I agree. Sometimes the best thing to do after getting kicked out of someone’s life is just get yourself back up, dust yourself off and walk away without looking back 😊
That is great advice. Like that old saying, "Living well is the best revenge". One of my older brothers gave me a great lesson years ago when his longtime girlfriend broke up with him. She said many cruel and petty things to him, like "I don't like the way you dress, I don't like the way you chew, etc." I was angry about it for him. But he told me to relax, "Never take in all that mean stuff people say to you; they are just trying to make a firm breakup in their mind, that's them, not you." And, he said, "Now I'll have more time for my research, I want to publish two more papers, and the brothers are talking about a fishing trip, so we'll be heading north..." He was already looking at the positives to having more time to himself. Such a great, well-adjusted guy. I've always remembered his example.
The best thing that happened to me was getting dumped by someone I cared about. For the first time I stepped back and looked at myself and what I needed to be before I even got in another relationship. Walking away, using that time to self reflect and keeping your peace is golden.
@@SaveTheMessenger a bit of an overshare but I was dumped exactly 4 years ago & I went into a very dark place that forced me to rethink not just how I engaged in my romantic relationships but also relationships in general. This was why when I stumbled upon your channel I stuck around because I’m already doing the things you talk about and I like that I’m part of a community that is committed to mindfulness and spiritual growth which is what I believe your channel ultimately is about from my perspective.
Good advice. I’m now happily remarried for many years. But when my first husband left me and did a lot of nasty things afterward, I told him someday he would be sorry. Thirty+ years later, he’s still alone. Nothing has worked out for him, including another failed marriage. So much for the grass being greener elsewhere.
You are SO right. My ex had me jumping through hoops for 4 years: he was estranged from his wife, £30k in debt, terrified to divorce for fear of losing his massive Civil Service pension but because I was smitten, I just went with the flow. Then something happened (bailiffs? house being repossessed?) but he never told me: he just abandoned me the day after my dad died - disappeared without a word. They say ‘the best revenge is success’ and it is.
It's difficult when u have children from the narcissistic Even though narcissistic does not care about the children too but it's so difficult to move on from marriage after a certain age
Taking the high road is a sign of how classy you are, Doll. If he wants to go, let him go. Don't let him take up any more space in your lovely brain. No, it's not easy, but nothing worthwhile is. ❤
So true The best revenge for his betrayal and abrupt abandonment of you Is silence, indifference, moving on and letting go The best revenge is to focus on building your own castle and your life When you are building up your castle and your life, you have no time for unimportant people He had had his golden chance with you but chosen to brew it by subordinating himself to other temptations or better catches Pain is unavoidable But suffering is a matter of choice When you build up your castle of self-love, self-worth, self-respect, no one else can take it away from you You finally get it, right ❤
At 68 years of age, I have gone through many disappointments in love. Your advice has been instrumental in giving me the perspective I need to enjoy the castle I have built. The scarcity mindset is gone, and I love every minute of my new life. I am off the dating app as it was destroying my self confidence and will move forward into a bright new future. Thank you so much for your help Ismael. Sending much love and light to all on this journey of discovery of self. Bless! ✨🙏💓
I’m truly touched to hear that my advice has made a difference in your life. Your resilience and commitment to embracing abundance are inspiring, especially after all you’ve been through. Stepping away from things that no longer serve you, like the dating apps, and focusing on the life you’ve built is a powerful move.
I am so grateful that I was guided to your channel. 🙏 Your empathetic advice resonates with me, and I sincerely hope that many others learn from your experience. Thank you so very much for giving me the courage to accept, love, and respect myself at long last.💞 I wish you a wonderful life!Bless you!🙏✨️💞@SaveTheMessenger
I’m 70 and got involved with a younger man. He’s currently living with an older woman that told me he’s leaving. He hasn’t left her. All lies. I walked away
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.
Mashallah your timing is perfect, I'm actually doing this. I'm being silent. If I say mean things to him, I'll sound desperate. Nd haha I hv too much pride for being desperate. Him n I are over before we even started. My silence always makes him desperate. Empty words he says a lot.
