Why are MUSLIM WOMEN Disrespecting VIRGINITY?
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Why are MUSLIM WOMEN Disrespecting VIRGINITY? dives deeper into virginity in Islam, if asking your potential spouse about virginity is haram, virginity tests and the hymen.
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0:00 Muslim Woman DISRESPECTS Virginity
2:41 What ISLAM says about VIRGINITY
4:46 What if I lost my VIRGINITY?
7:09 How to ask potential spouse about VIRGINITY?
8:06 THE HYMEN IS...
9:37 DISGUSTING CULTURAL PRACTICES
10:00 Chastity vs Virginity?
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Brother Fayad there's a channel on UA-cam that getting viral with plenty of muslim women young and old subscribing. It's called 'BROCK GRAYSON'. He's manipulating them into thinking its OK for hijabi women in the street to be approached and flirted with. He's also exposing them to Christianity albeit in a sneaky way. My own neice was following him. People need to know. His channel is growing fast and muslim women are loading him with expensive superchats. The biggest danger to Islam is women apostating to the religion of Dajjal (Christianity). The primary route is leaving Islam after getting into relationships with kafir men, who are approaching them and giving them attention. I'll provide a link to one of his live videos. It's 10 hours long but start at 2.57 when 3 muslim women come on his live in succession. May Allah protect thus Ummah from these great trials.
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Brother Fayad there's a channel on UA-cam that getting viral with plenty of muslim women young and old subscribing. It's called 'BROCK GRAYSON'. He's manipulating them into thinking its OK for hijabi women in the street to be approached and flirted with. He's also exposing them to Christianity albeit in a sneaky way. My own neice was following him. People need to know. His channel is growing fast and muslim women are loading him with expensive superchats. The biggest danger to Islam is women apostating to the religion of Dajjal (Christianity). The primary route is leaving Islam after getting into relationships with kafir men, who are approaching them and giving them attention. I'll provide a link to one of his live videos. It's 10 hours long but start at 2.57 when 3 muslim women come on his live in succession. May Allah protect thus Ummah from these great trials.
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Bro, the elite are trying to test us muslims to see how we react when they disrespect our religion. They study our lives so close through our private informations, cell phones, digital and genetic footprints and then they make it public. Woman are the ones who get corrupted first, then the men, through cellphone and education systems designed to fail men and promote promiscuous woman.the Muslim comunitys around some places are getting sick and facing trials. If you don't want to get sick you must flee from the fitnah of Dajaal añ avoid sick people all together. You seem very genuine person and these days that's frowned upon in this Dunya. May Allah swt protect his followers Ameen. Say Ameen.
Well I think if she can live like Daee for 40days it would prove quite a lot like full nikab, no social media, no social activity only Deen and strict Sharia.
Then I suppose it could be like a Muslim bootcamp or something.
This will also satisfy God and eventually proves the intention behind Her claims !@
She is the type of Muslim who will support Dajjal saying he deserves a chance and that only Allah can judge him!
who says she is a muslim?
You can takfir her, she is clearly spreading fitnah and she knows what she is doing
after all women will be the majority who will follow him
😂😂😂
Hahahahaha very funny brother
A Bedouin woman lost her son and she was looking for him and calling his name.
She was told: "Uncover your face, so that he might recognise you!"
She said: "I lost my child, not my modesty."
This extreme level of 'ستر' still happens in rural areas.
I've heard this story many times. Its beautiful
@@jummah... yes very important for our time especially when modesty is looked down upon
I'm a Muslim but that's somewhat stupid
@@ouioui6312 it is stupid and extreme
@@ouioui6312things have context bruh. How you sure that removing the hijab guarantee finding the child? She can keep the hijab and search at the same time. Name calling, chlotes shes wearing, her voices etc the kid can recognize her by a lot of ways. Why the dude and your first solution must be removeing the hijab bruh
Even if you live in a land of niqab
I'm a revert from Qadiani, and when you mentioned making tawbah and changing your life I started crying. May Allah bless you
May Allah ﷻ keep you steadfast and bless you immensely both in this dunya and hereafter
Ameen you as well
Welcome to the true version of islam may Allah swt continue to guide you and keep you upon the straight path Ameen
do you like anime and harley quinn (as I saw them in your profile)? me too.. 😄 btw, it's sasuke from naruto in your pfp, right?
MIRZA GHULAM LANATALLAH
Nothing wrong with pure men wanting pure women. It's the men who've done zina who then go onto wanting only a virgin and shaming women who aren't a virgin that rub me the wrong way.
I Agree. The double standard Is what disturbs me a lot.
@@z.a.1237not double standard why women allow men sex before marriage women are gatekeepers not men ok today is men are virgin socity shame men today if men virgin if men have not girlfriend people shame 😢
The women aren't rich they want a rich ma the women aren't tall they want a tall man so why not you guys call double standards there we love women purity the same way womrn love our status and finances
@@redpanther9380you’re conflating topics that, Islamically, are not remotely in the same category.
Relations out side of marriage for both sexes is haram in Islam. Full stop. No negotiations for either sexes.
In Islam, wanting to marry a virgin when you are not a virgin is wrong for either a man or a woman. Full stop. No negotiations.
If you chose to have relations outside of marriage, you have no right to desire or require someone who did not because you are not on the same level as they are. Man or woman. Period.
Men provide in an Islamic marriage. A woman wanting a quality provider is important so that she can care for the home and children.
Being a quality provider is the man’s role. Being a quality homemaker is the woman’s role. If she does work, it should not interfere with her role to care for the home.
All the other stuff you mentioned is personal preference.
Do not conflate personal preference with the rules of Islam.
