The Reoccurring Ex | Cuffing Season | (Part 1) | Jerry Flowers
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- One of the ways hell interferes with our becoming process is by the return of an EX!
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What God sends WILL NOT BE TOXIC. I claim this for all of my fellow sisters in Christ as well as for myself amen 🙏🏾.
Amen!!!!
Amen.
AMEN 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes fellow sister Amen 🙏
Amen I received it and agreed with u too for all of us in Jesus Christ name
This is so funny bcuz my ex keeps trying to come back in my life and everytime God continues to show me why I had to let go.
“Never risk trying to repair someone who is breaking you” THATS A WHOLE WORD !
Woah!!! I needed this message! Thank you!
Babyyyyyy🙌🏽
My ex has returned. I understand that when it is sent by God it will not be toxic. It will not be proud, it will not be rude. AMEN
My ex who left me and got married showed up a year before God led me to my husband. He was now a divorcee and he felt it necessary to tell me. Thank God i had allowed God to lead me and i was obedient enough to trust and follow Him ALL THE WAY. I got married within 8 months of meeting my now husband. God is definitely in our future today! Trust HIM!
Jamellia: u just blessed me .. I’ve been crying soooo many tears becuz my ex who keeps me emotionally attached to him, married someone else.
@@lovingtheagapeway5554 He did you a favour! Now don't be fooled you can't just get over just like that because believe it or not that emotional tie is a soul tie that needs to be broken. As Christ said "some of these only come out by prayer and fasting." You gotta start doing that as it's the only way to be delivered from him. Time alone WILL NOT help. Be specific with God. Ask him by his blood and power to break every covenant you made with that ex primarily the activation of the soul tie that occurred through the act of fornication. Confess your sins. Everything will be ok if you Trust God to take you down the path he planned for you. Expect to not understand everything he does to get you there though. It's a faith walk.
@@jamjelliful Thank you so much for ur encouraging words!!. Continue to minister what’s in ur heart .. it’s changing lives!!.
Loving The Agape Way I’m sorry you’re going through this heartache. Trust me I know somewhat of how that feels. Just remember that’s God’s way of saying - I have someone even better for you. But you need to trust in my plan for you wholeheartedly. God bless you.
@@kerogiii I receive those words wholeheartedly.. thank you so much.
I deleted and removed the contacts. Social media and everything of the 2 most important people I once loved and cared about. I wanted to screenshot it before I actually deleted their things but then I fought myself and said no I have to remove them for good I am done. I felt like I was getting a mini panic attack but I breathed through it and reminded myself that it's best like this.
“Evolve so hard that you have to reintroduce yourself”!
That part!!!!!
Amen!!!
Amen!!!!
Preach sis! That needs to be a statement to live by!!!
@@Alicia-sw6zx okay ! A whole motto !
I had to go ghost on my ex. I tried several times to leave peacefully and each time I was guilt tripped into sticking around. I was manipulated into allowing him to talk to me on his terms and dangle the word “relationship” in my face. Broken promises and no effort of wanting to heal himself. After he treated me poorly , I do not feel bad for cutting ties and creating a safe space for my own healing. Getting away from toxicity is not always pretty conversations, and it’s rare to get closure. I was the ghoster but for legitimate reasons and that was mainly to heal and get away from a person who brought me down. He tried controlling my life and everyone around me saw it.
Same situation sis. Praying for healing.
God bless you❤🙏
“The reason that they went ghost is because the real them was about to show themselves.” Listen this word is speaking volumes to me.
One tried coming back @ the beginning of this year (January 2021 to be exact) and i had been in therapy, praying more, and embarking on my feminine journey. He said and I quote "I miss our convos." He didn't miss me. Thank God for my discernment because all it took was 2 phone calls for me to understand that he had not changed one bit and still in that same toxic and manipulative mindset. Happy to report that he is blocked on all platforms and his number is no longer in my phone. I have no interest to see how he's doing and what he's been up to. God showed out that day. Thank you for your words and God truly is good!
“WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO IS GOING TO BLOW MY MIND!.. BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED” 🔥🔥🙌🏾
Amen amen 🙏🙏🙏
This the one ☝️ 🔥
He said turf 😯 wonderful message
I was about to sign up for online dating again because honestly I’ve been really lonely 😞 but this message made me examine why I feel the need to seek a man when the man I really need a relationship with is God! I was about to become distracted by someone who would probably “Ghost” me and have me feeling worse about myself. So I’m glad to dive into these Cuffing Season Sermons because I’m sure there is a breakthrough in these messages for me! 🙌🏾
I deleted my online account....it was actually the same men in different bodies lol...I realized no matter what...God just wanted me to swipe right on Him....and not them...since then my life has been so much better
I always created dating accounts and i think the Holy spirit was making me delete them. It never felt right. I finally gave up and handed everything to God to choose for me
“As long as you keep entertaining what pharaoh has, you won’t be able to receive what Yahweh is giving” I’m so ready for this rest of series man 😩.
This was a bomb 👌🏼
I love how he said ex does not have to be a person. No I think addictions do come in the form of a person. Gotta break these soulties and strongholds. Absolutely no more.
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“If we follow our heart, we’ll go back to the very places God has brought us out of”
Amen sis
We must remember n be obedient
This is the truth!!!!
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I have hollered “SIR!” more times than I can count at this point. Pastor Flowers, your gift is so strong, your focus is clear, and you have a much needed bridge to an age group that may have otherwise been unreachable. I’m praying for you, your wife, and you all’s ministry to enlarge, to grow, to transform.
The one person that disliked this is the “reoccurring ex” 😂🤣😂🤣
😂 I agree Omgoodness
Elma Star definitely 🤣🤣
TRUE
8 reoccurring exes 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
i need to get out of this toxicity.. God is helping. it hurts.
Stop re saving a contact you deleted..😪😪😪 Lord Jesus give us strength.
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Sasha Mastani story of my life 😭
@@Britney_StLouis I feel you girl... but let's always remember why we deleted it. God dont send us toxic men!!! We got this girl 💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@@rammy1017 you're sure right! 🙏🏽💕
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Gurl I needed to hear that 😂😂😂
I’m a little annoyed at how much this convicted me😭😂🤣
Your reply made me laugh and I know this is real talk for you.
juanyel white Oh it is. It really is 🥴🎄
Pastor Flowers, I’ll be honest. I’m 28 and struggle a lot with dating/abandonment/ father issues. I’ve been watching your series with my mom who’s 68 since July and they’ve helped us BOTH so much. All of your sermons are extremely timely, spot on and encouraging to me! Sometimes I swear you’re out here spying on my life 😂 Thank you deeply for pouring out your gifts, they’re helping us go to war with the enemy all the way over here in Orlando FL.
Checkout Tony Gaskins/ Pastor RCBlakes. You'll love him. I got the book" Father/Daughter Talk.
WHATGODISABOUTTO DO IS GONNA BLOW MY MIND,BUT IT REQURES MY OBEDIENCE
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Look at God
The NUMBER 1 reason people ghost you is because you’re too real !!!!! PREACCCCHHHHHH 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I texted my friend last week saying that I was tired of casually dating and would remain single until God sent me someone when it is time. Twelve hours later, my ex called me in the middle of the night on a Tuesday. We hadn't spoken in several months. Not going to lie, it took me a few steps back in my healing process. I definitely do not want him back though. I am so glad my friend sent me this video.
"This is not my storm. Return to sender." My God 🤣🤣🤣
When you’re interested you’ll do what’s convenient, When you’re committed you’ll do what it takes 🙌🏾
Amen
Yes
Word💯
This!!!!
That’s right !
You are definitely talking to me! I had deleted and re-saved the same contact person for the pass 6 years...Always at the 1 1/2 year mark like clock work we are talking again about nothing worth talking about... I need deliverance from my reoccurring ex and I am getting it this year in Jesus Christ Name 🙏🏾
Pastor Flowers said in this message When your close to "LEVELING UP" he will send counterfeit to see if you have changed. I've recently had a counterfeit try to take me back to my old ways. And I quickly hit "RETURN TO SENDER". I've grown so much in the last two years that Flesh don't excite me anymore.
pushaman07 “...flesh don’t excite me no more.” Wow! AMEN!
@@Britney_StLouis At some point a man has to have zipper control and see what GODS plan is for him. I ask the women would she date herself right now. She replied no and we hadn't talked since.
@@pushaman07 wow, that's truly inspiring. Continue being on the right track!
