clearing things up… lip pigmentation, how my skin tone changed + childhood story time
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- Опубліковано 6 чер 2024
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TIMECODES:
0:00-2:04 “Glass” skin
2:05- 6:42 Lip pigmentation
6:43- 7:48 Head bumps
7:49-9:23 How my skin tone changed
9:24- 17:20 Story time
17:20-52 bonus stuff - Фільми й анімація
Hi hi! The lipstick I’m wearing here is Haus Labs Rose Shine (bought in US)
Similar lipsticks available in India are:
- Maybelline Saucy: amzn.to/3SWn2tV
- Maybelline Ringleader (for fair skin, add clear gloss over it): amzn.to/40VAmAr
- Maybelline Enchanter (for medium to dusky skin. Add gloss): amzn.to/4a34f6i
Please share the 3 month video bestie
You are sooo good and care about your subs.. like you even cared to tell the similar lipstick that we can get and afford.
I was watching you but didn't subscribe .😅😅..you got a new sub .
Thank you so much ❤❤
@SatshyaTharien please share ur 3 months diet and products plzzzzz
love love LOVE the fact that you've mentioned a different lipstick for darker skin tones!! color therory!!
I also have a kind ko similar story but i am in between 😂 when i was a child i was super fair but later due to my hobby of riding i got tanned and now i am brown have lots of closed comedones and these are going off from my face ..thinking of going to a doctor … watched your video it was great 👍 ❤
My mom has a darker skin than my dad. And after her marriage she was constantly reminded how she wasnt fitting into the family because my dads family everyone is much fairer. They have this superiority complex and mock everyone with a darker tone.Its sad that people do these things just to feel better about themselves :)
My mom was also darker than most of my dads family but she earned more than my dad and was also doing govt service so everyone respected her ( one of my dads brothers is also very dark but no one cares here)
That's super unnice 😢😢 judgement ,racism is not good not nice.
Same thing with my mother.
I am darker thab my husband
His family everyone is fair. The day my daughter was born everyone was so glad she took after my husband's family. And a single question everyone had was whether she took after me or her dad. I was outraged. Like ask after her health! My health. But no. The question was is she fair?
@@ChaptersofGrowth7That is so upsetting and ignorant of them. I was a kid who had darker skintone than my parents and they all wondered why I am like this, they would also tease me left and right about my skin color. I don't like the fact that colorism happens often in my country and home, I think every skin is beautiful as the others but I doubt that they will believe me, I've never felt so insecure about something my entire life. I felt so bad over something that was naturally given to me. I just want to feel accepted for who I am even once. 😢
This is so true. As a child, I was so tanned because we used to go to school at such hours when the sun was on our heads. I have not stepped out much in the last three months, so my tan has faded and people are like, 'Did you do skin lightening?' I was like 'wtf'. Even my brother who used to be so tan has become light skinned by exercising, eating good food, and using sunscreen.
What food did you eat
Do u atleast know the meaning of hallelujah and how much imp is that ? Don't use like this
@@pawsible4744what?? where in their comment did they write "hallelujah"? 😭
@@fiaalmahira Nowadays people are replying instead of commenting ( a lot of times). I guess it is because of change in how yt works.
sunscreen doesnt protect you from tanning, I hope you know that
Most of us brown kids have been bullied back when we were kids. But ig we can all agree that when we grow up, know how to take care of ourselves, become positive and accept us just the way we are, we tend to glow. Inner happiness radiates!
But why do I like brown skin , I'm not even brown myself
Then what are you.@@idocarebabe
@@agentreply arab
Agreed
@@idocarebabeArabs are brown??
I love how honest and humble you are. Feels so good to find such an organic content creator.
