They’re having a baby together now! She announced on tik tok only about 2 days ago. I have a feeling she will regret this as they both get older his kids seem lovely but a 23 year age gap is quite large I’m 28 and couldn’t imagine being with a 51 year old right now!!
Of course she gets along with the kids, she is one of them. The question is for how long she will get along with the father as partner. My daughter is 22 and she is a kid.
3:50 "I've always been mature for my age" "Yeah" An older person telling you you're mature for your age, or agreeing with you saying that, is a textbook first sign of gr00ming, just saying.
He said that if you didn't already know about the age difference you wouldn't be able to tell just by looking at them. I have to disagree. He looks like her father. I'm glad they're happy and it's working for them, that's what matters, but you can definitely tell there's an age difference there.
This reminded me of my former classmate, she married a guy three times older than her when she was just 18, she had a baby with him when she was 19. She's now 25 and her child is almost 7 years old now I think. I don't believe she's in a healthy relationship, but she bullied me in school so I don't care if she's miserable. Just so you know she was 18 years old and her husband was 54 when they got married.
I think the problem people have with it is that there are a lot of people that have predatory behaviors. It also makes you wonder why he needs to date someone so young and so close to his own children's age. Men don't like to grow up.
I am 34 and my husband is 50. We have a 8 year old together. My step son is 8 years younger than me and my step daughter is 10 years younger than me. We have 7 grand kids between the ages of the oldest being 6 and the youngest 9 months.
Personally, when my mom remarried a man 30 years older than her, they faced a lot of hate and judgment. However, I can tell you that we were the happiest family ever. My biological father abandoned me as a child, but this man stepped in and became the sweetest, most amazing person in my life. Sadly, he has passed away, and his death broke me; even my biological father didn't hurt me as much as losing him did. Now, when I see families with age gaps like that, I support them because you never know-they might be the happiest people you’ve ever met.
Questions : Are they still together? Do any of them see a future of marriage and biological kids themselves ? Do you think they can go the distance ? Growing old with someone can be very special and rare these days but when you have much in common is easier in life to do so . The hardest part is letting go when it is there time to go but you can’t wait to see them again . Where do they see this relationship in 20 years ? Thank you for sharing .
Ellie was just 2 years older than his ‘kid’ daughter is now 🤮 why on earth was a 41 year old with a 13/14 year old daughter interested in a (young looking) 18 year old and moving her in. It’s sad Ellie can’t see how wrong it is. He may treat her great but the fact is he’s a Dad who fancies teens. There is no difference between a 16 and 18 year old. The law needs to change. Even now Ellie’s prefrontal cortex in her brain hasn’t even finished developing. I’m 38, 18 year olds are BOYS it makes me feel sick he knows but she doesn’t have the age bless her to know how teenagers SHOULD seem to people my age and older (him)
@@kkaiitt I’m going to presume you’re the younger one. And in that case no you can’t, it’s not a teenagers fault they’ve fallen in love, but it is a middle aged man’s to persue it/ have a relationship. I don’t know how old you are but once you get to late thirties/middle aged man’s yourself you will understand why and how odd it is! Teenagers will seem like kids!
Who are we to “Judge” them or anyone, especially, when they’re HAPPY HEALTHY & well taken care of???? Always remember whenever you’re pointing at anyone judging them you’ll always (3) fingers pointing back at yourself!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY💖💜💙💞
This is nothing extraordinary by any means! There’s an old lady named Marjorie on here and their age gap was almost 70 years! 23 is nothing but I’m the adult. We have a 2 month age gap and we lost a parent 10 weeks apart in 2015. I wish we met in our teens!
No cause here’s my thing she’s definitely mature for her age. I feel like it doesn’t seem like she’s taking advantage of him. She met him by chance which is all wonderful things. I love how she is with the kids. I can’t stress that enough what I’m pissed off about is that she’s calling herself a stepmom and they made this whole segment for her on this channel And that’s her boyfriend. They’re not engaged they’re not even married. They’re not even almost her step kids.