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Yes! Exactly 💯
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO IS GOING TO BLOW MY MIND; BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED.
God never delivers mess, He delivers Us from a mess!
"Being aware of the timing can cause us to be aware of the sender."
This hit...my ex recently just popped up in my text messages after going ghost for a period of time....All praises to the Most High for this message....not a coincidence 😌
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Samething just happened to me today....🤔🤔🤦
@@glamupinfaith7329 happened to me yesterday...smh
This happened to me to just this week on Tuesday around midnight my ex turned up on my doorstep after going ghost 4 months ago. I didnt let him.... he kept knocking and i didnt answer. He eventually left
Just the other day an old ex of mine contacted me again. And the scripture from exodus also came to me and immediately in my spirit I knew that the interaction wasn’t necessarily healthy for both of us. He called to tell me how happy he was with his new gf and I think he did that cos he thought I was emotionally stuck or wanted to make me jealous and I think I was for a long time but this time I felt free and didn’t feel the need to entertain this yo-yo relationship anymore coz I’m in such a good place I ain’t got time for people who are in war with themselves cos I’d never call my ex to tell them I’m happy 😆 that’s just creepy! So I blocked him and kept it moving
“An ex is anything or anyone that held you hostage.”
“Have your feet moved but your heart hasn’t.” If you follow your heart you’ll keep going back.
This happened to me, I can testify. I wasn't obedient, and I suffered because of it. The price was not worth it.
I have 66 love letters. If I got nothing else from this sermon, this is all I need.
"This will not cause me to need therapy, NOT when it's God!". Amen
Lmaiooooo...
With Gods Blessings it addeth no sorrow. It comes with confirmation and peace of mind.
I left social media alone. I am on UA-cam, but I'm not on anything else. And I'm trying to stay away. I haven't lost anything by not engaging in Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter, or whatever the case maybe.
Ladenna Young same! Nothing but a bunch of fake people livings lies. We’re better off with UA-cam because at least we can learn and grow 💯
@@setapartaay925 Amen to that
@@setapartaay925 Lol. That can be true about the fake lives. Have a blessed evening.
We are on the same boat! I don’t feel like I’m missing anything, and quite frankly I have more time now because I’m not aimlessly scrolling through all those apps. Yes, I have UA-cam, however I feel like it can be an educational tool compared to the other ones.
Wow I thought I was the only one who thought like this. I’ve been off all those things for five months now. And I’ve been very productive with my time. UA-cam is an amazing platform for learning and growing.
“WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO WILL BLOW MY MIND BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED!“ 🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧🤧
“Comfort zones and callings will never be romantically involved.”
This was so on point and timely. Moving forward.
This is not my issue, my trauma, my problem, or my storm. RETURN TO SENDER in the name of Jesus Christ!
I HAVE A NEW SERVICE PROVIDER!!!!
Don’t make me throw this phone, sir!!!
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Kenya Hollins OKAY 😂
Yes mine is thrown! Lol
I don't have to get wet from a storm that's not mine!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾✍️🏾✍️🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥RETURN TO SENDER❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is not my storm RETURN TO SENDER. I don’t have to get wet from a storm that is not mines!
Dang girl i see u lol..
He lived off of my peace love and joy . Wow
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO IS GOING TO BLOW MY MIND, BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED!
Never been more excited to NOT look back again. I’m getting stronger every day. I deserve better he deserve better. I hope they doing well. Thank you for your video. I’m not mad, bitter. I do hurt sometimes but I know deep down my God has me covered. I will get through this time. Working on my relationship w/ the lord and my relationship w/ myself...
My ex literally just came by my house out of nowhere last weekend. I seen him driving by a few times before but he drove by 2 miles an hour with his windows down. I just looked at him & didn't say anything to him. I have only been with him one time since Oct 31st 2017. That was February in of 2019. I was through with him for good after that day. We don't call each other or see each other but he keeps randomly driving by. Another ex of mine saw me and tried to get my number. I know the enemy sent them. I'm like "Get behind thee Satan".
They'll sure to follow after us. It's the enemy.
What God is about to do is about to blow my mind !!!!!!!!
I wish more preachers would bring a sermon similar to what young adults are facing, you know? Instead they give us a soothing sermon, but this...is RAW🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
True story...they give us feel good messages...or only talk about the blessing without the lesson..