You speak like someone who knows very little about Islamic laws and culture so I tried to keep it very simple.
@@redpanther9380 here we go again with the "whataboutism!" 🙄
No vigirnity doesn't matter what matters it is how you lost it.
If you got r*p3d or lost it in a marriage it doesn't matter.
This is True, you worded it well
Intention 🙏
Even if it is not a sin it matters. If a woman had 5 husbands, then men would care about her having 5 husbands before they get married.
@@QamarTubeTV the more concerning thing here is why she had to get married 5 different times.
Like is it her or was it really just bad luck
Muslim males 😅😂😅
الحمد لله,
Im a 21 year old guy and ive never done anything even remotely haram with a woman in my life. Allah has kept me safe from all that. I plan to stay that way until i get married to a woman whos also stayed like that
May Allah bless you
@@FaiyadFit جزاكم الله خيرا
Alhamdullilah im 19 me as well, just don’t wait too long or else it will be hard to find a woman who hasn’t.
@@72-bit I am honest i even think its impossible now to find a girl for marriage.
I’m 20 Alhamdillah never done anything with a woman even people have looked down upon me for not doing it considering the fact I was born in the west
Maryam and Yusuf (alayhum salam) are our role models in regards to observing our chastity. People who talk like that have no chastity nor tawqa of Allah.
Tgarma
As a girl, that intro gave me a migraine...
You forgot to mention how the 'sister' in the video spewed second-wave feminist talking points word-for-word... That was honestly really concerning. It's terrifying how lay people can consume and espouse an entire ideology without evidence and without even knowing that they adopted it.
I thought that’s already self evident. My role is to break it down according to Islam!
@@FaiyadFitvideo idea having to do with this comment.
Western Education/Educational Institutions and Being Muslim
This is especially pertinent to raising children.
The young lady in the video was likely educated in western (co-ed) schools and contexts, so functioning this way is normative for her, while dysfunctional as a Muslimah.
What responsibility do Muslim parents have to educate their children in Islamic spaces?
What responsibility does the Muslim community in the west have to educate their children, the next generation, Islamically?
I’m particularly interested in the topic of co-ed environments. Having experienced this and felt distressed by it as a young Muslimah, I don’t feel as though it’s talked about enough.
I wanted to be home schooled. But my parents (both reverts) dismissed my stress and this had an impact on my life and development as a Muslimah.
Would love to hear this discussion from you.
you know the moment I saw those tatoo's on her forearm, I just knew immediatly, she probably has done stuff in the past and want us the pure men to not care about it, just imagine the mindblowing hypocrisy she just spouted
We are peeping this dunya for dajal and the events leading to its end.
Also virgin women prefer virgin men aswell, if the woman has kept herself chaste for marriage, she would also want her future husband to have done the same. I’m just saying that it’s not like women don’t care about the man’s past, because they do.
I’m not talking about divorced/widowed people. A chaste muslim woman doesn’t want to be with a fornicator.
I disagree because a man could marry a woman and then when marrying a second wife he will no longer be a v. But he never indulged in haram. And he is chaste just like his second wife who is still a v.
i agree 👍 👍
Yes, i clarified that as well 😄
@@FaiyadFitakhi she didn’t edit her comment, so please read again and see what you answered.
@@FaiyadFit as well as widow women and divorced women too who didn't commit fornication...akhi don't try to justify just men. It looks weird honestly and disgusting...
As a 21 year old man who has kept himself away from zina, despite being approached by both hijabi sisters and non believers, it gets pretty difficult for me as a man to just keep declining whilst everyone else is engaging in such acts and justifying it by trivialising the matter. The intro is the reason why a lot of brothers are hesitant to get married these days and are finding alternatives, sometimes it being haram.
As for the marriage contract requirements, there's tons of cases of sisters going through with the marriage without actually fulfilling the requirements and then the husband finding the truth later in life. There was a recent case of this manner on sheikh assim's questions and answers show. It's tough out here.
my fellow Brother, stay strong Allah is with you
May Allah protect us
Wait there are sisters coming to you asking to commit zina??
27 and still going strong. Stay halal brother
*which country are you from brother?* 🤔
At first, i thought she was talking about divorcees, but it doesnt see so after. Virginity could show virtue and chastity which is important in islam. I think the only problem most muslim women have is when some muslim men think they can sleep around and then demand to marry women that are virgins or shaming divorces or widows for being another mans left overs.
I discuss this
@@FaiyadFit yes, lol 😂 I typed it at the very beginning of listening then you mention it but I had already posted the comment
Delete this comment or edit the top so people realize its been answered@@ruka939
This guy is full of nonsense May Allah guide him and the rest of us also. I stopped various times. But could only make it till 4.20
Insanity ensues ... the diabolical prevail
Yeah same for men tho he should br a virgin
If I am staying pure for the sake of Allah swt I am expecting the same from my future partner.
The issue is how can we know
I'm 27 and remained pure alhamdulilah
But it's so hard to know
@@abdullahahmad9300 definetly brother I understand your frustration.
Approach sisters who are from religious families. It’s easier to tell when you know they are reputable. Usually in my community they look into both the bride and grooms past lives from their family friends or what not. If you’re able to do this with healthy boundaries. It can be done.
May Allah grant you a pious wife and kids who will be the coolness to your eyes. Ameen
@@abdullahahmad9300 Marry a young one Muslimah
@@HajiTech-or3pf Yes but the issue is
Because I'm 27 and turning 28 soon
Finding someone young like 19-21 is difficult
@@sigm7a827 Also, some tips to look out for to know she's most likely not a virgin
1. She's quite open and loud
2. The way she dresses and makeup
3. Does she have male friends
4. Confident with men
5. Social media- Many men following her
6. She's willing to meet you alone straight away.
7. She goes out alot with friends
8. Has alot of friends (bad friends)
Etc
The above not all is definite proof but if she has alot of the above it's best to stay away from her.