She’s not a step mom, they aren’t married. It is absolutely disgusting that people will let their children around anyone instead of prioritizing them over their genitals.
@@MarvelousMark30because you know the girl and she told you that? Or maybe because this doesn’t fit into your world and you’re just making assumptions?
@ nope not assumptions my generation has been telling me they been using older women and men for money then again people who like to fight and defend it know the truth but wants to believe it’s real you know what you are dumb like my generation says you older men and women love to be used but then again I’m not fighting with you if I was rich I could pull your chicks from you just show you proof or wait I’m not arguing with you I know the truth moron
As a sugar baby, I can honestly say this is sick. I’ve always dated older men, but never had a real relationship with them until I got older I am 31 now.
Am in an age gap marriage my husband children are all older than me my husband youngest one year older than me, we been together for fifteen years now and married for almost seven years now people need to mind their own business and come out of people like us relationship
If this age gap was just a few years off each ones age... he would still be an adult and she would be an underage kid. What happens when shes 55 and still wanting to do things n he is old n cant keep up
I'm bindge waching this show just to get my British accent to the next level, as a non-native speaker. Where's this astonishing unconventional family from, what area?😅 And why is Ellie considered the children's stepmom if she's not married to Mark?
I was 18 and my partner was 34 believe me he had one of his sons lived with us,his daughters where older than me one of em, other one my age, I still get on with one whos same age as me, and they are all his little angels , and believe me I stayed with him 6 and half years, we had a daughter, and my daughter is now 18,he has managed to turn my daughter against me and she moved out last year , and I'm desperate to see her and she won't give me the time of day coz daddy lives to far away for her to travel and it 45 min drive I'm disabled bed bound at min very poorly believe me honey they look good now just wait 😂 , I grew up way to fast take some advice luv these relationships only last few years then it wears off and your left with a guy who's afraid of loosing you so turns out horrible and then uses your kids when you don't get back with them 😊
*I had the exact same experience* Just wait another decade!..my step mum was closer too my age than my father’s, it may work atm but it never works in the long run unfortunately
I think you guys look cute together there's 14 years between me and my husband I met him when I was 19 and he was 33 but no one said much to us but out in public we would get the looks 😅
she seems like a very kind person but i can’t take this seriously. “stepmom” but she’s 5 years older than his daughter? that’s practically your sister😭mark is very odd - i mean a 40 year old man being friends with people half his age is a cause of concern. and now she’s pregnant [congratulations ofc] but she has thrown her youthful years away. you don’t get to relive your 20’s. he is so nasty and expired, i do not respect that man. he’ll probably cheat on her with someone younger down the line if he likes em young 🤷♀️
The funny thing is this is more common with girls dating older men young men get the same hassle but on a different level so either way you can't win i personally have never understood the whole logic of why young women date men there dads age or older but thats just me everyone has there preferences
Her relationship with the kids is very wholesome, even as a mother figure. But that age gap is not okay, he's way too old. Considering she's 21, if he was maybe in his early 30's and the kids were both adopted, and the same age, that would have been very nice and wholesome. But I just don't know what to think about 21 and 44...
My husband and I have a 23 year age gap. He is also 5 years older than my mom. At first, I thought my mom would be against my relationship, but she's not.
I truly can't say anything negative about this relationship the kids seem to be very happy and she seems to be a very loving stepmother even though they're not married it doesn't matter people are together for 10 20 years and never get married but they can still be considered a stepmom or dad I don't see the issue you can't help who your going to fall in love with and age should not be a factor in that so God bless your family I hope it grows and everybody stays healthy and happy❤😊❤
Everything's fine until they get older & the son falls in love with the step mom & dad is way too old, so step mom & dad tun off together. I mean I wish them the best in life, but I don't agree it. I think when people get with younger people it's b/caz they make them feel younger. I think it's wierd. He's probably he dads age. My brother is 5 yrs younger then me. When he dated someone my mother's age, it really bothered me. Grant you he was like 30 or 35 at the time, but it made me sick to my stomach. I was furiuos as much as I tried to like her, I couldn't. I felt like she was using him, nothing she could've done would've made me feel different. And she really did try, we both did. I was never ignorant to her out of respect for him, but I think she could tell I didn't like her.
