Left the Hospital - New Treatment - Life Updates - Stage 4
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Jenny Appleford
7211 Haven Ave, Unit E-407
Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91701
Kyle’s Channel:
/ @kyleapple9702
INSTAGRAM: jenny_appleford
FACEBOOK: Our Brave Jenny
For business inquiries: veganapplefords@gmail.com
DIAGNOSIS:
March 19th, 2021 Stage IIIA Non Small Cell Lung Cancer (Non-Smoking)
February 2022 Stage IV Non Small Cell Lung Cancer (spreading to Brain, and other parts of lung and lymph nodes)
Gene Mutation EGFR with Exon 20 Insertion
TREATMENTS: Received or currently Receiving
2021: 8 Rounds of Chemotherapy (Carboplatin and Paclitaxel) with 30 concurrent radiation treatments to chest and lung
Failed Immunotherapy directly after Chemo and Radiation (Durvalumab, 1 round)
2022: Chemotherapy
10 rounds of Chemotherapy (Carboplatin, Alimta, and Avastin)
6 with Carboplatin, 4 without
Targeted Brain Radiation (Completed)
CURRENT TREATMENT:
I am on a clinical trial for my specific gene mutation
Our GoFundMe Link:
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The purpose of my channel is to document my cancer journey to look back on, and/or help anyone else going through anything similar. It is also to potentially help loved ones supporting those who are in this fight as well. This is also an easy way to update a lot of people at once. My main goal is to have footage of this journey for my husband and children to look back on. I originally created this channel as a sort of video diary for my
family.
Thank you so much for following along on this journey. Your love and support help me so much.
Kyle hang in there buddy. You are feeling overwhelmed because you are overwhelmed. There's no way around it. Cancer is war and you are in the trenches.
❤
True words.
Very true
Seriously. So hard.
That‘s very well-worded. I‘m also a caregiver and it’s rough. One of my outlets is playing CoD MWII, it sounds crazy, but it lets me get out of my head. I can’t recommend selfcare enough. I‘ve taken up journaling and started drawing (online class). Both help me clear my head and bring a calmness with them. You‘re a true superhero @Kyle!
If everyone had a partner that treated them how Jenny treats Kyle or how Kyle treats Jenny, what a better world this would be ❤
Amen…that would be a true blessing if “all” were this good and caring and loving to their wives…I wish mine had been this way many years ago too…😢
@@wandastevens3183 I’m sorry! 😢
So true..God bless their little family. Our world needs to be filled with people like them. Much love and prayers. 💗
@@BrendaEisenhart-ve2gb I agree!
yeah, in other words, if there were no ZOGonzo tribe joo media trying to divide us/separate us/make us war among each other. yeah, the truth is what you just read.
I’m re-watching Jenny’s videos and can’t comprehend that she’s passed away. She was an incredible woman and Kyle was and still is her perfect partner! What an inspiration they will continue to be. Miss you sweet Jenny.
I'm doing the same thing .Still hard to believe shes passed.
Love y’all so much. Sweet little Jenny
Kyle do y’all live close to Slab City by chance?
Rewatching this amazing family's videos is shocking because there is a lot of last events as a family of 4 😢😢
Kyle is an amazing husband , he makes the world a better place!
Das stimmt. Er ist ein sehr lieber und fürsorglicher Mann.
He's an extraordinary human being. He's strong, loving, compassionate, thoughtful, brave, etc. The children have an amazing dad. I don't know what else to say.
Yes he does ❤❤❤❤
There's not many men as good and kind as Kyle. They were so blessed to have found each other. Rest in peace sweet Jenny.
When my husband had cancer, a relative asked me how I was. I replied that my husband was having this done and that done. My relative said, 'No, I was asking how YOU are'. It is something I have never forgotten. Kyle, you are going through this just as much as Jenny and it is hard work. Kyle, how are you?
Yes it's very important to care for the car giver, I know very well I am one.
As a caregiver you have to stay strong qnd cant let feelings take over to much.
I love this! Yes, Kyle, how are you? Remember to breathe and remember to do something for you.
Praying for Kyle too & the kids & miss Flower 💗
Exactly. The stress it brings onto the caregiver is very hard. Having serious medical issues can really do some work on the families. It's like you can't ever catch up or even worry about yourself and the sick individual feels sad because they can't help much. It's an awful cycle. My heart is with them.
Someone please work out how to clone Kyle and have all the Kyles go out on speaking tours around the world to mentor husbands about being husbands. He is so so caring and loving and considerate and the epitome of what having your partner's back in all situations looks like. He knows when to sit back, when to speak up and most of all how to love selflessly. Bless you all. Big love from Australia xx
Agree 100%
Yes, please!!
Yes mam!! Kyle is an awesome husband and father!! The world need more Kyles in it. 💜
YES!! They're an awesome couple!!
