A man loves you when: 1. He gives you his vulnerable/ flawed self. 2. He challenges you 3. He expands you 4. He helps you detox 5. He can lead you 6. He sacrifices for you 7. He covers you 8. He complements you. Rich teaching on today Pastor Jerry, blessings.
Three types of men: 1. Self made - a loner, introvert, he treats you like a man, self-taught, don't believe in counseling. 2. Culture made - love you based how he was shaped by culture: music, tv, etc. Inconsistent. 3. Kingdom made - he understands love is sacrifice, covering, provision, Jesus dependent, and heals.
This young man is God sent everything he said was so true and if more men with take off that Shield and open up the fact that they need to be taught we wouldn't have better men soldiers in the army of the Lord that was a beautiful message and I thank God for you brother amen
Some of my exes were not Kingdom men. Many were bruised, broken, spiritually castrated and trying to play Kingdom because they saw I wouldn’t entertain anything but Kingdom. But you can only fake Kingdom for so long. Jesus will help you discern spirits in men and will rescue you from the sons of Pharoah if you allow Him to.
I have a girlfriend who is married to her husband and he was raised catholic and she is a Christian and when I tell you this man loves and adore her and is willing to sacrifice anything for her and her children that aren’t even his., but he doesn’t know who Christ is. Would he still be considered as not knowing how to love her? I have asked her questions and she loves her husband very much because of the way he treats her and loves her and her children.
@@unique_bydesign as he should Catholics believe in Jesus Christ they read the same bible but the love of Christ endures, forgives daily , Fruits of the Spirit is evidence this type of love Never Dies, so I pray for your friend and her husband when the trials and tribulations come knocking at the marriage door but they can still love each other like Christ loves us
A kingdom man: 1. Gives you his vulnerable self: his fears, inadequacies, his flawed self. 2. He challenges you 3. He expands you 4. He helps you detox 5. He can lead you 6. He sacrifices for you 7. He covers you 8. He complements you
This is a great season to be single in, God is giving us fresh word left and right!! Thank you Lord for looking out for your children that are single and waiting on you Lord 🤍
I am a 19 y/o male and man, Pastor Flowers has been a blessing for me. I started watching him back in March and he has changed my whole prospective on a lot of things. I pray that God keeps using him and keeps blessing his family. Thanks!!!
My Kingdom man leads me. He sacrifices for me. He is willing to be inconvenienced for my benefit. He secures me emotionally. I am able to talk to him more than to my girlfriends. 🙏🏼 Thank you Lord for your all your blessings. Amen 🙏🏼
Ladies! Don't be a quarrelsome woman. The tongue is the smallest member of the body, but can be the most deadliest part. We must learn to keep quiet when God tell us to be quiet. We have to learn how to speak life. Lord bless us to speak life in the mighty name of Jesus. Lord help us to learn how to submit ourselves to you completely while we are single. So, we can be the help mate that you designed us to be in marriage in Jesus name. AMEN and AMEN!!! Hallelujah! Thank you Lord Jesus. Amen and Amen.
Yeap that part! Warning to ALL ladies, most women won't be able to handle that kind of LOVE. Because it is TRUE LOVE it runs deep, very STRONG & POWERFUL. You MUST have God within to understand it & to be able to accept it. Otherwise, you will RUN from it. #FACTS
"The quality of man is directly related to the quality of his counsel!" 💯 Who's in your ear? Who is leading you? "If you allow your mind, emotions and your thought patterns to be your guide and counsel, pain is eminent!" 💯
Learned this in my last relationship and I continuously thank the Holy Spirit for getting me together to stand in the Holy word and not in this world’s compromised values/words.
@@ladennayoung2939 Thank you so much!!! Your picture is pretty too Queen! 👑 We are daughters of the Most High...Have a blessed day full of Favor and Love!
