I may not have that many friends But having friends that stay loyal to you is better than having alot of friends and being a "meh" friend to some of em
1. Pleasing everyone 2. Not saving money 3. Spending money to impress others 4. Giving up too easily 5. Not continuing learning and investing in themselves
Yeah, everyone got their own preference so regardless of the level of tastiness, there will always be at least one person who will like it. Good, bad, or neutral.
No one teaches you as a kid that growing up freaking sucks. My whole life, I was searching for something special. Realized after graduating that it was there all along and I lost it. Now I just hate myself and feel old.
@@three-leggeddog4705 Human connection, a best friend, lifelong partner, go on great adventures with others, etc. Covid ruined my college, graduation, didn't even get to hang with the few friends I had.
@@SourRobo8364 The time to make friends isn't over. Time isn't up until you're gone. While you may have missed graduation, there's other events in life to celebrate. I hope you meet someone special to share those moments with. 🤗
I wouldn’t teach that to a kid either, especially because it’s not a guaranteed experience. I would instead encourage them to follow their dreams that only adulthood allows so that they look forward to being an adult that has the life they want, and coach them through the downswings. Why would we tell every child that growing up sucks just because some people were disappointed by life after graduation...?
@@SourRobo8364 do you not see the irony in this? As a child you wished you were older and now wish you were younger. How do you think you’ll feel in your 60’s, then on your death bed? Regardless of age or life conditions life will never be perfect and you’ll always be wishing for something more or regretting something from the past. The only way to cope with this is to except that even if life could be better it’s still there and good things happen all the time if you take the time to realize it you’ll see it more and more.
@@Bottleofwater-n5y I don't understand why the genshin and dsmp fandom clash so often like- y'all don't have to put down others interests and fandoms they enjoy. Anyways, hope you have a lovely day/night and may your vibes be good.
@@juniorwriter139 the ghenshin community Just wants to Ward off the dsmp community because they are toxic and we don't want to deal with them now that they are flocking here too But i Guess you are a Stan that Is acting overly nice and rational Just because that green leech said so on twitter
as long as you don't pull on weapon banner then everything is okay, just ... just pretend that weapon banner is not exist, or else.. prepare to get tectoned'
@@linnen_elm I disagree, you can only chose to use the 4 favourite characters that you have, why not pull for weapons while you wait for the character banner that you want to pull on.
Being young is more complicated now than it has ever been. I hope you don’t feel any pressure to do it “properly” or anything. I think the best you can do is to be deeply introspective to know who you are and who you want to be, and acting accordingly. You have potential, so please don’t forget that it’s YOUR future. Please take care of yourself. ❤️
thanks for those kind words :) I'm really struggling right now because i don't have motivation to do anything, like i'm dissatisfied with myself but i don't have the energy to change or improve. it started with covid but it has gotten progressively worse and now i just feel like I'm in a dark hole or something and I'm tired of trying to climb out but failing again and again.
@@crabbss1762 it's been the same for me for quite a time now, the thing that did worlk for me was relieving feelings thru art, writing a though and letting It grow like a tree , gives some satisfaction and maybe can rise you self Steem i wish you a good research on yourself (: have a good day!
I have another mistake more so children often make: sitting with a bent back. Whilst people often find sitting like this comfortable, it will lead to a fragile back in later life. It will also lead to many other harmful back problems. Instead, I would highly recommend sitting with a straight back. During the first few days of doing this, ur back will start to hurt, but that will go away within 1-2 days. This will be extremely helpful to u in later life. I’m not saying I’m perfect and have never bent my back in my life before, but rather giving advice to others. I hope I could help anyone who’s around my age (6-16 yrs) :) Edit: thank u for the likes, I love every single one of u! ❤️❤️❤️
You are absolutely correct. I am a massage therapist & have seen a rise in "text neck". Young people are getting "hunchbacks" that you normally see late in life in elderly people. Sad sign of the times. Shoulders back, chin up & loose the phone. They create more problems than people realise with constant, close range exposure to radiation. You are a very intelligent young lady @Dawn Jenkins & I commend your proactive stance on this matter. We only have one body to make it through our lifetime, best we look after it.💜
I don't have research or sources for this, but if you hold yourself straight when you stand or sit, you will engage your abs and help shape your core. Not a crazy amount for a six pack or anything, but it helps 😊
Advice from recent college graduate that got 4.0 GPA: Enjoy your time and do stuff you enjoy. When I graduated all that was left in me was dread and depression. I hated my degree and most of the classes I had to take for it. By time I realized I didn't like it, I was too close to graduating to make a change. Now I have to wait for January to sign up at a new school for something I want to do and feel old. Don't be too worried about grades either. I did and ended up missing fun events. It's people that makes like worth living, at least for me.
You need a balance. The other people will have an edge in their social skills as they learned to play. However, I've worked a lot with people like that throughout my life. They'll have a hard time getting past being a retail manager. They'll have great people skills but they struggle with things like writing a report. anyways aiming for Bs imo is what you should go for. Thats like studying and doing your work but leaving enough time to play too.
@@birdsfly7199 Dont get me wrong, im just saying maybe 85%. You still have to try, care. you also have to find more ways to do things efficiently. Its just a lot of that extra stuff, find yourself instead. school in general only goes so far too. as the old saying goes don't let school get in the way of your education. :)
I have a question, did you more focus on your grades or on your social life? I have a hard time managing both and I'm really afraid that if I don't have the perfect grades I won't be able to achieve my dreams..
flashbacks to when my bank has locked my cards many times within a month because they thought ive been scammed...im just trying to get venti when he first showed up
Fun fact: Absolutely no one knows what they're doing. I'm 27 and finally considering an internship, I learned that it's okay to do things later, than not at all. :)
Exactly, there's a really big pressure to have "everything" done by 25 and tbh, I've seen some people happier and achieving more on their 30's, 40's and 50's. We all have different speeds.
This really gives hope and a positive outlook on the future. Good luck and have fun with your internship! I bet it feels like life is changing and that’s wonderful. I’m only 20 years old and I feel pressured to figure it all out, but it’s impossible to have it all in one day, one month or year. But what I realize is continuing to move forward and look at the positive helps too.
I use to try to please everyone so they'd like me Luckily, I grew out of that mindset of "If I do this, X will like me!" Just remember you beautiful soul: Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm. If you're still reading this, I love you!
Good for you. Unfortunately, I'm still in that mindset and now, I'm afraid to go places where people are because I fear their judgement. Ironic because I was the complete opposite in middle school XD
Still dealing with that kinda mentality myself. Being everyone's hero, or the trophy of good behavior or "look what my kid succeeded at". All the times things don't go right, I feel like a huge failure or disappointment. Telling folks "no" when you know you can help is really hard even when you know it's not the best thing for yourself. And letting myself have something for myself instead of giving it all to others is just as hard. Right now I have to make an appointment with myself to "play with my friends" otherwise I'll work all weekend , but I still feel guilty for the work I could have been doing.
I cannot stress more on how important number 5 is. When you're in high school or college, people usually just think of one profession and dedicate most of their academic life into it. Ignoring other potential skills they might learn and be really proficient at it. You can never really be certain if the course you took up in college will be your career forever. Join different clubs or organizations in school to expand your skills and have more options in the future of what you wanna do in the future at an early age.
I'm a teen and to me life is quite meaningless rn , my parents kept on yelling every single day and talks about me for about 5 hours a day. I'm not kidding at all literally 4 - 5 hours a day. They seem to want me to suceed in life or somth but either way at the end we will all die too , you can't bring money to afterlife , you also can't bring jobs to afterlife. All I wanted to say was just to enjoy each of your time in life and always be happy :)
@@doctorsincebirth5072 Even if this is the case, continuous yelling NEVER helps anyone; it's extremely harmful. Rather, that time should be spent supporting your child and outlining ways to succeed.