Keep going Brother. Your showing us what's really going on.
In sha Allah brotha
I’m a revert, when I was looking to marry, my mehr was only 1k to put in my emergency savings and one man told me that I’m not worth 1k because I have a past even if that was before I became Muslim. I understand that men want virgin women and that’s okay but he didn’t have to say that. 😕 may Allah forgive him Ameen. And second I didn’t think 1k was high mehr at all… comparing to sisters asking 50k and up.
But fast forward I married a wonderful husband, that treats me like a princess allahuma barik may Allah increase him in rank.
Wallah he transgressed against you and Allah and he said a horrible thing, he is an arrogant ignorant fool. I feel awful for you, you are truly beautiful may Allah grant you a spouse who sees your beauty always, if you are already married may Allah grant you have a beautiful life and righteous children.
I didn’t finish your comment I see you are married, Allahuma Barik.
That person has said great zhulm and is completely wrong for saying this. A person who has accepted Islam, their past sins are forgiven. Alhamdulillah Allah has gave you someone better. May Allah bless you, your husband and grant you children who will be the coolness of you're eyes. (and yes that mehr is actually quite reasonable compared to most sisters are asking nowadays!)
Wow, how disgusting and 1k is nothing in terms of money. These men are crazy.
Cultural difference.Pure women are pure men.
We do not forget that most single, virgin and chaste women prefer a chaste man who has never been married before and has never had any intimate relationship before. A man’s virginity and chastity are also important in the eyes of women. A man’s value increases if it is the first time, a divorced, widowed or married man who wants a second wife they will never be of the same value as a chaste single man in the marriage market. a woman wants to feel that she is special and unique, and a man who is divorced, widowed, or married wants a second wife.they cannot satisfy this side of a woman only a chaste, single man can make a woman feel that she is special and unique to him, so his value is much higher than other men.
This is not true at all, as long as the guy is tall, handsome and rich, these requirements and criterion go out the window. A man who's capable of having multiple wives already has an elevated status, so it doesn't work like that.
We have a tons of virgin men... Some fear Allah and some dont become a Girlfriend.. but not tall and rich... İf women can choose, she choose most time the men with money or a nice body... Some women maybe say, no, i wait for the Virgin who is rich and tall and only a virgin men... But most of this men are not virgins, because the mixxed schools...
@@Altair-El-Haddad Not true, I would want a virgin man. If he repented, that's different. Some of us still value the sanctity of marriage.
@@shimmer4771 Exceptions don't make the rules, my point still stands. 🤷🏻♂️
@@Altair-El-Haddad you can't base it on personal opinion. In Islam, a virgin is not permitted to marry a non virgin unless he/she has repented.
The way I see it:
1. You can have a preference but must be held accountable for holding a similar standard. Nothing wrong a virgin man/woman wanting the same from their partner. But to expect a virgin but *actively* sleeping around, commiting zina =wrong
2. Your body count does not make you worth less. I think this is something that should be known, divorcees and widows aren't worth less.
3. It isn't about body count, it should be about... drum roll... your character, for example:
A woman that waiting till marriage but got rightly divorced. She is not worth less.
But a woman openly commiting sins or lets say breaking hearts. Then it really raises questions.
So in summary; it isn't about 'count' but more about accountablity/character
Our Prophet (pbuh) married a divorced women, it shows that body count when done correctly, isnt saying they are worse less. But regardless of gender, those who *choose* wrong, has a questionble character.
your comment should be highlighted 👍
Divorcees are not zanis. They are I guess are not the topic of debate.
@@ayyylmao101 It was a typing mistake. Allah forgives.
@@tafis007 Inshallah he does, alhamdulillah for the correction. I say ameen and remove the previous comment
2. when ever the term "worth less" comes in these type of discussions, it doesn't refer to your value as a human, it refers to your desirability to the opposite sex for marriage purposes. for the most part, especially Muslims are talking about the ones with haram relationships. for divorcee and widows that should be looked case by case. still I wouldn't recommend a virgin man to marry divorcee or widow.
3. I disagree, it's all about your body count. majority of women with high body count tend to have unpleasant characters as well. like being deceitful, cheaters, selfish, gaslighters.....etc. more body count, more sh*ty personality. this doesn't hold true for men most of the time because to acquire those body counts men and women tend to take different and opposite route which in turn for the most part works in the favor of men but not for women.
a women that says "body count doesn't matter" 1, she's gaslighting her self. 2,she is not taking accountability even she's claiming to do so.
If a woman said that in public, I'll tell the brother don't go for this sister, just run to the hills from such women, just run.
The worse thing here is that she is preaching.
She is misleading people
@@Justice_Dignity indeed her actions should be dealt with not normalised nor accepted as it spreads then that way.
Alhamdulillah my parents raise me good. Inshallah I will get a righteous husband in future who accept me no matter what ❤❤❤. I also make Dua for my Muslim brothers and sisters to get the best future partners inshallah 💞.
In sha Allah
In’Sha’Allah Ameen
@@NajimaMuslimah Don't say inshallah after dua.
So thankful Alhamdulilah that I was raised by a super strict Arab father who had a body-guard follow us around everywhere we went when we were in high school and university to scare the guys away. I’m almost 40 and still not married, but I’ll be happy to die a virgin and meet my soul mate and fall in love for the first time in Jannah InshaAllah. This world is a scary place and human beings are complicated.
