I needed to hear this message a few times. I prayed for guidance in my relationship..God showed me over and over, and one more time over ALL the red flags. I just chose to see the light glimpse. But not today satan!!!
5-6yrs of celibacy for me... celibate meaning no porn, no masturbation and definitely no sex till the day I say I DO marriage. Jesus came and broke my chains and set me free, i am honored and beyond blessed to be able to stay pure and celibate if he did it for me he can for you call on the name of The Lord. When God brings my wife she will be so perfect and gorgeous inside and out because I waited on The Lord for her while He prepared me for her. Put your time in for God he rewards all those who seek him diligently. Patiently waiting for my wife, anxiously serving The Lord. In the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
Praise God, this is a blessing for me to hear that men are still standing on the word of God. Im seeking the kingdom first (waiting) for him to add me to my husband as well. He will do it!
@@aishasmiley6251 LOL! At least we are being honest. Take care. Take it easy on yourself. We all make mistakes. God is good. We are victorious, and we will win in Jesus name. Amen.
Imma give ya the Red flags bc I had to rewatch this at least 3x til i wrote them down but y’all gotta listen to the whole message because IT IS 🔥🔥🔥 1. Anything that talks you out of what God has talked you into. 2. SECRECY 3. Enhanced Temptation 4. Confusion 5. Fits of Rage 6. Possessive Behavior 7. WHEN YOU CANT IDENTIFY THE RED FLAGS IN YOU
1. Anything that talks you out of what God has talked you into. 2. Secrecy. The devil loves darkness. 3. Enhance temptation. Social sin. 4. Confusion. God is not the Author of confusion. 5. Fits of rage 6. Possessive behavior 7. You cannot identify the red flags in you.
My ex had all these red flags and even when God kept showing me these red flags I kept going until He forcefully removed me from the relationship. Thank you so much Pastor Jerry and Tanisha
Im glad you where forced. To leave dont go back even when that evil devil try to brsin wash you to go back . the devil will show you good thibgs that happend in the relationship not the bad . remember you havibg sex before marriage hurts yoir body and soul . cause you can catch evil spirits that are on them . you can also miss the husband god has for you . you csn get stds . that can lead to death . dont give nothing to a man or woman that dont love your or if there a gold digger . your life and health and relatiobship with god is more important than sex or a fake codependant relationship that obly destroys yoi that seen and un seen . speaking from personal experiance . dont sleep with the enemy stsy away . when i say stay away from the enemy is soneone that has agenda that only wants sex or someone that god keeps giving you redflags
I broke up with a guy today that fit every red flag on this list. God continued to show me signs to break ties with this person but I wouldn’t listen. And I continued to hurt. I thank the Lord for opening my eyes and pushing me to be obedient in his word. I have so much more peace now☺️
This is so true. I'm so blessed by this message. I dated a man before who had raised so many red flags.. I always wonder why he always make things in secret.. So I worked so hard to prove my worth.. I become so manipulative, desperate and I stopped going to church because I'm so confused. I got so sick physically and emotionally and I tried to hard to keep him.. But when things went rough and I told him I needed him to meet my parents.. He decided to leave and never come back.. God sent me so many red flags but my emotion blinded me and my hurt from childhood made me believe attention is also commitment.. The guy fueled my insecurities, my lust and everything.. I become so toxic to him too, because of my fear of losing him Im so blessed and so happy God saved me, and restored my life, he went away, but because of that, I saw how broken and how pitiful I walk without Jesus. God restored me.. And healed me.. And everyday working on me.. And thru me.. I went back to church, and since then my relationship with Christ got so strong and now I found my purpose.. Truly a new creation.. Because of that experience I found Christ as my ultimate Saviour.. Because he was the one who stood by my side.. Now I am in a youth ministry doing outreaches reaching out teenage girls.. And sharing and discipling few of them.. By the help of God and His Holy Spirit.. Im still learning and still persevering and pursuing God... Now, I'm in a relationship with a Christian man, who has the same passion and purpose which is youth ministry, we take counsel from our Christian community and we work things out in Godly way, He also respects and wants us to maintain purity.. To all the women out there.. Never settle of any man or anything that cuts you away from your Father from God himself.. Don't settle for grumbs of attention and affirmation.. Jesus is all in all and He can restore you! He is alive! He is God! ❤️ 💕 💕 💕
How awesome is your story!?! Thank you for sharing! I had a similar experience. In my utmost brokenness looking for answers and healing after a toxic relationship, I took a walk in nature and literally as tears poured down my cheeks (and yes as by-passers stared), I prayed to God for the first time in forever and asked him to save me. Forgive me. To hold me. Carry me. Comfort me. Protect me. Heal my heart and lead me out of the darkness. To shine the lamp onto my path and be the light unto my feet. I gave my life back over to Him that day and asked him to mold me into a better Christian. He has been with me ever since showing me the way. When times are tough, I pray for guidance. When I feel weak, I ask Him to give me strength. When I need support, I turn to Him. Our relationship with God is ever unfolding. He is our Father after all. With grace and purpose He will always be there for us. 🤗
Not many of us women ever admit we have been toxic and manipulative. Praise Jesus He's in the business of healing to the very root. Or I don't know what would have been of us siz. And look you're in a kingdom relationship. God bless the two of you as you walk together.
