As a male kindergarten teacher, I get absolutely livid when I hear about shit like this. I would kill to protect the kids in my class and school and I wouldn't think twice about it.
He might be maybe his first time we can't be sure maybe he just never physically had intercourse with a minor before and finally couldn't control his abnormal feelings at an old age thinking he is old and dying anyway.
ALL for his own self-gratification! It's so disgusting I can't wrap my head around it. And you know he's been doing this for years probably since he was a pre-teen...I can't fathom the amount of lives this one man has ruined. Prison Justice Please!
There is the U.S.‘s criminal code and also legal precedent that the judge has to consider and abide by. If the criminal code in the US is similar to Canada’s then it specifies maximum jail sentences for most serious crimes. E.g. in Canada the maximum prison sentence for a hit-and-run is ~5 years. If the judge wasn’t bound by legal precedent and the criminal code’s limits on sentencing then she definitely would have given him life without parole. But to a guy that old, 22 years is more than the rest of his life so the outcome is good in the end
In Ohio, unless the law was changed Rape of a child 12 and younger is supposed to be MANDATORY LIFE in prison. I fail to understand how/why judges get away with not following the law.
@@r.f2173 I disagree. Give the LIFE sentence so that the younger people see the serious consequences involved if they should prey on a child. Maybe stop it before it happens.
@Moon of Darkness, *Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*
@@shadowsdad903 LOL hope we aren't pulling you out of a spider hole one day. Saddam Hussein reference. He did that to entire families for minor offenses or for just participating in peaceful political opposition, feet first, made parents watch their children shredded first, even pried open their eyelids so they couldn't close them.
22 years for me still feels like for free. I dont get it. I just cant get it. Why just 22 years. And its in my country too. I mean around 20 years is usualy max for rape and murder.... I cant get it.
And he ruined us too, because with that we lose more and more faith in humanity. Thank god that judge knows how to do her job and uses her power to punish pieces of shit like him.
@@TheMiamixbitch then change for the better and give faith to humans idiot, you idiots dont see the positivity but only the negativity in humans, thinking you're radiating full of wisdom
@fubby chatso It's hella fucked, especially in my case as I myself am gay and I've been touched from a girl in my school before. (Without consent, of course) I've told my school and literally no one seemed to even care. (Obviously this isn't as much of a serious story, but it still shows how fucked up it is)
I’m 67 years old now, but I was 5 years old when my stepfather started my abuse. It went on till I was about 18, it damaged me beyond words. But I found a good ,gentle, Godly man, and we have been happily married for 44 years. God healed me through my husband.
@@Jonjs99 call them idiots instead of explaining to them. these kids who grew up with technology will improve technology in such a manner u will feel like an idiot later. just saying seeing only the bad side effect isn't changing the truth. and these kids will be so much smarter than we will ever be . cause they've been exposed to technology.
I'd guess a combination of his lawyer telling him about the likely outcome of the trial and having had time to accept that, and an utter lack of conscience.
Because pedophiles have a sick sense of righteousness and claim that it is their “sexuality”. They do not, or will not, realize what damages they do. They are sick, mentally inept individuals, who do not deserve a place in society.
@Lauren Christie, *Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*
People who do these abhorrent crimes should be put to death. There nothing worse then the worst and we the American people should not have to pay for them to live in prison the rest of their lives free Scott free
@@musicismath5820 I agree they deserve severe sentencing but longer than rapists?? Huh? You think false accusations are worse than the act of rape itself?
Sorry if I'm getting this wrong, but are you saying that being emotional is a bad thing. I feel like she was pretty emotional, as I believe she should be considering the situation. Outrage definitely counts as being emotional.
@@burningtrash6330 never did they say that emotional is bad, just that in this case it's a justified response and more outrage at the fact that this happened to any degree
“There are no free rapes in my courtroom.” Thats right! Too bad the sentencing couldn’t be more. If anyone ever touched my daughter, I’d be the one being sentenced. That’s for damn sure.
I think the appropriate punishment would be to remove the phallus and brand their face so everyone knows what they did. Prison isn't going to help them, they are sick in the head. Removing the tools and giving people visual warning ahead of time seems like the most efficient and effective way to solve this for all parties.
He needs to be shamed. Man, he is even the lowest form of mankind in prison. He's going to get hurt. Every day. By all inmates. Even murderers. Good. 👍
@@-jobrocodwawz-6226 Whats wrong with being emotional? Emotional is passionate, emotional is having a spine, she is standing up for justice. You should grow one...if you won’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything
Sad truth is that he will not be spending those years in general population. He will be safe unless they catch him before he goes to that special unit.
I've heard this too. Apparently everyone in prison agrees people who hurt women and children are the most deplorable people. Let's hope they don't let him forget it
I wouldn’t say she’s emotional, she’s stern and passionate. So much respect, she’s speaking for the parents and children who can’t speak for themselves.
This judge is exactly what we need more of in America, and honestly all over the world. Protecting the law AND protecting those who are defenseless. She’s level headed and well spoken. I agree, she’s a judge with passion, not emotion. She did the right thing and I hope she sleeps well at night knowing she did the right thing. Although she can not prevent people from hurting others or breaking the law, and least she can give peace to the families and the victims. I feel safer knowing she’s a judge.
_"There's no free rapes in my courtroom"_ - I wish that courtrooms, judges and the law everywhere would have this same view. It is a heinous crime whether it's inflicted on a child or adult and should be seen as such with severe punishment.
It seemed like the deep breath she took before her speech was her finally being finished with the case and being able to speak her mind. What this guy did to a 4 and 6 year old Is unfathomable
She really nailed why child sexual abuse is such a horrible crime. It’s destroying the future of a person before they even had a chance to make one for kids something as selfish as sexual gratification. It’s such a selfish and weak act.
He won’t last long in prison. Even prisoners don’t take crap from child abusers, predators, and rapists. They do awful things to them that I don’t think any of us could imagine. Those 22 years will be longest and worst years of his life. And he earned every single one of them and is gonna get what he deserves from those prisoners.
ninsnumber1fan she said children ,so nobody knows the gender of the children. he could have very well raped 2 boys, or 1 girl and 1boy it’s proven that Pedophiles doesn’t limit there abuse to just one gender, tho they may have a favorite gender. Further more she said she’s sick of adults taking advantage of CHILDREN. I can believe she would react the same way. As a woman with a son and 2 daughters I HATE pedophiles, men and women I don’t care what the circumstances are. it’s sick for ANY adult to engage in impure activity with a minor.
Killers are mostly bad people through and through, but even they know that pedophilia is completely unacceptable. Which is why pedos usually get tortured in jail
@@hennessy2107 They are not mutually exclusive to each other, stop repeating what you see in the comment section. If it was solely about power, there are dozens of ways to get it. The fact that people chose to rape but not beat up or whatever shows there are a whole set of nuances
@@jayjoe3716 I agree with you...from my own experiences, it wasn't/isn't always about having dominance over another person, to have the power or control for whatever reason... Rape is sometimes just about sex that is felt owed or required so taken by force & violence...and that's just the beginning. People like me feel unworthy, dirty, a thing to be used however is wanted, broken. It takes a very long time, if ever, to not freeze if we even glimpse a similar looking person that raped/broke us. In this case the wife should be investigated as well. If she helped to orchestrate those children being put in that position...I don't care if he threatened her, if she somehow helped him get his PREY, she deserves the same punishment, if not worse! Adults have choices, they may not like them & not choose any except to just continue in the same situation, but THAT is that ADULTS' choice.... Ooooohhhh....sorry... I'm still working on fixing me 30+yrs later...
As a survivor of being molested when I was 6, here’s what the children can look forward to; loss of self-esteem; fear of adults; fear of being alone; the inability to set boundaries and self-hatred. I was blamed for the assault. Told I was leading him on and most of the family wanted nothing to do with the situation. No one would report it(my Aunt wanted to, but she didn’t see it and she was voted down) she knew nothing of the outcry. The germ who molested me: “dear ol stepdad” biological mother took his side; blamed me and swore she’d never forgive me for what I did to them. My Aunt raised me; she was the only one who protected me. She listened to me crying every night for months. She felt helpless because she couldn’t take the pain away; she would hold me. Child molesters don’t deserve prison.
but you were only a tiny child! none of that should have ever happened to you. how dare those "adults" blame you! bless your aunt for being there for you. i wish you well and safe journeys
Yeh that's what I thought straight away. Straight into PC with all the other paedophiles and child killers and live a comfortable 22 years making friends and swapping stories with all the other fuckin scum in there. They should all be thrown into general population and let real justice be served
I was victimized beginning at the age of 8 until I was 10 and I can tell you that I still suffer the damage of those 2 years to this day, and I’ll be 35 in December. This judge handled herself better than I would have ever been able to. ANYONE who could do something like this should AT THE VERY LEAST be removed away from the rest of the world for the rest of their life/lives. Absolutely horrible… disgusting isn’t even a strong enough descriptive here.
She is my kind of judge. “There are no free rapes in my courtroom”. Well said. We all have a responsibility to protect children. I hope the soulless creep that hurt those children gets tuned in in prison.
I said the same thing when I first saw this: She is my kind of judge. I wish there were more judges like her, who take such a powerful stand against this horrible, unforgivable, irredeemable crime.
What?! Only 11 years for raping a 4 year old? And there are people in the prison system who got 20 years over a bag of dust. The justice system is broken.
My father got 8-20 years for years of abuse to me. That was for one count. The other one was 2-10 years, so 30 years in prison. You also must take into account that the sentencing has to be rational. This POS in the video is 70. In 11 years he’ll be 81, and frail. One wrong look could end his life. Moreover, she had the other charge from the 6 yo. He will be in his late 90s by the time his sentence is up. She gave him life in prison for that. The justice system is broken, but this judge made sure he cant get out and harm another child again.