“ You have to learn how to NOT respond to what you’re not” amen to that ! Everyone don’t deserve a response! Once you know who you truly are/ called to be you’ll understand everything don’t need a response
"Forgiveness doesn't mean re-entry". "I will not allow pain to own the pen of my story". "You have to learn to not respond to what you're not". "If you know who you are, you'll not respond to what you're not". "The secret to spiritual success is not just tied to discipline, obedience and consistency. It's also tied to our ability to discern who not to listen to".
That vulnerability part is so true! Ladies I'm tell you the truth... You will know if a man loves you if he's vulnerable with you and sacrifices for you.
Whew! When he described the men. 🥺 God just smacked the whole truth in my face through Jerry. The first “self made” man was exactly what I had with a mix of the culture. I need a kingdom man
So true. I’ve realized so much I lost within me during the marriage. We’re getting a divorce now. I’ve never felt like such a huge weight off my shoulders! Wow. Blessed.
Amen!,"I have never had the love💗 from a man yet!,"Not even from my father,"Only real love💗 from my father God ,"And that's all the love that I need! 💘
Listen! Get some therapy if you need it...I needed it to allow me to see that it’s not because I am flawed! YOU are worth it and worthy of love. Don’t let fear make you settle for less.💕
When I say that you have run all the way through my current situation!!! The self-made man has wrecked me. I allowed it. I am ready to grow in wisdom!!!
It’s 11/17/2022, and I wish that I would’ve saw these “Cuffing Season” preaching. I promised it would’ve saved me so much heartache. I know my Boaz is out there but God will definitely have to send him to me and not me listening to me.😊
This right here changed my whole process. This word was the best thing I've heard in years!!!! I've always looked at myself as a man.. but Lord he taught me so many more things that being able to call yourself a man requires. Thank you Jesus and Lord God Almighty. Great message!
Wow!!!!! 3 types of men.....1(Self Made Man)2(Culture Made Man)3(Kingdom Made Man)...Good Lord! This word has single handedly changed my life and provide insight where I was at a lost and could not process on my own. Amen thank you for this Godly message. ❤️
He ain’t lying ! It’s a kingdom agenda ! This has been in my spirit all week. !! Speak lord and give us direction to help build up your kingdom the way you would you have us to ❤️🙏🏾
Thank you for this. My journey this year has been to transform and shed my old self to reveal who God created me to be. You're message has pushed me ahead in the journey. Amen
YEEEEEES, i always said that from wen males was a child n was told 2 SHUT up n stop actn like girls, that’s y they DON’T now how to LOVE a WOMEN, it taught them how 2 SHUT down n not 2 express emotions, PREACH♥️
First time. Enjoyed the message.. My husband is divorcing me. He tells me no one could love me. I can’t imagine falling out of love & then making someone feel like they are not worthy of love from anyone. Surely someone could love me like this..
Yes Pastor Flowers! I need to hear Biblical teaching! The Truth never changes. And I was burnt out on "regular so called relationship advice." Thank you so.much for this!!!!
OMG!! I did not come to this page to do all of this crying. This message has truly messed me up. I mean im sitting in the parking lot of McDonalds balling. I thought about my marriage and all i could think of is my part in the marriage and what i needed to change within myself. I am divorced now and I know that marriage is covenant. Oh how I wished i would have been humble enough to understand the true reason for marriage before filing for a divorce. Im still in tears right now because this message really hit home for me. Wow!!! Thank you for this life altering message. Thank you so very much.😊
I agree believe decree declare and receive this word of God for me and my husband ronnie and family friends and enemies in the name of Jesus Yehushua the Christ Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Amen
A man loves you when:
1. He gives you his vulnerable/ flawed self.
2. He challenges you
3. He expands you
4. He helps you detox
5. He can lead you
6. He sacrifices for you
7. He covers you
8. He complements you.
Rich teaching on today Pastor Jerry, blessings.
Thank you
It is beautiful! ❤thank you Lord!🙏🎁
I have think I
Thank you....
Thank you so much!
Three types of men:
1. Self made - a loner, introvert, he treats you like a man, self-taught, don't believe in counseling.
2. Culture made - love you based how he was shaped by culture: music, tv, etc. Inconsistent.
3. Kingdom made - he understands love is sacrifice, covering, provision, Jesus dependent, and heals.
❤❤❤❤
I managed to marry 1&2 combined smh
@@missrese868 So did I...
