Tbh I don’t like the last dress as much as the second one. The tattoo in the last one looks out of place and awkward but in the second dress it’s framed beautifully
i don't love tattoos at all but i have to agree with you. the second dress was perfect on her. the third one, the one she chose, was chosen under pressure, i feel. had she dried the second one one with a veil covering the tattoos, i think she would have chosen that one.
I agree AND the second one was under budget while the last one was slightly over. And I agree with the other commenter about the tattoo being hid by the veil anyway?? The second one was most beautiful and classy and Monroe like
Crown Me Queen In my opinion, a wedding can only be really ‘yours’ if you’re paying for it completely by yourself. And even then it’s questionable (other cultures see wedding as joining two *families* together so it’s definitely never all about the bride). Point is, if the step mum is financially contributing to the dress then she has every right to object to the bride’s choice. You can’t claim independence on someone else’s dime.
Wedding isn't the time to show off tattoos and piercings. It's a time to have at least a modicum of class. Do you show off tattoos at a funeral too? I hope not. Just because you want to doesn't mean you should.
Sunshine I just took a look at your AMV playlist and am shocked on how much we might have in common. I’ve seen and enjoyed literally all the anime’s on your playlist and I’m just watching videos from the playlist now 😂. Let me just say you have a great taste in anime 👌
Jeeze, thank you so much. 😊 I've said this before in the yt comment section, and I'll say it again. Compliments from strangers really make me feel way better than it's normal. So thank you for making me blush today.
Star Light Cookie I agree, but at the same time: exactly, it's her day, so if she wants her stepmum to be happy, then she should act on it. If you want to please somebody else and you are ok with doing compromises to achieve so, then she should go for it.
Why should she find a dress that pleases everyone? She's the one wearing the dress so the only person it needs to please is her, it's her body and she can show whatever she wants off
I agree. Also, I felt it looked awkward having the tattoo half covered like that. If she's going to cover it, cover the whole thing. Otherwise show it off. Although my mother has a tattoo about the same size but on her lower back, so maybe that's just how I was raised (my Mum's tattoo is the musical notation of the Ode to Joy melody that twists and turns and is bordered in smoke-it's beautiful).
@@t.matthies3049 yh like when she first saw the dress in the mirror she didn't look like she liked it that much and then felt abliged to pick that dress cause her stepmum liked it
I definitely agree. I think it’s really hard to go against the people you care about, even when it’s supposed to be all about you. She looks stunning in all of them, I just hope she truly is happy in this one and that her stepmom stops complaining about it so she can show it off other times around her.
That’s the thing though, the balance. Because it is her day, part of her desire is that her stepmom like the dress. That is a part of the whole thing for her.
I hate the idea that a bride HAS to be the epitome of delicacy and purity on their wedding day. That clearly isn't this girl's style, so why should she change that on one of the most important days of her life?
It’s also annoying because you can sill be feminine and delicate even if you have tattoos. Not saying that what she wants, but the mom complaining she can’t be just because if her tattoos is ridiculous.
She looked STUNNING in the second dress. I thought the 3rd dress was a bit frumpy and not "Marilyn Monroe" at all. I love her tattoo - it IS feminine! Lots of ladies these days have great tattoos (and way more of them than this lady has too). The mother needs to just get over it and realise whose wedding it is. The only person who needs to love the look is the bride, and she loved the 2nd dress.
Also I feel like whenever it's a step parent (unless obviously they're a close kind and have been a parent they never had or they're really close) they always think they're opinion is super important. Or when the biological parent is there they think their opinion is more important than theirs
@@garnet9788 that's why she should shut down the witch. Set a boundary that she makes decisions for herself regarding her life, no one else. Hope she finds her voice as she matures. And hope it's soon.
This show taught me something, I shopped for my gown alone ,paid and reserved it then welcomed my close friends n sister to see it but not have an opinion on what I should wear for my day. Turned out everyone loved it 😊
there difference vetween u and her. She cares for her family otherwise she would have done same as u. shopped for her own gown alone, paid and reserved and then ........! Even i would never go and buy alone as i have family and friends who really cares for me and loves me and yes it matters for us kinda girls to have them around us and i trust my family and friends and that they would never let me down.
nurse956 My dude, shopping alone doesn't mean you don't care for your loved ones. Take this girl (in the video) for example. Her mother really didn't want her to show an aspect of her that SHE felt comfortable showing. For other people, that kinda stuff can be really pressuring and they could end up with something everyone else likes, but something that they're not comfortable with or don't feel good in. Shopping alone just means you don't wanna be pressured by other people. When you have a wedding, it's YOUR day and you should feel good on your day. Other's opinions on your dress don't matter if you like it. If they don't like it then so be it. If I am EVER to have a wedding, I would only bring people that I know would support my decisions.
well i agree with u but then it is ur decision that u want only thoes who can only support u whether ur dress is looking good or not. Atleast i wouldnt do that as i want to know why my dress isnt looking nice and what would be great for me. So everyone has thier own choice while talking about these people so ofcourse these brides knows what is best for them and for many girls famiy matters so i wouldnt put my family dissapointed because it is only my dress, my wedding and etc as i want them to be happy because they have been thier for me supporting me, cares for me and they wouldnt support me what isnt best for me as my mom and sisters and my friend (1 friend) is everything for me and i now best that they knows best. so everyone has gotta choice but my mom, dad and sisters happiness means alot for me as i know they are more happier than me.
nurse956 I 100% understand what you mean and support your decision. Some people like other people's intake on certain things. But remember that your wedding is YOUR day. I'm not saying to completely cancel out other people's opinions, but don't forget to think about yourself and what makes you happy too. When I say that I wanna bring people that support my decisions (If I ever were to have a big wedding ceremony that is, and check that's even IF I ever get married. I might get married without some big fancy ceremony. I dunno. ^^), I mean that after I *truly* know I want a dress, and it makes me feel good, I don't want other people making me self-conscious about my decision. But if I were to bring people I love along, I would want to consider their opinions because they may end up showing me that a dress I pick out isn't REALLY the dress I want.
nurse956 Girl - the way other people feel for you is NEVER more important than how you feel about yourself. Hopefully one day you'll experience the confidence that comes with knowing that.
Okay my opinion I don't care if the Stepmom IS paying for it, part of it, its NOT her DAY!! Its her step daughters WEDDING!!! If you don't like her tattoo, thats YOUR issue... I'd be DAMNED if someone would FORBID me to HIDE my tattoo.. I'm not a big fan of tattoos personally but I would NEVER tell my daughter or my daughter in law to not wear HER DREAM wedding dress because I'm "offended" or because other people will be "offended" by looking at it, All due respect, if it truly bothers you that much, then DON'T attend my wedding.
+Lisa Stephen I agree that the step mom shouldn't have a say. However, IF she is paying for it, she would be well within her right to withdraw her money if the daughter doesn't get a dress that agrees with her morals. But sitting there and treating her stepdaughter so harshly while she is looking for her dream dress is unnecessary.