@@valentinogal781 that's actually worse than death. Do you even know how he will be threated there? The prisoners will do the same to him, what he did to those poor children. He also will not survive it. I mean, he looks 55-70.
@@gevorgvanarmenie9788 yes, you are right but having harsher punishment maybe they'll think twice about committing such a disgusting crime. I am sick of seeing cases were they are only given a few years then free to walk the streets endangering the lives of innocent children. Our judicial system most of the time fails.. maybe not in the case but many other ones. I'd rather they remove them from society then having them walk around the streets putting the innocence of children in danger.
gordonloet Prisoners will know within the first hour that he’s there what he’s there for. He’ll know exactly what it’s like to be violated. Prisoners are very good at taking care of child molesters! Make no mistake, prisoners hate child molesters as much as the rest of us do. The only difference is the prisoners can make sure that he knows the consequences of what he did and then he’ll rot away!!
Derpy Grenade He’ll be lucky if he lasts Thirty days in general population.He will get what he did to those poor children...no sympathy here for that monster from Hell!👹👹👹
@JoJo Reference I'd say stealing is a bit different from raping a child. Rapists of any kind generally don't do well in prison. Not sure why you're putting stealing on the same level as child rape.
As a mother I really hope jail justice is served. He has scared these babies for life. These parents trusted this daycare with their children while they went to work. It is heartbreaking 💔💔💔
As a father it hurts too, if not more. I am the protector of my children. I was charged with attempted murder of the animal that abused my niece. I still judge myself for him getting away and not paying the price he should have. If anyone did any harm to my two death would be a release from what I would do to them
@@GruppeSechs 22 years is more than enough for just 5 min of pleasure, i prefer getting raoed 100 times intead of wasting a quarter of my lifespan behind bars
Amber Coleman they will always look at the girl first. What was she wearing? How drunk was she? Why was she out so late? Why did she go alone? Instead of recognizing the crime and even if they do get “convicted” it’s never right. My offender got more time for breaking parol than he did victimizing two young girls
the guy is so sick... can we make other ways of pleasure more like available? would we rather have people raping other people for a dopamine rush *OR* should we just allow drugs like weed to be more available I know weed is legal but for some states you need a card or something... not defending this guy and putting the blame somewhere else btw
@@heetman5925 What type of comparison is that??? Are you slow?? Sick people CHOOSE to be that way, because they WANT to be that way, has NOTHING to do with drugs that are legal/illegal
@@heetman5925 These people CHOOSE to be that way because they are sick and they would rather get that type of gratification from a minor than an actual adult. They are SICK, has nothing to do with a ‘rush’🙄
It's absolutely DISGUSTING that people would traumatise, abuse and exploit children for their own twisted pleasure. They are FOUR AND SIX YEARS OLD and now the rest of their lives are traumatised.
With any luck at all, they will be surrounded by enough love and support that these events will ~MAYBE~ *POSSIBLY* become distant remnants or even largely forgotten/buried…
@@potatosalad4779 nothing to do with sex oh my god. judges are always supposed to keep their cool and maintain a neutral view of things so their emotions don't get in the way of the final verdict. that's why the word "emotional" was used in the title, since it's a rare thing for judges to do. and by the way i guarantee you can find many other videos of male judges with the word emotional on the title.
@@piopio2413 Right, but the title said "emotional" when the judge was reacting appropriately. It can be suggested that the word "emotional" was used because the judge happened to be a woman due to the western stereotype of women being "emotional" when they happen to react appropriately. Male judges can be emotional too but the context would be different; people wouldn't be upset, only more so if a woman gets called "emotional."
As a person who suffered abuse at 4 years old I applaud the judge for describing the impact these offenses leave with the victim. We need more judges like her.
XBOXRULES i already knew that. it’s the fact that many people ignore that we need to help this earth and kids grow and develop peacefully. i just am glad it was said
@Multorum Unum I’ve seen it many times before. It is common and not seen as unprofessional in the slightest. Judges making statements in cases before issuing a sentence is pretty normal. It’s usually their reasoning for the sentence they are giving out.
@Multorum Unum yo, if you believe there is another valid opinion than ''DON'T ABUSE AND/OR GROOM CHILDREN'' let me tell you... you're WAY worse than ''unprofessional''.
Good thing she is a mom! If she did not have children of her own, she surely would not have stood up for those kids with as much passion. And God forbid if the judge was a dad! I'm not even going there.
r mcallister while I’d donate to a patreon to pay her bail, even she recognized that any further and he could appeal. Even with this, if he can get a sympathetic judge, he has a slim chance of appeal. She toed to line to protect these girls but did her best to ensure that one day those girls will know at least one adult will protect them.
"I'm gonna tell you something, there's no such thing as a free rape in my courtroom." That sentence conveyed so much anger, hatred, and emotion. This judge needs a raise.
I was raped when I was 6 by a 14 year old. I’m now 54 & I’ll carry it with me as long as I’m alive. NO CHILD should ever have to live with this kind of trauma 😔
She wasn't emotional. She was righteously angry. This man took something from these babies and they will never be the same. I'm grateful for her stand for justice.
I love how she dug into him. She spoke for those little girls and their parents. And children in general. This is the kind of judge that all victims need. Someone that will stand and fight for them.
Thank you Judge. I am 80 years old and was molested at 5 years old. I was left with my father’s best friend and his wife. My mother was in the hospital dying of cancer. I still remember everything he did to me and have had much pain in my life because I could never trust a man. 🙏
Man ruin 2 children’s lives. 22 years is not enough. People that do this to anyone, especially children, should forfeit their life for what they’ve done.
i wish it was so small jist because it’s old but there’s 20-40 year olds that get only like 5-20 years for raping kids and teens. it’s so fucked that there’s people who actually get out of it alive.
ZackZack2002 they get partial karma in prison tho for real on the yard you immediately hear “lemme see your papers” and he’s done for OR he’s gonna be locked up in a special unit to protect him from being killed by the other inmates. It makes me so happy the murderers don’t tolerate child rape.
@@bugmakeshoney Which is why the prison guards separate them from the general population. They put them together with those who have acted as informants. Let's stop relying on the scum of our society to handle these things and just handle it. No parole, no prison. Just a 9mm to the back of the skull... and tell them to be happy they're not being left alone in a room with the friends and family of the victim.
If you can spend your life in prison for robbery or drugs then why the hell are these monsters getting out over and over to repeat their crimes!! A life for a life. Rape and molestation alter a life permanently therefore the perpetrator's life should also be altered permanently.
Just imagine how everyone in that courtroom feel. The second hand embarrassment, the anger, sadness. Knowing you have to sentence ppl like this for their crimes
@Aquatic Ape it is appropriate, I could see if she was screaming and swearing at him but she wasn’t, she was expressing her opinion towards the crime and his actions in a appropriate manner.
I'm 58 years, old overweight, and out of shape, and my joints hurt so bad it makes it difficult to get around some days, but, I believe there's enough in me to literally beat the pure living hell out of somebody I was to ever run across doing something like this to a child. Hopefully prison will deliver some true Justice.
She's not "emotional," she's livid and disgusted. Edit - People. I know the definition of "emotional" and what an emotion is. My comment is simply about the use of "emotional" in connection with this video involving a female judge. "Emotional" has a negative connotation when associated with women.
Don't talk about other people you dont know, some people can walk past incidents like this and move on in life.Not all are supposed to live a ruined life after something like this.
I don't know why she's being described as "emotional". She managed to keep her stability, despite speaking to a child abuser. She was very well spoken.
@@FoxBlack. what? the way she was speaking is definitely from the heart, and you could hear her voice somewhat cracking. how does this have to do with her being a female?
@ASTROTHUNDER thank you for what? Not getting the point being made? This has nothing to do with her and everything to do with the uploader. Hope that clears things up for you
Could mean that he didn't bribe her enough to get off and so she's acting outraged about his "crimes". These luciferians infecting authority are actors, Biblical false prophets in sheep's clothing, but inside they're GOD / People hating ravening wolves. You have to Judge them by their fruit. I didn't even watch this video without access to others.....And if this judge IS legit she should be way more in the know about Pederasty and what causes it and be speaking out about it....John 3:16-21
@@andrewzentz8861 Don't bring religion into this, if you believe in god good no one cares but PLEASE don't come saying random things from the bible, i'm a christian myself but people like you are what makes us look bad. Please understand that not every person believes in the same things as we do.
@@Symphonyyrr The LORD rebuke thee satan. GOD commanded me to bring His GOSPEL everywhere I go. And I don't believe your claim of being a Christian at all. You sound more like a witch to me. Unless someone tells me "Jesus Christ is LORD" or "Jesus Christ came in the flesh to die for Mankinds' sins" both by The Holy Ghost, I don't believe they're a Christian. And GOD didn't call you to Judge me but GOD called me to Judge you and this country like Joseph, Moses, Joshua and Samuel before me so be still and keep your peace or GOD will surely take your peace from you. Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live. 1Samuel 15:23 For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king. John 3:16-21 p.s. GOD is capitalized ALWAYS but god is only used for lucifer and fallen angels the "gods" of this world so that shows me the "god" you worship, bitch.
She IS emotional and that’s OKAY and UNDERSTANDABLE. I am too. I am a woman too. Why are all these fucking comments acting like she wasn’t emotional or saying it’s a bad thing or making it a gender issue Jesus fuckign Christ. She’s rightfully upset and appalled at what that monster did, as are most of us in these comments
@@curious1053 and you're HYPER argumentative...get some counseling for that.... YES, she was emotional and there's not a thing wrong with that, esp. for something like this. You on the other hand have a serious problem with liking to argue excessively.