I’ll take # 3 Alex for $200 please!
I definitely dated a lot of SELF MADE men. Time to get prepared for my Kingdom Husband
“I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE TRYING TO HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES!”
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
This young man is God sent everything he said was so true and if more men with take off that Shield and open up the fact that they need to be taught we wouldn't have better men soldiers in the army of the Lord that was a beautiful message and I thank God for you brother amen
Excuse the word Wouldn't It should read we would have more men in the army of the Lord amen amen
This the one!
Amen
"Don't confuse what's good to you, with what's good for you." Glory to God! Hallelujah! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️🙏🏾❤️
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powerful
Whoever reading this, I pray that God visit your home with healing, blessings and miracles. Amen.💕
Amen!
Amen
Amen!!
Thank you ! Same to you!💕
Very sweet of you. And I hope you as well.😘
Some of my exes were not Kingdom men. Many were bruised, broken, spiritually castrated and trying to play Kingdom because they saw I wouldn’t entertain anything but Kingdom. But you can only fake Kingdom for so long. Jesus will help you discern spirits in men and will rescue you from the sons of Pharoah if you allow Him to.
Same with ex girlfriends. One didn't even want to read the Bible. Huge red flag.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
If a man don't know Jesus , he doesn't know how to love you
Absolutely right!
I have a girlfriend who is married to her husband and he was raised catholic and she is a Christian and when I tell you this man loves and adore her and is willing to sacrifice anything for her and her children that aren’t even his., but he doesn’t know who Christ is. Would he still be considered as not knowing how to love her? I have asked her questions and she loves her husband very much because of the way he treats her and loves her and her children.
@@unique_bydesign as he should Catholics believe in Jesus Christ they read the same bible but the love of Christ endures, forgives daily , Fruits of the Spirit is evidence this type of love Never Dies, so I pray for your friend and her husband when the trials and tribulations come knocking at the marriage door but they can still love each other like Christ loves us
1000% accurate
Real talk.
Hallelujahs and Glory to King Jesus Christ!
"He can lead me"
"He sacrifices for me"
"He covers for me"
Forgiveness does not always mean re-entry
Surely
This is true
Yesss
Whew 🥲
Exactly 🎯
A kingdom man:
1. Gives you his vulnerable self: his fears, inadequacies, his flawed self.
2. He challenges you
3. He expands you
4. He helps you detox
5. He can lead you
6. He sacrifices for you
7. He covers you
8. He complements you
" I don’t address shade thrown by a tree with no fruit” 😳 OOOOF. AMEN 🔥
🙌🙌🙌
Amen🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Them cutting you off and/or rejecting you was an investment into your soul care.
This is a great season to be single in, God is giving us fresh word left and right!! Thank you Lord for looking out for your children that are single and waiting on you Lord 🤍
Amen to that sis
Glory to God
Hallelujah
Amen!
Sis this!
I’m watching in 2024 and this is working on me! My GOD TONIGHT!
Same sis!!
Me too❤
I am a 19 y/o male and man, Pastor Flowers has been a blessing for me. I started watching him back in March and he has changed my whole prospective on a lot of things. I pray that God keeps using him and keeps blessing his family. Thanks!!!
@Shonda Brown God bless you as well!
Amen brother keep it up and stay in Christ
@@topneverstop Thank you, I most definitely will!
My Kingdom man leads me. He sacrifices for me. He is willing to be inconvenienced for my benefit. He secures me emotionally. I am able to talk to him more than to my girlfriends. 🙏🏼 Thank you Lord for your all your blessings. Amen 🙏🏼
Ladies! Don't be a quarrelsome woman. The tongue is the smallest member of the body, but can be the most deadliest part. We must learn to keep quiet when God tell us to be quiet. We have to learn how to speak life. Lord bless us to speak life in the mighty name of Jesus. Lord help us to learn how to submit ourselves to you completely while we are single. So, we can be the help mate that you designed us to be in marriage in Jesus name. AMEN and AMEN!!! Hallelujah! Thank you Lord Jesus. Amen and Amen.
