Stop These Insecure Dating Behaviors! - w/ Sabrina Zohar

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 49

  • @tedtalksrock
    @tedtalksrock 24 дні тому +40

    Audrey adds 300% to every episode, podcast, interview whatever she joins in on. Every person should add her to the discussion- they’d be nuts not to!

  • @JessicaEyman
    @JessicaEyman 26 днів тому +35

    *Gems in this episode*
    -Don't trauma dump (have other people you can talk to about certain things).
    -Therapy therapy therapy!
    -Honesty, vulnerability, express yourself firmly without "attacking" your partner/anyone else.
    -Enforce boundaries (don't fold, even for your partner)
    Help add more gems in the comment section ⬇️

  • @creepypisces83
    @creepypisces83 24 дні тому +13

    Absolutely adore Audrey, such a compassionate and articulate woman. She's such and amazing addition to your work Matthew ❤️

  • @oliviaszeplaki4386
    @oliviaszeplaki4386 26 днів тому +8

    I know Sabrina's story, but her personality is so strong that i could hear it a hundreds of other time

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire 26 днів тому +14

    it is so interesting to hear how different you process emotions, Audrey and Matthew! Audrey needs to vent first (i completely feel you !) and solutions come afterwards, and Matt is "complaining don't help, we find a solution NOW" 😀 And none of it is better or worse, it's just different approaches.
    Thank you for sharing and being so approachable ☺

  • @magicznaszyszka6944
    @magicznaszyszka6944 25 днів тому +7

    I’m too much but I’m not enough- THIS. This felt so hard, I stopped doing whatever I was doing and I was just thinking about this. It was such a great conversation to listen to!

  • @sayoutube88
    @sayoutube88 23 дні тому +10

    Thanks Audrey - for being a gentle, kind & sweet host. Sabrina has a very hard & strong personality - I am not sure about her advice or views on relationships- as it’s based on her own projections of her own upbringing. It works for Sabrina now - because she is in a safe relationship with a partner that seems to have a huge bandwidth for her. But not all partner can hold up so long like this.

    • @user-fn5bo2gq2d
      @user-fn5bo2gq2d Годину тому

      arent matthew and audrey also projecting ... they re all tallking based on what they know worked for them really none of this is science lol

  • @bumblebee_mrs
    @bumblebee_mrs 26 днів тому +6

    Loved this interview so much.

  • @vikinglass5496
    @vikinglass5496 День тому

    Sabrina is speaking my story. Thank you for this 😮😮😮😮 In therapy for a bit for abandonment and setting boundaries.

  • @diharmony5532
    @diharmony5532 26 днів тому +8

    Thank you so much for this video! Sabrina, I totally feel you. I had a similar story in my childhood. God bless therapy! 🙌

    • @bumblebee_mrs
      @bumblebee_mrs 26 днів тому

      I had the exact same childhood, but i had a malignant narc mother.

  • @Inventiff
    @Inventiff 25 днів тому +1

    I resonate so much with the behavior and patterns Sabrina experienced! I love this episode so much!

  • @Anonymous_frog88
    @Anonymous_frog88 26 днів тому +1

    Fantastic and relatable!

  • @miz6229
    @miz6229 5 днів тому

    Yay, San Diego! It's still "challenging," but not that bad. It's all about your attitude.

  • @wildbarenutrition
    @wildbarenutrition 6 днів тому

    A really great and informative talk, thanks 🙌🏻

  • @dazza8551
    @dazza8551 23 дні тому

    Great conversation! Learnt a lot from it, thank you 🙏

  • @nickysmith5808
    @nickysmith5808 7 днів тому

    Thank you for a real conversation between three people who like and respect each other. Loved the blend of each energy and feedback. 🙏

  • @stephen12holbrook
    @stephen12holbrook 11 днів тому

    I love the contrast between Sabrina's rapid spitfire and swearing style of speaking with Matthew/Audrey's softer, slower style of speaking. Love seeing these three talk!

  • @noticeyourneighbor8649
    @noticeyourneighbor8649 23 дні тому +4

    After plenty of relationship struggles, my biggest hurdle is what you talk about at the 28 minute mark. I was just talking to my friends about how puzzling it is to determine where my needs, wants, and desires eclipse or conflict with my partners’ and vice versa. I fear it will be a lifelong dissatisfying struggle and it makes me think I am not really able to have a healthy relationship.

  • @bibibamusxx
    @bibibamusxx 5 днів тому

    This whole 55 minutes were spot on and powerful 🥰😍

  • @YolandaVaSa
    @YolandaVaSa 24 дні тому

    Thank you!🤍

  • @sonne56
    @sonne56 24 дні тому +3

    it seems to me that you have to know yourself very well in order to express your needs, what if i have a partner who doesn't know himself well and instead of saying what he needs he is just angry - is the relationship doomed to fail even though it may just be a misunderstanding or a different approach to dealing with issues? you could react angry to aurdrey and audrey could feel not being seen for her approach - both of you would feel not being seen and missunderstood - even if you love each other the relationship could end when stuff like this happens a lot..