I couldn't have said this better! And Jenny is an appreciative wife!
I always thought my husband was the greatest man in the world and I still do after 54 years of marriage but Kyle is right up there with him and always positive. What a wonderful man!
So wonderful to hear!! I knew my husband loved before my diagnosis but I’ve have seen the true aspect love through my journey
AMEN AMEN 🙏🙏🙏 THANK ( GOD) FOR YOUR HUSBAND & THANK ( GOD) FOR KYLE. ( LORD) PLEASE BLESS HIM WITH STRENGTH/ PEACE.SURROUND HIM WITH THE LOVE OF FAMILY.N THE NAME OF ( JESUS) AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏
It is only because you are so brave and wonderful that God sent you Kyle. You are truly an inspiration to everyone. I think and pray for you daily.
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Winnie could not be any cuter, I melted when she said she didn't want to go cause she missed mom. You have such a beautiful little family.
A testament to their marriage that Kyle knows that he can speak freely about his own feelings through this journey❤️
I have an Inogen portable oxygen unit. I like it very much. It weighs 4 lbs. Maybe that's something you can look into.
Good to see you guys, so glad your pain is better!🍇🌹
Kyle doesn't say I I I I me me me but always says us. I agree that Jenny needs to be up and walking as much as she possibly can so she doesn't lose a muscle tone in her legs. I think with having a walker a motorbike and oxygen and wheelchair is a lot. I hope that you can get some of the stuff eliminated at some point.
Kyle deserves a fkin medal taking care of the kids, working and taking care of Jenny if the roles were reversed we would be hailing her as 'saint Jenny', Kyle you deserve way more recognition for your tireless devotion, you make me as a male feel extremely proud.
This is love!!! It isn’t always easy but when you truly love this is a shining example. Kudos to this family
Yes, he is an angel on earth. Incredibly selfless.
no people would probably consider it normal bc she is a woman and she is naturally a care taker🤮
Why? He's a husband and father. In sickness and health is the role
@@user-eq1jw4fz6s Theory Of Mind..it's a thing, look it up!
I love how Kyle uses “US” and not just Jenny. He is in the fight for his LOVE. Hang in there Kyle and Jenny. U R LOVED MORE THAN U KNOW❤
Exactly he is incredible!! My husband said to me recently its not just you that has cancer I do too!! Of course he didn’t mean that literally!! I am also very bless to have the husband I do!! It’s so important when you struggling
Me too ❤
You are a great example, Kyle, of what our Heavenly Father describes a husband should be. You walked through it all with Jenny. ♥️
Many men these days would not be so involved. Beautiful. God bless you and those beautiful little ones. 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼
How beautifully written.❤
@@heatherscarlett4459 thank you Heather. ❤
Yes this pretty much showed what real love is. They have experienced it. Xx
Can everyone just imagine what this world would be like if it were full of Jennys and Kyles. Wow what a magical world it would be! I just adore you and your beautiful family!
That’s a beautiful thought❤
100% ❤
True! ❤Beautiful Family 🙏❤️ I love you Jenny! God bless you guys !❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
True, they are so beautiful people! Inside and out.
Absolutely.What a beautiful family.❤
Never apologize for not filming. Nothing makes us happier to hear you had some good “ non cancer” time-priceless
Don’t feel bad about taking blood. Think of those of who
donated in the hope that someone like you could benefit.
I am unvaccinated. They will not preform surgeries or procedures on me , or transplants if I did not get the V, I have canceled my donor status. If I am good enough to give body parts but not good enough to receive them they do not deserve my blood or body parts. I believe the 400 percent increase in cancer is caused by the V. No one wants to mention the elephant in the room though.
It’s a cult mentality.
Exactly! I started donating after my mum’s cancer journey because she needed blood a few times and I was so grateful she could get blood, so I started donating so that other people in her situation would have blood if they needed it ❤
Kyle and Jenny love each other..every couple should have this kind of marriage.
I've been married 45yrs! Hubby and I have love and respect for each other which is what we see in Kyle and Jenny❤❤❤❤❤ I'm sad to know today that these folks don't have the chance to reach 45yrs together.
Kyle is a Perfect Partner👍🏻👍🏻He jumps in and just does what’s required. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Every woman should have a man like Kyle in their life. Here is a man for whom the wedding vows are much more than just words: It is a scared promise. But you can tell by looking at his face and listening to his voice that he is scared of losing Jenny. But they are both fighters and I pray God will grant them a miracle. If any two people deserve one, it's these two!
Absolutely amen!!!
