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That struck me too. He has none of the bitterness or anger that most guys in his situation exhibit. Instead, he's developed this incredible empathy and understanding of the human condition. The world would be an infinitely better place if we could all learn to be a little more like him.
When you're truly ugly you won't be bitter because there's no use. It's only these fake "incels" who aren't even ugly they're just shitty people who are bitter.
Sameee I find his voice very pleasing to listen to , it's nice for me to hear his voice bc usually on YT all I hear are annoying loud guys or the same monotoned low voice guys
Your biggest super power is that you are able to speak out. Lot's of cocky people in the comment section will be quick to give you advice but when it comes to their own lives, they can't even be honest with themselves. You do it effortlessly, naturally and eloquently. You are not only honest with yourself, you are honest with the world by speaking about your insecurities - which we ALL have. Carry your wounds with pride young lad. At least you are not fake.
In your video you said that you dont really take care of your appearance because there is no point since you don't date. But take care of yourself for you ! Do what it takes for YOU to feel good and confident about yourself. It is important we start loving ourselves before we love someone else and when ull less expect it love will hit you hard ! You are not ugly, i think you just gave up abit on yourself.
What do you mean with "do what it takes for you to feel good"? Self-care is not self indulgence, self-care is NOT playing video games, watching movies, watching ASMR, etc.... Self-care is working out, eating healthy, doing actual work. You bitch..
Blow him up haha I thought you were asking the ladies in the comments something quite different then haha. But yeah he seems like such a good person, we don't often see the vulnerable side of people these days especially on UA-cam. I've subscribed and will watch his channel for sure, I wanna follow his journey to hopefully finding love 😍💕
"Real love is something that is kinda forgotten today, it's where someone means so much to you that w/o you knowing they slip into your mind and sometimes they can slip down into your soul, and if the other person feels the same way for you , you are kinda making a bond where both of your souls are connected into one " DAMN dude that was deep
He's a demisexual. It helps to provide a good base for solid relationships. Great connection is always a great context to start with. Mind you it's not similarities. It's connection. Very different.
@@Searizeel Wow I didn't know there was a word for that. I've been single for years and when I tell my friends I can't just bang some random woman even if she's a ten they think I'm insane. I literally, physically just can't unless I become emotionally attached.
He is the purest person i have seen online in such a long time. I really wish we could start a big friend group bc he talks about no one in his life but there are so many people here who will support him ❤️😢
Something id like to adress on the later part of this video: What im trying to say is that girls and guys dont have it equaly. Most girls i have been in contact with that have dissablities/ or are socialy considered unatractive due to bad facial features or un-healthy weight etc, still have lots of guys interessted in them, while most unatractive guys never have anyone interessted in them. Girls often have more options and if they would decide to go with their spiritual side/heart more and change views on things they could relatively fast/easy find a good partner to settle down with, while guys dont have that luxuary. On the other hand, cause girls have this priviledge in life they often get harassed and hated on, (often) without any reasson, they also stuggle with friends and sutch while unatractive guys often can find friends and happiness in other things, Life and gender have its own perks and ups/downs. Thats all i was trying to say, and ofc its different for most people. -- Anyway personaly i have had options to meet people and get dates and sutch, i have decided to turn most of them down. If i was dessperate for fysical love and just not beeing alone i would had stayed with my ex. What i want is to be happy, and the only way i could ever be happy is by sharing my life with someone who spiritualy is on the same level as me. Sadly not many people are that nowdays since society/humanity is slowly reverting back into a primal state of life where genes, status and sutch are the only things that madder. And a good soul is just something in the past. -- Anyway, who you may be or what ever reasson you watch my videos, guys/girls, atractive people or people who are rejected by society, all of you i wish happiness and that you find true love. Im here for all of you who need to talk or express yourself.
I feel your agony bro, I see myself in you, we have the same situation and feelings. I wish for your hapiness too bro. I hope that later on we find our hapiness and solution to our problem. Sorry for my bad english
Naturally all women are born with the right to mate. Natutally not all men get to mate. Women are similar in status. Men have a significant status system. Essentially men fight, and conquer to earn a status. The women pick a man of a certain status. Lower men get nothing. Higher men get alot. Obviously. At that point they start a family the women raises the man protects. Together they love. But lower ranked men never get to love. Those are your rapists (50 year old virgin men desperate for love). Not the fake ones at college, or in a bar thats girls make up
For me it isn´t even fine line, it is a very bold one. I probaby would be never alone, if I wished so. However, a relationship, that bases on sexual intercourse is not a relationship worth the effort. I can masturbate to compensate that desire. Intercourse with people I don´t love deeply doesn´t feel any good for me. I hate it. I actually am disgusted by the naked body of someone i am gonna have sex with, but don´t love. I have had sex under both premises - being in love with the other and not. Sex without love is like masturbating to a really bad porn. I have the opinion, that doing it under the premise, that we don´t love eachother, is "making love" for the sake of being "loveable". But it is as I early mentioned, it is a fallacy of category. Sex is not sexuall intercourse in the real sense, it is masturbation with helping hands and a false sense of love. Maybe I am to much against our "animal instincts" here, but in the end love is a thoughtful thing as "never give up" mentioned (unfortunately, i don´t know his real name) - a connection between souls and nothing that cares about physical matters. I would rather share the night with someone i love, than have sex a hundreds of times in the unsatisfying manner of being not in love.
I should mention, that the viewpoint i explained is ideal. It is not possible to drop off physical appearance totally. It is due our physical reducability of life, that we cannot escape the animal instincts. For example and like he mentioned, there are studies that link attractive appearance with a loads of favorable situations in live, even in situations, where appearance is not the slightest of importance. And this is where the tragedy begins. Although we live in an era of the mind, we cannot turn off the fact, that we are intelligent monkeys and our evolutionary development as a species includes the premise, that ugliness is linked to disease. We actually live in a society which makes living under all conditions possible, but our evolutionary developted mind, lags behind. So that rudimentary link is left behind and hinders our sheer mentally well-being.
Holy shit, you should wite a book. You have a lot to say. I think your voice is great and your story is compelling. I can’t remember when I watched a whole 30 minutes of someone talking. I hope the best for you and I look forward to watching a couple more videos when your time comes. People will be toxic, but most of us in this comment section want you to succeed.
The tough part is that this guy has so bought into the negative narrative that people have sold him that he probably can't accept a genuine compliment like the fact that he's got a good voice.
@@omarkhamis523 it is above beta. Beta is kind of a bitch and Alpha is more of a king. The Omega is usually the more low key part of the pack (but is not beta) Omegas are typically nerdy/self aware/smart and usually does not care about being an Alpha because they know what theyre own strength and weaknesses are. They are important to the pack because they are very logical and observant of what happens around the pack and takes what he sees to use to their own advantage or the advantage of the pack
"Real love is something that is kind of forgotten today. It's where someone means so much to you that without you knowing, they kinda slip into your mind and when they're in your mind in a certain way, it can sometimes slip down into your soul and if the person you're feeling this for feels the same way for you, then you're kind of making a bond where both of your souls are connected into one. Two people become a pair and a whole, where one can't function without the other."
you're not that ugly, also you are very inteligent and articulate. I'm sorry about all the bad things you experienced because of your appearance, hope you find happiness and good people in your life.
"You're not THAT ugly," So you're still calling him ugly. That's pretty fucked up. He's not ugly at all. He may not be the best looking man on the planet but he's not ugly.
@@cellblocknine5385 You gotta remember these are people that spend all day on instagram jerking each other off about appearances and use phrases like "booty goals" lmao. What's valued to them isn't by others. Usually have no hobbies, barely able to read and by the time they're old all that plastic surgery is failing but they're still riding easy off that social media money. I don't see any history books about "beautiful people that achieved absolutely nothing but taking selfies".
@@raysgameplays In my opinion he's not ugly. He looks absolutely normal. Not like a Greek god but not ugly either. Not everyone has your standards for looks, so calling someone retarded or dishonest just because you disagree with them is..well..pretty retarded.
Your description of real love is beautiful and the kind of connection I have always been searching for. You are very intelligent and insightful, a really high emotional intelligence.
ChrisS82 yea but the difference between urs and his channel is his video had over 1million views. Talking about his problems. I’m not feeding him lies I’m just saying that his way to fame is through you tube and he should start taking UA-cam seriously
@Terrorists Win you don't know me or my heart. Idc to look like a "good" person I care to BE a good person. To show the love of Jesus Christ because THAT'S what's in my heart.
Dont lie, sure he can optimize his looks by working out, by clothes etc. but he is limited to the looks he gained thru his genes. Nobody can fix his genes, this is a cruel reality.
This guy has such a sweet, pure soul. After all he has been through with bullies he could easily be angry and hateful but he isn’t. A beautiful soul is worth so much more than a beautiful face - that fades.
Perhaps you can start a podcast. Even when you forget what you’re talking about for some reason I still keep listening and don’t skip. There’s not a lot of people who have that talent.
Dude you’re such a likeable person. Obviously I don’t know you personally, but just from watching 2 videos alone, I can tell right off the bat that you’re just a down-to-earth guy that’s just pure and real. Those are great qualities man. A lot of people lack that actually; At least from my experience. Dude just start eating better, hit the gym, and just take care of yourself again! Change comes from within man! Much love dude.
Loveshades 41 it’s his face thats unattractive, so how the fuck does any of that advice help exactly? My pal Stephen ripped to hell, is slightly better looking than this guy and do you want me to give you his number so you can ask how he feels & how much female attention he gets?!?!? Go to the gym the mating call of the ugly people.
Ryan Greig I never once told him to do these things for female attention. Fuck that. These are things he should be doing for himself. I shared personal insight that has worked for me in the past that’s helped me feel more fulfilled and satisfied with my life. People should at least attempt to share and accept insights from each other because there is some value in these contributions. Looks are subjective, and apparently the majority genuinely think he’s ugly (primarily his face). You can claim I’m full of shit or whatever, but I don’t think his face is that ugly. I guess I’m part of the 5% that thinks he’s not bad looking. Needs some work? Yes. But to say that hitting the gym, eating right, switching up your style, being more hygienic, and learning to be more confident in yourself doesn’t improve your overall look is a load of crap. I’ve seen many guys that have none of those qualities score at least a couple women. It’s quite surprising, but true. I know it can be discouraging, but you have to shift the focus from love and women to building yourself up and finding solace in being alone. It builds character because you have nobody to face but yourself. You become more self-aware and confident in yourself as a person. Confidence and self-love alone is curative.