It irks me too when you let someone in front of you and they drive slowww 😂 but you dropped a nugget......”Why do you keep letting people get in front of you who slows down your spiritual acceleration” 😩🙌🏽🔥
But, real talk. Preparation goes both ways. Not only do men need to know how to lead, but women need to learn how to be led and be a helper. I'm definitely far off, which is why I am intentionally staying in singleness.
That question of “Do you speak to his spirit or his flesh?”, can also be used in also identifying what kind of man you are engaging with as well. Do you always just speak to his flesh( sex, cursing and demeaning behavior, down talking you, only calling late nights), or do you speak to his spirit( him praying for and supporting you, speaking life into you, encouraging you, valuing you). This was really good!
When I first heard this message, I began to pray over my mouth. Then I realized that it was deeper than my mouth. I had to seek out the root of why my mouth was the way it was and ask God to help me fix that.
Wow wow wow! Bless this man for his words as he speaks the truth! Thank you God for using this man to give us your word, the ONLY truth! If that man fuels your insecurities, gives you more confusion, takes away your peace and fuels your lust, he is a LEECH, NOT a king!!!!!! Definitely not what God wants you to have, time to let it go..
Hey everyone in the comments , I hope this summary will be a blessing to someone just as it has been to me :) Red flags 🚩 Pastor Jerry flowers Basic text : Proverbs 8:1-11 , Proverbs 22:3 NIV A red flag is an alarm that God gives his children that lets us know that this is not from Him (God) . When God shows you that this is not from him do you take refuge or do you go into it . 1. Anything that talks you out off what God talked you into. 2. Secrecy ( you don’t have to hide what you’re not doing ) Proverbs 14:11 kJV 3. Enhanced temptation ( anything that makes you harder to follow Jesus is a red flag ) 4. Confusion ( if you don’t know where you’re going nor what is this etc. , this is a red flag because God is not the author of confusion . If you’re constantly confused this may be a sign that it’s not from God ) * The difference with God is that you may not know what God is doing but you know that it is God doing it . 5. Fits of rage , Ecclesiastes 7:9 6. Possessive behavior , is when someone considers you as their own ,controls you , control how people see you , and become narcissistic . 7. The Red flags in me , the powerful red flag is when you can’t Identify the red flags in you .
I’m so tiered of you making me get out my bed to grab my phone to comment “Preach” under your videos ! (Because I like to watch them on my tv) BOY YOU BETA PREACH ! lol Come for my bonnet lol let alone my lace front lol !
So good! 1-4 Confirmation that I made the right decision a few months ago. Yesterday I had urge to reach out but these red flags reminded me that it was Gods protection and red flags that cannot be overlooked! Thank you Jerry!!
This is so good! I’m literally sitting here in tears; because I know that I’ve never met a guy yet that has done that for me! Thank you for bringing this to my attention! May the Lord continue to use you as his messenger! God bless your marriage, your wife and your ministry!