I am starting to be silent toward toxic people in my life. I no longer tell them how they make me feel. I just focus on my life now. Now that I no longer care, my toxic family is trying to get a hold of me. I guess silence speaks louder than words. These people always look down on me and treat me like I am a poor loser. It's okay because I choose to walk away from them all. I realized I was too nice and giving always putting others esp my family first. But now, they won't be getting my help and benefits anymore. It makes me sad sometimes...thinking about how they used to treat me but I prefer my peace nowadays.
I love your channel. I'm in my 60's and have reached the point where I'm first, where I can be in a relationship for all the right reasons. I won't be mistreated, am able to move on, while not hanging on for a morsel of hope or more abuse. How I wish I'd found your channel about 40 years ago!
so true . The fe3ling of revenge comes from th3 sense of scarcity. I felt bad abt the breakup until I was unemployed. th moment I got the job I forgot all the pain. I cd pamper myself , buy anything i wanted. and the moment I realised that I'm blessed and guarded, I felt no longer bad.
I don't want revenge. He has some mental issues and addiction he's trying to overcome. Yes, he hurt me deeply and I will always love him. I pray for his healing and recovery. I do hope to one day for us to make peace. ❣️
Absolutely agree with this! Acceptance, detachment, and trusting that Universe has something better for me has allowed me to stop suffering and set healthy boundaries. I deserve to feel secure, valued, and in control!
Thanks man.. I never though of taking revenge after break up, thinking that it is a negative behavior.. But i didn't know that void part... Thanks once again.. U r doing an amazing job. U r lighting up the world... Many blessings to you❤🤗🤗
the only thing we really own is our own integrity, our values, and our soul... let's chase our dreams, and those who will truly love us, they will be there with us.. we need to believe
build your own castle, a place u feel safe and untouchable not to prove to him or anyone else but because you need a place where u are safe and are in control
Yes, He ghosted me a month ago. I'm so heartbroken but I'm doing a little better every week. His life is a complete mess!! Wonder if he will ever tell me why? I've lost a lot of respect for him!!!
It's so hard. He ghosted me a month ago. I tried to call him last week because I wanted to know why. His mailbox was full so I just hung up. Didn't bother to text. I'm doing better every week and if he comes back I want to know why??
Self-respect is of the utmost importance!! That’s a lesson which sometimes it’s difficult to learn. To do that we must not let our emotions control our actions!! Wisdom is a great virtue and changes people for the best!!
This is a very deep point that you talk about, Ismael! Very few ppl are able to point out the reason for revenge and how to deal with it from the point of abundance!
I’ve watched a lot of these types of videos and I have to say that yours is the first and only one that actually impacted me (in the best way possible) You covered all of the scenarios of the things I’d usually do and made it click in my mind that I should not..Thank you for your wisdom and sharing this with people like me who are going thru it! Only good things are coming my way! So grateful to you! Sending you love and light and I look forward to more videos 💕
Exactly 💯! That's Exactly what I did, bc of my nature. When the damage is done.. I went mute. Still mute. Arguing at 1st doesn't work well bc u need time to think and realize what he did. He's still pondering what to do and it's been months. I wouldn't respond to text messages and calls.. given the extent of the damage 💔
Hi Ismael ,you are such a blessing ! The way you talk and your wisdom. I agree 💯 with you ! Thank you for all that your doing for this community! Never stop ,this world needs more people like you ! Beautiful heart and mind ! Hello from Mykonos ❤
I simply ignored his calls, then finally told him by text that I met another man. Then I blocked him. This was the result of him ghosting me for 3 months
Bang on Ismael....I bumped into this video just to check ✅ in whether I am going it right or not...And there you are confirming 💯 right... Thanks Buddy 😊
My bf of 4yrs cheated on me...i didn't know what to do so i leave him and stay silent even though he keeps texting me and stalking me in all social media, i just look at his text , cry and didn't reply and put fun status all the time . Even though i am sad and was sick for 6months after we broke up 😢
I agree with everything you said. Trying to hurt someone (even if they have hurt you) will only lead to you being more miserable and torn. You need to try to find some good in what happened amd sometimes you can only see this much later. I suffered with my ex husband for about 14 years and had lost all my confidence. I did not try to harm him and carried on with my life and my responsibility but now I feel at peace. I can feel God by my side as I know I went on the right path of still wishing him well. Karma is real. If you're intentions are bad only bad will happen to you.
