Too many 16 year olds (like him) are afraid to admit the truth: They aren't good socializers. If you know how to socialize correctly, you can be the coolest bald guy anyone's ever met! You can turn insults into hilarity and respect, and old friends into admirers. It's all about how you carry yourself.
True I started self improvement at 16 and I was lonely as shit but now I’m 17 and social-able without having social media. The UA-cam channel “Charisma On Command” helped a lot.
I'm a 16 year old girl and sometimes I feel out of place too. Sometimes I feel unmotivated and tired, I'm trying to focus on myself, improving my physique, character, studying... But in the meantime, my friend manages to date so many people in a few months that I can't believe it! I don't know if it's because I'm very introverted that I can't find someone for myself. But she doesn't do much of anything in her life and yet she seems to do so well. But I'm recognizing that I'm actually on the right path and it's thanks to this video that I don't regret watching it. I can continue talking to these people normally, but I will still be evolving in silence myself, because in the future it will be so worth it A hug from Brazil! 🇧🇷🇧🇷
@@Luka-el9ntOh, is it? For me (13yo) it is extremely hard, but i know ive got this. Several weeks ago, when i was celebrating 6 months anniversary of my self improvement journey, i felt like shit tbh. Im making such a fast progress, that i look at myself from a week ago with slight disgust, because my young self was not that good. Anyways, how is it for you and what are you working on? I am interested on 16 yo on self improvement, maybe i can leaen something from them😊
idk how it is for most ppl in hs but in my hs pretty much every guy works out and actually cares a little bit about improving themselves and cuz i'm actually grinding and not playing games i just beat most of them and they ask me how. i'd say don't be like weird about self improvement or be like a monk or anything but just don't do video games cuz it's boring, don't eat junk because you say you don't, make money and help people because you can and want to.
man, im 16 too & i stick out like a mf. that is for many reasons, due to me being a walking ghost cause ive got shit to achieve & that i dont take time out to party and hang around with people (on purpose). it could also be because i look the most different out of everyone, being a Sikh & wearing a turban. ive been on my self improvement journey for about an year now and its insane how bad ive been feeling recently. i was told about how most of the girls in my grade talking about who the hottest guys were. all of them were degenerates. they took names of 6 guys, and every single mfer is drinking on weekends. and the fact that i wasnt on that list just pissed me off. ive got a better physique than atleast 3 of the guys in that list. i went monk mode this time last year from about March 2023 to July 2023 and looked unrecognizable, having grown a beard & wearing a bigger & better looking turban, while also gaining on some weight & muscle (im a skinny ass athelete lol) it seems like all the hard work i put in, be it academically, on the court (tennis), in the gym, on the console (im an aspiring DJ), or in my mental workforce, shit just does NOT feel like progressing. i feel like a loser constantly, seeing the guys who are objectively worse than me, being more successful. i shouldnt make anyone feel inferior to me cause its obviously a sin to be arrogant and to be full of oneself, i feel horrible, constantly. i hope things get better. god bless you all.
pozreté super videjko, poznámky: pretend that you are already succesfull vždy zváž u žien či by si s nimi chcel mať v budúcnosti vzťah, bývať spolu niekede na Bali, mať s ňou deti... vďaka tomuto som si uvedomil že som priťahovaný k ženám len kvôli ich fyzickom vzhľade, ale keď sa pozriem do vnútra tak už o ne nemám vôbec záujem if I saw that woman in a male version I would consider her a loser if you have to be around other people (fuck it) try to convert one of these degens to self improvement with confidence and loud personality (rise and shine lets do push ups or something like that)
stick to the path, you may be behind others who do nothing. But it will catch up. All the guys who were athletes and very fit in high school just through their genetics. Flash forward a few years later, I’m now fitter than all of them. In a few years, your efforts really compound and you will stand out.
Eh, I dont agree. Most of those bullies or kids with good genetics actually turn out to be winners in the end. They're usually tall, fit, rich, attractive, more honing in on the rich part they get really lucky with some bs crypto. Just my life and I've been on self improvement since 13. There's no reason to change your true nature as a man. Its best to double down on who you are and not try to change yourself. An example is if your a nerd, you become like mark zuckerberg or the next best software programmer. All of these successful men all are winners due to the fact they doubled down on who they are. I'm not blackpill, I just have a pragmatic approach tolife since I've lived through many different paths.
If you do martial arts, even in this situation of my classmates somehow staying lean with girls, I still know I could(but don’t want to necessarily, based on the person) drop them.
I've seen some people irl who are on self-improvement (running around the cluster, bulking on an 'all you can eat' restaurant). Even tried outrunning one of them before I eventually got tired quickly and went home while the guy stays on jogging I'm happy for them all and I hope they and all these people here would keep on doing what they're doing A lot of people can be judgemental, even the ones who might look "successful". It's one of the human's nature. It's all fun and games to talk shit and make fun of people, until you are that people But well, who's going to be responsible if you ended up living a terrible life? Are those judgemental people going to say sorry and help you out? When you are at that point and this journey, all you have is yourself. Not them.
