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Listen Brother, Calling someone as "Our Wife" itself is disrespectful to that Couple. I am not saying that they are Respected,in fact I am too ashamed seeing their dirty acts on this Video,don't take me as a supporter,etc for them,I don't know who the hell they are. But,Just because she is in front of camera,doesn't mean you can call someone your Wife. Have some Shame and Honour. You can't SlutShame someone like that. Instead Pray for ALLAH to give them Hidayah
I disagree. Sure, the husband could do a better job at preventing her, but she is mostly at fault, woman aren't angels I don't understand why all these red pillers always say "it is always men's fault, woman don't make mistakes without influence of men" Which is partly true, but it isn't always the influence of their husband but the influence of social media as well
@@iOmegaToxic If a man has a rebellious wife, who wants to disrespect him intentionally or unintentionally ( because of social media "trends") , he has to discipline her. If he doesn't do it, the marriage eventually falls apart or becomes miserabel. So if the man is responsible and the head of the family, he should stop her behavior.
As a woman I know it's not okay. Respect goes both ways. Just because our hitting doesn’t hurt that much, it's not okay to hit our partners at all. Like how the hell is that even a thing.
I dont see hitting as haram , hitting can be for discipline and without causing pain or harm the same as hitting your childrens gently . but here , hitting was for no right ,for no good cause ,harmful, and humiliating
FINALLLLLYYYYY someone discussed this... HUSBAND hitting WIFE = violence WIFE hitting HUSBAND = cute, friendly, open... Seriously!!! what is wrong with these SO CALLED muslimahs. May Allah reward you for putting up this topic brother.
Why you hitting your spouse on social media anyways And even in the context of hitting wives, didn’t prophet (SAW) say avoid the face and only use it if they’re stubbornly persistent?
Bro I am not built for this generation, how in the hell is this funny, acceptable, or anything besides cruel and evil. May Allah guide them. To the brother, dont allow yourself to be abused like this, dont care if its a joke because its not funny.
Any normal person would feel humiliated and disrespected when hit, especially on the face. Definitely these kinds of pranks need to stop even if the husband has agreed to it. What pains me a lot though is that many men would literally joke about violence against women (like real serious violence), there are memes that are just too disturbing and that has been the case for years yet I doubt (and I might be wrong) that men being disrespectful to women is one of the things that you think are wrong with this generation or any past generation. I sometimes go into comments and see how some men are ecstatic at the sight of a woman being slapped. Many of us see those things and while we know not all men are like that it should be understandable why we can feel exactly how you're feeling about this behaviour, to a larger extent even because obviously what happens to a woman can be wose and she has no means for self defense.
I totally agree with you, i saw the video a few days ago and i was just shocked at the disrespect she’s showing him through this action.... and if i was expecting him to do something about it but nothing happened lol I really hope they stop promoting these silly disrespectful stuff online..
You're very inspiring bro. I'm a revert of 10 months and I realized throughout fasting Ramadan that social media is a joke. Push your energy towards to seeking ilm which is what I do. Scholars i listen to: imam AAA rahimahullah, AMJ and Abdullah Faisal
It’s not just TikTok, the reality is that the modern world is full of stimulation and boredom ironically. Back then, being a man was about going to war or some other trial that would show bravery, things are much easier nowadays and there’s no need to be brave as there’s “no real need”. We’re also mentally colonised by the white man, as a lot of actions and thinking resemble the west. We’re very weak as an ummah, and this mental colonisation is very cunning and happens over generations
Not only is she humiliating him in front of the world, but she's testing him whether he has a backbone or not. She knows he's a doormat and has no respect for him at all
Do u realize he agreed to do this video with her right? It's a TikTok trend. And it's scripted. The camera with its ring light is screaming at his face. They set the camera up and did this video
@queeniman7177 Yes, I know that. Imagine the roles we're reversed where he did the same thing to her, even if it was scripted. Would you accept it? No, you would say,'Never put your hands on a woman, even if it is a joke'.
Personally, I wouldn't allow my future wife/wives to have a public account. The same way I don't let my younger sisters too. Yes, I don't have a public account, especially knowing that people can use your photos for whatever reason (even sihr). Plus, there's weirdos that will dm you who swing that way, even when you're male.
I don’t have any sister and I’m a male so this interesting. I’ve never heard about it like this before. May Allah keep you guys firm. Thanks for sharing.
@Sumayyah3891we’re not supposed to post ourselves so your bothers are doing a good job, they are Not Dayouths which is amazing, there are so many dayouth men it’s sad and embarrassing so many videos like this one are everywhere and the men tolerate it!
@Kepler10bmuslims are not supposed to be posting themselves online there’s no opinions and choices In slam, I hope you know what a dayouth is and maybe your bothers are not educated much on it, but I hope you don’t continue that Nothing is worth risking our Ahkirah especially for social media imagine we die and we leave all of that active and all lent the internet
This is alarming, these Muslim social media couples make me question what their goal is and how is this even a trend? It's not funny, or cute, it's just stupid. Ya Rabb protect us from falling into these haram acts. Ameen.