Amen!
AMEN!
Amen!
Aaaamen!
So true🙏
Stop measuring your strength by how much pain you can tolerate.
A man will always treat you out of what he loves. Wow! That’s powerful.
Amen! That will help women prevent choosing/settling for pain instead of patiently waiting on a man who loves God!
“I don’t have to respond to shade thrown from a tree with no fruit” praise God that had me shook👏🏼👏🏼
When a man loves you like Jesus Christ loves the church! 🙌🏽
Dear God🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾....
Yeap that part! Warning to ALL ladies, most women won't be able to handle that kind of LOVE. Because it is TRUE LOVE it runs deep, very STRONG & POWERFUL. You MUST have God within to understand it & to be able to accept it. Otherwise, you will RUN from it. #FACTS
"The quality of man is directly related to the quality of his counsel!" 💯 Who's in your ear? Who is leading you? "If you allow your mind, emotions and your thought patterns to be your guide and counsel, pain is eminent!" 💯
Here to help learn how to become a Kingdom man for my woman❤🙏🏿
Amen. I dont have to respond to what am not🙏🏻
Praise God! I know my husband will do the same thing one day.
It is a blessing that you are willing to learn. I speak life over you and into your situation in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen and Amen and Amen.
GOD bless you !
God bless you and you in the process
"Can he lead me? If so, where!" Where will his leadership take me and my children?
"I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE TRYING TO HELP THEM FIND THEMSELVES!"
Jesus ‼️‼️‼️‼️
Tiki, Timberli, & The Twins ummglory
I am learning to stop going with the flow. And denying who I am, and what I stand for just to be in a relationship.
"going with the flow" should not even be in our vocabulary 😭
Learned this in my last relationship and I continuously thank the Holy Spirit for getting me together to stand in the Holy word and not in this world’s compromised values/words.
So help us Jesus.
I learned a long time ago “going with the flow” is how they can string you along
@@Nwakaego_ I'm recovering from this 😩
Perfectionism is the fear of criticism, dressed up #dope
PAIN will NOT have the final say!!! I’m taking my pen back! Pain will cease writing my story.
Pretty picture. Have a blessed and prosperous day in Jesus name. Amen and Amen and Amen.
@@ladennayoung2939 Thank you so much!!! Your picture is pretty too Queen! 👑 We are daughters of the Most High...Have a blessed day full of Favor and Love!
Have anointed friends!! Anointed friends breaks yokes.
Kingdom man leads you to thirst and hunger after Righteousness into perpetual Kingdom Principles!
Amen sister you got it!
3 TYPES OF MEN
1 SELF-MADE MAN
2 CULTURE-MADE MAN
3 KINGDOM-MADE MAN
"We ask God to heal us..but we don't let go of whats infecting us.." I felt that n what I'm dealing with. So stuck on what could have been.
I felt that !!!!
Hmmmm
Felt that too...
God is putting forth his Kingdom agenda. Our men need the love of God to lead others into His love.
“ You have to learn how to NOT respond to what you’re not” amen to that ! Everyone don’t deserve a response! Once you know who you truly are/ called to be you’ll understand everything don’t need a response
Yes! Amen!
Amen Sis!!!
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Okay, you’re stunning!! & yes I agree, AMEN!
@@lashaeleaf8842 thanks queen ❤️
That breakup was an investment in my soul care 🙌🏼🙌🏼 I will no longer lose me while/by helping them find themselves
Sometimes we need the breakup to wake up, lol! I know I did and I thank God every day for the lesson it took me so long to learn!
@@terrybrown7510 we gained wisdom !
Ooooo weee! “ You can not change the world until I have first changed you.” I hear you, Lord loud and clear!
"Forgiveness doesn't mean re-entry". "I will not allow pain to own the pen of my story". "You have to learn to not respond to what you're not". "If you know who you are, you'll not respond to what you're not". "The secret to spiritual success is not just tied to discipline, obedience and consistency. It's also tied to our ability to discern who not to listen to".
