Journaling my why's of why l people pleased, codependency, toxic shame, etc, etc, has changed my life. Shadow work - what we dont know about ourselves does hurt us very badly. Depression, addictions occur because we think those dark parts of ourselves are so shameful. Everybody, that is everybody has a dark side. That is comforting to know. Also in our shadow is the gold. Face it all, and the best mate you have longed for will come up to met you - he/she has been waiting for you a long time. When we know ourselves intimately and what triggers you - you choose in every moment " will this enlarge me or shrink me" self love and respect will keep you company. You will know where you begin and others end. Self-ful is the spirtual journey. Ireland
You are a blessing in my life I really appreciate you speaking your truth you speaking your truth has helped me so much and for some odd reason you always seem to post about exactly what I'm Going through at the very moment its happening(tears)this just gives me so much more strength to keep me Going while simultaneously letting me know I'm on the right path thank you so much ❤❤
What blows my mind is how I already knew everything you just said, but never connected the dots in such an elegant and all-encompassing way. Thank you.
One of your gifts among many is how profound you are at articulating the complexity of trauma into simple and lazer pointing words. You get right to people core shit and it heals it fast. Your presence is pure. Thank you for doing the work!!!
I really like your comment about vulnerability. When I went from being a spiritual counselor to social work, I was trained to not self-disclose. But it didn't feel right. So I've adapted ways of obscuring details, but keeping it real. I think healers need to show up authentically, if we're asking clients to do so. Thanks for your work.❤️
Caffeine Jones well said. I agree with you. I am a teacher and I work with kids and I’m supposed to guard myself as well but I value vulnerability and rawness
@@alliwestyoga Yes, our work is relationship-based, and people can sense if we are not showing up authentically. Your students are lucky to have you. 😻
Im 53, this has been my whole past!! Thankyou for your channel/work, its brilliant & the healing/understanding i have been searching for my whole life, u have bought clarity, hope & understanding at last!!! Thankyou so much, i am forever grateful!! ❤
I love the way you articulate things. Girl you are giving your gift to the world and it is such a beautiful thing to witness. Thank you, Have an amazing day 🤗🙏🏼🙌🏼
Thank you my dear, I am feeling wow! When I am experienced my emotional body pain. Now, I understand why i need to expiriened that because is apart of a programmed of my life and my new human body that designed on this planet earth before i am returned and reincarnated.
Really hits the mark. Needed 2 hear this so much because i'm changing and constantly fighting and self sabotaging. In a sense this feels like a WAKE UP slap in the Face. But in a good way, haha. I discoverd your channel a little while back. There is a glow/vibe about you and its Pure, something familiar, i cant explain. Dont get me wrong. My best friend told me throughout the years, you have first love yourself before you can really love another person. He was and is right. Your video's have a real impact on me, makes me look deeper and diffirent towards others, my own behaviour and how 2 deal with my own shit. And becoming a nicer guy.
CVD, thank you so much for your honesty, genuineness and willingness to be real and true. It makes you so incredibly relatable. And your wisdom and insight are a gift to the world, for those who are ready to deal with their stuff. Thanks for sharing your incredible gifts and yourself.
i love when she writes “truth bomb” when she really getting into it. it makes me smile because her mind and intelligence is seriously so bad ass. literally the mom i never had
“We get intimate with our shadow. We realize we’re intimate with ourselves so when other people leave us we realize we don’t have to leave ourselves.” 🤍
I Just realised today that I was fighting with myself for 10 y, thought it is something wrong with me, but its nothing wrong with me its Just emotions and scars in me. Was crying today like never before and I couldnt even cry
Great video, thanks a lot! I am also struggling with these issues and taking one day at a time to heal. While I am getting better at setting boundaries and sensing what's not good for me, a real problem is knowing what's good for me. For example, there are as many "nice" potential partners out there are there are the ones that are "not nice". If I meet someone who is "nice" but feel lack of attraction, how do I know when to trust my feeling that this is simply not the right match for me vs. me just being afraid? How to know when to go against my feeling and give someone a chance vs. trusting my inner feeling? Maybe someone has gone through this and can share their experience?