@@patriciax3677 Kai was trolling that’s why he made his comment. Typical from cyber bullies that have some real life frustrations and then take it out on others on social media
And that's why I personally support the death penalty. Life in prison is something I think many criminals could live with. Charles Manson seemed to get by well, he even got fans and groupies. He was famous and enjoyed it while in prison. There is nothing more terrifying in my mind than knowing when you are going to die. A life is still a life even if it's in prison. He wouldn't mind a lifetime of 3 meals a day, hot showers and healthcare provided by and paid by our tax dollars. But imagine this man realizing he will be executed in a year? I know that's not how it exactly works, but the sentencing should be swift as possible imo. But the fear of having your life cut short? You'll die anyways, but having your life cut short is a different story. This man would be shaking in court. All the regret will start pouring out. And potential child rapist would see this and will now have to weigh their options down to committing another crime against a child or death. I bet that if child rapist were given the death penalty many rapes would be deterred, in fact many heinous crimes would be deterred. Life in prison doesn't phase to sick people, nor spending a few decades.
“This court is so sick and tired of seeing adults ruin and abuse children.” She has worded it better than any of us could ever do especially under that much emotional pressure. 0:36
@@cybercaptain9346 Nope, accepting the facts are #1. #2 is the rule of law enforcement to human beings who are not caught earlier because nobody wanted to be involved. You and I see bad behaviors that we ignored. Now, speaking up is the American way to live up to those ASPERATIONS of our constitutional democratic Republic duties to involved yourself. Protect every citizens rights from terrorists and the Republican insurrectionist party.
I was 8 years old when I got raped....and when she said the children were 4 and 6, I immediately got chills down my spine. This woman is the voice for those children who cannot speak for tthemselves. For those who are scared to speak up, for fear of it getting worse. May this woman be protected at all costs and God bless 🙌
That is heart breaking I am so sorry that happen to you have my complete sympathy It's mind blowing that anybody could ever do such a thing. God bless and I hope you fully recover.
If this has happened to my daughter. This man would have never made it to a courtroom. I love this judge she was furious. I wish she'd have given him life.
Judge cant give life sentence, The Law states that all these children are worth is 11yrs incarceration, he only got 22yrs because there were two girls. The archaic laws need to change!
when we call people monsters or animals, we risk forgetting that he is a person.a real living man did this. we don't get to divorce his humanity from our own and pretend that this is something we only need to look out for in monstrous people because odds are, it's our neighbours, our brothers, our fathers who do this to young children. calling him sir reminds us that in daily life, he's probably someone we would give that respect to without knowing what's underneath.
@@RapidObsessor people who duck young children are not humans . The fact that you and others are liking this comment makes me second guess which side you’re on. If I could vomit into your mouth I would right now. Are you a parent ? Have you been awaken and felt what it’s like to create pure actual innocence? I’m not talking working with kids or babysitting your nieces. Your comment has to come from a place of pure ignorance.
I was 7 years old when I was sexually assaulted. I can confirm the ramifications last a lifetime. It took me 22 years to forgive him, after decades of hating myself and hating him. When I started dating, I was pertrified of being touched (not sexually, but something as simple as pushing my hair behind my ear or wrapping an arm around me). I still can’t go to the gynocologist without hyperventilating, and vomiting during pelvic exams. They have warnings on my medical record that I was sexually assaulted and doctors have to be warned by staff that I am a victim of a senseless crime. When I get married - if I get married. My husband will have to pay for someone else’s crime when I have panic attacks when we try to be intimate. I wanted to die for the longest time and used to ask God “why couldn’t he have killed me? Then I wouldn’t have to suffer!” Sometimes something sets me off, and I panic. But I’m still here and still alive.
Mine start when I was a baby. I remember being fondled even at 1 or 2 years of age in my nappy it got worse and real at 6 and continued until I escaped with help from a friend at 22... my family knew and my mother abused n defended the abusers too. It happendd by more than one person. The people who support me now sound like they want to validate my reality but then they say things like I work in a panel like this of abuse against children and they have had it worse than you have... It is clear they see me as a case file even though I'm not theirs And their mother got two men to rape them while she held them down. I honestly have not even had the time or chance to feel out fully all that was done to me over the 22 years trapped in abuse. There were a lot of things done to me. Every single day of my life. I'm still unravelling and remembering things even today. 10 years on. For one of the many abuse. My mother knew about the abuser and on purpose left me to his way when I was only 6 and then mocked humiliated and ridiculed and slapped and blamed me for it in front of the whole family. She then also left me a lone after school where I was almost kidnapped and then again she also left me to drown in swimming pool and then left her new man my stepdad have his way with me and my baby sister and defended them and protected them calling us liars n out to get the family. She knew what happened between another abuser and one of my older sister and told me she was going to let it happen. A mother does not need to hold a child down to let them be abused. Plus that the most beatings and psychological abuse I recieved was from my mother and my sexual abuser. I do not see now how my experiences can measure to anothers they are mine n I have to live it every day for the rest of my life the so called support who minimised my suffering does not. I do not see now how the one she mentioned is not similar to mine just coz my mother did not hold me down. She is too clever for that. She knows how to cover her behaviours in a way to get away with her own abuse. She knows how to manipulate and psychologically mess you up too. And she knew how to fool tbe authorities. Disgusting things she did to her baby daughter and her young daughter to defend her love and sons. Twisted things she did to convince the police. Things no mother should ever put an abused child through for sake of the abusers she shows are more important to her. If throwing your kids out to the wolves are not just as bad as what my support claims is worse than mine. I guess people need to have gone through it to understand the damage and scar and how mixed up and psychological messed up and undeveloped one is.... The only difference is I was not rescued from it as a child and had a defense... I was all alone helpless scared trapped self loathing and being further injured every day until I grew into 22 body though I had the mind of a 6 year old... others could not see that... they used it against me either by gain or by further abuse... how I long to have the family this support has and still has. She goes off to visit her siblings and parents that are still alive. Having come from an upbringing that helped her develop balanced and the way it should have been I suppose... my other support complains about her mother still making her home cooked meals. And having to take it to be polite. What a miserable family and parent she must have. To look down on me. I wish I can tell them swap places then if you think you understand my experiences and do not know how real my only experiences are... I can never know what it is to have a normal healthy mother and upbringing and family. I was raised alone I raised myself. N the only normal thing I did in the only freedom I was given was to protect my vulnerable siblings from harm which of course being a kid I failed at. But one is free now. One does not want to be free maybe is too brainwashed to stay n be abused that way. I do not understand her reasons to stay she keeps claiming it is her room she does not want to leave her bedroom she has only ever known. Shrugs no idea why that matters when you are being sexually and mentally n physically abused every day to be honest. She is older than me. But she also told me to die basically for trying to get her out of the abuse. Because I've made her life worse. She often says things she does not mean for other reasons but she wouldn't tell me why she chose to stay there. Really we got her out and she went right back there. Baffles me to this day. My friend said she is brainwashed by the abusers. But I can not see that. She is not that dumb. Anyway I had been making my own abuse so little and everyone elses so big over mine for 29 years. Then after my only friend showed his true colours he was taking advantage of my position to control and abuse me hoping to get sexual advances eventually. Which when he knew I wouldn't bend for his tune he got angry and showed his true colours. Which I never gave him instead I cut him off. Then not long after my baby sister abused me for the last time out of her silly teen envy of me. I grew harder and colder. I trusted no one. At all. N cut everyone on n put me first. I had done work on my voice self esteem self worth self view inner voice over 6 years n then I worked on my flashback n truamas hearing and validating them. I had no one else there for me until my support friend got involved to defend me against support that way threatening me and coercion and using fear to control me. The same support who were not there for me whenever I reached out for help. So she fought my cases and got me my safety and human rights back... but I'm tired of fighting those who are suppose to support hear trust respect validate etc my suffering is minimized constantly n I'm treated like a child with no rights one minute and a capable criminal adult for not being. Able to cope and manage like I'm without any disabilities the next. I do not expect them to understand but if people just treated survivors like the judge did in this video. They would not spend their life being further blamed shamed violated and treated like the cause and squashed or dismissed without compassion for what they live with for the rest of their lives. It takes a life time to even heal developed unravel it in the first place before we can Express it. So even if others stop minimizing our experiences based on what you think you know or understand about us. You have no lived in our footsteps and you have no lived our experiences and developed through it nor have you any idea all that has happened that we have no expressed to you. And even when we talk about it we minimize it ourselves we don't need you doing it too. Treating us like we are seeking sympathy and needing to squash us back down. We need it heard felt and validated before it becomes big and real for our brains to develop and heal past it. What the woman in this video said is what we need.
It is emotional. Because she’s feeling emotion. If she wasn’t feeling emotion I’d be upset. I understand that it is a kind of sexist way for them to phrase it but it’s not wrong
@@maxlee2523 exactly why do people have to be so sensitive if you don't use the word they feel comfortable with it's a worrrrdddddd how TF does that hurt you physically or financially?
I was abused at 7 and it haunts me, I try not to think about it but once in a while it creeps back into my brain. Watching something like this brings it all back...
As a male kindergarten teacher, I get absolutely livid when I hear about shit like this. I would kill to protect the kids in my class and school and I wouldn't think twice about it.
okay edgelord
@@porcupinesauce3872 don’t be a jerk, jerk
You're creepy
@@porcupinesauce3872 lol
@@MC-ko2tk how?
Not even criminals tolerate child abuse or molestation
Yeah. Pedos and rapists in prisons are beaten on and attacked constantly by other inmates.
Child molesters should be executed upon the first offense
There’s literally absolutely no excuse for that behavior that crime
@@salliejones6002 which is why those who commit such a crime should be executed upon the first offense
@@tadhggoreyoneill13666 agreed
They caught him at 70 years old; he has been doing this to babies his whole life.
Most likley
Makes me sick
Who is he? I've never seen this in the news!!! Those poor babies... :'(
He might be maybe his first time we can't be sure maybe he just never physically had intercourse with a minor before and finally couldn't control his abnormal feelings at an old age thinking he is old and dying anyway.
@@flaminmongrel6955: Use punctuation. Your comment is annoying to have to decipher.