Thats a result of being so soft and tolerant with reverts , a revert atleast have to keep his sins between him and allah and not spread them to cause corruption , may allah guide them to the straight path
The thing about marriage is that just like the hadith says we are starting to follow the kuffar.ive seen sisters say i wont get married unless its legal,like allah literly made marriage so easy so you dont fall into zina but you want a corupt system thats literly killing marriage and making western men go their own way,also this whole western idea of marriage has destroyed christians cuz for it to work you have to be older and go through all the legal stuff and that has lead to christians falling into zina and stuff muslims may soon deal with such issues
Well no woman in this period wants to be married unless its oficial with the government, so basically speaking, all the shit western men go through with divorce setlements and what not, we are being forced through that, and the reason why i started with divorce is, since this system isnt based on marriage, but the dissolution of the marriage, this system incentecises women to divorce their husbands, and it literally imprisons men in unfunctional marriages
I am also very disgusted with the " muslim " tiktok couples. I don't watch any of them. I don't have tiktok alhamdullilah. I don't follow influencers either. I have my own life to live. No time for fake people who try to sell me stuff.
SubhanAllah akhi how can you refer to a fellow Muslim brother's spouse as "our wife" completely disgusting and unnecessary from you. Not saying I agree with the videos that some Muslim couples are posting, flaunting their lives for everyone to see, but what you said doesn't make it any better. And on top of that, you are reposting their content and spreading the fitna. The least you can do is blur out their wives bc now you are engaging and sharing their sin. SubhanAllah, please reconsider the content you are posting akhi.
why sins not to blur when you clearly can simply obtain from internet as its obviously their publication until they state that to change , otherwise these mentality is like ouh we should just be grateful to anything happens evolve arounds us..
doesn’t make it any better that you’re showing videos of woman on your platform that will reach more people. you wouldn’t post your woman yet are posting another woman? two wrongs don’t make a right. you can talk about an issue without showing the women
asalam alakim wa ra7mat Allah wa barakatu brother. I advise you brother to watch what you say when you talk about "our wife" and when you brothers say "dayouth" do you understand what you are implying? Your insulting your sister in islam more then your insulting the brother. Your implying that a sister is fornicating with strange man, now tell me where's YOUR ghirya? Is your role not to protect the woman of the umah? Yet you inflict much harm and insult them with such inappropriate insults and accusations, perhaps they are doing wrong but you are blinded by their mistakes that most of you men don't see your own. Perhaps you can say these men lack ghirya fine but to go as far as to say dayouth, and our wife you are being very inappropriate and irresponsible with this term. I used to wear heavy makeup n not wear hijab I used to post lots of videos of myself and wallahi brother If you were to say such thing about me perhaps I would not want to listen to anything you have to say I'd be very sad and heart broken I might even rebel. imagine someone put all your sins on blast and exaggerated them how would you feel? You are inflicting more harm then you are good. please brother I don't wish to insult you but woman are like cats, when you reinforce our good behavior we will do more of it but if you punish us for what we do wrong all your going to do is inflict fear on us and we will run away from you n want to do the opposite. even when I wore hijab I was wearing tight clothes I started going to a islamic community and slowly my hijab became better and better. Encourage them for better environments we are trying please be more empathetic. Would the prophet Mohammed ﷺ throw around these words so irresponsibly? No he was extremely emotionally intelligent I advise you and others and myself To expand our emotional intelligent. We are not your enemies brother we love you for the sake of Allah but please We all should fear Allah I speak to myself before anyone My Allah guide us all may we be more kind to one another and may we all unite in Allahs name. Anything I spoke truthfully is from Allah and anything I'm wrong about is from myself wu Allahu alem Allah knows best.
I would agree with the "Our wife" comment, and what you said about how we should be with women. That comment is definitely inappropriate. But calling the men Dayouth is not. If a man is known to commit Zina and its public then people can label him as someone who commits Zina. We have to judge by what is apparent in Islam. If a man is showing off his wife on the Internet it has to be called out. The Prophet Muhammed (Peace and blessings be upon him) advised us to be gentle with women, which is excellent advice. But many men respond much better to straight, blunt, hard hitting advice. There is a time for gentleness but when the sin is being commited openly, he is showing his wife off and disrespecting her openly then It has to be called out.
@@JunaidNizami-ky2ve Most people of the ummah encourage good with more evil and most are following this example. Don't get me wrong, men have done so much good and I really appreciate that I love you men for that for the sake of Allah, but I do feel very much there's a lack of balance and understanding on how nashena should be given, we've gone to another extreme. Being straightforward is highly recommended, there's nothing straightforward about dedicating a whole video on calling these specific men dayouth and emasculating them in front of an audience he can speak generally, no? You could say to the brother privately Asalam alakim wa ra7mat allah wa barakat brother may Allah protect you and wife and reward you for your efforts but I would like to give you naseha that displaying your wife has non mehrams perceive her in a horrible way that I'm sure you can imagine. It's not appropriate for our woman folk to be on display for everyone to see her. Ghirya as a man protects our woman and protects the ummah, and it's a necessity to define us as men and it's something we must display. I wish good for you brother and I see good in you which is why I feel the need to message you. Something like that, what's wrong with being respectful to our brothers and sisters? Allah tells us not to address one another with names and insults, we can't just take this part of the deen and forget the rest. I feel Faiyad is great very masculine allahumma barak but sometimes a masculine man needs to look at things from a different perspective, the woman's perspective but ofc he has the finally say my job as a woman is to bring peace to the ummah I will try and do so and this is how I feel I can do so for the time being. May Allah elevate you all and whatever I said wrong is from myself and whatever I said right is from Allah.
