Awww shit....Truth bomb...:-D The word should is in my head - I'm 24, I've been in therapy for 4 years and I should be over my Complex PTSD and childhood trauma, I should have a job by now. My heart nods and goes 'Yep', 'Yep' whilst its smiling and just waiting for me to realise that I'm not living in line with my VALUES when I say these things to myself. IT IS SOCIETY!! IT'S NOT ME!!
You are right. So often we look to the external and become lost. You must line up with self to find true happiness. I have felt called for many years to become a LCSW, it requires my Master's. It is a calling and you realize a true calling when spirit & self are in alignment. People come to me for guidance often. Keep doing these video's. Thank you for all that you do.❤
I've had my "not enough" mindset from the age of 9. Watching my mom die while my hands was drenched in her blood and not able to do anything to stop it was one of the most defining moments of my life. The other other 4 most defining moments of my life was when my dad, grandad, brother and uncle died before I turned 14. It made me the ultimate people pleaser, a perfectionist, and not even able to trust my emotions. I'm not going to commit suicide because I know I'll never see them again, but I pray every night that the lord takes me away in my sleep. Because reliving their deaths every night in my dreams for the past 31 years is extremely tiring. I've literally watched my mom die over 11,300 times in my life.
Very comforting to hear your words 🙏💚 recently found some peace just by accepting who I am. It's a long way to go, but so good to not be so alone on this journey
❤️🙏👏😚 yes i was born KNOWING this and fighting to try and get others to SEE IT!!!! (i did not need a ‘religion’ to find this confirmation. Just a lot of life challenges, years of struggling with a deeply rooted compassion that I REFUSED to let go of for ANYTHING!;) ❤️
Uuh - I'm getting goose bumps here - really inspiring me towards drawing boundaries - and finding that subtle distinction between validation that my doing is helpful but might not please everyone is really helping me alot right now - thanks! 🙏
Great video Candace!!!! You speak the truth. Once I took my power back. I started to move in the power of achieveing my goals and dreams. Soon enough new doors opened up. Now I am feeling whole and complete again. I need to continue down that road. That is where my healing and restoration takes place. Thank you so much!!!!
YES YES YEEEESSS!! This is exaaaaactly how I see things and this perspective is SO NEEDED! You are so good in what you do Candice, you are such a courageous and strong presence and I am very grateful to have come across you and that you are walking amongst us 🙏🏻 You have articulated your perspective sooooo well, my Goodness truly amazing! Thanks Candice, much love your way 🧡🙏🏻
I relate! I’m all the things you talk about in your videos. I’m also Cancer like you! I’m healing, feeling happier with myself, trying to make boundaries, without sounding bossy! It’s a process! But it’s all starting to come together. There’s so much to learn in life, but who would have thought the biggest lesson in my life was me!
I think I connect with what you have too say on a *deeper emotional level* cuz I'm a water sign too. 💖💖💝💪 But unlike Cancer who's so vulnerable, (which is probably why I connect with what you have to say so much) As a Scorpio I've got a very dominant, A type personally, so essentially I'm "afraid" to show as much *vulnerability* in my own UA-cam videos as you do in yours. But I have a lot of respect for your degree if vulnerability and "openness" / bravery towards being judged. That defiantly takes strength. Thank you for being an example of what I want to be more of in my own life, 💖💖😍😘
I relate! I’m all the things you talk about in your videos. I’m also Cancer like you! I’m healing, feeling happier with myself, trying to make boundaries, without sounding bossy! It’s a process! But it’s all starting to come together. There’s so much to learn in life, but who would have thought the biggest lesson in my life was me! Thank you for all you do Candace, you are a dear soul.
@@fredericmoresmau4303 it is obviously completely redundant what I think what I say what I do ........ in the end I end up in some fake delusions that have nothing to do with reality .......... and all laugh at me because it is completely apart from reality anyway ........ and on at the end only happens what they want anyway and that has nothing to do with me ....; '' i hope that is correct, oooo yes heavy on emotional influence, i had this until psychedelics kicked them into logical understanding. (subjective reality vs objective reality, the 2 needed to overlap in order for me to cross-match references and to understand the mechanics to it. now it makes perfect sense to me, not to anyone else, to me and me alone. its a force that can only be heeled to, submitted to and surrender into. she is beautiful and chaotic but she is mine.
I came out from a narcissistic relationship and ever since I have been fighting with myself to get back to who i was. It's so hard cos I feel like I lost a piece of myself in this whole process and I am just trying to get through that breakup and heal and get back to who I was. Do you have any tips?? Its a brutal struggle.. you feel confused, anger, sadness.. emotions are just off the charts
Hi Candice, (don't really have a question, but I do love & appreciate your wisdom :-) You're a Cancer also ~ "(I'll be 54 tomorrow)", 06/22/66). That's all I wanted to say - oh, "I Take Your Word As Truth!!