I am new to AdonisGang but I have watch es Hamza for over 1.5 years now, and I will gladly admit if he didn’t show up on my feed I wouldn’t be in the same place as I am now
Cmon hamza I watched the video till the very end and was waiting for that "do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it" part so that I could get a little push in the morning but you did not say it😢
Someone needs to teach this young man about the power of charm and charisma. It's not normal for everyone to cast you out. There's a way to have good habits, and not become a target for everyone. This guy's problem is NOT self-improvement, it's that he lacks the social skills to attract girls and make male friends. Do not use self-improvement to feel like a special snowflake thats above the basic skills all of us need to be happy, and build friend groups and connections. I guarantee that if he carried himself differently, and chilled tf out, people would think the self-improvement was at most a quirk, or even something cool.
I agree and was thinking the same. Just being aware of what is good and bad for you is enough and to not judge what others do as it’s not your business. Judging people ‘lower than yourself’ makes you bitter and arrogant
you cant change someones nature. Nature > Nurture. You're supposed to double down on yourself as a man. If you're an antisocialist nerd(like most kids are) you are suppossed to be average or literally double down on that and be the best nerd there ever was
I think another way you could approach the situation would be to never criticize others. Even if they are doing habits that ultimately have negative results, still view them as someone with potential. Always look for ways too help them.
Hey Hamza, if you scrolling through the comments just wanted to let you know you made me realize I could improve myself. It shocks me how I never knew self-improvement was a thing but your video really helped me. I remember I would be in my room watching your full self-improvement guide taking notes. What your doing here is something that'll last generations.
I will not lie I am in the dark and been so for 5 year doing all the bad habits without any consideration and been doing it without the consciousness of that I was wasting my life I cam across Hamza vid at nov 2023 And watching his vid inspired me to disciplined myself and he gave me the hope for dawn and then the sun I am grateful for you and your video
mhhh , bro should read the compound effect , but also i think a good quoastion is how his social skills are ? does he have any other hobies outside of self improvement that make you intresting ? how is his flow and conversational skills is it wierd and forced or natural and fun ?
I liked this video, I can relate to what he says. Someone was trugglin with loneliness and he says that he has to trust the process and the compound effect will do its thing, in a few years he’l be ahead of everyone. Also don’t stand in the corner and be asocial, even if they are jefferys, make sure to be social and not hate your life, the fact that you grind at home and everywhere else is enough to know that you’re on the good path, when you’re with old jeffery friends or at school, it’s okay to “fit in”, just make sure your mind is still on self improvement and when you get home you’l be just the same as you where before the thing.
Im 17 and in the same situation, thing is i dont care. Ngl i have great genetics in terms of looks so its nit the exactly the same but im preparing for building a business, ive been going to the gym and my nutrition is looking really good. Ive been getting attacked behind my back but again i dont care. Why should i care. I know that im on an upwards tradectory and thats all that matters
To this young man: it’s incredible that we’re on this path so young so we can reap the rewards of monk mode and self improvement in our 20’s. As a guy that also shaved his head for monk mode recently- ignore the hate and rock your new style, I found that girls actually love the haircut and love the confidence I bring with it, thank you and theres hope for us all
I'm 17 too, well Yeah I m too in MONK MODE!! &I AM ALSO BOLD TOO!!💪 right now When ever I look in mirror I feel proud of myself that how FAR !! I have came I have so much for myself even I m bold ,I REMEMBER !! THAT I USE TO HATE MYSELF WHEN I WAS YOUNGER
im a junior in high school rn (16 yrs old), and i go to a highly respected high school in america...but the condition is so out of hand that every kid that is somewhat popular and cool in high school does drugs...in an insane amount. It is so messed up how everything is and if you want to fit in you will have to do it or else they will exclude u from parties, hangouts, everything. The whole situation is so messed up, every other kid is an addict.
Hi,I am from India I am 12 almost 13 (birthday on 21st jan).I liked a girl for 5-6 months.I told my bestfriend I liked her but by that point i did not like her a lot.But my friends got me a setting with her but i had to get above 25/40 in a test and she would be with me (depending on the grades i get).I got 26 but my friend got 34 so me and him erased his name and wrote my name.At this point of time i discovered your channel and i loved what you said i started praising you at school.But i was too nervous to talk to my crush so the 2 weeks set up we got went by with 0 words spoken until our camp on the bus we spoke for like 1 hour or so,and we danced for like a minute but nothing seroius just held hands and moved.One of my friends flirted with her and we got in a massive fight.On the way back i knew she didnt like me i am very skinny and my best friend is muscular as heck he doesnt even go to the gym.On the bus journey back i made promises to work out and get abs and jacked as fck. which demoraized me alot how this guy doestn work out and still has muscles.I was doing crunches one day and she messaged me.i was astonished that she messaged me she wrote are you okay and i wrote yes and she wrote thats good to hear or mightve written something else i forgot.But around that time i had to go to court since my parents were getting a divorce and i mightve left india for america if i went to my dads i wrote to her and we talked i wrote i might leave india and she replied no no we only just started talking.It went on like this for a month we had four hour calls till 1 am in the night and chat till 2 am.But after the 4 hour call on 14th november she asked me you know who my closest is (it was me) and i wrote i kind of liked you and i still kind of do and this took lots of courage from me (im really nervous around hot women).but during this phase we talked alot but then we didnt talk physically.and during a game of catch i lost and got a dare to ask her out i did and she accepted i was on top of the world but then i realized she knew it was a dare and it turns out we werent dating and now i got to know that if it alked to her more physically she wouldve been mine.i love you and you have helped. me get through this you are the fcking best man alive!!!!.
Bro you’re only 12 chill out. Don’t focus on building muscle, you won’t build shit because you’re way too young. Focus on being physically fit then when you’re older start lifting.