When Kyle asked Winnie if she was excited to go to her recital and she says “I want to be with Mom” Oh my heart… 🥺 💔 Praying so hard for you Jenny - you have been through so much, yet still find the strength to be there for your babies’ special moments. You are a superwoman and I thank you for sharing your journey because your tenacity and positive attitude is everything. ❤️
Jenny and Kyle , I am 75 years old and have been watching your journey. In my life I have rarely seen a love that matches yours. Your strength is enduring and your children are blessed to have you as parents. God bless you and hold you in his hands as you continue this fight. Jenny you are so loved by so many.
When my husband came home with oxygen I was so overwhelmed. It's amazing how fast you get used to those tanks. He also had a drain tube. I'm so glad you're home and have such a great support team. What a blessing.
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What a sweet husband you have ❤you guys are strong together ...God will see you through this 🙏🙏 Good days will be here soon 🙏 in Jesus name 🙏❤
Love and God bless you Jenny and your family 💜
🙏🙏🙏
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😮😅😅😅😅😅😮😮
The two of you are GRACE personified. Bless all of you!
Truly. Substance and grace and tenderness under extraordinary circumstances. I have never been loved the way they love each other. Jenny and Kyle 4EVER 💘
Here I am navigating through Jenny’s cancer journey again. I miss her like she was a close friend of mine. I hate all she had to endure ….its hard to watch all over again. I am so thankful she never has to hurt or suffer from cancer ever again. Praise God for Kyle, what an amazing husband!!! ❤Love
Dear heavenly Father please heal Jenny and all suffering from cancer and illness in Jesus name
Amen! ❤
🙏🏻
Amen 🙏 ❤
Heavenly father never healed no one, because there is no heavenly father.
@@kikosan5984 I Pray that you find the Lord. Please Lord come into Kikosan’s heart. I Love You Jesus. Amen🙏
As a cancer patient 19 years ago. Pushing yourself to fix your hair and makeup can help you boost your immune system in little ways. Yes it’s true. Wearing bright colors help boost moods. Wearing a red shirt, red lipstick will lift your mood. I took a class with other women with cancer. these were tips to boost mood. It can make your children feel upbeat seeing you that way.
Look Good. Feel better. That’s the program I was in 15 years ago after getting a breast cancer diagnosis. Jenny doesn’t need a class….she already knew the importance of being “cute” in all of this. WTG, Jenny! We continue to pray for you and ALL who love you. ❤️
What great advice.
Jenny is pretty anyway, I just thought I would pass my positive experience along.
That is true. Always do what you love
Sending love, hugs, prayers and kindness with positive thoughts.❤❤❤❤
We all got our wish! You are back home Jenny! Hooray!!! Now we pray extra, extra hard that this new clinical trial medication will help you! Hugs!!!! 💞🤞🙏💝🌠
Yes! 💯
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Time to take care of Kyle.
The part where Winnie said, I don’t want to.. Kyle asks what don’t you want to do? I don’t want to go bc I’ll miss mommy. All who love Jenny and you believe in the healing power of prayer.. let’s storm heaven for her. This just breaks my heart!!!
At first, Winnie thought her Mom wasn't going to see her performance. Kyle had to remind her. ☺️
@@seaslife60 yes, it just broke my heart that she would even think she couldn’t go. 🥲
I understand that you are feeling overwhelmed Kyle. Cancer involves the caretaker in a stressful way. And then trying to take care of sweet Jenny and two children. There is support groups you can go to. Jenny you have gone through so much with pain and trying all these trials and how they affect you. You are in my prayers for courage and strength.
I think he mentioned in a previous video that he’s going to therapy.
He’s such a trooper and an incredible human being! It takes a lot of strength to be there for everyone. ❤️❤️❤️
Yes agree Kyle needs the help at the moment .
Yes, he said he does go to therapy …
Jenny and Kyle, call your power company and tell them Jenny is on oxygen. They' ll put you on a service list just in case the power goes out. I love you both, and I'm so glad you're home Jenny.
And they should have an oxygen generator at home (they also generate heat) and possibly qualify for a travel/personal oxygen generator.
Sending hugs and loads of positive thoughts and prayers ❣️
VERY good suggestion! Or a generator would be good, but full power even better👏👏👏
@@kcatlady2018Is there a social worker at the hospital who knows all this stuff?
@@mimibee626: I’m sure they can ask them or her team. There are home generators/concentrators (you can add humidifier too-oxygen bubbles through the water)…can have 25 feet of freedom to roam. Requirements can vary for home and portable use but I’m sure her/their amazing team can assist with all of this (including the power company component for medical need).
So happy they are home!!
Additional suggestion: there are little pads that go around the tubing to protect (hopefully prevent) skin. ❤
I can't believe as sick as she was. They didn't have a portable oxygen Tank to go around with her!!. I have COPD and I have a portable oxygen tank. And I'm nowhere near as sick as she was. That is Horrible,love you Jenny. Her insurance company sucked!!!!