The driving analogy ... guilty as charged! I either ignore them and keep driving, or grudgingly slow down and others in front. Just all depends on my mood that day 😂🤣.
Pas.Flowers said "Ladies,tighten your lace front" O_O ...XD I was shocked LOL.I love the truth and power of this sermon.So clear,on fire and on point! :)
Red Flags 🚩 I knew this guy for a whole year and we were jus friends. We did the whole Netflix and Chill. We would even sleep in the same bed and never had sex. After a year and a month we compromised our friendship and had sex. We weren’t supposed to go there again, and we did 4 more times. The 4th time awakened me in a way I didn’t want to be awakened. I caught a demon and a disease. I was hurt, and hated him for it. Somehow he went and got checked his test came up negative. I knew at that time that my life was not my own, and God was calling me back. It could have been worse. In a way I still want to run back to him. I know it’s a soul tie, and the only way to get rid of it is through fasting and praying! Had I of paid attention to the red flags of his “Not ready for a relationship” I may have avoided catching feelings of wanting a commitment from someone who wasn’t ready to give me that. Thank you for this message. 🙌🏼
I had the similar situation, I was so sad by the way he was treating me after we had sex. We had unprotected sex and like you said a soul tie. It’s real; I blocked him and just been praying for strength to not go back. It’s easy to go back ... due to the fact you don’t wanna be lonely. I’ll pray for you that you’ll heal from this!
Jem my I will... every since I’ve been praying and focusing on myself and healing I’ve been feeling better. Some times I break down and cry but I just start praying again
God is working on me!! I’ve been growing these past ten years. It’s been ten years since I’ve decided marriage is something I want. During this process God has shown me I was broken. I’ve received therapy, broken generational curses and I’m genuinely happy being single. Fulfilling that lack of mate with God, my kids, working towards my goals!! And above all else getting closer to God. My spiritual growth has grown so many levels and I’m setting boundaries. I love watching these videos!!! Teachings are wonderful.
Same. Saw an ex on a dating app I was on and she was once married. Clearly it didn't work out. We thank God for things and people he protect us from. Let God be God and he can block things.
WOW! AMEN! OUCH! YES! PREACH! I'M BLEEDING...SO GLAD I AM HEALED! I have received so much revelation, confirmation & WISDOM about things I NEVER understood before & I have been walking with the Lord for a loooong time! When I am able to hear a Word from God broken down by the Holy Spirit....I can only cry as my soul is purged & have the urge to continue to GROW through life seeking the Kingdom & God's will! I am so grateful for the Ministry of the Flowers Family! You two are changing soooooo many lifes by being a stage for Christ! Thank you both so much! May God continue to bless you all abundantly! #kingdomlivinANDdriven #CuffingSeason #Redflags #LifeChangingWisdom
Thank you Pastor Jerry for your powerful messages. I been learning and being blessed by your truthful messages. These messages bring power to my soul. May God continue to bless you and your wife and your ministry for Jesus Christ. I am prove of you. You are a true man of God. God is Fred up of Pastors who sugarcoating his words. Pastor Jerry we need more Pastors like you who calls sin by it right name. Thank God for you Pastor Jerry. Thank you for allowing me to see red flags. May God continue to bless you and your wife in God’s ministry for Jesus Christ! You are the best to listen to. Keep on faithful for Jesus. Greetings from Toronto Canada.🙏💖😇🇨🇦
Wwwwoowwwwwwwwwwwww I love this sooooo much🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 I want to be the woman God has called me to be for my future husband!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 I love that the Kingdom man will wash his wife through his love, consistency and Grace like Jesus washes us! Whoa🥰 that was so wonderful to hear! Thank you!🥰 that makes things so much more clear when considering a man for a husband!☺️ Thank you!
I am paying the price for proceeding when God was showing me from the beginning that it wasn’t meant to be. I now have a baby with this man but I thank God for not taking his hand off me and for his protection over my child! 😭
I just started this series and Oh my Goodness..... This is definitely an investment to my Soul Care.This is such a Blessing....May God continue to Bless you and Mrs. Flowers.