I guess you didn't notice, but the guy asked the mother what she thought of the dress at 4:33. The lady was just voicing her opinion which is why she went in the first place. Some people care what their family thinks about their dress...others don't. It's great that you don't, but don't be so simple minded to think that everyone is like you.
i dont understand your pov. the girl must really love her step mom, because her opinion seems to be very important for her, is even one of the decision making factors in choosing the dress. there is no point if step mom wears it or not, but maybe thinking of covering a tattoo a bit for such a traditional occasion as a wedding is not too bad idea... plus in my personal opinion this very tattoo is rather unattractive :/
I wanted to strangle her every time she said with innocent apologetic smile on her face 'I'm sorry, I don't like it' who cares about your preconceived notions about tattoos, thooooo?????
@@ggdd8666 I also unfortunately care about my mums opinion, but not because I think she has something valuable and useful to say but because for 90% of my life she imposed that opinion on me(very much like the woman in the video) She made me live my life the way she wanted no matter how much I opposed. So believe me sometimes you really wish to be able to care less about someone's opinion.
I'm going to be honest here. If I had someone like her stepmom in my entourage I would simply say: "Thank you for your input. I am aware you don't like the tattoo but I want to show them, so please stop pointing them out in every dress I have on." Honestly, if that is the only criticism comming from her no matter what the shape of the dress looks like on me, she isn't helpful at all and could just go home.
Random videos She went on and on about the tattoo though. That's really unhelpful and didn't need be repeated every time she saw a that dress showed off the tattoo. Asking someone to stop going on in a nice way is fine when it's her dress and her wedding. The step mother forgot she wasn't the bride and her opinion of the tattoo showing was clear already. She cared only about the tattoo not what made the bride happy.
YES! I would also never take her out with me to shop for my dress or anything else (judging by her strong attitude about what she doesn't like!). The fact that she find them disgusting that the bride had to cover them always around her is not normal. It is not easy for someone to be themselves when someone demand them to be something else. v-v I am not happy with this relationship dynamic and I hate that someone will tell someone frequently how they see tattoos with no regards to the person's feelings. It is not like she just seen them, they were there and they might increased in number, so she knows that the young lady does enjoy her tattoos. I have a mother that controlling and I cut her out of my life. Such behaviour doesn't stop and people who have it don't usually care for your emotions or what pleases you. I want to tell her to shut her talking hole and try to be considerate! I am ashamed she is behaving so inappropriately.
If she’s financially contributing to the dress she has every right to object in my opinion. If you’re gonna ‘assert your independence’ then at least make sure you’re paying for the dress completely on your own. Other than than that I can definitely see where you’re coming from.
I'm with David, tattoos are meant to be seen. When you go to a museum the paintings aren't covered with sheets. Tattoos are art and are meant to be shown off. Edit: God watching this again, the way she smiles and laughs while complaining about the tattoo just rubs me the wrong way. I would be furious with her if I was Hazel.
@@pegasusgalaxy68 But it's up to the person who has the tattoo if they want it to be seen. It belongs to someone and even if you don't like how it looks it might mean a lot to someone.
I just kept thinking- her tattoos are of a bow and the other one says "Diamonds and Pearls". How is that not feminine?! The dress she chose was perfect, though. She looked like Lady Gaga.
I’m so fucking sick of watching all of these toxic family members trying to control these brides on their wedding day. She has tattoos and she is proud of them. It is her, deal with it. It’s not about the stepmom. It’s so sad to watch. She looked so much better in the other dress and she wouldn’t have been compromising herself.
MsSimpleMovies what does that have to do with the dress that they enjoy on themselves? The family isn't wearing it so the bride should feel the best and most comfortable and beautiful in her dress. Nobody else has a say in that. What don't you understand?
Because a marriage is a blending of two families. And this girl and step mom have forged a close bond with each other when she was small...and we don't see the girls real mom there do we? So yes, she had opinions but she wanted her daughter happy in the end. They understood each other.
"We need to find a dress that pleases everyone..." No hunny, you need to find a dress that pleases the BRIDE! She's the one that's going to wear it. Her Stepmonster needs to lighten up and get over herself.
Am I'm the only one who got triggered when she said that tattoos are not very feminine, tattoos can be feminine if you want them to be and the step mom needs to back off it's her wedding dress if she wants to show her tattoo let her show her tattoo.
Exactly, I don't get why ppl feel as if their opinions are suddenly so significant to the point where they get to control someone's special day. It's literally just a tattoo. It's not a big deal lol.
The girl respected and loved her step mom...her real mom wasn't there for some reason. I appreciate their ability to say their opinions and still be able to love each other...
Agreed! The second dress did compliment the style of the tattoo. The step mom obviously decided Well beforehand that she would not be satisfied unless the tattoo appeared non existent, and the third dress with the veil placed on top did just that. The stylist should have taken the mum aside while the bride was changing to artfully remind her the importance of making a bride happy and letting her have what is important to her.
Aneesha Edwards then you have no taste! Cause it looked gorgeous on her and way better than the first two and it is very important to get what her my mom likes too!
Lizeth Hughbanks that doesn’t mean she has no taste it means she has an opinion , I personally agree with Aneesha and I believe that the bride did too.
ikr, they don't have to please everyone...and after all she us not even her real mother , its her step mom! I can understand how annoying it is to see the brides tryna' please their family
I really don't think that she was as happy as they all think she was in the last dress I feel that she was happiest in the second one and the step mom needs to take a step back and realise that its not her wedding it is for her (step) daughter the dress doesn't have to please everyone really the only one who needs to love the dress is the bride and in this moment her opinion is the only one that matters
Yandere Chan I swear! I could SEE the bride's face fall when her stepmom rejected the second dress and with the third dress it was SO OBVIOUS that the bride was halfheartedly agreeing to make her stepmom happy. I felt so bad, this stepmom needs to back the hell off.
Yandere Chan your very right, you can clearly tell she is settling and I wish her sister said something and the manager (is that right?) Suported her more. She has the face of someone who received a scarf from someone close to them and is trying to not show how much it really isn't their style. She looks full of regret
I agree. The second one was the best out the three. The step mum could just not look at her back if the tattoo bothered her that much. The front of the dress was incredible!
The bride was so clearly in love with the 2nd dress. She could barely bring herself to smile in the 3rd one. "It just fills me up to see her so happy!" *says the stepmom about the 3rd dress*
“It’s not feminine” oh get over yourself and step into the 21st century short hair wasn’t considered feminine. She says she’s old fashioned like it’s just something that’s there and perfectly fine but times have changed and those opinions and views are just plain outdated
Sometimes a budget can be adjusted. Haveing a budget is good but some times going over the budget is better to find the wow factor and no one said anything about bts
maybe not ,but clearly takes u out af very feminine side and place u somewhere in the middle. they do give an air of "HARD" whatever soft was there is gone.Tatoos are intimidating the oposite of feminine and gentle
Wendel Gaming123 tbh the mum seems like shes shopping for herself and not for her (step)daughter, idc what the mom thinks her tattoo is beautiful smudge off being "traditional"
The tattoo isn’t what makes or breaks a woman’s beauty. I hate when conservative women say things like this. Tattoos are something that aren’t for you, that doesn’t mean its something that makes me feel less beautiful, or womanly.
Literally every woman on these shows says “I’m not a typical bride” or “I don’t want the type of wedding dress most girls want” and they all get a dress that looks like everyone else’s wedding dress.