Selam alaikum sister, Allahumma barik, to your father and you. Can i ask you, why you dont found a men who fear only Allah and pray and make helal money. We have tons of them😂. Not supertall and superrich, but good hearth, we have enaugh
@@itachiphoenix33 wa alaykumsalaam…because I am the eldest daughter and I had to take care of my autistic brother and my sick mother full-time. I did not have time for anything else, and after they died, I was too depressed to do anything or meet anyone. Alhamdulilah I am doing much better now and starting to enjoy life again. They died in 2020 and 2021, Allahyerhamhom.
@@fatiq8297 Mercy be upon your family and may Jannah greet you all with joy. May Allah make your sadness, your grief, your trials, your pains, and your tiredness a continuous expiation and means of reward for you, and guide you to what is best for you, sister ♥
@@ayyylmao101 ya Rabb
@@fatiq8297 May Allah have mercy on them and reward you immensely without account. May Allah grant you a righteous, god-fearing, kind, loving spouse who will help you on the journey to jannah
Allah has blessed with hikmah brother and you are probably one of the last few if not only muslim youtubers that is guiding the youth based on purely Islamic principles backed with proof and authenticity May Allah reward you and may Allah grant our Ummah strength.Lots of respect from Pakistan✨✨
Ameen and may Allah keep me on haqq
But, he's not a scholar or sheikh. Some of what he says is based on opinion.
"..#feminism.."
Yeah, that sums it up, i ain't hearing any of her opinion any longer..
Fact
Virgins are for virgins, non-virgins are for non-virgins. Simple.
it's common sense i don't know why they try to make a whole buzz about it
@@praised_goodness Because non-virgins are insecure about the fact that they couldn't save themselves for marriage.
very true & i agree with you,,,but the problem is not easy to find sincere people....... ..
Exactly.
Jezakallah brother for the video, and i also wanted to add something about the Hymen. (Med student), Depending on the thickness and elasticity of the tissue, some girls don’t bleed on the wedding night. And some dont even have it. (I am talking about virgins.)
So some girls might have it torn by simply doing excersie like gymnastics, bike riding, horseback riding.... and some girls dont tear even after penetration.
Sorry, i dont belive this... Why is this a sign for a virgin, was all men so brutal in the first night, that she bleed... And a lot of Christian and Atheist women say, they bleed on thr first time...
İts nice to women to lie then, she is a virgin, because she bleed in haram, but bot in wedding night...
And we cant ask ever our females in the familiy, to know, if all women bleeding... Or ask the men..
Women most stay to her mistakes... And take a men, who dont care, because he sleep a lot too, with another women... This is fair..
Because some women never forget her mr 1...
@@itachiphoenix33 You're a fool, I tore my hymen when I went to the gynecologist. She even apologised to me in advance that it might tear. That doesn't mean that I'm no longer a virgin. If you're a male virgin who hasn't even touched a woman yet then you should think twice before making ridiculous claims like this. My islamic teacher told us that he didn't understand anything about women's issues in Islam until he got married. Have some decorum.
@@itachiphoenix33 your message isn’t clear, but if you are saying that you must bleed if you’re a virgin, then you are incorrect. This backwards mentality leads to a lot of chaste, innocent women being falsely accused, some maybe even killed for barbaric beliefs that if you don’t bleed that means it isn’t your first time. I feel sorry for the daughters of people you think like this.
@@itachiphoenix33 you wrong only 43% of women bleed on their first time. You can search it. And for multiple reasons.
"Among the major sins is to accuse chaste believing women who never even think of anything touching their chastity."
Thank you, I've been debating my sibling about this same topic and will share it for them to see.
Allahumma Barik what an amazing video akhi. May Allah reward you and grant you Jannah Al firdaws (Ameen). And May Allah protect all of us from the traps of the shaytan (Ameen)
Allahumma ameen
Watching that video
Even the jinns are getting confused over this ummah
May Allah safeguard us
Brother jinn wouldn't be confused seriously.
Even satan wouldn't be confused.
They will celebrate that humans are going the wrong way.
Astagfirullah
@@Justice_Dignity
I meant the good jinns
Looking forward to the podcast
In sha Allah
Looking forward to the #podcast, may Allah continue to bless you brother
Ameen sis and you as well
allah’huma’barik, may الله reward you brother
My day when Faiyad posts a new vid 📈📈📈
Haha Alhamdullilah
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It's actually Danzy's line, but Captain Halal uses it to mock Danzy.
@@KingFaisal2006 Ik but he says it funnier ❤❤🩹
@@KingFaisal2006 I was about to comment that
Great video keep it up you're doing amazing things 😁👍
In sha Allah habibi
Allahumma Barik what an amazing video akhi. May Allah reward you and grant you Jannah Al firdaws (Ameen). Women like this are just crazy and uneducated. As a female this feminist is terrible.
Alhumdulillah sis
I DIED at the picture of J's for j*ws.
....... u shouldn't hate jews
@@mysterexotique no we don't, but we do know that youtube is kinda sensitive nowaday with that specific word.
#podcast May Allah bless you and your UA-cam channel In Shaa Allah more and more people will benefit from it!!!
Proud of you brother keep it halal #podcast
#podcast keep it up bro
#podcast allahuma barik brother, i always learn from your videos in an entertaining and engaing way!
BRO U DESERVE MILLION OF FOLLOWERS INSTEAD OF MOST ISLAMIC UA-camRS HERE❤❤
Rather be underrated than overrated habibi
@@FaiyadFit 😂😂overated habibi bruh
Why nobody speaks about the purity and the virginity of men ? Sisters too deserve pure and virgin men.