"In the end, we are all just one big screwed up family". I have NEVER heard something more smart or more accurate than this. I legit will rember this quote for the rest of my life. Btw. You are an amazing human
I lost my right leg at birth. I did not learn to walk until I was 3. By the time I started kindergarten, I was teased and bullied quite often. My father forced me to fight my bullies, if I did not fight back he would beat my ass. This led to a semi violent childhood where I was in the receiving end of a beat down several times. EVERY time I would fight, I would feel guilty regardless of the outcome, this led to an Ulcer at the age of 20. When I reached 21, I had enough of that violent crap and started using my voice to fight back. I learned from this I am pretty quick witted and this was much better than a bloody nose or black eye. I know for fact that many do not see me as attractive. I walk with a limp and missing limbs freaks some people out. I am ok with this, I attact females with my personality. Most men who look great are very depressed when they age and the looks disappear, but you and I will always have our character, that will never fade. I leave you with one quetion. What would you rather have, extremely good looks, or not so great looks, yet you would rescue a child from a burning house? For me, I pick the ladder. Stay cool my friend. Learn to love who you are, now what you look like.
@@mariagracia1064 You would pick the good looking... Wtf man. Those children that you didn't save because they weren't good looking, could have potential in this life, that's just messed up fam.
Omg I wish I had a friend like you in my life who is so wholesome. It feels like a breath of fresh air. You're so honest and real and it makes me feel better about the things I've gone through in my life too. I was insanely misunderstood and hurt lots of times and I struggle with my own confidence. I'm just proud that you are still gentle and a kind person after everything you've been through. It's so easy to get bitter and mean but you're such a good person, even still.
You are very nice to listen to, you seem very intelligent. I really wish you all the best and keep doing whatever makes you happy, because that's the main thing life is about!
Tulpar Kül Tigin Tengrikut so a woman’s only possible way to help/support a man is to immediately date him/give herself up ? you have a dated and weird view of friendship/moral support exceeding the barriers of gender lol
@@morningdew27 Way to miss the point. No, that's not whatsoever what was mentioned. Not even close. The point is that a woman is willing to be supportive of the dude and writing positive comments on his feedback. But, if she were IRL, and she were asked out by this dude that she "loves seeing", she would reject him, hard. That's the point. I understand that Jasmines intentions are good, but let's be honest here she wouldn't poke him with a 10 mile metal stick in real life.
Just start small, get a haircut. Try some new glasses, the outdated frames aren't really helping. Try the black 'hipster' style frames instead. Stop dressing like a teenager. Those years are over. Go out and buy some dress shirts, hell go and get a 3 piece suit. Baggy clothes will always make you look bad. Try to be more athletic, pushups and running will go a long way. Only after you've done all of that should you even think about surgical intervention. I really think the only thing could possibly be your teeth/jaw. but you're actually lucky because that can be explained away as a necessary medical procedure. Have you actually checked it with a dentist? it could be that it really is necessary.
Thank you for having the courage to talk so openly and honestly about these things. A lot of people on UA-cam and social media are just extremely fake...but your content is just so pure, like this video is too good for this world. I'm not really sure what I'm trying to get at but I'm glad that you are never going to give up. We need more people like you in the world, people who are honest and understand things beyond a superficial level.
Your channel is amazing and inspirational. I love your long hair and your style. People with classical good looks are the most boring people in the world. You are quirky and different and that makes you attractive. Keep making the videos they are brilliant xxx
I have so much respect for you. You seem like a very kind person and your determination is inspiring. I sincerely hope that you can find happiness and everything you're looking for. Thank you for making these videos.
People like you can make people humble. (Like my self) so i thank you. You're not ugly, you look normal and Worthy of love. All the best in the future. The universe has something special for you 👍🏽
I really like watching your videos. It makes me happy to see that there are still guys like you that looks way past the appearance and looks more into the soul. However I would like to point out that there are girls out there (me included) that don't have these astronomically high standards of men. Heck, I even loved an ugly guy (we both ugly) and he still managed to abuse me in many ways and cheated behind my back for more than a year. Like you've said, men and women are different but we're all human. We all have the same problem, well somehow. Deep inside, we all just want to love and be loved. I hope you'll feel better soon :)
You still found a date/ went out/ had sex ( i assume). While it sucks you were cheated, what he experiences is the complete inability to even do that. I will go out on a limb and say that wasn't your only boyfriend and, while that is fine, you have to admit that that is a completely different experience.
Keep making videos. You will gain more exposure so you will reach more people. Through these videos you will increase your chances of finding someone like you. You are a good guy and you deserve love just like everybody else.
Honestly, you're not all that bad looking. Like, for real. You look like a nerd but some people don't have a problem with that. You kinda look like young John Carmack. Really only extremely shallow people have standards like "my man needs to be big and muscular and personality doesn't matter". Just meet with female friends and some of them might date you. You seem like a very introverted guy and I can relate, but at some point the loneliness is gonna get really bad if you don't try to meet new people. And fuck growing a beard, you don't need one.
What games do you like to play? Thank you so much for this video! I watch all you videos. Please take all the time you need to take care of yourself because that’s most important!
Forget the materialistic touch ups. What you need my man is a passion. Whenever I felt low, I just turned to boxing, something I really love. As long as you put energy into something, positive energy will come back to you and self-gratification will come.
@@acgillespie violence is a fact of life, is in all the contest... boxe is a sport, is good and makes feel people good, but attitude Is not all that matter in seduction.
Mate, I think the only thing that is mega problematic in terms of your appearance is your recessed jaw. I think if you got jaw surgery (a very common procedure), you'd instantly become much more attractive, as it would bring your chin forward. You may also want to consider jawline implants. But I think that's as far as I'd go in terms of any plastic surgery, and that the rest is very much within your control. You should try rocking a different shorter hairstyle, because the long, greasy look isn't very appealing. Also, I see there are a lot of blemishes on your skin. Consider starting a skincare regimen, with regular moisturiser, sunscreen and retinoid applications. And for goodness sake, lose the glasses and get contacts. If you can't wear contacts, then get something more hip/stylish, as your current specs are the type typically worn by middle aged men. Finally, if you want to grow a beard, consider using minoxidil. It's typically used to prevent male pattern baldness, but can also be applied to the face to stimulate facial hair growth. You seem like a genuinely nice person, who strives to remain positive in life. Keep up with that mindset, whilst taking what I say into account :) I wish you the best of luck!
NICE JOB! This is what we need I'm tired of these low lives in the comments saying "whattt? What's wrong with your looks?" "You actually look great!" Like stop lying and give him some real advice
@@meganhey2582 Yeah, it's sad that so many people live in denial to the fact that looks do matter, to a very significant extent. Fortunately for this guy there are practical steps he can take to improve his appearance, which despite costing a bit of money, are easily achievable and will prove to be a great investment in the long run. I truly wish him the best, and can't imagine he'll be held back given his realistic attitude.
SpicyMeat Entertainment There’s also testosterone therapy - which could help with his beard and possibly his jaw. He’s said before that he has been diagnosed with low T. He may not even need invasive surgery, but perhaps just some orthodontics to correct an overbite. I don’t have any personal experience with the jaw/bite problem and I’m no doctor, so I couldn’t say why exactly the problem is there. One thing at a time. He seems like he’s on the right track. Good to see him wearing the back brace. That’s so important - correct spine issues ASAP or it won’t be long before you’re in agony every day. I don’t think he needs to lose he hair or glasses though. I think that’s a personal preference and I think those particular things look good. I even like his nose which he’s expressed distaste for before. We’re all our own worst critics, huh?
When we get old everyone looses their good looks in the end that’s not what matters time strips is of our looks and we are left with our personalities. You have a great one from what I can see. I hope that later in life you find your person ❤
you are just the nicest person there is, man! i hope you improve and learn and progress in the ways you plan to / want to. Best Love my brother, never feel lonely we will unite eventually and be spilled back out together (life death circle). no matter how little amounts of people you touch in real life, you touch houndreds of thousands easily with your Videos, and thats just one small part of your life(time). You've done great and will do great! you are awesome! :)
It’s not that easy. Think about it what is there to do with 0 physical and mental motivation as well as 0 interaction and love and on top of that your depressed. There is no one real telling you that you have done good or bad.
@@yungangsty Don´t make yourself depending. It just twists the fact, that in the end it is you, who made the change! I already tried to change a person I loved, but this person rejected, incapsulated witin itself and left in the agony of overwhelming self-hatred. Don´t resigne, focus on the things that do not depend on others - since they always could retreat and the consequence is being alone with yourself...
Not everybody here is watching because they are in a similar position you know... I think it's important that you realize that some of us see that you have got a strong voice and a bright soul. That is were your true potential lies. There is something out there simply waiting for you to translate that energy into and when you do, you *will* move people.
I really enjoy listening to your story. I've gone through some shit recently too and it's good to hear that there are also some real people out on UA-cam. Keep going, greetings from Germany !
Never Give Up. Hello! It makes me so sad to know what you are going through and the things people say to you. You are good enough the way that you are! I feel your pain. I struggle every day with low self-esteem, depression and never feeling good enough. If you ever want to talk to me, you are more than welcome to.
well, think you got me abit wrong. I Feel good enough, and I actualy would love to be with someone who things and works even looks similarly to me, I don't rly have any issues with myself. Problem is other people don't find interest in me due to my looks.. Anyway, im here if u want to talk aswell =), my discord is on my channel somewear
@@NeverGiveUp-Main I am sorry about that. I am glad you feel good enough the way that you are. :) I think you're a very attractive man. I would be with you if given the chance. I would like to get to know you more. You have a really big heart. I think it is awful the terrible advice that people give to you about changing yourself or buying different clothes, glasses, etc... Sounds good, although I am not sure how to send private messages through UA-cam. I am not sure if a person can even. Have a good Morning, Afternoon or Night. Not sure what time it is where you live. I hope to hear from you soon!