We need mistakes and they should be counted as a blessing. Imagine going through life with no educational experiences. Your friendships and true love can be enjoyed because of what you've learned and how you've matured emotionally and socially. Without mistakes and the courage to make them and keep going, oh what a sad story life would be. The bitter teaches us to enjoy the sweet.
@Noxious Mind The beauty of it is that it can never be defined because it's fluid. It is perpetuated by faith and fortified by time. It is the greatest test of all one has learned and internalized. It's also unfortunately, the ultimate way to find out all the things wrong with yourself and your partner.
I used to have a friend when I was in 3rd grade who I took for granted- I just thought “Oh hey she’s my friend!” But now I have learned the true meaning of “You never know how much you have until you lose it” My mom had me switch schools, and that’s when I realized I could never make a friend quite like the one I made in my old school… She was my best best BEST friend, but now it seems so hard to make friends :( Nobody really gets me like she did… I regret not recognizing how great of a friend she was…
i hate that I’m aware of all of this but everytime i try to motivate myself to focus more on school i just cant. I’m ruining everything and i have no idea how to stop.
Same here, I was about to experience the college life but covid had hit 2 months later...now becoming a senior I felt all my college life has been online and it really does suck knowing I can't go back. I am starting to feel more fatigued and depressed alot trying to learn, and it's making it that much harder to feel motivated...Just enjoy now and don't rush it if you can, go at your own pace because I'm feeling it too...I may take a bit slower pace to just enjoy college another year. I missed out on so much on the college life to be honest and want to fix that when thing's start going back to normal again.
*Stop saying to yourself that you can do this. Just do it. Don´t think about what you could do instead, just do it. It worked for me. Don´t waste time with trying to get motivated. Stop entertaining yourself, just do it. And then, keep up the concentration. Put your stuff you need to learn or for homework on your table or whatever you use for that kind of stuff and don´t hesitate doing that.*
I definitely always gave up too easily. I always had too much anxiety and missed out on a lot of opportunities. Now I use my anxiety as an indicator to face the uncomfortable situation so I can become more used to it. It's made me feel more alive than ever. It feels good to be 25 and to have such a fresh start!
@@silvy7394 yep I agreed with you,as for the things we buys yes it depends but what about groceries? Bills? House? Debt? (If u have em) Life is just too expensive every single year
It depends. There are a lot of people who are bad with money and/or don't realize the importance of investing for retirement early and taking advantage of compound interest
@@W0lfbaneShikaisc00l True. I didn't invest a penny until I was done with college for this very reason. This is something that many financial experts fail to shed light on. You need principal for your investments to be worth anything in the future. And if your paycheck is $1,500 and your expenses are $1,450, you should not be investing that $50. It won't do you much good in the future and you might end up needing it very very soon.
@@W0lfbaneShikaisc00l Pyramid schemes are the worst. I've had many people reach out to me trying to convince me to join. And desperate people will fall for them. Nowadays, cryptocurrency is a new "get rich quick" mechanism. It's a billion times better of an investment than penny stocks and pyramid schemes, but they are still heavily overrated.
Yes! It really used to annoy me when I was in my early twenties and people would tell me to "save up", as if I was just wasting my money. Most of my clothes were from op shops (and I didn't have many), I didn't do drugs or smoke, barely touched alcohol. Most of my money went on rent and bills.
Reasons why I watch your channel 1. You talk about real stuff 2. Your animators are amazing 3. You have helped me a lot 4. You talk about sexualitys (and you respect them) 5. YOUR AMAZING!!!!!!! Heart my comment maybe-?
My 5 biggest regrets from youth: 1- Not caring to please anyone; 2- Being a lazy bastard; 3- Doing everything I was told to (that is by parents and teachers); 4- Not practicing sports and getting fat; 5- Not bothering to socialize.
I made an early mistake that I regretted later in life not found in the list, it's not having friends, when I was a kid, I only focus on my grades and knowledge than everything else, I felt like I need friends, but denial prevents me from getting friends, I see people with friends, and I was like "they have friends, but I don't, but who cares? It's their life, not my life", "I don't need friends to survive" "I can handle it" and stuff, but as I kept going, denial doesn't work anymore, I feel like I'm lying to myself, I was thinking of other methods to have friends and freedom, so I started showing my anger, then I reached bargaining, depression and then acceptance, now I realized how friends are important, and how they mean a lot to me. Now, I'm finding friends for true happiness.
Mine is entering relationships and wasted my precious teenage phase and early adult years by supporting the wrong people and building them up while I'm still on the same place in my life. Also having friends who weren't there for me when I welcomed them with open arms. I watched them get ahead of me. That is my biggest regret. There's not a day I don't tell myself, "I should have put myself first to improve."
The BIG mistake we made was letting a 3rd grade teacher double promote our son, it was like a 10 year curse. 1 year difference to a child is like 10 years with adults.
I remember that I was briefly double promoted - went from kindergarten to Grade 1, and then on again to Grade 2. Ended up going back to Grade 1. I don't remember much of it, except being stressed, having headaches, and crying at school all the time.
Thanks for make me remember that I should not give up, sometimes even when you know something, life makes you forget it about it. you always need somone who guides you back to the correct path
One thing that I regret is focusing too much on and even defining myself through my looks. I don't look like society's beauty standard and I hated my face. But the older I got (I'm still in my teens) the more I realized that people perceive you from head to toe and in it's your character that makes people like to be with you and not only your looks. And in the end beauty is temporarily, but character is permanent. So I try to focus more on my personality and character traits than beating myself up because of my looks.
"3. Spending their money just to impress others" *Ironic coming from a video with gacha game characters* but srsly tho the art is so pretty and everything is very calming
@@ivythealiencat Being asocial means you abstain from social interaction, while being antisocial(as a personality disorder) makes you manipulative and unable to process the ability to form a connection just for the sake of it. (These are my own words, there may be more specific terms for antisocial and asocial that I didn’t use)
Akichan, Having learned Japanese, I just felt compelled to say gumbatte! & practice makes perfect. Contrary to what most believe that "grammatically" Japanese is really easy compared to English. Wishing you the best, I'd be happy to answer any questions, if I can.lol
This video made me cry not just because I’m sensitive but because I’m still young and I’ve made and regret a lot of things I wish I was more to people.
I'm turning 20 next year, I was about to leave this video without doing any of these till the "Giving up to early" part, this kinds hit hard but I will work to get rid of this bad habbit. This was the first video I saw from this channel and I'm a BIG fan of the art style, editing and the music choice
I've wasted 4,500 bucks on dirtbikes and safety gear Im only 16 and im having the fun of my life going at 85mph down the straightaways I needed a car for work but screw that
3:11 I did my best to learn english and here I am watching a video about invest your time with good things while you are young. But don't worry, you can do this even with you are not so young
I took psychedelics recently, and it made me realise just how much of a people's pleaser I am. I always try to present the best version of myself to others. Thats just how ive always been I guess. I have a very positive outlook and attitude towards everything. Im really not a confrontational person, and even in situations where I'm being wronged or ridiculed, I will usually bottle those emotions to myself. One of my flatmates can be quite a dick sometimes. If you cant make an effort to show that you give a shit about me, why should i make an effort and pretend to give a shit about you? Anybody else feel the same? Like you give so much effort to be positive, only for people to take you for granted?
Basically they just want you to treat them right but they don't want to treat you back the same way. They basically want to be the boss / leader in that particular relationship.
I had #1 and #4 as a child and teenager. BTW, I love the Genshin Impact references! My dad taught me that if you don't set boundaries and assert yourself, people are going to take advantage of you and you will begin to build resentment.