I’m glad you always emhasize that full attention should be given. If a person doesn’t concentrate, they won’t learn. If you study something, you can only obtain the knowlege, if you give it your full focus and thorougly process it in your mind. A lot of women tend to be scatter-brained - sometimes because of their hormons fluctuation, so multitasking doesn’t help.
I have met 3 men that hurt me with words or cheated and I just walked away without a word. I have deleted their phone numbers and Facebook. They were do shocked. They didnt expect that - they though that I will fight for them or something... They tried to reach me but I was quiet. One was so shocked that I have deleted his numbers - he though that I will wait for his call forever 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You're awesome....caught my ex kissing someone a month ago... I took him back.. Three weeks later, I caught him with her again... this time naked at her house... We broke up.. next day.. he calls me saying he missed my voice.. Day after.. I go to his house... spend the night... yes.. had sex with him... And now.. two days later... I regret not walking away the first time... I hope I can be like you one day... I'm 49 and I've so much to learn
Great job my friend 😂 not your soulmate, they come and go for a reason, thank God for your patients that you treated them good, they will miss your tender love😂❤ Don't look back your devine ordained partner is waiting for you 😅
🎉AWESOME! mind blowing phenomenal wisdom!!! thank u so very very much 👏 🙌 👍 👌 🙏saw an ex ( happenstance ). asked if he could call. I said: No, u had ur chance & u blew it. the most wonderful feeling: taking ur power back, w/o anger&gracefully!
Wanting a "revenge" can come only if you felt giving for "nothing" afterwards, e.g., you expected a certain outcome. Imo that's quite goal oriented, instead of just having fun of a journey to get to know someone and to give with open heart, when you feel like wanting to do so. Anyways, just my perception.
So people, what Ismael is saying the best revenge is no revenge. Just walk away and focus on yourself and maybe someone else. Focus on healing and beung happy in yourself.
Thankyou for making this video, going through what you mentioned thankyou for showing the way forward, i love your videos bcz you give great solutions while other mentors keep talking more about problems, also so many mentors there on the subject that its confusing sometimes, so i decided to stick with ya for my enlightment 😊 thankyou!! ❤
Absolutely Right well in my case It was my first time where d guy was narcissist, psychopath, worst he was into dark practitioner and he still is. I am Thankful to God 🙏👑♥️🌹 Thankful to Universe 🌹 Thankful to lord Jesus👑♥️🙏🌹 with the help of signs and awareness of surrounding PPL who showed me his reality, wat he speaks behind my back, n everything I have cut cords permanently, blocked and changed my city and moved on completely in offer to save my soul my life♥️🙏
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It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
Why would we want to take revenge on a man?
We are not men🤪
Leaving them with themselves is enough.☮️🇮🇳🤍
I've clicked on the video because I like the insight that you share as a man, which is pretty helpful on many occasions, So Thank you 💐☮️🇮🇳🤍
Thank you so much Mr. Ismael.
I agree. Sometimes the best thing to do after getting kicked out of someone’s life is just get yourself back up, dust yourself off and walk away without looking back 😊
AMEN!!!!!
Even if he doesn't regret never mind just do shat u do is good for u
There is no best revenge , heal, move on and don't be like those who hurt you.
That is the best revenge!
That is great advice. Like that old saying, "Living well is the best revenge". One of my older brothers gave me a great lesson years ago when his longtime girlfriend broke up with him. She said many cruel and petty things to him, like "I don't like the way you dress, I don't like the way you chew, etc." I was angry about it for him. But he told me to relax, "Never take in all that mean stuff people say to you; they are just trying to make a firm breakup in their mind, that's them, not you." And, he said, "Now I'll have more time for my research, I want to publish two more papers, and the brothers are talking about a fishing trip, so we'll be heading north..." He was already looking at the positives to having more time to himself. Such a great, well-adjusted guy. I've always remembered his example.
Your brother is a wise man. I'm glad you have a male role model like him in your life.