Both of the kids seem happy, she wasn’t underage when they met… that’s all that matters at the end of the day.
He calls his 16yo daughter a "kid". What did he call his girlfriend back ehen they first met?
They’re having a baby together now! She announced on tik tok only about 2 days ago. I have a feeling she will regret this as they both get older his kids seem lovely but a 23 year age gap is quite large I’m 28 and couldn’t imagine being with a 51 year old right now!!
That’s not bad at all. One of the couples on here had a 71 year age gap. An old lady named Marjorie!
28 and 51 isn't bad. At least the 28 yr old had time to mature.
Being a stepmom at 21 to a 16 yr old is something else.
@ I look really young though so if I was with a guy that age it would look so wrong😂
He will regret it before she does. It's exhausting and I'm 40
now what a sensible step mum shes all about the kids not leaving them behind nice to see and genuinely apricate each other
They're not married she's not a step mother!
@@Feg1989 i know but still look after the kids
She is genuine caring for them. And very mature for her age! amazing!
She's great, it's the man that's sleeping with someone only 5 years older than his daughter that weirds me out
Of course she gets along with the kids, she is one of them. The question is for how long she will get along with the father as partner. My daughter is 22 and she is a kid.
How does a 20 yr old become friends with 42 yr old dudes? And hangs and drinks with them? That's odd.
Sugar baby
she used to be the kids nanny… it’s vile
FYI: the daughter mentioned on her tiktok how her mother is abusive, she also posted voice notes from her mum.
3:50 "I've always been mature for my age"
"Yeah"
An older person telling you you're mature for your age, or agreeing with you saying that, is a textbook first sign of gr00ming, just saying.
Shes definitely more a caring friend to the daughter than a mom
Well that's weird. It looks like a normal family with a dad and his 3 kids.
How old is Mark?
@rowenramnath2016 Id say 40 plus
@@Disney65Fanhe said hes 23 years older than her so 44
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So funny! I was just about to write this!😂😂😂
I’d be so pissed at my dad. Disgusting
He said that if you didn't already know about the age difference you wouldn't be able to tell just by looking at them. I have to disagree. He looks like her father. I'm glad they're happy and it's working for them, that's what matters, but you can definitely tell there's an age difference there.
This reminded me of my former classmate, she married a guy three times older than her when she was just 18, she had a baby with him when she was 19. She's now 25 and her child is almost 7 years old now I think. I don't believe she's in a healthy relationship, but she bullied me in school so I don't care if she's miserable. Just so you know she was 18 years old and her husband was 54 when they got married.
Ewww😂
They were friends first, a 40+ bloke with a 17/18 year old, that's just so wrong and weird
she said that she was actually the kids nanny then that odd ball started knocking her up it’s absolutely disgusting
Bro math ain’t mathing for my brain
I think the problem people have with it is that there are a lot of people that have predatory behaviors. It also makes you wonder why he needs to date someone so young and so close to his own children's age. Men don't like to grow up.
it’s so obvious that she’s only with him cause he’s got money 😂 she wouldn’t be anywhere near him if he was poor
Great, more friends as children's parents
I am 34 and my husband is 50. We have a 8 year old together. My step son is 8 years younger than me and my step daughter is 10 years younger than me. We have 7 grand kids between the ages of the oldest being 6 and the youngest 9 months.