Rape especially child rape should be a life sentence, no bail, no jail credit, this type of human needs place in general population in prison
ALL for his own self-gratification! It's so disgusting I can't wrap my head around it. And you know he's been doing this for years probably since he was a pre-teen...I can't fathom the amount of lives this one man has ruined. Prison Justice Please!
he is what the chair was invented for
There is the U.S.‘s criminal code and also legal precedent that the judge has to consider and abide by. If the criminal code in the US is similar to Canada’s then it specifies maximum jail sentences for most serious crimes. E.g. in Canada the maximum prison sentence for a hit-and-run is ~5 years. If the judge wasn’t bound by legal precedent and the criminal code’s limits on sentencing then she definitely would have given him life without parole. But to a guy that old, 22 years is more than the rest of his life so the outcome is good in the end
In Ohio, unless the law was changed Rape of a child 12 and younger is supposed to be MANDATORY LIFE in prison. I fail to understand how/why judges get away with not following the law.
@@r.f2173 I disagree. Give the LIFE sentence so that the younger people see the serious consequences involved if they should prey on a child. Maybe stop it before it happens.
He was 70 at sentencing... she essentially gave him a life sentence and I'm glad.
Thank fecking god. The amount of hatred I have for these types of people isn’t even explainable.
I wonder how many other children he abused in his lifetime. This didn’t start at 70. Absolutely horrendous what these predators will do!
@@liahamilton8931, his future inmates will give him justice. Pedophiles are pariahs even in prison.
@Moon of Darkness,
*Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*
Death
She's struggling with the fact that she can't just feed him through a wood chipper.
I would’ve found a wood chipper
Facts
Feet first
@@shadowsdad903 LOL hope we aren't pulling you out of a spider hole one day.
Saddam Hussein reference. He did that to entire families for minor offenses or for just participating in peaceful political opposition, feet first, made parents watch their children shredded first, even pried open their eyelids so they couldn't close them.
Exactly
So his wife had a daycare, I highly doubt these two children were the only victims.
Yeah, me too... And maybe we can ask some questions to his "wife".... I don't think she's entirely innocent.
Especially considering his age, he has probably been doing that for many years now
I bet 20 his wife knew it!!!
That's why I dont trust any daycares.
It’s more common than people think!
Finally a judge who is defending the defenseless rather than pandering to a criminal. Well done, Your Honor.
God bless this judge. Why arent their more like her?
@@carola7539
cause most of them are crooks who have sold out
LOL your funny bro, judges pandering criminals 🤣🤣
To be fair, I think quite a lot of judges defend the defenceless.
@@Justin-td4bb
😅😂🤣
"There are no free rapes in my courtroom." God bless that judge. ❤️
Amen
22 years for me still feels like for free. I dont get it. I just cant get it. Why just 22 years. And its in my country too. I mean around 20 years is usualy max for rape and murder.... I cant get it.
❤🙏
@@PandaRaeb Should've been life in prison. It makes more sense to put someone who would do such a crime in prison for life.
In Vietnam, rapists were usually sentenced for a life time jail or death. There is no exception.
He didn't just ruin the kids, he ruined the parents too.
And he ruined us too, because with that we lose more and more faith in humanity. Thank god that judge knows how to do her job and uses her power to punish pieces of shit like him.
Grandparents, relatives, etc.
@@TheMiamixbitch then change for the better and give faith to humans idiot, you idiots dont see the positivity but only the negativity in humans, thinking you're radiating full of wisdom
@@livetochange974 Good god, go educate yourself. Your grammar is appalling. You are not the truth, you are dumb as hell.
@@TheMiamixbitch thank you
“Sick of seeing adults ruin and abuse children”- 💯
Majority of these are men!!
baleevet yep
baleevet why does that matter
Why is this a popular comment? It's literally common sense...
@fubby chatso It's hella fucked, especially in my case as I myself am gay and I've been touched from a girl in my school before. (Without consent, of course)
I've told my school and literally no one seemed to even care.
(Obviously this isn't as much of a serious story, but it still shows how fucked up it is)
I’m 67 years old now, but I was 5 years old when my stepfather started my abuse. It went on till I was about 18, it damaged me beyond words. But I found a good ,gentle, Godly man, and we have been happily married for 44 years. God healed me through my husband.
Why did God let it happen ii the first place???
bless you, molly. may you continue to find healing alongside your best friend in marriage ❤
Happy you were blessed with a GOOD man to help you navigate the rest of your life. Thankful that God gifted you him in the end.
@@scottr3484 That's not a necessary or respectful comment. I'm not a believer in a god either. However, I am a believer that you're a jerk.
Please ignore @scott3484's comment. God will forgive him but I won't. Luke 23:34.
"The children are our future and if we destroy them, we have no future." such a hugely powerful statement.
cmmon we have no future, only idiots with smartphones
Jane May who hurt you
@@u_u9629 kids in the bus whos not giving seat to elderly
100% right
@@Jonjs99 call them idiots instead of explaining to them. these kids who grew up with technology will improve technology in such a manner u will feel like an idiot later. just saying seeing only the bad side effect isn't changing the truth. and these kids will be so much smarter than we will ever be . cause they've been exposed to technology.
Trust me, these were not the only victms. You don’t start being a predator at 70 years old.
sad but probably true
Those are some of the truest words I have read
Exactly wtffff
Ya no kidding. Probably got away with this shit a few times at least. Who decides at 70 he’s gonna see what being a pedo is all about?
That is so true
Why isnt he drowning in shame?looks like hes there for a parking fine
I'd guess a combination of his lawyer telling him about the likely outcome of the trial and having had time to accept that, and an utter lack of conscience.
Right !
Because pedophiles have a sick sense of righteousness and claim that it is their “sexuality”. They do not, or will not, realize what damages they do. They are sick, mentally inept individuals, who do not deserve a place in society.
Sick pedophiles have no sympathy at all
If u watched chris hansen series how to catch a predators..most of them feels no guilt or whatsoever
4 and 6 years old?! My mind can't fathom.
Wait till the prisoners get ahold of him.
@Lauren Christie,
*Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*
Seeing as this video was posted in March, oohhhh, I think it's safe to assume they already have. 😉
@@glowblank17 ？？？
People who do these abhorrent crimes should be put to death. There nothing worse then the worst and we the American people should not have to pay for them to live in prison the rest of their lives free Scott free
The death penalty has to be voted in during our next election all across country
"There are NO FREE RAPES in MY COURTROOM..." True statement...
Wish we had more court rooms and judges like her.
@@Native229 false rape allegations deserve to be killed or at least longer than rapist themselves
@@musicismath5820 yea false rape accusations are so fucked up but they don’t deserve to get killed wtf
@@musicismath5820 I agree they deserve severe sentencing but longer than rapists?? Huh? You think false accusations are worse than the act of rape itself?
@@musicismath5820 no actual rapists should be killed. False rape accusations should get a smaller sentence
"The children are our future and if we destroying them, we have no future" Judge PREACH!
Please stop using the word "preach", it makes me actually feel physical pain hearing it
@@deiu4452 ooooohhhhh. is that a medical condition?
@@jessicaaudate yeah it's called cringeomnia and studies show it affects 100% of people that have common sense
@@deiu4452 oh well
Deiu bruh just scroll if it bothers you
She deserves a medal. She deserves a seat on every bench in every courtroom. Bless her. That's a true champion for vulnerable human beings.
"there's no free rapes in my courtroom." HEROIC. she is an absolute legend. we need all judges to come from this perspective. i applaud this woman !!
@ASTROTHUNDER I hope he eats apples and soft moist dogs??!??!@?($>÷>÷
@ASTROTHUNDER bro, idk wtf I was trynna say
ikrrr
Agreed!
Female judges should handle all sexual cases imo
his isn't her being emotional, it's her being rightfully outraged and well-spoken
Outrage is still an emotion
Sorry if I'm getting this wrong, but are you saying that being emotional is a bad thing. I feel like she was pretty emotional, as I believe she should be considering the situation. Outrage definitely counts as being emotional.
it's usually illegal for a judge to react emotionally but yea
@@burningtrash6330 never did they say that emotional is bad, just that in this case it's a justified response and more outrage at the fact that this happened to any degree
Outrage is an emotion
“There are no free rapes in my courtroom.” Thats right! Too bad the sentencing couldn’t be more. If anyone ever touched my daughter, I’d be the one being sentenced. That’s for damn sure.
Ikr, but I doubt he will get out alive! That's for sure
I totally understand you, but then you couldn't be there for your children anymore.
Say it again.
No, you wouldn’t. You’re better than that, I’m sure. And, it would make it worse for your daughter - she wouldn’t have you.
I think the appropriate punishment would be to remove the phallus and brand their face so everyone knows what they did. Prison isn't going to help them, they are sick in the head. Removing the tools and giving people visual warning ahead of time seems like the most efficient and effective way to solve this for all parties.
As a child victim this made me cry. Thank you Judge for your strong and incredulous condemning of this disgusting creature.
She's a good judge. We need more like her.
😂
Damn straight
He needs to be shamed. Man, he is even the lowest form of mankind in prison. He's going to get hurt. Every day. By all inmates. Even murderers. Good. 👍
@@DonDayJR pretty sure nobody says yes to having sex with you after such an awful line. *snort*
Definitely.
Emotional? Huh. She sound rational, intelligent and wise to me.
Emotional, but in a very rational way
exactly
Lmao she's emotional. Don't let your "woman not emotional woman strong and smart brr" shit blind you
@@-jobrocodwawz-6226 Whats wrong with being emotional? Emotional is passionate, emotional is having a spine, she is standing up for justice. You should grow one...if you won’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything
Nope, she was really emotional. It's not a bad thing.
Welp, even worse for him, prison inmates don’t like child rapists. And he’s spending 22 years with them.
Sad truth is that he will not be spending those years in general population. He will be safe unless they catch him before he goes to that special unit.
he will be in protective custody, wont be in general population those disgusting men get more protection than someone who steals 50$ from a bank.