@@kacera1780 Thanks, shure we can talk more if you'd like to. Altho I don't really use social media.. I only got discord and skype, my discord is destru##9307 , feel free to dm me anytime =)
@@NeverGiveUp-Main You're welcome! I would like to talk more for sure. I don't have Skype or Discord, but I can download Discord once I get enough space on my phone. I have used up almost all 64 GB on this phone. Now it won't let me install any apps. Thank you for writing me back. :D
I've never been on a date before (20 years old). I've never had the confidence to do so. Although no one has ever actually put me down which i am blessed for, I've put myself down to such a point that I have no motivation left, just sadness and loneliness.
i am the same. i had a thing with 2 girls, but that was only online. i was in love, but i know that i would have never had the courage to actually meet them in real life, even though the relationship i had with them was amazing. since the last relationship was over i have no motivation to do anything, no passion, no interests besides music and video games. when i am not sad, i feel dead inside. i am lonely all the time.
Same. For 20 years I didn’t date. I’m currently 22. I did date someone before turning 21 and it was not good. It’s like those awkward first. I heard it before but I didn’t think it would happen to me 🤔. I mostly dated the guy because I was pressured by my family, friends. I thought he was cute and smart. But we just weren’t it. So my advise is don’t rush let it happen naturally. And don’t just go for it because of the looks. Personality really matters.
dude, you have discovered a niche that millions of people can empathize with. take it all the way to the bank. choose your video theme, write your dcript beforehand and become a celebrity. you could do it in 6 months. 3 videos a week. you can do it.
u just described love in the most perfect way that ive been trying to verbally express but havent been able to until hearing ur description of it.....absolutley beautiful
I have to disagree, I think having and consistently wearing nice clothes makes you more attractive in general. People don't really seem to get this and will just wear whatever, but it's a HUGE step in the right direction. Get nice, well fitting clothes that aren't too flashy. I go with a simple black fitted tshirt or v-neck and some jeans. Simple is often better until you really get to know yourself and your style, which will just happen over time. Not only do nicer clothes make you come off as more attractive, they are also a decent confidence boost. Another thing is cologne and deodorant, and just general hygiene. Shower every day, shampoo and conditioner every 2-3 days. Brush your teeth, floss, maybe mouthwash, put on some nice clothes, and then some cologne and deodorant and that goes a LONG way both in your general attractive-ness and just self confidence. Do this every day. Haircut as well. You can even keep the long hair, just go to a stylist and get it touched up, maybe put in some layers or something to make it look less matty and more trimmed and up kept. Just maintaining a nice haircut; short or long, will also go a long way. As for the glasses, there isn't much you can do if you've tried the other options. There are like 5 basic frames and generally you want to pick one that suits your face shape. Also size, if you have a smaller face you want smaller glasses. Next thing is posture and exercise. It seems like you're working on your posture and exercising, which is good, the only thing I can add is to start and maintain a good diet. A lot of people think dieting is only for fat people, but that just ain't so. You can diet to put on more weight as well, or to help cut off body fat percentage, etc. I'm personally dieting to put on weight, I'm around 150-155 and I'm aiming for 175-180. For my height (6'0) and the body I'm trying to achieve through working out, that's a pretty good weight range to be and I'm working towards it. Another thing; make sure you're doing the right kind of exercises. Some people will say they exercise when in reality they go for a 20 minute jog once a day. This is not bad; if you're trying to cut back on weight or trim up a little, this is a good place to start, but that's all it is. A start. At the end of the day, you seem really stuck on your face. I admit, these things aren't going to change the way your face looks, except maybe working out. But does that mean you shouldn't do them? Absolutely not. Drill these things into your day to day and you will come out a better and more generally attractive person for it. The face may be a pretty big thing when it comes to how attractive you are, but it's not the be all end all. Not only will the things I've mentioned here help you look more attractive, it will build your confidence; to varying degrees but it will happen nonetheless. All in all, though, I wish you the best of luck. I hope you will take at least some of my advice and I hope that at least something here helps you or someone else. I'm not the most attractive person, but these things have definitely helped me.
you’re right. I wouldn’t really look twice at someone out wearing sweats. I find people look at me more when I am clean and well dressed and vice versa.
Exactly, how u look no matter if you are beautiful or not into the standard of the society, if you dont look clean, if your hair are messy and dont smell nice, it's not going to help. A guy who care about his appearance is important. I'm not saying you have to become obsessed with it, but for sure, it will change your relation with the people and the woman.
Your “being ugly” video & follow up just popped up on my feed, (5yrs later) & I just want to say, what a truly original video & amazing young person. You do not need cosmetic surgery or anything else. You have a unique look & a very wonderful, honest & original personality. Also there are many so called beautiful people in this world & they do not have good relationships & many people are lonely these days, & now I see you have a lovely new friend but either way, one thing you can always do is love & look after & respect & take care of & be good to yourself. And you don’t have to listen to people who tell you to grow a beard or dress different or make more videos until you want to or change one Amazing thing about your whole Amazing self.., & I love the title of your channel.. "Never Give Up"..
"this guy gets my respect because he gave up hope, and unlike these other men, he doesn't try to better himself in any way" That's precisely summarizing what you just said
@@herculesbrofister265 It seems like he is trying to better himself. He just doesn't "hope" in being significantly more physically attractive. He's learning self-acceptance. The only bettering yourself that matters is spiritually.
@@herculesbrofister265 That's not a precise summary at all. That's you strawmanning him because you disagree with him, but you aren't mentally capable of coming up with an actual argument.
your jawline looks alot better than before in the other video i forgot what the title was i think it was like "whats it like being ugly" video. it looks alot more defined. keep it up man!!
I see a lot of me in you. I'm a narcissist and my friend once said "You look the way you look, get past it". I don't tell many people this, but i spend a lot of time looking at myself in the mirror. Much more than any normal person, I think about all the time I have wasted just looking at myself and think "I could have done something productive". I am 21 years old now and I have never had a girlfriend or even a kiss because I am so self obsessed. I never went to any high school dances, skipped prom. I just couldnt be bothered to go. Every female I become friendly with calls me handsome, cute, hot etc. but they seem like a waste of time to me. I have heard these compliments for so long, at this point I am numb. Despite this, I have been insecure about my nose for 7-8years and I went through my second nose job 1 month ago; I am still healing. The doctor said he has done everything he could do to achieve what I want and it still doesn't look right to me. You talk about constantly pushing your jaw forward, I constantly flex my jaw You say your nose is bulky, mine was aswell and I still think it is "Cool dude, so what?" We are similar because we both dwell on our looks and spend time acknowledging it. Good looks doesn't give me secret powers, I'm no sex machine and I don't want to be. And good looks most certainly does not imply confidence. Some people have to get bad genes, the same way someone has to get cancer and someone has to grow up in a broken home. Life is sorrow, life is tragedy. For me, that is fact. You look the way you look, nothing will majorly change that. We both need to stop focusing so much on our looks because what does it bring us? Suffering if anything.
Well put. Narcissism is a serious problem that is not your fault inherited by parents who are unable to be vulnerable. It can be changed but not until it is recognized for what it is, weakness. True strength comes from caring more about what you think of yourself than what others think of you. It is the only way to have true thoughtful actions and motivations outside of impressing others. Having your life dictated by others is what beta males do, even if you make it look good on the surface as narcissists often times do.
Kinda funny i was diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder and also iam still a LITTLE BIT self conscoius About my Looks. I was bullied in highschool, i was never insulted bc of my Looks but i Always thought ist my main Problem. I dont Need admiration for my "good Looks unlike you. So ist more of a Thing for myself and i feel like if i dont look good in this world iam a target for possible abuse.And iam tired of fighting…. .
Man I have your same problem. I am a fucking narcisist. Sometimes I feel an urge to look at a mirror just too see myself is absurd. I rant that I have not a girlfriend but at the same time i have so many occasions to have one, but I keep turning them down because of, I think, superiority complex. It fucking sucks to be narcisistics because often I can't even control it..
@@gaddus7549 Anytime I walk by a mirror I look at myself 100% of the time, sometimes I will just stop and stare. I try to keep it brief as to not look like a complete asshole, although, sometimes I get sad and think "If I didn't have looks what would I value in myself?". Getting old and wrinkled scares the absolute shit out of me. Yes, the superiority complex is definitely the leading factor steering me away from relationships. Always thinking "I'm better without them", even though I fully acknowledge that 21 years without allowing someone in enough for a kiss is strange and unusual. My friends think it is, my mom thinks it is, my family thinks it is. I would say that I care more about this than I ever have before, and it is increasing. But it is still not enough for me to do anything about it and may not be for a long time. Perhaps it is because my father cheated on my mother after 21 years of marriage (when I was 15), It all seems like a waste to me, my mother often talks about how she wasted her golden years with a man leading a double life behind her back.
You guys are not the same at all. This guy has the actual problem of not looking good. And if you are telling the truth, you have some mental disorder and you should get help (not offense).
Brother, good souls are out there. You won't find them in your bedroom playing video games. I know you need an escape and video games provide a great distraction, but please invest in yourself more, learn more, get into shape. You may have health problems but you seem well enough to go jogging and do some pushups. You will thank yourself in a year's time if you exercise regularly. The more you invest in yourself, the more you will start taking small steps in being social IRL, and that is where you will find good souls. Please take care of yourself and the rest will come in its own time. Much love. :)
my health issues are troubble breathing and cronicall illness ( feeling of constantly needing to throw up ). Thise two combined ruin most of my exersize rutines.. So, no its not that easy.. Waiting on medical examinations atm. Thinking positively tho =)
@@NeverGiveUp-Main What does your diet consist of? Are you eating plenty of nutrient-dense greens, nuts and seeds? I recommend spending half an hour just googling "most nutrient rich foods", it's a cliché at this point but there is a reason people always say that a healthy diet is key. Spinach, oranges, almonds, chickpeas, broccoli, all of that good stuff.