Jerry ima need a sermon for single moms now.
You are an amazing preacher.
I had fell astray from God, been depressed for so long, thank you!! Therapy Thursday I am in front of my tv all night with my kids.
If yall know a sermon where he is directly speaking to single women. Comment below
"You gave them life." This whole sermon hit home, but this quote was exactly spot on.
Yes it was🙂
You can’t out run you, eventually the real you will make it’s DEBUT!
This message came in Perfect TIMING 💯💯💯💯💯
The Timing is the key sister!!❣️
"What God is about to do is going to blow my mind but obedience and applied principals are required"
This isn’t my storm, my issue, trauma, return to sender
Watching this, I realized that I am the problem 🙁 I’m the one who will “ghost” etc.
It is the main reason why I broke up
With my BF because I just had some
Issues I needed Jesus to resolve. Wow this was so good and such an eye opener 😳
I've never heard beautiful words like this before. No relationship coaches have ever spoken like this. I've been ghosted after 9 months. He went through some trauma when he lost his parents 5 years apart. I know he is hurt and lost... He covers his emotions well. I was too real for him.
Well, im glad u found this channel. Mr. Flowers is definitely sent from Christ, he teaches the word in a way that young adults can understand, and so many relate
That is because he is a pastor anointed by God to minister in this area. A mere relationship coach is not going to go into arena. Majority of them are not seeking God to lead them. They are just giving advice based on what they went through, or whatever the case maybe. They only speak on a surface level.
@@ladennayoung2939 woe, so true!
He may have been hurt, but he used that as an excuse to do you any kind of way. Seek and put God first. Love on God first and foremost. When you surrender to Him then you will see your self worth, you will refuse to settle, you will love yourself, and set boundaries. God bless you and yours in Jesus name. Remember don't fall for their tricks, lies, and excuses. That is a ploy from the enemy to keep you bound in a relationship that is not of benefit to you whatsoever. Walk with your head held high, and know that you are the daughter of a king. And that He have someone better for you. But He wants to heal you deeply first. Get out of your own way, and let Him do the work that is needed.
“You risk trying to repair someone who’s breaking you.” Whew Chile’... I’ve tuned in a few times over the years but now I’ve subscribed. 🙏🏾✨💕
I just meet my ex today and we haven't spoken since I broke it off for Jesus to work on me 🙌, he hasn't called me at all and now after seeing me he called I was like so you still have my number? Now 4 hours later am listening to this wooo wooo wooo hallelujah thank you Holy spirit. Damm this is good.
when you are interested you do what is convenient, when you are committed you will do what it takes... Hallelujah
Just rebuked my past and present then gave me wisdom for my future
WHAT GOD SENDS WILL NOT BE TOXIC🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥✍️🏾✍️🏾✍️🏾❤️❤️❤️
What God is about to do it’s gonna blow My mind..
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO, IS GONNA BLOW MY MIND! BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED! 🙌🏾💯
Stop re-saving a contact that has already been deleted🔥
Your sermons are so timely!🙌🏾 Jesus is definitely using you. With love from South Africa 🇿🇦 🙏🏾
What God’s about to do is gonna blow my mind but obedience and applied principles are REQUIRED! 👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO IS GOING TO BLOW MY MIND, BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED
Wow, my ex just contacted me this week. God is so good and knows what He is doing. Always on time
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@@jessyshyne1154 I don't want my ex back
"When you spend so much time monitoring them, you can lose sight of you." Wow that's a whole word! God's timing is never too late or too early. Its always right on time! Praise God. I pray for healing, peace and forgiveness. Forgiveness is a gift for you not for them.
Thank you for that last line you commented. It struck a cord in me. God really works in mysterious ways. God richly bless you🙏🏾
@@annishab5597 You are very welcome. Thank you, I recieve that 💖
He just texted just when I decided to go deeper in ministry
"What God is about to do is going to blow my Mind. But obedience and applied principles are required."
Comfort zone and calling will never be romantically involved .. OMG can I get a witness.
Janet Mutua 🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏾♀️I can testify to this too!
"Everybody says they want something real until they meet someone that requires for them to be real'.." "You are too real" Wheww thank you God, I definitely need to hear this!