I can't imagine how overwhelming this has been for you both. And both in very different ways. Kyle you are one heck of a person. Care taker, daddy duties, working when you can and trying to take care of your own mental health as well. You both are incredibly strong people. So many prayers sent your way
Winnie is the sweetest little girl. When she said she didn’t want to go to her dance recital cause she missed Mommy just opened my heart. All my prayers to Jenny & her precious family. 🕊️🤍🌹
Never apologise for not filming. I’m sure l speak for all your UA-cam family when l say l am grateful to you for sharing your lives with such honesty and warmth. You inspire me to be more thoughtful and kind. Sending my love and prayers to you all.
May EVERY woman,have a Kyle in their life!!!❤️🙏 Prayers to you Jenny and your beautiful family!!
AMEN ❤❤❤❤😊
Kyle is an amazing husband!!!
Hang in there, Jenny! We are all out here cheering for you!
Don't be discouraged. When I had Covid Pneumonia and then Bacterial Pneumonia I was on oxygen for 4 months but I was able to come off of the oxygen but it took some time. So hang in there. Love you guys! Better days are coming!
Covid is not Cancer. Do not compare, please.
My mom too she was on a ventilator and once discharged she needed oxygen 24/7 for a few months I had to end up purchasing a tiny portable concentrator that looks like a purse, it was a real life saver.
I think she’s in a different situation to you. Not sure terminal cancer is the same as Covid.
@@user-xy4ff5yp7beh, COVID can cause chronic lung disease, which, while not stage 4 lung cancer is just as impactful on oxygen levels and needing supplemental oxygen to feel better. I personally have CLD and my 02 regularly goes down to the 70s and I feel like absolute trash when it does. Just saying. 🙃
Yes but stage 4 cancer is terminal
Miss you guys already so much.. just keep re watching these old videos just to hear you both. I pray you and the kids are ok and having some healing time together.
Kyle reminds me of my Dad when my Mom was going through treatment. Such a support and great husband! My mother's last words were thanking my father, saying he had been a "Saint' throughout her long battle. "Yours is not over, Jenny!!" I am talking of years ago, and there are so many advancements. I admire you so much for your positivity and strength❤
This video of Winnie’s precious moments…is an example of “beauty from ashes”! Even though I know you are battling the fight of your life, there is still a lot of beauty that’s shining through this storm! May the Lord continue to bless, comfort, & heal!
Amen ❤
Amen🙏♥️
Amen 🙏
Amen❣️🕊
Yeah! Glad you’re home. Still praying for you, your family and medical team.
Yep! So glad they are home so she can recoup and be with her babes and Kyle❤.
I like the idea of cloning Kyle 😂 the best Man, seriously.
Jenny you are just absolutely beautiful, thank you for allowing us into your world.
Yes thank you Jenny Rest Easy Sweetheart ❤❤❤❤ May GOD bless your soul ❤❤❤❤😊
Always so happy to see a post from you guys! You are my favorite family on UA-cam. Thank you so much for letting us into your lives and best wishes!
i agree 100%!
Me too. Love you guys. So glad your feeling better Jenny ❤
same here! i pray every night for Jenny and for Kyle. I look every day for a new update. I feel like I know them after all this time. Keep on keeping on y''all. You got this.
We love you guys ... alot! ❤
My friend brings her portable oxygen tank with her when we hike. People who pass by us regularly cheer for her. She can’t get it wet, so rainy days don’t work but other than that it’s wonderful!!!❤
Somehow I believe starting another new clinical trial is so soon. I may be wrong of course Jenny’s body hasn’t healed yet. She is weak, no energy and her pain is getting worse and now draining the liquid out of her lungs that’s also another pressure on her body an additional pain. I am not a doctor or a nurse like some of you but I wonder if this new trial would ease her pain and bring her better quality of life.
I would appreciate if anyone who is a nurse or doctor or had experience like hers could give us their opinion about this or any ideas even that would be great.
Would it hurt to wait at least 1-2 months for her to get better stronger ? Just trying to learn that’s all. At the end it’s her decision and I do hope I am wrong. ❤❤ praying for her and the family. ❤
Hello Jenny and Kyle, I’m so sorry for you both going through this. I’m from California but live in England (26) years! I wanted to let you know if you EVER need bone marrow or blood, anything, I can fly to California asap and donate. I will be there anyway the first two weeks of September. But my husband is an airline training captain and I can use staff travel to be there in a moments notice.
I wanted to also write to you regarding a private message, but I haven’t been able to receive an email for you.
My only son, Adam (20), was killed on my birthday by a train while at university on November 2, 2021. The traumatic grief has been soul destroying and I’m still living day by day just to survive. At one point, I really wanted to die. Then I found your channel and indirectly, you made me realise just how precious life is. Your daily videos have helped me to survive and day by day, I’m learning to live with this grief and fight through, just like you. I wanted to thank you. By the both of you sharing, I’ve been able to keep going. Thank you and God bless.