Hey Hamza, I’m turning 16 in 2 months, and I am kind of nervous, I feel like I’m still a Jeffery, but i don’t want to be, I am going to start self improvement, but I am better on my journey than the average 16 year old, all my coworkers (I don’t really have many close friends) say they go to bed at 3 am and then complain about being tired at work, they are all degenerates, this message is for myself, to keep myself accountable in 2024, thank you for all your videos
From a 22 year old, I find it crazy that there are 16 years old on Self Improvement. For me, it says a lot about society and the lack of masculine role models that 16 years are already turning towards this advice. I think for 16 years old it is CRUCIAL to put themselves out there, be social and develop holistic skills. I don't think 16 years old should go into monk mode. Go try new things, even stuff that we knows as bad habits such as drinking and realise that's shit, that's how we all learnt. It is important that young men understand 1stman's concept of the 'great male filter', as long as you are doing the basics and not being self destructive, because let's be honest, that's why most people get left behind then you will be fine. Just make sure you live as well as work hard, this applies to all ages. I hope this helps whoever reads this! :)
Respectfully I disagree, first hand experience isn’t the only way of learning something is bad for you. You observe your peers doing it and see how negatively it affects them so why should you do the same when you know the outcome? I think it’s great for young people to be on self improvement, gives them a great head start from all their peers.
HAMZA THE GOAT, This was nothing but Facts spat. Im 17 and am also in this situation but mine is different because ive been doing what hamza just said for so long now that my school "friends" and peers know me as the slef improvement hardcore guy. They never even ask me video game or anime garbage because they know and expect me to rant about them being NPCs and asking them "do you wven workout", its very funny but i enjoy this situation because they all know me as that David Goggins typa guy who rejcts all modern day garbage and embraces hardships💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
I recently officially left my highschool friends years after knowing them. It caused lots of shit talk and negativity but they really were mostly instant gratification crabs and their comments, especially regarding my physique really took a massive traumatic toll on me and so I finally decided to cut them off officially. I'd like to say that thanks to Hamza and this community, I was able to form my own 'CULT' through leading by example and converting who I could onto self improvement. Forever grateful for Hamza and you bois
If you want to be a truly masculine man, be UNCHANGED by everything external. Whatever is external, whatever human appearances around you are doing, talking, expresing, be unchanged by that because it's external. You are experiencing,you are consciousness and don't be changed by anything in the physical external world. Let whatever appears appear as it is and be unchanged by it, that's how you let your true self come out. -big thanks to Hamza for hlping all of us , I'm 17 and I feel your struggle, try to put your thoughts towards what I wrote here, and meditate to practice being unnchanged, journal to let go of your thoughts therefore progress onto a deeper level and understand better what appears. Trust your gut, you know and feel what to do but you ingore it right now at this present moment, recognize it. Just saying what's on my mind my while I'm watching this.
Thing is what I noticed with myself especially An obstacle to socializing is that people on self improvement sometimes consider themselves superior Even the language "These little goblins" Well maybe some of them actually outwork you, think about that Im talking to myself btw, from own experience
AHHH the one thing i want to tell this guy is to not worry too much about "business" at 16... I was a disabled kid at 16 (wheelchair stuck and all) Maybe that was my mistake i should have worked harder at the time. But things worked out! I managed to move from a 3rd world islamic shithole to europe and get a masters in computer science. This is something i NEVER could have predicted... I knew i was smart. Smarter than most people around me. I tried to think how i could improve myself. But i was too depressed i had no friends, i was REALLY isolated... At 15 i made the decision to move forward, go out make friends talk to people SOCIALIZE! Ironically video games were the bridge for me! I had no other way to socialize so i used that... TBH they are not the evil things you deem them to be...E sports is a thing and if a you make money you are a dedicated athlete in my eyes! ANYWAY After that i improved my mental state and understanding of the world. I realized that Islam was a cult and I left it. You can't self improve when the Quran tells you that destiny is written and that you are BORN A SLAVE TO SERVE. NOW i am in Europe left the Islamic shithole and working on PHD on computer science. Dealing with depression after covid ruined alot of my PHD work... So that is why i am here... Even "miracle" success stories like mine do have down parts I guess! Sorry for the rant!
Feels like I created a 20yo character from a 15yo guy. Feels like future is going to amazing but right now feels like I can't fit in. That's how you see that you're on the right path.
I found it funny when you made the twin comparison thing coz me and my twin are like that, we both go to the gym, sure, but I'm the one who eats more protein, does weight lifting and other forms of workouts as well as I do some calisthenics workouts before I go to bed on other days plus he eats more junkier food than I typically do (but we both do tbf) and so there's quite a difference between the way we look or behave towards self improvement things and I can certainly say you're correct that in the first few months, the difference was barely noticeable and yet I was more serious about this stuff so yeah.. even if others can look alright and be doing the bad habits, it doesnt matter in the long term coz you will come out on top
I got on self improvement in 2020, back when I was 16, but a few months later I kinda stopped doing it because of the loneliness aspect. Don't make my mistake, I wish I had sticked through
Hamza in this time is crazy, very crazy, realize these changes in your life, but self-improvement is worth itGreetings from Latin America, more specifically Venezuela
12:12 thats so true for around 6 months i was seeing absilutley no results in the self improvement and suddenly i wake up one day and i freak out and get scared about how much muscle mass i putted on
I kinda relate with this dude im 17 and have been on Self improvement for 8 months,i rarely fap or watch porn, i do home workouts and read book, i have atleast two to three friends who are also on self improvement and the rest are just degenerates playing video games and when i tell them i dont play some of them look at me with shock the only thing im dealing with is constancy and lack of motivation/willpower.
