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  • Опубліковано 10 січ 2023
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    So today we're going to be talking about and reviewing one of my older videos about what to do when a guy is pulling away and when he is starting to act cold. What is your number one strategy to prevent that or to how to bring him back while still maintaining your respect and if you acted needy how to overcome the needy, how to change the way he saw you so that he realizes you know what you're stronger than you really are, because unfortunately a lot of you ladies who love are people who want to show love but unfortunately there's a lot of dudes out there who just want to take advantage of that.
    So let's watch, I'll stop the video in between parts to give you guys my take on what I said. Am sure you’re gonna get shocked about some of the things that I react to right now.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 72

  • @deearockgirl19
    @deearockgirl19 Рік тому +68

    please don't ever stop doing these videos, u saved my life thank you 🥰😭🐑❤️❤️❤️🙌u deserve more views comments etc ☺️ u re brilliant Dalexis

  • @raniyuna2930
    @raniyuna2930 Рік тому +40

    If people try to do these stuff on me, I feel it boring and cutting them out. Best healing for them.✌🏻

  • @Kindnesslove
    @Kindnesslove Рік тому +88

    "You are not as weak as you thought I was MF'er. " - That is my favorite line. I've watched that video several times. I like old Alex and new Alex 😎

  • @lisadeav73
    @lisadeav73 Рік тому +16

    I love what you said. When a guy pulls back you get cold As balls.

  • @judithhausberger8692
    @judithhausberger8692 Рік тому +33

    Your Videos nowadays are the Best! They are more calm. Thank you!

  • @ShadowMeTarot
    @ShadowMeTarot Рік тому +24

    I like your old videos. Your tactics work. They foster infatuation. I discovered through experience that I can get anyone that i want but using these tactics to start a relationship there's a toxic seductive and addictive aspect to the connection and as amazing as that is, it's not sustainable and then the fantasy drops and it gets hard because you really have to get to know the person and find understanding. I hope your new videos maybe address healthy communication once you are in the relationship. A video that explores the transition from the addiction to building a life with another person.

  • @olya333
    @olya333 Рік тому +13

    😂😂😂yooo…you saying “ what type of people was i meeting back then” made me think back too😭… so happy we are smart and grown and don’t take shit😊

  • @LJ-mo7kx
    @LJ-mo7kx Рік тому +16

    Alex you are the epitome o a VIRGO MAN hahaha I love it. Y'all are great at dissecting and giving grounded, rational advice

  • @yekailee08
    @yekailee08 9 місяців тому +3

    You are so young but so wise , your talk makes sense to me much more than others

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 Рік тому +9

    Alex is write about everything. Trust me. I started watching his video 1 year ago. Now I start to understand while some men act the way they do.

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 Рік тому +35

    mic went no contact

  • @oyinemaria1940
    @oyinemaria1940 4 місяці тому +1

    I had to learn the hard way. I'm such a loving and caring lady. And I love to express it. But not anymore, Father Alex has groomed me. I'm better and my relationship is a lot better this days. I have peace of mind now that I'm just leaning back. It's so cool. Thank you as always 😅😅😅

  • @elizabethseiden9938
    @elizabethseiden9938 Рік тому +13

    I just wanted to be like Jlo was when she was with her back up dancer! A cutie pie who caters to my every whim!!!😂❤

  • @Rikkifitnessmama_
    @Rikkifitnessmama_ Рік тому +7

    I’m too tired: “You don’t release enough dopamine for me” yooo I’m literally ☠️😭😂😂😂😂😂 7:31

  • @Xianne027
    @Xianne027 Рік тому +34

    Sorry, have to disagree with you Alex about being too tired to see someone.
    I, as an older woman, can say for a fact, and have also read in many books, that for woman, even if it's the man of our greatest dreams, we quite often will avoid meeting up with a guy when we're exhausted. The reason being that women focus on the EMOTIONAL quality of the time together. If we're tired or have our periods we know that we won't be at our best, won't make a good impression and that this will affect the relationship NEGATIVELY longterm. Better to sit it out until we feel more vibrant.
    Also, women will forgo sex or even just a date, if she has to get up extremely early the next day for an important role at work. Classic senario: A pilot or a surgeon.
    We have a more inate sense of responsibility.
    Men, on the other hand, being purely sex driven and ego-point-scoring needy will never turn down an opportunity for sexual contact.
    Learn up!

    • @ceyciemateo9411
      @ceyciemateo9411 Рік тому +3

      Exactly

    • @aneva2464
      @aneva2464 Рік тому +4

      Very true! And around that time of the months women may experience painful cramps, breakouts, low immunity, bloating. Women don’t owe explanations when we say we are tired, because men don’t bleed.., men have no clue what it’s like painful bleeding all day for a week and still have to show up to work everyday, bills don’t pay themselves, and still men expect us to look and act sexy or whatever. Okay, Alex is gives good tips, but you are a still a men at end of the day you can’t relate to us being tired.

    • @ksref
      @ksref Рік тому +3

      This is true!

  • @paulmcintosh3073
    @paulmcintosh3073 Рік тому +6

    Thanks for all you do, Alex

  • @xoRenataRosexo
    @xoRenataRosexo Рік тому +15

    I loVE that you crack yourself up

  • @Consuaser
    @Consuaser Рік тому +7

    I wonder why there are moments of silence throughout still love the content!

  • @ThtGirlElle
    @ThtGirlElle 9 місяців тому +4

    Here’s what I message: Hi, i wanted to check on you and see if you’re okay. If for some reason, your silence is intentional, then I wish you the best. Either way, I don’t water dead plants.

