I'm a 44 yo male and removed all the toxoc people from my life. There's not much left but that's OK. I'm not lonely or pathetic. I'm actually doing better now.
Showing vulnerability turns a man into a target, and that's a risk he simply can't tolerate. Don't like it? Allow male spaces and control your harpy sisters! Oops, no longer interested? Yeah, didn't think so.
As a woman I vow to help any suffering people like this, but how can I know who you are if you aren't telling me your feelings. We must listen to their suffering and gently respect that. Their mind and feelings are fucking important. Where are they safe to share their suffering when people are so mean and shut them down? Abusive.
No one deserve to feel this way. I don't suffer from loneliness but I suffer from isolation currently (hoping to get a job soon). The mind cannot be healthy and healthy with out loving supportive friends and families. No humans deserve this type of prolonged, slow boil suffering.
One of the biggest reasons I think that male loneliness is getting worse by the year, it's because of those who try to reach out and touch someone, (figure of speech), get heavily criticized, for even making an attempt to try to do such thing! The worst part is is that some of those people may, be diagnosed with autism! That makes it even worse, for men, to reach out, for help! If people would just take the time, to just listen and understand where a person is coming from without judgment, and offer them help without condemning them, this world would be a better place... And I fear that, will never happen! 🫤
Whats so funny about this is the hypocracy. When a man is single,hes lonely but when a woman is single,shes strong,independent and empowered. Make that make sense. 😆😆
Insincere people , especially women can contribute to men's loneliness.The stupidest thing you can do is depend on someone else for your happiness.The only person you can trust and the only person you can rely on is yourself.A good 5 min read that helped me out.The Only Person You Can Depend on is Yourself.By Elite Daily.The real bottom line is getting to know ourselves.Everyone has different motives.No matter how close you get to someone they will disappear as fast as they came in.When it's all said and done.The only person that is going to meet you at the end of the tunnel is you.The only person you can trust is you.When we fail to realize that, will always have questions without answers. 🤔
As a man, I can honestly say there is no point of involving society if there is no hope to getting a long term woman. I see most women spend their youth and sexually intimate with Chad and when they reach the 30-35 now it's time to settle down with a good guy with money. And sexless marriages. Self esteem guys don't take these woman. Self esteem guys don't participate this sh1thole.
Leave women out of it. It is not about women it is about you. Take accountability for your lack of maturity, emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills. Go to therapy.
@@coderhex1675 Yeah, on your part. The most logical lonley leaders who delete themselves in their mothers basements, lol. Go the f* your own way already and stop dragging women into this. We''ve had enough of your projection.
In a study where women were asked who their best friend was, most said another female friend. When men were asked, most said their romantic partner. The problem here for men is if they lose their relationship or just don't have one then they are going to be at a social disadvantage to most women. Also women hug each other all the time, they hug each others to say hello, goodbye, when they're happy or sad etc, they even hug each other's kids, but they don't hug male friends or colleagues for obvious reasons, and men in most cases can't hug female friends or colleagues kids for the same reasons. If men who aren't in a relationship want a hug their options are a tinder hookup which may never happen or hiring an escort. Women often wonder why men seem so keen to want to be in a relationship, it's because there's no physical human contact outside of one for most guys except those in the top few percent on dating apps who don't really care about intimacy anyway and just want to smash.
Men need to talk to each other, find value in each other, support each other, cultivate friendship with each other. They need female love too, but male friendship will help them to just be operating from a happy foundation
@@teddyinbed You are right about that. Where i live males are very emotionally distant from each other which makes friendships difficult and physical contact just isn't a thing.
@@BillysFingers You guys can still be incredibly guyish and masculine whilst also being open to truly deeply respecting, listening to and welcoming to each other. Youve got to find ways as men to deeply love each other in ways that dont feel feminine for you
Male emotional isolation comes from the fact their normal drives and desires have been demonized stigmatized and criminalized. You can easily solve the male loneliness problem by legalizing sex work. Women oppose this as this would shift the power dynamic and limit their ability to extract maximum resources from through through marriage and relationships.