I just love how happily and honestly you share your experiences, its so relatable and just makes me happy and empowered watching you talk
Since you mentioned that you read every single comment, I would just like to tell you that I really appreciate you talking about all this. Even when you show us all the blemishes on your face and lips, I think your glowing skin and lips are your most attractive features regardless ❤
🥹🥹🤗 thank you so much for such a kind message ❤️❤️
@@SatshyaTharieni get this all the time. I am not fair. I was very dark during school days, had assembly in the morning, then PT period, no skincare. Now i am 34, have put on some weight, not playing in the sun, now my old relatives ask me in public ... You were black, how did you get fair. I say WASHING POWDER NIRMA😂😂😂
@@adamseden1330🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@SatshyaTharien So this is only a suggestion take it or leave it. I have tinted fuller lips like you and regarding sheer lip sticks or lip gloss, I remember seeing some old makeup tutorial videos on UA-cam few years ago with this tip. Have you tried dabbing a little foundation or concealer on your lips with a blending sponge or beauty blender to even out the lip pigmentation. That way you can try out more variety of lip products or lip colors including nude and pink lip colors without worrying so much about the lip pigmentation thing. Just a thought and suggestion since you mentioned it.
I also have two-toned pigmented lips and I used to be self-conscious about it but in North America (I'm from Canada), the dark lip liner/gradient lip combo is so popular so I love my lips now. It's unfortunate that our self-perception is so reliant on our environment but I hope it makes you feel better that there are people in other countries who would be ecstatic to have lips like yours!
So so real and so so validating. Definitely related to each aspect. Thank you for the reminder 'dont internalize'
Absolutely, we want that three months skin care ,work out, diet routine.
We will be waiting for that❤
Girl…….
You nailed it you spoke your heart out and so honest loved it 🫶🤌🏻
And spreading the awareness to young girls
We need such people
I appreciate your honesty, great that people like u are sharing their journey on how they've flawless skin today
Just as you mentioned, my mom is fair and my dad is dark according to the irritating Beauty standards. And I inherited to be dark. Now I am 20 and even today when our relatives visit our house or we go for an event, they say " Ayyo! You got your dad's colour and being a girl it will be hard to get a rishta". Like seriously!!😂 As a child, these actually used to affect me quite a lot, but as you grow you actually start loving yourself the way you are!
Thank you for sharing this ❤
Yeah, people tell me, being a light skinned Indian man, it is going to be very difficult to find a rishta.... Marriage matching is hard for everyone, don't think much...
@@kaushiknatarajan2637it'll be easy for you don't think too much either.
Same story here.
Same story here
Every relatives would tell that you got unlucky getting darker complexion of dad instead of mom's fair skin
This was really sad ,but I don't care about anyone else now ..being myself is fine for me
Just think people always want what they can't have. In Europe everyone is burning themselves in the sun to get a tan and using dark foundations. I am a brown girl and one time I couldn't buy my foundation shade, the makeup artist told me its coz white girls use that to tan... I went to 3 shops and only that shade was sold out haha. Don't care about other people's opinions. Find the right colours to match your skin tone and undertones (dark girls can pull of orange and blue in a way light girls could never) :)
I've never seen anyone else being THIS honest. Incredible.
Your content felt so relatable honestly...I too have pigmented lips and hyperhidrosis and people keep pointing it out and saying things like you mentioned and it made me feel really insecure... Thankyou for talking on this topic. Loving your videos 💕
you have such a positive energy and thank you for being so genuine about your skin care journey
Hey Satshya, I want you to know that your speech is impacting many in a really positive way. The things you said about the skin colors are so true, and I really think that we should normalize all of it. At the end of the day, everyone is beautiful no matter what - there's always something that shines about them, and if not anything it's their smile that makes them glow :) Whether you wear makeup, or lipstick or not, I honestly found you to be pretty either way. I Hope everyone can feel confident in how they look like
I just love how honest, lively and candid you and your conversations are and the way you guide us and share your genuine reviews, in the videos, talking about the hyped products in the market, they're so helpful to me that I see myself reaching out and looking forward to your reviews and recommendations more than the beauty bloggers these days, cause at times with so much information and so many suggestions and the exposure on a gazillion variety of products to buy, it can get very overwhelming and confusing. I love the way you explain and keep it short, simple and especially relatable.
Also, corgis are super adorable to look at, so lucky you have one!