Thank you for the word! You have done something to my spirit with this cuffing season series! I appreciate you guys. God Bless you Jerry and Tanisha ❤️ Love y’all
“Anything that makes it harder to follow Jesus is a red flag” wow what a brilliant way to put it
I needed to hear this message a few times. I prayed for guidance in my relationship..God showed me over and over, and one more time over ALL the red flags. I just chose to see the light glimpse. But not today satan!!!
Amen
I AM A CHILD OF THE LIGHT
Don’t be COLOR BLIND.
5-6yrs of celibacy for me... celibate meaning no porn, no masturbation and definitely no sex till the day I say I DO marriage. Jesus came and broke my chains and set me free, i am honored and beyond blessed to be able to stay pure and celibate if he did it for me he can for you call on the name of The Lord. When God brings my wife she will be so perfect and gorgeous inside and out because I waited on The Lord for her while He prepared me for her. Put your time in for God he rewards all those who seek him diligently. Patiently waiting for my wife, anxiously serving The Lord. In the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
I pray that your wife is ready for you and you will forever be greatly to God for her 💞. Be Blessed Brother!
Praise God, this is a blessing for me to hear that men are still standing on the word of God. Im seeking the kingdom first (waiting) for him to add me to my husband as well. He will do it!
God bless you, brother. I don’t know of many men who abstain from sex. I hope you inspire more to live this way. 🙏🏾
AMEN!
God Bless.
How old are you, of that's Appropriate to ask?
"We have a generation that touch each other but can't touch each others phones" 😲😳 facts..
Preach! 🔥
Generally..
My God!
Jesus help me to watch my tone and attitude when I speak.
Ladenna Young yes! Amen 🙌🏽
@@tiaraterry1344 Amen! ❤❤❤
Lord knows I need help with too lol
@@aishasmiley6251 LOL! At least we are being honest. Take care. Take it easy on yourself. We all make mistakes. God is good. We are victorious, and we will win in Jesus name. Amen.
The love of God will keep me warm this season, dont need no fake snake leather gucci coat from no player!😅
😂😂😂
You snapped 💯
Say that 🗣🗣
🤣🤣🤣✊🏾
@@KF-hg5cv 00
“When you are desperate, you will always confuse God’s red flag as a green light.” BOOM 💥
God sends kings not leeches 🗣🏃♀️🙌🏾
Imma give ya the Red flags bc I had to rewatch this at least 3x til i wrote them down but y’all gotta listen to the whole message because IT IS 🔥🔥🔥
1. Anything that talks you out of what God has talked you into.
2. SECRECY
3. Enhanced Temptation
4. Confusion
5. Fits of Rage
6. Possessive Behavior
7. WHEN YOU CANT IDENTIFY THE RED FLAGS IN YOU
Yes. Facts
Thank you!!
Thank you!!
Thank you. I had to screen shot this
Thanks so much!
1. Anything that talks you out of what God has talked you into.
2. Secrecy. The devil loves darkness.
3. Enhance temptation. Social sin.
4. Confusion. God is not the Author of confusion.
5. Fits of rage
6. Possessive behavior
7. You cannot identify the red flags in you.
My ex had all these red flags and even when God kept showing me these red flags I kept going until He forcefully removed me from the relationship. Thank you so much Pastor Jerry and Tanisha
Im glad you where forced. To leave dont go back even when that evil devil try to brsin wash you to go back . the devil will show you good thibgs that happend in the relationship not the bad . remember you havibg sex before marriage hurts yoir body and soul . cause you can catch evil spirits that are on them . you can also miss the husband god has for you . you csn get stds . that can lead to death . dont give nothing to a man or woman that dont love your or if there a gold digger . your life and health and relatiobship with god is more important than sex or a fake codependant relationship that obly destroys yoi that seen and un seen . speaking from personal experiance . dont sleep with the enemy stsy away . when i say stay away from the enemy is soneone that has agenda that only wants sex or someone that god keeps giving you redflags
Kings lead, establish order and regulate chaos!!! I needed that confirmation.