ThlayliOfTheLeaves dude shes totally a crappy person. Crushing her daughter's dreams for personal preference 😟 its really sad. Maybe not crappy person but control freak 😟
Exactly. Tattoo is either out or its not, if it's something you're proud of you don't half cover it. That gives an impression of not appreciating the art.
@@fatima3054 Uses the "I'm a nice person" facade, criticizes with a smile... My ex mother in law was like that. I still carry the wounds of the demeaning things she said in private.
Sophia Legrand Where's the steps mother respect that she isn't the bride and isn't wearing the dress. She made the entire thing about her dislike of the tattoo and that's selfish. Anyone can respect their parents and pick their own dress.
Sophia Legrand respect does not mean bowing down and denying who you are to appease someone. That is sad and disrespectful to yourself. The stepmother should have been more respectful by appreciating that she covers her tattoos around her EVERY OTHER DAY...
How dare that stepmum say that tattoos aren’t “feminin” why should there be a gender assigned to a tattoo!!! How dare she influence the brides wedding dress she chooses!!!
its really not a heartless thing to say. i mean first of the bride could really put some contour and cover it and second tattoos don't really fit well especially if your a bride. It doesn't look right for me personally. She can have tattoos and all but for the wedding its best if she covered it.
@@coolcatz4159 People get tattoos because it’s what they like and it is an expression of themselves. Telling a tattooed person that they have to hide their tattoos is the same as telling them to hide who they truly are, that they are not acceptable as they are. It doesn’t matter if the stepmom or anyone else doesn’t like it. It’s not their wedding and it’s not their day. My grandma used to say if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all. Sometimes we just need to keep our mouth shut.
@@laverndowsley8850 ok.....but you do know, that there are people who hide their tattoos like for example if they are at like a family gathering, they make that decision to cover it. This is her 'WEDDING DAY' its a big day which almost always only happens once in your lifetime. If she has kids one day, how would it be that they had to see all them tattoos. Its not right. I told you people can have tattoos if they wish its no big deal. But for a day like this it wouldn't kill her to make an acception. This is not the first time this has happened. There are a lot of other brides that come in with far more tatts than Hazelle. Like full arms and sometimes neck. Most of the times the family like Hazelle's mom tells them to cover it up. For example, ua-cam.com/video/z5l6YMLw0t4/v-deo.html this is one of many instances. Its ok to conceal it. They can remove it after. No big deal.
@@coolcatz4159 I think we have an agree to disagree situation. There is a huge difference between someone deciding that they want to hide their tattoos and someone telling them that they should and that it’s unattractive if they don’t. I’m getting the impression that you may be someone who finds visible tattoos on a woman unattractive. I cannot think of the words required to help you understand that if someone chose to have their tattoo showing there would be no regret. And the children wouldn’t mind because they have unconditional love and acceptance and they don’t know any different. They would be used to seeing mom’s tattoos. I learned a valuable lesson when I was shopping with my daughter for a graduation dress. I was seeing so many beautiful, feminine dresses that I was excited for her to try on but she wasn’t interested in any of them. I came to realize that just wasn’t her style. She chose a long gray sequined dress that I never would’ve selected. She ended up looking amazing in the dress. And I learned but not every girl is interested in princess froufrou.
@@laverndowsley8850 Do you honestly think that they look pretty decent with tatts on them when wearing a beautiful dress? I mean come on. I get what your saying and yes every one is entitled to their own opinion. But still it just doesn't look all that amazing. Btw not all tattoos on women look bad. For example if they have something written on their wrist its not bad. Women can have tattoos all they want but they should be smart on their wedding day to conceal it. Do you notice that only some women ever show their tattoos than other women on their wedding day. Ive seen so many brides on SYTTD in the Lori store. Aka bridals by lori. Almost all of the women in that show don't show up with tattoos.
* Bride tries on different dresses which show off her tattoo * Step mom: no ... it's horrible * Bride tries on a dress that covers the tattoo * Step mom: yes... it's beautiful
Here's the thing. It's your wedding. Do it where you want, when you want and with whoever you want. Wear what you want, eat what you want and dance to whatever songs you want. Nobody has to do 'tradition' or what's expected by certain people. Have the day you want
It's such a feminine tattoo to me- like it's curly script and literally says Diamonds and Pearls? Super girly! But I've seen people with sleeves and heavy tattooing that still look super feminine. I guess people are still old fashioned about it though.
That contour line KILLED me. Please, blend it out just a bit more! Yes, you want the contour defined, but not to the point that it looks like an actual line is drawn on your face. I can't help but be bothered, I do makeup as a side hobby along with my normal job lol.
Reychelle Joice Farnaso Mingoy wow no tattoos apart of you they are perminant on you and they they hold powerful meanings and memories and if you don't like them you need button up and suck it up.
Tbh I don’t like the last dress as much as the second one. The tattoo in the last one looks out of place and awkward but in the second dress it’s framed beautifully
i don't love tattoos at all but i have to agree with you. the second dress was perfect on her. the third one, the one she chose, was chosen under pressure, i feel. had she dried the second one one with a veil covering the tattoos, i think she would have chosen that one.
I like the last dress the best, but you're right. The 2nd one was best to frame the tattoo. Either way, she looked nice :)
I agree AND the second one was under budget while the last one was slightly over. And I agree with the other commenter about the tattoo being hid by the veil anyway?? The second one was most beautiful and classy and Monroe like
I loved her in the 2nd dress and the tattoo was framed beautifully. They are all lovely dresses but I def thought of Marilyn in dress #2.
Very true. I also agree. The second dress was perfect for that lady
While I think her tattoo isn't the best one ever, she has a right to show it off. It's her wedding, not the step mom's.
Crown Me Queen In my opinion, a wedding can only be really ‘yours’ if you’re paying for it completely by yourself. And even then it’s questionable (other cultures see wedding as joining two *families* together so it’s definitely never all about the bride).
Point is, if the step mum is financially contributing to the dress then she has every right to object to the bride’s choice. You can’t claim independence on someone else’s dime.
Crown Me Queen preach it!
Wedding isn't the time to show off tattoos and piercings. It's a time to have at least a modicum of class. Do you show off tattoos at a funeral too? I hope not. Just because you want to doesn't mean you should.
Crown Me Queen damn right
Damn right
The step mom infuriates me. Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing at all and people forget that
Black Rose I totally agree
I agree
true she aint even the real mom why u acting important wtfu
WTF says "tattoos aren't feminine"...
I know, what’s with old women and being disgusted with tattoos stfu
The veil would’ve covered it anyway 🤷♀️
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Sunshine now I’m the mind blown one 😂
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No u DONT need to pick out something that makes everyone happy! Her dress SHE decides!
Star Light Cookie I agree with u, but that’s the problem with family. 😒😒
Star Light Cookie when I read ur comment ur like *no u DONT... It's her dress SHE decides* that just makes me cringe
Star Light Cookie I agree, but at the same time: exactly, it's her day, so if she wants her stepmum to be happy, then she should act on it. If you want to please somebody else and you are ok with doing compromises to achieve so, then she should go for it.