PAIMON AND TRAVELER! You guys are so awesome, I love seeing all of these references in your videos. You always pull them off so well which shows that you guys really know your audience and aren't trying to appeal to a "youth" but to anyone who enjoys a particular something. It makes people happy, it's always exciting to see an entirely unexpected reference like George and Dream from new MC YT or in this video, Paimon and Traveler from Genshin Impact. And this is something especially helpful for a phycology and mental health based channel! having the same narrator coupled with a cute, calm simplistic atmosphere and characters within these animations, and references for those watching make them feel like they're talking to a really nice counselor who they've been to for a while, it gives a sense of familiarity by showing that our interests are known and remembered. and while this channel doesn't substitute a mental health professional, it does so well at imitating one. This channel is amazing, and I love every single video you guys put out. What you all do is incredible and I really admire it. You guys have educated me so much that when I talk to counselors or phycologists they're always surprised by how aware and educated I am on my own issues, and all this information also helps me to learn some of the things I need to become a counselor myself. I'm 16 and planning on going to college, getting a degree in social work and or mental health counseling for this stuff. It was you guys that peaked my interest in the science of the human mind, and the fire in my heart to help those in need. This channel is so much to me, and I can't thank this team enough for all you've done for me.
The Genshin Characters displayed in this video and the title: 5 Mistakes Most Young people Make and Regret Later in Life, is more than enough for me to understand the message.
The two things I regret the most in life are touching myself for the first time and not making any lasting friends in middle school. I wanna be free of this pain
Whether is need or luxury will depend on the mindset of the person buying. Someone who like new things will call it a need. Someone who doesn't put importance in new things will call it luxury
Stopped maintaining my regular athletic routine from sports that kept me thin, and conversely maintained the appetite. I was long distance runner with scholarship, who broke my ankle my senior year of high school. I delayed joining the college team for 2 years, by then it was too late. I gained 50 LBS my freshman year and another 20 LBS the next year, and my thin athletic body has never been the same. I’ve gotten back close to runners weight 3 times in my life, but it didn’t last long. I have a voracious appetite set from youth devouring massive Carbs, and my metabolism is set differently than other. A 3 mile job doesn’t increase my metabolism at all, I have run hard for 6 miles daily to actually start my body to burn fat. I exercise all the time and use several tracking apps that confirm the bizarre phenomenon. If I had only kept running or biking while I was recovering from the ankle injury and watched my diet then, I would be an entirely different person now.
i think i really needed this. bc of quarantine, i think i've caught a habit of giving up too early and an incredibly long amount ofprocrastination and not being able to actually learn a subject. i'll work on myself, thank you for this ♡
@Space Flower no problem at all! i'm actually kinda glad and i feel kinda included (?) to know that someone else is going through the same. let's not give up!
And if everyone could go back and fix the 'mistakes' they made when they were young... they wouldn't have many of the memories and funny stories they can reflect on now.
Life its decision, i always hates when it comes with 2 decision where it affect my future but i dont know if its great. When i choose option 1 and im somewhere end of the road to pick another decision, i looked back and realize option 2 might be better than what i choose in the past since i make sooo many mistakes in option 1. After that now realized they both will be the same just different experience
@@Whopparhombus yup, its all decisions, the things that would change is your experiences, it wont make u happier or make your life better, what matters is what ur doing now
I usually give up on things when I instantly hear stuff about them that I’m not capable of, other times people think I’ve given up but that’s when I haven’t just started
I think what you need is to learn how to calm down from high cortisol levels. Observe your breathing and breathe deeper when you notice your pulse getting higher. Breathing exercises are just one way to calm down though, there are many, look what works best for you.
I’m almost 30, and it hasn’t been an easy journey for a lot of people like me. I can’t tell you things will get better, but I can say that surviving is hard, and if you’re still here, then well done. If I could offer you any advice to make things less harsh, i highly recommend you do whatever it takes to make yourself truly and wholeheartedly happy. Some people help others, others learn stuff. Nobody masters something immediately, and true talent is a load of bull. If there’s something you’ve always wanted to learn but never started, START NOW. Bit by bit, every time you practice you get better. Even if you only practice 3 minutes a day, you’ll be surprised how much you’ve improved, because there was a time when you knew next to nothing. I bought a cheap-ass guitar and learned how to play it and sing. I still suck at it, but someday, I won’t. I can’t wait till that day comes, but for now, im just trying to suck less at it. If a moron like me can learn something new, i know you sure as hell can too.
I’m seriously going through a time where I’m not doing any work, but I don’t know how to start, people say I’m lazy and I’m finding multiple reasons in my head and blame something else, any tips on how to overcome this?
Right after waking up, make your bed, immediately. Stretch your muscles (just one good stretch), drink a cup of water. Now go on with your day. There is a reason making your bed is the first thing you do in the military, you'll start the day with a task complete, it's satisfying and gets you into the loop of getting other things done. Start off with that, it's a small but huge step. Just do this first before thinking any further.
Some: 1) try to adapt your learning to your daily life. Not the other way around. 2) try to divide the task in tiny more manageable pieces. In place of learning how to draw you can divide in how to hold the pencil, how to make lines with it in a efficient manner, etc. 3)Ask for help when you are kind of loss ,use reddit or discord and ask politely. 4) also if you are doing it for hobby always remember that you can pause and retake it whenever you want. The point of a hobby is to relax and improve at a comfortable pace after all.
Perhaps you're only afraid failing a task at your job. Or, you want to try something else. My advice is to force yourself a trial month and decide later if it makes you happy or not. Good luck!
I think it varies from person to person, but when I went through a similar problem it helped to just pick something you could finish in about a week or two (for me it was writing a five page story). It felt like torture to work on it for the first five days, but it became something that I woke up early to work on as I became passionate about it. It helped me to have tangible results at the end of my two weeks. Feel free to try writing a story, composing music, drawing, or something else. It might be bad, but it will serve as practice and proof to yourself that you can do this. Good luck
Try mindfulness and living in the moment. You are putting to much pressure on yourself about the job. It does not need to be a career, just something to do right now. Maybe work at a clothing store to get a discount toward an interviewing suit. Cook, if you like to eat it is a good skill to learn. Take a fun class, like comedy or painting. Spend time in nature. Go on a road trip and go camping. I have 2/degrees and if I could do it again I would have learned a trade. Plumber, electrician, you will always have a job. Join the military reserves.
Great video filled with nothing but facts and logic, not opinionated advice. I love it. Many people especially in my generation and even younger, get angry at the sight or mention of hard work and dedication. You actually can't say anything to them without them getting irritated no matter how polite you are being. That is, unless you are a UA-cam channel with millions of subs and lots of popular videos, THEN they will listen and maybe not grumble so much.
I do all of these already so this video made feel satisfied, my only regret was being too religious where I give more than ever before each time like preached and being told to slow down to love people which made me a people pleaser at times that I neglected my maintenance and costed me tons of money.
@@bredstic9836 I didn’t say anything about personalizing, I’m just saying everyone’s situation is different, I didn’t hear anything about that. Kinda just came across like “regrets made in early life” when some of the points are well in my opinion invalid, like the setting money aside one, a lot of people have to pay their own tuition and manage there expenses outside of that. Nothing about personalization.
@@mooncosmicpower2956 yeah but in general, young people tend to spend in unnecessary stuff for the sake of spending money. That topic is about poor financial discipline and not about a specific situation. If you don't relate to this, it will relate to someone else. Some are able to put a little bit aside while others can't and that's fine because we don't all go through the same thing.
@@tunamayhoe define young, people in their thirsties are considered young. this is psych to go made for people of all ages. The video does not state any specific age demographic. I used the financial discipline as an example. I had an opinion you either like it or you don’t babe. Just like your opinion, I get it, I understand what you mean, hence my first comment stating “ I feel.”