Your brother was a terrible boyfriend and lover. Otherwise no woman would breakup with him.
@@DiamondsRexpensivenever go for a revenge just forgive yourself and move on
Wow how enlightening!🩵
The best thing that happened to me was getting dumped by someone I cared about. For the first time I stepped back and looked at myself and what I needed to be before I even got in another relationship. Walking away, using that time to self reflect and keeping your peace is golden.
Same thing happened to me 5 years ago and it led me to where I am today. I'm glad you were able to take time to self-reflect.
@@SaveTheMessenger a bit of an overshare but I was dumped exactly 4 years ago & I went into a very dark place that forced me to rethink not just how I engaged in my romantic relationships but also relationships in general. This was why when I stumbled upon your channel I stuck around because I’m already doing the things you talk about and I like that I’m part of a community that is committed to mindfulness and spiritual growth which is what I believe your channel ultimately is about from my perspective.
Absolutelly 👏
Living a good life is the best revenge
Good advice. I’m now happily remarried for many years. But when my first husband left me and did a lot of nasty things afterward, I told him someday he would be sorry. Thirty+ years later, he’s still alone. Nothing has worked out for him, including another failed marriage. So much for the grass being greener elsewhere.
@@bomcdowell-kim9194Not to me. She’s just stating facts.
@@bomcdowell-kim9194 How is calling out the facts bitter she’s just saying what it is 😂
You are SO right. My ex had me jumping through hoops for 4 years: he was estranged from his wife, £30k in debt, terrified to divorce for fear of losing his massive Civil Service pension but because I was smitten, I just went with the flow. Then something happened (bailiffs? house being repossessed?) but he never told me: he just abandoned me the day after my dad died - disappeared without a word. They say ‘the best revenge is success’ and it is.
It's difficult when u have children from the narcissistic
Even though narcissistic does not care about the children too but it's so difficult to move on from marriage after a certain age
Thanks 😊 🫂 🙏
Taking the high road is a sign of how classy you are, Doll. If he wants to go, let him go. Don't let him take up any more space in your lovely brain. No, it's not easy, but nothing worthwhile is. ❤
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Confirmation! My stepfather always said, “Silence is Golden”
So true
The best revenge for his betrayal and abrupt abandonment of you
Is silence, indifference, moving on and letting go
The best revenge is to focus on building your own castle and your life
When you are building up your castle and your life, you have no time for unimportant people
He had had his golden chance with you but chosen to brew it by subordinating himself to other temptations or better catches
Pain is unavoidable
But suffering is a matter of choice
When you build up your castle of self-love, self-worth, self-respect, no one else can take it away from you
You finally get it, right ❤
This man is giving everything to women. Wow huge respect for this man
Thank you for the thoughtful words. It’s all about mutual respect and support-glad to hear it's making a positive impact.
Yeah I feel so much good after that end🙂
At 68 years of age, I have gone through many disappointments in love. Your advice has been instrumental in giving me the perspective I need to enjoy the castle I have built. The scarcity mindset is gone, and I love every minute of my new life. I am off the dating app as it was destroying my self confidence and will move forward into a bright new future. Thank you so much for your help Ismael. Sending much love and light to all on this journey of discovery of self. Bless! ✨🙏💓
I’m truly touched to hear that my advice has made a difference in your life. Your resilience and commitment to embracing abundance are inspiring, especially after all you’ve been through. Stepping away from things that no longer serve you, like the dating apps, and focusing on the life you’ve built is a powerful move.
I am so grateful that I was guided to your channel. 🙏 Your empathetic advice resonates with me, and I sincerely hope that many others learn from your experience.
Thank you so very much for giving me the courage to accept, love, and respect myself at long last.💞 I wish you a wonderful life!Bless you!🙏✨️💞@SaveTheMessenger
I’m 70 and got involved with a younger man. He’s currently living with an older woman that told me he’s leaving. He hasn’t left her. All lies. I walked away
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.
Wow, that’s incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in helping people reconnect with their ex.
Thank you for sharing this valuable info! I just looked him up, and he seems impressive.
You can keep loving him , just have to evolve with it.
There's a great saying: the best revenge is to live well.