Star Light Cookie ya
IKR I agree so much
Why should she find a dress that pleases everyone? She's the one wearing the dress so the only person it needs to please is her, it's her body and she can show whatever she wants off
my pointy exactly
Jennie Wright perfectly stated.. this is the only comment needed!
ikr!! the stepmom makes me so frustrated!! it’s not about her.
Jennie Wright yesss i agree with u 💯 %
Jennie Wright I agree.
"It's not feminine"
Her tattoo is LITERALLY bows and swirls it is (generally considered) VERY feminine
Abby Wolffe lets not forgot, the words are literally diamond and pearl! Now that’s feminine 🙄
@@kiwibobiwi not technically feminine I'm male and have a tattoo close to hers rather than the swirls it is a bunch of rainbow Roses
@trix o yup
@@kitchfacepalm so they have nothing to do with with the myriad of biological differences between the sexes?
@@jonb338 tell me where a rose is on the female body. Or a diamond. Do you think our DNA is dyed pink or something?? Lol
She should’ve picked the second one. Honestly I know her stepmoms opinion means a lot to her but it’s HER day, not her stepmoms.
I agree. Also, I felt it looked awkward having the tattoo half covered like that. If she's going to cover it, cover the whole thing. Otherwise show it off. Although my mother has a tattoo about the same size but on her lower back, so maybe that's just how I was raised (my Mum's tattoo is the musical notation of the Ode to Joy melody that twists and turns and is bordered in smoke-it's beautiful).
@@t.matthies3049 yh like when she first saw the dress in the mirror she didn't look like she liked it that much and then felt abliged to pick that dress cause her stepmum liked it
I definitely agree. I think it’s really hard to go against the people you care about, even when it’s supposed to be all about you. She looks stunning in all of them, I just hope she truly is happy in this one and that her stepmom stops complaining about it so she can show it off other times around her.
That’s the thing though, the balance. Because it is her day, part of her desire is that her stepmom like the dress. That is a part of the whole thing for her.
“Tattoos don’t say delicate feminine bride” well maybe she doesn’t want to be delicate? Maybe she wants to be strong and sexy
I hate the idea that a bride HAS to be the epitome of delicacy and purity on their wedding day. That clearly isn't this girl's style, so why should she change that on one of the most important days of her life?
Nothing sexy about tattoos. They are trashy
Animal Lover I think your opinion is what’s trashy.
It’s also annoying because you can sill be feminine and delicate even if you have tattoos. Not saying that what she wants, but the mom complaining she can’t be just because if her tattoos is ridiculous.
@@junelee5975 and your house probably smells like shit, animal lover
She did not look happy in the last dress
I think she shoudd've been there without the stepmom and pick a dress she loves and feels perfect in!
@@julianaoliveiramelo3940 I'd be willing to bet stepmom and dad are helping pay for it.
And when the step mom was like "she looks so happy". The bride was waaay happier in the 2nd dress.
She looked STUNNING in the second dress. I thought the 3rd dress was a bit frumpy and not "Marilyn Monroe" at all. I love her tattoo - it IS feminine! Lots of ladies these days have great tattoos (and way more of them than this lady has too). The mother needs to just get over it and realise whose wedding it is. The only person who needs to love the look is the bride, and she loved the 2nd dress.
"we need to find a dress that pleases everyone" WHY THOUGH?! It's the BRIDES freaking wedding not her step mother's!!
I HATE when they say this!
Also I feel like whenever it's a step parent (unless obviously they're a close kind and have been a parent they never had or they're really close) they always think they're opinion is super important. Or when the biological parent is there they think their opinion is more important than theirs
Because some people will not let it go. Trust me the stepmom will bring it up on her wedding day and after it. She won’t let her live it down.
@@garnet9788 that's why she should shut down the witch. Set a boundary that she makes decisions for herself regarding her life, no one else. Hope she finds her voice as she matures. And hope it's soon.
Sometimes the brides want to please someone they care for, this seems to be the case, and would rather go for a common grown.
The second one was my favorite. I think it flattered her beautifully.
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I love Justin Alexander dresses, so pretty and reasonably priced.
I totally agree with you. Even though I don't like them, she has a right to show off her tattoo. The second dress did just that.
This show taught me something,
I shopped for my gown alone ,paid and reserved it then welcomed my close friends n sister to see it but not have an opinion on what I should wear for my day. Turned out everyone loved it 😊
there difference vetween u and her. She cares for her family otherwise she would have done same as u. shopped for her own gown alone, paid and reserved and then ........!
Even i would never go and buy alone as i have family and friends who really cares for me and loves me and yes it matters for us kinda girls to have them around us and i trust my family and friends and that they would never let me down.
nurse956 My dude, shopping alone doesn't mean you don't care for your loved ones. Take this girl (in the video) for example. Her mother really didn't want her to show an aspect of her that SHE felt comfortable showing. For other people, that kinda stuff can be really pressuring and they could end up with something everyone else likes, but something that they're not comfortable with or don't feel good in.
Shopping alone just means you don't wanna be pressured by other people. When you have a wedding, it's YOUR day and you should feel good on your day. Other's opinions on your dress don't matter if you like it. If they don't like it then so be it. If I am EVER to have a wedding, I would only bring people that I know would support my decisions.
well i agree with u but then it is ur decision that u want only thoes who can only support u whether ur dress is looking good or not. Atleast i wouldnt do that as i want to know why my dress isnt looking nice and what would be great for me. So everyone has thier own choice while talking about these people so ofcourse these brides knows what is best for them and for many girls famiy matters so i wouldnt put my family dissapointed because it is only my dress, my wedding and etc as i want them to be happy because they have been thier for me supporting me, cares for me and they wouldnt support me what isnt best for me as my mom and sisters and my friend (1 friend) is everything for me and i now best that they knows best.
so everyone has gotta choice but my mom, dad and sisters happiness means alot for me as i know they are more happier than me.
nurse956 I 100% understand what you mean and support your decision. Some people like other people's intake on certain things. But remember that your wedding is YOUR day. I'm not saying to completely cancel out other people's opinions, but don't forget to think about yourself and what makes you happy too.
When I say that I wanna bring people that support my decisions (If I ever were to have a big wedding ceremony that is, and check that's even IF I ever get married. I might get married without some big fancy ceremony. I dunno. ^^), I mean that after I *truly* know I want a dress, and it makes me feel good, I don't want other people making me self-conscious about my decision. But if I were to bring people I love along, I would want to consider their opinions because they may end up showing me that a dress I pick out isn't REALLY the dress I want.
nurse956 Girl - the way other people feel for you is NEVER more important than how you feel about yourself. Hopefully one day you'll experience the confidence that comes with knowing that.
If the stepmom isn't paying for it, she'll have to get used to it. She will probably see it again after the wedding.
Okay my opinion I don't care if the Stepmom IS paying for it, part of it, its NOT her DAY!! Its her step daughters WEDDING!!! If you don't like her tattoo, thats YOUR issue... I'd be DAMNED if someone would FORBID me to HIDE my tattoo.. I'm not a big fan of tattoos personally but I would NEVER tell my daughter or my daughter in law to not wear HER DREAM wedding dress because I'm "offended" or because other people will be "offended" by looking at it, All due respect, if it truly bothers you that much, then DON'T attend my wedding.