Personally, when my mom remarried a man 30 years older than her, they faced a lot of hate and judgment. However, I can tell you that we were the happiest family ever. My biological father abandoned me as a child, but this man stepped in and became the sweetest, most amazing person in my life. Sadly, he has passed away, and his death broke me; even my biological father didn't hurt me as much as losing him did. Now, when I see families with age gaps like that, I support them because you never know-they might be the happiest people you’ve ever met.
been watching them on tiktok for a while now and they’re a lovely happy family ❤
Questions : Are they still together?
Do any of them see a future of marriage and biological kids themselves ? Do you think they can go the distance ? Growing old with someone can be very special and rare these days but when you have much in common is easier in life to do so . The hardest part is letting go when it is there time to go but you can’t wait to see them again . Where do they see this relationship in 20 years ? Thank you for sharing .
Yes they are still together and expecting a baby
Age gap relationships aren't only for the rich and famous.
In 2021, she would have been 16 or 17
The UK. Over 16 and nothing can be done about it.
Depending on when this was filmed tho since this channel does re upload. If she was in fact born in 2003 she would’ve been about 18 in 2021
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@@lucyross201716
She is happy, he's happy and the kids are happy. All i see is happiness, i think we should let them be.
Exactly
You're not a step mom if you're just a girlfriend ; but what do I know. They look happy. As long as the kids are Happy because They're top priority.
Ellie was just 2 years older than his ‘kid’ daughter is now 🤮 why on earth was a 41 year old with a 13/14 year old daughter interested in a (young looking) 18 year old and moving her in. It’s sad Ellie can’t see how wrong it is. He may treat her great but the fact is he’s a Dad who fancies teens. There is no difference between a 16 and 18 year old. The law needs to change. Even now Ellie’s prefrontal cortex in her brain hasn’t even finished developing. I’m 38, 18 year olds are BOYS it makes me feel sick he knows but she doesn’t have the age bless her to know how teenagers SHOULD seem to people my age and older (him)
I mean Ellie the Stepmoms brain btw (them both being called Ellie is also weird 😂⁉️
Cant help who you fall in love with. I'm in a 24 year age gap 🤷🏼♀️
@@kkaiitt I’m going to presume you’re the younger one. And in that case no you can’t, it’s not a teenagers fault they’ve fallen in love, but it is a middle aged man’s to persue it/ have a relationship. I don’t know how old you are but once you get to late thirties/middle aged man’s yourself you will understand why and how odd it is! Teenagers will seem like kids!
Who are we to “Judge” them or anyone, especially, when they’re HAPPY HEALTHY & well taken care of???? Always remember whenever you’re pointing at anyone judging them you’ll always (3) fingers pointing back at yourself!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY💖💜💙💞
The 16 year old and 21 year old are age mates😂😂😂😂 imagine if there was no dating laws teens would be cooked 😂😂😂
When my mum married my dad, her stepdaughter was 8 years younger than her. Between me and my half sister there’s a 20 year age gap.
This is nothing extraordinary by any means! There’s an old lady named Marjorie on here and their age gap was almost 70 years! 23 is nothing but I’m the adult. We have a 2 month age gap and we lost a parent 10 weeks apart in 2015. I wish we met in our teens!
No cause here’s my thing she’s definitely mature for her age. I feel like it doesn’t seem like she’s taking advantage of him. She met him by chance which is all wonderful things. I love how she is with the kids. I can’t stress that enough what I’m pissed off about is that she’s calling herself a stepmom and they made this whole segment for her on this channel And that’s her boyfriend. They’re not engaged they’re not even married. They’re not even almost her step kids.
Ofc they’re British
Good thing they are not ethnics or she would be about 12
it looks like he has 3 children 😭💀
She’s not a step mom, they aren’t married. It is absolutely disgusting that people will let their children around anyone instead of prioritizing them over their genitals.
Why so angry about something that doesn’t affect you at all?
@@HeyLetsTalkAboutIt such is the way these days! Projecting
Did you miss the bit where she said she didn't meet them straight away?