Assalamualaikum, I believe these influencers are very harmful because people without knowledge or new Muslims may follow them, thinking it's okay to do so. For example, when I started practicing Islam, I didn't have enough knowledge. I used to look up to them for Muslim lifestyle and modest dressing, but Alhamdulillah, after realizing that they are wrong, I unfollowed them. What they are wearing is not hijab. May Allah guide them.
He is my Muslim brother but my advice to him is he needs to man up stop being submissive to the extent that he allows his wife to treat him like this TikTok trend/joke or not.
Unpopular opinion , i feel disgusted and creeped out by people who post their family/marriage/kids on social media . This is one many reason why i left social media because the sheer amount of muslim men and women with no geerah , privacy and shame. This is absurd . I have a very hard time believing these guys are actually muslim
As a young woman, I am actually shocked by the behavior on these platforms of Muslimahs. It's as if their understanding of modesty, humility, and boundaries just disappears. I'm actually completely disgusted by the behavior of the women in the opening clip.
Most of the reverts come to islam through the miracles of the quran and the prophet while having no clue ilthat islam is not just a religion but a way of life and you can worship allah through your good morals and not only the rituals
0:43 Immature response. You whould say, "the same way he could LEAVE you and remarry". If a dude is unhappy with his marriage, why get another wife and keep the first violent one who he doesn't even get along with? 🙄
Corny and not funny at all. She should respect her husband if she truly loves him instead of trying to idiotically test his patience and tolerance levels.
Brother avoid uploading videos which contain women , especially someone’s wife irrespective of what they are doing because you are inadvertently encouraging other to look at women who are non Muharram irrespective of what the intention is. You don’t have the permission to do this.
Everyone please don’t forget the blessings Allah has given us. Even though we may sin, Alhamdulliah we are muslim and inshallah will be in jannah. If you see this, please start a habit of saying Alhamdulillah everyday at the smallest blessings from taking a shower with hot water to drinking a cold glass of water. May allah forgive me and all of us because if he doesn’t, surely we will be among the losers.
How is this funny or cute whether it's fake or real? That woman would get shown the door if I was that man. I wonder how proud the parents are of raising such a daughter too🤦🏽
Brother Faiyad , I totally agree with you . I am also disgusted by these cringy muslim couples on social media , and the hijabi and niqabi influencers as well they are clearly doing tabarrujj and when you will advise them not to do so as they are portraying islam by doing niqab and hijab by doing this they are giving a wrong perception to others either muslims and non-Muslims then you just see their ego they won't understand and will blame you . May Allah give all of us hidayah .
Exactly, you see Muslim men in Islamic attire dancing with Niqabis wearing big wing-looking eyelashes with haram Music in the backround with their only excuse being "Only Allah can judge me!" And " Your wearing the right clothes so its fine!" Denying the fact that being a Muslim is more than just wearing the hijab and going to Jumah every friday, its having haya, having shame, protecting your dignity and fearing Allah . Sadly, its pretty obvious these ppl have forgotten and are too blinded by this dunya's pleasures. May Allah protect us all.
Astagfirullah. like seriously in today's world mostly women have no haya and mostly men have no ghaira. this is disgusting. How can you hit you spouse and for likes? like really? i think this is because of lack of knowlgde and love of deen. Hijab means to cover not only in term of clothing but also hijab of eyes(not look for attraction, or haram thing). May Allah guide us all and forgive us. Ameen
I think this is a result of so many things that contribute to the way a lot of these Muslim women have been raised. It’s clear that the end goal is blurry for them, and what is clear for them is that they want money because in their head, it’s the best thing ever, and it makes you better, and making money as a woman, especially nowadays it’s not that hard, you just need to look cute for the camera, and you don’t even need to go through any pangs of remorse for doing something haram you can just be a delulu and convince yourself that you are a positive influence to people that you are doing this from the good of your heart(not to gain money and praise no no no) I really think we need to open a discussion regarding how Muslim women are raised, I believe there’s so many flaws in the way most women and Muslims women specificallyare raised. I have a lot of points to talk about in this regard so I would love to hear what u guys think
I agreed with you up until you said she is "our" wife...Just because they are committing sin and have no haya, doesn't give u the right to see women as yours
Wallah im tired of this whole trope we have had this since our fathers era,oh no bro i cant do this cuz my wife will be beat me blah blah its such a old joke but shows who is in charge of families nowadays 😂
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You have a point on the Tabarruj subject. If you watch any of these "Muslim tiktoks" compilations, they're filled with Dayooth, Tabarruj women, Music, and other Haram. It's disgusting what western Ummah think constitutes Islam.
For anybody who Romanticise نشوز or دياثة 🤔 do Introspect, An islamic successful marriage is all about مودة and رحمة it's about keeping your life private and keeping yourselves chaste, to have barakah in your life, without fearing Allah in each other and respecting each other, a Marriage becomes just a front and collapses easily for worldly matters
This people should not ruin islam for us. I believe the only Religion that is mostly judged by the world based on the behavior of its followers is Islam. Don't portray Islam differently. May Allah guide us accordingly. Allahuma Aameen
Even if it is just a prank..i would not do this to anyone.. especially NOT on my husband. How is hitting someone can be made into a joke. I understand that accident can happen. But clearly this is not an accident..by making this prank ....the actors are deliberately hitting their husband. Tik tok prank generation has gone too far. Boundaries are not set and people are just going berzerk
The cringe level is right up there with Logan Paul video in the Japanese schmooicide forest. I hope anyone following their account will stop immediately.