(Hi, we had a brief convo in the comment section of one of your more recent videos "Validation for Highly Sensitive People". I offered my services for editing and you said that you do need some. I'm not sure whether your were kidding, but I am following up here. I don't mean to be rude.) I'm energetic, detail-oriented, and a self-starting entity who is excited to collaborate creatively in creating content that empowers people. I have a voracious mindset to solving problems, and meditation allows for the mental space to find the simplest yet most elegant solutions, both in a specific approach to content, as well as the more general approach in how that content furthers the vision of the company. I have strong creativity and intuition, as well as some out-of-the-box ideas that, if applicable, people love and enjoy how it can elevate the content. I not only know how to contribute, I know how to receive contributions. In other words, I know how to listen. Effective communication is a skill, and one of the rarest held skills amongst people, both in personal and professional settings. I know how to communicate what my viewpoint is, as well as actively listen and respect others' viewpoints. I truly believe in the power of streamlined synergy, where there is effortless trust and knowledge of each person's role so harmony accompanies effectiveness in production. Thank you again for your time. I hope to speak with you soon. This is my introductory video: ua-cam.com/video/MSYswnianak/v-deo.html
"There's nothing anyone can do to shock you out of loving yourself." Brilliant!
Journaling my why's of why l people pleased, codependency, toxic shame, etc, etc, has changed my life. Shadow work - what we dont know about ourselves does hurt us very badly. Depression, addictions occur because we think those dark parts of ourselves are so shameful. Everybody, that is everybody has a dark side. That is comforting to know. Also in our shadow is the gold. Face it all, and the best mate you have longed for will come up to met you - he/she has been waiting for you a long time. When we know ourselves intimately and what triggers you - you choose in every moment " will this enlarge me or shrink me" self love and respect will keep you company. You will know where you begin and others end. Self-ful is the spirtual journey. Ireland
Thank you so much genuinely I have no words except for that I just feel truly and thankfully grateful and thankful to you Thank you
This is solid gold. Thank you🥰
I am proud of you! Your work is important for Humanity. You can Now rest more If you feel like it. Heaven on Earth is here. JEHOVA
Incredible and beautiful mind. Thankyou so much for giving me insight and valuable tools to heal and integrate
You are a blessing in my life I really appreciate you speaking your truth you speaking your truth has helped me so much and for some odd reason you always seem to post about exactly what I'm Going through at the very moment its happening(tears)this just gives me so much more strength to keep me Going while simultaneously letting me know I'm on the right path thank you so much ❤❤
What blows my mind is how I already knew everything you just said, but never connected the dots in such an elegant and all-encompassing way. Thank you.
One of your gifts among many is how profound you are at articulating the complexity of trauma into simple and lazer pointing words. You get right to people core shit and it heals it fast. Your presence is pure. Thank you for doing the work!!!
I really like your comment about vulnerability. When I went from being a spiritual counselor to social work, I was trained to not self-disclose. But it didn't feel right. So I've adapted ways of obscuring details, but keeping it real.
I think healers need to show up authentically, if we're asking clients to do so.
Thanks for your work.❤️
Caffeine Jones well said. I agree with you. I am a teacher and I work with kids and I’m supposed to guard myself as well but I value vulnerability and rawness
@@alliwestyoga Yes, our work is relationship-based, and people can sense if we are not showing up authentically. Your students are lucky to have you. 😻
Caffeine Jones As are yours lucky to have you! Keep showing up!
Love the truth here. I dont abandon myself anymore.
Im 53, this has been my whole past!! Thankyou for your channel/work, its brilliant & the healing/understanding i have been searching for my whole life, u have bought clarity, hope & understanding at last!!! Thankyou so much, i am forever grateful!! ❤
I love the way you articulate things. Girl you are giving your gift to the world and it is such a beautiful thing to witness. Thank you, Have an amazing day 🤗🙏🏼🙌🏼
I love you Candance, thank you so much !!!