Absolutely. Focusing on your growth and happiness is the ultimate way to move forward.
Mashallah your timing is perfect, I'm actually doing this. I'm being silent. If I say mean things to him, I'll sound desperate. Nd haha I hv too much pride for being desperate. Him n I are over before we even started. My silence always makes him desperate. Empty words he says a lot.
Best mindset. Keep focusing on you.
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I am starting to be silent toward toxic people in my life. I no longer tell them how they make me feel. I just focus on my life now. Now that I no longer care, my toxic family is trying to get a hold of me. I guess silence speaks louder than words. These people always look down on me and treat me like I am a poor loser. It's okay because I choose to walk away from them all. I realized I was too nice and giving always putting others esp my family first. But now, they won't be getting my help and benefits anymore. It makes me sad sometimes...thinking about how they used to treat me but I prefer my peace nowadays.
I love your channel. I'm in my 60's and have reached the point where I'm first, where I can be in a relationship for all the right reasons. I won't be mistreated, am able to move on, while not hanging on for a morsel of hope or more abuse. How I wish I'd found your channel about 40 years ago!
so true . The fe3ling of revenge comes from th3 sense of scarcity. I felt bad abt the breakup until I was unemployed. th moment I got the job I forgot all the pain. I cd pamper myself , buy anything i wanted. and the moment I realised that I'm blessed and guarded, I felt no longer bad.
I don't want revenge. He has some mental issues and addiction he's trying to overcome. Yes, he hurt me deeply and I will always love him. I pray for his healing and recovery. I do hope to one day for us to make peace. ❣️
Oh yes silence drives men crazy! They always come back.Ismael can you do a video about men appearing disappearing please? ❤❤❤
It's been 4 years of silence from him. They don't always come back.
@@missl9348 Really??
isn't it so difficult to leave someone we truly love...wht he has done is his character....but how painful to let someone go who live in ur heart 💔
I didn’t get dumped. I walked away.
Absolutely agree with this! Acceptance, detachment, and trusting that Universe has something better for me has allowed me to stop suffering and set healthy boundaries. I deserve to feel secure, valued, and in control!
Listened twice to this video , no multitasking 😊. Treasure. Thank you, I needed that❤
I'm so glad you found it valuable. A focused listen really makes all the difference. Thank you for sharing.
Love the castle analogy! 👌🏼🏯❤🏰
Thanks man..
I never though of taking revenge after break up, thinking that it is a negative behavior.. But i didn't know that void part...
Thanks once again.. U r doing an amazing job. U r lighting up the world... Many blessings to you❤🤗🤗
All the best. Thank you.
the only thing we really own is our own integrity, our values, and our soul... let's chase our dreams, and those who will truly love us, they will be there with us.. we need to believe
This channel is the sanctuary of wisdom ❤
Thank you for making my channel a part of your journey to wisdom.
build your own castle, a place u feel safe and untouchable not to prove to him or anyone else but because you need a place where u are safe and are in control
Much needed video at the moment. I don't understand why guys behave this way. Ghosting kind are the worst ones 😭
Ghosting people are very mean, there no normal people who will voluntary ignore someone in this manner, runaway asap as you face them.
Okay. It hurts a lot when the person whom you like so much hurts you as if you don't matter at all 😢
Yes, He ghosted me a month ago. I'm so heartbroken but I'm doing a little better every week.
His life is a complete mess!!
Wonder if he will ever tell me why? I've lost a lot of respect for him!!!
That's exactly what I needed! Thanx
Revenge is never the answer! He is so right! That person shouldnt haven the power to rent space in your mind!
It's so hard. He ghosted me a month ago. I tried to call him last week because I wanted to know why. His mailbox was full so I just hung up. Didn't bother to text. I'm doing better every week and if he comes back I want to know why??
I’m glad we’re in agreement.
I pray someone, even myself, will benefit from this valuable message. Thank you Ismael. I love your channel.
My first thought was why do that to another human being?
Just move on and forward!! Try and work on yourself.
Now I'm watching🤐🤐.
Redirect the energy plotting revenge on him back onto yourself. Work every day on improving things for yourself. You sint need them.