Lots of love and happiness to you! Keep going and spread shine and smiles everywhere! ✨🧿💖
🥹🥹 what a sweet comment! Thank you soooo much it means a lot ❤
You seem like a really cool person to be around 🥺💕 Really appreciate you sharing all these confidently and for inspiring others aswell 💓 There are lot of people who try to put us down or make us feel bad about our skin tone and imperfections but it’s self love & positivity that actually transforms us. ✨ Keep up your good work gurl 😍
Thank you for addressing this with relatable, factual content. And more power to your niece's mother. We don't realize the impact of colorism growing up but each statement of ridicule or "fun insults" roots heavily and obstacles inner confidence.
Close your eyes .. “deepika padakone “ speaking
Now i cant unhear it 😭
holyy sheeshh so trueeee
Omg its true😂
Yoooooooooooooooo😂😂
Omg yesss
As a dark South Indian girl living in North India I've always been discriminated against by my peers and teachers. My father had a colleague/friend who has a daughter(fair skinned didi) older than me and always bullied me as a kid. Anyways, we grew up and all bullying and stuff was in the past. I wanted to get admission in the same college as hers so I met her to inquire about the procedure since she was in third year. She provided me with all the info but asked me not to tell anyone that I knew her because that can cause my seniors (her peers) to bully me. Initially I was so happy about how she is so gentle and thoughtful of me. I told that to my bestie and she pointed out that the 'didi' is ashamed to show you, a dark skinned girl as her 'sister' because she calls us(black skinned mallus) names behind our back. I knew for a fact that she used to brag about how people don't believe that she's from Kerala because of her light complexion. It hit me like a train and I felt so bad even though I'm over it now. This is just one incident. There are just countless of them. I'm happy that I know better now and it doesn't bother me as much as it did in the past. I've started to love myself because my family, especially my husband keeps boosting my confidence by showering me with compliments. Beauty has nothing to do with your skin colour. Light skin, dark skin, skinny, curvy, too tall, too short blah blah blah.. Don't listen to toxic people. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL THE WAY YOU ARE. ❤
I have dusky skin ,not so dark skinned bt dark circles and little bit hyper pigmentation,I too often get asked about why being so "kaali" or black ,damn it ,my facial curves ,eyes ,eye lits ,eye brows are so good ,bt the one reason I m understood ugly is my brown skin....
Damn this society,I don't care!!!!!!
There is no one bigger than a teacher
Even mom dad
This is our culture
So if she teaches you
Than she is the one who deserve respect
@@hanzula1913 Ikr 😭 they give you compliments like "your skin is just a little dark but you've got nice eyebrows, if you were fair you'd have been so pretty, you still look good but.. you know what I mean right" I'm like oh okay ig 😅 (so I don't look good with my brown skin? Yeah thanks for breaking my already non existent confidence)
@@AtulKulkarni-dw6rz No she was not a teacher, she was a student at that college and that's a wrong take imo, teachers can be wrong too and we should always stand up against the wrong, even if it's your teacher or your parents.
@@aashnaps6166i really except the distribution of God of beauty health money respect character intelligence,I know I m made perfect,so better be happy for urself, don't dare to look down on me.
This is my attitude 😎
Kudos to you for speaking up on this topic!! I can totally connect to this, as I was told that I'm lucky to have my mum's skin tone. There are many people who were made to believe that their appearance = their self value. I wish and hope we collectively can acknowledge and rise over this generational trauma together.😊
Omg 🙊 yess!! I hope so toooo
Satshya! Satshya! Satshya! You EARNED a new subscriber today. Your shorts used to pop up in my feed, and that's how I got to know you as a creator. However, even after watching a lot of your UA-cam shorts, I never subscribed to your channel. However, today, watching you speak out about and normalize your insecurities gave me so much strength from within. Not kidding. Thank you so much for empowering me and other girls who watch your videos by showing how skin problems are normal, and how the "perfect" skin that we see as a result of good camera quality and lighting also has its own imperfections. We should not feel bad about them, and work on ourselves, as you have mentioned. Also, thank you so much for highlighting that working out also makes skin better. I have been planning to go to the gym for quite some time, and now I got another reason to do so. Thank you so much, Satshya. Love and love. Keep growing and bringing more videos like this one. ❤❤
Youuu 🤗🤗 what a kind message!