Thank you so much I really needed this. I was wondering I'm a Cancer the same as you. What does that say about me spiritually? because I'm sensitive, creative and for some reason I feel really sorry for those in prison and have done from a young age
In the end, the trillion clips from ‘experts’ on narcissism have only one goal, to give people the idea that they are so much better then those damned narcissists, pathetic but hey that’s the world we live in.
Candice, what happened to your Mic? I love the quality of your content which is why I stay subscribed, but in the beginning it was REALLY hard to hear you. If not for the quality of your content and my REALLY wanting to hear what you have to say and teach, I would've unsubscribed a while ago. There was a while were you came through very clear, now there's an echo. Please be consistent with wearing your microphone. 💖💖😉
Emotional ignorance is a huge problem in today’s society...I deeply appreciate you and all that you teach ❤️❤️❤️
Celeste Hernandez Thank you so much 💛
Awww shit....Truth bomb...:-D The word should is in my head - I'm 24, I've been in therapy for 4 years and I should be over my Complex PTSD and childhood trauma, I should have a job by now. My heart nods and goes 'Yep', 'Yep' whilst its smiling and just waiting for me to realise that I'm not living in line with my VALUES when I say these things to myself. IT IS SOCIETY!! IT'S NOT ME!!
“Upgrade the system” ☺️ Thanks Candace for helping us all see that the system is damaged, not us 😇🙏
Thank you. This is why I’m home educating my children.
universe never lies ~~ we are here for a reason & the reason is US ! thank you so much for your work and clarity ~~ may god bless you ~~
I cannot describe how much your videos have helped me. Really changed my life. Thank you. You're amazing.
You are right. So often we look to the external and become lost. You must line up with self to find true happiness. I have felt called for many years to become a LCSW, it requires my Master's. It is a calling and you realize a true calling when spirit & self are in alignment. People come to me for guidance often. Keep doing these video's. Thank you for all that you do.❤
Fantastic conversation, love that this is a topic that people are seeing.
🙏 ✌️
May those watching heal.
Yes I've drawn of some super clear of sanity moments thru these 3 years with ur channelo
I've had my "not enough" mindset from the age of 9.
Watching my mom die while my hands was drenched in her blood and not able to do anything to stop it was one of the most defining moments of my life.
The other other 4 most defining moments of my life was when my dad, grandad, brother and uncle died before I turned 14.
It made me the ultimate people pleaser, a perfectionist, and not even able to trust my emotions.
I'm not going to commit suicide because I know I'll never see them again, but I pray every night that the lord takes me away in my sleep.
Because reliving their deaths every night in my dreams for the past 31 years is extremely tiring.
I've literally watched my mom die over 11,300 times in my life.
stoogey1 I’m sorry for your struggle
Seek therapy to help you
Sorry about that .....you will be fine ok.....you are more than enough !!!!
Very comforting to hear your words 🙏💚 recently found some peace just by accepting who I am. It's a long way to go, but so good to not be so alone on this journey
❤️🙏👏😚 yes i was born KNOWING this and fighting to try and get others to SEE IT!!!! (i did not need a ‘religion’ to find this confirmation. Just a lot of life challenges, years of struggling with a deeply rooted compassion that I REFUSED to let go of for ANYTHING!;) ❤️
Uuh - I'm getting goose bumps here - really inspiring me towards drawing boundaries - and finding that subtle distinction between validation that my doing is helpful but might not please everyone is really helping me alot right now - thanks! 🙏
Yes, that is true, that is the Key : i am enough. Nothing to change, nothing to add, nothing to be. Bless You Wise Angel 🐞🌿🍀
Great video Candace!!!! You speak the truth. Once I took my power back. I started to move in the power of achieveing my goals and dreams. Soon enough new doors opened up. Now I am feeling whole and complete again. I need to continue down that road. That is where my healing and restoration takes place. Thank you so much!!!!
Thank you for your videos, God bless you 🙏
Frank Vargas Thank you for your support!
YES YES YEEEESSS!! This is exaaaaactly how I see things and this perspective is SO NEEDED! You are so good in what you do Candice, you are such a courageous and strong presence and I am very grateful to have come across you and that you are walking amongst us 🙏🏻 You have articulated your perspective sooooo well, my Goodness truly amazing! Thanks Candice, much love your way 🧡🙏🏻
I relate! I’m all the things you talk about in your videos. I’m also Cancer like you! I’m healing, feeling happier with myself, trying to make boundaries, without sounding bossy! It’s a process! But it’s all starting to come together. There’s so much to learn in life, but who would have thought the biggest lesson in my life was me!
Good for you standing up for how you are. Now you just got to get the jealous freak out of your life you'll be alright peace
I think I connect with what you have too say on a *deeper emotional level* cuz I'm a water sign too. 💖💖💝💪
But unlike Cancer who's so vulnerable, (which is probably why I connect with what you have to say so much)
As a Scorpio I've got a very dominant, A type personally, so essentially I'm "afraid" to show as much *vulnerability* in my own UA-cam videos as you do in yours.