Male loneliness stems from them being entitled, lacking empathy, emotionally stunted, angry and generally abusive. Think of all the guys and boys taunting women with 'your body my choice'. You don't get to be an abuser and then complain people are not lining up for your mistreatments.
@@AnHeC It certainly does with many. There are others though that have a high level of emotional intelligence, aren't abusive and don't blame women for the loneliness issues. These types usually aren't seen as the ones with the characteristics you mentioned compensate for their lack of confidence with being over confident and controlling. They cause problems for everyone.
@@AnHeC That actually isn't correct for all well adjusted men. Any who can't successfully navigate dating apps or have the looks to get them into the top 10% appear great and will probably tell you we're great as it's not in well adjusted men's nature to complain about their emotional issues to women, but inside we're really craving a genuine intimate connection which we can't just go out and get like picking up groceries or fixing our car. I have a great group of female friends, but they are friends, we hang out and talk, but they hug each other, not me as i'm a guy. Since i have no interest in hookups i have to find an actual relationship to get any kind of physical touch. And since i'm not pushy, coercive, over confident or abusive there can be significant periods of time before meeting the right person, especially living in a small town with average looks. But i do appear that i'm doing well because showing that i have problems or vulnerabilities is not something women want to see from the men in their lives.
I'm a 44 yo male and removed all the toxoc people from my life. There's not much left but that's OK. I'm not lonely or pathetic. I'm actually doing better now.
Showing vulnerability turns a man into a target, and that's a risk he simply can't tolerate.
Don't like it? Allow male spaces and control your harpy sisters!
Oops, no longer interested? Yeah, didn't think so.
As a woman I vow to help any suffering people like this, but how can I know who you are if you aren't telling me your feelings. We must listen to their suffering and gently respect that. Their mind and feelings are fucking important. Where are they safe to share their suffering when people are so mean and shut them down? Abusive.
People huh?
How about MEN?
@@TheEliminator1992 well since women attempt suicide at 4 time the rate of MEN, how about recognise that suffering isnt gendered. Spoilt brat
No one deserve to feel this way. I don't suffer from loneliness but I suffer from isolation currently (hoping to get a job soon). The mind cannot be healthy and healthy with out loving supportive friends and families. No humans deserve this type of prolonged, slow boil suffering.
There s no solution for lesser men but to be left alone by the high competitive dating system
Lessor according to what standard? Women's?
Think so thought that was intuitive
@mrripley6815 Actually my comment was sarcasm. Men simply need to rate themselves by their own standards?
@@nolaspeaker5656thats reality unless your a man with inner skills
One of the biggest reasons I think that male loneliness is getting worse by the year, it's because of those who try to reach out and touch someone, (figure of speech), get heavily criticized, for even making an attempt to try to do such thing! The worst part is is that some of those people may, be diagnosed with autism! That makes it even worse, for men, to reach out, for help! If people would just take the time, to just listen and understand where a person is coming from without judgment, and offer them help without condemning them, this world would be a better place... And I fear that, will never happen! 🫤
I suffer from loneliness because of people, language, communication skills.
Whats so funny about this is the hypocracy. When a man is single,hes lonely but when a woman is single,shes strong,independent and empowered. Make that make sense. 😆😆
Big difference between being invisible and non stop hookups and partying...see the difference?
Insincere people , especially women can contribute to men's loneliness.The stupidest thing you can do is depend on someone else for your happiness.The only person you can trust and the only person you can rely on is yourself.A good 5 min read that helped me out.The Only Person You Can Depend on is Yourself.By Elite Daily.The real bottom line is getting to know ourselves.Everyone has different motives.No matter how close you get to someone they will disappear as fast as they came in.When it's all said and done.The only person that is going to meet you at the end of the tunnel is you.The only person you can trust is you.When we fail to realize that, will always have questions without answers. 🤔
As a man, I can honestly say there is no point of involving society if there is no hope to getting a long term woman. I see most women spend their youth and sexually intimate with Chad and when they reach the 30-35 now it's time to settle down with a good guy with money. And sexless marriages. Self esteem guys don't take these woman. Self esteem guys don't participate this sh1thole.