Hope Jenny and Kyle
See this message!
You make me cry 😢
of happiness to knowing
that still people like
you on this world ❤️🙌
God bless you too 🙌
@@dulcehajjar5826 thank you so much. I’m sure Jenny and Kyle have their hands full at the moment and most likely will never see my message. But it was important for me to post…..angels come into our lives in so many ways…..indirectly, Jenny and Kyle have saved my life. If they don’t read it now, one day in heaven they will be very blessed for this….and for helping others through whatever they’re suffering…..because their fight allows people to remember what’s important in life. Love….and to never give up hope within the depths of despair. Nothing else matters….
@@julesindigoblue4441I’m sorry for your devastating loss …I’m glad you found Jenny 💗 My sis is sick with stage 4 OC and Jenny(Kyle too) has taught me so much about how best to help or support her.
I have no words just ❤
The part where Winnie was holding the flowers after her performance made me cry, she looked so proud 🥹
same ...a stunning specialtime of encouragement for Winnie
Your new track suit is adorable 🥰 Kyle has such good taste. He loves Disney, animals, vegan food, shopping for cool Disney stuff and of course he’s an amazing dad and husband. He’s really a dream come true. I’m so glad you found him. ❤❤
Kyle is a style guru!
Oh my goodness! Sweet little Winnie being celebrated! So precious. Youve got an amazing irl support system and all of us! We're with you!
She gets way too much attention
Kyle is amazing at keeping 'normality' with the kids....an amazing guy all round. Much love to you all xx
You guys need an Amazon wishlist! Sending you continued prayers 🙏🏽
My Aunt had a portable oxygen tank - she loved going to the casinos!❤️ That’s what she used!! Jenny, you look so much better🙏🙏
Kyle, you rock!!! it’s no wonder you are feeling overwhelmed . You have been through so much. Navigating everything is a lot of work and leaves you very little time to process how you are feeling. You are included in all our prayers!
E sa aaa😅
I’m going to go donate to Jenny’s go fund me every payday. We love you and we ate rooting for you sweet Jenny. ❤️❤️❤️
My mom had a portable oxygen machine to use when she went someplace and it was about the size of a very small cooler with a handle like a purse. It was light weight and easy for her to carry on her own. She had pulmonary fibrosis and the oxygen was also needed full time. It was so nice to know you got to come home. Winnie looked so adorable for her recital. I remember those days with my daughter. Nice memories.
I’m very anemic, and I had a blood transfusion recently. Like you, I was super grateful that someone gave blood to help me get back functional. You’re in my thoughts and prayers!! 🕊️
multiple blood transfusions kept me going. So grateful for blood donors. Hope they figure out why you are anemic soon.
I have had to have blood more than once, and now they won't let me donate😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😅😮😮😮😮😮
They have bags that hang from the back of the wheelchair that you put the oxygen tank in
Then why was she so skived out on yesterdays video. If all those people in her family are blood donors I don't understand why she said blood transfusions were creepy and gross. But today she's grateful. I feel a little gas lit like the video on not getting pain meds. Everyone was upset to hear that, the next day she put a video saying she didnt appreciate the negativity, when people were literally were rallying around her in support. i have supported Jenny by giving gifts and prayers and this is simply my option and allowed to it
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 grow up . It's manipulation to appreciate her opinion, but have an opinion of my own. You have to much time on your hands , especially if you want to pick a simple statement apart, I'm entitled to my opinion.
My dad had lung cancer & his biggest gripe was his oxygen tanks. It's definitely a battle & make you feel like a prisoner as he said. Just always have extra tanks available & they do have wheels carriers & bags. You will shortly become a pro at how much oxygen you use in your tank & for your machine at home they also have long tubing to allow to get around the house. My dad also would have his tank on his foot or lap while being pushed around.
All my prayers being sent your way. ❤❤
An hour. A week. A month. A year. I thought about that as my wife and I watched this video. We've watched most of the videos, but this one in particular, for some reason: an hour, a month, a week...
I don't remember what I was doing this time last week, or last month. A year? Please. I know for certain that I took that time for granted. I'm crying right now. I'm trying to make a point.
Watching Kyle take care of Jenny, and especially those times he can't hold back the tears, but just for a second! And then he's strong again for Jenny and the kids. It all humbles me, and makes me look at my wife, and think about time and how it passes unnoticed. Last year became this year, and last month became this month so quietly that I barely remember the transitions.