+Lisa Stephen I agree that the step mom shouldn't have a say. However, IF she is paying for it, she would be well within her right to withdraw her money if the daughter doesn't get a dress that agrees with her morals. But sitting there and treating her stepdaughter so harshly while she is looking for her dream dress is unnecessary.
I guess you didn't notice, but the guy asked the mother what she thought of the dress at 4:33. The lady was just voicing her opinion which is why she went in the first place. Some people care what their family thinks about their dress...others don't. It's great that you don't, but don't be so simple minded to think that everyone is like you.
Yasssss
Hazel clearly does care, but she just cares because she wants her stepmom to love and accept her. So maybe stepmom could do her a solid and TRY.
David looks like a very regal cat, like the really expensive fluffy kind that only eats Fancy feast.
LOL😂😂😂
OH MY GOD 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 That's scary accurate!!!!!!!
This is the most random yet best comment ever
Fancy feast is one of the worst foods though.
Probably eats Merrick instead
Omg now that you pointed it out, i also picture it!😂😂
Saying Bitchy Things With A Smile Doesn't Make It Okay 😉😉
My mom does that to me all the time.
Chuu Zz yep
@@crystalbombery7179 mine too and my dad
Ugh that did my head in, like just be happy for your stepdaughter
Chuu Zz lol
2:17 GIRL BLEND YOUR CONTOUR HELP THIS POOR SOUL
👏👏👏
I came to the comments to look for someone who pointed it out. it’s TERRIBLE
YES PLS
I thought the same. She's so pretty, and that Trixie Mattel contour left me a bit perplexed 😂
She needs also tattoo cover because it's so poorly made xd
"It's so important that she loves the dress too." No it's NOOOOOOOTTTTTTTT. She's NOT the one WEARING ITTTTTTTTT
R A G E
Raine Eaday I don't agree with the stepmum either, but it's not wrong to want your stepmum's approval!
Exactly, she’s not paying, she’s not the bride, doesn’t matter
Kyle Rivers actually she probably is paying for it.
i dont understand your pov. the girl must really love her step mom, because her opinion seems to be very important for her, is even one of the decision making factors in choosing the dress. there is no point if step mom wears it or not, but maybe thinking of covering a tattoo a bit for such a traditional occasion as a wedding is not too bad idea... plus in my personal opinion this very tattoo is rather unattractive :/
Raine Eaday it's all scripted, they're told what to say!
I'm sorry but who's going to wear the wedding dress? The bride? Or the stepmum?! If she wants to show off her tattoo, let her show it off!!
Lena hosteaux - no kidding
Lena hosteaux AND THE TATTOO DONT EVEN SAY ANYTHING BAD, ITS HUST DIAMONDS AND PEARLS
Yes!! 🙏🏽👑
Welcome to the next episode of IT’S NOT YOUR WEDDING
Who cares about that! It's *HER* wedding, *HER* special day, *HER* life! She's the bride, not the stepmother
EXACTLY!
I wanted to strangle her every time she said with innocent apologetic smile on her face 'I'm sorry, I don't like it' who cares about your preconceived notions about tattoos, thooooo?????
OMG YESSSS
Sunshine her stepdaughter cared..
@@ggdd8666 I also unfortunately care about my mums opinion, but not because I think she has something valuable and useful to say but because for 90% of my life she imposed that opinion on me(very much like the woman in the video) She made me live my life the way she wanted no matter how much I opposed. So believe me sometimes you really wish to be able to care less about someone's opinion.
I'm going to be honest here. If I had someone like her stepmom in my entourage I would simply say: "Thank you for your input. I am aware you don't like the tattoo but I want to show them, so please stop pointing them out in every dress I have on." Honestly, if that is the only criticism comming from her no matter what the shape of the dress looks like on me, she isn't helpful at all and could just go home.
Random videos where on earth is that insulting? acknowledging her opinion and at the same time asking her to respect my choice for MY wedding day?
Random videos She went on and on about the tattoo though. That's really unhelpful and didn't need be repeated every time she saw a that dress showed off the tattoo. Asking someone to stop going on in a nice way is fine when it's her dress and her wedding. The step mother forgot she wasn't the bride and her opinion of the tattoo showing was clear already. She cared only about the tattoo not what made the bride happy.
Italianrockgirl u said this perfectly
YES! I would also never take her out with me to shop for my dress or anything else (judging by her strong attitude about what she doesn't like!). The fact that she find them disgusting that the bride had to cover them always around her is not normal. It is not easy for someone to be themselves when someone demand them to be something else. v-v I am not happy with this relationship dynamic and I hate that someone will tell someone frequently how they see tattoos with no regards to the person's feelings. It is not like she just seen them, they were there and they might increased in number, so she knows that the young lady does enjoy her tattoos.
I have a mother that controlling and I cut her out of my life. Such behaviour doesn't stop and people who have it don't usually care for your emotions or what pleases you. I want to tell her to shut her talking hole and try to be considerate! I am ashamed she is behaving so inappropriately.
If she’s financially contributing to the dress she has every right to object in my opinion. If you’re gonna ‘assert your independence’ then at least make sure you’re paying for the dress completely on your own. Other than than that I can definitely see where you’re coming from.
Her sister is so supportive
I'm with David, tattoos are meant to be seen. When you go to a museum the paintings aren't covered with sheets. Tattoos are art and are meant to be shown off.
Edit: God watching this again, the way she smiles and laughs while complaining about the tattoo just rubs me the wrong way. I would be furious with her if I was Hazel.
Not all tatts are great..just like art...some need to be hidden some not.
@@pegasusgalaxy68 But it's up to the person who has the tattoo if they want it to be seen. It belongs to someone and even if you don't like how it looks it might mean a lot to someone.
pegasusgalaxy68 and it's up to the person whose body it/they are on. This tattoo is lovely as well.
100%! If someone has gone through the pain of getting a tattoo they definitely deserve to show it off.
Tattoos are not art. They were for criminals.
Can’t believe she didn’t go for the second one
I agree!!
THE SECOND ONE IS GORGEOUS
ikr
No way. 3rd was gorgeous!
“I don’t like tattoos. They’re not feminine.” *Oh my gosh don’t start with me lady.* 😂😠
I totally agree!
My mum judged a women for having a skull tattoo...
And I said "I don't care if she has a dick tattoo."
Bridget Webber I know it gets me angry 🙄😒
Well, that kind of contour she wears, doesn’t look feminine tho
I just kept thinking- her tattoos are of a bow and the other one says "Diamonds and Pearls". How is that not feminine?! The dress she chose was perfect, though. She looked like Lady Gaga.
I’m so fucking sick of watching all of these toxic family members trying to control these brides on their wedding day. She has tattoos and she is proud of them. It is her, deal with it. It’s not about the stepmom. It’s so sad to watch. She looked so much better in the other dress and she wouldn’t have been compromising herself.
MsSimpleMovies what does that have to do with the dress that they enjoy on themselves? The family isn't wearing it so the bride should feel the best and most comfortable and beautiful in her dress. Nobody else has a say in that. What don't you understand?
censor everything I know right? It’s a tattoo get over it. Old fashioned witch
Well stepmum might be the one actually paying for the dress, so she might have a say in what the bride chooses.