I am from India , i am 16 and i lost 2500$ in online games frlm my mother's bank.. iam so guilty and depressed, thinking about suicide...please if you can help...😢😢
I have been in the dark ditch living like a fucking rat for 5 year just doing fapping 3 time a day and playing 2-3 hrs of games I would watch self improvement vid but would not take any action I came across Hamza videos at nov 23 and he inspired and helped me take action I am grateful for Hamza for showing me the light at the end of the tunnel
I'm 18 (almost 19) and feel the same way as this guy. I haven't talked to a person my age in like 7 months, I only talk to like 3 guys at the gym who are older than 25.
this used to me bro, you just gotta find your boys that are the same as you it will take a while i was lonely for ages, but since last year ive found a good group of lads that i feel at home with. im 17 btw
I love the grounded reality of this channel!!! *Retirement took a toll on my finances, but with my involvement in the digital market, $27,000 weekly returns has been life changing. AWESOME GOD❤️❤️*
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Quick comment about AdonisGang, It’s been awesome since I joined AdonisGang , there’s so much great guides like on calisthenics or how you can improve your hair , diet etc. and I even made a friend over there that lives not that far away from me and we go to the same school, so I want to thank Hamza for everything he’s done for the community. ❤️✊💪
Some days I have a mental block and these weird things stuck in the back of my mind. Like for example I was going to search something up earlier but I forgot and now it’s whole day I’ve been feeling like a part of me is missing and I keep sitting down for deep work but this thought keeps bugging me. Anyone know what I can do?
I remeber i did this when i was going to a boarding school, i was meditatin daily & eventually the other people there found out and i invited them to come and do it with me since they thought it was funny, they were also a bit curious. So a couple of weeks forward i sit in a room with 8 other guys meditation. some of them were just doing it to troll me lol was kinda funny tbh but atleast a few of them were actually wanting to do it. It was a awesome feeling man cause i was the one who was leading the meditaion i was the narrator basically. Its quite funny actually i was the most mindful i have ever been whilst narrorating them through the meditaion.
Everyone comments "i will do one push up for every like" bro stfu💀, i will actually do them and not only them but 1 squat and 1 pull up if you guys put me at top in 1 day. Then i will post a video right after
I will do one pushup for every like this comment gets
Hehehehehe
Ten*
One Push up, one Squat and one sit up for every like you get.
I dare challenge you
Oh shit i didn't expect the likes to be this fast💀but ill do every single one of it
Proof?
I will do 10 pushups for every like in this comment gets..
Ive been on self improvement on and off since 13. One thing it has helped me is to understand myself . I know where I am weak.
Too many 16 year olds (like him) are afraid to admit the truth: They aren't good socializers. If you know how to socialize correctly, you can be the coolest bald guy anyone's ever met! You can turn insults into hilarity and respect, and old friends into admirers. It's all about how you carry yourself.
This is true
I feel like im pretty good at socializing then I used to be, but now everyone knows me as the quiet guy and that dont wanna talk
True I started self improvement at 16 and I was lonely as shit but now I’m 17 and social-able without having social media. The UA-cam channel “Charisma On Command” helped a lot.
i dont think thats his problem
@@Ethyrowhat steps did u take to improve social skills, rn I find myself just watching vids which isn't the most progressive
I just turned 17 today, Feb 2, 2024
Happy belated birthday
@@simondykman thank you bro
I'm a 16 year old girl and sometimes I feel out of place too. Sometimes I feel unmotivated and tired, I'm trying to focus on myself, improving my physique, character, studying... But in the meantime, my friend manages to date so many people in a few months that I can't believe it! I don't know if it's because I'm very introverted that I can't find someone for myself. But she doesn't do much of anything in her life and yet she seems to do so well. But I'm recognizing that I'm actually on the right path and it's thanks to this video that I don't regret watching it. I can continue talking to these people normally, but I will still be evolving in silence myself, because in the future it will be so worth it
A hug from Brazil! 🇧🇷🇧🇷
I got a buzz cut and friends said that i looked badass so that actually helped
Same here
being on self improvement at 16 is hard, but when we come together as a community we will become unstoppable.
For real bro
Why is it hard?
no motivation, when we are grouped we motivate each other@@peachcobbler641
Facts 💯 it's how I became the greatest at everything I care to do 💪
@@Luka-el9ntOh, is it? For me (13yo) it is extremely hard, but i know ive got this. Several weeks ago, when i was celebrating 6 months anniversary of my self improvement journey, i felt like shit tbh. Im making such a fast progress, that i look at myself from a week ago with slight disgust, because my young self was not that good. Anyways, how is it for you and what are you working on? I am interested on 16 yo on self improvement, maybe i can leaen something from them😊
idk how it is for most ppl in hs but in my hs pretty much every guy works out and actually cares a little bit about improving themselves and cuz i'm actually grinding and not playing games i just beat most of them and they ask me how. i'd say don't be like weird about self improvement or be like a monk or anything but just don't do video games cuz it's boring, don't eat junk because you say you don't, make money and help people because you can and want to.