I am genuinely baffled by this. like why are people doing this its not funny. had it been the other way round. the whole internet would be on fire. May Allah remove this womans handbags from her and guide her to respect her husband again
Thats totally wrong but I know this couple they are bengali and she did a prank on her husband. They are always doing such kind of pranks on the request of their audience for fun.
I wonder where are the tolerant muslims and whom say its just a joke has gone ? if they really mean what they said and care enough they would come from the short to here and explain their opinions and point of views
i dont agree w this as well as u talm bout multiple wives, majority of muslim women are increasing in gheerah mashallah and if ur not happy w ur woman wanting to be ur only woman dont get married
Corny and not funny at all. She should respect her husband if she truly loves him instead of trying to idiotically test his patience and tolerance levels
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Listen Brother,
Calling someone as "Our Wife" itself is disrespectful to that Couple.
I am not saying that they are Respected,in fact I am too ashamed seeing their dirty acts on this Video,don't take me as a supporter,etc for them,I don't know who the hell they are.
But,Just because she is in front of camera,doesn't mean you can call someone your Wife.
Have some Shame and Honour.
You can't SlutShame someone like that.
Instead Pray for ALLAH to give them Hidayah
It is the husband's fault mostly as he allows himself to be disrespected.
Absolutely akhi
I disagree. Sure, the husband could do a better job at preventing her, but she is mostly at fault, woman aren't angels I don't understand why all these red pillers always say "it is always men's fault, woman don't make mistakes without influence of men"
Which is partly true, but it isn't always the influence of their husband but the influence of social media as well
@@iOmegaToxicbecause he helps encourage so it is kinda 50 50 but the point is that both should be held accountable
If he's getting abused, he should change his way. But obviously, the real issue is the person hurting the victim.
@@iOmegaToxic If a man has a rebellious wife, who wants to disrespect him intentionally or unintentionally ( because of social media "trends") , he has to discipline her. If he doesn't do it, the marriage eventually falls apart or becomes miserabel. So if the man is responsible and the head of the family, he should stop her behavior.
As a Muslim woman, I am disgusted by the behavior of some women. I do not accept this at all. It's completely wrong. May Allah guide them. Ameen.
Ameen
Ameen sis
Same me too so disgusting 🤢 astaghfirallah
why only women ? These men don't disgust you ?
@@reine6414 Same to them.
I think Woman dont want to realise that its haram to hit the Partner as a Woman too?
As a woman I know it's not okay. Respect goes both ways. Just because our hitting doesn’t hurt that much, it's not okay to hit our partners at all. Like how the hell is that even a thing.
Often times today it’s a concept for many people to admit that men can be victims too.
Realize? 😂😂😂😂 Brooo, they knowwww
@@chiefmyroncappermoon6135 Thats why i said dont want to, they know!
I dont see hitting as haram , hitting can be for discipline and without causing pain or harm the same as hitting your childrens gently . but here , hitting was for no right ,for no good cause ,harmful, and humiliating
FINALLLLLYYYYY someone discussed this...
HUSBAND hitting WIFE = violence
WIFE hitting HUSBAND = cute, friendly, open...
Seriously!!! what is wrong with these SO CALLED muslimahs.
May Allah reward you for putting up this topic brother.
This is how the west wants the Islamic countries to become just like them.
TikTok Muslimah*
Yes there is double standard that needs to be adressed
Ameen and you too
All Sickness
So cringey 😭🥴
May Allah protect us. So disappointing.
I totally agree with you, its haram and disgusting.
Ameen!
Why you hitting your spouse on social media anyways
And even in the context of hitting wives, didn’t prophet (SAW) say avoid the face and only use it if they’re stubbornly persistent?
SubhanAllah may Allah guide us.
And the hitting is so light, her hitting is so aggressive. she’s hitting his face
Chasing clout is a disease
May Allah protect everyone
Bro I am not built for this generation, how in the hell is this funny, acceptable, or anything besides cruel and evil. May Allah guide them. To the brother, dont allow yourself to be abused like this, dont care if its a joke because its not funny.
Ameen bro
Any normal person would feel humiliated and disrespected when hit, especially on the face.
Definitely these kinds of pranks need to stop even if the husband has agreed to it.
What pains me a lot though is that many men would literally joke about violence against women (like real serious violence), there are memes that are just too disturbing and that has been the case for years yet I doubt (and I might be wrong) that men being disrespectful to women is one of the things that you think are wrong with this generation or any past generation. I sometimes go into comments and see how some men are ecstatic at the sight of a woman being slapped. Many of us see those things and while we know not all men are like that it should be understandable why we can feel exactly how you're feeling about this behaviour, to a larger extent even because obviously what happens to a woman can be wose and she has no means for self defense.
only whom have low self-worth ir an arrogant would admit this to be funny
I totally agree with you, i saw the video a few days ago and i was just shocked at the disrespect she’s showing him through this action.... and if i was expecting him to do something about it but nothing happened lol
I really hope they stop promoting these silly disrespectful stuff online..