8:44 not fitting into a broken sick world is the healthiest thing one can be. 9:35 i feel you 1000%. A girl with no heart is nothing but a burden. Not a gift but poison. A girl you can sit with comfortably in silence is golden. No anxiety. No worries. Calm content. Enjoying being. Just being. Vibing. Appreciating just being near your inner hearts mirror. Reflecting connecting. Before one can truly love. And be together. One must learn to be alone. Content with self. Connected and in-tune with the heart
i respect you soo much...im not sure if youll see this but just stay on the grind, my guy; also remember that any muscular issue can be fixed, most of those dating vids on yt are one-case basis garbage and that (from what im seeing in your vids) youre an interesting, chill dude. keep doin what youre doing, man.
I could relate you too much bro, like you, I am unacttractive guy too, and i experienced of what you have experienced, by the way I am a Filipino, maybe we have different culture but this kind of problem is common to all of those people who experiencing of this kind of problem, I alway feel insecure to my friends and any guy who are attractive, everytime I saw girls flirting with them, smiling with them, enjoying conversation with them, while those girls treat me opposite. I feel annoyed, I'm getting mad, but I always pretend to everyone that I'm fine and happy. I'm very eager to feel of how to be happy, how's the feeling that someone likes you, someone that wants you, someone wants to hug and kiss you and someone will loves you, as she attracted in you and loves you as being you because all my life I've always rejecting with girls because I am very very ugly.. many people adviced me that "you have to dress nice" "you need to have a good haircut" "you have shave your beard, etc. But as you said, it really doesn't matter, maybe a girl appreciates you for a while, but its not guarantee that she will going to fall inlove with you already, its always about, how she attracted with your face.. I heard many many advice and I followed but not effective... Now, i know what I want and I know what is the solution, "PLASTIC SURGERY"... maybe it is an artificial and different from if you are good looking by nature, but i think it brings possitive response atleast, and there's no other best remedy than this. My problem is I can't afford plastic surgery right now, as a surgeon recommended of what kind of surgery appropriate to me it costs more or less 10,000 dollars, that's why I'm working hard to raise money to afford with that.. I don't want to advise you bro, because I know it can't help, even me can't help myself, I just only want to express my feelings and experience, similar as you, and I would like you to be my friend. I'm sorry for my grammar i'm not quite good in english
dude, the first step is to being to love yourself, the problem is with plastic surgery, sure it can make you look better, but if your mind isnt in the right place, you will never feel attractive. Instead of doing shit so other people like you, do it for yourself being to lift, its really helps. if you have problem with your jaw and other facial stuff before plastic surgery, look into orthotropics and mewing.
Man i think you are very brave and honest. I hope you find a good girlfriend that takes you for who you are. Also i honestly don't think you look that bad. I wish you all the luck, you are deserving, smart guy and i bet women appreciate your honesty and that youre a good talker. Never give up bro!.
I know this was four years ago, but you seem like such a genuine and amazing person! I've been watching your videos and have absolutely fallen in love with you! You have a kind and sweet soul and anyone that tries to take away your spark can F themselves! Love you so much and God bless!
Seems like a nice guy. I'm still amazed and confused by the first video though. He said something like 400-500 girls rejected him when he was 15-17. I'm not sure I've even talked to that many people in my life at 27 years old. Good luck with your search.
thank you so much for sharing. it is really interesting to hear your experience. I like you're thoughts on love and think everyone would benefit from more of your mindset on love.
You got to build confidence bro. Learn to take care of yourself. Start with getting a haircut, exercise/workout, and eat more. Focus on yourself and your wellbeing.
He's so pure. I also admire he's not bitter or mad
That struck me too. He has none of the bitterness or anger that most guys in his situation exhibit. Instead, he's developed this incredible empathy and understanding of the human condition. The world would be an infinitely better place if we could all learn to be a little more like him.
When you're truly ugly you won't be bitter because there's no use. It's only these fake "incels" who aren't even ugly they're just shitty people who are bitter.
Just because he doesn't express bitterness doesn't mean he isn't bitter. I feel bitter sometimes about some things but I don't express it to others
I am dissapointed and bitter.. But the one thing im more than those two feelings are Positiveness and understanding :)
@TheSwoleBroscientist I dont like sleeping with random people, so i would probebly turn it down even if that was the case xD
If you ever write a book, I'll make sure to read it.
gr8 idea!
Notes from beneath the underground
Voolcan it’s a good way to make money and be less unfortunate, but he has to believe he can do that first.
Me too
Me too
I like hearing him talk lol, it’s soothing
Niko Nikeau asmr
Yyeaah
Agreed
The Swedish accent is sing song ish, it's very serene
Sameee I find his voice very pleasing to listen to , it's nice for me to hear his voice bc usually on YT all I hear are annoying loud guys or the same monotoned low voice guys
Your biggest super power is that you are able to speak out. Lot's of cocky people in the comment section will be quick to give you advice but when it comes to their own lives, they can't even be honest with themselves. You do it effortlessly, naturally and eloquently. You are not only honest with yourself, you are honest with the world by speaking about your insecurities - which we ALL have. Carry your wounds with pride young lad. At least you are not fake.
:)
well said
The best thing about your comment is the grammar; I hate it when people have terrible grammar.
@@legendarymonkey503 TRUUEEEEEE
@@legendarymonkey503 Right! It's a pet peeve of mine.
In your video you said that you dont really take care of your appearance because there is no point since you don't date. But take care of yourself for you ! Do what it takes for YOU to feel good and confident about yourself. It is important we start loving ourselves before we love someone else and when ull less expect it love will hit you hard ! You are not ugly, i think you just gave up abit on yourself.
What do you mean with "do what it takes for you to feel good"? Self-care is not self indulgence, self-care is NOT playing video games, watching movies, watching ASMR, etc.... Self-care is working out, eating healthy, doing actual work. You bitch..
@@Danuxsy what's YOUR problem? Gosh! She is perfectly right.
@@ssm445 I'm Chinese, idk what u just said, I dont kno english. .
@@Danuxsy You understood everything the lady said in multiple sentences but not that guy's 2 sentences?
Watch his other video, he did try.
Y’all can we blow this man up please ? Please show him love
I really care for him bro he is so pure
lack jack not the best choice of words
Blow him up haha I thought you were asking the ladies in the comments something quite different then haha. But yeah he seems like such a good person, we don't often see the vulnerable side of people these days especially on UA-cam. I've subscribed and will watch his channel for sure, I wanna follow his journey to hopefully finding love 😍💕
@@lillymai2428 I think that's what he meant haha.
Allah AKKBUR
"Real love is something that is kinda forgotten today, it's where someone means so much to you that w/o you knowing they slip into your mind and sometimes they can slip down into your soul, and if the other person feels the same way for you , you are kinda making a bond where both of your souls are connected into one "
DAMN dude that was deep
Soul isnt real
But yeah kind of that
And true also once that bond exist is like magic almost expect it's the real deal
He's a demisexual. It helps to provide a good base for solid relationships. Great connection is always a great context to start with. Mind you it's not similarities. It's connection. Very different.
@@Searizeel Wow I didn't know there was a word for that. I've been single for years and when I tell my friends I can't just bang some random woman even if she's a ten they think I'm insane. I literally, physically just can't unless I become emotionally attached.
He is the purest person i have seen online in such a long time. I really wish we could start a big friend group bc he talks about no one in his life but there are so many people here who will support him ❤️😢
saddie sinclaire yess I’m with you I’m so ugly!!!😞
Watch chris chan xD
wow.... just wow. i dont think ive EVER heard anyone discussing the spiritual aspect of romantic love. i am so invested in this you tube channel
yes I love this
I know right, I thought dam this guy totally gets it. I was in awe of his description of real love and having that true connection.
UA-cam*
@@tandem863 no. If everyone wants it, and tries properly to find it, it will happen.
Something id like to adress on the later part of this video:
What im trying to say is that girls and guys dont have it equaly. Most girls i have been in contact with that have dissablities/ or are socialy considered unatractive due to bad facial features or un-healthy weight etc, still have lots of guys interessted in them, while most unatractive guys never have anyone interessted in them.
Girls often have more options and if they would decide to go with their spiritual side/heart more and change views on things they could relatively fast/easy find a good partner to settle down with, while guys dont have that luxuary.
On the other hand, cause girls have this priviledge in life they often get harassed and hated on, (often) without any reasson, they also stuggle with friends and sutch while unatractive guys often can find friends and happiness in other things, Life and gender have its own perks and ups/downs. Thats all i was trying to say, and ofc its different for most people.
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Anyway personaly i have had options to meet people and get dates and sutch, i have decided to turn most of them down.
If i was dessperate for fysical love and just not beeing alone i would had stayed with my ex. What i want is to be happy, and the only way i could ever be happy is
by sharing my life with someone who spiritualy is on the same level as me. Sadly not many people are that nowdays since society/humanity is slowly reverting back into
a primal state of life where genes, status and sutch are the only things that madder. And a good soul is just something in the past.
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Anyway, who you may be or what ever reasson you watch my videos, guys/girls, atractive people or people who are rejected by society, all of you i wish happiness and that
you find true love.
Im here for all of you who need to talk or express yourself.
I feel your agony bro, I see myself in you, we have the same situation and feelings. I wish for your hapiness too bro. I hope that later on we find our hapiness and solution to our problem. Sorry for my bad english
@@johncrow2852 your more then wellcome to add my discord and talk to me, its in one of my video descriptions i think :P
Naturally all women are born with the right to mate.
Natutally not all men get to mate.
Women are similar in status.
Men have a significant status system.
Essentially men fight, and conquer to earn a status. The women pick a man of a certain status. Lower men get nothing. Higher men get alot. Obviously. At that point they start a family the women raises the man protects. Together they love. But lower ranked men never get to love. Those are your rapists (50 year old virgin men desperate for love). Not the fake ones at college, or in a bar thats girls make up
That's true because men have a higher sex drive. Essentially men will fuck anything. I put images on Tinder of a sex doll and got hundreds of matches.
You’d be surprised. I once went on a date and had a guy use his car door to block me from giving him a hug goodbye.
WE support YOU
Where is the oh yeah yeah ?