That 3 month strict routine! We are here for it ❤
This is soo true and relatable, I was fair skinned as a baby, but eventually my skin darkened, I never had a problem with it, neither did my family, none of us really cared about having fair/dark skin 😆✨. My mom always taught me to embrace my skin colour, she even told me what to say to the random bullies who used to tease me for being dark skinned, she told me that black, or dark colours are the really beautiful colours, our eye colour,hair colour etc is also black,lot of things around us in nature is balck coloured, even lord kirshna is dark skinned, so being dark skinned is not a bad thing or something to tease a person
Thank you for being so candid and genuine
OMGGG THIS IS SO CRAZYY.... I was JUST watching your video about u reviewing wether the products were worth the hype (simple facewash version lolol) and you POSTED!!!
Thank you so much didi you have actually helped wit my skincare journey sooo much 💕💕
TOTALLY NEED THAT 3 MONTH STRICT ROUTINEEE!!! (as a student trying to glow up before the next session starts 🥲🥲)
Love you.... keep up the good work didiii ❤
Hehehe what a nice coincidence hehe sureee will dooo
It was even harder for me because both my parents are the "white south person" and im the "normal south person". They ask you whose genes you got, even my grandparents are whiter than me. So it was hard growing up.
Thanks for talking about it ❤
Oh, that must be tough getting asked such weird questions from relatives, but do remember that it's your skin color, so just own it! We're all perfect in different ways and it's the confidence that's gonna give you the most amount of beauty ever ❤(and ignore your relatives plz 🙄)
This skin tone based discrimination just breaks my heart. My uncle once said to his daughter to not talk to a child because she is brown skin toned. This just broke my heart and the respect for my uncle.
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮whaaaat
I'm not a very confident person generally, I do feel insecure about how I look so I don't take selfies /photos expect festivals and special occasions. So one of the goal of this year was to take more pictures...but my skin been the worst it's ever been, lots of pigmentation and texture throughout my face.
Now seeing you talk about issues like this made me feel seen. So thank you and hopefully in the coming year it will be cleared and I shall take plenty of pictures and be comfortable with my skin like you 😊
TAKE MORE PICTURES!! I'm sure you're gorgeous inside out, so why you wanna miss out on that?? Come on, it's your smile and confidence that's gonna give you the most amount of beauty ever ❤ You're not alone in this for sure!
Yesss bless us with your 3-month eating clean + work out routine video
Thank you, Satshya for having this wonderful conversation about colour consciousness. Love ❤❤❤
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@@SatshyaTharienshare how u handle sweating.
Can we just address how pretty she is? Like her college pics are not at all embarrassing like mine 😂 love you girl!! That takes courage to show skin texture and talk about body image on a social platform like this. Proud of you!! ❤❤
Thank you so much for talking about darker lips or imbalanced lip pigmentation. I feel this is such an underrated topic, and having gone through it most of my life , I felt really relieved when someone spoke about it. My insecurity about it hasn't fully gone but I am trying not to get so affected with it. Again thank you so much for throwing light on such a small yet effective detail!
From your skin care journey to this pigmentation/skin tanning issue I felt every word of it all…thank for speaking about it like a real empathetic friend would. Lots of love and good vibes to you and yours❤❤
i've been loving your talks satshya, love how you're real and you seem like such a kind soul.
also yes pls make a video on sweating for us hyperhydrosis girlies
Umm excuse me, you have my husband as your profile picture!??!
