Why Do Men Hold On To Women, They Don't Actually Want To Commit To

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 116

  • @Jamesclout
    @Jamesclout 16 годин тому +264

    Great video. These past few months has been an eye opener for me, the one I love, the one i cherish still Left me, I lost alot of friends because of her, she often said they were bad influence on me, and she still left me, i still love her and that is what hurts the most. Love sometimes is unexplainable and cruel

    • @andrejmartha
      @andrejmartha 16 годин тому

      I feel your pain, Believe me I do, i was in a similar position, he left me, but i couldnt just let him go because i knew i was the cause of it, i chose my work over him and the kids, I didnt want to loose him, so i contacted a spiritual counsellor for advice on how to get him back and to my greatest surprise it worked out, she brought him back to me, and its been over a year and half, i have never been this happy

    • @Jamesclout
      @Jamesclout 16 годин тому

      Thank you for this, I know i wasnt alone on this i often sit and think what i will become without her because i have no one else, I think i might just give this a try,how did you get in touch with him/her, if you do not mind me asking.

    • @andrejmartha
      @andrejmartha 16 годин тому

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Jamesclout
      @Jamesclout 16 годин тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @Snow-l9r
    @Snow-l9r 9 днів тому +74

    This is what I'm slowly getting myself out of .
    To all women don't let nobody take away your shine.

  • @barbara7557
    @barbara7557 9 днів тому +64

    OMG my life's story, was I this weak to let someone steal my youth, middle age and now the later part of my life ?

  • @Taylor086
    @Taylor086 8 днів тому +38

    Men want a MOMMY to cook & clean up after them. They want a good woman to have their kids, be faithful to them, be their emotional support in life. But they also not want to give up their 304 lifestyle of not commiting to one person.
    This goes both ways, women do the same with a man who provides looking for a sugar daddy but is still a 304 with men she is attracted to

  • @erichines1017
    @erichines1017 9 днів тому +60

    That is so true, but women realize it too late, most times.

  • @SHerit-q3v
    @SHerit-q3v 6 днів тому +36

    It’s called “narcissism “… ( that’s why )

  • @louisademetrio4408
    @louisademetrio4408 7 днів тому +41

    These words are so damn True - "You're worth more than someone's Convenience"!

  • @lorisunshine81
    @lorisunshine81 6 днів тому +28

    Mine went from a narcissist father to a narcissist husband. Too many lost years. Now at 61 I'm still young at heart because they did not break me. Divorced and ready for a new chapter of self-love and peace.🤗🙏💖😁👍

    • @RachelMorton-g5i
      @RachelMorton-g5i День тому +3

      61 and been there too. One way trip out of it. Never looking for another.

    • @sheelabalpande4422
      @sheelabalpande4422 16 годин тому +1

      Congratulations! 😊 for ur new beginning, don't care for ur age, its no. only n U young at heart despite narcissist ur own men around U? Ur innocence saved U dear bcoz its Divine's responsibility to look after U, nothing else 💚

    • @AT-pw9dx
      @AT-pw9dx 15 годин тому

      Yess lady!!

  • @kristineroethle5028
    @kristineroethle5028 8 днів тому +18

    ❤ It's very sad when men steel away your precious time holding onto you, playing games, messing with your mind is so cruel. Spirituality is a woman's strength and opens heart to value and wisdom in her life.🙏❤🕊💯

  • @LydiaWhitting
    @LydiaWhitting 9 днів тому +26

    I name it dogs with bones.. they keep n bury you for maybe later if they need you.. but woe betide anyone else who maybe finds and admires the bone.. then they are indignant.. even if they have moved on .. u are still their property. How primative is that i wonder.

  • @Abbot-g1m
    @Abbot-g1m 4 дні тому +7

    So true... how some of us women choose wrong relationships during the prime of our lives allowing ourselves to be abused - used for our intellect, skills, resources, our bodies...only to dumped...and for one to hopefully 'finally wake up...sane and in one piece' and realise it was never worth all the pain, hurt, self doubt you put youself through for years somtimes decades. God have mercy on us!!!

  • @Seraphim7
    @Seraphim7 День тому +7

    “ Love Should Illuminate you , Not diminish you. “🌟☀️🌅
    😭

  • @tanyamontgomery3172
    @tanyamontgomery3172 6 днів тому +11

    So true learn your value and worth

  • @PeggyDreher
    @PeggyDreher 2 дні тому +3

    YES AMEN. True true. I know I've been through it.