The one about not giving up on your dreams really spoke to me, especially cause the drawings there were about astronomy, and I hope to be an astrophysicist in some regard, yet I always feel like I have to be a literal genius, and have to know everything before even graduating high school. My mom says I’m putting way too much pressure on myself, and I don’t have to know anything I didn’t learn, though it doesn’t hurt to inquire. I’ve felt like giving up so many times, because even though my grades are very high, some people’s grades are higher, and I never feel like I’m enough. Anyway, thanks for listening!
With the first one, I’d say both extremes can be and are bad. You shouldn’t change yourself trying to appease everyone, but at the same time, you shouldn’t go around being toxic. Do what you can to appease others within reason.
I've been subscribed to Psych2Go since they've had around 1.7 million subs. Seeing them use more pop-culture references (e.g. Genshin, Among Us, Disney) to make the videos more accessible is very much welcome. Thank you for giving great life advice and for making adorable drawings. You all are the best.
Does anyone here regret not making more friends when they were younger?
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Yup!
Well I don't really had friends and i'm atcually glad about that
I may not have that many friends
But having friends that stay loyal to you is better than having alot of friends and being a "meh" friend to some of em
The animator is a genshin impact fan too. Btw i love the fan art 🤩
I have only 1 friend now, i have known him for 8 years
1. Pleasing everyone
2. Not saving money
3. Spending money to impress others
4. Giving up too easily
5. Not continuing learning and investing in themselves
Love you 😅
thnks
Tyy!! :00
1, 2, and 5 for me.
I hate learning now coz am play games😎😎
I love how they just add genshin characters in their videos with no explanation just ‘here ya go here’s ganyu now take some life advice’
Hey there fellow kids
I am not complaining xd
THIS JAVPAJV
Yes
Didnt even know they were genshin impact characters but ok
Me seeing the thumbnail: "Is that ganyu or I played genshin impact too much?"
*clicks*
*Aether and Paimon appears*
Me: "Damn right"
Was confused too 😅
Same here
Mommy’s not here gonna fight all night
Like if you get that reference
I subscribed this channel because of genshin theme
"You can be the tastiest peach on the tree, but some people just don't like peaches" - Some comment I found in a Reddit thread
Im allergic to peaches 😢
@@bamtoribom F
i just saw this quote on a video by one of the robot voice reddit channels
Yeah, everyone got their own preference so regardless of the level of tastiness, there will always be at least one person who will like it. Good, bad, or neutral.
This is a wicked quote, thank you!
I legit thought "I genshin SO MUCH I'm seeing genshin characters in a psychology channel"... turns out it's really Ganyu
Sameee
Lmao same
same bro
I can recognise ganyu's horn even if my eyes are closed
I also saw kenya bro wtf
IF YOU THINK YOU CAN BAIT ME WITH GENSHIN CHARACTERS...then you're absolutely right
touch grass
@Takuto Ace K ok redditor
@@N_4747 why you so mad lol
@@justarandomusername4115 I'm not
@Takuto Ace K ok redditor
No one teaches you as a kid that growing up freaking sucks. My whole life, I was searching for something special. Realized after graduating that it was there all along and I lost it. Now I just hate myself and feel old.
What was it? What were you searching for?
@@three-leggeddog4705 Human connection, a best friend, lifelong partner, go on great adventures with others, etc. Covid ruined my college, graduation, didn't even get to hang with the few friends I had.
@@SourRobo8364 The time to make friends isn't over. Time isn't up until you're gone. While you may have missed graduation, there's other events in life to celebrate. I hope you meet someone special to share those moments with. 🤗
I wouldn’t teach that to a kid either, especially because it’s not a guaranteed experience. I would instead encourage them to follow their dreams that only adulthood allows so that they look forward to being an adult that has the life they want, and coach them through the downswings. Why would we tell every child that growing up sucks just because some people were disappointed by life after graduation...?
@@SourRobo8364 do you not see the irony in this? As a child you wished you were older and now wish you were younger. How do you think you’ll feel in your 60’s, then on your death bed? Regardless of age or life conditions life will never be perfect and you’ll always be wishing for something more or regretting something from the past. The only way to cope with this is to except that even if life could be better it’s still there and good things happen all the time if you take the time to realize it you’ll see it more and more.
Psych2Go: includes genshin characters in their vids
The Genshin Fandom: I've been summoned
#demomantf2forgenshinimpact
And this Is a fandom worth of it's name, unlike dsmp
@@Bottleofwater-n5y I don't understand why the genshin and dsmp fandom clash so often like- y'all don't have to put down others interests and fandoms they enjoy. Anyways, hope you have a lovely day/night and may your vibes be good.
@@juniorwriter139 the ghenshin community Just wants to Ward off the dsmp community because they are toxic and we don't want to deal with them now that they are flocking here too
But i Guess you are a Stan that Is acting overly nice and rational Just because that green leech said so on twitter
YES
"is there anything you regret doing in life"
Pulling 8k worth of primos on standard banner
as long as you don't pull on weapon banner then everything is okay, just ... just pretend that weapon banner is not exist, or else.. prepare to get tectoned'
@@linnen_elm I disagree, you can only chose to use the 4 favourite characters that you have, why not pull for weapons while you wait for the character banner that you want to pull on.
@@aaeve5676 FGO survivor here.. 4 years and still not a single brynhildr.. the weapon gacha is as bad as FGO pool _wwwwwwwwwwwW_
Me but 3k
same, I got a 5 star weapon in early game, and it was a book ;-;
Being young is more complicated now than it has ever been. I hope you don’t feel any pressure to do it “properly” or anything. I think the best you can do is to be deeply introspective to know who you are and who you want to be, and acting accordingly. You have potential, so please don’t forget that it’s YOUR future. Please take care of yourself. ❤️
*clap clap* nice speech also I’m on my kid’s account so if you want, sub to me
@@kat_cit why are you on your kid's account thats weird af
thanks for those kind words :) I'm really struggling right now because i don't have motivation to do anything, like i'm dissatisfied with myself but i don't have the energy to change or improve. it started with covid but it has gotten progressively worse and now i just feel like I'm in a dark hole or something and I'm tired of trying to climb out but failing again and again.
@@crabbss1762 it's been the same for me for quite a time now, the thing that did worlk for me was relieving feelings thru art, writing a though and letting It grow like a tree , gives some satisfaction and maybe can rise you self Steem
i wish you a good research on yourself (: have a good day!
@@noecucalon6281 aw thank you so much! That actually helps a lot, i'm gonna do that!
And you have a nice day too :) you're so kind
I have another mistake more so children often make: sitting with a bent back. Whilst people often find sitting like this comfortable, it will lead to a fragile back in later life. It will also lead to many other harmful back problems. Instead, I would highly recommend sitting with a straight back. During the first few days of doing this, ur back will start to hurt, but that will go away within 1-2 days. This will be extremely helpful to u in later life. I’m not saying I’m perfect and have never bent my back in my life before, but rather giving advice to others. I hope I could help anyone who’s around my age (6-16 yrs) :)
Edit: thank u for the likes, I love every single one of u! ❤️❤️❤️
ik
. n now my spine is jsjsnsnnw.... I can't have a normal back now
You are absolutely correct. I am a massage therapist & have seen a rise in "text neck". Young people are getting "hunchbacks" that you normally see late in life in elderly people. Sad sign of the times. Shoulders back, chin up & loose the phone. They create more problems than people realise with constant, close range exposure to radiation. You are a very intelligent young lady @Dawn Jenkins & I commend your proactive stance on this matter. We only have one body to make it through our lifetime, best we look after it.💜
Thank you so much 💖
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I don't have research or sources for this, but if you hold yourself straight when you stand or sit, you will engage your abs and help shape your core. Not a crazy amount for a six pack or anything, but it helps 😊
Young people tend to use all their money as soon as their paycheck comes
Me who does a wish every time I get 160 primogems: Chuckles* I'm in danger
SAME and i only end up with weapons =((
@@haphephobia 10 rolls usually guarantee you a character so that's why
@@summonerbraddysg51 p sure it was just a four star item? I've done ten pulls and still get a weapon instead of a character
Same lol
if primogems were my paycheck, I would be around 11k primos in debt for spending them on 1 wish
Ah, everyone's favorite Emergency Food is here-
ik
shes still a chibi.. i cant her... ill get into jail!