we're married?😳@@suklapatra9669
You’re so honest, I love that!😊
most genuine video i saw so far. very honest,kudos to you
Thank you for speaking up for Skin tones... Colour/Skin tone shaming is so common in Asian countries and still bring tan or brown or of dark complexion is considered an issue.... Ridiculous.. But you put is so beautifully ❤❤❤ loads of love... Great its coming from content creators
the lipstick thing is so relatable, even I have pigmented lips but our school did not allow any lip balms or lipsticks, but now that I am in college I apply lipstick and my face just changes, I look so much better with lipsticks
Finally I found someone I can relate to. Everything you said feels so honest and inspiring. I can just listen to you all day. And your smile, that glow comes from your smile✨️
i just discovered your channel and i really love the positive energy that u spread.also ur smile's the prettiest YOU GO GIRLL!💖
Honestly being a boy, I don’t know that people can be insecure or worried about uneven lips. I don’t even know these standards exist. Either ways you are amazing and beautiful and beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. (Cliché, but valid)
If you are saying such things
You r not a boy
You are a man now
W man
Thank you so much for speaking about this! ❤ I needed to hear more of this and yesss, max relate yo 😂
I mean this lady's positive vibe >>>>>>
You were so genuine in this video. ❤ please make a video on your food routine you followed to deal with your skin issues
Your story about tanning is wonderful and heart touching 😍❤ thank you
Hi satshya! It's my first comment on your channel but I have been seeing your videos since a long time. I just wanted to tell you that you're my fav person on this platform and your content just brings so much joy and positivity into my life. I'd be glad if you could make your 3 months diet video. Plus do mention the eyeliner that you're using. You look amazing in it
More power to you girl! Even I have faced this same problem, I played so much sports and never carried an umbrella, my skin got tanned so much, but now slowly after joining office for so many years, my shade has become lighter.. i mean this happens to every one, its so normal.. love your videos as always 😃😃
I just saw this video randomly.. and i literally feel like this is so true as a teenager ik how it feels so.. this helps me alot to get motivated this is really appreciative.. so I'm not alone .. thanks for the wise words and experience you shared ❤️
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This video has a lot of comments now so not sure if you will read this one, but this is the first video of yours which I have watched and I just wanted to say I loved the way you addressed each point. The genuineness was so refreshing! Felt like I was having a conversation with a friend, and I'm sure lots of people could relate to the personal stories you added (including me). If there are any younger people reading this, please know that as you get older a lot of your insecurities fade away, I PROMISE! In fact, you will start to love the unique things about yourself and a lot of issues like acne will resolve by itself or with some good medication. A big part of maturing is is learning to be appreciative of the big things like health, the ability to run, laugh, and feel joy. Of course, we all feel insecure at times but its important in those moments to feel gratitude for all the wonderful things in your life!
Omg I have had to face the similar issue like you. I was born fair and remained in my original tone until i went to school as a kid. At that time, i was about 8-10 yrs of age and had been exposed to sun so much which resulted in extreme sun tan that darkened my skin quite a lot. I didn't see any issue in that until random relatives saw me and made comments like - "when did u get so dark like this? You weren't like this when you were more little"
"You are so dark now, why have u become like this?"
Some also gave me some illogical advices like to drink milk and not tea so that my skin won't get dark.
Anyways, my sun tan remained for some years but eventually as i got older it started to fade away more and more and during covid (lockdown) finally i got back my original skin tone after the childhood sun damage.
Now people give me so much compliments and say i got fair/ i look pretty etc but honestly these comments don't make me flatter but rather makes me feel disgusted about how these people see fair skin superior to darker skin. There's absolutely nothing wrong with someone being dark or if n someones gets sun tanned which makes them dark. There's no need to make dark skin looks like it's something bad, cause it's NOT. Let's change this bias
this is your first video im watching,and i wish i had come across your channel way before.
16:07 i feel the same way especially when ppl say this and not like only strangers but also your only imitate family.I feel really bad,sad and unlucky even tho there is nothing bad in having a dark skin but it’s just that ppl around me don’t think the same way or are the same way.
new subscriber here and thank you so much for talking about this i love your confidence and i wish your channel grows more❤️
Thank you for sharing this girl!! 🙌❤️
I am a dark skin tone girl and even I am conscious about it but the thing's u said about skin tone did boost my confidence and now I feel like I am brown beauty and however is my skin tone at all doesn't matter so thank u ☺️
I've had a similar experience with my skin tone - born with fair skin.. tanned a lot because I used to play a lot in the scorching sunlight, and from then on I was shamed a lot (aunts saying the same "aiyyo nee vallathe karuthallo"). Needless to say, my self-esteem was non-existent and it took me YEARS to accept my darker skin tone.. once I started working and the pandemic happening soon after, my skin tone changed and suddenly I was being given compliments, which at this point seemed fake to me, and did nothing to boost my confidence 😂 I just cannot stand the whole 'fair skin = beauty' bs anymore.