Its way more important for a man that his wife is virgin than the other way around. Not even close.
Because only men can wish such things , women aren’t allowed to have preference 😂. These men will complain or cry for virgin , but they forget that the virgin woman want virgin man as well !
It’s okay sister . We can reject them if they are not virgin .
Why don't you talk about it? I don't understand it. The amount of time women justify being a non-virgin they could take their time and speak against men who are F_boys.
@@Abdur-Rahman862 Womp womb, wrong answer.
The reason why I like watching this brother bcz he always brings out facts from Islam not based on an opinion at least he gives me hope they are good guys left on earth keep up the good content brother 🤍
He's not a scholar. Some of his stuff is false or incorrect. Like in one of his videos, he talks about asking questions about the girls past, but this is haram, as it may involve exposing one's sins.
@@shimmer4771 I didn't say he is a scholar and in that vid he said that exposing sins is haram he made that point but the whole point was about when a man asks the girl if she was a virgin not exposing all what she did in the past u know bcz some man when they want to marry a girl they want to know if she was a virgin or no ( to me it's offensive but it's okay it's necessary to ask but still I feel like I'm being accused lol)
@@iamamuslimah215 that's still exposing one's sins. It's not his business. And what I mean is, only a scholar is qualified to go into certain issues. Yes, this may involve exposing one's sins.
@@shimmer4771 why don't u do a research on this subject
@@iamamuslimah215 Go look at Islamqa. They'll tell you the same thing.
0:34 my exact reaction LMFAO I was so confused
One of the hardest things as an adult unmarried man is practicing willful chastity. I plan to get married one day and don't want to feel guilty amongst my future spouse, so I pray sincerely for strength in my heart to control my body till that time in my life. It sometimes seems silly because I don't even know if I'll even meet someone who has the same self-control as I had. Allah knows best.
We’re in this together brother. Don’t let me down and I won’t let you down InshaAllah. If we both keep our promise to each other inshaAllah I pray to meet you in jannah. Stay true king 💪
Asalamalaykum wa ramatulahi wa barakatuhu, I just wanted to say your editing style has gotten better. Nice work!
virginity doesnt matter if it was halal tbh.... wanting a virgin because you are a virgin is normal too
#podcast nafis bhaia ❤❤
Lmao
nice vid.
I'v been telling Muslim men that a lot of Muslim women are doing zina and lying about it, but here she is, she's exposing a lot of sisters mindsets that they're trying to fake, at least she's honest about it, no hard fellings tho
Not all women commit fornication. I know many chaste women in America.
Not all of us. I'm 26 and a virgin. I wear hijab. There's good sisters.
@@shimmer4771 Good for u but that does not devalue my point, I didn't accuse you of anything sister so I don't know you're telling me this
@@bethere7862 I'm just trying show there's good sisters and I'm tired of it not being shown.
#podcast, Salam bro can you please make a video on tawakkul & how can we implement this in our lives & also the concept of risq in Islam
Inna lillah
Because many are run through.
Bedsides the hijab and IG stories of Eid, they basically live like kuffar.
This might seem controversial but we're living in controversial times.
Those women should fear the fire. There are good Muslim women living in America. Some of us work to demonstrate that.
@@shimmer4771 absolutely. There's many many good Muslim women who deserve nothing but respect and recognition as they really are the light of our community. But, we should treat social issues like issues of the body. If one part can't be saved, it should be cut off.
@@aimenelhabry6178 there's a lot of Muslim women who fell into the feminist trap, no lie. However, we also have other issues in our Ummah. Racism, prejudice, ignorance, cultural ignorance, withholding zakat, and other things. We also got bums at the masjid, too. We also have abusive men. Let's not just talk about bad women...
@@shimmer4771 are there bad men? Absolutely. A lot even. The issue with women's problems is that they're going step by step more and normalized and mainstream. But why can't we ever talk about women without bringing men? Let's stop the victimistic mindset of women and the feminist dialectics and we can argue well. And for the news, I'm engaged alhamdulillah.
@@aimenelhabry6178 Hello. I am in no way being feminist or victim. I simply stated another issue. I wanted to address numerous topics, not just focus on one sole issue. This does not instantly make me a feminist, rather an activist for certain issues that sometimes get ignored.
this is gonna destroy feminists
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I have a question if the husband actually lost his v card but he lies about it to her before marriage and she found out later after the marriage than can she divorce him ?
Sure, there’s quite a few reasons to divorce
Yeah better to divorce.A liar will lie again.
Its sad that these 3 things that are halal are getting shames by muslims who wants the deen on their desire
1- desiring a virgin
2- marrying more than one woman (if you don’t try to be as equal as possible you, then shouldn’t, and the majority of men can’t anyway, but its still possible for some men to be equal)
3- you yourself marrying before 18, or marrying someone else that is below 18 (i know you can’t do this in most countries anyway because of the law, but people in villages can and if they come to cities they will be shamed or even called pdf files
Here's another tip if you're struggling to ask directly. When discussing deal breakers etc, say it in general terms without having to ask directly. For example when asked about deal breakers you can add, "my sister one deal breaker for me is if a person has had past relationships. However I do not think I am better than them rather in my eyes if they have repented, then Allah has forgiven them. Nonetheless this is something important to me given how hard I worked to protect myself and this is my preference, therefore would like someone similar" Leave it as that in a kind respectful manner, the potential will (if he/she has) eventually say we're not compatible without him/her exposing themselves as the reason could be anything (personality or anything else). The potential if she/he is upon khayr (good) will appreciate it and won't make a fuss about it. If they do respond fiery , well you got your answer or at least a red flag even if they don't specifically say it. You've done nothing wrong. This isn't just for brothers but also sisters as many sisters worked hard to protect themselves who may also want a husband who does not have a past. This is a matter of preference and if its one you cannot accept (rightfully so), then don't just go with it because people are telling you to as it will definitely cause issues. This does not mean you become disrespectful or you try to expose and you look down as Allah forgives whom he wills, never. Some may become the best of spouses as well so its a personal matter what you're comfortable with. It has to be a mature conversation about your preferences which you are entitled to. its not the same talking to someone who is divorced as Alhamdulillah they got married in a halal manner and did not do anything wrong. Hope that helps, from your brother in Islam.