WHOOO-HOOO!
I've heard this too. Apparently everyone in prison agrees people who hurt women and children are the most deplorable people. Let's hope they don't let him forget it
She should have gave that sick bastard 50 years!!
You go Judge!!! You said everything about this horrible human being.
I wouldn’t say she’s emotional, she’s stern and passionate. So much respect, she’s speaking for the parents and children who can’t speak for themselves.
Victoria Mahr you couldn’t have said it better 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This judge is exactly what we need more of in America, and honestly all over the world. Protecting the law AND protecting those who are defenseless. She’s level headed and well spoken. I agree, she’s a judge with passion, not emotion. She did the right thing and I hope she sleeps well at night knowing she did the right thing. Although she can not prevent people from hurting others or breaking the law, and least she can give peace to the families and the victims. I feel safer knowing she’s a judge.
I try to get in these people head but not in a million year I can comprehend raping of a child
If only our whole justice system lived by this
Me either. She was P off!
_"There's no free rapes in my courtroom"_ - I wish that courtrooms, judges and the law everywhere would have this same view. It is a heinous crime whether it's inflicted on a child or adult and should be seen as such with severe punishment.
Well you're in luck, because every normal functioning human being agrees with you
Agreed. Unfortunately there are a lot of corrupt judges who are lenient rapists and pedos.
@@pc31754 Unfortunately, there's definetely not enough of them *AT ALL.*
So many semen swabs from victims sit in evidence unchecked, letting rapists roam free - many places don’t do shit about it
It only cost 11 years. No wonder they keep doing it.
I do not feel that this judge got "emotional," I feel she acted in control and was completely coherent in passing sentence.
You can do both, it isn't mutually exclusive
She was visibly outraged so she did get emotional.
Nothing wrong with getting emotional. Who wouldn't get mad, or upset over this?
It seemed like the deep breath she took before her speech was her finally being finished with the case and being able to speak her mind.
What this guy did to a 4 and 6 year old Is unfathomable
Controlled rage is also an emotion!
Emotions makes us human it’s not something we should be ashamed of ♥️
She really nailed why child sexual abuse is such a horrible crime. It’s destroying the future of a person before they even had a chance to make one for kids something as selfish as sexual gratification. It’s such a selfish and weak act.
Hopefully he will be taken care of by the prison inmates. 22 years is nothing for his punishment.
I guess that's why he's only getting 22 years. He won't last long
It more than any other case recieved and many many more like mine never make it to court coz the law protects the abusers
He won’t last long in prison. Even prisoners don’t take crap from child abusers, predators, and rapists. They do awful things to them that I don’t think any of us could imagine. Those 22 years will be longest and worst years of his life. And he earned every single one of them and is gonna get what he deserves from those prisoners.
I’m pretty sure he don’t even got another 22 in him
He won't even last 22 years if inmates know that he touched a kid, let alone 2. He probably won't even last 10
Can we clone this judge and put her in every court across the country.
ABSOULOUTLEY!!!!!
bethere5151 lmao get help
would have to see how she reacts to a woman doing the same to a boy. such as alot of those teachers.
Also in the Netherlands please!
ninsnumber1fan she said children ,so nobody knows the gender of the children. he could have very well raped 2 boys, or 1 girl and 1boy it’s proven that Pedophiles doesn’t limit there abuse to just one gender, tho they may have a favorite gender. Further more she said she’s sick of adults taking advantage of CHILDREN. I can believe she would react the same way. As a woman with a son and 2 daughters I HATE pedophiles, men and women I don’t care what the circumstances are. it’s sick for ANY adult to engage in impure activity with a minor.
Man there’s killers in jail that would kill to see their kids.
POWER ATLAS they torture child molesters in prison its worse than a death sentence
Theres killers in prison that kill people who hurt little children. He'll be someones bitch in no time.
drowningblonde as he should he preys on children cos he knows they can’t defend themselves now he can’t defend himself
Well killers kill so pretty self explanatory
Killers are mostly bad people through and through, but even they know that pedophilia is completely unacceptable. Which is why pedos usually get tortured in jail
Absolutely love this judge and how she showed no mercy for a predator
"You can't even know what damages you've done. For SEXUAL GRATIFICATION."
Rape/sexual assault is not about sexual gratification. It is about power.
@@hennessy2107 They are not mutually exclusive to each other, stop repeating what you see in the comment section. If it was solely about power, there are dozens of ways to get it. The fact that people chose to rape but not beat up or whatever shows there are a whole set of nuances
@@jayjoe3716 ^^^
What an amazing response, to a a child abuser
@@jayjoe3716 I agree with you...from my own experiences, it wasn't/isn't always about having dominance over another person, to have the power or control for whatever reason... Rape is sometimes just about sex that is felt owed or required so taken by force & violence...and that's just the beginning. People like me feel unworthy, dirty, a thing to be used however is wanted, broken. It takes a very long time, if ever, to not freeze if we even glimpse a similar looking person that raped/broke us.
In this case the wife should be investigated as well. If she helped to orchestrate those children being put in that position...I don't care if he threatened her, if she somehow helped him get his PREY, she deserves the same punishment, if not worse! Adults have choices, they may not like them & not choose any except to just continue in the same situation, but THAT is that ADULTS' choice....
Ooooohhhh....sorry... I'm still working on fixing me 30+yrs later...
As a survivor of being molested when I was 6, here’s what the children can look forward to; loss of self-esteem; fear of adults; fear of being alone; the inability to set boundaries and self-hatred.
I was blamed for the assault. Told I was leading him on and most of the family wanted nothing to do with the situation. No one would report it(my Aunt wanted to, but she didn’t see it and she was voted down) she knew nothing of the outcry.
The germ who molested me: “dear ol stepdad” biological mother took his side; blamed me and swore she’d never forgive me for what I did to them.
My Aunt raised me; she was the only one who protected me.
She listened to me crying every night for months. She felt helpless because she couldn’t take the pain away; she would hold me.
Child molesters don’t deserve prison.
I am so sorry love😕
@@CheerstheBong Thank you love
@@CheerstheBong Thank you @Emma I truly appreciate it
@@karenshurley4793 girl I wish I could do more, you definitely do not need to thank me for that.. that’s the least I could ever do..
but you were only a tiny child! none of that should have ever happened to you. how dare those "adults" blame you! bless your aunt for being there for you. i wish you well and safe journeys
22 Years? This guy won't last 22 minutes in prison when they find out what he did.
He'll probably be placed in protective custody though :/
Yeh that's what I thought straight away. Straight into PC with all the other paedophiles and child killers and live a comfortable 22 years making friends and swapping stories with all the other fuckin scum in there. They should all be thrown into general population and let real justice be served
He is only 70, he will suffer and rot in prison
I wish they would be tortured.
I'm gonna place a call to the Prison & let em know he's a comin!
I was victimized beginning at the age of 8 until I was 10 and I can tell you that I still suffer the damage of those 2 years to this day, and I’ll be 35 in December.
This judge handled herself better than I would have ever been able to. ANYONE who could do something like this should AT THE VERY LEAST be removed away from the rest of the world for the rest of their life/lives. Absolutely horrible… disgusting isn’t even a strong enough descriptive here.
She's not emotional, she is reasonable! These are FACTS, not emotions
Someone being emotional doesnt make them weak, I'd say persons devoid of emotions are the kinda person who went to jail
And what's wrong with emotions? Emotions are what makes us different from psychopaths and animals.
She is clearly emotional and voiced it - which is great.
This is definitely a deeply felt emotion. If she didn't feel anything about this she wouldn't have said anything.
It's unprofessional as heck. But I understand her! But it's not professional at all what she's doing.
She is my kind of judge. “There are no free rapes in my courtroom”. Well said. We all have a responsibility to protect children. I hope the soulless creep that hurt those children gets tuned in in prison.
He won't be tuned in.. This bastard will be turned out.. 😆!!
I said the same thing when I first saw this: She is my kind of judge.
I wish there were more judges like her, who take such a powerful stand against this horrible, unforgivable, irredeemable crime.
damn right
Go off
Oh trust me, he will be, they are not kind to child rapists in prison, and he doesn't look like he'll give them too much of a fight.
For the sake of those babies, thank you Judge!
🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
Yes Amen thank you judge
22 years isnt long enough
@@johnguarino7826 agreed! Not nearly long enough.
@@johnguarino7826 hopefully,he doesn't make it out
What?! Only 11 years for raping a 4 year old? And there are people in the prison system who got 20 years over a bag of dust. The justice system is broken.
My father got 8-20 years for years of abuse to me. That was for one count. The other one was 2-10 years, so 30 years in prison. You also must take into account that the sentencing has to be rational. This POS in the video is 70. In 11 years he’ll be 81, and frail. One wrong look could end his life. Moreover, she had the other charge from the 6 yo. He will be in his late 90s by the time his sentence is up. She gave him life in prison for that. The justice system is broken, but this judge made sure he cant get out and harm another child again.
Imagine how scarred those children are.This man has just ruined these people’s life’s in a second
I don’t even consider that guy a man
I am so angry beyond belief!!! I say we need to enforce the death penalty to these assholes. Throwing them in jail is not enough!!!
they'll remember that for the rest of their lives... absolute damage
@@valentinogal781 that's actually worse than death. Do you even know how he will be threated there? The prisoners will do the same to him, what he did to those poor children. He also will not survive it. I mean, he looks 55-70.
@@gevorgvanarmenie9788 yes, you are right but having harsher punishment maybe they'll think twice about committing such a disgusting crime. I am sick of seeing cases were they are only given a few years then free to walk the streets endangering the lives of innocent children. Our judicial system most of the time fails.. maybe not in the case but many other ones. I'd rather they remove them from society then having them walk around the streets putting the innocence of children in danger.
22 years is not long enough, but he looks like he might not have that long left.
He won't make it a year.