But I have a lot of respect for your degree if vulnerability and "openness" / bravery towards being judged. That defiantly takes strength.
Thank you for being an example of what I want to be more of in my own life, 💖💖😍😘
Thank you this was really good, I’ve been in my head for a couple of days off and on and I really needed this
Wow this video is awesome Thank you so much ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐.
I relate! I’m all the things you talk about in your videos. I’m also Cancer like you! I’m healing, feeling happier with myself, trying to make boundaries, without sounding bossy! It’s a process! But it’s all starting to come together. There’s so much to learn in life, but who would have thought the biggest lesson in my life was me! Thank you for all you do Candace, you are a dear soul.
I need about a week to integrate this video 😭 wow
Yaaaas!
Thank you for this one😊😊😊😊💕💕💕💜💜
@@fredericmoresmau4303 it is obviously completely redundant what I think what I say what I do ........
in the end I end up in some fake delusions that have nothing to do with reality .......... and all laugh at me because it is completely apart from reality anyway ........ and on at the end only happens what they want anyway and that has nothing to do with me ....; ''
i hope that is correct,
oooo yes heavy on emotional influence, i had this until psychedelics kicked them into logical understanding.
(subjective reality vs objective reality, the 2 needed to overlap in order for me to cross-match references and to understand the mechanics to it.
now it makes perfect sense to me, not to anyone else, to me and me alone.
its a force that can only be heeled to, submitted to and surrender into.
she is beautiful and chaotic but she is mine.
I love watching your UA-cam videos Candace and great to know you a cancer like myself that's why I feel you so heavy ♥️
❤️ that’s beautiful
Could not have put it any better myself. thank u so much Candace :)
Amazing content as always. I've been watching your videos since 2016. Have a nice day "Spiritual Mama" 😇💎
I came out from a narcissistic relationship and ever since I have been fighting with myself to get back to who i was. It's so hard cos I feel like I lost a piece of myself in this whole process and I am just trying to get through that breakup and heal and get back to who I was. Do you have any tips?? Its a brutal struggle.. you feel confused, anger, sadness.. emotions are just off the charts
Feel u. I've been like this for 8 months now.
Yes. You don't want to be who you were. Aspire to be reborn to someone who is now more than you were inc the hurt u went through.
Yudu is a rare practice
Thank you so much ma'am
Your questions are guiding me to correct answers 🙂
Found this at a good time thanks
Respect Candace
Hi Candace I get the feeling your dealing with something that saddens you.
100%.powerful shockwaves hittin me. Candace droppin truth bombs lol
you are so profoundly understand my trauma, deeply deeply, I fall love with you, 😘😘😘😌😌😌😌😌 (by the way, I am female, and was super model Before)
I cannot find wholeness from staring into a broken mirror.
Try looking at one fracture at a time.
It's almost bubble like.
Wow I can see your aura, it’s beautiful yellowish 😀😀
I honestly love your videos they are really helping me!!!! Love to you!! X
Your enough!
“Societal rules are not universal laws”
Makes sense
Soooooo true! Amazing video 💗
Love this video, thank you. What do you do when you find you know it would make you happy if you had it but you can't imagine how it feels exactly?
Hi Candice, (don't really have a question, but I do love & appreciate your wisdom :-)
You're a Cancer also ~ "(I'll be 54 tomorrow)", 06/22/66).
That's all I wanted to say - oh, "I Take Your Word As Truth!!
Good topic
Omgoddess I needed this today
Thanks cad😍
That shouldn't be plastic it's wrong👍👍
It's like notes idk delete if u want
Thank you ❤️😘
❤️
How to feel enough...
Thank you so much I really needed this. I was wondering I'm a Cancer the same as you. What does that say about me spiritually? because I'm sensitive, creative and for some reason I feel really sorry for those in prison and have done from a young age
Good video
Let's think about it LoL serious tho yepps
thank you for this video, this has helped me so much. Do you by chance know your human design?
I have the same name as you but with an I. Do you find that saying your own name feels uncomfortable to verbally say ? Or is that just me lol
Hi love. Thinking about joining the tribe but was curious if you’re able to cancel any time?
Brittney .Ferrell yes!!
Candace van Dell thank you :)
Thanks Candice
Obviously pens exist
In the end, the trillion clips from ‘experts’ on narcissism have only one goal, to give people the idea that they are so much better then those damned narcissists, pathetic but hey that’s the world we live in.
Candice, what happened to your Mic?
I love the quality of your content which is why I stay subscribed, but in the beginning it was REALLY hard to hear you.
If not for the quality of your content and my REALLY wanting to hear what you have to say and teach, I would've unsubscribed a while ago.
There was a while were you came through very clear, now there's an echo.
Please be consistent with wearing your microphone. 💖💖😉