AMEN!! Wish I had heard this a year ago before I got back in contact with my ex. I'd grown so much, gained so much confidence, and made so much progress, thinking I'd be ready for anything... Now, right as I'm making big steps towards God's calling for my life, that ex is making my life MISERABLE. Deep in my conscience I feel wrong about trying to keep the "friendship" going, but every time I try to tell him I want to end this he gives me some excuse. THEN he keeps bringing up the girl he broke up with me for!! He's been chasing her for literally TEN YEARS and she won't even date him!! (That's a sign right there!) I need to end this, but I don't know the best way. Do I tell him, or just block outright? I'm tired of the distractions and want to get my ministry going! Thank you so much for this message, Pastor Flowers! God bless
I hope you just blocked him 😂
In situations like that I would encourage you to give no warning, block him and run for your life in the spirit.
Go with God my sister. Blessings and peace be upon you in Jesus Christ name 🙏🏽✨
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO IS ABOUT TO BLOW MY MIND, BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED.
I’ll be real and say I AM that REOCCURRING EX I ended a situation I had with an ex in the beginning of the year that I knew that wanted to be w/ me still and marry me. And now that he’s engaged and happy I constantly have the desire to reach out. But because I stay prayed up I KNOW where it’s coming from. It’s hard. I want him happy and I want him happy with someone who wants him. I’m a Christian he was a Jehovah witness. So I’m glad he’s with someone who he’s equally yoked with. But man .. smh
When you're interested you'll do what's convenient but when you're commented you'll do what it takes! Love this
When you're interested you'll do what is convenient, when you're committed you'll do what it takes 👏👏👏🔥🔥
What God is about to do is about to blow my mind, but obedience and applied principle are required
I don't have a scalp left. Cuzzzz this came in like a tsunami
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO IS GOING TO BLOW MY MIND, BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED! HALLELUJAH! THANK YOU JESUS!!!!!!!
Noticing the timing reveals the sender 🔥🔥🔥🔥
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO, IS ABOUT TO BLOW MY MIND!
Let me just say since I started listening I have been bless with the messages that God has laid on your heart to share but this one right here hit me so hard and now I soooooooooo understand why my “Ex” keeps coming back you guys are awesome pray I can visit your church one day you just don’t know how you are impacting the world keep God First always we are listening and applying 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
WHAT GOD IS GOING TO DO IS ABOUT TO BLOW MY MIND!
I’m so glad I’m fasting as I’m listening to this. This message is hitting me so much more profoundly and is much needed now. I knew something was going on with this recurring ‘exes’ theme in my life for years. Esp when he said an ex is not just a person. I felt that deeply in my core.
I'm laughing so hard because my Step Dad always says "Return to sender" when he is sick of entertaining my daughter 😂
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO IS GOING TO BLOW MY MIND BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED
What God is about to do is going to blow my mind but obedience and apply principles are required
Interested - You Do wat is convenient, Committed You Do what it takes🔥🔥🔥 wow amazing.
What God is about to do, Is going to BLOW MY MIND!!!!!!!!!!
Following callings comes with farewells 👏👏👏👏
I need you to revolve so hard that you have to reintroduce yourself… Teach Pastor Jerry Flowers
This random dude tried to get me to go out with him by saying, but it's getting ready to be the holidays. Smh. I was like ah no, and I drove off.
“What God is about to do is gonna blow my mind , but obedience and applied principles are required “
This is very accurate. A gu that has slandered my name and called me things I was not and lied on me was the same one that said he "trusts me more than anyone else". One of my exes could care less about me but always talked about how he could not get over me, could not replace me, or thought of me daily or often while I do not. This ex just wants my services. Another ex that routinely went ghost in our 2 year relationship still says that they trust me...Jesus has shown me these men's colors and they keep trying to come back but yet sadly have not changed. Do not entertain an ex. They are an ex for a reason.
“ What God is about to do is going to blow my mind… but obedience and apply principles are required!”
“What God is about to do is gonna blow my mind, but obedience and applied principles are required.” Pastor Jerry Flowers. I am so excited for this new series!!
WHAT GOD IS ABOUT TO DO IS GOING TO BLOW MY MIND; BUT OBEDIENCE AND APPLIED PRINCIPLES ARE REQUIRED🎉🎉🎉