One of the most infuriating instances was when we were visiting Kerala for my cousin's wedding and I was carrying this huge suitcase to enter my aunt's house.. her husband stood by the door to greet us and the first thing he said when he saw me after almost 15 years was "aiyyo nee vallandu karuthupoyi" 😒 "dude I'm exhausted from a train journey, can you please shut up for a second?!" - is what I wanted to say to him, but couldn't 🥲
What does that mean
@@Kitty786kat basically, vallundu karthupoyi means "oh my god your skin has darkened."
Same here. What hurts more is your own family bulling you😢
100% absolutely need that sweat management video because I am constantly sweaty too!
Thank you for making this video. I usually do not comment. but this video deserves appreciation. Thank you for being so real and honest. Everything you said is so relatable, every single thing. God bless you
This is the first time I am listening to someone having the same lip issue that I have. It is so damn hard to find a lipstick. I use to think what is wrong with my face but now I don't care. Thank you Satshya for sharing this video.
Aaww 🤗 hugs ❤️ it’s actually a lot more common but I guess people don’t talk about it too much
Haha i also have the same issue
I have two-toned pigmented lips as well and I relate to everything you just shared about your lip pigmentation. I'm also learning to accept and love my lips but sometimes I can't help but feel jealous with those who have even toned pink lips especially when they wear lip oils or glosses 😅 i love this video thank you so much for sharing your story! ❤
Hahah man I relate so hard to this comment 🤗🤗 I also feel jealous (and I hate that I do) but slowly learning to redirect that and change my thinkinh
@@SatshyaTharien I got a lip tattoo for my pigmentation (had super dark grey lips), It's the best investment I have ever done in myself. Finally I can try all different lip colours and go for that glossy look. It;s worth considering
@@PixieFan900 oh myy that’s so fascinating!
@@SatshyaTharieni have tooo same type of lip pigmentation.. please suggest some good lipstick for us.... Please please 😢
Samee even I have two-toned pigmented lips and I would always wonder why they looked so different from other people's and the first time I were like a dark red lipstick I felt soo good
A much needed video- From a person with acne prone skin❤
i have brown skin tone and all my cousins have fair skin tone.so all my relatives used to praised my sisters beauty in front of me .and i used to feel so sad , even my grandmother used to love them more. but now as a 22 year girl, i became so confident about my skin colour .
both of my parents are really fair. And i am brown. All i heard from people was "oh maybe she is adopted or something haha lol" and none of them really taught of what on earth they are saying. I was in north India that time and no one would be friends with me cuz i was brown and they were fair. They literally said that to me on my face. It has taken years for me to actually love my skin color but every time i hear a comment, it still breaks my heart. Sending love to you and all other girls who are forced to feel bad about themselves because they do not fit the unrealistic beauty standards. Everyone is beautiful and the imperfections we all have is what makes us unique.
One more comment for you to read for : )
I have been frustrated with my dark circles issue for longest time. Like i am light wheatish (not fair exactly) and my dark circles are like DARK dark.Given that discolored lips have also been pain in my ass for good amount of time and even I feel great whenever I wear lipsticks. This video really helps me to focus on the all over health of my skin and not just some random teeny part of it.
Also I am quite intrigued to know what your diet and workout plan was/is. Would love a video on it. ✨easy!✨
Di , it feels really good to hear this from!!❤
you are so strong and thoughtful ❤
Would you make a seperate video on your 3 months strict journey regarding your diet & workout for healthy skin as you said about in this video ??.....really appreciate you the way u talked on such sensitive things about our shade, skin colour, body shape etc ☺️
Your content honestly feels so relatable. I would love to se more of it ♡ ♡
loved the honest conversation .....changing mindset is the best thing u could do to urself
Hi Satshya.. i am one of your newest subscribers from 2023, with an honest confession to make..
That.. i have seen your comic contents months back and enjoyed them but wasn't a subscriber yet.. but these two b2b videos from you, where you shared these personal yet very relatable experiences to almost every girl at some point of their lives, made me like you a lot more.. and it just forced me to subscribe to your channel.
Really appreciate your effort in having this personal touch with your audience/subscribers/followers.