But what really gets me is that I have to remind myself how wonderful my wife is, and how much I love her. This isn't about me. It's about my wife. It's about how watching these videos from Jenny Apple and Kyle reminds me to look at her, and realize how much I love her. And also to remember how precious time is. Every hour, every week, every month, every year. Every second.
For Jenny and Kyle, and the kids: my wife and I wish you time.
Jenny and Kyle you are amazing. Thank you for documenting your journey. I’ve been a nurse for 41 years. Definitely look into the portable oxygen concentrator. It will help tremendously. Be frank with the doctors about your pain. Don’t be afraid to ask for better pain management. Praying this new clinical trial is the answer to all of our prayers! You look so much better since being discharged from the hospital. Never apologize for forgetting to film!!! Stay strong. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. 💜✨🙏🏼✨💜
There’s a portable one called Enogen that’s better
I have been praying for 3 children with cancer and I included you, Jenny tonight. God Bless you and God Bless your ROCK SOLID husband Kyle. 🙏❤✝️
please pray for me too i hav stage 4 oc God bless you
@@julietJ7070 It would be a true honor to pray for you. I am but a humble servant of God's. I must say that in this ever increasing maddening world; praying for those with cancer gives me peace. All of you are what truly matters in the world. God Bless You. 🙏❤✝️
Kyle is so overwhelmed. He works day in and day out robotically. Praying for your family.
Kyle please take time for yourself, as a caretaker for 41 years it does get to you . Take a break, go for a walk or a ride on your new bike , and take time to cry and let it out…..you need it and so does the kids , talk let them voice their feelings ..it’s important . Jenny gets the support from all of you but we often forget the rest of the family ….
So important. 🙏🏻🩷
@@openlybookish yes it is !! Very very Important ! Plus the kids may need some therapy . Ours did some painting therapy to open up a bit and feel free to talk and play it out their sadness and fear
Sometimes the caregivers got very involved and put 100% of their efforts into the care they would not allow themselves to take breaks. In the end they get burn out and depression.
It is OK to take a break, have time for yourselves with your friends for a night out. If you breakdown everyone fails.
@@Kitty_Lechat Amen , we caregivers don’t even see it coming ! It is a lifesaver to me that someone brought it to my attention and boy did I need it
Agree
Kyle is such a strong man to stay by his wife side through out her health problems that she is going through at the moment
My husband of 42 years would just look in on me once a day and say "she's resting" until my BFF asked if I had eaten anything in tye last week. Sigh.
It's possible that Ellis cried because of his relief, now that his Mom is back home. Winnie's red dress was stunning.
Winnie is such a beautiful little dancer. Loved the tutu. Ellis is such a supportive brother. You are doing a wonderful job raising them. Continued prayers. ❤️🙏
There may not be another line of treatment, it may be time to consider comfort care. I’d encourage you to think and talk about end of life. It’s normal to be scared of death and sad, but we all face it some people sooner than others. As a nurse, it is clear when you’re in clinical trials that the end might be near. Your body is clearly getting weaker after the last “treatment” you attempted. There comes a time when the benefits of not treating outweigh the possible adverse effects of experimental trials. Keep an open mind to palliative care so you can focus more on family and cherishing these last weeks.
If you were a young mother with young children, would you want to give up hope completely? I'm sure she knows there's a big chance it will not work, but she's trying anything to buy a little bit more time. My father had pancreatic cancer- he had a stage four diagnosis and usually you go very quick with that, He participated in a clinical trial and had two more years with us which the doctor said was rare in his case.
I have thought the same thing but too terrified to say it- I’m praying for a freaking miracle.
I know, she just wanted to try everything, Kyle was so defeated, he knew, but couldnt say, their love got them through everything til her body gave up totally, “her body was ready to go”, couldnt walk, nothing, thats fight, her adverse side effects were horrendous, i so wish their was a miracle, so many if onlys, so so dreadfully sad, government must step up to cure this thing
Brave girl beyond words. Wonderful husband. Gorgeous children. Spectacular dog. ❤❤
Jenny I’m
So glad you’re home and that you made it to Winnie’s dance recital! She looked beautiful and so did you. Loved Ellis and Winnie and your runway show. 😊Praying and hoping this new clinical trial goes easier on you and kicks this cancer’s butt! 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️ We love you!
Praying for you Jenny and for Kyle and your two sweet little ones. As a side note, I'm not sure if you two follow Sarah from POG Family on You Tube, but I know she follows you all because last week, I believed, she mentioned that she was praying for you because she had seen you were in the hospital, Jenny. Sarah got the worst news on Wednesday from the oncologist - he gave her one month to live without treatment and if she tried yet another treatment, he said she "might" make it until Christmas, but, of course, that's all dependent upon her response to any new treatment. If you do know Sarah and her family, I just thought I'd let you know that she needs a LOT of extra prayers right now, as does her husband and family. If not, then could you all please pray for Sarah and her sweet family? I know they would be grateful to receive prayers right now. Thanks to you both and I'm, of course, continuing to pray for y'all too.