Yeah let's hope his fellow inmates find out why he's there
gordonloet Prisoners will know within the first hour that he’s there what he’s there for. He’ll know exactly what it’s like to be violated. Prisoners are very good at taking care of child molesters! Make no mistake, prisoners hate child molesters as much as the rest of us do. The only difference is the prisoners can make sure that he knows the consequences of what he did and then he’ll rot away!!
Derpy Grenade He’ll be lucky if he lasts Thirty days in general population.He will get what he did to those poor children...no sympathy here for that monster from Hell!👹👹👹
@JoJo Reference I'd say stealing is a bit different from raping a child. Rapists of any kind generally don't do well in prison. Not sure why you're putting stealing on the same level as child rape.
Judge or not...she’s a woman and a mom..it hurts so much
As a mother I really hope jail justice is served. He has scared these babies for life. These parents trusted this daycare with their children while they went to work. It is heartbreaking 💔💔💔
As a father it hurts too, if not more. I am the protector of my children. I was charged with attempted murder of the animal that abused my niece. I still judge myself for him getting away and not paying the price he should have. If anyone did any harm to my two death would be a release from what I would do to them
FYI... It hurts Men and Fathers as well... We don't condone or stand in solidarity with rapist of ant kind let alone 4 and 6 year Olds...
Miss Santana yess it was very heartbreaking 😔💔
Gaz G absolutely
Ran by his wife and he only 22 years for all that permanent emotion damage. He should've gotten life in prison or death penalty.
He's 70 in this video. 22 is pretty much a life sentence for this man. He'll be dead before his sentencing is over
"There are no free rapes in my courtroom."
Wow, I absolutely agree with that. I hope there are more judges like her.
shoved to the right? LOL WHAT ARE YOU SO PISSED ABOUT?
shoved to the right? let people live. stop judging people for being who they are.
@shoved to the right? I would like to ask the judge her views on what you just wrote. Would she really understand or does she not get it??
"No free rapes" and then only gives 22 years instead of consecutive life sentences. She soft
@@GruppeSechs 22 years is more than enough for just 5 min of pleasure, i prefer getting raoed 100 times intead of wasting a quarter of my lifespan behind bars
I hope he's treated in prison as he treated those innocent little girls.
Oh don't worry. He will.
He's probably dead.
Oh, he will be. Big Bubba is going to live him a lot.
They separate sex offenders due to the fact they are targeted by other inmates
@@ahtaystamcauther9376 yeah
“No free rapes in my courtroom” I am HERE for this judge too many victims slip through the cracks. Too many criminals go unpunished
I found it odd expression but good for her and justice.
@@Rogerthatx10
Too many get a slap on the wrist
Wendy Lou like that one college student who got a month or less in jail even when he took advantage of a drunk girl at a party.
Wendy Lou I agree with her whole heartedly but the phrase ‘free rapes’ just sounds weird verbiage.
Amber Coleman they will always look at the girl first. What was she wearing? How drunk was she? Why was she out so late? Why did she go alone? Instead of recognizing the crime and even if they do get “convicted” it’s never right. My offender got more time for breaking parol than he did victimizing two young girls
I can’t believe the depravity of some people to abuse and harm innocent children. My heart goes to them and for God to bless their hearts to heal
“All for sexual gratification” the absolute disgust in her voice sent chills
When she said "a four-year-old and a six-year-old" I felt sick.
the guy is so sick...
can we make other ways of pleasure more like available?
would we rather have people raping other people for a dopamine rush *OR* should we just allow drugs like weed to be more available
I know weed is legal but for some states you need a card or something...
not defending this guy and putting the blame somewhere else btw
@@heetman5925 What type of comparison is that??? Are you slow?? Sick people CHOOSE to be that way, because they WANT to be that way, has NOTHING to do with drugs that are legal/illegal
@@heetman5925 These people CHOOSE to be that way because they are sick and they would rather get that type of gratification from a minor than an actual adult. They are SICK, has nothing to do with a ‘rush’🙄
@@margaritaheath5315 ok but u ever heard of term called "smoke all of my pain away"
It's absolutely DISGUSTING that people would traumatise, abuse and exploit children for their own twisted pleasure.
They are FOUR AND SIX YEARS OLD and now the rest of their lives are traumatised.
Makes me so angry
@@janinekaretai4306 exactly
Yeah, it's so sickening.
With any luck at all, they will be surrounded by enough love and support that these events will ~MAYBE~ *POSSIBLY* become distant remnants or even largely forgotten/buried…
Disgusting It's happening all over the world!! Especially child victims in brothels the wealthy, connected, and immoral frequent in plain sight
I fixed the title for ya:
“Judge gets reasonably pissed at man who abused and raped two small children”
pissed*
What is in the title that makes it seem like anybody thinks it was unreasonable? Emotional does not mean unreasonable...
@@skyblue2708 Well, when it comes to women they get deemed as "emotional" when they're reacting appropriately.
@@potatosalad4779 nothing to do with sex oh my god. judges are always supposed to keep their cool and maintain a neutral view of things so their emotions don't get in the way of the final verdict.
that's why the word "emotional" was used in the title, since it's a rare thing for judges to do. and by the way i guarantee you can find many other videos of male judges with the word emotional on the title.
@@piopio2413 Right, but the title said "emotional" when the judge was reacting appropriately. It can be suggested that the word "emotional" was used because the judge happened to be a woman due to the western stereotype of women being "emotional" when they happen to react appropriately. Male judges can be emotional too but the context would be different; people wouldn't be upset, only more so if a woman gets called "emotional."
As a person who suffered abuse at 4 years old I applaud the judge for describing the impact these offenses leave with the victim. We need more judges like her.
“the children are our future. and if we’re destroying them we have no future!”
DAMN RIGHT !!!
XBOXRULES i already knew that. it’s the fact that many people ignore that we need to help this earth and kids grow and develop peacefully. i just am glad it was said
@XBOXRULES this isn't the place for sarcasm, stfu.
XBOXRULES don’t be a twat.
Which children is the question. Most children will grow up to losers in life. Fact
XBOXRULES i’m tryna be positive and u got sum up ur butt go eat sum chicken
"Judge gets emotional“ no, she is doing her job
@Multorum Unum bruh… you’re unprofessional
@Multorum Unum ur probably 14 trying to convince people that u know stuff more than ADULTS
@Multorum Unum I’ve seen it many times before. It is common and not seen as unprofessional in the slightest. Judges making statements in cases before issuing a sentence is pretty normal. It’s usually their reasoning for the sentence they are giving out.
@Multorum Unum that means ur point is wrong
@Multorum Unum yo, if you believe there is another valid opinion than ''DON'T ABUSE AND/OR GROOM CHILDREN'' let me tell you... you're WAY worse than ''unprofessional''.
I can tell she’s a mom. Just hearing her speak in that tone made me feel like I was in trouble lol
EVIL
alexandria Ramos lol serious
Nah, you can be that kickass by just being an empathic human. Doesn't require having kids. But I wish more moms were like her.
@@Coffeebean1985 so true
Good thing she is a mom! If she did not have children of her own, she surely would not have stood up for those kids with as much passion. And God forbid if the judge was a dad! I'm not even going there.
How could someone do that and only get 11 years for each victim? He should never see daylight again in his life.
She wanted to come ACROSS THAT DESK and I am HERE for it.
I mean if she didn't we wouldn't have seen anything right?
Justinitiative Uh oh mr lawyers out here
r mcallister here here.... job well done.
If I were there I’d turn a blind eye of the parents wanted a chance at this monster. Heck, I’d even add my own swings.
r mcallister while I’d donate to a patreon to pay her bail, even she recognized that any further and he could appeal. Even with this, if he can get a sympathetic judge, he has a slim chance of appeal. She toed to line to protect these girls but did her best to ensure that one day those girls will know at least one adult will protect them.
“There are no free rapes in my courtroom.”
Rock on! 👊🏻
Yeah ROCK HARD
Kristina B I wish all judges were like this....
Kristina B 🙏🏽
I wish every courtroom said that
God Bless you!
"I'm gonna tell you something, there's no such thing as a free rape in my courtroom."
That sentence conveyed so much anger, hatred, and emotion. This judge needs a raise.
Wait i have to pay?!
Hatred is what creates rapists
@Zero Tolerance
We have a justice system.
Considering she only gave him 22 years...thats doubtful.
@@dakotastein9499
Well, it's an old man. Also, he won't last long in prison, trust me.
I was raped when I was 6 by a 14 year old. I’m now 54 & I’ll carry it with me as long as I’m alive. NO CHILD should ever have to live with this kind of trauma 😔
Imagine EDP445 meeting and actual 13 yo
I'm so sorry =[ big hugs
@@kimmycupreacts thank you so much! 😘
@@beefy905 I know! I ended listening to your ideas
@@kimmycupreacts thank you so much I really appreciate it
She wasn't emotional. She was righteously angry. This man took something from these babies and they will never be the same. I'm grateful for her stand for justice.
isn’t angry an emotion? making her emotional?
@@silentsais Nothing wrong with being emotional in this way.
THANK YOU
Some rapists just get 9-18 months of prison
That is emotional, but there's nothing wrong with it. Emotions are traits within all animals
I love how she dug into him. She spoke for those little girls and their parents. And children in general. This is the kind of judge that all victims need. Someone that will stand and fight for them.
This is the type of judge that I'd like to be someday
@Adin Jones I plan on it! Thank you!
@@miki5152 We're all rooting for you! :D
@@rosaunolalintino thank you so much!! :D
@@miki5152 good luck on the journey man!
They have no idea... these children’s lives are CHANGED FOREVER.
They don't care
you have no idea.
ruined*
Tell about it. The consequences no matter what age never really heal. Sometimes it does I'm supernatural means but not completely
Perhaps a real good shanking in prison could be crowdfunded.
