Nah. This is Dr. Spock style coddling and reenforcing problematic behavior. "Lets talk about it" will never sink in. A little tough love and telling them to stop feeling sorry for themselves is the correct course. A little bit of emotional jolting causes a chemical reaction in the brain that actually causes someone to learn.
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You never change is also depense mechanism
Nah. This is Dr. Spock style coddling and reenforcing problematic behavior. "Lets talk about it" will never sink in. A little tough love and telling them to stop feeling sorry for themselves is the correct course. A little bit of emotional jolting causes a chemical reaction in the brain that actually causes someone to learn.