Oh year yeah
Wii U
Oh yeah yeah Oh yeah yeah
Why does everyone have that profile picture?
"there's a fine line between getting love and getting laid. Most people don't see that."
Damn dude I'd study in your class man :')
For me it isn´t even fine line, it is a very bold one. I probaby would be never alone, if I wished so. However, a relationship, that bases on sexual intercourse is not a relationship worth the effort. I can masturbate to compensate that desire. Intercourse with people I don´t love deeply doesn´t feel any good for me. I hate it. I actually am disgusted by the naked body of someone i am gonna have sex with, but don´t love. I have had sex under both premises - being in love with the other and not. Sex without love is like masturbating to a really bad porn. I have the opinion, that doing it under the premise, that we don´t love eachother, is "making love" for the sake of being "loveable". But it is as I early mentioned, it is a fallacy of category. Sex is not sexuall intercourse in the real sense, it is masturbation with helping hands and a false sense of love. Maybe I am to much against our "animal instincts" here, but in the end love is a thoughtful thing as "never give up" mentioned (unfortunately, i don´t know his real name) - a connection between souls and nothing that cares about physical matters. I would rather share the night with someone i love, than have sex a hundreds of times in the unsatisfying manner of being not in love.
I should mention, that the viewpoint i explained is ideal. It is not possible to drop off physical appearance totally. It is due our physical reducability of life, that we cannot escape the animal instincts. For example and like he mentioned, there are studies that link attractive appearance with a loads of favorable situations in live, even in situations, where appearance is not the slightest of importance. And this is where the tragedy begins. Although we live in an era of the mind, we cannot turn off the fact, that we are intelligent monkeys and our evolutionary development as a species includes the premise, that ugliness is linked to disease. We actually live in a society which makes living under all conditions possible, but our evolutionary developted mind, lags behind. So that rudimentary link is left behind and hinders our sheer mentally well-being.
Holy shit, you should wite a book. You have a lot to say. I think your voice is great and your story is compelling. I can’t remember when I watched a whole 30 minutes of someone talking. I hope the best for you and I look forward to watching a couple more videos when your time comes. People will be toxic, but most of us in this comment section want you to succeed.
The tough part is that this guy has so bought into the negative narrative that people have sold him that he probably can't accept a genuine compliment like the fact that he's got a good voice.
I really hope you start doing better dude, I think your a cool guy.
What’s good with your profile picture bro
Baphomet, cmon get with the times join in the rebirth of the antichrist
I wish my friends were as honest as you.
Beeing honest takes alot of balls.. you are alpha in my book. 😎
Ja hann er thad. Hann er hetja!
Actually he is not even a beta. He is omega.
@@dwldrlzypq1617 the Hell is that
@@omarkhamis523 it is above beta. Beta is kind of a bitch and Alpha is more of a king. The Omega is usually the more low key part of the pack (but is not beta) Omegas are typically nerdy/self aware/smart and usually does not care about being an Alpha because they know what theyre own strength and weaknesses are. They are important to the pack because they are very logical and observant of what happens around the pack and takes what he sees to use to their own advantage or the advantage of the pack
@@K-TRAIN_MUSIC shit I think I'm an omega but a hot one
"Real love is something that is kind of forgotten today. It's where someone means so much to you that without you knowing, they kinda slip into your mind and when they're in your mind in a certain way, it can sometimes slip down into your soul and if the person you're feeling this for feels the same way for you, then you're kind of making a bond where both of your souls are connected into one. Two people become a pair and a whole, where one can't function without the other."
Sad it doesn’t really exist anymore if it does it’s so rare to find real love
@@speaktruth9989 it does ur just looking in the wrong places where only sex is glorified its fax
You are actually very genuine and inspiring. Don't lose that! :)
Why so you can friendzone him and sponge off of his genuine personality to feel good and not be bored? lmaoo
@@jeremydiaz5172 Excuse me what
@@johannah8560 like um idk what...
@@johannah8560 Just ignore him Johanna that guys a fuckin dickhead
@@jeremydiaz5172 You okay bro? just letting it out of your system?...
You inspire me to never give up
you're not that ugly, also you are very inteligent and articulate. I'm sorry about all the bad things you experienced because of your appearance, hope you find happiness and good people in your life.
I think that also - if he fixed his jaw and teeth he'd be quiet attractive. Lovely blue eyes and nice lips!
"You're not THAT ugly," So you're still calling him ugly. That's pretty fucked up. He's not ugly at all. He may not be the best looking man on the planet but he's not ugly.
Mister Justice oh yeah yeah
@@cellblocknine5385 You gotta remember these are people that spend all day on instagram jerking each other off about appearances and use phrases like "booty goals" lmao. What's valued to them isn't by others. Usually have no hobbies, barely able to read and by the time they're old all that plastic surgery is failing but they're still riding easy off that social media money. I don't see any history books about "beautiful people that achieved absolutely nothing but taking selfies".
@@raysgameplays In my opinion he's not ugly. He looks absolutely normal. Not like a Greek god but not ugly either. Not everyone has your standards for looks, so calling someone retarded or dishonest just because you disagree with them is..well..pretty retarded.
Your description of real love is beautiful and the kind of connection I have always been searching for.
You are very intelligent and insightful, a really high emotional intelligence.
Being rejected over ur personality is way worse than looks and that’s facts
Hoi Hoi i am awkard with everyone . In high school everyone loved me for that but in collège it’s not the same at all. That’s sucks i am who i am
Hoi Hoi Incel asf
@@hoihoi1473 Try be less the "cool guy"
Kinda true, but you can fake a personality, or change for the better. But with looks, you aren't changing mother nature at all.
Hoi Hoi Oh Yeah Yeah
I enjoy hearing you speak. Thank you for your videos :)
No, thank you for watching and taking the time of your day to listen =)
@@NeverGiveUp-Main you are great one Never Give Up!
Bro UA-cam is literally going to be your way of getting rich and fame. Just sayin
christopher draper right like you just get this feeling sometimes
ChrisS82 yea but the difference between urs and his channel is his video had over 1million views. Talking about his problems. I’m not feeding him lies I’m just saying that his way to fame is through you tube and he should start taking UA-cam seriously
i doubt it nobody wants to look at that everyday
@@danielballer1292 fuck you
Probably not. He might get $100 or $200 a year from his ad clicks if he turned them on. He hasn't turned ads on, though.
YOU are the perfect example of someone with a BEAUTIFUL soul and I truly mean that!!
@Roadhouse Bohdi I'm a Born Again Christian I don't do the whole "giving men a piece stuff" but thanks for your perverted idea.
@Roadhouse Bohdi We don't believe in premarital sex nice try. Why don't YOU mind your business....
@Roadhouse Bohdi A Born Again Christian church going man and I have one but thank you so much for the concern. God Bless You!
@Terrorists Win you don't know me or my heart. Idc to look like a "good" person I care to BE a good person. To show the love of Jesus Christ because THAT'S what's in my heart.
@Roadhouse Bohdi that beautiful soul only works with chad, her personality detector went off
dude you have so much potential just try it bro
Ben Dethaey Delusional.
Just try it = git gud.
Stop lying to him you hurt people way more by doing that
Dont lie, sure he can optimize his looks by working out, by clothes etc. but he is limited to the looks he gained thru his genes. Nobody can fix his genes, this is a cruel reality.
He said it. He tried it already and nothing worked.
This guy has such a sweet, pure soul. After all he has been through with bullies he could easily be angry and hateful but he isn’t. A beautiful soul is worth so much more than a beautiful face - that fades.
Perhaps you can start a podcast. Even when you forget what you’re talking about for some reason I still keep listening and don’t skip. There’s not a lot of people who have that talent.
Dude you’re such a likeable person. Obviously I don’t know you personally, but just from watching 2 videos alone, I can tell right off the bat that you’re just a down-to-earth guy that’s just pure and real. Those are great qualities man. A lot of people lack that actually; At least from my experience. Dude just start eating better, hit the gym, and just take care of yourself again! Change comes from within man! Much love dude.
Most people are ya know?.
Perfect advice
Loveshades 41 it’s his face thats unattractive, so how the fuck does any of that advice help exactly? My pal Stephen ripped to hell, is slightly better looking than this guy and do you want me to give you his number so you can ask how he feels & how much female attention he gets?!?!? Go to the gym the mating call of the ugly people.
That's what he said in this video... The:
"Hit the gym".
Ryan Greig I never once told him to do these things for female attention. Fuck that. These are things he should be doing for himself. I shared personal insight that has worked for me in the past that’s helped me feel more fulfilled and satisfied with my life. People should at least attempt to share and accept insights from each other because there is some value in these contributions. Looks are subjective, and apparently the majority genuinely think he’s ugly (primarily his face). You can claim I’m full of shit or whatever, but I don’t think his face is that ugly. I guess I’m part of the 5% that thinks he’s not bad looking. Needs some work? Yes. But to say that hitting the gym, eating right, switching up your style, being more hygienic, and learning to be more confident in yourself doesn’t improve your overall look is a load of crap. I’ve seen many guys that have none of those qualities score at least a couple women. It’s quite surprising, but true. I know it can be discouraging, but you have to shift the focus from love and women to building yourself up and finding solace in being alone. It builds character because you have nobody to face but yourself. You become more self-aware and confident in yourself as a person. Confidence and self-love alone is curative.
"In the end, we are all just one big screwed up family". I have NEVER heard something more smart or more accurate than this. I legit will rember this quote for the rest of my life. Btw. You are an amazing human
I’m not here to give you advice. I like your content.
THE BEST COMMENT.
It's great as both background noise and as a video you actually watch.
Yo man , need a hug ?
Everyone needs hugs. Humms need social contact
@@speaktruth9989 I'll take a free hug right now
I lost my right leg at birth. I did not learn to walk until I was 3. By the time I started kindergarten, I was teased and bullied quite often. My father forced me to fight my bullies, if I did not fight back he would beat my ass. This led to a semi violent childhood where I was in the receiving end of a beat down several times. EVERY time I would fight, I would feel guilty regardless of the outcome, this led to an Ulcer at the age of 20. When I reached 21, I had enough of that violent crap and started using my voice to fight back. I learned from this I am pretty quick witted and this was much better than a bloody nose or black eye.