Thank you Judge. I am 80 years old and was molested at 5 years old. I was left with my father’s best friend and his wife. My mother was in the hospital dying of cancer. I still remember everything he did to me and have had much pain in my life because I could never trust a man. 🙏
God bless you. I'm so sorry this happened to you and that it happens to children every day in this world.
Prayers for your healing. ❤
“There are no free rapes in my courtroom.” And that’s why I’m graduating from law school next semester.
Awesome our world will be a better place when child predators will get more time then drug addicts!
proud of you!
Congratulations!
Looking forward to seeing more pedophiles being exposed to start saving children! God Bless and good luck on your journey in enforcing the law!
YES KING GET IT. PUNISH THOSE SATAN SPAWNS
Man ruin 2 children’s lives. 22 years is not enough. People that do this to anyone, especially children, should forfeit their life for what they’ve done.
He’s 70. He’ll likely die before he’s paroled.
Dont worry... there isnt a snoballs chance in hell he will make it out of prison alive.
i wish it was so small jist because it’s old but there’s 20-40 year olds that get only like 5-20 years for raping kids and teens. it’s so fucked that there’s people who actually get out of it alive.
ZackZack2002 they get partial karma in prison tho for real on the yard you immediately hear “lemme see your papers” and he’s done for OR he’s gonna be locked up in a special unit to protect him from being killed by the other inmates. It makes me so happy the murderers don’t tolerate child rape.
@@bugmakeshoney Which is why the prison guards separate them from the general population. They put them together with those who have acted as informants.
Let's stop relying on the scum of our society to handle these things and just handle it. No parole, no prison. Just a 9mm to the back of the skull... and tell them to be happy they're not being left alone in a room with the friends and family of the victim.
These type of offenses against children should carry a life sentence period.
damn right...!!
exactly, they should take his life..end of story
They should carry the death penalty. He'll be a free man sooner than you think. Our system is fucked.
Agreed!!!!!
If you can spend your life in prison for robbery or drugs then why the hell are these monsters getting out over and over to repeat their crimes!! A life for a life. Rape and molestation alter a life permanently therefore the perpetrator's life should also be altered permanently.
Just imagine how everyone in that courtroom feel. The second hand embarrassment, the anger, sadness. Knowing you have to sentence ppl like this for their crimes
She isn’t emotional, she is a logically thinking person who is fed up with adults taking advantage of defenseless children. God bless this woman.
Agree
Yell at this comment for saying women instead of woman if you have micro brain and is a loser
that is being emotional good or bad
@Aquatic Ape it is appropriate, I could see if she was screaming and swearing at him but she wasn’t, she was expressing her opinion towards the crime and his actions in a appropriate manner.
Does nobody in this comment section know the meaning of emotional?
Emotional?! No! She is a passionate and caring human being.
Awkward Twin lol
Passion and care are both emotions.
yeah that's what emotion means
“No she wasn’t emotional! She was just being emotional!”
Not everything has the connotation that you think.
Exactly.. Passion.. Not being emptional.
If someone ever did some shit like this to my daughter they wouldn’t get a chance to see a judge
And I wouldn't blame you!
Do that nobody would blame you for that. Then please don't get caught.
You are a great father!!!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 I totally agree
Agree
*_+infinite respect_*
How sad there are people like that!! Makes me sick to my stomach!! Sick man.Rot in prison!!!
I'm 58 years, old overweight, and out of shape, and my joints hurt so bad it makes it difficult to get around some days, but, I believe there's enough in me to literally beat the pure living hell out of somebody I was to ever run across doing something like this to a child. Hopefully prison will deliver some true Justice.
hell yeah man
Amen, I'm old, but right there with you! Where's my cane?!
There are alot of prison inmates put there who have children and love them he might get beat to death
@@k.lisaswensen9877 metal or wood lol
Amen
She is respectable.
The emotional part in the total isn’t for irrational.
It’s for she felt sick by what he did, so she gave him a sentence from the heart
That guy will get frontier justice in prison and I’m sure the judge knows it 😉
Kevin Reese
Let’s hope so!
Nah she's emotional because she's furious
You have to go back to school
Ya. She was great. Not emotional.
Absolutely no remorse in his face. Disgusting
The remorse is there, but not for the children. Just that he got caught
He was sad he got so much time. What a pos
he is a nasty guy
Don't believe that's a human standing there ... I feel sick.
@@joans6047 you need to believe it
22 years for a rapist is still absolutely ridiculous.(obviously)
She's not "emotional," she's livid and disgusted.
Edit - People. I know the definition of "emotional" and what an emotion is. My comment is simply about the use of "emotional" in connection with this video involving a female judge. "Emotional" has a negative connotation when associated with women.
That’s a specific type of emotional
Those are both emotions...
those are emotions
Well i was going to tell you thos are emotions but 4 others already did.
Yeah, they're emotions, but that word wouldn't have been used if this were a male judge.
When a person sexually abusesa child, he or she has ruined their life. Period.
Period and not only children
Meme Kirilov agreed
Don't talk about other people you dont know, some people can walk past incidents like this and move on in life.Not all are supposed to live a ruined life after something like this.
@Edie Beacon they said it cos they made a point they strongly agree
Exactly!
I don't know why she's being described as "emotional". She managed to keep her stability, despite speaking to a child abuser.
She was very well spoken.
@ASTROTHUNDER no she wasn't, writing that in the title implies someone's crying or something
Just cause she's female probably, pretty lame of the uploader
@@FoxBlack. what? the way she was speaking is definitely from the heart, and you could hear her voice somewhat cracking. how does this have to do with her being a female?
@@thegameradmin find me one video that's calling a man emotional when he's just disgusted with someone and not even crying.
@ASTROTHUNDER thank you for what? Not getting the point being made? This has nothing to do with her and everything to do with the uploader. Hope that clears things up for you
22 years? What happened to life without parole?
*4 and 6 year old?????? How could he do this to them, he's an evil*
“He’s an evil” 🤣
@@cornocob7144 real mature bro 👏
@@cornocob7144 what is there to laugh ?🤢
@@nathalie8497 sher’s way with words
@@nathalie8497 read his comment
“There are no free rapes in my courtroom” sent chills down my spine. Powerful. We need more judges like her.
He totally admitted thinking he was gonna get a "slap on the wrist" and be free to try again.
Could mean that he didn't bribe her enough to get off and so she's acting outraged about his "crimes". These luciferians infecting authority are actors, Biblical false prophets in sheep's clothing, but inside they're GOD / People hating ravening wolves. You have to Judge them by their fruit. I didn't even watch this video without access to others.....And if this judge IS legit she should be way more in the know about Pederasty and what causes it and be speaking out about it....John 3:16-21
@@andrewzentz8861 Don't bring religion into this, if you believe in god good no one cares but PLEASE don't come saying random things from the bible, i'm a christian myself but people like you are what makes us look bad. Please understand that not every person believes in the same things as we do.
@@Symphonyyrr The LORD rebuke thee satan. GOD commanded me to bring His GOSPEL everywhere I go. And I don't believe your claim of being a Christian at all. You sound more like a witch to me. Unless someone tells me "Jesus Christ is LORD" or "Jesus Christ came in the flesh to die for Mankinds' sins" both by The Holy Ghost, I don't believe they're a Christian. And GOD didn't call you to Judge me but GOD called me to Judge you and this country like Joseph, Moses, Joshua and Samuel before me so be still and keep your peace or GOD will surely take your peace from you. Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live. 1Samuel 15:23 For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the LORD, he hath also rejected thee from being king. John 3:16-21 p.s. GOD is capitalized ALWAYS but god is only used for lucifer and fallen angels the "gods" of this world so that shows me the "god" you worship, bitch.
I really like this judge. She advocated for the victims during her sentencing remarks, which is rare. God bless you Judge!
Constance Smith We can hope other inmates do their own version of sentencing with this guy.
@@Chief2Moon no. Death would be merciful
Constance Smith yes!!
Prison justice...he's not leaving on 2 feet.
I could only concentrate on the open bottle on her table. Afraid it's gonna fall and spill. Also she's a queen.
His wife should be in jail too.
He has evil eyes and I'm not just saying that because of his sentence. He has mean eyes. Real mean.
I wasn't thinking he had evil eyes. Cowardly came to mind.
Imagine that in a tank top and cargo shorts. Disgusting.
...just eyes...I can't see anything particular in them...
Eyes are the windows to the soul.
@Gregg Exactly
She is NOT emotional... she is speaking her mind and heart and TRUTH.
That's still emotions/emotional. It's not a negative comment to say she is emotional.
SHE'S VERY EMOTIONAL. But in this case, it's not a bad thing
She IS emotional and that’s OKAY and UNDERSTANDABLE. I am too. I am a woman too. Why are all these fucking comments acting like she wasn’t emotional or saying it’s a bad thing or making it a gender issue Jesus fuckign Christ. She’s rightfully upset and appalled at what that monster did, as are most of us in these comments
@@curious1053 and you're HYPER argumentative...get some counseling for that.... YES, she was emotional and there's not a thing wrong with that, esp. for something like this. You on the other hand have a serious problem with liking to argue excessively.
@@patriciax3677 Kai was trolling that’s why he made his comment. Typical from cyber bullies that have some real life frustrations and then take it out on others on social media
This is what a judge should be. This woman is brilliant at her job. There is real passion in her voice. She genuinely cares.
Dani G i suspect she likes red wine and whisky
@@timothywait9457 she is a classy woman
@@timothywait9457 what's her name
@@melikakhademian5178 Dennise i think
@@HarryPotter-om7zg she reminds me of Professor Magonigal
I am so happy this judge let out her feelings!! Thank you 🙏 ❤️
What’s disgusting is he looks like he doesn’t regret anything
He only regrets getting caught
Only that he got caught.
And that's why I personally support the death penalty. Life in prison is something I think many criminals could live with. Charles Manson seemed to get by well, he even got fans and groupies. He was famous and enjoyed it while in prison. There is nothing more terrifying in my mind than knowing when you are going to die. A life is still a life even if it's in prison. He wouldn't mind a lifetime of 3 meals a day, hot showers and healthcare provided by and paid by our tax dollars.