  • @cynthiarivera185
    @cynthiarivera185 6 днів тому +10

    This is so true 💯💯💯

  • @TheLizziebk
    @TheLizziebk 2 дні тому +4

    I’m so grateful I’m out and now I recognize and reject any of this energy. Never again

  • @rubybigby809
    @rubybigby809 2 дні тому +4

    So true, I was in a relationship for a very long time. He kept stringing me along, saying we would get married. He passed away 2020. And we still hadn't married. Many years spent with him. I was in my twenties when we met and in my fifties when he passed. And left to start over as a middle-aged woman. Yes, I truly loved him but realized he was selfish and used me. Starting over at almost 60 is hard. 💔 🙏

  • @m.theresiaberger9090
    @m.theresiaberger9090 День тому +2

    It is true!nothing is for granted!❤

  • @josegonzalezmoreno2679
    @josegonzalezmoreno2679 2 дні тому +8

    This happens to men too

  • @jonesy9035
    @jonesy9035 2 дні тому +4

    Yep, sounds about right! Ladies! You CAN peel yourself away from the man you are in love with if he is as described. If I can do it, so can you. It took me 13 years to realize this and to give myself a kick in the ass! It was hard for a few months but eventually I got over him. Guess what the men lined up to be with me!😮 I have never been happier in my whole life when I was able to finally find my true self. Do it! It’s so worth it!❤

  • @peteporter9138
    @peteporter9138 8 днів тому +11

    You are absolutely right I found myself in this position and felt lost all this time I've been trying to understand why he doesn't care or at least share his caring but he does it I need to move forward and it's really been hard Thank you for sharing this and I'm hoping to get stronger from it

  • @tanviikhar8655
    @tanviikhar8655 День тому +2

    This is true. Having hard time getting over

  • @lingee2387
    @lingee2387 2 дні тому +3

    Depend on no one but yourself.

  • @janeshelswell3313
    @janeshelswell3313 2 дні тому +7

    It’s happening to me right now, I have put up with far too long, time to end it.

  • @georgiamcneil1661
    @georgiamcneil1661 4 дні тому +3

    I believe it is so true. It happen where don't even realize it is happening.👍🏽🙏🏽🥰❤️

  • @kayacrowder9793
    @kayacrowder9793 4 дні тому +4

    So True

  • @gloriahohman2790
    @gloriahohman2790 3 дні тому +2

    Yes, I agree with you.

  • @fantasticvoyage2989
    @fantasticvoyage2989 День тому +3

    Ha! Called it!

  • @Seraphim7
    @Seraphim7 День тому +2

    🥀🥀 Aww Sad for the Wife.
    Yes that Sounds like a Narcissist…….

  • @TrinaMoitra
    @TrinaMoitra 2 дні тому +3

    I did fall for this bitter trap. But thankfully, I could return to more of my essence -- not less. I came to love myself unapologetically. But I do get that I am lucky. It could just as well have gone the other way. The bit that got me is - once the blinders were off, I really couldn’t answer why! There was nothing to the guy, beyond my own loneliness & self-limiting beliefs.

  • @EleanorJafta-sc5xu
    @EleanorJafta-sc5xu 7 днів тому +8

    Right now I'm faced with a situation like this😢

  • @amipatelami5833
    @amipatelami5833 3 дні тому +2

    definitely i agree with you

  • @annabanzon313
    @annabanzon313 6 днів тому +6

    I finally understand now why some men rush for sex then shy away from marriage. Its because some of them know they won't be able to keep that kind of stamina up long term.

  • @rupamtiwari2137
    @rupamtiwari2137 2 дні тому +3

    True

  • @nishasaairabaanu4186
    @nishasaairabaanu4186 3 дні тому +3

    It's damn true.

  • @Pinkdaimonddragon
    @Pinkdaimonddragon 5 днів тому +8

    Bc they know that they don't respect those women. And it will be easy for them to leave those women bc they are not emotionally invested in them. And they know a lot of this women will take him back. Whenever he desides he has a use for her.

    • @Seraphim7
      @Seraphim7 День тому

      Narcissists don’t Respect women Periodt.
      If they can Treat 1 woman like this….. they will Eventually Treat All women like this or Whomever Becomes their Next Target……..