@@APOPHISCA um, pardon me, but do you even played genshin?
yes
Talking about mistakes...
"Imma watch this so I won't make these mistakes"
- Me, probably
That's me too!!
@@blackpinkblink5746 BLINK?
What did you think? : )
- Monica
@@Psych2go this actually really helped! I really need to not spend my money lol
I'm doing the same
Pls if they’re doing genshin characters now they should have put Mona at the part where it said “Do you spend your paycheck as soon as you get it?”
LMAO YES-
or zhongli
that would be perfect lmao-
@@dorothy_w5720 John lee is not poot tho
Or venti
Came for Ganyu, stayed for psychology and other Genshin characters
Same
Same
Same
Nice to know I'm not the only one
Yes, There is also references to Dream SMP / Minecraft in other vids
Me here for self-work
Psych2go: lemme pull genshin impact out real quick
My original therapist 😤
@Smazmix lmao
touch grass
@@N_4747 ok
@@somerandomtouhouenjoyer4879 ok
Lumine: AETHER
aether: *just having lunch with emergency food in the start*
Aether x Paimon
@@jqyhlmnp WHAT. NO EW DONT SHIP THEM THIS IS EMERGENCY FOOD YOU CANT SHIP SOMEONE WITH FOOD😒💅
@@jqyhlmnp aether x paimon😋
@@jqyhlmnp PAIMON IS SEVEN???
@@bsicuit OMFG PAIMON IS 7
Advice from recent college graduate that got 4.0 GPA: Enjoy your time and do stuff you enjoy. When I graduated all that was left in me was dread and depression. I hated my degree and most of the classes I had to take for it. By time I realized I didn't like it, I was too close to graduating to make a change. Now I have to wait for January to sign up at a new school for something I want to do and feel old. Don't be too worried about grades either. I did and ended up missing fun events. It's people that makes like worth living, at least for me.
You need a balance. The other people will have an edge in their social skills as they learned to play. However, I've worked a lot with people like that throughout my life. They'll have a hard time getting past being a retail manager. They'll have great people skills but they struggle with things like writing a report. anyways aiming for Bs imo is what you should go for. Thats like studying and doing your work but leaving enough time to play too.
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@@birdsfly7199 Dont get me wrong, im just saying maybe 85%. You still have to try, care. you also have to find more ways to do things efficiently. Its just a lot of that extra stuff, find yourself instead. school in general only goes so far too. as the old saying goes don't let school get in the way of your education. :)
Ha, college isn’t the end or be all. LIVING! That is what we should strive...LIVE! ❤️
I have a question, did you more focus on your grades or on your social life? I have a hard time managing both and I'm really afraid that if I don't have the perfect grades I won't be able to achieve my dreams..
Mistakes Young ppl make that they regret later: Not Farming davalin, Andruis, Childe and azdaha every Week
Ikr like seriously big ass regret. Also not farming mora early too
@@mcexpresso3870 Farming mora below AR45 is not worth it
Thank you for the advice
And not opening chests?
Not farming Dvalin's nails is a big mistake im always regret. Now Im having a hard time to upgrade Noelle's talents.
"Is there anything you regret doing in the past?"
*flashbacks to Genshin Impact's SS-tier pull rates*
No, why do you ask?
you mean 5 Star?
@@delev11 he got confused with honkai lol
flashbacks to when my bank has locked my cards many times within a month because they thought ive been scammed...im just trying to get venti when he first showed up
Fun fact: Absolutely no one knows what they're doing.
I'm 27 and finally considering an internship, I learned that it's okay to do things later, than not at all. :)
Yesss!! Everyone has THEIR UNIQUE timeline! I’m happy for u!
True :)
Exactly, there's a really big pressure to have "everything" done by 25 and tbh, I've seen some people happier and achieving more on their 30's, 40's and 50's. We all have different speeds.
You got this!
- Monica
This really gives hope and a positive outlook on the future. Good luck and have fun with your internship! I bet it feels like life is changing and that’s wonderful. I’m only 20 years old and I feel pressured to figure it all out, but it’s impossible to have it all in one day, one month or year. But what I realize is continuing to move forward and look at the positive helps too.
I use to try to please everyone so they'd like me
Luckily, I grew out of that mindset of "If I do this, X will like me!"
Just remember you beautiful soul:
Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm.
If you're still reading this,
I love you!
I appreciate this comment but...WHERE DID YOU GET THOSE EMOJIS FROM?!
@@gaiabeltran9705 It looks like that the emojis were obtained by joining the Psych2Go membership on UA-cam.
Good for you. Unfortunately, I'm still in that mindset and now, I'm afraid to go places where people are because I fear their judgement. Ironic because I was the complete opposite in middle school XD
Still dealing with that kinda mentality myself. Being everyone's hero, or the trophy of good behavior or "look what my kid succeeded at". All the times things don't go right, I feel like a huge failure or disappointment. Telling folks "no" when you know you can help is really hard even when you know it's not the best thing for yourself. And letting myself have something for myself instead of giving it all to others is just as hard. Right now I have to make an appointment with myself to "play with my friends" otherwise I'll work all weekend , but I still feel guilty for the work I could have been doing.
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I cannot stress more on how important number 5 is. When you're in high school or college, people usually just think of one profession and dedicate most of their academic life into it. Ignoring other potential skills they might learn and be really proficient at it. You can never really be certain if the course you took up in college will be your career forever. Join different clubs or organizations in school to expand your skills and have more options in the future of what you wanna do in the future at an early age.
I'm a teen and to me life is quite meaningless rn , my parents kept on yelling every single day and talks about me for about 5 hours a day. I'm not kidding at all literally 4 - 5 hours a day. They seem to want me to suceed in life or somth but either way at the end we will all die too , you can't bring money to afterlife , you also can't bring jobs to afterlife. All I wanted to say was just to enjoy each of your time in life and always be happy :)
Relateable
I guess they’re just worried about your future sweetie!!!
@@doctorsincebirth5072 Even if this is the case, continuous yelling NEVER helps anyone; it's extremely harmful. Rather, that time should be spent supporting your child and outlining ways to succeed.
Babe enjoying the moment is special gift go ahead but don't forget your tomorrow is also now
Happiness is also pointless. Life is what you make it. Nothing is eternal is all in our perceptions.
We need mistakes and they should be counted as a blessing. Imagine going through life with no educational experiences. Your friendships and true love can be enjoyed because of what you've learned and how you've matured emotionally and socially. Without mistakes and the courage to make them and keep going, oh what a sad story life would be. The bitter teaches us to enjoy the sweet.
I agree 👍with you
My father always says to me “son, u need the lows to appreciate the highs in life” 🙏❤️
I would welcome mistakes if they didn't hold such hefty prices to them.
@@hidinginyourcloset I guess it just depends on the extremity of the mistake
@Noxious Mind The beauty of it is that it can never be defined because it's fluid. It is perpetuated by faith and fortified by time. It is the greatest test of all one has learned and internalized. It's also unfortunately, the ultimate way to find out all the things wrong with yourself and your partner.
I used to have a friend when I was in 3rd grade who I took for granted- I just thought “Oh hey she’s my friend!” But now I have learned the true meaning of “You never know how much you have until you lose it”
My mom had me switch schools, and that’s when I realized I could never make a friend quite like the one I made in my old school… She was my best best BEST friend, but now it seems so hard to make friends :( Nobody really gets me like she did… I regret not recognizing how great of a friend she was…
i hate that I’m aware of all of this but everytime i try to motivate myself to focus more on school i just cant. I’m ruining everything and i have no idea how to stop.
hey it’s okay i’ve been losing a lot of motivation too lately so ur not alone but you’ll get thru it eventually don’t be too hard on urself :)
Same here, I was about to experience the college life but covid had hit 2 months later...now becoming a senior I felt all my college life has been online and it really does suck knowing I can't go back.