All those Hadith that say “a day will come when…” are coming true Wallahi it’s looking so grim 😔 what is wrong with us.
The only thing you can do is seek refuge in Allah and STRIVE for his deen. Remain steadfast, preserve, and have taqwa then we’ll be successful
« I refuse to fake laugh in my house » lmao , but I agree 100%. 😂😂
As a Muslim woman who does not wear the hijab but never let a man even touch my hand let alone something else . I am laughing in tears 😂. That’s why i say you need to believe the basics , nurture your soul before anything . And stop judging people by what they wear !!!
you said you never allow a man to touch u. But do u know how many sins can be earned by not covering your hair😟, ya ukhti may Allah guide us and make us love and wear the hijab but indeed only He can judge us but plz work and prepare for Allah's judgement , anothr thing is, if u believe that u must wear hijab but deny that fact then it can lead to kuffr since that will be denying Allah's orders so be careful , Allah knows best ,wassalamu alaikum warahmatul lahi wabarakatu
@@rayanlaziaz dear brother in Islam . I get that your intentions are good here but you are implicitly calling me kafira . Please do know that if you say that to a true Muslim you will be punished by Allah, and to call a sister bad when Allah knows that her entire life she has been good , is also punishable .
Please do instruct yourself about Islam . I am trying to learn more and more about Islam every day and I hope you do that too .
Also please remember to be kind , compassionate , understanding and respectful.
To conclude , your logic is not logically coherent as you are thinking that putting the hijab is way better than preserving your body and vagina from men so according to you, it’s ok for a woman to lose her body to a random man as long as she is veiled ? please please stop it . Allah is watching and listening to everything , Islam is behavior first and foremost . If your core is rotten , no amount of hijab or whatever will make up for it .
Also read this and contemplate it carefully :
إنّ الْمُسْلمين والْمُسْلمات والْمُؤْمنين والْمُؤْمنات والْقانتين والْقانتات والصّادقين والصّادقات والصّابرين والصّابرات والْخاشعين والْخاشعات والْمُتصدّقين والْمُتصدّقات والصّائمين والصّائمات والْحافظين فُرُوجهُمْ والْحافظات والذّاكرين اللّه كثيرًا والذّاكرات أعدّ اللّهُ لهُمْ مغْفرةً وأجْرًا عظيمًا [الأحزاب:35].
@@o6301 Not covering up equates to tabarruj, which is one of the biggest sins vvomen can commit so idk what you're trying to justify here.
Our prophet has stated, "Verily modesty and faith come together. if one of the two is missing, so is the other"
@@Altair-El-Haddad I am not trying to justify anything . I never said hijab was wrong . Hijab is beautiful and inchallah I will wear it some day . Also , I am not trying to gain your favor , with all due respect , I only care about what Allah thinks of me and thankfully Allah sees and knows everything .
But it’s you guys who overlook my message even though it is as clear as light and it is indeed obvious that you both are great examples of what I am talking about .
You just assumed that because I don’t wear the hijab , I wear makeup and show my skin …
Please learn your religion before trying to give lessons to others .
May Allah forgive and guide us all .
Have a great day and life all of you ☺️
@@o6301 I don't even know you, why would you want favors from me? I just quoted a saying of our prophet Muhammad pbuh from a saheeh hadith. Also, Allah has stated that a vvoman who commits tabarruj won't smell the fragrance of jannah, so do what you will with it. I don't have to learn anything, my mother is a hafiza. Hijab is obligatory. The cope is palpable sis 🤷🏻♂️
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She just promoted haram acts kuffar right to be called zindiq (heretic)
Asalam alaykum brother. I would appreciate it if you don't generalize muslim women based on your captions because it gives the bad view/picture of muslim women or even men sometimes. Specify your caption more instead of generalizing.
Walaikum assalam Jazakallahu khair
he aint lying tho, most muslim women have the same mindset
@@bethere7862 and boom. Here you are prooving me right lol
@@eh8551 i'm not,
@@eh8551 never thought MOST is considered a generalization
"Visa gold" 🤣😂🤣😂 Nah but this is definitely a serious issue. Jazakallah brother.
السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته
She’s Shia and they believe in mutaah but she failed to mention that
"we're not going to allow men to tell us what to do with our body". Would they even dare to say that to our beloved Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him??
So it doesn't matter that he married a little girl? Ain't no way I'm listening to a monster like him🐁🤮
@@Baby_ghost__baisha was 19 lmfoaoaoaoaoao
@@mysterexotique non she wasn't, she said it herself that when she got married she was still playing with dolls.
And please make it make sense ! How could she has her first time at 19 when Mohamed died when she was 18.