Leave women out of it. It is not about women it is about you. Take accountability for your lack of maturity, emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills. Go to therapy.
@@drevnikocur54 %100 gaslightning, labelling, virtue signalling. %0 logic, common sense.
@@coderhex1675 Yeah, on your part. The most logical lonley leaders who delete themselves in their mothers basements, lol. Go the f* your own way already and stop dragging women into this. We''ve had enough of your projection.
@@coderhex1675just be 7ft tall bro with a perfect jawline and pantieloads of cash and be perfect bro that’s it man it’s not that hard 😂
In a study where women were asked who their best friend was, most said another female friend. When men were asked, most said their romantic partner. The problem here for men is if they lose their relationship or just don't have one then they are going to be at a social disadvantage to most women. Also women hug each other all the time, they hug each others to say hello, goodbye, when they're happy or sad etc, they even hug each other's kids, but they don't hug male friends or colleagues for obvious reasons, and men in most cases can't hug female friends or colleagues kids for the same reasons. If men who aren't in a relationship want a hug their options are a tinder hookup which may never happen or hiring an escort. Women often wonder why men seem so keen to want to be in a relationship, it's because there's no physical human contact outside of one for most guys except those in the top few percent on dating apps who don't really care about intimacy anyway and just want to smash.
Men need to talk to each other, find value in each other, support each other, cultivate friendship with each other. They need female love too, but male friendship will help them to just be operating from a happy foundation
@@teddyinbed You are right about that. Where i live males are very emotionally distant from each other which makes friendships difficult and physical contact just isn't a thing.
@@BillysFingers You guys can still be incredibly guyish and masculine whilst also being open to truly deeply respecting, listening to and welcoming to each other. Youve got to find ways as men to deeply love each other in ways that dont feel feminine for you
Applying the criticism of bad men (myron gains) to good men (Chris Hemsworth type characters) is killing them. Its sexism.
For most men, they don't get married or have kids because most women aren't that interested in them.
Maybe they should have a hobby then.
@@drevnikocur54 that sure work most men do have hobbies but women dont care for that (most dont)
Male emotional isolation comes from the fact their normal drives and desires have been demonized stigmatized and criminalized. You can easily solve the male loneliness problem by legalizing sex work. Women oppose this as this would shift the power dynamic and limit their ability to extract maximum resources from through through marriage and relationships.
Male loneliness stems from them being entitled, lacking empathy, emotionally stunted, angry and generally abusive. Think of all the guys and boys taunting women with 'your body my choice'. You don't get to be an abuser and then complain people are not lining up for your mistreatments.
@@AnHeC It certainly does with many. There are others though that have a high level of emotional intelligence, aren't abusive and don't blame women for the loneliness issues. These types usually aren't seen as the ones with the characteristics you mentioned compensate for their lack of confidence with being over confident and controlling. They cause problems for everyone.
@@AnHeC You reek of Misandry. You really need some self awareness.
@@BillysFingers correct, but those well adjusted men don't have the loneliness problem. They are doing great. I have many wonderful men in my life.
@@AnHeC That actually isn't correct for all well adjusted men. Any who can't successfully navigate dating apps or have the looks to get them into the top 10% appear great and will probably tell you we're great as it's not in well adjusted men's nature to complain about their emotional issues to women, but inside we're really craving a genuine intimate connection which we can't just go out and get like picking up groceries or fixing our car. I have a great group of female friends, but they are friends, we hang out and talk, but they hug each other, not me as i'm a guy. Since i have no interest in hookups i have to find an actual relationship to get any kind of physical touch. And since i'm not pushy, coercive, over confident or abusive there can be significant periods of time before meeting the right person, especially living in a small town with average looks. But i do appear that i'm doing well because showing that i have problems or vulnerabilities is not something women want to see from the men in their lives.