I am starting to feel more fatigued and depressed alot trying to learn, and it's making it that much harder to feel motivated...Just enjoy now and don't rush it if you can, go at your own pace because I'm feeling it too...I may take a bit slower pace to just enjoy college another year. I missed out on so much on the college life to be honest and want to fix that when thing's start going back to normal again.
Why do u think that is?
*Stop saying to yourself that you can do this. Just do it. Don´t think about what you could do instead, just do it. It worked for me. Don´t waste time with trying to get motivated. Stop entertaining yourself, just do it. And then, keep up the concentration. Put your stuff you need to learn or for homework on your table or whatever you use for that kind of stuff and don´t hesitate doing that.*
I've been losing a lot of motivation too (And my parents don't help much neither.), hope that both of us can get past this.
Even though she's eating a delicious meat twice her size, Paimon still looks sad
that sounded different in your mind didnt it
@@Localghost5075 😃
@@Localghost5075 NO IT DIDNT YOU😭😭😭😭
@@Localghost5075 wha-
Dio I think you’ve spent to much time away from society to understand how we word sentences so people don’t see it as “wrong”
I definitely always gave up too easily. I always had too much anxiety and missed out on a lot of opportunities.
Now I use my anxiety as an indicator to face the uncomfortable situation so I can become more used to it.
It's made me feel more alive than ever. It feels good to be 25 and to have such a fresh start!
“Don’t worry about being interesting; just focus on being interested.”
I have commited serveral crimes in Alaska
Funny how the second point is about saving while the animation genshin related 😢 I need more primos pls
SAMEE I ONLY HAVE ENOUGH FOR 10 PULLS LMAO
@@asimpforliterallyeveryguyf7789 i pull whenever i have 160, i may have an addiction
@@000-kiuu JSKAJSJSJ SAMEEE I ONLY HAVE 50 PITY RN I RLLY HAVE TO SAVE UP
@@asimpforliterallyeveryguyf7789 do it for the waifus/husbandos
oi.. don't worry, if you've done something that you want, you'll be in peace
5 Mistakes young people make and regret later in life:
1. Existing
I feel that.
@@olafgurke4699 amen
I felt that. XD
Mood
Yup
Mistake 6: don't try spending a fortune getting your favourite Genshin Impact characters, especially If you lose 50/50.
Oof
Oh no xd fr
My Ganyu says otherwise
y e.s
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"Not saving money"
Well gall lee i'd love to save some money but life is too dam expensive and I barely make double digits.
Depends what you buy
And how much are they
I feel that you waste your money on expensive stuffs. Happiness can actually be cheap:)
@@maulanalaser4748 Happiness can only be cheap if you lower your standards so low that living on the streets with a loaf of bread makes you happy.
@@silvy7394 yep I agreed with you,as for the things we buys yes it depends but what about groceries? Bills? House? Debt? (If u have em)
Life is just too expensive every single year
Here’s a thing people regret not doing.
Not picking the emergency food option at the beginning of the game
nah i picked it just to see what she would say lolll
i’m so in love with the genshin doodles 😩
Thank you, we appreciate your support!
- Monica
“They don’t save money”
We have no extra money to save tho lol
It depends. There are a lot of people who are bad with money and/or don't realize the importance of investing for retirement early and taking advantage of compound interest
@@W0lfbaneShikaisc00l True. I didn't invest a penny until I was done with college for this very reason. This is something that many financial experts fail to shed light on. You need principal for your investments to be worth anything in the future. And if your paycheck is $1,500 and your expenses are $1,450, you should not be investing that $50. It won't do you much good in the future and you might end up needing it very very soon.
@@W0lfbaneShikaisc00l Pyramid schemes are the worst. I've had many people reach out to me trying to convince me to join. And desperate people will fall for them. Nowadays, cryptocurrency is a new "get rich quick" mechanism. It's a billion times better of an investment than penny stocks and pyramid schemes, but they are still heavily overrated.
Yes! It really used to annoy me when I was in my early twenties and people would tell me to "save up", as if I was just wasting my money.
Most of my clothes were from op shops (and I didn't have many), I didn't do drugs or smoke, barely touched alcohol. Most of my money went on rent and bills.
@@trendkiller6611 buy normal clothes and calculate how much you spend and rid off little things that absorbs your money
"They give up easily"
10 years old me after trying to beat the same boss for nearly two days straight: *Are you f**#ckig** challenging me?!?*
I learned so much from this video. Psych2go always has great video lessons.
Happy to hear and hope you're having fun too on your craft! :)
Reasons why I watch your channel
1. You talk about real stuff
2. Your animators are amazing
3. You have helped me a lot
4. You talk about sexualitys (and you respect them)
5. YOUR AMAZING!!!!!!!
Heart my comment maybe-?
My 5 biggest regrets from youth:
1- Not caring to please anyone;
2- Being a lazy bastard;
3- Doing everything I was told to (that is by parents and teachers);
4- Not practicing sports and getting fat;
5- Not bothering to socialize.
Literally my whole life in a nutshell :D
3, I relate to that so much because either I listen to them or I get in big trouble
Oh damn last one is me. Tho guess what? My job would require me to socialize so anyways
0:12 Aether and Paimon just sitting on the bench eating is so wholesome xD
That's Ganyu in the thumbnail...and there's more genshin impact characters lol
I Play that game!
@@cecererei good game
I love genshin
I saw that Xd
Paimon and main character on d bench tho
I made an early mistake that I regretted later in life not found in the list, it's not having friends, when I was a kid, I only focus on my grades and knowledge than everything else, I felt like I need friends, but denial prevents me from getting friends, I see people with friends, and I was like "they have friends, but I don't, but who cares? It's their life, not my life", "I don't need friends to survive" "I can handle it" and stuff, but as I kept going, denial doesn't work anymore, I feel like I'm lying to myself, I was thinking of other methods to have friends and freedom, so I started showing my anger, then I reached bargaining, depression and then acceptance, now I realized how friends are important, and how they mean a lot to me. Now, I'm finding friends for true happiness.
„Do you spend a lot of energy trying to be someone you're not, just to please others?“
I felt that on a spiritual level
Genshin Impact + Psych2Go = *yes*
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Art
YES
Mine is entering relationships and wasted my precious teenage phase and early adult years by supporting the wrong people and building them up while I'm still on the same place in my life. Also having friends who weren't there for me when I welcomed them with open arms. I watched them get ahead of me. That is my biggest regret. There's not a day I don't tell myself, "I should have put myself first to improve."
The BIG mistake we made was letting a 3rd grade teacher double promote our son, it was like a 10 year curse. 1 year difference to a child is like 10 years with adults.
I remember that I was briefly double promoted - went from kindergarten to Grade 1, and then on again to Grade 2. Ended up going back to Grade 1. I don't remember much of it, except being stressed, having headaches, and crying at school all the time.
*We learn from our mistakes, and we can become stronger from any pain we may have experienced.* This is so strongest things!.
Thanks for make me remember that I should not give up,
sometimes even when you know something, life makes you forget it about it.
you always need somone who guides you back to the correct path
One thing that I regret is focusing too much on and even defining myself through my looks. I don't look like society's beauty standard and I hated my face. But the older I got (I'm still in my teens) the more I realized that people perceive you from head to toe and in it's your character that makes people like to be with you and not only your looks. And in the end beauty is temporarily, but character is permanent. So I try to focus more on my personality and character traits than beating myself up because of my looks.