But imagine this man realizing he will be executed in a year? I know that's not how it exactly works, but the sentencing should be swift as possible imo. But the fear of having your life cut short? You'll die anyways, but having your life cut short is a different story. This man would be shaking in court. All the regret will start pouring out. And potential child rapist would see this and will now have to weigh their options down to committing another crime against a child or death. I bet that if child rapist were given the death penalty many rapes would be deterred, in fact many heinous crimes would be deterred. Life in prison doesn't phase to sick people, nor spending a few decades.
Hell get his in prison.
He will when he meets his cell mate
“This court is so sick and tired of seeing adults ruin and abuse children.” She has worded it better than any of us could ever do especially under that much emotional pressure. 0:36
Aww my God ... then she expressed the ages of the children. My lord my heart.
I don't consider rapists adults or even human for that matter. Totally different type of breed.
@@cybercaptain9346 Nope, accepting the facts are #1. #2 is the rule of law enforcement to human beings who are not caught earlier because nobody wanted to be involved.
You and I see bad behaviors that we ignored. Now, speaking up is the American way to live up to those ASPERATIONS of our constitutional democratic Republic duties to involved yourself. Protect every citizens rights from terrorists and the Republican insurrectionist party.
But then only gives him 11 years a piece lol how are bud dealers from 10 years ago getting more time for weed
@@kingluithe1st she doesnt make the laws, she can only enforce them
I was 8 years old when I got raped....and when she said the children were 4 and 6, I immediately got chills down my spine. This woman is the voice for those children who cannot speak for tthemselves. For those who are scared to speak up, for fear of it getting worse. May this woman be protected at all costs and God bless 🙌
That is heart breaking I am so sorry that happen to you have my complete sympathy
It's mind blowing that anybody could ever do such a thing.
God bless and I hope you fully recover.
Hope you are well …… child rapists are the worst possible criminals ……
LoL
@@andersgale9544 What is so funny?
@@andersgale9544 How is this funny?
If this has happened to my daughter. This man would have never made it to a courtroom.
I love this judge she was furious. I wish she'd have given him life.
Don't you mean "Death" ...
She did! He won't last long in prison and may even get his butt karma.
Judge cant give life sentence, The Law states that all these children are worth is 11yrs incarceration, he only got 22yrs because there were two girls. The archaic laws need to change!
I don't think he deserved being called "Sir".
You’re 100% correct. I think she had to though.
when we call people monsters or animals, we risk forgetting that he is a person.a real living man did this. we don't get to divorce his humanity from our own and pretend that this is something we only need to look out for in monstrous people because odds are, it's our neighbours, our brothers, our fathers who do this to young children. calling him sir reminds us that in daily life, he's probably someone we would give that respect to without knowing what's underneath.
Being professional at all times is hard in certain jobs
@@RapidObsessor that's an interesting thing I've never thought about. Actually thank you for writing this
@@RapidObsessor people who duck young children are not humans . The fact that you and others are liking this comment makes me second guess which side you’re on. If I could vomit into your mouth I would right now. Are you a parent ? Have you been awaken and felt what it’s like to create pure actual innocence? I’m not talking working with kids or babysitting your nieces. Your comment has to come from a place of pure ignorance.
I was 7 years old when I was sexually assaulted. I can confirm the ramifications last a lifetime. It took me 22 years to forgive him, after decades of hating myself and hating him. When I started dating, I was pertrified of being touched (not sexually, but something as simple as pushing my hair behind my ear or wrapping an arm around me). I still can’t go to the gynocologist without hyperventilating, and vomiting during pelvic exams. They have warnings on my medical record that I was sexually assaulted and doctors have to be warned by staff that I am a victim of a senseless crime. When I get married - if I get married. My husband will have to pay for someone else’s crime when I have panic attacks when we try to be intimate. I wanted to die for the longest time and used to ask God “why couldn’t he have killed me? Then I wouldn’t have to suffer!” Sometimes something sets me off, and I panic. But I’m still here and still alive.
I'm very sorry to hear that. No one deserves to go through this. I really hope things become better for you.
This is why we need to protect our kids.
This story is WAY too common this happens more than you know
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope you can live a life free of pain one day.
Mine start when I was a baby. I remember being fondled even at 1 or 2 years of age in my nappy it got worse and real at 6 and continued until I escaped with help from a friend at 22... my family knew and my mother abused n defended the abusers too. It happendd by more than one person. The people who support me now sound like they want to validate my reality but then they say things like I work in a panel like this of abuse against children and they have had it worse than you have...
It is clear they see me as a case file even though I'm not theirs
And their mother got two men to rape them while she held them down.
I honestly have not even had the time or chance to feel out fully all that was done to me over the 22 years trapped in abuse. There were a lot of things done to me. Every single day of my life. I'm still unravelling and remembering things even today. 10 years on. For one of the many abuse. My mother knew about the abuser and on purpose left me to his way when I was only 6 and then mocked humiliated and ridiculed and slapped and blamed me for it in front of the whole family. She then also left me a lone after school where I was almost kidnapped and then again she also left me to drown in swimming pool and then left her new man my stepdad have his way with me and my baby sister and defended them and protected them calling us liars n out to get the family. She knew what happened between another abuser and one of my older sister and told me she was going to let it happen. A mother does not need to hold a child down to let them be abused. Plus that the most beatings and psychological abuse I recieved was from my mother and my sexual abuser. I do not see now how my experiences can measure to anothers they are mine n I have to live it every day for the rest of my life the so called support who minimised my suffering does not. I do not see now how the one she mentioned is not similar to mine just coz my mother did not hold me down. She is too clever for that. She knows how to cover her behaviours in a way to get away with her own abuse. She knows how to manipulate and psychologically mess you up too. And she knew how to fool tbe authorities. Disgusting things she did to her baby daughter and her young daughter to defend her love and sons. Twisted things she did to convince the police. Things no mother should ever put an abused child through for sake of the abusers she shows are more important to her. If throwing your kids out to the wolves are not just as bad as what my support claims is worse than mine. I guess people need to have gone through it to understand the damage and scar and how mixed up and psychological messed up and undeveloped one is....
The only difference is I was not rescued from it as a child and had a defense... I was all alone helpless scared trapped self loathing and being further injured every day until I grew into 22 body though I had the mind of a 6 year old... others could not see that... they used it against me either by gain or by further abuse... how I long to have the family this support has and still has. She goes off to visit her siblings and parents that are still alive. Having come from an upbringing that helped her develop balanced and the way it should have been I suppose... my other support complains about her mother still making her home cooked meals. And having to take it to be polite. What a miserable family and parent she must have. To look down on me. I wish I can tell them swap places then if you think you understand my experiences and do not know how real my only experiences are... I can never know what it is to have a normal healthy mother and upbringing and family. I was raised alone I raised myself. N the only normal thing I did in the only freedom I was given was to protect my vulnerable siblings from harm which of course being a kid I failed at. But one is free now. One does not want to be free maybe is too brainwashed to stay n be abused that way. I do not understand her reasons to stay she keeps claiming it is her room she does not want to leave her bedroom she has only ever known. Shrugs no idea why that matters when you are being sexually and mentally n physically abused every day to be honest. She is older than me. But she also told me to die basically for trying to get her out of the abuse. Because I've made her life worse. She often says things she does not mean for other reasons but she wouldn't tell me why she chose to stay there. Really we got her out and she went right back there. Baffles me to this day. My friend said she is brainwashed by the abusers. But I can not see that. She is not that dumb. Anyway
I had been making my own abuse so little and everyone elses so big over mine for 29 years. Then after my only friend showed his true colours he was taking advantage of my position to control and abuse me hoping to get sexual advances eventually. Which when he knew I wouldn't bend for his tune he got angry and showed his true colours. Which I never gave him instead I cut him off. Then not long after my baby sister abused me for the last time out of her silly teen envy of me. I grew harder and colder. I trusted no one. At all. N cut everyone on n put me first. I had done work on my voice self esteem self worth self view inner voice over 6 years n then I worked on my flashback n truamas hearing and validating them. I had no one else there for me until my support friend got involved to defend me against support that way threatening me and coercion and using fear to control me. The same support who were not there for me whenever I reached out for help. So she fought my cases and got me my safety and human rights back... but I'm tired of fighting those who are suppose to support hear trust respect validate etc my suffering is minimized constantly n I'm treated like a child with no rights one minute and a capable criminal adult for not being. Able to cope and manage like I'm without any disabilities the next.
I do not expect them to understand but if people just treated survivors like the judge did in this video. They would not spend their life being further blamed shamed violated and treated like the cause and squashed or dismissed without compassion for what they live with for the rest of their lives. It takes a life time to even heal developed unravel it in the first place before we can Express it. So even if others stop minimizing our experiences based on what you think you know or understand about us. You have no lived in our footsteps and you have no lived our experiences and developed through it nor have you any idea all that has happened that we have no expressed to you. And even when we talk about it we minimize it ourselves we don't need you doing it too. Treating us like we are seeking sympathy and needing to squash us back down. We need it heard felt and validated before it becomes big and real for our brains to develop and heal past it.
What the woman in this video said is what we need.
I hate that they called her emotional. She was passionate and yet objective
She's emotional because she's a woman . A male judge would be called passionate
It is emotional. Because she’s feeling emotion. If she wasn’t feeling emotion I’d be upset. I understand that it is a kind of sexist way for them to phrase it but it’s not wrong
@@ashleyunderwood1574 precisely
@@maxlee2523 exactly why do people have to be so sensitive if you don't use the word they feel comfortable with it's a worrrrdddddd how TF does that hurt you physically or financially?
nothing wrong with emotions
I was abused at 7 and it haunts me, I try not to think about it but once in a while it creeps back into my brain. Watching something like this brings it all back...