Tbh I love my mother but naw shes not going to come with me to get my dress when I get married.
Because a marriage is a blending of two families. And this girl and step mom have forged a close bond with each other when she was small...and we don't see the girls real mom there do we? So yes, she had opinions but she wanted her daughter happy in the end. They understood each other.
The step mom needs a reminder that this occasion is about the bride.
The second dress was stunning and it gave her joy.
"We need to find a dress that pleases everyone..."
No hunny, you need to find a dress that pleases the BRIDE!
She's the one that's going to wear it. Her Stepmonster needs to lighten up and get over herself.
sakura_rain she didn’t seem truly thrilled about dress #3....dress #2 was so perfect
I agree. The step mom probably didnt have the wedding if her dreams so she is stealing it from her step daughter.
sakura_rain right can't please everyone
Am I'm the only one who got triggered when she said that tattoos are not very feminine, tattoos can be feminine if you want them to be and the step mom needs to back off it's her wedding dress if she wants to show her tattoo let her show her tattoo.
Lucy Mavis and why does she HAVE TO be feminine, that's so stupid.
Lucy Mavis you have no idea how triggered i am rn
I'm gonna get married in what I feel to wear. If my mum or anyone doesn't like it, they can stay home.
And if they do threaten to not show up because of it, then they don't deserve to be there.
You be the only one at the wedding..dont be so selfish...
@@manalwerasuriya3108 your an idiot you may as well stay home and look in the mirror
@@paolumouse you be a lonely bride
Exactly, I don't get why ppl feel as if their opinions are suddenly so significant to the point where they get to control someone's special day.
It's literally just a tattoo.
It's not a big deal lol.
That second dress was perfect 😩
Tbh i don't like how the 3rd one covers it up. Doesn't look right. The second one was a lot better. That damn step mom should've kept her mouth shut.
pandastrophic_ right. The sleeves looked so weird to me on that dress
The veil is covering it up anyways, so if she wanted it covered for the ceremony then it will be, but let her be her during the reception
pandastrophic_ I liked the 2nd one better too
The girl respected and loved her step mom...her real mom wasn't there for some reason. I appreciate their ability to say their opinions and still be able to love each other...
That step mom pisses me off. She looked amazing in the second dress
It really didn't do much for her figure tho
I loved how it fitted her and accented her curves in the right places
It jUsT A BiT tOo mUchh
Her mother should just respect her daughter. It’s not her mother’s wedding it’s hers.
DeathAngel Msp “Step Mother”
OK yes
DeathAngel Msp it's not her mother..they're not even related
Nicola Taylor it’s her step mother.
DeathAngel Msp it's not even her mom lol
that second dress was pure glamour on her loved it
She is stunning in it
Oh no! She let her stepmom get in the way! I loved that 2nd dress and she did, too. I didn’t like the 3rd one at all.
Agreed! The second dress did compliment the style of the tattoo. The step mom obviously decided Well beforehand that she would not be satisfied unless the tattoo appeared non existent, and the third dress with the veil placed on top did just that. The stylist should have taken the mum aside while the bride was changing to artfully remind her the importance of making a bride happy and letting her have what is important to her.
Andrew MacLaine I agree
Aneesha Edwards then you have no taste! Cause it looked gorgeous on her and way better than the first two and it is very important to get what her my mom likes too!
Lizeth Hughbanks that doesn’t mean she has no taste it means she has an opinion , I personally agree with Aneesha and I believe that the bride did too.
Aneesha Edwards yes she looked amazing in it!!
It’s HER wedding for HER and HER FIANCÉ not her step mom! Let her do what she wants 🙄 all these moms thinking the wedding’s to please them
ikr, they don't have to please everyone...and after all she us not even her real mother , its her step mom! I can understand how annoying it is to see the brides tryna' please their family
I really don't think that she was as happy as they all think she was in the last dress I feel that she was happiest in the second one and the step mom needs to take a step back and realise that its not her wedding it is for her (step) daughter the dress doesn't have to please everyone really the only one who needs to love the dress is the bride and in this moment her opinion is the only one that matters
Yandere Chan I swear! I could SEE the bride's face fall when her stepmom rejected the second dress and with the third dress it was SO OBVIOUS that the bride was halfheartedly agreeing to make her stepmom happy. I felt so bad, this stepmom needs to back the hell off.
Yandere Chan your very right, you can clearly tell she is settling and I wish her sister said something and the manager (is that right?) Suported her more. She has the face of someone who received a scarf from someone close to them and is trying to not show how much it really isn't their style. She looks full of regret
I agree. The second one was the best out the three. The step mum could just not look at her back if the tattoo bothered her that much. The front of the dress was incredible!
The bride was so clearly in love with the 2nd dress. She could barely bring herself to smile in the 3rd one.
"It just fills me up to see her so happy!" *says the stepmom about the 3rd dress*
i feel like they are basing the whole wedding dress around her tattoo...
Exactly its something for both her and her fiance
The entire time the stepmom was talking in my head I'm just screaming," I'M SORRY, IS THIS YÖÜR WEDDING?"
møønłightbae LOL no
møønłightbae bruh. How is it her wedding?!
The step mum needs to quiet down. Saying tattoos aren’t feminine, ugh hate women like that.
Also...looking at this woman's tattoos how can you say that's masculine? At all? lol
I would hate PEOPLE like that, not just women
i think that design of a tattoo was actually faminine
i think that design of a tattoo was actually feminine
Claire Co. and I would hate people like u who don’t understand everyone is entitled to there own opinion !!!!
The second dress was perfect for her, it even made the tattoo look more refined and beautiful.
Hm.. choices!
The first was perfect ...
@@alfasugs176 she didn’t like the shape so not really
i love that the sister is supportive about the tattoo
Stepmother: I don't like your tattoo.
Me : that's why it's on me and not you
“It’s not feminine” oh get over yourself and step into the 21st century short hair wasn’t considered feminine. She says she’s old fashioned like it’s just something that’s there and perfectly fine but times have changed and those opinions and views are just plain outdated
Yes it was lol short curly hair
Budget: 1000
First dress : more than 1300
I mean why
At a bridal shop there isn’t many dresses you can buy for 1000 or under.. 1100 is probably about the cheapest.
stop comparing Everything to BTS
Not true actually.
Sometimes a budget can be adjusted. Haveing a budget is good but some times going over the budget is better to find the wow factor and no one said anything about bts
@@thedragonriderqueen4724 noo the person's name is stop comparing everything to bts😅
@@stopcomparingeverythingtob6378 btw her 2nd dress was £828 by Justin Alexander and her 3rd dress is £1086 so 😊
The step mom is triggering me like TATOOS AREN'T JUST FOR MEN
(Thanks for all the likes )
I want moon phase tattoos going down my spine
She's sexist 😂
@Lost Soul she specifically said it's not feminine so I think she specially hates it on women
maybe not ,but clearly takes u out af very feminine side and place u somewhere in the middle. they do give an air of "HARD" whatever soft was there is gone.Tatoos are intimidating the oposite of feminine and gentle
CamoThecat Nik I agree but it seems like she would rather see them on men if you are going to have one but she doesn't like them at all...
why do they always look for a dress to please everyone, they need to find one they love. if it were me, i'd tell them to get stuffed
Alexandra Black Unless they're paying for it.