  • @Mandycapetown
    @Mandycapetown Рік тому +20

    I’ve been watching all your old videos the past week. My guy has pulled away after telling me he loves me. I’m so f hurt. This relationship is just not going ok because I’m white and he is black, plus we live in South Africa so it’s still so racist. I am in pain. I don’t want to be needy. I’ve pulled away completely. But damn it hurts AND he flaked on me on my birthday , now that really hurt

    • @thatgirlcamillatravel6393
      @thatgirlcamillatravel6393 Рік тому +2

      Did things workout?

    • @Challenger2A7
      @Challenger2A7 8 місяців тому +1

      You deserve better than a man who doesn't even bother about your birthday. That should tell you all you need to know.

  • @peacefulloveagain4124
    @peacefulloveagain4124 Рік тому +9

    2:00 = Ok, I see what you mean..too cute..u r talking to you. Love your videos. So helpful. Thank you.

  • @aliasharrief7744
    @aliasharrief7744 Рік тому +11

    Your mic went silence

  • @sandradesouza9940
    @sandradesouza9940 Рік тому +13

    Alex I would love to know your opinion on this....
    I'm starting to notice a correlation between being self assured, confident, and resilient, and being low key narcissistic. What is the line that separates the two?

    • @wurlycurlygirly
      @wurlycurlygirly Рік тому +1

      I second that 😅

    • @chloerutherfoord4586
      @chloerutherfoord4586 Рік тому +6

      EMPATHY.

    • @fortyfourandgore9787
      @fortyfourandgore9787 11 місяців тому

      Google 9 traits of NPD. If at least four of those are present, you've likely got a narcissist on your hands. That being said, only a trained and licensed mental health clinician can diagnose, not people on the internet.

  • @charisma1349
    @charisma1349 Рік тому +4

    New Alex has mellowed huh lol thanks 🙏

    • @Margriet101
      @Margriet101 Рік тому +5

      He seems a bit more grounded and empathic, maby because the meditation sessions.

  • @Lexysan
    @Lexysan Рік тому +7

    I Wonder why does the sound sometimes disappear ??

  • @auralionasol2205
    @auralionasol2205 Рік тому +14

    your mic goes silent in this video a couple of times

  • @ladyfxllc
    @ladyfxllc Рік тому +1

    Funny how you saying I can't see shit reminded you that we couldn't see it either. I was over here thinking the same thing. 😆

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 Рік тому +1

    I’m taking notes for the future

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 Рік тому +2

    “Overly emotional “

  • @oliviagriffin8918
    @oliviagriffin8918 Рік тому +1

    Much love Father Alex

  • @JO-tw5yd
    @JO-tw5yd Рік тому +13

    Can you make a video of what the bitchy women do? Like your tinder convos so we can replicate that shit cuz clearly it works 😂

  • @leonorsilva134
    @leonorsilva134 Рік тому +1

    Another dope video

  • @paulmcintosh3073
    @paulmcintosh3073 Рік тому +6

    What should I do when my long-term narcissist fuck buddy becomes distant shows minimal effort when together and continues to reach out?

  • @holliewood8647
    @holliewood8647 Рік тому +1

    Needed this

  • @afg6605
    @afg6605 Рік тому +14

    The story of you and the girl was weird. You was waiting for the girl to come to see u ?? But you are the man you should go to her . Or maybe you are a feminine man .

    • @eveheart2876
      @eveheart2876 Рік тому +1

      Nah. The chick wanted to boost her ego and wanted validation. Alex didn’t give her that. 😂 he did the opposite.

    • @eveheart2876
      @eveheart2876 Рік тому +5

      Even men do that. Once guy I did talking stage with. He wanted to be serious about me relationship wise. He let one of his female friend to pick up my calls. I downplay the whole thing. He wanted me to be upset about that. I kept it cordial. I said let me know when u want us to talk. 😆 he then later said , I was testing you. I downplay some of his games.

  • @steph6109
    @steph6109 Рік тому +1

    At least you're reflecting.

  • @azachen
    @azachen Рік тому +2

    That's what I'm doing now.. Cold

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 Рік тому +2

    😂 is funny the way you recap your own video 😊

  • @lizanal1521
    @lizanal1521 Рік тому +4

    You sound like you have grown Alex.

  • @jazzy47827
    @jazzy47827 8 місяців тому

    Good Advice

  • @jazzy47827
    @jazzy47827 8 місяців тому

    Father Alex Love your videos &
    Your Laugh 😅

  • @amaliasasso1916
    @amaliasasso1916 6 місяців тому

    You can’t see it see what? 😂 yoooooo

  • @Miranda-bq4ii
    @Miranda-bq4ii Рік тому

    On point

  • @paolanamuncura8879
    @paolanamuncura8879 Рік тому +1

    By gettin cold You mean ignorin his msgs?

    • @lalaheart76
      @lalaheart76 Рік тому +2

      You can still answer not right away , being cordial but play distant.

  • @eveheart2876
    @eveheart2876 Рік тому +6

    😂 you literally have to play dumb for some folks indeed. Give no validation

  • @mazzamaz3827
    @mazzamaz3827 26 днів тому

    ALEXXXXXX...Your voice mutes several times during this video.

  • @paris3331
    @paris3331 Рік тому

    He creeps me out

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes

    🦋

  • @onlydebra4580
    @onlydebra4580 Рік тому +1

    I'm not thinking long terms, guys are just stupid with all the playing ..mind games..rudeness..then when you do that back..they go bezerk ..too bad

  • @magbambamilymember
    @magbambamilymember 11 місяців тому +2

    Fix ur mic or I’ll unfollow 😡

  • @nedimkamil3950
    @nedimkamil3950 Рік тому +7

    No womens preparation is harder maybe thats why we can refuse. Both physically and psychologically