Exactly. Focusing on self-improvement and redirecting that energy towards your own growth is the most empowering way to move forward.
Self-respect is of the utmost importance!!
That’s a lesson which sometimes it’s difficult to learn. To do that we must not let our emotions control our actions!! Wisdom is a great virtue and changes people for the best!!
This is a very deep point that you talk about, Ismael! Very few ppl are able to point out the reason for revenge and how to deal with it from the point of abundance!
Your advices are so powerful and can make vulnerable women to discover their own worth"thank you❤
Your best yet, Ismael. Thank you
This man seems so nice and I love his advices!! Truly helpful
I’ve watched a lot of these types of videos and I have to say that yours is the first and only one that actually impacted me (in the best way possible) You covered all of the scenarios of the things I’d usually do and made it click in my mind that I should not..Thank you for your wisdom and sharing this with people like me who are going thru it! Only good things are coming my way! So grateful to you! Sending you love and light and I look forward to more videos 💕
The the quick tip edit after #2 was so cool🖤 love this vid thank u
Pain in unavoidable but suffering is optional
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Absolutely, pain is a part of life, but how we respond to it is up to us. Thank you for sharing.
Exactly 💯! That's Exactly what I did, bc of my nature. When the damage is done.. I went mute. Still mute. Arguing at 1st doesn't work well bc u need time to think and realize what he did. He's still pondering what to do and it's been months. I wouldn't respond to text messages and calls.. given the extent of the damage 💔
Hi Ismael ,you are such a blessing ! The way you talk and your wisdom. I agree 💯 with you ! Thank you for all that your doing for this community! Never stop ,this world needs more people like you ! Beautiful heart and mind ! Hello from Mykonos ❤
Thank you for the kind words. Wishing you all the best.
I love it! Thank you, Ismael! ❤
it was absolutely amazing. I enjoyed a lot . just yesterday I googled how to get revenge from a man who broke your heart . thank you
Great discussion coach💯
So informative & knowledgeable 😊
This is pure truth ❤ Your videos are amazing, thank you 😍
Glad you like them.
Mr Gomez you've been always helpfull for me.thanks alot because of usefull videos❤
Thankyou for this I really need this ❤❤
I simply ignored his calls, then finally told him by text that I met another man. Then I blocked him. This was the result of him ghosting me for 3 months
Thank you so much for this!! 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for your advice.💋🥰 I am listening! 👂 😊
Makes a lot of sense. Thank you Ismael. Subscribed 😊
Title did get me. Not looking for revenge, just my energy back xo
So much wisdom here in this video, thank you honey
I appreciate the compliment.
Ismail...this is just the right advice for me....❤
Vengeance belongs to the Lord
You are a saviour. Truly respect your work !!!! Need more understanding men like you in this world
This is encouraging thank you
I REALLY LIKE YOUR TOPICS, I ALWAYS CLICK ON YOUR VIDEOS EVERY TIME I SEE YOU OR READING THE TITLE IT'S GENIUS !!
Thank you so much. I'm thrilled you enjoy the content-your support means a lot to me.
Wow God bless you. Following from Uganda. Well done keep it up
This video is pure gold😌
I have my castle 🏰 and I am off all social media except UA-cam 😊
I'm please to have you here. Thank you.
🎉you are a great mentor Ismael ... you are easy to understand.. thankyou from me in Australia 🇦🇺
Thank you Sir, I needed this advice.
Thank you Ismael..❤
No revenge , Go no contact, walk away 🎉
Thank you. I needed to hear this.
I’m glad you found my video today.
Bang on Ismael....I bumped into this video just to check ✅ in whether I am going it right or not...And there you are confirming 💯 right...
Thanks Buddy 😊
I agree
Thank You Sir
Thank you for advice great
Thanks a million for this video 🙏❤️
don't take revenge to anyone who hurt you. Forgive them and let God do the avenge in your behalf.
Ismael Thanks! 😊 This video came at the right time when I needed guidance the most. You always speak facts.
You're welcome. I’m really glad to hear that the video was helpful for you. Thanks for the kind words.