Yesss a Kingdom man will
I broke up with a guy today that fit every red flag on this list. God continued to show me signs to break ties with this person but I wouldn’t listen. And I continued to hurt. I thank the Lord for opening my eyes and pushing me to be obedient in his word. I have so much more peace now☺️
Bless God sister!Amen.Pray you allow God to continue to guide and lead you :)
How are you doing today?
When you are in the Kingdom, you can spot royalty.... come through
You can't serial date and be spirit led at the same time. That hit hard on me!!!!!!!!
This is so true. I'm so blessed by this message.
I dated a man before who had raised so many red flags.. I always wonder why he always make things in secret.. So I worked so hard to prove my worth.. I become so manipulative, desperate and I stopped going to church because I'm so confused. I got so sick physically and emotionally and I tried to hard to keep him.. But when things went rough and I told him I needed him to meet my parents.. He decided to leave and never come back.. God sent me so many red flags but my emotion blinded me and my hurt from childhood made me believe attention is also commitment.. The guy fueled my insecurities, my lust and everything.. I become so toxic to him too, because of my fear of losing him
Im so blessed and so happy God saved me, and restored my life, he went away, but because of that, I saw how broken and how pitiful I walk without Jesus. God restored me.. And healed me.. And everyday working on me.. And thru me.. I went back to church, and since then my relationship with Christ got so strong and now I found my purpose.. Truly a new creation.. Because of that experience I found Christ as my ultimate Saviour.. Because he was the one who stood by my side.. Now I am in a youth ministry doing outreaches reaching out teenage girls.. And sharing and discipling few of them.. By the help of God and His Holy Spirit.. Im still learning and still persevering and pursuing God...
Now, I'm in a relationship with a Christian man, who has the same passion and purpose which is youth ministry, we take counsel from our Christian community and we work things out in Godly way, He also respects and wants us to maintain purity..
To all the women out there.. Never settle of any man or anything that cuts you away from your Father from God himself.. Don't settle for grumbs of attention and affirmation..
Jesus is all in all and He can restore you! He is alive! He is God! ❤️ 💕 💕 💕
Cheska Pomar Thank you for sharing this.❤️
How awesome is your story!?! Thank you for sharing! I had a similar experience. In my utmost brokenness looking for answers and healing after a toxic relationship, I took a walk in nature and literally as tears poured down my cheeks (and yes as by-passers stared), I prayed to God for the first time in forever and asked him to save me. Forgive me. To hold me. Carry me. Comfort me. Protect me. Heal my heart and lead me out of the darkness. To shine the lamp onto my path and be the light unto my feet. I gave my life back over to Him that day and asked him to mold me into a better Christian. He has been with me ever since showing me the way. When times are tough, I pray for guidance. When I feel weak, I ask Him to give me strength. When I need support, I turn to Him. Our relationship with God is ever unfolding. He is our Father after all. With grace and purpose He will always be there for us. 🤗
Thanks for sharing your testimony sis :) Love it
My exact experience. Last week God brought me out. Thank you for this confirmation. ❤️❤️
Not many of us women ever admit we have been toxic and manipulative.
Praise Jesus He's in the business of healing to the very root. Or I don't know what would have been of us siz.
And look you're in a kingdom relationship. God bless the two of you as you walk together.
“Do you speak to his flesh or his spirit?”
🗣I JUST SNATCHED MY OWN EDGES OUT! Preaacccchhhhh!!!!!!
It irks me too when you let someone in front of you and they drive slowww 😂 but you dropped a nugget......”Why do you keep letting people get in front of you who slows down your spiritual acceleration” 😩🙌🏽🔥
Jesus touch my mouth before my king comes in Jesus name so his king is activated
Beautiful woman of God. You got this in Jesus name. God loves you, and so do I. Rest in Jesus. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
But, real talk. Preparation goes both ways. Not only do men need to know how to lead, but women need to learn how to be led and be a helper. I'm definitely far off, which is why I am intentionally staying in singleness.