Been looking for part 2 of Dealing with pain body video from 3 years ago. Spot on. What a timing ✌️😎. Brilliant video, btw 👌
Watching this on repeat it’s so comforting thank you so much
Thank you my dear,
I am feeling wow! When I am experienced my emotional body pain. Now, I understand why i need to expiriened that because is apart of a programmed of my life and my new human body that designed on this planet earth before i am returned and reincarnated.
Really hits the mark. Needed 2 hear this so much because i'm changing and constantly fighting and self sabotaging. In a sense this feels like a WAKE UP slap in the Face. But in a good way, haha. I discoverd your channel a little while back. There is a glow/vibe about you and its Pure, something familiar, i cant explain. Dont get me wrong. My best friend told me throughout the years, you have first love yourself before you can really love another person. He was and is right. Your video's have a real impact on me, makes me look deeper and diffirent towards others, my own behaviour and how 2 deal with my own shit. And becoming a nicer guy.
CVD, thank you so much for your honesty, genuineness and willingness to be real and true. It makes you so incredibly relatable. And your wisdom and insight are a gift to the world, for those who are ready to deal with their stuff. Thanks for sharing your incredible gifts and yourself.
Gratitude
i love when she writes “truth bomb” when she really getting into it. it makes me smile because her mind and intelligence is seriously so bad ass. literally the mom i never had
Thank you💙💚💛🧡💜
Love this! Amazing!
Great video again, thank you sweet Angel. Thanks 🌻🌸💐
Very powerful
Excellent
“We get intimate with our shadow. We realize we’re intimate with ourselves so when other people leave us we realize we don’t have to leave ourselves.” 🤍
Thank you!!!! You are the best!!! Very helpful 💜🙏🏻👏🏻
love this thank you for creating this content
I Just realised today that I was fighting with myself for 10 y, thought it is something wrong with me, but its nothing wrong with me its Just emotions and scars in me. Was crying today like never before and I couldnt even cry
Thank you thank you thank you💜
Absolutely agree with sharing your story
Great video, thanks a lot! I am also struggling with these issues and taking one day at a time to heal.
While I am getting better at setting boundaries and sensing what's not good for me, a real problem is knowing what's good for me.
For example, there are as many "nice" potential partners out there are there are the ones that are "not nice". If I meet someone who is "nice" but feel lack of attraction, how do I know when to trust my feeling that this is simply not the right match for me vs. me just being afraid?
How to know when to go against my feeling and give someone a chance vs. trusting my inner feeling?
Maybe someone has gone through this and can share their experience?
Amazing thank you
4:40 healing.
Thank You!❤
Thank you
(Hi, we had a brief convo in the comment section of one of your more recent videos "Validation for Highly Sensitive People". I offered my services for editing and you said that you do need some. I'm not sure whether your were kidding, but I am following up here. I don't mean to be rude.)
I'm energetic, detail-oriented, and a self-starting entity who is excited to collaborate creatively in creating content that empowers people. I have a voracious mindset to solving problems, and meditation allows for the mental space to find the simplest yet most elegant solutions, both in a specific approach to content, as well as the more general approach in how that content furthers the vision of the company. I have strong creativity and intuition, as well as some out-of-the-box ideas that, if applicable, people love and enjoy how it can elevate the content.
I not only know how to contribute, I know how to receive contributions. In other words, I know how to listen. Effective communication is a skill, and one of the rarest held skills amongst people, both in personal and professional settings. I know how to communicate what my viewpoint is, as well as actively listen and respect others' viewpoints. I truly believe in the power of streamlined synergy, where there is effortless trust and knowledge of each person's role so harmony accompanies effectiveness in production.
Thank you again for your time. I hope to speak with you soon.
This is my introductory video:
ua-cam.com/video/MSYswnianak/v-deo.html
I saw prices and the cheapest subscription is half of my salary per month. You can guess my thoughts about it.
Can shadow work heal mental illness?
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OPS. Other. People's. Shit.
THIS. IS. ME. and I so desperately want not to be this person.
Thank you Candace! Right on time 🌟💗