You should know better 🤭
@@Baby_ghost__b the Prophet could not have gone against the Quran to marry a physically and intellectually immature child. Secondly, the age of Hazrat Aisha can be easily calculated from the age of her elder sister Hazrat Asma who was 10 years older than Hazrat Aisha. Waliuddin Muhammad Abdullah Al-Khateeb al Amri Tabrizi the famous author of Mishkath, in his biography of narrators (Asma ur Rijal), writes that Hazrat Asma died in the year 73 Hijri at the age of 100, ten or twelve days after the martyrdom of her son Abdullah Ibn Zubair. It is common knowledge that the Islamic calendar starts from the year of the Hijrah or the Prophet’s migration from Mecca to Medina.
Therefore, by deducting 73, the year of Hazrat Asma’s death, from 100, her age at that time, we can easily conclude that she was 27 years old during Hijra.
This puts the age of Hazrat Aisha at 17 during the same period. As all biographers of the Prophet agree that he consummated his marriage with Hazrat Aisha in the year 2 Hijri it can be conclusively said that she was 19 at that time and not nine as alleged in the aforementioned hadiths.
@@Baby_ghost__b look up "aisha wasn't nine" also, what nine year old helps in wars? she carried heavy waterbodies across the battlefield
This is 95% of women on muzz and thats why i had to get off that app and use the match making app. This is such a western mindset and has no place in islam.
Ameen
Downplaying virginity shows that you aren't one, and that you don't respect you body/self which isn't for anyone and everyone..but just for the spouse who gets to marry you you Islamically. May Allah protect us from illicit relationships. Ameen!
#podcast
Inshallah, I’m going to get my fiancé on your podcast
Jazakallahu khair
As shaik othman Al-Khamees said, it doesn't matter the truth. The best answer is "get out of my house" or getting out of the house for your own good.
Who starts a relationship that starts this way?
All Muslim sisters listen carefully if you are a virgin do not marry Muslim brothers who are not virgin it is not worth it. You cannot be asking Muslim women to keep their virginity why you do not keep yours. I am saying from experience, I was a virgin girl who got married to a SOB that was not a virgin and hardly practiced the religion but pretended when we were in the courtship process of getting married. It was after I had gotten divorced I actually realized that they are brothers out there who actually stay true to the deen. Should never have gotten married to my Ex and would regret it till the day I die. Anyways my point, if you are a virgin girl it is easy to look for only a virgin dude and learn together unless your heart says otherwise. Allahualam.
Subhanallah
I was laughing hard at the beginning of the video
Like what's she saying???
The world is the way it is cause idiots spoke out and bright minds kept quiet.
May Allah bless you brother
May Allah guide us all
To any of the sisters reading this comment, it absolutely matters. More than youth and physical attractiveness, even. Perhaps there's some modern boys who a bit dayoothy and don't care, but most of us brothers do, so please don't listen to crazies telling you otherwise.
If she repented, it no longer matters. A womans sins are between she and Allah. No one has the right to judge anyone who has repented.
It doesn‘t work like that. Repentance doesn‘t restore virginity. Virginity is very attractive to men. Maybe more than her looks.
That video is literally 3 years old, and she hasn’t uploaded since 2021. Perhaps she has grown and has changed over the course of those 3 years. Surely there are things that you have said or done a few years ago that you no longer agree with, so why didn’t you give her the benefit of the doubt?
Because it continues to misguide people? Why not just delete these videos then.
@@FaiyadFit Maybe because she forgot the password and can't reset it. Assume the best
@@FaiyadFitYou could have addressed the topic without showing the video. It literally would have had the same affect. And she literally hasn’t uploaded in 3 years who’s to say she hasn’t passed away?
@@slickrick2420not true if she still uses that account today, besides there is nothing wrong with respectfully correcting someone if it means others don’t get misguided
@@hamzachoudhry6951 that’s the thing, she doesn’t use that account. It literally hasn’t been active for 3 years
She remembers me of the ayah " Have you not seen the one who took his desire as his God " . She is talking about as if it not doing zina is a choice . There is nothing such as "it is my choice , my body " in Islam.
1:15 TAKE HER MEHR BACK?😭😭 the prophet saw. has literally said that the mehr stays the wife's mahr and he can not take it back. Any gift given to her is not to be takrn back
"according to the majority of scholars"
Which mean thats not his statement but majority of scholars
9:46 WHAT?! 🤢🤮
Imam al-Ghazali on the Three (03) Advantages of Marrying Virgins:
01. Virgins tend to love and feel close to their husbands, strengthening their marital bond. In contrast, women who have enjoyed men before may struggle with differences and develop a dislike for their (present) husbands.
02. Marrying a virgin often deepens a man's love, as it is a man's nature to somewhat detest/dislike/loathe a woman who has been touched by another man.
03. The virgin does not yearn after the first husband, because, in general, the surest love is that which is engendered with the first loved one.
[Ihya Ulum al-Din, book 12: On the Etiquette of Marriage, page 90].
you didn't mention how to ask a potential husband about virginity?
is your faiyadfit free? like once I finnish the call how much am I expected to pay? May Allah reward you (Ameen)
I love Islam ,it has great values , integrity and is traditional. Those against being a virgin are not pure ,they have been around the block ,. unfortunately this is the world we are in .
Prophet muhammad is not joking when saying women are fitnah, look at those manipulation to justify for what she did..
Please have proper mannerisms when saying these things. The Hadith just means women are a temptation for men. It does not mean women are "evil" or "inherently" bad. Dear brothers, be careful with how you treat the sisters, please and thanks.
no time stamps 😱
no time stamps means that this is serious 😥
"We deserve respect" you are so respected in Islam that its haraam anyone except those who are your Mahram to even gaze at you, what more are you really asking for?
Most brothers have no idea how bad it is to marry an unchaste woman. It will ruin your married life even if she repented. Just because she repented doesn't mean the effects of zina have magically gone away. That's not how it works.