Allahumma ameen. May Allah protect us. What is happening to Muslim youth?
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The sister is older than her husband, he’s completely under her control.
He’s a simp… you can tell
we can still dislike their posts may it reach to less people
You're very inspiring bro. I'm a revert of 10 months and I realized throughout fasting Ramadan that social media is a joke. Push your energy towards to seeking ilm which is what I do. Scholars i listen to: imam AAA rahimahullah, AMJ and Abdullah Faisal
Astarfirullah what tik tok has done to Muslim ummah is sad and scary 😱😭😭😭😱😡😡🤲🏾Allah help us
Ameen smh
You can tell he didn’t marry for deen
It’s not just TikTok, the reality is that the modern world is full of stimulation and boredom ironically. Back then, being a man was about going to war or some other trial that would show bravery, things are much easier nowadays and there’s no need to be brave as there’s “no real need”. We’re also mentally colonised by the white man, as a lot of actions and thinking resemble the west. We’re very weak as an ummah, and this mental colonisation is very cunning and happens over generations
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Allahumma ameen
Ameen
Im unmarried but this is honestly disgusting behaviour that needs to be called out. May Allah bless you my akh
This is actually sign of toxic and abusive relationship. I hope someone who knows them personally make a report to polices.
SubhanAllah
Its the virus of seeking fame and attention
Umm babe they scripted this video
Umm babe they scripted this video
@@queeniman7177shes not your babe and they should be reported for that script. It’s a crime to be that stupid
“Our wife”😂😂😂😂
This hurts to watch, may Allah swt guide the couple and protect us from all kinds of fitnah in this world we live in.
Ameen
Not only is she humiliating him in front of the world, but she's testing him whether he has a backbone or not. She knows he's a doormat and has no respect for him at all
and like that she become the head of the house and he become its tail 😂
Do u realize he agreed to do this video with her right? It's a TikTok trend. And it's scripted. The camera with its ring light is screaming at his face. They set the camera up and did this video
@@To_The_Aboveso she would have been the tail if he was the head of the house. So is being the "tail" (whatever u meant by that) an insult?
@queeniman7177 Yes, I know that. Imagine the roles we're reversed where he did the same thing to her, even if it was scripted. Would you accept it? No, you would say,'Never put your hands on a woman, even if it is a joke'.
It was done for views. It's not real.
Personally, I wouldn't allow my future wife/wives to have a public account. The same way I don't let my younger sisters too.
Yes, I don't have a public account, especially knowing that people can use your photos for whatever reason (even sihr).
Plus, there's weirdos that will dm you who swing that way, even when you're male.
Yeah im also completely off of social media besides youtube(obviously) for about 3-4 years now Alhamdulilah. It’s not worth it.
Many couples post public videos of their children without realising how dangerous it can be
I don’t have any sister and I’m a male so this interesting. I’ve never heard about it like this before. May Allah keep you guys firm. Thanks for sharing.
@Sumayyah3891we’re not supposed to post ourselves so your bothers are doing a good job, they are Not Dayouths which is amazing, there are so many dayouth men it’s sad and embarrassing so many videos like this one are everywhere and the men tolerate it!
@Kepler10bmuslims are not supposed to be posting themselves online there’s no opinions and choices In slam, I hope you know what a dayouth is and maybe your bothers are not educated much on it, but I hope you don’t continue that Nothing is worth risking our Ahkirah especially for social media imagine we die and we leave all of that active and all lent the internet
This is alarming, these Muslim social media couples make me question what their goal is and how is this even a trend? It's not funny, or cute, it's just stupid. Ya Rabb protect us from falling into these haram acts. Ameen.
Thats a result of being so soft and tolerant with reverts , a revert atleast have to keep his sins between him and allah and not spread them to cause corruption , may allah guide them to the straight path
This man speaks the truth. Keep doing what you're doing brother.
The thing about marriage is that just like the hadith says we are starting to follow the kuffar.ive seen sisters say i wont get married unless its legal,like allah literly made marriage so easy so you dont fall into zina but you want a corupt system thats literly killing marriage and making western men go their own way,also this whole western idea of marriage has destroyed christians cuz for it to work you have to be older and go through all the legal stuff and that has lead to christians falling into zina and stuff muslims may soon deal with such issues
May Allah protect us
Well no woman in this period wants to be married unless its oficial with the government, so basically speaking, all the shit western men go through with divorce setlements and what not, we are being forced through that, and the reason why i started with divorce is, since this system isnt based on marriage, but the dissolution of the marriage, this system incentecises women to divorce their husbands, and it literally imprisons men in unfunctional marriages
I am also very disgusted with the " muslim " tiktok couples. I don't watch any of them. I don't have tiktok alhamdullilah. I don't follow influencers either. I have my own life to live. No time for fake people who try to sell me stuff.
May Allah bless you
Assalamu Alaikum, brother can you check your spam folder,i feel as though my emails may be there, JazakAllah Khair
Walaikum assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu yes akhi
Imagine the disrespect...
And the audacity to post it online
LoL... I honestly blame the man for tolerating such nonsense
The male not the man
The audacity to allow her to post it online too
@@NonanoN-er6deproblem because they scripted it
Wallahi u guys have to be joking. U guys realize that he agreed to do the video right?? Because it's SCRIPTED
Wallahi u guys have to be joking. U guys realize that he agreed to do the video right?? Because it's SCRIPTED
'our wife' ... Good one
Muslim women should start saying "our husband" than too right.