Oh yes it’s so disgusting that they’re all happy, how date they…🙄🤦♀️
exactly i wonder why he's not with their mom
Im 37 and my dads girlfriend is 26.
@@MarvelousMark30because you know the girl and she told you that? Or maybe because this doesn’t fit into your world and you’re just making assumptions?
@ nope not assumptions my generation has been telling me they been using older women and men for money then again people who like to fight and defend it know the truth but wants to believe it’s real you know what you are dumb like my generation says you older men and women love to be used but then again I’m not fighting with you if I was rich I could pull your chicks from you just show you proof or wait I’m not arguing with you I know the truth moron
@@gwenx4400 more people agree with me then you and golddiggers
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That’s sick , she’s going to realise it as she gets older what the hell
As a sugar baby, I can honestly say this is sick. I’ve always dated older men, but never had a real relationship with them until I got older I am 31 now.
Am in an age gap marriage my husband children are all older than me my husband youngest one year older than me, we been together for fifteen years now and married for almost seven years now people need to mind their own business and come out of people like us relationship
I’m 32 and my wife’s daughter is 25
If this age gap was just a few years off each ones age... he would still be an adult and she would be an underage kid. What happens when shes 55 and still wanting to do things n he is old n cant keep up
In the voice of Denzel Washington: My man!… be happy, buddy, the haters will keep on hating.
Bit noncey.
I'm bindge waching this show just to get my British accent to the next level, as a non-native speaker. Where's this astonishing unconventional family from, what area?😅
And why is Ellie considered the children's stepmom if she's not married to Mark?
As long as they are happy, age doesn’t matter.
Uh, yes it does. The guy is a creep.
@ judging people make YOU creepy.
@ judging people make YOU creepy.
@@MarvelousMark30 dude, how old are YOU? You look like you're pushing 40 at least
@@MarvelousMark30 sunscreen.
Who cares
I was 18 and my partner was 34 believe me he had one of his sons lived with us,his daughters where older than me one of em, other one my age, I still get on with one whos same age as me, and they are all his little angels , and believe me I stayed with him 6 and half years, we had a daughter, and my daughter is now 18,he has managed to turn my daughter against me and she moved out last year , and I'm desperate to see her and she won't give me the time of day coz daddy lives to far away for her to travel and it 45 min drive I'm disabled bed bound at min very poorly believe me honey they look good now just wait 😂 , I grew up way to fast take some advice luv these relationships only last few years then it wears off and your left with a guy who's afraid of loosing you so turns out horrible and then uses your kids when you don't get back with them 😊
She needs a mom not a friend but if y'all happy that's all that matters
*I had the exact same experience* Just wait another decade!..my step mum was closer too my age than my father’s, it may work atm but it never works in the long run unfortunately
A truly boring story 😝
Any attention is enough for Main Characters these days. Negative or Positive, doesn't matter. Just "look at me and my unique living situation ".
I am a lover of genuine love. Love these stories of people who love each other.
My mom doesn't look her age everyone thinks were sisters.
Think it's beneficial having a young mom, more energetic and with the style.
Age gaps are fine, but when the age gap is bigger than the younger one's age there is a BIG ISSUE.
So they met 2021? Meaning she would of been 18 and the guy 41. Yeah not weird at all …
I didnt hear why he wasn't with the childrens mother anymore. Hopefully the young new gf doesnt have to learn the hardway
on the daughters tiktok she posted about how her mother is abusive
They leave out how old he is.