"3. Spending their money just to impress others"
*Ironic coming from a video with gacha game characters*
but srsly tho the art is so pretty and everything is very calming
At least the money is put to good use lol
@@PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945 How?
Think @@lijhay2889 Think.
@@PatrickMenesesYTOfficial4945 temporary happiness?
Whales with complete 5* c6 characters: saving money? What's that?
I was like: huh a genhshin character…wait no…*sees read and black horns* GANYU? 😳
ikrr
Ganyu 🥵🥵🥵
(Doofensmirtz voice)
A Genshin character?
(Horns)
*GANYU* the Genshin character!?
Being anti-social is perfectly fine, despite so many people in school believing this is a "bad" thing.
Asocial, not anti-social
@@daisyhinojosa23 difference?
@@ivythealiencat Being asocial means you abstain from social interaction, while being antisocial(as a personality disorder) makes you manipulative and unable to process the ability to form a connection just for the sake of it.
(These are my own words, there may be more specific terms for antisocial and asocial that I didn’t use)
@@Error-gz3pp oh I thought antisocial was hating being social bc all the emo kids say it
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im currently learning japanese, and it's been more than half a year now. this video just gave me a lot of motivation. thanks!
頑張れ、みんな!!
Akichan, Having learned Japanese, I just felt compelled to say gumbatte! & practice makes perfect. Contrary to what most believe that "grammatically" Japanese is really easy compared to English. Wishing you the best, I'd be happy to answer any questions, if I can.lol
@@karendiliddo8825 Thank you! I don't currently have any questions but i'll hit u up if i have any!!
頑張ります！
私も日本語を勉強してます。
いいです
No one:
psych2go: **WE SUMMON THE GENSHIN FANDOM NEXT**
They summoned us before and again 😃
touch grass
@@N_4747 ,im playing genshin for fun how about u? Telling some to touch grass menwhile ur pfp is anime girl art lmao
@@m.9890 your pfp is anime too
@@N_4747 is not an anime is a game
Alternative title: Aether and Paimon waiting for the resin to replenish
I think i am the only person in the world who hasn’t played genshin impact
@@Lampey22 maybe
@@Lampey22 nah some others exist
I'm clearly not one tho
This video made me cry not just because I’m sensitive but because I’m still young and I’ve made and regret a lot of things I wish I was more to people.
I'm so happy UA-cam recommended you guys, and everyone who's watching this I hope you are doing well😚💕
Aww thank you hope you have a nice day! 💜
Thank you and we hope you're doing well too
does anyone else agree that her voice is sooooo soothing and calming?
I'm turning 20 next year, I was about to leave this video without doing any of these till the "Giving up to early" part, this kinds hit hard but I will work to get rid of this bad habbit. This was the first video I saw from this channel and I'm a BIG fan of the art style, editing and the music choice
"They dont save money"
Trying to obtain PC parts right now fixes this anyway, im forced to save money, look at the prices
I've wasted 4,500 bucks on dirtbikes and safety gear
Im only 16 and im having the fun of my life going at 85mph down the straightaways
I needed a car for work but screw that
@@speedyboi349 who gave you that money tho
@@zkull9982 i saved for a few years
Mowing lawns, feeding farm animals and cleaning cow poop
Also taking care of a few horses with a buddy
@@speedyboi349 nice
I spent $500 on Genshin Wish rolls on the Eula banner...
"we learn from mistakes and grow stronger with it"
my existence:
3:11
I did my best to learn english and here I am watching a video about invest your time with good things while you are young. But don't worry, you can do this even with you are not so young
Being a teen many people tell me to be myself, but God I don't even know what my actual self is ,so confusing.
I always think this too. I think the key is to just act on what you believe is what you should do and worry less about what others think
I took psychedelics recently, and it made me realise just how much of a people's pleaser I am. I always try to present the best version of myself to others. Thats just how ive always been I guess. I have a very positive outlook and attitude towards everything. Im really not a confrontational person, and even in situations where I'm being wronged or ridiculed, I will usually bottle those emotions to myself. One of my flatmates can be quite a dick sometimes. If you cant make an effort to show that you give a shit about me, why should i make an effort and pretend to give a shit about you? Anybody else feel the same? Like you give so much effort to be positive, only for people to take you for granted?
Basically they just want you to treat them right but they don't want to treat you back the same way. They basically want to be the boss / leader in that particular relationship.
Only put effort in people you think they are worth if you realize someone isnt you really don’t need to.
I had #1 and #4 as a child and teenager. BTW, I love the Genshin Impact references! My dad taught me that if you don't set boundaries and assert yourself, people are going to take advantage of you and you will begin to build resentment.
PAIMON AND TRAVELER! You guys are so awesome, I love seeing all of these references in your videos. You always pull them off so well which shows that you guys really know your audience and aren't trying to appeal to a "youth" but to anyone who enjoys a particular something. It makes people happy, it's always exciting to see an entirely unexpected reference like George and Dream from new MC YT or in this video, Paimon and Traveler from Genshin Impact. And this is something especially helpful for a phycology and mental health based channel! having the same narrator coupled with a cute, calm simplistic atmosphere and characters within these animations, and references for those watching make them feel like they're talking to a really nice counselor who they've been to for a while, it gives a sense of familiarity by showing that our interests are known and remembered. and while this channel doesn't substitute a mental health professional, it does so well at imitating one. This channel is amazing, and I love every single video you guys put out. What you all do is incredible and I really admire it. You guys have educated me so much that when I talk to counselors or phycologists they're always surprised by how aware and educated I am on my own issues, and all this information also helps me to learn some of the things I need to become a counselor myself. I'm 16 and planning on going to college, getting a degree in social work and or mental health counseling for this stuff. It was you guys that peaked my interest in the science of the human mind, and the fire in my heart to help those in need. This channel is so much to me, and I can't thank this team enough for all you've done for me.
The Genshin Characters displayed in this video and the title: 5 Mistakes Most Young people Make and Regret Later in Life, is more than enough for me to understand the message.
The two things I regret the most in life are touching myself for the first time and not making any lasting friends in middle school. I wanna be free of this pain
"Do you think having the newest things is a necesity or a luxury."
it's *B U L L S H I T*.
Whether is need or luxury will depend on the mindset of the person buying. Someone who like new things will call it a need. Someone who doesn't put importance in new things will call it luxury
Stopped maintaining my regular athletic routine from sports that kept me thin, and conversely maintained the appetite. I was long distance runner with scholarship, who broke my ankle my senior year of high school. I delayed joining the college team for 2 years, by then it was too late. I gained 50 LBS my freshman year and another 20 LBS the next year, and my thin athletic body has never been the same. I’ve gotten back close to runners weight 3 times in my life, but it didn’t last long. I have a voracious appetite set from youth devouring massive Carbs, and my metabolism is set differently than other. A 3 mile job doesn’t increase my metabolism at all, I have run hard for 6 miles daily to actually start my body to burn fat. I exercise all the time and use several tracking apps that confirm the bizarre phenomenon. If I had only kept running or biking while I was recovering from the ankle injury and watched my diet then, I would be an entirely different person now.
i think i really needed this. bc of quarantine, i think i've caught a habit of giving up too early and an incredibly long amount ofprocrastination and not being able to actually learn a subject. i'll work on myself, thank you for this ♡
@Space Flower no problem at all! i'm actually kinda glad and i feel kinda included (?) to know that someone else is going through the same. let's not give up!
Trust me, many Italians don't even know italian themselves
I was crying but your comment just made me laugh thank you haha
what really?
@@edgyhandmonster yes it’s true I’m Italian and I don’t even know my own language lol
lol this is so true I’m Italian but I don’t even know how to speak my own language 😂✋
why?
And if everyone could go back and fix the 'mistakes' they made when they were young... they wouldn't have many of the memories and funny stories they can reflect on now.
Boom! Agreed!