@@queeniman7177 my both wives always say 'our husband' whenever they are both together.
@@manhoosnick im talking about single woman saying "our husband" to random men online like u filthy "Muslim" men😉 hope that helped
@@manhoosnickYeah they must Probably be Lesbos.
Keep eye on them.
SubhanAllah akhi how can you refer to a fellow Muslim brother's spouse as "our wife" completely disgusting and unnecessary from you. Not saying I agree with the videos that some Muslim couples are posting, flaunting their lives for everyone to see, but what you said doesn't make it any better. And on top of that, you are reposting their content and spreading the fitna. The least you can do is blur out their wives bc now you are engaging and sharing their sin. SubhanAllah, please reconsider the content you are posting akhi.
What kind of 'man' allows his wife to disrespect him? Authubillah! 🤦
It's fake.
normal men who laugh with their wives and dont treat them like trees
This is not a joke both partners needs to stop hitting each other both partners needs to stop mocking and embarrassing each other
brother please blur our the womans face so you dont accumulate sins while people watch this video
why sins not to blur when you clearly can simply obtain from internet as its obviously their publication until they state that to change , otherwise these mentality is like ouh we should just be grateful to anything happens evolve arounds us..
alhamdulillah ppl are calling this out
Clouts clouts clouts they do it for clouts smh 🤦♀️ 🤦🏾♂️ 🤦
doesn’t make it any better that you’re showing videos of woman on your platform that will reach more people. you wouldn’t post your woman yet are posting another woman? two wrongs don’t make a right. you can talk about an issue without showing the women
Did she actually think people would find humor in that? That was so disturbing, she's really got nerve to do that for social media :/
Astagfirullah
Unfortunately people do find it funny when a woman hits her husband.
Why are dear muslim youtubers never talking when it is other way around, which it usually is ?
Why do we insist on following the qufar so much?
Boggles me
asalam alakim wa ra7mat Allah wa barakatu brother. I advise you brother to watch what you say when you talk about "our wife" and when you brothers say "dayouth" do you understand what you are implying? Your insulting your sister in islam more then your insulting the brother. Your implying that a sister is fornicating with strange man, now tell me where's YOUR ghirya? Is your role not to protect the woman of the umah? Yet you inflict much harm and insult them with such inappropriate insults and accusations, perhaps they are doing wrong but you are blinded by their mistakes that most of you men don't see your own. Perhaps you can say these men lack ghirya fine but to go as far as to say dayouth, and our wife you are being very inappropriate and irresponsible with this term. I used to wear heavy makeup n not wear hijab I used to post lots of videos of myself and wallahi brother If you were to say such thing about me perhaps I would not want to listen to anything you have to say I'd be very sad and heart broken I might even rebel. imagine someone put all your sins on blast and exaggerated them how would you feel? You are inflicting more harm then you are good. please brother I don't wish to insult you but woman are like cats, when you reinforce our good behavior we will do more of it but if you punish us for what we do wrong all your going to do is inflict fear on us and we will run away from you n want to do the opposite. even when I wore hijab I was wearing tight clothes I started going to a islamic community and slowly my hijab became better and better. Encourage them for better environments we are trying please be more empathetic. Would the prophet Mohammed ﷺ throw around these words so irresponsibly? No he was extremely emotionally intelligent I advise you and others and myself To expand our emotional intelligent. We are not your enemies brother we love you for the sake of Allah but please We all should fear Allah I speak to myself before anyone My Allah guide us all may we be more kind to one another and may we all unite in Allahs name. Anything I spoke truthfully is from Allah and anything I'm wrong about is from myself wu Allahu alem Allah knows best.
I would agree with the "Our wife" comment, and what you said about how we should be with women. That comment is definitely inappropriate. But calling the men Dayouth is not. If a man is known to commit Zina and its public then people can label him as someone who commits Zina. We have to judge by what is apparent in Islam. If a man is showing off his wife on the Internet it has to be called out. The Prophet Muhammed (Peace and blessings be upon him) advised us to be gentle with women, which is excellent advice. But many men respond much better to straight, blunt, hard hitting advice. There is a time for gentleness but when the sin is being commited openly, he is showing his wife off and disrespecting her openly then It has to be called out.
@@JunaidNizami-ky2ve Most people of the ummah encourage good with more evil and most are following this example. Don't get me wrong, men have done so much good and I really appreciate that I love you men for that for the sake of Allah, but I do feel very much there's a lack of balance and understanding on how nashena should be given, we've gone to another extreme. Being straightforward is highly recommended, there's nothing straightforward about dedicating a whole video on calling these specific men dayouth and emasculating them in front of an audience he can speak generally, no? You could say to the brother privately Asalam alakim wa ra7mat allah wa barakat brother may Allah protect you and wife and reward you for your efforts but I would like to give you naseha that displaying your wife has non mehrams perceive her in a horrible way that I'm sure you can imagine. It's not appropriate for our woman folk to be on display for everyone to see her. Ghirya as a man protects our woman and protects the ummah, and it's a necessity to define us as men and it's something we must display. I wish good for you brother and I see good in you which is why I feel the need to message you. Something like that, what's wrong with being respectful to our brothers and sisters? Allah tells us not to address one another with names and insults, we can't just take this part of the deen and forget the rest. I feel Faiyad is great very masculine allahumma barak but sometimes a masculine man needs to look at things from a different perspective, the woman's perspective but ofc he has the finally say my job as a woman is to bring peace to the ummah I will try and do so and this is how I feel I can do so for the time being. May Allah elevate you all and whatever I said wrong is from myself and whatever I said right is from Allah.