    • @Seraphim7
      @Seraphim7 День тому

      Narcs are misogynists……
      They only See woman as Pleasure…. To Fulfill their Lusts…….+ to Admire and Desire them……
      They Move on and Repeat the Same Cycle..

  • @sherriehoward9826
    @sherriehoward9826 16 годин тому

    I am just letting go of a relationship like this. Not easy because I still love him. He has done so much hurting to myself and disrespect. He said he has no baggage. He has tons. I can only fix me. Pray for all of the women hurting. God bless and protect you. God will get your light to shine again.

  • @denitawade9094
    @denitawade9094 4 дні тому +4

    Good advice

  • @stylish_tarotqueen777
    @stylish_tarotqueen777 3 дні тому +3

    💯 percent. 😊

  • @supervegitok956
    @supervegitok956 5 днів тому +3

    Thanks right on time💯

  • @thoudamindibati1505
    @thoudamindibati1505 9 днів тому +20

    It happened to me...I was fool

  • @AnnabelleAbbott-kc5ir
    @AnnabelleAbbott-kc5ir 4 дні тому +5

    I don't want to be drainedi have been drained i won't let this keep happening

  • @valeriemontano7806
    @valeriemontano7806 6 днів тому +4

    I needed to hear this❤

  • @LotusFish
    @LotusFish 2 дні тому +2

    When the Love sprouts... It will be the upliftment only. Whether the other person reciprocates it or not. It's always a gain. Being in love means it is your own life energy's ability to flourish on its own. it is not flourishing because of others. But that natural energy will be doubled tripled quatrapled. Or rise upto infinite number of level based on the intensity you can perceive from the other one. The other person is just the pretext only. Just the little spark only.
    At first, the love should be there in one's ownself. ❤🎉

  • @bevsalo9783
    @bevsalo9783 9 днів тому +8

    I agree

  • @shabreidavis7790
    @shabreidavis7790 23 години тому

    Amen!!.... I agree.

  • @kerri-anncollier2295
    @kerri-anncollier2295 7 днів тому +6

    Facts👍👌

  • @AmandaPryar
    @AmandaPryar 6 днів тому +10

    I have just blocked someone who has been doing exactly that and I have no intentions of going back on my silence.

  • @morganreigns1984
    @morganreigns1984 4 дні тому +6

    So there not alone and have a "backup" plan

  • @Blessed_Eternity_888
    @Blessed_Eternity_888 День тому

    YES EXACTLY TRUE💔💔😭😭

  • @La-di-da-e6l
    @La-di-da-e6l 6 днів тому +3

    Agree

  • @RachelMorton-g5i
    @RachelMorton-g5i День тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @neekneek588
    @neekneek588 3 години тому

    Facts

  • @SHAMIKII
    @SHAMIKII 6 днів тому +3

    TRUE

  • @AlejandraCastro-yo5lz
    @AlejandraCastro-yo5lz 8 днів тому +3

    I agree ❤

  • @stephanie54
    @stephanie54 2 дні тому +3

    100%

  • @RedPhoenix-bp5hf
    @RedPhoenix-bp5hf 2 дні тому +2

    Placeholders! Or you know what else if your gullible!!!!

  • @ClaireFeltsman-ou8zy
    @ClaireFeltsman-ou8zy 4 дні тому +1

    I’m not interested in you or what you hold on to
    Just move on

  • @LolLol-j7g
    @LolLol-j7g 5 днів тому +1

    Women allow these types of men to hang around them nobody is obligated to stay people stay around this type of behavior for there own selfish reasons

  • @Aria-nl3xp
    @Aria-nl3xp 5 днів тому +3

    That's not true when you try and they show nothing in return what you supposed to do

  • @deanamcdougall7192
    @deanamcdougall7192 8 днів тому +2

    Yep

  • @abdullahjaan4721
    @abdullahjaan4721 6 годин тому

    I agree I am going crazy

  • @sarah.j.777
    @sarah.j.777 День тому

    sex, companionship, kids, social clout, coddling etc..