Wish you a great year ahead ✨
lots of love❤ so glad you've spoken about this..being a dark skinned girl i was always bullied in scl and yeah even now my relatives make commets on my color..anyway i was never ashamed of my color or how i look and i'm glad you've spoken abt it...also please share your strict diet 😊
So happy for your positive journey!💜
As someone who also struggles with excessive sweating, would really appreciate a video on how you managed to deal with it.
Ahhhh it was so blissful listening to you❤🥺🥺
Discovered your channel today, on a Sunday morning, and I have already watched three videos ❤ you’re amazing 🎉❤
I got a lip tattoo for my pigmentation (had super dark grey lips), It's the best investment I have ever done in myself. Finally I can try all different lip colours and go for that glossy look. It;s worth considering
From u got ur lips tattoos done🥲
I think most of us in India have gone through this 'dark skin, fair skin' nonsense. As young kids, it really affects you, especially when there is no contradictory/difffernet narrative. When you're a kid and that is the only thing you hear, it becomes impossible to separate it from yourself and not internalize it.
You're the 2nd UA-camr (even after all these years) to candidly and extensively talk about this. I am so grateful for people like you. For me, @SherryShroff was the first person ever to talk about the reality behind skin tones (and a lot more like skin imperfections, scars, etc). Through her videos I realized that my skin tone is what I have and will never be able to change (oh the heartbreak when I first heard this and then subsequently confirmed on the Internet). But that is also when my acceptance began. And, slowly but steadily I started loving my skin colour. I owe so much to her, more for being the source of my really long self-love journey. I learnt how to embrace my natural self and love me for exactly who I am. And I am so glad to see another influencer talk about this! I am sure, Satshya, that you'll be this person for so many other people!
The after-effects of trauma already experienced is hard to reverse but if you can stop someone before they fall into this pit, it can bring such monumental changes!
My 5-6 year old self (who would desperately rub tubes of Fair & Lovely with the aching hope that it would make me at least a tad bit fairer) (yes, I agree that is horrible!!!) would be so proud to see me be absolutely in love my skin colour!
So much love for you guys.
Y'all are the real "influencers" for me!
Aaaw thank you so much for such a lovely message ❤❤ and I love sherry too 🤗🤗🤗
@@SatshyaTharien hey di ..i would like to request you to come with whole day and night skin routine showcasing all the products you use and in serial. I know this might sound clinche😢 but it was not clear to me the products in the previous video.. we can relate to you much please do if you can or tell me here only .
Loving your videos❤
you are so pretty honestly ❤
U r so genuine, so I definitely want a video on hyperpigmentation on intimate areas like armpits, knees, elbows, inner thighs. Will u please make a video on this topic??
would love to see a video on your 3 month skin transformation routine :)
Just came across your video and i loved u spoke abt two toned pigmented lips. So honest. Hatss off girl! ❤
I am glad you made this video. I have undergone a similar transformation so I can relate. Good that you brought about this topic that skin color doesn't really matter at the end of the day it's just skin! On the inside we all look exactly the same!
I am so glad that you spoke up about this. I have a similar story. I was born fair but used to go out and play under the sun a lot as a kid and got tanned very much as a result. I never had an issue with tanning nor my parents did but my own grandmother and some other relatives kept on pointing I looked so dark and looked like ( don't want to use the N term as its offensive but ig you guys get it). Anyway looked like they had a problem with everything. I also had curly hair and I often used to be called maggie hair, coils, relatives always told why did I look like this etc. One time they even had the audacity to say "oh none of your parents are so dark, why are you like this" I was just in class 4 or 5 back then. And about skin lightening some of my friends even used to bully me for it. I just want to say people just don't know how much damage they are doing. I was just a 10 y/o kid. Today I'm 22 and obviously due to not going out much and due to lockdown my tan went away a lot and my skin is much fairer now but even when now I go to my grandmother's place she always uses the term "you've become very beautiful NOW" like bro excuse me? I have heard about skin and hair so much since childhood that I straightened up my hair so many times which eventually was damaging my natural hair and even till date I just fear tanning because of all the negative comments I heard as a child. People think children will forget or they won't remember but children do remember all the hurtful stuffs and bullying and that gives them trauma as they grow up. Thank you for addressing this issue :) I am trying to heal from it and accept myself and I think myself to be beautiful
Omg I literally had the same experience. I relate to you on every level, and yes, going through those negative childhood experiences still affects us in the present. It's so hard to get out of that generational vicious cycle of insecurities and self-hate. I'm just glad that I've become more self-aware about these issues and constantly try to correct them as much as I can, even if sometimes I also struggle with those same insecurities.
