilt whether being guilted by others, self-induced guilt, or even feeling guilted by God (even though He doesn't do that). I am truly speechless.

  • @auradiana
    @auradiana Рік тому +24

    ""Father God, bless and expand Mark and Melissa's ministry, the new mission field is trauma and healing and they are carriers of your divine wisdom in that territory. Protect them, give them words of wisdom and expand their outreach to many thousands that need to heal their broken hearts. Thank you for their gifts to heal wounded souls. In Jesus name, Amen. ""

  • @danielleo.2581
    @danielleo.2581 Рік тому +6

    “Sometimes, when love is in operation, you don’t jump to do anything. You wait, because love is patient.” 🙏🏻 🎆

  • @shastawork8152
    @shastawork8152 Рік тому +10

    I'm going through this right now and is a right now word for me. Thank you so much for your teaching of the Word. You are a great blessing 🙌 🙏 💛

  • @GodsGirl48
    @GodsGirl48 17 днів тому +1

    I’ve been In DBT therapy for the last year and my therapist told me I suffer with strong toxic guilt and showed me ways to change my perspective which was life changing but I’ve never heard it from a Christian perspective so I found this absolutely brilliant and it’s confirmed a lot to me. It started to creep back in today as a a family member threw something at me and I nearly had a meltdown by the toxic guilt rearing it’s ugly head again but this has really grounded me again in my spirit thank you 🙏🏼

  • @lindymitchell8352
    @lindymitchell8352 Рік тому +5

    I opened up the tears and they won’t stop by myself I can’t share this with anyone but Jesus I hope I’m only sharing this with you

  • @theresa42213
    @theresa42213 6 місяців тому +2

    MARK! Just found you 3 or 4 days ago, and WOW! l dont think l've ever heard ANYONE speak about this topic so effectively! l completely forgot about GRACE. You mean l can actually TAKE the forgiveness? < :O THANK YOU!

  • @marti5173
    @marti5173 Рік тому +6

    Thank you Mark . This video was uplifting 😊

  • @nakapanda
    @nakapanda 8 місяців тому +1

    thank you for this, i grew up in a guilt tripping family and church and it has pushed me away from God because i constantly feel like in disappointing him. This is helping shed some light

  • @HisBelovedSon70x7
    @HisBelovedSon70x7 11 місяців тому +2

    Wonderful teaching as usual Mark.
    Just a quick note for other watchers on Jesus' family coming to see him. Mark chapter 3 describes them as coming to control him because (at that time) they thought he was mad. His family werent just there to pay Jesus a visit.
    Dejesus' point still stands, but I thought it worth mentioning. God bless you all.

  • @martineblanchet-art3377
    @martineblanchet-art3377 Рік тому +2

    That is the best teaching I've heard about Lazarus resurrection ! So profound !

  • @jimmyjamb4911
    @jimmyjamb4911 10 місяців тому +1

    You describe this so well.
    Thanks to God’s Word in our life, we have the power to overcome and discern this fleshly wickedness, when confronted with it.
    My biggest fear after coming to Christ was the secular world that is within the church. I’m not referring to, (the body of Christ), but rather, the community church’s we attend.
    The covert way others will dart thoughts at you, to get you to comply with there own thoughts is plane, evil.
    In ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭6‬:‭13‬-‭15‬ ‭KJV‬‬;
    God tells is that there fruit will come in a “wink”.
    “He winketh with his eyes, he speaketh with his feet, he teacheth with his fingers; Frowardness is in his heart, he deviseth mischief continually; he soweth discord. Therefore shall his calamity come suddenly; suddenly shall he be broken without remedy.”

  • @martymar2113
    @martymar2113 7 місяців тому +1

    I wish you ran a church I’d be there every Sunday🤣godbless you tho mark hope all is well

  • @colorfulthinker
    @colorfulthinker Рік тому +4

    This was extremely helpful. You really helped me make sense of the topic, and I thank you. ❤

  • @Iris.2024
    @Iris.2024 2 місяці тому

    Amazing teaching!! Keep teaching!! Glory to God!!!

  • @randallmanns5211
    @randallmanns5211 Рік тому +2

    Im greatful to God for your videos. Ive watched 4 of them now and theyve been a huge help in my walk. Thank you for taking the time to make these.

  • @logankelley4210
    @logankelley4210 Рік тому +3

    Im about to be 19 and I’m just pretty behind in life and just scared of what the future holds. Just the idea of driving is super scary, things like taxes stress me out, getting a house and maybe having a family. Life seems like a never ending challenge after challenge and I don’t find that enjoyable and I’ve been struggling with my faith and sin. Little things like cooking or renewing your license it just seems like a chore. I spin out and sometimes suicide feels like the only way out sometimes. I won’t do anything but life is hard and I know it’s not meant to be easy but I wish it was

    • @user-rj6cj6qn7h
      @user-rj6cj6qn7h Рік тому +2

      I am praying for you. I pray you can take one thing at a time and not get too stressed out over the rest of your life. I'm not saying it's easy to do but I wish you the best.