Took of my vids and deactivated my account thanks for the reminder
Assalamualaikum, I believe these influencers are very harmful because people without knowledge or new Muslims may follow them, thinking it's okay to do so. For example, when I started practicing Islam, I didn't have enough knowledge. I used to look up to them for Muslim lifestyle and modest dressing, but Alhamdulillah, after realizing that they are wrong, I unfollowed them. What they are wearing is not hijab. May Allah guide them.
These kind of relationships do not last even if it's for a video.
He is my Muslim brother but my advice to him is he needs to man up stop being submissive to the extent that he allows his wife to treat him like this TikTok trend/joke or not.
This is so Disrespectful- its Ridiculous; an Embarrassment for the Ummah ....for both genders;
Disgusting. What people do for views
It’s very sad how these women are portraying Islam 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ they’re making our men look weak audubillah
Exactly it’s Disgusting and very embarrassing Muslims Need to have some shame
Unpopular opinion , i feel disgusted and creeped out by people who post their family/marriage/kids on social media . This is one many reason why i left social media because the sheer amount of muslim men and women with no geerah , privacy and shame. This is absurd . I have a very hard time believing these guys are actually muslim
It's a disgrace. Honestly. But the dayooth men don't help themselves either. Sort your women out. I say this as a woman.
Yes sis
As a young woman, I am actually shocked by the behavior on these platforms of Muslimahs. It's as if their understanding of modesty, humility, and boundaries just disappears. I'm actually completely disgusted by the behavior of the women in the opening clip.
Most of the reverts come to islam through the miracles of the quran and the prophet while having no clue ilthat islam is not just a religion but a way of life and you can worship allah through your good morals and not only the rituals
Actually, this clip was really just for views. It's fake.
@@shimmer4771 doesn't matter, the disrespect should not be tolerated
@@bethere7862 of course not. Same with how some Muslim men beat their wives very hard for no reason. Not just women.
Disgusting divorce her get a better wife very simple
It's not even funny. It's just sad.
0:43
Immature response. You whould say, "the same way he could LEAVE you and remarry".
If a dude is unhappy with his marriage, why get another wife and keep the first violent one who he doesn't even get along with? 🙄
yeah marry 2 wives that respect you
Corny and not funny at all. She should respect her husband if she truly loves him instead of trying to idiotically test his patience and tolerance levels.
Maybe she doesn't respect her husband at all, both seem weird
It's disgusting to watch. May Allah protect us.
Brother avoid uploading videos which contain women , especially someone’s wife irrespective of what they are doing because you are inadvertently encouraging other to look at women who are non Muharram irrespective of what the intention is. You don’t have the permission to do this.
There are non-believer couples who treat each other with more love and respect. So embarrassing and gross.
He should have divorced her right then and there! 😳
She has no respect for her husband, and the man has no self-respect, allowing this nonsense!
I agree 💯
Haqq
Do not go for divorce over petty issues. Bad advice. Very bad advice
@@MohammedFahim-kz1pb Does it seem to be a petty issue to you?
@@catladyAR Divorcing over such an issue would be a petty thing. A warning could have been given
Everyone please don’t forget the blessings Allah has given us. Even though we may sin, Alhamdulliah we are muslim and inshallah will be in jannah. If you see this, please start a habit of saying Alhamdulillah everyday at the smallest blessings from taking a shower with hot water to drinking a cold glass of water. May allah forgive me and all of us because if he doesn’t, surely we will be among the losers.
Ameen sister
How is this funny or cute whether it's fake or real? That woman would get shown the door if I was that man. I wonder how proud the parents are of raising such a daughter too🤦🏽
Guess what? i don't have this.... tiktok account.. astagfirullah . May Allah guide our future generations with proper deen .
Allahumma ameen
The dayyouth epidemic 🤦
Unfortunately
This is disturbing
Disrespectful
These couples need to be called out, absolutely disgusting behavior
Yeah the audience is who creates these influencers
I cringed so hard on that video 🥶
Brother Faiyad , I totally agree with you . I am also disgusted by these cringy muslim couples on social media , and the hijabi and niqabi influencers as well they are clearly doing tabarrujj and when you will advise them not to do so as they are portraying islam by doing niqab and hijab by doing this they are giving a wrong perception to others either muslims and non-Muslims then you just see their ego they won't understand and will blame you .
May Allah give all of us hidayah .
Exactly, you see Muslim men in Islamic attire dancing with Niqabis wearing big wing-looking eyelashes with haram Music in the backround with their only excuse being "Only Allah can judge me!" And " Your wearing the right clothes so its fine!"
Denying the fact that being a Muslim is more than just wearing the hijab and going to Jumah every friday, its having haya, having shame, protecting your dignity and fearing Allah .
Sadly, its pretty obvious these ppl have forgotten and are too blinded by this dunya's pleasures.
May Allah protect us all.