I love that she has a good relationship with the kids but it’s still weird. Having such a huge age gap makes my skin crawl. It’s just not right. 👎🏾
I think you guys look cute together there's 14 years between me and my husband I met him when I was 19 and he was 33 but no one said much to us but out in public we would get the looks 😅
she seems like a very kind person but i can’t take this seriously. “stepmom” but she’s 5 years older than his daughter? that’s practically your sister😭mark is very odd - i mean a 40 year old man being friends with people half his age is a cause of concern. and now she’s pregnant [congratulations ofc] but she has thrown her youthful years away. you don’t get to relive your 20’s. he is so nasty and expired, i do not respect that man. he’ll probably cheat on her with someone younger down the line if he likes em young 🤷♀️
The funny thing is this is more common with girls dating older men young men get the same hassle but on a different level so either way you can't win i personally have never understood the whole logic of why young women date men there dads age or older but thats just me everyone has there preferences
I never thought to date a bloke in his late 40s but I am, with a 24 year age gap but for us it just clicked.
The dad looks good for his age
She is not a step mom if she says boyfriend , they are not married.
Her relationship with the kids is very wholesome, even as a mother figure. But that age gap is not okay, he's way too old. Considering she's 21, if he was maybe in his early 30's and the kids were both adopted, and the same age, that would have been very nice and wholesome. But I just don't know what to think about 21 and 44...
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They met when she was 18 yrs old. Wow!!
I think she was 16
She cal relate to you more becasue she is old enough to be your sister
Se la figlia si fidanzasse con un 50 enne sarebbe contento il padre😂? Bei insegnamenti che da la matrigna di 21 anni 😂😂😂 contenti loro😂😂😂😂
My husband and I have a 23 year age gap. He is also 5 years older than my mom. At first, I thought my mom would be against my relationship, but she's not.
How is she a stepmom if they're not married and that's his girlfriend?
at least she's not younger than her stepdaughter
So wrong
Honestly everybody seems happy 🤷♀️
I knew this was the UK just from the thumbnail 🫣🥴🫠
One would think that they should wait until a humans brain is fully developed
Love is truly blind! Or she needs glasses...yikes
So she was 18 in 2021... is that even legal?
She’s an adult, he’s an adult. They are a family unit. So ❤
Idk they’re cute - the kids seem to actually like her … 🤷🏿♀️
Sick🤮
Thos kids must be embarrassed.
So he met her when she was 18
I truly can't say anything negative about this relationship the kids seem to be very happy and she seems to be a very loving stepmother even though they're not married it doesn't matter people are together for 10 20 years and never get married but they can still be considered a stepmom or dad I don't see the issue you can't help who your going to fall in love with and age should not be a factor in that so God bless your family I hope it grows and everybody stays healthy and happy❤😊❤
So she’s bullying the kids to like her init an makin the daddy trick to her for Pete sakes😂
Notice how he’s got a Canda goose cost bet that explains why she’s w him
That is cool 4 years defens. You will not make some Happy.
My God Bless your Family.
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Theyre not married, so how is she a step mom?
Well she’s of age. Ain’t nothing else to say.
What a beautiful family! It always comes back to that old saying if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. 😊
Dua Lipa from Temu
The kids lol u r the kid 😂
Put your needs first
So how old is he?
The girl is 21yrs n the age gap is 23 yrs now do your calculation
Everything's fine until they get older & the son falls in love with the step mom & dad is way too old, so step mom & dad tun off together. I mean I wish them the best in life, but I don't agree it. I think when people get with younger people it's b/caz they make them feel younger. I think it's wierd. He's probably he dads age.
My brother is 5 yrs younger then me. When he dated someone my mother's age, it really bothered me. Grant you he was like 30 or 35 at the time, but it made me sick to my stomach. I was furiuos as much as I tried to like her, I couldn't. I felt like she was using him, nothing she could've done would've made me feel different. And she really did try, we both did. I was never ignorant to her out of respect for him, but I think she could tell I didn't like her.
What’s happening with their biological mum?
Shes a girlfriend not a stepmom.
Same thing lol.
Do the rent these homes out for filming ? Like the house is so empty
Nothing wrong here.
Does Jay Cutler have twin brother? He is so similar.
I think it's really working great for All of them.im glad they get along.winner winner like politics 😂😂
Where’s mom