I would really like to add a cautionary note about feelings in all of this. I agree with this video....except for 1 thing. If you find yourself focussing on excitement, be careful of the too much too soon scenario. Excitement can also be false. I was a big feeler when I was younger and I would have benefitted from learning how to a balance my time dating and detach a bit. Someone should be intriguing - but - I feel it should still build slowly or organically, so if you feel too many butterflies too quickly, it could be a sign that you are too hungry to be loved and starting to imagine rather than evaluating accurately. Exactly the type that scammers love. Scammers may not ordinarily meet if they just want fast money, but some do if they want you to get involved in a romantic whirlwind too quickly. They have to show up for that. I am not advocating worrying about scammers or focussing too much on them. I am advocating focussing on yourself and whether you feel balanced with someone. Feel free to disagree...
I would really like to add a cautionary note about feelings in all of this. I agree with this video....except for 1 thing. If you find yourself focussing on excitement, be careful of the too much too soon scenario. Excitement can also be false. I was a big feeler when I was younger and I would have benefitted from learning how to a balance my time dating and detach a bit. Someone should be intriguing - but - I feel it should still build slowly or organically, so if you feel too many butterflies too quickly, it could be a sign that you are too hungry to be loved and starting to imagine rather than evaluating accurately. Exactly the type that scammers love. Scammers may not ordinarily meet if they just want fast money, but some do if they want you to get involved in a romantic whirlwind too quickly. They have to show up for that. I am not advocating worrying about scammers or focussing too much on them. I am advocating focussing on yourself and whether you feel balanced with someone. Feel free to disagree...
This is perfect advice and I totally agree. Thank you for sharing.