  • @anakacarova9646
    @anakacarova9646 24 дні тому +1

    Wow! Dream collaboration ❤
    I have been listening Sabrina's podcast Do the work for some time. And i have always been thinking "wow, she reminds me of Matthew..."
    Amazing job 🎉
    Congrats from Bulgaria 🇧🇬

  • @MiaDolceJulia
    @MiaDolceJulia 25 днів тому +1

    Sabrina is so real😊🎉 Love it ❤️
    Emotional and embrace it!

  • @BarbusBanks
    @BarbusBanks 26 днів тому +7

    I love this guest. I really relate to her experience

  • @SethNobrega
    @SethNobrega 20 днів тому

    This was a remarkable interview. I felt like I related to her quite a bit.

  • @lisanathan7336
    @lisanathan7336 25 днів тому

    Amazing ❤

  • @heyu123
    @heyu123 18 днів тому +1

    Two women both have very different energies. Audrey is a gentle soul and Sabrina is quite a strong character

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire 26 днів тому +6

    can i double-like?
    i feel touched.

  • @ghaili1175
    @ghaili1175 13 днів тому

    Waiting for my book

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire 26 днів тому +3

    oh and hello from one sensitive little ball of fire to another, Sabrina Zohar! : )

  • @marialiedel7971
    @marialiedel7971 26 днів тому +8

    I love Audrey so much🥹

  • @kyee9723
    @kyee9723 26 днів тому +1

    awesome

  • @bigcatenergy3707
    @bigcatenergy3707 23 дні тому

    Hi Matthew, thank you for this video. There’s a particular topic I don’t think you’ve covered that I wanted to seek advice on. What if you genuinely just don’t want to put in the effort to date? Is it ok to just fully let go and take a break? Sometimes I worry that I won’t come back from it but I genuinely don’t have the desire to date rn. Thank you 🙏

  • @joshuadarocha7421
    @joshuadarocha7421 10 днів тому +1

    I did some reflection the other day and I have been with people who always needed me to be there to help them fix something about themselves and I never fixed myself during those relationships, I am currently dating someone who is perfect but I am having thoughts that she doesn't need me and lack of self confidence, what should I do?

    • @Dragonboy55564
      @Dragonboy55564 7 днів тому

      She chose to stay with you. That is something you should trust in. If she is really a perfect person like you say, that means she sees something in you that you may not see in yourself.
      Relationships shouldn't be about "fixing" each other, but complementing each other while still maintaining individuality. Basically, you should be uplifting each other while still being able to stand on your own.
      Maybe you should consider if there's anything you can do to increase your opinion of yourself. Are there any hobbies or trainings you can do to make yourself more valuable (for example: being a great cook, being fit, being knowledgeable / cultured / well-read, being creative, being kind and socially conscious etc.)? Working on yourself is one way you can be more confident in yourself.

  • @tmi925
    @tmi925 23 дні тому

    ❤ wowwy...Brand-New to channel...too much all @ once! Lol.. it's xtrodinary to verbally diagram how the psyche jumps from protective mechanism to inseting/finding a hole/break to let something else guide you... to unburden yr psyche.. I'll have to come back to the video.
    UA-cam has literally been my guide to self-help.

  • @lylyanazarela4807
    @lylyanazarela4807 25 днів тому +1

    Can you please make one with Sadia Khan ❤

  • @hunghnguyen6257
    @hunghnguyen6257 25 днів тому

    Dating in London at 11pm

  • @bigcatenergy3707
    @bigcatenergy3707 19 днів тому

    40 minutes was key for me

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 26 днів тому +1

    💜💜💜

  • @melpp2000
    @melpp2000 25 днів тому

    I LOVE AUDREY

  • @user-ro3ci5jw7y
    @user-ro3ci5jw7y 19 днів тому

    Sabrina❤

  • @isas6473
    @isas6473 26 днів тому +1

    Woa

    • @isas6473
      @isas6473 26 днів тому

      I've never been a first comment to a popular channel before. . . Very cool 😮

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 13 днів тому

    I was put on this earth.To be happy and find love.My life has turned to be crap.my advice stay single.Its a better life.To many Golddiggers .Stay lonely.

  • @rosswardrop465
    @rosswardrop465 13 днів тому +1

    Men please stay single.You will get ripped off .Women want to much.

  • @brookeedgecombe8527
    @brookeedgecombe8527 20 днів тому

    I don't like the way Matt says "her" or "she". Also don't like that he calls her complaining.