man, im 16 too & i stick out like a mf. that is for many reasons, due to me being a walking ghost cause ive got shit to achieve & that i dont take time out to party and hang around with people (on purpose). it could also be because i look the most different out of everyone, being a Sikh & wearing a turban.
ive been on my self improvement journey for about an year now and its insane how bad ive been feeling recently.
i was told about how most of the girls in my grade talking about who the hottest guys were.
all of them were degenerates. they took names of 6 guys, and every single mfer is drinking on weekends.
and the fact that i wasnt on that list just pissed me off. ive got a better physique than atleast 3 of the guys in that list. i went monk mode this time last year from about March 2023 to July 2023 and looked unrecognizable, having grown a beard & wearing a bigger & better looking turban, while also gaining on some weight & muscle (im a skinny ass athelete lol)
it seems like all the hard work i put in, be it academically, on the court (tennis), in the gym, on the console (im an aspiring DJ), or in my mental workforce, shit just does NOT feel like progressing. i feel like a loser constantly, seeing the guys who are objectively worse than me, being more successful. i shouldnt make anyone feel inferior to me cause its obviously a sin to be arrogant and to be full of oneself, i feel horrible, constantly.
i hope things get better. god bless you all.
and no its not cause of my social skills cause i have hella fake friends & degen friends and can talk to any girl without discomfort.
I'm 16 too and self-improvement is truly life-changing
Dang brother. You're a lot better looking than I was at 16, lol. Keep going my man.
Self improvement is great but you’re still a baby. Once you’ve been on self improvement for 20 years let me know
SUbscribed to you :)
I agree.
Been on self-improvement for a year now, all thanks to you. Thanks Hamza
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Hamza saves lifes
For the next ten hours I’ll do 1 push up and 1 sit up for every like
0:36 💀🤣🤣🤣
Bro, I literally have written a whole paragraph about you in one of my university exams. 🗿 ( I hope I'll get some good grades) :)
Even if these videos are directed towards men, they have helped me an immense amount. Thank you
1 push up 1 squat every like ⬇️ (btw do it with me)
pozreté super videjko, poznámky:
pretend that you are already succesfull
vždy zváž u žien či by si s nimi chcel mať v budúcnosti vzťah, bývať spolu niekede na Bali, mať s ňou deti... vďaka tomuto som si uvedomil že som priťahovaný k ženám len kvôli ich fyzickom vzhľade, ale keď sa pozriem do vnútra tak už o ne nemám vôbec záujem
if I saw that woman in a male version I would consider her a loser
if you have to be around other people (fuck it) try to convert one of these degens to self improvement with confidence and loud personality (rise and shine lets do push ups or something like that)
We need adonis intro
It's really encouraging seeing some younger generation getting into this.
Every bite of food is for strength or weakness
I love Adonis Gang because I was able to help many young men with their problems.
Semen retention also helps ALOT
ALOT
stick to the path, you may be behind others who do nothing. But it will catch up.
All the guys who were athletes and very fit in high school just through their genetics. Flash forward a few years later, I’m now fitter than all of them.
In a few years, your efforts really compound and you will stand out.
Thank you for your service.
Much respect
@@jxnoodiosadi9143 cheers man 🤝
Eh, I dont agree. Most of those bullies or kids with good genetics actually turn out to be winners in the end. They're usually tall, fit, rich, attractive, more honing in on the rich part they get really lucky with some bs crypto. Just my life and I've been on self improvement since 13. There's no reason to change your true nature as a man. Its best to double down on who you are and not try to change yourself. An example is if your a nerd, you become like mark zuckerberg or the next best software programmer. All of these successful men all are winners due to the fact they doubled down on who they are. I'm not blackpill, I just have a pragmatic approach tolife since I've lived through many different paths.
If you do martial arts, even in this situation of my classmates somehow staying lean with girls, I still know I could(but don’t want to necessarily, based on the person) drop them.
"Cancer in a bottle" is wild 😂
My advice to youngblud: Take risks and get out of your comfort zone.
Hamza, brother.. Just thank you again
the path to the top is lonely
Thank you Hamza for letting me to see light in dark. Im 15 years old and i've been watching yu for 2 years.Thank you for everything
Yo starting at 13 is crazy good man keep it up you'll be way ahead of everyone.
Where u from?
The Compound effect is Real.
Thanks hamza, I was in a horrible group filled with degens and horrible people. Thanks for always helping young men!
I've seen some people irl who are on self-improvement (running around the cluster, bulking on an 'all you can eat' restaurant). Even tried outrunning one of them before I eventually got tired quickly and went home while the guy stays on jogging
I'm happy for them all and I hope they and all these people here would keep on doing what they're doing
A lot of people can be judgemental, even the ones who might look "successful". It's one of the human's nature. It's all fun and games to talk shit and make fun of people, until you are that people
But well, who's going to be responsible if you ended up living a terrible life? Are those judgemental people going to say sorry and help you out? When you are at that point and this journey, all you have is yourself.
Not them.
I am new to AdonisGang but I have watch es Hamza for over 1.5 years now, and I will gladly admit if he didn’t show up on my feed I wouldn’t be in the same place as I am now
I love this video. I can relate to it so well.
'hate us cause they aint us'
Thank you Hamza, Wise words!
What a perfect time for this video to come out for me
Cmon hamza I watched the video till the very end and was waiting for that "do the hard work especially when you don't feel like it" part so that I could get a little push in the morning but you did not say it😢
as a 16 year old i relate a lot to this, like 90% of people i know live like literal crackheads (they also do drugs so ig they are crackheads).