Alexandra Black because that day is good when evry one is happy about you
Alexandra Black they want no fights
I would do that too!
Ikr
I abhor the type of people who make personal digs and then add 'sorry' at the end as if that makes it okay. Cupid stunts.
Hahaha cupid stunts
YES! If you feel the need to apologize, you probably shouldn't have said it to begin with!
Had no idea that was a valid expression but I'm using it forever now
SM
“Cupid stunts”? Do you mean idiotic Punanis? You’re pretty funny! 😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I don't know why they were worried about the dress showing off the tattoo, the veil covers it anyway. 😂
6:22 I don't think the bride is actually happy with the third one, she looked better in the second
Yeah, I think the only reason she loves it to just to make her stepmum happy.
Yeah I got the feeling she really loved the second dress and only took the third because the step mom liked it
i feel like the stepmom is paying for the dress
Wendel Gaming123 tbh the mum seems like shes shopping for herself and not for her (step)daughter, idc what the mom thinks her tattoo is beautiful smudge off being "traditional"
Wendel Gaming123 the 2nd one made her feel amazing and happy and stuff I could kind of tell she settled for the 3rd one
The tattoo isn’t what makes or breaks a woman’s beauty. I hate when conservative women say things like this. Tattoos are something that aren’t for you, that doesn’t mean its something that makes me feel less beautiful, or womanly.
The second one was the best but her stepmother just ruined it 😡😡
Edit: thanks for all the likes guys
Kayla Bahri right she looked gorgeous
Kayla Bahri agreed
Kayla Bahri agreed...
Also agreed
It flattered her so nicely, the 3rd made her shoulders look bulky, not bad but not as good as the second.
Literally every woman on these shows says “I’m not a typical bride” or “I don’t want the type of wedding dress most girls want” and they all get a dress that looks like everyone else’s wedding dress.
This lady didn't even say that though. She asked for a specific style. That doesn't mean she's trying to be quirky or whatever.
What are you talking about? When did she say that you dolt?
she is so pretty but doesn't blend her countour omg
She literally put it on with a ruler...
I was searching for someone who pointed that out ...
I noticed it too😂
Lol 😂
I wanted to blend it so badly😆like I'll blend it for u
Her sister is very supportive
The last dress is nice but she was stunning in number 2
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That's what I thought. I think she picked the third one to make her stepmother happy.
Her face said it all when she walked in wearing dress #2, it was her dress.
Dress #2 with the veil would have been perfect.
I love how positive and supportive the sister is.
What a crappy stepmum. Not her wedding I wouldn't have brought her. She's crappy and a control freak when its not even her wedding. Like what the heck
ThlayliOfTheLeaves dude shes totally a crappy person. Crushing her daughter's dreams for personal preference 😟 its really sad. Maybe not crappy person but control freak 😟
samantha Bell she did not blend
samantha Bell ikr
misuzu9254 OR the mom would have gotten all upset about not being invited or included in picking out the dress.
misuzu9254 and btw if she really thought so highly of her she wouldn't say step mom. She would call her mom.
Why are they focusing on the stepmom opinion? The one getting married is not the sm...😠😠
The only thing I don't like about tattoo+wedding dress is when the tattoo is half covered up...I think that looks like you forgot the tattoo🤷...
Exactly. Tattoo is either out or its not, if it's something you're proud of you don't half cover it. That gives an impression of not appreciating the art.
The sm was manipulative af I can't believe she let her guilt her into wearing a dress that clearly wasn't for her. The second dress was made for her
'Tattoos arent feminine'
My pretty ass roses say otherwise
_Unicornicorn can I just say that I love you 😂😂😂
Emma Potato i love you too
Plus her one says "diamonds and pearls"??? Like a girl's best friend! Pretty feminine imo
Tucna Fucna are you ok I think you're a bit sick, make sure to visit the hospital to get treated! Maybe you can get meds to stop spewing stupid shit
Tucna Fucna
They aren't the ones fishing for attention
girl that contour needs blending
Pulca Bennington bahaha It looks like she just grabbed the brush and ran it across her face once and hard
Maybe she likes it like that
I was thinking the same, she probably baked under it and didn't blend it really well
Pulca Bennington yes
Pulca Bennington and that tattoo needs covering
Her contour is bothering me. ...
🏂
Same... I've never tried contour, but that just looks wrong...
Woo! I’m not the only one!
Me too!!
Yeh me tooo... it’s not blended.... I paused Nd started reading comments to c if der is anyone talkin bout her contour 😅
She looks absolutely gorgeous
I could see for the second dress she tried to keep back the tears... poor thing
I’m sorry, I can’t stop staring at her contour... blend it, girrrrrrl
a whole mood
hahaha yesss
She's just channelling the Trixie Mattel look pal, look her up XD
her sister is a sweetheart
Madi M
So do i she's so supportive
This step mother is so manipulative and narcissistic
Do you really understand the meaning of what you wrote.....no you do not twatt..
How is she narcissistic?
@@fatima3054 Uses the "I'm a nice person" facade, criticizes with a smile...
My ex mother in law was like that.
I still carry the wounds of the demeaning things she said in private.
Fati Saj
Because she wants her stepdaughter’s wedding to be her vision, not her stepdaughter’s
Agreed! Who wears WHITE LACE to someone else’s wedding dress appointment???
"It just fills me up to see her so happy!"
*Me:* *Um. Excuuuuse me, ma'am.* *Honey ain't really happy.* *That's mostly you getting your selfish way.*
Her stepmom is just one of them People you just want to punch in the face 😂 edit: thank you sooooo much for all the likes!!! ❤️❤️
Maria Costa for real 🙄
Ikr it’s the brides dress not the stepmoms dress
Maria Costa i agreed
But still for her it's important stepmom
likes the dress))))
Maria Costa no not even close.That’s actually not even laugh out loud.
Legit the mum is so triggering 😂
Forget the tattoo, blend out that contour, girl! Damn!!!
My thoughts exactly 😫
I was thinking the same thingg
😂😂
Thank you! That contouring is terrible
Wow I thought I was the only one who was thinking about that....😁
THE DAMN CONTOUR
JeleneVQ ThAt'S wHaT i ToUgHt
JeleneVQ I was looking for this comment
Kyla Jae why?
To see of anyone else noticed how horrendous it is...
La-Kayla Solomon Yeah, you're right. She wasn't going to a party... just being put on television.
why should she have to appease her step mum ?
Harry Kilby maybe because she probably raised her since she was little and has some sort of respect for her
Respect?
Sophia Legrand Where's the steps mother respect that she isn't the bride and isn't wearing the dress. She made the entire thing about her dislike of the tattoo and that's selfish. Anyone can respect their parents and pick their own dress.
Sophia Legrand respect does not mean bowing down and denying who you are to appease someone. That is sad and disrespectful to yourself. The stepmother should have been more respectful by appreciating that she covers her tattoos around her EVERY OTHER DAY...