That question of “Do you speak to his spirit or his flesh?”, can also be used in also identifying what kind of man you are engaging with as well. Do you always just speak to his flesh( sex, cursing and demeaning behavior, down talking you, only calling late nights), or do you speak to his spirit( him praying for and supporting you, speaking life into you, encouraging you, valuing you). This was really good!
God sends KINGS not leeches wheewwwww Thank you God. When you are in the kingdom, you can spot royalty 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌♥️
When I tell you, besides the Bible, these sermons are food to the SOUL... 😭👏🏽💯
When I first heard this message, I began to pray over my mouth. Then I realized that it was deeper than my mouth. I had to seek out the root of why my mouth was the way it was and ask God to help me fix that.
🙏
I love it!!! A kingdom man will cleanse his woman of the spots that she may have.. that's deep, and only an Ephesians 5 man can do that...Wow!!!!
Wow wow wow! Bless this man for his words as he speaks the truth! Thank you God for using this man to give us your word, the ONLY truth! If that man fuels your insecurities, gives you more confusion, takes away your peace and fuels your lust, he is a LEECH, NOT a king!!!!!! Definitely not what God wants you to have, time to let it go..
Red flags (sign, signals, or exposure) are always at entrances.
Spiritual Accountability!!! Help Lord🤦🏾♀️
"God sends kings not leeches!" Amen! I'm waiting for my king! No more leeches!
12:12 draining your tears too. Have you crying so much nothings left. Appreciate this word.
He’s suppose to push you to be virtuous even when they’re venomous!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
“Knuck if you buck” 😂 I love that he keeps it real lol but this message.....🔥🔥 I know I have work to do and I’m excited to see how God transforms me 💕
Sis i fell outtttttt 😂😂sermon was so good
ToneyFox #HaremFree me toooo 😂 yeasss he did his thing with this one!
"The Love of God will keep me warm this season" Amen! I receive this message in Jesus name.
*Proverbs 11:14 Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.
been abstinate fro 5 months going strong knew cuffing season in full effect however aint fallen for it . GODS GRACE IS SUFFICIENT
I love this series mannnnn it’s helpin me do the most character building thing for me -PAY ATTENTION!
Same here
“God sends kings, not leeches”, AMEN 🙏🏽
1st Lady Flowers looking beautifully fleeky as usual 💕 AMEN
Beautifully fleeky !! Love it.
Don't be color blind help me see who they really are Lord. Amen🙏
Preach Jerry. I’m yelling at this phone!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽
Don’t Be Color blind, I seen them and heard Gods voice.
I’m still healing. Preach Spirit this sermon is fabulous
Amen. Let God work on me first so I can be sensitive to Red flags and not be a red flag myself ❤❤
Hey everyone in the comments , I hope this summary will be a blessing to someone just as it has been to me :)
Red flags 🚩
Pastor Jerry flowers
Basic text : Proverbs 8:1-11 , Proverbs 22:3 NIV
A red flag is an alarm that God gives his children that lets us know that this is not from Him (God) .
When God shows you that this is not from him do you take refuge or do you go into it .
1. Anything that talks you out off what God talked you into.
2. Secrecy ( you don’t have to hide what you’re not doing ) Proverbs 14:11 kJV
3. Enhanced temptation ( anything that makes you harder to follow Jesus is a red flag )
4. Confusion ( if you don’t know where you’re going nor what is this etc. , this is a red flag because God is not the author of confusion . If you’re constantly confused this may be a sign that it’s not from God )
* The difference with God is that you may not know what God is doing but you know that it is God doing it .
5. Fits of rage , Ecclesiastes 7:9
6. Possessive behavior , is when someone considers you as their own ,controls you , control how people see you , and become narcissistic .
7. The Red flags in me , the powerful red flag is when you can’t Identify the red flags in you .
Thanks so much!
Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. I pray your strength in the Lord in Jesus' name. AMEN. THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH.
I’m so tiered of you making me get out my bed to grab my phone to comment “Preach” under your videos !
(Because I like to watch them on my tv)
BOY YOU BETA PREACH ! lol
Come for my bonnet lol let alone my lace front lol !