Same I relate to this I'm in college and they are just Degenerates
Someone needs to teach this young man about the power of charm and charisma. It's not normal for everyone to cast you out. There's a way to have good habits, and not become a target for everyone. This guy's problem is NOT self-improvement, it's that he lacks the social skills to attract girls and make male friends.
Do not use self-improvement to feel like a special snowflake thats above the basic skills all of us need to be happy, and build friend groups and connections.
I guarantee that if he carried himself differently, and chilled tf out, people would think the self-improvement was at most a quirk, or even something cool.
I agree and was thinking the same. Just being aware of what is good and bad for you is enough and to not judge what others do as it’s not your business. Judging people ‘lower than yourself’ makes you bitter and arrogant
i agree however u can get along with people and still feel out of place
Lol ur so right
you cant change someones nature. Nature > Nurture. You're supposed to double down on yourself as a man. If you're an antisocialist nerd(like most kids are) you are suppossed to be average or literally double down on that and be the best nerd there ever was
Great fucking videos, I love these ones jmuch much better than the older Jeffrey vs Adonis vids
Hamza, Im turning 16 this year. ive been watching since 2022. thank you for everything.
This video was exactly what I needed at the perfect time
I think another way you could approach the situation would be to never criticize others. Even if they are doing habits that ultimately have negative results, still view them as someone with potential. Always look for ways too help them.
Hey Hamza, if you scrolling through the comments just wanted to let you know you made me realize I could improve myself. It shocks me how I never knew self-improvement was a thing but your video really helped me. I remember I would be in my room watching your full self-improvement guide taking notes. What your doing here is something that'll last generations.
Hamza I am grateful for you for making Adonis gang. This brotherhood of men has helped me quit video games. Thanks
I will not lie I am in the dark and been so for 5 year doing all the bad habits without any consideration and been doing it without the consciousness of that I was wasting my life
I cam across Hamza vid at nov 2023
And watching his vid inspired me to disciplined myself and he gave me the hope for dawn and then the sun
I am grateful for you and your video
Brothers find a philosophy or a religion I found my God Jesus Christ, and he gave me a newfound purpose amin ☦️
Thank you Hamza
mhhh , bro should read the compound effect , but also i think a good quoastion is how his social skills are ?
does he have any other hobies outside of self improvement that make you intresting ?
how is his flow and conversational skills is it wierd and forced or natural and fun ?
I liked this video, I can relate to what he says. Someone was trugglin with loneliness and he says that he has to trust the process and the compound effect will do its thing, in a few years he’l be ahead of everyone. Also don’t stand in the corner and be asocial, even if they are jefferys, make sure to be social and not hate your life, the fact that you grind at home and everywhere else is enough to know that you’re on the good path, when you’re with old jeffery friends or at school, it’s okay to “fit in”, just make sure your mind is still on self improvement and when you get home you’l be just the same as you where before the thing.
Bro knew every 16yo would click on the video with this title 😂
Great video
Im 17 and in the same situation, thing is i dont care. Ngl i have great genetics in terms of looks so its nit the exactly the same but im preparing for building a business, ive been going to the gym and my nutrition is looking really good.
Ive been getting attacked behind my back but again i dont care. Why should i care. I know that im on an upwards tradectory and thats all that matters
To this young man: it’s incredible that we’re on this path so young so we can reap the rewards of monk mode and self improvement in our 20’s. As a guy that also shaved his head for monk mode recently- ignore the hate and rock your new style, I found that girls actually love the haircut and love the confidence I bring with it, thank you and theres hope for us all
I'm 17 too, well Yeah I m too in MONK MODE!! &I AM ALSO BOLD TOO!!💪 right now
When ever I look in mirror I feel proud of myself that how FAR !! I have came
I have so much for myself even I m bold ,I REMEMBER !! THAT I USE TO HATE MYSELF WHEN I WAS YOUNGER
Im 15 WOOO LETS GOOOO
@@Im-lost-pleaese-help where are you from, Do you have a insta id?? :)
im a junior in high school rn (16 yrs old), and i go to a highly respected high school in america...but the condition is so out of hand that every kid that is somewhat popular and cool in high school does drugs...in an insane amount. It is so messed up how everything is and if you want to fit in you will have to do it or else they will exclude u from parties, hangouts, everything. The whole situation is so messed up, every other kid is an addict.
Hi,I am from India I am 12 almost 13 (birthday on 21st jan).I liked a girl for 5-6 months.I told my bestfriend I liked her but by that point i did not like her a lot.But my friends got me a setting with her but i had to get above 25/40 in a test and she would be with me (depending on the grades i get).I got 26 but my friend got 34 so me and him erased his name and wrote my name.At this point of time i discovered your channel and i loved what you said i started praising you at school.But i was too nervous to talk to my crush so the 2 weeks set up we got went by with 0 words spoken until our camp on the bus we spoke for like 1 hour or so,and we danced for like a minute but nothing seroius just held hands and moved.One of my friends flirted with her and we got in a massive fight.On the way back i knew she didnt like me i am very skinny and my best friend is muscular as heck he doesnt even go to the gym.On the bus journey back i made promises to work out and get abs and jacked as fck. which demoraized me alot how this guy doestn work out and still has muscles.I was doing crunches one day and she messaged me.i was astonished that she messaged me she wrote are you okay and i wrote yes and she wrote thats good to hear or mightve written something else i forgot.But around that time i had to go to court since my parents were getting a divorce and i mightve left india for america if i went to my dads i wrote to her and we talked i wrote i might leave india and she replied no no we only just started talking.It went on like this for a month we had four hour calls till 1 am in the night and chat till 2 am.But after the 4 hour call on 14th november she asked me you know who my closest is (it was me) and i wrote i kind of liked you and i still kind of do and this took lots of courage from me (im really nervous around hot women).but during this phase we talked alot but then we didnt talk physically.and during a game of catch i lost and got a dare to ask her out i did and she accepted i was on top of the world but then i realized she knew it was a dare and it turns out we werent dating and now i got to know that if it alked to her more physically she wouldve been mine.i love you and you have helped. me get through this you are the fcking best man alive!!!!.