That vulnerability part is so true! Ladies I'm tell you the truth... You will know if a man loves you if he's vulnerable with you and sacrifices for you.
Have just hit da bottom . But this message was for me am blessed throu it. Thanks da preacher , thanks God🙏🙏🙏.have learnt something
What's it mean to sacrifice for you
Or to be vulnerable
Whew! When he described the men. 🥺 God just smacked the whole truth in my face through Jerry. The first “self made” man was exactly what I had with a mix of the culture. I need a kingdom man
“...real men love Jesus”
My soul says: Yes, yes, YESSSSS a thousand times! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
The man is the covering.💯💯💯💯
Marriage isn't permanent 👏👏👏👏Don't loose yourself.
Oh yes so true
❗❗❗
So true. I’ve realized so much I lost within me during the marriage. We’re getting a divorce now. I’ve never felt like such a huge weight off my shoulders! Wow. Blessed.
@Reina La'Diosa wow not many people know this. Meet my twin last year and it's a process breaking generational cycles. Changing our DNA and ascending
@@lifestylewithdarci Oh my. Going through this as well. I pray all is well with you.
Forgiveness does not always mean re-entry Hallelujah😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏
Amen!,"I have never had the love💗 from a man yet!,"Not even from my father,"Only real love💗 from my father God ,"And that's all the love that I need! 💘
Same here you are not alone
You are not alone
You are not alone💙
You are not alone
Listen! Get some therapy if you need it...I needed it to allow me to see that it’s not because I am flawed! YOU are worth it and worthy of love. Don’t let fear make you settle for less.💕
Pain will not have the final say of my story, in the name of Jesus!!
When I say that you have run all the way through my current situation!!! The self-made man has wrecked me. I allowed it. I am ready to grow in wisdom!!!
It’s 11/17/2022, and I wish that I would’ve saw these “Cuffing Season” preaching. I promised it would’ve saved me so much heartache. I know my Boaz is out there but God will definitely have to send him to me and not me listening to me.😊
This right here changed my whole process. This word was the best thing I've heard in years!!!! I've always looked at myself as a man.. but Lord he taught me so many more things that being able to call yourself a man requires. Thank you Jesus and Lord God Almighty. Great message!
Praise God
Pain will not have the finally say, I will not allow pain to have the pen to write my story!
This was very much needed. We so need more Kingdom made men.
Wow!!!!! 3 types of men.....1(Self Made Man)2(Culture Made Man)3(Kingdom Made Man)...Good Lord! This word has single handedly changed my life and provide insight where I was at a lost and could not process on my own. Amen thank you for this Godly message. ❤️
I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES!!!
So deep
Thank God for this powerful message it sososo true I am waiting on God to send my husband
Pain will NOT have the final saying!! Pain is NOT the pen of my story!!! ✊🏽
🗣🗣 “Don’t throw a stone, that will be thrown at you, if your behind the scenes everybody knew” .........extend GRACE !!! Whew 🙌🏿💥💥
Anytime you let your feelings be your driver instead of your passenger it will confuse you What’s good to you instead of what’s for you
Ohh my God. ...I'm so greatful I found this man. A kingdom man..I'm in tears writing this comment. Thank you Lord for answering my prayers.
I WILL NO LONGER LOSE AMYIA WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES!! 💜💜💜
He ain’t lying !
It’s a kingdom agenda ! This has been in my spirit all week. !! Speak lord and give us direction to help build up your kingdom the way you would you have us to ❤️🙏🏾
Pain will not have my pen! Pain will not write my story. Pain will not have the final say.