Yes, this culture of “don’t judge me” is destroying us…
Ameen bro
Astagfirullah. like seriously in today's world mostly women have no haya and mostly men have no ghaira. this is disgusting. How can you hit you spouse and for likes? like really? i think this is because of lack of knowlgde and love of deen. Hijab means to cover not only in term of clothing but also hijab of eyes(not look for attraction, or haram thing). May Allah guide us all and forgive us. Ameen
Allahumma ameen
I think this is a result of so many things that contribute to the way a lot of these Muslim women have been raised.
It’s clear that the end goal is blurry for them, and what is clear for them is that they want money because in their head, it’s the best thing ever, and it makes you better, and making money as a woman, especially nowadays it’s not that hard, you just need to look cute for the camera, and you don’t even need to go through any pangs of remorse for doing something haram you can just be a delulu and convince yourself that you are a positive influence to people that you are doing this from the good of your heart(not to gain money and praise no no no)
I really think we need to open a discussion regarding how Muslim women are raised, I believe there’s so many flaws in the way most women and Muslims women specificallyare raised.
I have a lot of points to talk about in this regard so I would love to hear what u guys think
Yesss exactly same
I agreed with you up until you said she is "our" wife...Just because they are committing sin and have no haya, doesn't give u the right to see women as yours
Twas sarcasm lol
Sick of this cringe.
I don’t belong in this generation.
SubhanAllah
you are the one who is showing it on your platform…
they're the ones who posted this on THE INTERNET to everyone to see
It was so hard to watch the intro 💀💀
Agreed
Podcast may Allah keep blessing you and your family
Ameen family
Wallah im tired of this whole trope we have had this since our fathers era,oh no bro i cant do this cuz my wife will be beat me blah blah its such a old joke but shows who is in charge of families nowadays 😂
Astagfirullah mate
#podcast im looking forward for it very patiently with excitement and seek for knowledge, thank you very much for all of this brother I really appreciate you doing this, it helps alot
You have a point on the Tabarruj subject. If you watch any of these "Muslim tiktoks" compilations, they're filled with Dayooth, Tabarruj women, Music, and other Haram. It's disgusting what western Ummah think constitutes Islam.
I cannot believe people are marrying people like this. The disrespect is unbelievable.
For anybody who Romanticise نشوز or دياثة 🤔 do Introspect, An islamic successful marriage is all about مودة and رحمة it's about keeping your life private and keeping yourselves chaste, to have barakah in your life, without fearing Allah in each other and respecting each other, a Marriage becomes just a front and collapses easily for worldly matters
This people should not ruin islam for us. I believe the only Religion that is mostly judged by the world based on the behavior of its followers is Islam. Don't portray Islam differently. May Allah guide us accordingly. Allahuma Aameen
I would never hit my husband like that only ALLAH knows how many tears i shed before him asking for that husband 😅
Even if it is just a prank..i would not do this to anyone.. especially NOT on my husband. How is hitting someone can be made into a joke. I understand that accident can happen. But clearly this is not an accident..by making this prank ....the actors are deliberately hitting their husband.
Tik tok prank generation has gone too far. Boundaries are not set and people are just going berzerk
The cringe level is right up there with Logan Paul video in the Japanese schmooicide forest. I hope anyone following their account will stop immediately.
Joke or not either way it’s a BIG sign of disrespect and displaying it online for the world to see how you treat each other
This is appalling! Another reason to not download this stupid app. But to follow these disrespectful “trends” for clout is insane to me.
My niece sent me this and I'll be honest I didn't find it funny at all. I was cringing. Weird couple. Strange what people do for attention and likes.
Honestly, I blame them both because firstly, they don't take social media seriously, and the impact that it has, may Allah guide us all.
This is because Dajjal would coming, the world prepare for him to come even muslim are affected
I am genuinely baffled by this. like why are people doing this its not funny. had it been the other way round. the whole internet would be on fire. May Allah remove this womans handbags from her and guide her to respect her husband again
Just no words. Both for the women doing it and husband not stopping her. Why do they even film this…. Not funny at all.
Thats totally wrong but I know this couple they are bengali and she did a prank on her husband. They are always doing such kind of pranks on the request of their audience for fun.
As a muslim woman i think this is so humiliating to men......very sad that this is a trend, this is not according to the wisdom of our faith
And this concept of butterfly🦋🦋 hijab which dosent even cover the full head what has our world come to why cant muslim women be properly modest ??
can you make a video about the roles of husband and wife, using Quran and hadith
Well it problematic question but a lot of husbands abused their wives throughout history so the answer should be obvious
I wonder where are the tolerant muslims and whom say its just a joke has gone ? if they really mean what they said and care enough they would come from the short to here and explain their opinions and point of views
i dont agree w this as well as u talm bout multiple wives, majority of muslim women are increasing in gheerah mashallah and if ur not happy w ur woman wanting to be ur only woman dont get married
Corny and not funny at all. She should respect her husband if she truly loves him instead of trying to idiotically test his patience and tolerance levels
As a Muslimah, I agree. Thanks for going into details
Lol even if a husband hits his wife like that its not hurting the person i think you're all taking someone thats meant to be funny wayyyy to serious 😑
Whenever she popped up over my moms acc i reported her, that bro look so innocent 😭💔
She's been possessed by the.... Human being doesn't behave like this.
The amount of disrespect is unreal.