U better say ittttt 😂😂😂😂😂👏🏽
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Looool , keeps it real 😂😅. He's a great preacher
So good! 1-4 Confirmation that I made the right decision a few months ago. Yesterday I had urge to reach out but these red flags reminded me that it was Gods protection and red flags that cannot be overlooked! Thank you Jerry!!
Wow, This is an Awesome teaching for singles that are preparing for marriage. Marriage is a Ministry. Hat's off to you Pastor Flowers. God Bless
Yes Lord, equip us to be the help-meets Kingdom men deserve! 🙌
Are You Speaking to His Spirit & Not Just His Flesh?????
Chile...Chile...👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is so good! I’m literally sitting here in tears; because I know that I’ve never met a guy yet that has done that for me! Thank you for bringing this to my attention! May the Lord continue to use you as his messenger! God bless your marriage, your wife and your ministry!
When what u thought was real was Narcissism. Lord I need your healing power!!!!
The driving analogy ... guilty as charged! I either ignore them and keep driving, or grudgingly slow down and others in front. Just all depends on my mood that day 😂🤣.
Pas.Flowers said "Ladies,tighten your lace front" O_O ...XD I was shocked LOL.I love the truth and power of this sermon.So clear,on fire and on point! :)
Its 30 walking red flags who do not approve this message....Great job again.
Red Flags 🚩
I knew this guy for a whole year and we were jus friends. We did the whole Netflix and Chill. We would even sleep in the same bed and never had sex. After a year and a month we compromised our friendship and had sex. We weren’t supposed to go there again, and we did 4 more times. The 4th time awakened me in a way I didn’t want to be awakened. I caught a demon and a disease. I was hurt, and hated him for it. Somehow he went and got checked his test came up negative. I knew at that time that my life was not my own, and God was calling me back. It could have been worse. In a way I still want to run back to him. I know it’s a soul tie, and the only way to get rid of it is through fasting and praying! Had I of paid attention to the red flags of his “Not ready for a relationship” I may have avoided catching feelings of wanting a commitment from someone who wasn’t ready to give me that. Thank you for this message. 🙌🏼
I had the similar situation, I was so sad by the way he was treating me after we had sex. We had unprotected sex and like you said a soul tie. It’s real; I blocked him and just been praying for strength to not go back. It’s easy to go back ... due to the fact you don’t wanna be lonely. I’ll pray for you that you’ll heal from this!
Avianne M. thank you for your prayers I will keep you in mine too 🤗
RealNella1 thank you
God is able to restore.Stay rooted in Christ :) *hugs*
Jem my I will... every since I’ve been praying and focusing on myself and healing I’ve been feeling better. Some times I break down and cry but I just start praying again
lol 😂 I had to lol when Pastor Jerry spoke about the man who said his girl broke up with him , and sent him a video 😂🥳 Amen to that 🙏🏽
“We have a whole generation where you can touch all over each other’s bodies, but not touch each other’s phones” #preach! We need wisdom #proverbs8
God is working on me!! I’ve been growing these past ten years. It’s been ten years since I’ve decided marriage is something I want. During this process God has shown me I was broken. I’ve received therapy, broken generational curses and I’m genuinely happy being single. Fulfilling that lack of mate with God, my kids, working towards my goals!! And above all else getting closer to God. My spiritual growth has grown so many levels and I’m setting boundaries. I love watching these videos!!! Teachings are wonderful.
God is speaking to me! Im living this right now! Lord thank you for opening my eyes and heart AGAIN!
I''m in something that isn't right. If you see this please pray for intercession and clarity.
Kings=LEAD , Establish Order, & Regulate Chaos 💯💯
When you pray and God answer your prayers through this message!!
I'm Child of the Light thank you Jesus
I love the sound of the Kingdom Accountability Partner...🥰
18:50 -- I wanted to throw my phone!!! Good God Almighty! He coming for the edges
I am a child of the light ! On here, binge watching sermons ! God is using this ministry ! Don't be color blind ! GOD SENDS KINGS, NOT LEECHES !
You better teach! Keep on keeping on. Yas
Im a first time watcher and my God hes in my house. I just saw red flags on day 1 with a guy and cut it off.