She’s exactly like my mom.. everything *I* do has to be *her* way
Alex _Santoro_23 same with my dad for many years before I moved out
Sawyer Rose lucky you.. she never wants me to leave
Alex _Santoro_23 ikr
you just leave, I left at 16 because of the same issue with my mother, you'll be much happier, MUCH
Wheelsandolbaby I’m not allowed to leave the house unless it’s for school
after watching 10.5 hours of yes to the dress i have learned one thing - never bring the step mom
Gurl blend that contour 😐😐
CarolineGombert13 I was thinking that the whole timeeee
CarolineGombert13 ikr it's triggering me as well
CarolineGombert13 ikr
i was thinking the same thing the woke time omg, it bothered me so much
CarolineGombert13 I knowww
Why couldn’t they just hide it with a veil? That way she can show off her tattoo and the stepmom would hardly see it cuz of the veil.
lizzardsthename yes, that is a good idea 💡
Right all that over nothing
Or the Stepmum could not be bothered it’s someone else’s body and someone else’s wedding
How dare that stepmum say that tattoos aren’t “feminin” why should there be a gender assigned to a tattoo!!! How dare she influence the brides wedding dress she chooses!!!
Mrs Fluffy *feminine
Mrs Fluffy p
Mrs Fluffy calm the fuck down snowflake. Its the mothers opinion and she shouldnt press it onto her daughter.
Tandra Akther shouldn't* plus you are the one who needs to calm down
Galiana Llaque and here we have snowflake number two responding
"The tattoos to me don't say delicate, feminine bride." I'm damn near speechless. What an unkind, heartless thing to say.
its really not a heartless thing to say. i mean first of the bride could really put some contour and cover it and second tattoos don't really fit well especially if your a bride. It doesn't look right for me personally. She can have tattoos and all but for the wedding its best if she covered it.
@@coolcatz4159 People get tattoos because it’s what they like and it is an expression of themselves. Telling a tattooed person that they have to hide their tattoos is the same as telling them to hide who they truly are, that they are not acceptable as they are. It doesn’t matter if the stepmom or anyone else doesn’t like it. It’s not their wedding and it’s not their day. My grandma used to say if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all. Sometimes we just need to keep our mouth shut.
@@laverndowsley8850 ok.....but you do know, that there are people who hide their tattoos like for example if they are at like a family gathering, they make that decision to cover it. This is her 'WEDDING DAY' its a big day which almost always only happens once in your lifetime. If she has kids one day, how would it be that they had to see all them tattoos. Its not right. I told you people can have tattoos if they wish its no big deal. But for a day like this it wouldn't kill her to make an acception. This is not the first time this has happened. There are a lot of other brides that come in with far more tatts than Hazelle. Like full arms and sometimes neck. Most of the times the family like Hazelle's mom tells them to cover it up. For example,
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this is one of many instances. Its ok to conceal it. They can remove it after. No big deal.
@@coolcatz4159 I think we have an agree to disagree situation. There is a huge difference between someone deciding that they want to hide their tattoos and someone telling them that they should and that it’s unattractive if they don’t. I’m getting the impression that you may be someone who finds visible tattoos on a woman unattractive. I cannot think of the words required to help you understand that if someone chose to have their tattoo showing there would be no regret. And the children wouldn’t mind because they have unconditional love and acceptance and they don’t know any different. They would be used to seeing mom’s tattoos. I learned a valuable lesson when I was shopping with my daughter for a graduation dress. I was seeing so many beautiful, feminine dresses that I was excited for her to try on but she wasn’t interested in any of them. I came to realize that just wasn’t her style. She chose a long gray sequined dress that I never would’ve selected. She ended up looking amazing in the dress. And I learned but not every girl is interested in princess froufrou.
@@laverndowsley8850 Do you honestly think that they look pretty decent with tatts on them when wearing a beautiful dress? I mean come on. I get what your saying and yes every one is entitled to their own opinion. But still it just doesn't look all that amazing. Btw not all tattoos on women look bad. For example if they have something written on their wrist its not bad. Women can have tattoos all they want but they should be smart on their wedding day to conceal it. Do you notice that only some women ever show their tattoos than other women on their wedding day. Ive seen so many brides on SYTTD in the Lori store. Aka bridals by lori. Almost all of the women in that show don't show up with tattoos.
Does it cringe anyone else that the tattoo is not center!?
I am now. It just makes me slightly uncomfortable
Yeah. It's certainly not a tattoo that I would want, but it's not mine so it doesn't matter. As long as she loves it.
I'm guessing that's how she wanted it to be?
*centre sorry I had to!
@@katieyoung2046 it would be either in the centre* or centred* anyway
The step mother should mind her own business, parents are not always right, and if she likes it and it has a special meaning to it.
* Bride tries on different dresses which show off her tattoo *
Step mom: no ... it's horrible
* Bride tries on a dress that covers the tattoo *
Step mom: yes... it's beautiful
Well the minute she puts on a vail the tats covered
I have a feeling it wasn't the dresses that she thought were ugly 🧐
As soon as the stepmom said and I would prefer I would’ve said “oohh it’s your day?!”
She looks great on the third one. But I don't think she's as happy as she would
Don't say "old fashioned" when you mean narrow minded.
parkerszymon 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
SAY IT AGAIN PLEASE
Say it again for the people in the back
yes yes yessssssssssss
No, she means old fashioned!
Let her show her tattoo, it’s her tattoo and her wedding dress, she got that tattoo for a reason
My least favourite part is the mom trying to laugh it off, like “It’s a bit too much tattoo! Hahaha”
Here's the thing. It's your wedding. Do it where you want, when you want and with whoever you want. Wear what you want, eat what you want and dance to whatever songs you want. Nobody has to do 'tradition' or what's expected by certain people. Have the day you want
...and pay for it all yourself
They are not feminine ,bish it ain't your body
ikr, I would like to punch her in the face
Ikr dumbass I didn't know u were the one getting married😑
Yeah, like WTF, the is no rules on how a feminine body looks
I want to slap her. Feminism doesnt matter about how you look. It matters about being an amazing person.
lol im like bish look at urself u dont even look feminine
“Tattoos aren’t fenemine” 🤨 F off with that
Fenemine
Yeah, the correct statement should have been, I don't find tattoos feminine.
Yeah, tattoos make women look like lesbians.
It's such a feminine tattoo to me- like it's curly script and literally says Diamonds and Pearls? Super girly! But I've seen people with sleeves and heavy tattooing that still look super feminine. I guess people are still old fashioned about it though.
Tt Hh Well, thats your opinion. 🤷🏼♀️
You can see the stepmom's love for her is genuine and beautiful
That contour line KILLED me. Please, blend it out just a bit more! Yes, you want the contour defined, but not to the point that it looks like an actual line is drawn on your face. I can't help but be bothered, I do makeup as a side hobby along with my normal job lol.
Morgan Marie my thoughts exactly
Maybe she's a bit weird and likes the Bowie-esque look
It was irritating me all the way through the video.
OMFG
IKR
4:14 im surprised that the dress is so cheap
Wtf it's her wedding and the step- mom should just back off.
Step mom was buying it so she wanted her step mom to like it as well... Which is also her choice.
and if you're getting married you need to look decently
Reychelle Joice Farnaso Mingoy wow no tattoos apart of you they are perminant on you and they they hold powerful meanings and memories and if you don't like them you need button up and suck it up.
I feel like she was forced to like that dress