My bf of 4yrs cheated on me...i didn't know what to do so i leave him and stay silent even though he keeps texting me and stalking me in all social media, i just look at his text , cry and didn't reply and put fun status all the time . Even though i am sad and was sick for 6months after we broke up 😢
I agree with everything you said. Trying to hurt someone (even if they have hurt you) will only lead to you being more miserable and torn. You need to try to find some good in what happened amd sometimes you can only see this much later. I suffered with my ex husband for about 14 years and had lost all my confidence. I did not try to harm him and carried on with my life and my responsibility but now I feel at peace. I can feel God by my side as I know I went on the right path of still wishing him well. Karma is real. If you're intentions are bad only bad will happen to you.
I'm glad you found peace. And yes, karma is definitely real.
Thank God Karma Is Real. People are so cruel and selfish!!
Amazing......thank you
You helped me a lot
Lovely video❤
I’m glad you always emhasize that full attention should be given. If a person doesn’t concentrate, they won’t learn. If you study something, you can only obtain the knowlege, if you give it your full focus and thorougly process it in your mind. A lot of women tend to be scatter-brained - sometimes because of their hormons fluctuation, so multitasking doesn’t help.
Beautiful video Ismail. Loved it.❤
Thank you so much. I'm glad you enjoyed the video.
I have met 3 men that hurt me with words or cheated and I just walked away without a word. I have deleted their phone numbers and Facebook. They were do shocked. They didnt expect that - they though that I will fight for them or something... They tried to reach me but I was quiet. One was so shocked that I have deleted his numbers - he though that I will wait for his call forever 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Gud job 👍😄😌
You're awesome....caught my ex kissing someone a month ago... I took him back..
Three weeks later, I caught him with her again... this time naked at her house...
We broke up.. next day.. he calls me saying he missed my voice..
Day after.. I go to his house... spend the night... yes.. had sex with him...
And now.. two days later... I regret not walking away the first time...
I hope I can be like you one day... I'm 49 and I've so much to learn
Great job my friend 😂 not your soulmate, they come and go for a reason, thank God for your patients that you treated them good, they will miss your tender love😂❤ Don't look back your devine ordained partner is waiting for you 😅
Thats the best advice i learn from this video. Thank you sir. We just move on and built our own castle.
This is a very motivating video
..really it gives a very strong message...thank you so much ❤
🎉AWESOME! mind blowing phenomenal wisdom!!! thank u so very very much 👏 🙌 👍 👌 🙏saw an ex ( happenstance ). asked if he could call. I said: No, u had ur chance & u blew it. the most wonderful feeling: taking ur power back, w/o anger&gracefully!
Thank you ❤
Wanting a "revenge" can come only if you felt giving for "nothing" afterwards, e.g., you expected a certain outcome. Imo that's quite goal oriented, instead of just having fun of a journey to get to know someone and to give with open heart, when you feel like wanting to do so. Anyways, just my perception.
The best revenge is being happy and living your life ❤
So people, what Ismael is saying the best revenge is no revenge.
Just walk away and focus on yourself and maybe someone else. Focus on healing and beung happy in yourself.
This IS the right way to live without him.
Thankyou for making this video, going through what you mentioned thankyou for showing the way forward, i love your videos bcz you give great solutions while other mentors keep talking more about problems, also so many mentors there on the subject that its confusing sometimes, so i decided to stick with ya for my enlightment 😊 thankyou!! ❤
Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm truly glad the content resonates with you and helps provide clarity.
Thanks so much
Thank you so much Sir❤
Great, this guy knows the women psychology
Thank you. Understanding and empathy are key in connecting with others, and I’m glad it’s resonating.
Excellent video!!
only this man can save me❤
Absolutely Right well in my case It was my first time where d guy was narcissist, psychopath, worst he was into dark practitioner and he still is. I am Thankful to God 🙏👑♥️🌹 Thankful to Universe 🌹 Thankful to lord Jesus👑♥️🙏🌹 with the help of signs and awareness of surrounding PPL who showed me his reality, wat he speaks behind my back, n everything I have cut cords permanently, blocked and changed my city and moved on completely in offer to save my soul my life♥️🙏
Not me thinking that I would burn the house down. LOL!
I don't want a revenge, I just want him back... Any advice on that???