As a cancer survivor it is so overwhelming at times,if I had a dollar for every time I cried I’d be rich! It’s everything you mentioned plus more!There is hope in the trails! One day at a time! You are in my thoughts and prayers as someone who had that journey! Rest!
I cried one full day and took my health care into my own hands. Research, research, research and my doctor's HATED me for the decisions I made. Lost PC doctor, oncologist walked out because I declined treatment; what they thought was best for me. That was almost five years ago (and still cancer free). I choose the alternative route BEFORE surgery even happened. It saved me from having a breast removed. Alternative treatment killed the mass; gone! They still have nothing good to say about it! All negative! 😢
What was alternative treatment@@motherofthreeb6337
Dear Sweet Jenny...you did a whole lot today. Just coming home from the hospital is exhausting. You have done so much. You are so strong. I am so in awe over you. Feel better.
Glad you made it back home Jenny. The kids have clearly missed you. Good for Ellis that he had a good cry. I'm sure he has many worries that he internalizes. You just accept your new normal (wheelchair, O2, catheter) with your usual grace. I'm glad you are having quality family time this summer as well as a new clinical trial to look forward to. Keeping you all in my prayers 🙏♥️
He may be afraid to say them out loud and get an answer that hurts, no matter how kindly it is discussed.
Jenny, I am so thankful you are out of the hospital. I follow you and also POG family. I was hoping your followers could send up prayers for Sarah of Pog family. She needs as many prayers as possible 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻. Thank you
Just finished watching Sarah’s newest video. Absolutely praying for her and her family.
🙏🙏🙏For Sarah and Jenny❤
I watch Sarah, Jenny, and Lea. Emotionally, I'm a bit affected because I tend to overly sympathize with others. I. praying for all.
When I was critically ill, it really affected my husband, kids, family, friends. We went back to the ITU where I was in a coma to see the staff and I was absolutely fine. I remember looking at my husband and observing the ashen faced horror on his face, looking at the room I was in. Sometimes I think I had the easy part being the sick one but I had PTSD for a year after. My husband also suffered stress and anxiety from watching what happened to me.
Sending love to you both but sending extra positivity to Kyle this week. You’re doing a sterling job mate ❤
Sending you both Love from Germany.❤️🙏🕊️
Sending you my prayers . My dad has a lung disorder (COPD). He is on a home oxygen program. His doctor sends the oxygen company a prescription and we call and refill before we run out. He gets 3 C size bottles for home use and 3 M size(M size is smaller and good for outings). They provide a carry bag. Oh and they deliver too. We are here in Vancouver,BC, CANADA.Ask your doctor if they have a similar program. You are so lucky to have great support from your husband, brother, sister, kids and parents. I respect your integrity, your determination and courage. Good luck with the draining. I hope the pain is more tolerable. Prayers. Sending love to you.
Hugs to your dad and family. My dad also had copd and my mum had lung cancer andO2. Lot of work but definitely helps their quality of life.❤ I too am in Canada but other end in NS.
That’s for your response
@@cindygaudet1390Hey!! I’m from Nova Scotia too! Where are you?
@@bettyforan1061 Dartmouth for 25 yrs then Annapolis valley.
My Mum, had an Oxygen machine for home, (provided by the NHS UK.) then smaller portable cylinders.
The machine makes the oxygen out of the air surrounding it. She had pipes long enough to enable her to move around the whole house. Is this a possibility?
Being out two days in a row is hard and so soon after being released. You really need to do that laying on the couch and watching movies out your eyelids. Don’t over do it! ❤️🙏🏻✝️ Don’t worry about your filming, just do it when you feel like, nothing more. SLOW DOWN! lLet your body heal.
Jenny don’t get dependent on a wheelchair, keep walking and moving around, you’ll have more pain if you don’t. Your legs will get stiff also your knees. Keep exercising your arms and legs, by getting up out of your chair or bed, otherwise you’ll be slowly heading towards bed life and you’ll be weaker. Love to you all.
True facts 👌
If you don't use it, you'll loose it!
That is 100% truth. I and testify to that. I'm still not walking b normal. Eczuse I stayed in wheelchair. So if need be if your just in a little pain, keep it going. If a lot of pain it's understandable. You are in my prayers daily. I believe you're going to be healed, I have no dought!
Take care and I'll be thinking of you and your family.