@not_a_cat1392 I'm so glad we are trying to accept as we are, love ourselves, and think us to be beautiful. Healing takes time and we are doing great. More power to us 🫶🫂
Oh we sure need that 3 month routine love❤
Yes❤
i literally love you man😔😭
I LOVED YOUR HONESTTTTT BEHAVIOUR
Really loved your mother standing up for your dad, not many men these days get support in the world. I bet it mattered a lot to your dad and he must've been happy.
i had naturally pink lips, even red, people used to say that they look like blood is going to ooze out from them but after undergoing some health issues, anxiety and overall malnutrition, my lips have become super pigmented and no matter what, the pigmentation doesn't go away
But literally brown lips are pretty Asf IM not dark skinned but I have dark lips
Saw your video for the first time!! Subscribed because I really felt like you are a good person!!
Oh girl you are so super duper awesome. The way you are talking about your perfectly imperfections. That makes you so wise and brave. Lots of love to you ❤️ your imperfections makes you perfect. Inner beauty reflects in you 🫰😍
Hey Satshya, I would love to see the video on how you changed your skin more glowier because i have the same problem . i really wanna try out the routine that changed your skin ( like diet and workout ) . i hope it works for me too
Use glycolic acid toner at night and wear sunscreen in day.
I could literally relate to all the things that you talked about. Kudos to you and everyone who have shared these similar moments or have been part of a similar situation/ conversation. It takes a lot to speak up. I used to complain to my mom that why didn't you make me fairer when I was a baby... After years I understood this and accepted my genetics. My relatives used to always point out my complexion and they used to blame my parents saying she's her Dad's daughter not mom's... And I was like what the hell... My mom used to listen to all these silently and cry...Just before some years the same relative said the same thing again when we visited their house and I just lost it and it took a lot of courage to stand up and be vocal about it. And that was it... No one has ever talked to my mom or dad or even me again regarding this complexion thing. And am glad that i did it. And I used to cry a lot when someone said "Yaar tu Kaali hai" and all that... Now it doesn't even matter... I reply to them "Yaar kaali hun toh kya hua dilwali hun" 💖😅 My parents & my sister 's opinion matter to me. That's it... Whoever will love you... Will love the way you are, no matter what. Lot's of love to you for sharing this topic @SatshyaTharien And I would love to see a video on how you dealt with hyperhydrosis ❤
isn't kali the goddess❤️
i agree so much to the fact that sometimes...you dont speak back...its true we dont HAVE to reply, stay unbothered dont internalize! LOVE YOU!
Girl! So much of positivity in your video. Loved it, I think it’s something as Asians we are ridiculed by people around us based on our skin tone. The darker the skin the more ridiculing, also as girls or women I still remember one lady asking my father during a proposal ( arranged marriage ) “is your daughter darker skin toned or fair “
Also would love to watch a video of your food diet that allowed you to get healthier.
Would love to see the video on " what did you eat during those 3 months for glow
Oh my god, i love the way you shared everything 😭. Please share tips on how you handle sweat and body odour🥺Because i'm 90% sweat and 10% human.
I loved this video Satshya! You've addressed so many issues that i have personally also had to deal with. I'm Mallu too with a fair mum, dark dad...and yes i've had to deal with comments on how my dad looked madrasi and that was back when we lived in the North in the late '80s. Sad to see that such comments are still made. More strength to you!
I've been always pointed out coz of my skin tone when ever I get tanned, my pimples, my scars, my tiny bumps on forehead by my mum and everyone I absolutely i feel very insecure abt these stuff and all but i jus don't know your video gave me comfort thankyou so much 💗
Definitely need a video on how to control and handle sweating!! As me being an AMBIVERT whenever go through situation which makes me feel embarrassed or scared of I really start sweating all over my face and armpits and body, plssssss, I HOPE IT CAN HELP ME!!!!!
Ya me too