I know for fact that many do not see me as attractive. I walk with a limp and missing limbs freaks some people out. I am ok with this, I attact females with my personality. Most men who look great are very depressed when they age and the looks disappear, but you and I will always have our character, that will never fade. I leave you with one quetion. What would you rather have, extremely good looks, or not so great looks, yet you would rescue a child from a burning house? For me, I pick the ladder. Stay cool my friend. Learn to love who you are, now what you look like.
@smalla weyhey11 SeEmS lEgIt.
I agree with you but with that example of saving the child I would pick the good look bc children are annoying
@@mariagracia1064 You would pick the good looking... Wtf man. Those children that you didn't save because they weren't good looking, could have potential in this life, that's just messed up fam.
@@mariagracia1064 So are a lot of adults, and you cannot put an adult in time out.
If your spelling of latter was intentional, that is quite witty.
Omg I wish I had a friend like you in my life who is so wholesome. It feels like a breath of fresh air. You're so honest and real and it makes me feel better about the things I've gone through in my life too. I was insanely misunderstood and hurt lots of times and I struggle with my own confidence. I'm just proud that you are still gentle and a kind person after everything you've been through. It's so easy to get bitter and mean but you're such a good person, even still.
You are very nice to listen to, you seem very intelligent. I really wish you all the best and keep doing whatever makes you happy, because that's the main thing life is about!
Love seeing you ❤ I'm praying for you and your health.
But you wouldnt date him, wouldnt you?
@@tulparkultigintengrikut8440 Nah, she would, she only wants to make her feel better.
Tulpar Kül Tigin Tengrikut so a woman’s only possible way to help/support a man is to immediately date him/give herself up ? you have a dated and weird view of friendship/moral support exceeding the barriers of gender lol
@@morningdew27 Way to miss the point. No, that's not whatsoever what was mentioned. Not even close. The point is that a woman is willing to be supportive of the dude and writing positive comments on his feedback. But, if she were IRL, and she were asked out by this dude that she "loves seeing", she would reject him, hard.
That's the point. I understand that Jasmines intentions are good, but let's be honest here she wouldn't poke him with a 10 mile metal stick in real life.
@@tulparkultigintengrikut8440 you don't need to date someone to be nice
Just get the AirPods dude
FACTS
Well sometimes people would be bitchy not verbally but also physically, for example girls who look at someone and laugh as way of mocking
@@shova6995 Obvious and off topic. Good4u
@@zeboy1959 explain
Samuel Gaber how tf was that suppose to help
Just start small, get a haircut.
Try some new glasses, the outdated frames aren't really helping. Try the black 'hipster' style frames instead.
Stop dressing like a teenager. Those years are over. Go out and buy some dress shirts, hell go and get a 3 piece suit. Baggy clothes will always make you look bad.
Try to be more athletic, pushups and running will go a long way.
Only after you've done all of that should you even think about surgical intervention. I really think the only thing could possibly be your teeth/jaw. but you're actually lucky because that can be explained away as a necessary medical procedure. Have you actually checked it with a dentist? it could be that it really is necessary.
doesnt need dress clothes. who actually wears suits outside of their profession
Joe Garth - “stop dressing like a teenager” xD. I’m 17 and i can tell you that this isnt how teens dress
Baggy clothes are bad? It's popular and looks great
Yep also i think its his tongue position thats why his mouth is like that i have the same habit too but im workibg on it
omg yes some actual helpful advice.
I'd love to be friends with this guy, seems like a genuine and nice dude.
Yes, same here.
bro never gave up and now he has what he was looking for. a true inspiration.
13:20, dude, that was deep as hell. You said it so simply but yet so meaningfull in a way I've never perceived before.
Best definition of “love” ive ever heard.
Although it may sound nice, Its complete BS. The soul doesn't exist.
@@Oxygen97 Even if you don't believe in a soul, you can substitute it as a bond, a connection. No need to be a pompous a**
Andy lost his soul probably :(
Swedes have depth, but can be notorious complainers.
Thank you for having the courage to talk so openly and honestly about these things. A lot of people on UA-cam and social media are just extremely fake...but your content is just so pure, like this video is too good for this world. I'm not really sure what I'm trying to get at but I'm glad that you are never going to give up. We need more people like you in the world, people who are honest and understand things beyond a superficial level.
I NEVER lost my virginity cause I never lose!!
And i Will never because im insecure about myself and ugly ;)
winning!!!!
But I lost one thing and it's the will to live
Lmao. That's a good one.
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Your channel is amazing and inspirational. I love your long hair and your style. People with classical good looks are the most boring people in the world. You are quirky and different and that makes you attractive. Keep making the videos they are brilliant xxx
This comment was so useless. Rip people with good looks.
I have so much respect for you. You seem like a very kind person and your determination is inspiring. I sincerely hope that you can find happiness and everything you're looking for. Thank you for making these videos.
People like you can make people humble. (Like my self) so i thank you. You're not ugly, you look normal and Worthy of love. All the best in the future. The universe has something special for you 👍🏽
Yeo tbh keeping your health in check will do wonders for you and thats including mental health 👌🔥 keep on fighting brotha 💪💪
I really like watching your videos. It makes me happy to see that there are still guys like you that looks way past the appearance and looks more into the soul.
However I would like to point out that there are girls out there (me included) that don't have these astronomically high standards of men. Heck, I even loved an ugly guy (we both ugly) and he still managed to abuse me in many ways and cheated behind my back for more than a year. Like you've said, men and women are different but we're all human. We all have the same problem, well somehow.
Deep inside, we all just want to love and be loved.
I hope you'll feel better soon :)
You still found a date/ went out/ had sex ( i assume). While it sucks you were cheated, what he experiences is the complete inability to even do that. I will go out on a limb and say that wasn't your only boyfriend and, while that is fine, you have to admit that that is a completely different experience.
"dated an ugly guy", so you obviously found him unnatractive
@@Zero-dh6xr 🤣
@@Zero-dh6xr well when u catch feelings for someone it dosent matter tbh but if u just mean objectifying sex then maybe LOL!!
Keep making videos. You will gain more exposure so you will reach more people. Through these videos you will increase your chances of finding someone like you. You are a good guy and you deserve love just like everybody else.
im always alone too....
Then leave your home more often
Same
@@the_notorious_bas no one wants to talk to a ugly fuck. Like no one.
Same but I prefer it, I know everyone locally so I know i'm not missing much.
@@themosthatedmanonyoutube1946 i will
The willpower of this man is on a level most people could almost never fathom
I don't even have the patience to listen to 15min math tutorials but i can sit down for 28mins to hear him talk
Honestly, you're not all that bad looking. Like, for real. You look like a nerd but some people don't have a problem with that. You kinda look like young John Carmack. Really only extremely shallow people have standards like "my man needs to be big and muscular and personality doesn't matter". Just meet with female friends and some of them might date you. You seem like a very introverted guy and I can relate, but at some point the loneliness is gonna get really bad if you don't try to meet new people. And fuck growing a beard, you don't need one.
Finally someone with some sense!!!
TheFinnishBolshevik COMRAADDDEEEEE
Crystal Munoz what’s ur Snapchat
BlueStormHD bro don’t ask her that Jesus the girl commenting on a video and first thing “what’s your snapchat” she won’t added you it’s creepy.
He is OBJECTIVELY unattractive. Stop giving him false hope.
What games do you like to play? Thank you so much for this video! I watch all you videos. Please take all the time you need to take care of yourself because that’s most important!
recently played thru dark souls 3, and now im allot into soul caliber 6/ cod4/ duel links and smite,
Thanks, you take good care of yourself aswell =)
@@NeverGiveUp-Main Dark Souls III is awesome. One is my personal favorite.
Forget the materialistic touch ups. What you need my man is a passion. Whenever I felt low, I just turned to boxing, something I really love. As long as you put energy into something, positive energy will come back to you and self-gratification will come.
Very good advice
@@XXSomeDudeXX bad advice
hitting other human beings is not something positive.. it creates injury's that destroy lives. Now shooting all the assholes that piss ya off maybe..
bad advice X2
@@acgillespie violence is a fact of life, is in all the contest... boxe is a sport, is good and makes feel people good, but attitude Is not all that matter in seduction.
You’re a sacred bean and I must protect you. 💕💕💕💕😭
Shut yo cute ass up 😴
😂
Lol straight 🧢
Cringe...
Oh look a patronising girl. What a surprise
When he speaks about love and what it means to have a relationship with someone...beautiful 🖤.
Mate, I think the only thing that is mega problematic in terms of your appearance is your recessed jaw. I think if you got jaw surgery (a very common procedure), you'd instantly become much more attractive, as it would bring your chin forward. You may also want to consider jawline implants. But I think that's as far as I'd go in terms of any plastic surgery, and that the rest is very much within your control.
You should try rocking a different shorter hairstyle, because the long, greasy look isn't very appealing. Also, I see there are a lot of blemishes on your skin. Consider starting a skincare regimen, with regular moisturiser, sunscreen and retinoid applications. And for goodness sake, lose the glasses and get contacts. If you can't wear contacts, then get something more hip/stylish, as your current specs are the type typically worn by middle aged men.
Finally, if you want to grow a beard, consider using minoxidil. It's typically used to prevent male pattern baldness, but can also be applied to the face to stimulate facial hair growth.
You seem like a genuinely nice person, who strives to remain positive in life. Keep up with that mindset, whilst taking what I say into account :) I wish you the best of luck!
NICE JOB! This is what we need
I'm tired of these low lives in the comments saying "whattt? What's wrong with your looks?" "You actually look great!" Like stop lying and give him some real advice
@@meganhey2582 Yeah, it's sad that so many people live in denial to the fact that looks do matter, to a very significant extent. Fortunately for this guy there are practical steps he can take to improve his appearance, which despite costing a bit of money, are easily achievable and will prove to be a great investment in the long run. I truly wish him the best, and can't imagine he'll be held back given his realistic attitude.