  • @dubaifatimaali
    @dubaifatimaali 20 годин тому

    Look if a man has x and a wife , he still goes looking for his x or keep bothering her, it is a clear sign he doesn't love his new wife and has guilt and shame so he keeps looking back for what he did..
    So if your man has an x and keeps going back to look at her or whatsoever , gas light or stalks. It means he has some issues with you (current wife) keep an eye on your man.
    Thankfully my man loves me ❤

  • @RoshinVarghese-yt6so
    @RoshinVarghese-yt6so 11 годин тому

    Well, my family had married me to such a creature. I call them energy vampires. My family blew the roof off when I left him eight years later. So, I chose to leave my family and live on my own. The society of ONE BILLION harassed me for being an IMMORAL and distanced themselves from me. That was 28 years ago. My child is almost 33, she works and earns her livelihood. I ignore the society that tortured me to save their lies. Life goes on.

  • @janettesessarago4690
    @janettesessarago4690 День тому

    🏃‍♀️🏃🏃‍♀️🏃🏃‍♀️run if you can🏃🏃‍♀️🏃

  • @crazedvole
    @crazedvole 4 дні тому +1

    Another example of something that is a " people" thing. Not man or woman.

  • @PavithraHp-sz4ge
    @PavithraHp-sz4ge 9 днів тому +3

    Experienced well 😂

  • @Flossboss-r2j
    @Flossboss-r2j 8 днів тому +3

    Believe in Karma! It scientific!

  • @sarahs4759
    @sarahs4759 9 днів тому +3

    Important information. ..make this vedio .reach many . Many many. Are affected by such stupidity.

  • @gailwomack2990
    @gailwomack2990 6 днів тому +1

    I agree. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @Simon-q5d
    @Simon-q5d 9 днів тому +9

    I know more Woman who do this than I do Men

  • @scorpiored3871
    @scorpiored3871 7 днів тому +3

    This is what happened to me

  • @AngelFaceGem
    @AngelFaceGem 7 днів тому +2

    They all blocked now thanks ❤

  • @TurtelGammer
    @TurtelGammer 7 днів тому +4

    You are telling about narcissistic men

  • @ressab.5193
    @ressab.5193 День тому

    Becoming very selective from now on 💯

  • @Aria-nl3xp
    @Aria-nl3xp 5 днів тому +2

    They run play games we God damn adults I'd you like me you like me if not then i guess that's why she doing what she doing because she not interested but then again nobody talks to me......😂😞fuck it

  • @sheelabalpande4422
    @sheelabalpande4422 16 годин тому

    💯👍

  • @ressab.5193
    @ressab.5193 День тому

    That’s why I started nipping it in the bud now. Lost and wasted too much time and energy

  • @danielcann
    @danielcann 6 днів тому +4

    Better yet, why do they hold on to women that reject them?

    • @calloduty8630
      @calloduty8630 6 днів тому

      It also can be loneliness like me,don't judge a book by it's cover bro one thing is made up of 10 more things soo dont stick to one conclusion

  • @Fragolizia-r1b
    @Fragolizia-r1b 9 днів тому +1

    Infatti!!

  • @anitanash7777
    @anitanash7777 7 днів тому +2

    Very true 😢🙏💪❤️‍🩹🌱🌻

  • @Fragolizia-r1b
    @Fragolizia-r1b 9 днів тому +2

    Forse qualcuno ha pensato che io gli stessi credendo. So perfettamente di chi si tratta ed anch'io come lui ci ho marciato un po' sopra come ha fatto lui.

  • @godess4993
    @godess4993 2 дні тому +1

    No men can't hold on to no women think is toy they can leave anytime if a men hold on to a woman he love her nobody wouldn't hold on to something they don't like the women's doesn't want him either both way hold on who meanwhile she have other man don't want him either but is not me holding on though Is him why people's believe men is that important you don't want her she don't want you either simply

  • @Fragolizia-r1b
    @Fragolizia-r1b 9 днів тому +3

    Bye bye

  • @calloduty8630
    @calloduty8630 6 днів тому +2

    It also can be loneliness like me,don't judge a book by it's cover bro one thing is made up of 10 more things soo dont stick to one conclusion

  • @gordanaprvulovic4660
    @gordanaprvulovic4660 День тому

    misli sta hoces....nebitno.
    iskren pozdrav.

  • @terriNCCC
    @terriNCCC 5 днів тому +2

    Because men don’t want the drama of emotionally hurting women.

  • @Rachel-i9y
    @Rachel-i9y 7 днів тому +6

    Evil and manipulative