10 Reasons Why We Struggle with Toxic Guilt

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  • Опубліковано 12 лип 2023
  • As we understand the work of toxic guilt, we will need to allow ourselves to learn about why we are so prone to becoming guilt ridden so easily. Many will jump to asking, “How do I stop getting pulled into guilt trips?” but they don’t take the time to understand the influential factors that pull us into guilt when it knocks on our door. If you are going to break free from toxic guilt, you will need to learn why you keep reacting to it when it shows up. Today I will give you ten reasons, so you can sharpen your discernment and begin walking free.
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  • @elysehenderson3598
    @elysehenderson3598 Рік тому +11

    Man, this is truly the most difficult journey I’ve endured. Toxic guilt has ruled my life and finding tools to deal with it have helped, but the urges to continue in my compulsions have been tough. I know freedom comes with consistency, but I need prayer.

  • @ketsialove
    @ketsialove Рік тому +21

    True story, I lived my life by guilt. Constantly thought God was disgusted with me. I had an experience where God showed me his love for me through his eyes and he told me there was "no more shame for you!!" He let me know we are gonna do this journey together, thick or thin, no shame. He let me know what my grace is sufficient for you means....he told me it means, "I'm everything you will ever need." He is grace, he is everything we will ever need, he is love. I'm really thankful he loves me so awesomely. I really need it.

  • @ketsialove
    @ketsialove Рік тому +4

    It's hard because almost all preachers, churches, people say contradicting things. God loves you yet you better be a good disciple or you won't be close to him in heaven. Stuff like that. Constant double minded messages that God is disappointed with us unless we always act right. Well I don't always act right. I need love, no matter what. Thankful God showed me he loved me NO MATTER WHAT. Many of us were brought up in church and heard these bad messages that kept us in bondage. It took God himself to tell me his truth and break me out of my stupor. Grace and love are more powerful than people know.

  • @martineblanchet-art3377
    @martineblanchet-art3377 Рік тому +3

    You just put some light on something... I'm first born. Alcoholic father, dysfunctional family, divorce, both parents dead, my 2 brothers commit suicide... I think that's right, there is some guilt behind that family story...

  • @_cr8ive_
    @_cr8ive_ 6 місяців тому +1

    This is 100% my situation....I need a miracle....my nervous system is totally overloaded. I cant get out of fight or flight. All of these symptoms were prevalent during my upbringing. 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️😖😖

  • @Edmundjr203
    @Edmundjr203 Рік тому +6

    Praise the Lord for this one!

  • @vell5052
    @vell5052 Рік тому +3

    You are always hitting the nail on the head! 😢

  • @JesusizmyLordandSavior
    @JesusizmyLordandSavior Рік тому +2

    It would be great if you would enable captioning for your video. Appreciate all you do!

  • @dwanal490
    @dwanal490 Рік тому +1

    This is soooo good. As I’m listening, how you’ve struggled and I can relate. The irony is hearing you talk about your past, you already WERE a Christian and so was I. But yet, the struggles of feeling all this from past teachings and loved ones around us walking in this. Yet, when we begin to walk out, the accusations come from those who haven’t began to see this. No mercy, no grace, just accusations that grace allows sin. But no, instead I’m learning balance and it’s def been a journey for me as well. Thank you!!!!

  • @WHIRLwind1923
    @WHIRLwind1923 Рік тому

    Thank you !

  • @marti5173
    @marti5173 Рік тому +1

    This series really resonates with me …Thank you Mark …

  • @deleneclaassen4842
    @deleneclaassen4842 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Mark, once again for an excellent teaching.🤗

  • @thejulesfather
    @thejulesfather 3 місяці тому

    Great work bro

  • @tabymeow005
    @tabymeow005 Рік тому

    You ROCK the mental health world

  • @pamwatkins4855
    @pamwatkins4855 Рік тому

    I'm learning how he loves me and I remember when I first got saved and I know that I need to fellowship with the Saints so that I can feel that I'm a bang Lord on the Sabbath day and keeping it holy I just pray that the Lord would follow me all the days of my life or I would follow him all the days of my life and I would know about this love it I read your book and I need to know more about God's love at the most important thing we ever learn

  • @tabymeow005
    @tabymeow005 Рік тому

    we will, we will Rock YOU! Rock You! we will we will ROCK YOU, Rock YOU

  • @LexHeroux
    @LexHeroux Рік тому

    Definitely need your trauma resources, Mark

  • @latenightladybug4505
    @latenightladybug4505 Рік тому

    🥺 i have no words but 💯

  • @dreamchaser7603
    @dreamchaser7603 Рік тому +1

    That’s message is so important! Thank you 🙏

  • @WHIRLwind1923
    @WHIRLwind1923 Рік тому +1

    SIDE NOTE: very nice shirt 👍

  • @tabymeow005
    @tabymeow005 Рік тому

    Mark Dejesus, you are my Rock Star. Ur wife Melissa is my Rock Staress. Your Children are mini rock stars

  • @lindymitchell8352
    @lindymitchell8352 Рік тому

    Hi mark

  • @WHIRLwind1923
    @WHIRLwind1923 Рік тому

    ALL TEN

  • @wandajames143
    @wandajames143 4 місяці тому

    4:00

  • @annasupyo
    @annasupyo 4 місяці тому

    have you addressed forgiving ourselves before?

  • @pamwatkins4855
    @pamwatkins4855 Рік тому

    You need to be saved, amen?

  • @Star-dj1kw
    @Star-dj1kw 10 місяців тому +1

    Churches that focus on back sliding rather than God’s grace contribute to fearful people’s issues.

  • @pamwatkins4855
    @pamwatkins4855 Рік тому

    My parents really love me a lot when I had a problem and my father's just love me so much and my mother she held me in between her her Grace's the show me that everything was going to be okay and how my mother says I know what's right and wrong you know like I didn't and my grandmother said you need to know the difference between right and wrong and Isis what was that grandma and she says the Ten Commandments and we went from a place where we need delivered from a town and we went into a new town where the boys of a basketball when boy needs to hang around with a different group of boys and so they went to Newtown and his father got transferred and him and be his child

    • @abemontes2518
      @abemontes2518 Рік тому

      Honestly I have no idea what you are talking about. You write without punctuation and comas. It's confusing to try and understand what you are writing. Please try to make sense and use punctuation. This is not meant to be mean or critical. To make yourself understood please take your time when writing. Thanks and God bless you.