Bro you’re only 12 chill out. Don’t focus on building muscle, you won’t build shit because you’re way too young. Focus on being physically fit then when you’re older start lifting.
thank you so much for this advice @@user-od9fz2fd7l 😊
What the other guy said bro don’t worry too much about ts or girls you’re so young man. When you’re 14 you should try working out or the gym tho
i already work out but thanks for taking your time to comment it means the world to me@@Zy-rp3vj
This video came out on my bday
Hey Hamza, I’m turning 16 in 2 months, and I am kind of nervous, I feel like I’m still a Jeffery, but i don’t want to be, I am going to start self improvement, but I am better on my journey than the average 16 year old, all my coworkers (I don’t really have many close friends) say they go to bed at 3 am and then complain about being tired at work, they are all degenerates, this message is for myself, to keep myself accountable in 2024, thank you for all your videos
Are you still jeffrey
Hamza, I'm grateful for creating the Adonis Gang community and I'm grateful for your guidance in leading me to the route of masculinity.
They were friends of old him, they are enemies of new him.
I started "self improvement" in June 2022 But I have to start taking it more seriously because I haven't really made any progress I'm ngl..
I'll do a pushup for every like this comment gets
Staying lean even when eating shi is a problem i want
From a 22 year old, I find it crazy that there are 16 years old on Self Improvement. For me, it says a lot about society and the lack of masculine role models that 16 years are already turning towards this advice. I think for 16 years old it is CRUCIAL to put themselves out there, be social and develop holistic skills. I don't think 16 years old should go into monk mode. Go try new things, even stuff that we knows as bad habits such as drinking and realise that's shit, that's how we all learnt. It is important that young men understand 1stman's concept of the 'great male filter', as long as you are doing the basics and not being self destructive, because let's be honest, that's why most people get left behind then you will be fine. Just make sure you live as well as work hard, this applies to all ages. I hope this helps whoever reads this! :)
Respectfully I disagree, first hand experience isn’t the only way of learning something is bad for you. You observe your peers doing it and see how negatively it affects them so why should you do the same when you know the outcome? I think it’s great for young people to be on self improvement, gives them a great head start from all their peers.
Hamza done mogged us again
Bye bye 🔥💯💯
Hamza made me proud of myself ❤
HAMZA THE GOAT, This was nothing but Facts spat. Im 17 and am also in this situation but mine is different because ive been doing what hamza just said for so long now that my school "friends" and peers know me as the slef improvement hardcore guy. They never even ask me video game or anime garbage because they know and expect me to rant about them being NPCs and asking them "do you wven workout", its very funny but i enjoy this situation because they all know me as that David Goggins typa guy who rejcts all modern day garbage and embraces hardships💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Can relate to this guy... I would feel alienated and felt like i dont belong there. Which i still do in many place
I recently officially left my highschool friends years after knowing them. It caused lots of shit talk and negativity but they really were mostly instant gratification crabs and their comments, especially regarding my physique really took a massive traumatic toll on me and so I finally decided to cut them off officially. I'd like to say that thanks to Hamza and this community, I was able to form my own 'CULT' through leading by example and converting who I could onto self improvement. Forever grateful for Hamza and you bois
If you want to be a truly masculine man, be UNCHANGED by everything external. Whatever is external, whatever human appearances around you are doing, talking, expresing, be unchanged by that because it's external. You are experiencing,you are consciousness and don't be changed by anything in the physical external world. Let whatever appears appear as it is and be unchanged by it, that's how you let your true self come out.
-big thanks to Hamza for hlping all of us , I'm 17 and I feel your struggle, try to put your thoughts towards what I wrote here, and meditate to practice being unnchanged, journal to let go of your thoughts therefore progress onto a deeper level and understand better what appears. Trust your gut, you know and feel what to do but you ingore it right now at this present moment, recognize it. Just saying what's on my mind my while I'm watching this.
Thing is what I noticed with myself especially
An obstacle to socializing is that people on self improvement sometimes consider themselves superior
Even the language
"These little goblins"
Well maybe some of them actually outwork you, think about that
Im talking to myself btw, from own experience
Hamza showed me which way to not to take. And I am grateful for that & for him. Thank you Hamza, a lot.
AHHH the one thing i want to tell this guy is to not worry too much about "business" at 16...
I was a disabled kid at 16 (wheelchair stuck and all)
Maybe that was my mistake i should have worked harder at the time.
But things worked out! I managed to move from a 3rd world islamic shithole to europe and get a masters in computer science.