Life its decision, i always hates when it comes with 2 decision where it affect my future but i dont know if its great. When i choose option 1 and im somewhere end of the road to pick another decision, i looked back and realize option 2 might be better than what i choose in the past since i make sooo many mistakes in option 1. After that now realized they both will be the same just different experience
Depends.
@@Whopparhombus yup, its all decisions, the things that would change is your experiences, it wont make u happier or make your life better, what matters is what ur doing now
@@pherousa7014 Time Travel paradoxes or assuming the existence of multiverse, their unpreticted outcomes.
I usually give up on things when I instantly hear stuff about them that I’m not capable of, other times people think I’ve given up but that’s when I haven’t just started
This is the crossover I never thought could be here
I really do love the Genshin Drawings!
I'm still really young, and this really helped me, even if it's just one thing.
I'll always be thankful that I found this channel :)
THESE ALWAYS MAKE MY DAY EEEE. inspired me to start my own podcast!!
good luck with your podcast!
good luck on that :D
i really really need a "how control your stress and anger" i'm gonna snap if i don't.
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@Noxious Mind thanks
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@@khulanganzorig5443 hey
I think what you need is to learn how to calm down from high cortisol levels. Observe your breathing and breathe deeper when you notice your pulse getting higher. Breathing exercises are just one way to calm down though, there are many, look what works best for you.
I’m almost 30, and it hasn’t been an easy journey for a lot of people like me.
I can’t tell you things will get better, but I can say that surviving is hard, and if you’re still here, then well done.
If I could offer you any advice to make things less harsh, i highly recommend you do whatever it takes to make yourself truly and wholeheartedly happy. Some people help others, others learn stuff. Nobody masters something immediately, and true talent is a load of bull. If there’s something you’ve always wanted to learn but never started, START NOW. Bit by bit, every time you practice you get better. Even if you only practice 3 minutes a day, you’ll be surprised how much you’ve improved, because there was a time when you knew next to nothing.
I bought a cheap-ass guitar and learned how to play it and sing. I still suck at it, but someday, I won’t.
I can’t wait till that day comes, but for now, im just trying to suck less at it.
If a moron like me can learn something new, i know you sure as hell can too.
I’m seriously going through a time where I’m not doing any work, but I don’t know how to start, people say I’m lazy and I’m finding multiple reasons in my head and blame something else, any tips on how to overcome this?
Right after waking up, make your bed, immediately. Stretch your muscles (just one good stretch), drink a cup of water. Now go on with your day.
There is a reason making your bed is the first thing you do in the military, you'll start the day with a task complete, it's satisfying and gets you into the loop of getting other things done.
Start off with that, it's a small but huge step. Just do this first before thinking any further.
Some:
1) try to adapt your learning to your daily life. Not the other way around.
2) try to divide the task in tiny more manageable pieces. In place of learning how to draw you can divide in how to hold the pencil, how to make lines with it in a efficient manner, etc.
3)Ask for help when you are kind of loss ,use reddit or discord and ask politely.
4) also if you are doing it for hobby always remember that you can pause and retake it whenever you want. The point of a hobby is to relax and improve at a comfortable pace after all.
Perhaps you're only afraid failing a task at your job. Or, you want to try something else. My advice is to force yourself a trial month and decide later if it makes you happy or not. Good luck!
I think it varies from person to person, but when I went through a similar problem it helped to just pick something you could finish in about a week or two (for me it was writing a five page story). It felt like torture to work on it for the first five days, but it became something that I woke up early to work on as I became passionate about it. It helped me to have tangible results at the end of my two weeks. Feel free to try writing a story, composing music, drawing, or something else. It might be bad, but it will serve as practice and proof to yourself that you can do this. Good luck
Try mindfulness and living in the moment. You are putting to much pressure on yourself about the job. It does not need to be a career, just something to do right now. Maybe work at a clothing store to get a discount toward an interviewing suit. Cook, if you like to eat it is a good skill to learn. Take a fun class, like comedy or painting. Spend time in nature. Go on a road trip and go camping. I have 2/degrees and if I could do it again I would have learned a trade. Plumber, electrician, you will always have a job. Join the military reserves.
i came for ganyu
why am i suddenly being attacked
*by genshin chARACTERS TOO*
LMAO SAME
Great video filled with nothing but facts and logic, not opinionated advice. I love it. Many people especially in my generation and even younger, get angry at the sight or mention of hard work and dedication. You actually can't say anything to them without them getting irritated no matter how polite you are being. That is, unless you are a UA-cam channel with millions of subs and lots of popular videos, THEN they will listen and maybe not grumble so much.
When you said "save money" I literally thought an ad is coming XD
I like how you associated this with Genshin Impact Characters, it made it more informative for me for some reason.
I do all of these already so this video made feel satisfied, my only regret was being too religious where I give more than ever before each time like preached and being told to slow down to love people which made me a people pleaser at times that I neglected my maintenance and costed me tons of money.
I must say, it was a great idea to illustrate this video with Genshin characters. I legit clicked for Jean in the preview :3
I feel like a lot these are black and white, everyone’s situation especially for finances is very different.
it’s hard to personalise a video meant to be watched by hundreds of thousands of people... i guess these things are meant to be a loose reference
@@bredstic9836 I didn’t say anything about personalizing, I’m just saying everyone’s situation is different, I didn’t hear anything about that. Kinda just came across like “regrets made in early life” when some of the points are well in my opinion invalid, like the setting money aside one, a lot of people have to pay their own tuition and manage there expenses outside of that. Nothing about personalization.
@@mooncosmicpower2956 yeah but in general, young people tend to spend in unnecessary stuff for the sake of spending money. That topic is about poor financial discipline and not about a specific situation. If you don't relate to this, it will relate to someone else. Some are able to put a little bit aside while others can't and that's fine because we don't all go through the same thing.
@@tunamayhoe define young, people in their thirsties are considered young. this is psych to go made for people of all ages. The video does not state any specific age demographic. I used the financial discipline as an example. I had an opinion you either like it or you don’t babe. Just like your opinion, I get it, I understand what you mean, hence my first comment stating “ I feel.”
@@tunamayhoe oh I totally relate to this, just not in the ways outlined in the video
The one about not giving up on your dreams really spoke to me, especially cause the drawings there were about astronomy, and I hope to be an astrophysicist in some regard, yet I always feel like I have to be a literal genius, and have to know everything before even graduating high school. My mom says I’m putting way too much pressure on myself, and I don’t have to know anything I didn’t learn, though it doesn’t hurt to inquire. I’ve felt like giving up so many times, because even though my grades are very high, some people’s grades are higher, and I never feel like I’m enough. Anyway, thanks for listening!
As someone who tries to please everyone I can indeed confirm that many people have been thoroughly pleased😉
2:45 I heard a quote that was something along the lines of:
"I have not failed. I have simply found a thousand ways that don't work"
2:50 - "They don't continue learning and they don't invest invest in themselves." Investments are doubly important.
Invest in yourself. It pays the greatest return.
Ive made all of these mistakes. For many people id say its inevitable. The true mistake would be to continue making them
With the first one, I’d say both extremes can be and are bad. You shouldn’t change yourself trying to appease everyone, but at the same time, you shouldn’t go around being toxic. Do what you can to appease others within reason.
I've been subscribed to Psych2Go since they've had around 1.7 million subs. Seeing them use more pop-culture references (e.g. Genshin, Among Us, Disney) to make the videos more accessible is very much welcome. Thank you for giving great life advice and for making adorable drawings. You all are the best.
"Mistakes Most Young People Make and Regret Later in Life"
Sounds like tiktok to me
@@Kiror0_ but not UA-cam.
UA-cam is great :3
Reddit is great too.
@@maharlika3486 Tiktok is better than reddit. Reddit is toxic.
@@LarryWater i think reddit is better than tik tok
@@maharlika3486 touch grass