Kings establish ORDER not chaos!❤️💯🙏🏾
I receive this message and seek refuge in and through Jesus Christ Amen
Precious...I AM a child of the light!
This cut off is nt personal its Very Much SPIRITUAL. Oh Absolutely 💯
This is good
THIS WORD WAS TRULY A BLESSING 🔥
Watching again because it hit home hard
Ignoring will cause you so many disappointments & so much pain
Watching this series has been my confirmation to not let an ex return to my life. Thank you for this series.
Same. Saw an ex on a dating app I was on and she was once married. Clearly it didn't work out. We thank God for things and people he protect us from. Let God be God and he can block things.
WOW! AMEN! OUCH! YES! PREACH! I'M BLEEDING...SO GLAD I AM HEALED! I have received so much revelation, confirmation & WISDOM about things I NEVER understood before & I have been walking with the Lord for a loooong time! When I am able to hear a Word from God broken down by the Holy Spirit....I can only cry as my soul is purged & have the urge to continue to GROW through life seeking the Kingdom & God's will! I am so grateful for the Ministry of the Flowers Family! You two are changing soooooo many lifes by being a stage for Christ! Thank you both so much! May God continue to bless you all abundantly! #kingdomlivinANDdriven #CuffingSeason #Redflags #LifeChangingWisdom
This man literally be spittin the Holy Spirit in every line. 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻🙏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Thank you, Lord, for sending this message.
Thank you Pastor Jerry for your powerful messages. I been learning and being blessed by your truthful messages. These messages bring power to my soul. May God continue to bless you and your wife and your ministry for Jesus Christ. I am prove of you. You are a true man of God. God is Fred up of Pastors who sugarcoating his words. Pastor Jerry we need more Pastors like you who calls sin by it right name. Thank God for you Pastor Jerry. Thank you for allowing me to see red flags. May God continue to bless you and your wife in God’s ministry for Jesus Christ! You are the best to listen to. Keep on faithful for Jesus. Greetings from Toronto Canada.🙏💖😇🇨🇦
PREACH!!!!!
Glory to God.. This cutoff is SPIRITUAL!!! I don't want a leach to drain me!!
That was a great example that was done on the shirt 👕
AMEN!!! Hurting and still healing ❤️🩹
Wwwwoowwwwwwwwwwwww I love this sooooo much🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 I want to be the woman God has called me to be for my future husband!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 I love that the Kingdom man will wash his wife through his love, consistency and Grace like Jesus washes us! Whoa🥰 that was so wonderful to hear! Thank you!🥰 that makes things so much more clear when considering a man for a husband!☺️ Thank you!
Ikr! Crystal clear :) Can he wash in accordance to Ephesians 5? Bless God
Amen 🙏🏼
I am paying the price for proceeding when God was showing me from the beginning that it wasn’t meant to be. I now have a baby with this man but I thank God for not taking his hand off me and for his protection over my child! 😭
#cuffing season. All the way from Tuscaloosa Alabama
Same here
Whewwwww!! Red flags! 🚩🚩🚩🚩This message is on point!! God is speaking!
I'm a child of the light 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Recognizing my own red Flags..puuuh!!!🤔🙏🏿
I AM, a PERSON child OF THE light!!!
God is doing a great work through you. Thank You being obedient to his will. We needed this.
Wow....I’m so glad you addressed this....speechless ❤️
I just started this series and Oh my Goodness..... This is definitely an investment to my Soul Care.This is such a Blessing....May God continue to Bless you and Mrs. Flowers.
🌟⭐️I AM A CHILD OF THE LIGHT⭐️🌟
This was a great sermon and on point. I needed this.
Amen Amen Amen 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤ ☺
Whewwwww!! This sermon is goodt!!🙌🏽
Edges are gone! Let's gooooooo Pastor Jerry!
You have become one of my favorite Pastors. Always receive a spiritual meal when I listen. God is working through you! Stay blessed!
I’m a child of the Light🙏🏿❤️
Thank you for the word! You have done something to my spirit with this cuffing season series! I appreciate you guys. God Bless you Jerry and Tanisha ❤️ Love y’all