    • @iw9338
      @iw9338 Рік тому

      I understand what you are saying. His mercies are new every morning. Please read 1 John, the Psalms and Proverbs. Praying for you 🙏💜 hopefully you can go to a Bible study. All are struggling with something ❤

  • @nicholaswills1574
    @nicholaswills1574 2 місяці тому

    shared with everyone I Know God bless you brother

  • @jodyfredrickson3443
    @jodyfredrickson3443 6 місяців тому

    This has been one of the best talks I have heard from you! It’s speaking to so many different issues I a a m walking through. !

  • @yourChristianbestie
    @yourChristianbestie Рік тому +2

    Hi! Do you have any videos on your thoughts medication for OCD/ severe anxiety? I haven’t been able to find any! Really enjoying and I am encouraged by your channel as a Christian struggling with OCD.

  • @valenciawalker6498
    @valenciawalker6498 Місяць тому

    Amen 🙏🏽✝️🕊️

  • @peace6107
    @peace6107 5 місяців тому

    So blessed! Thank you! 🕊

  • @debbie61259
    @debbie61259 Рік тому +1

    Wow. That was awesome.
    Very well presented. Loved having the scriptures being read and referenced with such clarity.
    Ty!!

  • @snehasishmukherjee8654
    @snehasishmukherjee8654 Рік тому +1

    Hey Mark ,Thank you...

  • @1975Godmade
    @1975Godmade 6 місяців тому

    Gosh this series is amazing

  • @julienelson4874
    @julienelson4874 Рік тому

    Such great stuff! ❤

  • @WHIRLwind1923
    @WHIRLwind1923 Рік тому

    👍👍 THANK YOU !!

  • @tonypino5415
    @tonypino5415 Рік тому +3

    I feel like toxic guilt might be the reason Im still not free from vaping addiction. I constantly feel like im "treading the blood of Jesus underfoot" which gives me a nervous knot in my stomach from condemnation and stresses me out and makes me feel like I need to keep vaping.

    • @elizabethroberts5247
      @elizabethroberts5247 Рік тому

      Talk to God about it and also, Jesus and I believe Mother Mary - she is high up in helping with breaking free from addiction. That is how I did it. First, you have to want to quit as you know it is hurting you physically and spiritually, which you do. Next, cry out for help. Ask and it shall be given to you. Also, repent of it. You're on your way to freedom.....

    • @jeremiahnichols8272
      @jeremiahnichols8272 10 місяців тому +1

      @@elizabethroberts5247 Mary was a human. Why would you put a fallen human on the same level as God and Jesus? She has no power.

  • @sphelelemthiyane5432
    @sphelelemthiyane5432 Рік тому

    God bless you, Mark. ❤

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 Рік тому

    Thanks very much.🙏🙏💜

  • @gregorcollins
    @gregorcollins 10 місяців тому

    Amazing analysis Mark, thank you

  • @MrApplewine
    @MrApplewine Рік тому

    I thought my guilt was toxic guilt, but it was really embarrassment pretending to be guilt.

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 Рік тому

    Awesome, yes codependent responses keep me on that merry ho round. Pause and pray 🙏💜

  • @ashleycoons9452
    @ashleycoons9452 Рік тому

    I love how you explained this. Awesome message! I'm going to start praying and teaching my kids to start their prayers like that. Thank you.

  • @don3182
    @don3182 Рік тому

    Hey Mark, do you believe in the trinity doctrine?

  • @lindymitchell8352
    @lindymitchell8352 Рік тому +1

    Would like to talk to y’all don’t know how to get through I know y’all are very busy y’all must talk with a lot of people

  • @ezekieljeremiah8575
    @ezekieljeremiah8575 3 місяці тому

    I believe Jesus groaned within Himself because they did not believe or have faith he would raise Lazarus. If you take another look at scripture from Jesus point of view they did not trust Him and were grieving because they believed Jesus fell through and He missed His opportunity to save Lazarus. I believe that is also why Jesus Wept. He did not say it was because He loved Lazarus (although He did) , the "Jews' said look he how much He loved him. Many times in scripture the Jews would say its because this or that and Jesus made it clear for those who really looked that the commentary from external people regarding Him was almost always incorrect. Jesus did not weep because He lost Lazarus, He wept because their unbelief troubled Him to tears. Jesus didn't think "I've lost Lazarus" He knew this was all part of the plan but those around Him were weeping because they believed Jesus had failed and Lazarus was gone.