SpicyMeat Entertainment There’s also testosterone therapy - which could help with his beard and possibly his jaw. He’s said before that he has been diagnosed with low T. He may not even need invasive surgery, but perhaps just some orthodontics to correct an overbite. I don’t have any personal experience with the jaw/bite problem and I’m no doctor, so I couldn’t say why exactly the problem is there. One thing at a time. He seems like he’s on the right track. Good to see him wearing the back brace. That’s so important - correct spine issues ASAP or it won’t be long before you’re in agony every day.
I don’t think he needs to lose he hair or glasses though. I think that’s a personal preference and I think those particular things look good. I even like his nose which he’s expressed distaste for before. We’re all our own worst critics, huh?
I know you mean well but he specifically said he doesn't want the type of advice you just have him. Lol, did you watch the video???
@@christinasanders4833 He heart-reacted it, so he can't be that dissatisfied with what I said...
WHY am I crying?! Love from Canada my dude.
Cause you be a Canadian
When we get old everyone looses their good looks in the end that’s not what matters time strips is of our looks and we are left with our personalities. You have a great one from what I can see. I hope that later in life you find your person ❤
i can listen this man the whole day, so interesting
Right when I saw this video, I just wanted to give you an enormous hug! You seem like an amazing person.
How about a bj that is what my boy needs
@@srfioo3139 LMFAO
@@srfioo3139 HAHAHAHAJA
@@srfioo3139 😂you can kindly give it to him, if you're a girl.
you are just the nicest person there is, man!
i hope you improve and learn and progress in the ways you plan to / want to.
Best Love my brother, never feel lonely we will unite eventually and be spilled back out together (life death circle).
no matter how little amounts of people you touch in real life, you touch houndreds of thousands easily with your Videos, and thats just one small part of your life(time).
You've done great and will do great!
you are awesome! :)
You’re not ugly!! Sending love ❤️ thanks for being so pure and honest
Bro I’m telling you : you’re one of the most honest people towards yourself it’s crazy how you are so honest with urself
You said, "making time pass". You will wish to have this time back someday. Use it to do something you like(making videos), and make it count.
you just sparked an idea in my mind thank you lol
That is a very good point, I need to start doing something.
It’s not that easy. Think about it what is there to do with 0 physical and mental motivation as well as 0 interaction and love and on top of that your depressed. There is no one real telling you that you have done good or bad.
@@yungangsty Don´t make yourself depending. It just twists the fact, that in the end it is you, who made the change! I already tried to change a person I loved, but this person rejected, incapsulated witin itself and left in the agony of overwhelming self-hatred. Don´t resigne, focus on the things that do not depend on others - since they always could retreat and the consequence is being alone with yourself...
@@alsyrriad wow xD imagine needing other ppl to get this idea
Not everybody here is watching because they are in a similar position you know... I think it's important that you realize that some of us see that you have got a strong voice and a bright soul. That is were your true potential lies. There is something out there simply waiting for you to translate that energy into and when you do, you *will* move people.
I really enjoy listening to your story. I've gone through some shit recently too and it's good to hear that there are also some real people out on UA-cam. Keep going, greetings from Germany !
Never Give Up. Hello! It makes me so sad to know what you are going through and the things people say to you. You are good enough the way that you are! I feel your pain. I struggle every day with low self-esteem, depression and never feeling good enough. If you ever want to talk to me, you are more than welcome to.
well, think you got me abit wrong.
I Feel good enough, and I actualy would love to be with someone who things and works even looks similarly to me,
I don't rly have any issues with myself. Problem is other people don't find interest in me due to my looks..
Anyway, im here if u want to talk aswell =), my discord is on my channel somewear
@@NeverGiveUp-Main I am sorry about that. I am glad you feel good enough the way that you are. :) I think you're a very attractive man. I would be with you if given the chance. I would like to get to know you more. You have a really big heart.
I think it is awful the terrible advice that people give to you about changing yourself or buying different clothes, glasses, etc...
Sounds good, although I am not sure how to send private messages through UA-cam. I am not sure if a person can even. Have a good Morning, Afternoon or Night. Not sure what time it is where you live. I hope to hear from you soon!
Do you have Google Plus or Facebook?
@@kacera1780 Thanks, shure we can talk more if you'd like to. Altho I don't really use social media.. I only got discord and skype, my discord is destru##9307 , feel free to dm me anytime =)
@@NeverGiveUp-Main You're welcome! I would like to talk more for sure. I don't have Skype or Discord, but I can download Discord once I get enough space on my phone. I have used up almost all 64 GB on this phone. Now it won't let me install any apps. Thank you for writing me back. :D
I've never been on a date before (20 years old). I've never had the confidence to do so. Although no one has ever actually put me down which i am blessed for, I've put myself down to such a point that I have no motivation left, just sadness and loneliness.
i am the same. i had a thing with 2 girls, but that was only online. i was in love, but i know that i would have never had the courage to actually meet them in real life, even though the relationship i had with them was amazing. since the last relationship was over i have no motivation to do anything, no passion, no interests besides music and video games. when i am not sad, i feel dead inside. i am lonely all the time.
Me too . Im 20 but i feel like an ugly week little girl
It's not easy, but it's possible.
❤
Same. For 20 years I didn’t date. I’m currently 22.
I did date someone before turning 21 and it was not good. It’s like those awkward first. I heard it before but I didn’t think it would happen to me 🤔. I mostly dated the guy because I was pressured by my family, friends. I thought he was cute and smart. But we just weren’t it.
So my advise is don’t rush let it happen naturally. And don’t just go for it because of the looks. Personality really matters.
@@miriambpeach1614 nope .looks matter way more
dude, you have discovered a niche that millions of people can empathize with. take it all the way to the bank. choose your video theme, write your dcript beforehand and become a celebrity. you could do it in 6 months. 3 videos a week. you can do it.
I like the at way you're thinking
u just described love in the most perfect way that ive been trying to verbally express but havent been able to until hearing ur description of it.....absolutley beautiful
You're really inspiring. I'm really glad I stumbled upon your channel.
21 panicking chemical fall out potatoes I’m sure
Stay strong man there is a soulmate out there for EVERYONE. You seem like a nice dude praying for you 🙏
The Tiger while it’s true there is a soulmate for everyone, it doesn’t mean that you will ever find them in your lifetime
The Tiger yes praying ‼️
That's childish nonsense. There isn't someone out there for everyone. Just World fallacy.
@Ryu Campaert Hear hear
Not for me. Because I'm just a ghost in every woman's eyes.
I have to disagree, I think having and consistently wearing nice clothes makes you more attractive in general. People don't really seem to get this and will just wear whatever, but it's a HUGE step in the right direction. Get nice, well fitting clothes that aren't too flashy. I go with a simple black fitted tshirt or v-neck and some jeans. Simple is often better until you really get to know yourself and your style, which will just happen over time. Not only do nicer clothes make you come off as more attractive, they are also a decent confidence boost.
Another thing is cologne and deodorant, and just general hygiene. Shower every day, shampoo and conditioner every 2-3 days. Brush your teeth, floss, maybe mouthwash, put on some nice clothes, and then some cologne and deodorant and that goes a LONG way both in your general attractive-ness and just self confidence. Do this every day.
Haircut as well. You can even keep the long hair, just go to a stylist and get it touched up, maybe put in some layers or something to make it look less matty and more trimmed and up kept. Just maintaining a nice haircut; short or long, will also go a long way.
As for the glasses, there isn't much you can do if you've tried the other options. There are like 5 basic frames and generally you want to pick one that suits your face shape. Also size, if you have a smaller face you want smaller glasses.
Next thing is posture and exercise. It seems like you're working on your posture and exercising, which is good, the only thing I can add is to start and maintain a good diet. A lot of people think dieting is only for fat people, but that just ain't so. You can diet to put on more weight as well, or to help cut off body fat percentage, etc. I'm personally dieting to put on weight, I'm around 150-155 and I'm aiming for 175-180. For my height (6'0) and the body I'm trying to achieve through working out, that's a pretty good weight range to be and I'm working towards it.
Another thing; make sure you're doing the right kind of exercises. Some people will say they exercise when in reality they go for a 20 minute jog once a day. This is not bad; if you're trying to cut back on weight or trim up a little, this is a good place to start, but that's all it is. A start.
At the end of the day, you seem really stuck on your face. I admit, these things aren't going to change the way your face looks, except maybe working out. But does that mean you shouldn't do them? Absolutely not. Drill these things into your day to day and you will come out a better and more generally attractive person for it. The face may be a pretty big thing when it comes to how attractive you are, but it's not the be all end all. Not only will the things I've mentioned here help you look more attractive, it will build your confidence; to varying degrees but it will happen nonetheless.
All in all, though, I wish you the best of luck. I hope you will take at least some of my advice and I hope that at least something here helps you or someone else. I'm not the most attractive person, but these things have definitely helped me.
This is solid advice.
you’re right. I wouldn’t really look twice at someone out wearing sweats. I find people look at me more when I am clean and well dressed and vice versa.
bullshitt
Exactly, how u look no matter if you are beautiful or not into the standard of the society, if you dont look clean, if your hair are messy and dont smell nice, it's not going to help. A guy who care about his appearance is important. I'm not saying you have to become obsessed with it, but for sure, it will change your relation with the people and the woman.
Your “being ugly” video & follow up just popped up on my feed, (5yrs later) & I just want to say, what a truly original video & amazing young person. You do not need cosmetic surgery or anything else. You have a unique look & a very wonderful, honest & original personality. Also there are many so called beautiful people in this world & they do not have good relationships & many people are lonely these days, & now I see you have a lovely new friend but either way, one thing you can always do is love & look after & respect & take care of & be good to yourself. And you don’t have to listen to people who tell you to grow a beard or dress different or make more videos until you want to or change one Amazing thing about your whole Amazing self.., & I love the title of your channel.. "Never Give Up"..
Ligma
"this guy gets my respect because he gave up hope, and unlike these other men, he doesn't try to better himself in any way"
That's precisely summarizing what you just said
I mean it worked though by not trying to be anyone else and accepting himself and having a pure personality now he has people interested in him.
@@herculesbrofister265 It seems like he is trying to better himself. He just doesn't "hope" in being significantly more physically attractive. He's learning self-acceptance. The only bettering yourself that matters is spiritually.