Love, ~Sandy~
Its so sad that they let her be in so much pain bless her so brave
I know exactly where your at kyle. I did it with my mama. Had to haul oxygen and wheelchair everywhere we go. And dealing with the oxygen people. And dealing with a sick loved one. Much love to all of you. I could see the sadness on Ellis’ face. Bless his heart. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You look good, darling. Baby steps, sweetie. Now you will be stronger so you can go and play with your babies. I'm so happy to hear your voice and to see smiling. It's amazing what fresh bag of blood and extra oxygen can do. One day a a time. We're here behind you, and praying your new treatment will work for your body. Love you!!!!!!
Hi Jenny , I just a wanted to let you know to be aware of types of chap sticks and nose moisturizers .
Oxygen can react with products that have paraffin, petroleum jelly or any oil-based products in them. Also if you ever feel you cannot breath even with O2 , get a fan and let it blow on your face . Even though you think it won’t help you it’s a mind set thing and helps give comfort. A hospice nurse told me this trick . . Sounds crazy but it works . Also with hot summer coming up it’s a good idea to get a hand held fan on Amazon that you can keep in car and charge it with a UBS phone cord . Make sure you keep a good amount of gallons distilled water . The O2 will use a lot of ,distilled water . Praying for comfort and peace for you and family 🙏🏼🌸
That's really sweet ❤
Jenny-- you're beautiful! You're attitude is exactly the right one to get better. Hugs. Kyle-- you rock.
Awe the post-dance recital montage was so touching. Everyone turned out for her, so sweet.
Awe, big squeeze to Ellis. Its a lot.
Little Winnie not only looks adorable,she is adorable. The sun shines from both your children. Such a beautiful family. You will find things harder at home physically as it’s natural that you will try to do whatever you can but you will need to pace yourself. Take care sweet girl, you have your love Kyle next to you ❤❤❤
Well, I lost it when Winnie came down the “runway” at the fashion show.
Your whole family is so awesome and supportive. The caregiver for a cancer patient, husband in this case, also is affected. Kyle, you’ve been so great. It shows me how big your heart is and we can see how much you love Jenny. You never complain and you’re always right by Jenny’s side. You have a lot on your shoulders so please make time for yourself. You’re such an incredible husband and father!
Will continue to pray for you all!
One of my friends on FB asked prayers for you and I’ve been praying and found you on UA-cam and now I’m hooked. My Husband was diagnosed March 2nd with stage 2 bladder cancer. It’s in the muscle wall so he is having to do chemo currently. 10 days after his diagnosis, my Mom was diagnosed with Stage 4 brain tumor. She’s currently on hospice. We are trusting the Lord for my husband’s healing and for your healing. My Mother is on hospice. She’s 84 and she was given 3 to 6 months. 😢😢😢
So sorry. That is a lot to go through.
You have so many REAL life Angels praying for you 🙏🏼💥💖♥️so Glad you’re home ! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is great news at the beginning of a new week. The prayers now shift to effective treatment with minimal side effects. So happy for Ellis and Winnie that their mommy's back home ❤
Kyle is lucky to have you.
My heavens! Winnie looked so beautiful in her red performance dress! Ellis is so supportive of his sister. He looked so handsome! What a beautiful family. Jenny, I am always praying. I hope this next treatment is the one that helps you beat this cancer. Kyle is so loving towards you and his children. He deserves a miracle to have his wife whole and well again. ❤️
Jenny, God bless you-- you are home! We have all been praying for you, sending love, light and good health to you and our favorite family of four. Please be good to yourself. I know you will want to do all the things but just have patience ❤ This big group of people are on your side, giving you virtual hugs and thinking of you daily. Enjoy your much needed family time. Sending love and hugs, Gayle.
Kyle you’re nothing short of amazing. It’s just you. Your loving words and just your love for Jenny. I pray that this ct is the one that makes a huge difference for everyone’s princess our beautiful Jenny. ❤️🙏🏻🌷
They have support of grandparents and a brother and sister.
@@pennycadenaz5030yes, they do but Kyle is with Jenny 24/7. He's got to keep on top of Everything with Jenny. Oxygen not running out, different meds, etc. He is simply Amazing!
Not an hour goes by that I don’t think about you and family. Prayers going full force. My heart is broken to see you all suffer sooo much. Much love
🙏🏼BABYGIRL & MOMMY TRULY LOOKED LIKE BEAUTIFUL ANGELS. PRAISE GOD FOR THESE PRICELESS MEMORIES.🙌🏼
Please hold Ellis when he weeps Jenny it teaches him compassion also down inside we are all still little babies when it comes mommies .
Hi Jenny, I’m glad that you’re out of the hospital. Get plenty of rest. I’ve been praying for you everyday that you will get stronger. Hopefully, this new upcoming clinical trial will be better for you, less pain. Winnie looked so cute in her outfit. Take care. 🦋🐞🦋🐞🦋
My grandson wanted me to post this: "Your kids are very nice, and I am very sad you have cancer."😢❤
Jenny would be so impressed with her rock garden today! Just Wow! ❤