This is something i NEVER could have predicted...
I knew i was smart. Smarter than most people around me. I tried to think how i could improve myself.
But i was too depressed i had no friends, i was REALLY isolated...
At 15 i made the decision to move forward, go out make friends talk to people SOCIALIZE!
Ironically video games were the bridge for me! I had no other way to socialize so i used that...
TBH they are not the evil things you deem them to be...E sports is a thing and if a you make money you are a dedicated athlete in my eyes!
ANYWAY
After that i improved my mental state and understanding of the world.
I realized that Islam was a cult and I left it.
You can't self improve when the Quran tells you that destiny is written and that you are BORN A SLAVE TO SERVE.
NOW i am in Europe left the Islamic shithole and working on PHD on computer science.
Dealing with depression after covid ruined alot of my PHD work...
So that is why i am here...
Even "miracle" success stories like mine do have down parts I guess!
Sorry for the rant!
I sincerily wish I started at 16, I started at 17 and only took it half serious, and only went full into it late into being 18 years old.
Feels like I created a 20yo character from a 15yo guy. Feels like future is going to amazing but right now feels like I can't fit in. That's how you see that you're on the right path.
11:36 best part
This came out when i needed this the most thanks for cooking 🍳 🔥
Thank you, Hamza for everything you’ve done to the world, God bless you, brother
I found it funny when you made the twin comparison thing coz me and my twin are like that, we both go to the gym, sure, but I'm the one who eats more protein, does weight lifting and other forms of workouts as well as I do some calisthenics workouts before I go to bed on other days plus he eats more junkier food than I typically do (but we both do tbf) and so there's quite a difference between the way we look or behave towards self improvement things and I can certainly say you're correct that in the first few months, the difference was barely noticeable and yet I was more serious about this stuff so yeah.. even if others can look alright and be doing the bad habits, it doesnt matter in the long term coz you will come out on top
I got on self improvement in 2020, back when I was 16, but a few months later I kinda stopped doing it because of the loneliness aspect. Don't make my mistake, I wish I had sticked through
what u mean loneliness
i relate greyson a lot i’m one yr older then him this gave me lots of insight and knowledge
Hamza in this time is crazy, very crazy, realize these changes in your life, but self-improvement is worth itGreetings from Latin America, more specifically Venezuela
I refresed my feed and saw your video 10secs ago
26 years olds : first time?
12:12 thats so true for around 6 months i was seeing absilutley no results in the self improvement and suddenly i wake up one day and i freak out and get scared about how much muscle mass i putted on
I kinda relate with this dude im 17 and have been on Self improvement for 8 months,i rarely fap or watch porn, i do home workouts and read book, i have atleast two to three friends who are also on self improvement and the rest are just degenerates playing video games and when i tell them i dont play some of them look at me with shock the only thing im dealing with is constancy and lack of motivation/willpower.
I am from India , i am 16 and i lost 2500$ in online games frlm my mother's bank.. iam so guilty and depressed, thinking about suicide...please if you can help...😢😢
Bro don't worry everything's gonna be alright just keep your faith in God . Life is soon gonna be easy just keep working hard .
I have been in the dark ditch living like a fucking rat for 5 year just doing fapping 3 time a day and playing 2-3 hrs of games
I would watch self improvement vid but would not take any action
I came across Hamza videos at nov 23 and he inspired and helped me take action
I am grateful for Hamza for showing me the light at the end of the tunnel
thanks you for post this video hamza❤❤❤❤
I'm 18 (almost 19) and feel the same way as this guy. I haven't talked to a person my age in like 7 months, I only talk to like 3 guys at the gym who are older than 25.
this used to me bro, you just gotta find your boys that are the same as you it will take a while i was lonely for ages, but since last year ive found a good group of lads that i feel at home with. im 17 btw
I love the grounded reality of this channel!!!
*Retirement took a toll on my finances, but with my involvement in the digital market, $27,000 weekly returns has been life changing. AWESOME GOD❤️❤️*
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Maria Luisa Abrams.
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
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Quick comment about AdonisGang,
It’s been awesome since I joined AdonisGang , there’s so much great guides like on calisthenics or how you can improve your hair , diet etc. and I even made a friend over there that lives not that far away from me and we go to the same school, so I want to thank Hamza for everything he’s done for the community. ❤️✊💪
Every 16 year should read can't hurt me by David goggins
Some days I have a mental block and these weird things stuck in the back of my mind. Like for example I was going to search something up earlier but I forgot and now it’s whole day I’ve been feeling like a part of me is missing and I keep sitting down for deep work but this thought keeps bugging me. Anyone know what I can do?
I remeber i did this when i was going to a boarding school, i was meditatin daily & eventually the other people there found out and i invited them to come and do it with me since they thought it was funny, they were also a bit curious. So a couple of weeks forward i sit in a room with 8 other guys meditation. some of them were just doing it to troll me lol was kinda funny tbh but atleast a few of them were actually wanting to do it. It was a awesome feeling man cause i was the one who was leading the meditaion i was the narrator basically. Its quite funny actually i was the most mindful i have ever been whilst narrorating them through the meditaion.
I've convinced 2 guys to a push up UNO challange everyone does push ups except the winner starting from 5 and add up 5 every 2 rounds
Everyone comments "i will do one push up for every like" bro stfu💀, i will actually do them and not only them but 1 squat and 1 pull up if you guys put me at top in 1 day. Then i will post a video right after