People who say "chastity doesn't matter" should fear Allah. You're one of the reasons why zina is so common in the ummah.
I've seen a lot of cases where women commit zina and lie about it to their husbands. It's terrible. It has dire consequences.
the nasty bed sheets seem to be a form of minor shirk. They want to show off that they raised a chastise daughter, or they marry a virgin sister. May Allah keep our haya and submission firm to his commands.
Those virginity tests aren't even accurate. If a woman fell down off a horse, was born without a hymen, and other things, she likely won't bleed. Too many innocent women have been accused of fornication.
The obvious response is, if it doesn't matter, why do they need to be forgiven by God?
I understand everything what was said in this video and i completely agree. But as a revert, i have to admit, people who think like this sometimes makes it very difficult for us to get married, because 'we don't have the V card'. And it's the same way with free mixing, haya etc... If u grow up in western countries and you are in daily contact with opposite gender for whatever reasons (doesn't have to be relationship, zina, etc, just free mixing in general), it is very difficult to change it completely and never come back or even close to that. We are so used to free mixing, that it is a HUGE change esp if u don't move outside of such a country. I personally struggle with this a lot. Closest mosque is in the OTHER COUNTRY, 3h by car. I don't even know any muslims personally... U wouldn't believe how difficult it is. Do i complain? No... Alhamdulillah for everything. But it is a big struggle. And getting married? To be honest... I am so worried what my husband will think of me. Not because of my past before reverting. But because I am so used to free mixing that it may make my husband uncomfortable... Ofc I am trying my best to avoid it, but in some stuatons it's almost impossible. It's so bad that sometmes i am scared to even get married and I am worried what may my husband will even think of me. Will i ever even be good enough for a good muslim husband or will he look at me down? I wish some people would understand that side too...
Salam ukhti, it depends by what you mean "free mixing". If it is at a job that you will literally be homeless if you dont keep working at, just try to limit interactions with the men. When you are grocery shopping, limit interactions with men. When you are at a restaurant, limit interactions with men. We don't need to be talking to men or mixing with them and the only absolutely life threatening exceptions are the exceptions, such as a male doctor and that is only afterr you asked for a female doctor, or your job such as doing important work with your male collogues but again, limit the talking and interaction, keep it professional, and don't soften your voice. Remember that Allah swt is ALWAYS watching and we WILL be held accountable for everything we have done in this temporary dunya. May Allah make this easier for you and me, Ameen.
If I am wrong or have made any mistakes, please let me know. Jzk
I want to add a lot of Muslim men who are virgins at marriage want virgins, and a lot of non Muslim men who are virgins at marriage want virgins. This is innate in men to feel this way.
Try to migrate to a muslim country or go to a conservative state.
@@noonwraith401 Sometimes, they can't afford to move.
I don’t even care aslong as that person returned to allah , maybe becuz im a guilty man myself
Dua to attain Allah's love; Allahuma inni asaluka hubaka, Wa hubbaman ya hibuka, Wal amal al-ladhi bil leghuni hubbaka, Allahuma ja'al hubbaka a-habba alay-yai,Min nafsi, wa-ahli,wa minal barrid 🫀
اللهم إني أسألك حبك، وحب من يحبك، والعمل الذي يبلغني حبك، اللهم اجعل حبك أحب إلى من نفسي،
وأهلي، ومن الماء البارد".
"Ya mukalib al quloob thabit qalby ala deenak" "Oh rotator of the heart, make my heart strong upon your religion"❤ يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِي عَلَى دِينِكَ
اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي
Transliteration: Allahumma innaka afuwwun tuhibbul afwa fa’fu annee 🎀
Rabbana ighfir lee waliwalidayya walilmumineena yawma yaqoomu alhisab
"Our Lord! Forgive me, my parents, and the believers on the Day when the judgment will come to pass.”🎀
It’s very ironic that women judge us on height , ethnicity , status , wealth , p size , what we drive blabla but we can’t judge or have standards hmmm
Are you serious? I am praying but don't wear the hijab yet, but I am a virgin.
And I don't like man that are not a virgin.
There’s no problem in that
Virgin men for virgin women and vice versa
Good. Keep up the good work
I think he means hijab as a concept, which includes general modesty and lack of extravagant displays of adorned beauty
Salam Alaikum. Please, try to wear hijab. Maryam (May Allah be pleased with her) would be proud of you if she were here!
High body count indicates a higher chance of contracting STDs.
Men and women should never tell anyone that they are not a virgin. Assim al hakeem said so. He also said to kick a man out of her house if he comes and asks that.
So if your looking for a chaste woman you just take a gamble?
@@rayyanrahman8115naaah honestly a list of requirements is the best way to navigate this
@@rayyanrahman8115 put your trust in Allah. I’m from Pakistan and everyone here is chaste. No need to look. Alhamdulilah
Edit: even the Christian’s and Hindus are chaste.
@@hamzachoudhry6951 putting are you a virgin on there lacks haya imo
Brother Gabriel said it is okay to ask also the nahr price is different for a Virgin and non virgin
9:37 in which countries is it practiced?
Gypses do it I believe
Brother, some of these videos are of women who sometimes aren't even Muslim. A lot of these trends are fake.
Real
They are real.Its the reality of western muslim women.I lived there i know.60% of muslims leave Islam in the west.The rest of them are just leftist activists using Islam to justify their cause.Actual practicing Muslims are few.
It is like "my body my choice", but not literally. You choose to obey Allah or not. It's on them if they don't obey Allah. But when you see "Munkar" tou try to change it, but if they don't want to change it's on them. If you know what I mean.