I WILL NO LONGER LOSE MESHIA WHILE HELPING A MAN FIND HIMSELF!!!!🙌🙌
Amen 🙏
I will no longer lose ME while helping them find themselves! ❤
Thank you for this. My journey this year has been to transform and shed my old self to reveal who God created me to be. You're message has pushed me ahead in the journey. Amen
beautiful message! this inspired me to have a deep convo with my dad on how to love my mom better. thank you pastor Jerry!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
YEEEEEES, i always said that from wen males was a child n was told 2 SHUT up n stop actn like girls, that’s y they DON’T now how to LOVE a WOMEN, it taught them how 2 SHUT down n not 2 express emotions, PREACH♥️
I will no longer lose ashley, by helping them find themselves.
First time. Enjoyed the message.. My husband is divorcing me. He tells me no one could love me. I can’t imagine falling out of love & then making someone feel like they are not worthy of love from anyone. Surely someone could love me like this..
I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE HELPING THEM! 🙏🏾‼️🙌🏾
I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE TRYING TO HELP THEM FIND THEMSELVES...
Dear subtitles... CAPITALIZE the “g” in God.
Yours truly,
Della😅
I thought I was the only one 😒
EVERY TIME! Give God his respect!!!
GOD .
Thank you. Just the way I spell HIS name.
What a WOOOOOOORRRRRRDDDDDD!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yes Pastor Flowers! I need to hear Biblical teaching! The Truth never changes. And I was burnt out on "regular so called relationship advice." Thank you so.much for this!!!!
OMG!! I did not come to this page to do all of this crying. This message has truly messed me up. I mean im sitting in the parking lot of McDonalds balling. I thought about my marriage and all i could think of is my part in the marriage and what i needed to change within myself. I am divorced now and I know that marriage is covenant. Oh how I wished i would have been humble enough to understand the true reason for marriage before filing for a divorce. Im still in tears right now because this message really hit home for me. Wow!!! Thank you for this life altering message. Thank you so very much.😊
Amen!!!! We unknowingly hurt our kids and don’t even realize it until years later
I WILL NO LONGER LOSE RYLEIGH HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES! amen
Im sending THANK YOU letters to all my Ex’s... Its time to enjoy my singleness and wait on GODS TIMING for a KINGDOM MAN 💙PRAISE THE LORD.
The best sermon about a mans love I’ve ever heard!!!! Thank you
Next do a sermon titled “When a Woman Respects you”
Would love that
same here
I'm here for it 🔥
from a women prospective their nothing she will not honor when she respect you!!! DONOT BE HUSK
That's real
I agree believe decree declare and receive this word of God for me and my husband ronnie and family friends and enemies in the name of Jesus Yehushua the Christ Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Amen
This has truly blessed me. I’m 56 years old,and it’s as if I’m learning in a way that I’ve never learnt before in my life.
Thank you!!!
Kingdom vibes Only!
Fantastic sermon! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I will no longer lose Tarae while helping them find themselves. Amen
"I have to have quality in my corner"...that part 💖
Amen! 🙌 Equally yoked , iron sharpen iron relationships ❤
"I will no longer lose Sophia while helping them find themselves." Amen. 🙏🏾❤️🇯🇲🙏🏾
Wow!!! This is free game!!! GLORY BE to the most high God.
I WILL NO LONGER LOSE ME , WHILE HELPING THEM FIND THEMSELVES
2022 and so relevant. need a series on this. too few kingdom men
This sermon was so deep and real! Definitely a replay and to be shared! Blessings All!🙏
Anointing breaks yokes 👏🏾👏🏾
I will no longer lose me while helping my parents find themselves. Amen and amen
Amen
Amen. And friends too. Amen
Good stuff!! Thanks
This sermon was my whole life🙌🏽 thank you Lord for healing and deliverance.
As a single woman this is so good. God has been teaching me about marriage and being in a healthy marriage lately.
I will no longer loose LaWonda while
Helping them find themselves!!!! Hallelujah God!!
The quality of a man is directly connected to the quality of his counsel
Kingdom vibes only!!!
Blessing's Pastor, and Lady Flowers,
Excuse Me
This Message Was Powerful
Nothing But KINGDOM,
PREACH PREACHER, PREACH !!!
Thank You Jesus,
Pain will not have the final say in my story!
I NO LONGER LOSE ME WHILE A MAN TRY TO FIND HIMSELF 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