@@herculesbrofister265
That's not a precise summary at all. That's you strawmanning him because you disagree with him, but you aren't mentally capable of coming up with an actual argument.
I can really appreciate someone who is real and keeps it 100 all the way
This is golden, I also can relate to this in so many ways
You’re a hero
your jawline looks alot better than before in the other video i forgot what the title was i think it was like "whats it like being ugly" video. it looks alot more defined. keep it up man!!
Angles are OP
I see a lot of me in you.
I'm a narcissist and my friend once said "You look the way you look, get past it".
I don't tell many people this, but i spend a lot of time looking at myself in the mirror. Much more than any normal person, I think about all the time I have wasted just looking at myself and think "I could have done something productive". I am 21 years old now and I have never had a girlfriend or even a kiss because I am so self obsessed. I never went to any high school dances, skipped prom. I just couldnt be bothered to go. Every female I become friendly with calls me handsome, cute, hot etc. but they seem like a waste of time to me. I have heard these compliments for so long, at this point I am numb. Despite this, I have been insecure about my nose for 7-8years and I went through my second nose job 1 month ago; I am still healing. The doctor said he has done everything he could do to achieve what I want and it still doesn't look right to me.
You talk about constantly pushing your jaw forward, I constantly flex my jaw
You say your nose is bulky, mine was aswell and I still think it is
"Cool dude, so what?"
We are similar because we both dwell on our looks and spend time acknowledging it. Good looks doesn't give me secret powers, I'm no sex machine and I don't want to be. And good looks most certainly does not imply confidence.
Some people have to get bad genes, the same way someone has to get cancer and someone has to grow up in a broken home. Life is sorrow, life is tragedy. For me, that is fact.
You look the way you look, nothing will majorly change that. We both need to stop focusing so much on our looks because what does it bring us? Suffering if anything.
Well put. Narcissism is a serious problem that is not your fault inherited by parents who are unable to be vulnerable. It can be changed but not until it is recognized for what it is, weakness. True strength comes from caring more about what you think of yourself than what others think of you. It is the only way to have true thoughtful actions and motivations outside of impressing others. Having your life dictated by others is what beta males do, even if you make it look good on the surface as narcissists often times do.
Kinda funny i was diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder and also iam still a LITTLE BIT self conscoius About my Looks. I was bullied in highschool, i was never insulted bc of my Looks but i Always thought ist my main Problem. I dont Need admiration for my "good Looks unlike you. So ist more of a Thing for myself and i feel like if i dont look good in this world iam a target for possible abuse.And iam tired of fighting…. .
Man I have your same problem. I am a fucking narcisist. Sometimes I feel an urge to look at a mirror just too see myself is absurd. I rant that I have not a girlfriend but at the same time i have so many occasions to have one, but I keep turning them down because of, I think, superiority complex. It fucking sucks to be narcisistics because often I can't even control it..
@@gaddus7549 Anytime I walk by a mirror I look at myself 100% of the time, sometimes I will just stop and stare. I try to keep it brief as to not look like a complete asshole, although, sometimes I get sad and think "If I didn't have looks what would I value in myself?". Getting old and wrinkled scares the absolute shit out of me.
Yes, the superiority complex is definitely the leading factor steering me away from relationships. Always thinking "I'm better without them", even though I fully acknowledge that 21 years without allowing someone in enough for a kiss is strange and unusual. My friends think it is, my mom thinks it is, my family thinks it is. I would say that I care more about this than I ever have before, and it is increasing. But it is still not enough for me to do anything about it and may not be for a long time. Perhaps it is because my father cheated on my mother after 21 years of marriage (when I was 15), It all seems like a waste to me, my mother often talks about how she wasted her golden years with a man leading a double life behind her back.
You guys are not the same at all.
This guy has the actual problem of not looking good.
And if you are telling the truth, you have some mental disorder and you should get help (not offense).
Brother, good souls are out there. You won't find them in your bedroom playing video games. I know you need an escape and video games provide a great distraction, but please invest in yourself more, learn more, get into shape.
You may have health problems but you seem well enough to go jogging and do some pushups. You will thank yourself in a year's time if you exercise regularly.
The more you invest in yourself, the more you will start taking small steps in being social IRL, and that is where you will find good souls. Please take care of yourself and the rest will come in its own time.
Much love. :)
Great advice
I enjoy self improvement, it's kind of all there is in life really when it boils down to it.
Attention His weight is fine he just needs to fix his jaw teeth and nose
my health issues are troubble breathing and cronicall illness ( feeling of constantly needing to throw up ).
Thise two combined ruin most of my exersize rutines.. So, no its not that easy.. Waiting on medical examinations atm.
Thinking positively tho =)
@@NeverGiveUp-Main What does your diet consist of? Are you eating plenty of nutrient-dense greens, nuts and seeds? I recommend spending half an hour just googling "most nutrient rich foods", it's a cliché at this point but there is a reason people always say that a healthy diet is key. Spinach, oranges, almonds, chickpeas, broccoli, all of that good stuff.
If you don't have anything to do and wanna talk then hit me up
hit mii ap ja tälleensä
juu
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Can I speak with you? Can you Swedish? I enjoy your videos.
@Goosecore I ment finnishbolshevik, I think he is educated in Swedish but that dos´nt mean he is fluent. My English skills are rather poor.
You are so raw and heartfelt. We wish you luck and success.
8:44 not fitting into a broken sick world is the healthiest thing one can be.
9:35 i feel you 1000%. A girl with no heart is nothing but a burden. Not a gift but poison.
A girl you can sit with comfortably in silence is golden. No anxiety. No worries. Calm content. Enjoying being. Just being. Vibing. Appreciating just being near your inner hearts mirror.
Reflecting connecting.
Before one can truly love. And be together.
One must learn to be alone.
Content with self. Connected and in-tune with the heart
i respect you soo much...im not sure if youll see this but just stay on the grind, my guy; also remember that any muscular issue can be fixed, most of those dating vids on yt are one-case basis garbage and that (from what im seeing in your vids) youre an interesting, chill dude. keep doin what youre doing, man.
I could relate you too much bro, like you, I am unacttractive guy too, and i experienced of what you have experienced, by the way I am a Filipino, maybe we have different culture but this kind of problem is common to all of those people who experiencing of this kind of problem, I alway feel insecure to my friends and any guy who are attractive, everytime I saw girls flirting with them, smiling with them, enjoying conversation with them, while those girls treat me opposite. I feel annoyed, I'm getting mad, but I always pretend to everyone that I'm fine and happy. I'm very eager to feel of how to be happy, how's the feeling that someone likes you, someone that wants you, someone wants to hug and kiss you and someone will loves you, as she attracted in you and loves you as being you because all my life I've always rejecting with girls because I am very very ugly.. many people adviced me that "you have to dress nice" "you need to have a good haircut" "you have shave your beard, etc. But as you said, it really doesn't matter, maybe a girl appreciates you for a while, but its not guarantee that she will going to fall inlove with you already, its always about, how she attracted with your face.. I heard many many advice and I followed but not effective... Now, i know what I want and I know what is the solution, "PLASTIC SURGERY"... maybe it is an artificial and different from if you are good looking by nature, but i think it brings possitive response atleast, and there's no other best remedy than this. My problem is I can't afford plastic surgery right now, as a surgeon recommended of what kind of surgery appropriate to me it costs more or less 10,000 dollars, that's why I'm working hard to raise money to afford with that.. I don't want to advise you bro, because I know it can't help, even me can't help myself, I just only want to express my feelings and experience, similar as you, and I would like you to be my friend. I'm sorry for my grammar i'm not quite good in english
dude, the first step is to being to love yourself, the problem is with plastic surgery, sure it can make you look better, but if your mind isnt in the right place, you will never feel attractive. Instead of doing shit so other people like you, do it for yourself being to lift, its really helps. if you have problem with your jaw and other facial stuff before plastic surgery, look into orthotropics and mewing.
Hey try mewing
You have such a pleasant spirit and attitude bro. I wish you all the best in life. God bless you
It's kinda sad i also went through a thing like that.
I know hes telling the truth at this point u need a lot of motivation and true freinds
You just need little improvement, your personality is amazing
Man i think you are very brave and honest. I hope you find a good girlfriend that takes you for who you are. Also i honestly don't think you look that bad.
I wish you all the luck, you are deserving, smart guy and i bet women appreciate your honesty and that youre a good talker. Never give up bro!.
I know this was four years ago, but you seem like such a genuine and amazing person! I've been watching your videos and have absolutely fallen in love with you! You have a kind and sweet soul and anyone that tries to take away your spark can F themselves! Love you so much and God bless!
Great guy pure quality of content just got to this channel but definitely would like to see what’s coming soon
Your such a down to earth person ❤
a pretty girl in my highschool once told me: "You don't ACT ugly." -if only she could read my internet shitposting 40 years later...
You guys should've dated then
Lol that’s the most harsh thing I have ever heard
you are so kind-hearted, I am truly thankful that I`ve found your channel. I wish you all the happiness and love of this world. Stay strong. ❤
You are so pure and kind. Wishing you all the best in your life 💛
Do him a favor and take his V-card, will ya?
Crammananne He already had sex.
@@Sentinel_Daniel Then what complaints has he?
Crammananne You think having sex is just gonna fix all your problems?
Fr0zzen I honestly don't know what other problems you can have being ugly besides being an incel.
Mental strength is the key to most of life's problems, few of us ever find
Seems like a nice guy. I'm still amazed and confused by the first video though. He said something like 400-500 girls rejected him when he was 15-17. I'm not sure I've even talked to that many people in my life at 27 years old. Good luck with your search.
thank you so much for sharing. it is really interesting to hear your experience. I like you're thoughts on love and think everyone would benefit from more of your mindset on love.
You got to build confidence bro. Learn to take care of yourself. Start with getting a haircut, exercise/workout, and eat more. Focus on yourself and your wellbeing.
dont lie to him
@@TheWarback1 No u
didnt u listen to what he said?
This fr would do something. Nobody wants to date someone who gives up on themselves.
You Like!? So you didn’t watch the video?